If you don't want to get arrested for stealing stuff, don't steal stuff. It's not that hard. I hope the OP of the first story can find himself a better partner.
yeah getting mad at OP for getting her mother arrested FOR THEFT is a major red flag, one OP needs to dump her for, not even give her ultimatum to change it, just get her out of his life
Wait, so the wife isn't even denying what her mother did, just that OP has no right to have her arrested? Get out of there, and make sure that's used as evidence in the divorce proceedings.
I don't think she should have been arrested YET. But he should have used the evidence of the recording to give her an ultimatum. SHe WILL be arrested unless she went to the pawn shop under Police escort and got the keys back, with the Police involved I'm certain she'd have to make an arrangeent with the pawn shop to buy back the keys after she got the money back, either from a loan, returning her new phone, whatever it takes. But wow I'm shocked at how the wife poorly handled this all, she's not a good person.
Story 1: NTA. The MIL committed B&E and grand theft. I’m still using a five year old iPhone, and yet I’m not stealing to buy a new one. OP doesn’t need to “Let it go!”, the wife wouldn’t be saying that if her things had been stolen. I’m glad OP called the police, got his antique keys back, and is getting a divorce.
If I'm honest, I think she would be. Because there is a chance that her mother did this a lot to her to the point she is used to it and thinks it's normal. But either way, not a good partner to have. Hope op successfully gets away
Asian wife. She wants a traditional marriage, give it to her. No phone. You stay home and do house work, food from scratch. No going out unaccompanied, you walk 3 paces behind your husband, speak only when spoken too, etc. I don't know about her but I'm very happy in my non traditional marriage where my hubs is my equal not my owner
Update to the first story, op served his wife divorce papers at her job, Yeah now everyone in her office gonna find out why they are getting a divorce. He warned his landlord of his future ex and MIL behavior then MIL’s arrest, he not gonna renew her lease and gonna change the locks. Before you all ask what if his wife tries to empty the joint account of cash, he already got the password change and took his share and using it for his divorce lawyer I’m not sure what the laws on divorce are since depends on place to place. Let’s hope op can leave with without his ex trying to gouge his wallet.
Karma? Karma?! They disrespected husband and stole from the op. The wife should have been arrested too, i consider her complicent and a theif too. She needs a taste of that Karma she's talking about.
story 1 first time at least i think where its the wife siding with their mother and not the husband anyways good on op for leaving the wife you cant side with your mother when she does something stupid like this
Story 1: OP should have called the Police, and after showing the footage gone with them to the mother and told her straight "I have footage of you stealing my antique keys, here's an offer. Go back to the pawn shop and get the keys back, however you need to. Take out a loan, return your new phone, I don't care. You have 2 days to get them back or I will have you arrested." You'd be giving her a chance to fix her mistake and if she does she wouldn't have to get arrested at being middle aged.
Story #1 - OP if your wife for whatever comes crawling on her hands and knees demanding u take her back say no. Because here's the thing it's one thing to get support from your adaugther and her husband, but it's another to be pampering like the wife is pampering her mother. The fact that she is 53 and threw a fit because u refused to give her a new smartphone because her current one was 2 years old makes me ask 2. One how old is the OP's and two how long has she been pampering her mother. Based on what was described, I would guess easily over 1 year. Also, based on what was described, it seems like your wife expected u to pamper her mother when u 2 got married. So if she's gonna act like that towards marriages that might happen in the future(not to sound mean), but she won't have them long term until something changes.
Holy shit if my mother had done that to my man I WOULD HAVE HER ARRESTED and go no contact. Shit if anyone did that to someone else I love I’d make them pay and sort that out so fucking fast it’s ridiculous.
Very sad, another Story where money leads over love and all. I think it was the right way but boy that costs alot of tears and fears. Sorry for that man and i hope he can get on well
Technically speaking, wouldn't the wife giving her mother a key to the house and pushing for you to not call the police make her an accomplice to the theft?
Am i the jerk For not allowing my grandma in my life? My grandma has a bad backround whit my dad which means we dom't speak a lot. She lives a few houres away from me but my other grandma lives in a other country, she always visites us birthdays,christmas ect. But my dads side saw as lastly when i was 8 for like 2 houres and then went back. Me and my siblings really miss her and from what i know she has a house where she lives by herself. Both of my grandmas send gifts even tho i appreciate them both i still think that one comes from the heart and other not Am i the jerk?
op shouldn't listen to his wife and he will get his mother in law arrested for trespassing and stealing, oh and he should divorce his wife and leave her.
Last story, she was wrong. It sounds like Kim was trying to include her. Maybe she did it in not the best way but she was trying. The op is an entitled pos
Homeboy vastly over estimates how much a pawn shop will pay for a very niche hobby. But that's not really the point of the story. Edit... hold up. So his wife took out a large sum to cover both bail and the pawn debt. But there was still enough in the shared account for him to withdraw the full amount he contributed? So.... the wife paid the bail with her own money?
If you don't want to get arrested for stealing stuff, don't steal stuff. It's not that hard. I hope the OP of the first story can find himself a better partner.
I will bet dollars to dog biscuits that the wife has had her mother steal from her her entire life and she's just used to it as the norm
YEP
yeah getting mad at OP for getting her mother arrested FOR THEFT is a major red flag, one OP needs to dump her for, not even give her ultimatum to change it, just get her out of his life
yeah, getting mad at OP for calling the cops on MIL FOR THEFT is a major red flag he needs to dump her for without hesitation
I would of divorced that H**
Wait, so the wife isn't even denying what her mother did, just that OP has no right to have her arrested?
Get out of there, and make sure that's used as evidence in the divorce proceedings.
I don't think she should have been arrested YET. But he should have used the evidence of the recording to give her an ultimatum. SHe WILL be arrested unless she went to the pawn shop under Police escort and got the keys back, with the Police involved I'm certain she'd have to make an arrangeent with the pawn shop to buy back the keys after she got the money back, either from a loan, returning her new phone, whatever it takes. But wow I'm shocked at how the wife poorly handled this all, she's not a good person.
@@TheZamaronthat’s smart😂
1st story, he deserves someone better
Story 1: NTA. The MIL committed B&E and grand theft. I’m still using a five year old iPhone, and yet I’m not stealing to buy a new one. OP doesn’t need to “Let it go!”, the wife wouldn’t be saying that if her things had been stolen. I’m glad OP called the police, got his antique keys back, and is getting a divorce.
I'll use whatever phone I have until I lose it or it stops working, as long as I can read, call, and text it doesn't matter how old it is.
If I'm honest, I think she would be. Because there is a chance that her mother did this a lot to her to the point she is used to it and thinks it's normal. But either way, not a good partner to have. Hope op successfully gets away
Last story: A welcoming stepmom? What? Who is the new addition to the family? Kim has it backwards, and I'm with OP in this.
Asian wife.
She wants a traditional marriage, give it to her.
No phone. You stay home and do house work, food from scratch. No going out unaccompanied, you walk 3 paces behind your husband, speak only when spoken too, etc.
I don't know about her but I'm very happy in my non traditional marriage where my hubs is my equal not my owner
Well said there.
The first story head on down to divorce court with judge star. Cause this is tea for the judge 👩⚖️
Update to the first story, op served his wife divorce papers at her job, Yeah now everyone in her office gonna find out why they are getting a divorce. He warned his landlord of his future ex and MIL behavior then MIL’s arrest, he not gonna renew her lease and gonna change the locks. Before you all ask what if his wife tries to empty the joint account of cash, he already got the password change and took his share and using it for his divorce lawyer I’m not sure what the laws on divorce are since depends on place to place. Let’s hope op can leave with without his ex trying to gouge his wallet.
Karma? Karma?! They disrespected husband and stole from the op. The wife should have been arrested too, i consider her complicent and a theif too. She needs a taste of that Karma she's talking about.
Bro is casually telling a story while playing a game and tearing people in half as a shark and killing multiple people.. 💀
yea idk what the game is called. looks interesting
@@kingsiredwardjrthe5th350looks like maneater
@@kingsiredwardjrthe5th350its called man eater and its on game pass
@@kingsiredwardjrthe5th350 Super late buuuuuut, the game is called Maneater
Story 1: OP divorce your wife. She'll always take MIL's side
story 1 first time at least i think where its the wife siding with their mother and not the husband anyways good on op for leaving the wife you cant side with your mother when she does something stupid like this
Story 2: the wife accusing the husband of something she would do....
In the first story, i know how much collections can mean to people.
Story 1: OP should have called the Police, and after showing the footage gone with them to the mother and told her straight "I have footage of you stealing my antique keys, here's an offer. Go back to the pawn shop and get the keys back, however you need to. Take out a loan, return your new phone, I don't care. You have 2 days to get them back or I will have you arrested." You'd be giving her a chance to fix her mistake and if she does she wouldn't have to get arrested at being middle aged.
A person is supposed to be their spouse's primary concern. Your wife is her mother's daughter.
MIL holds garage sales every few months yet she is also a hoarder? Cmon.
So if divorce is 'frowned upon', is adultery celebrated??
Story #1 - OP if your wife for whatever comes crawling on her hands and knees demanding u take her back say no. Because here's the thing it's one thing to get support from your adaugther and her husband, but it's another to be pampering like the wife is pampering her mother. The fact that she is 53 and threw a fit because u refused to give her a new smartphone because her current one was 2 years old makes me ask 2. One how old is the OP's and two how long has she been pampering her mother. Based on what was described, I would guess easily over 1 year. Also, based on what was described, it seems like your wife expected u to pamper her mother when u 2 got married. So if she's gonna act like that towards marriages that might happen in the future(not to sound mean), but she won't have them long term until something changes.
1st story: Divorce her and let her move in and enable her mom by herself. You deserve better than all this crap.
*Story 1:* Talk about crazy mother-in-law.
Have the key collection professionally appraised. If the value of the collection exceeds $4000, that's grand theft and a felony.
Holy shit if my mother had done that to my man I WOULD HAVE HER ARRESTED and go no contact. Shit if anyone did that to someone else I love I’d make them pay and sort that out so fucking fast it’s ridiculous.
1st story dump that entitled B her mum stole from him
“Getting divorced would be frowned upon by my family” OH NO, NOT FROWNING!
Story 1 - Wait so her mom had her when she was 13?
I dont blame him for having his mother in law arrested.
yup the wife being on her moms side is nuts like what did she think op would do lol
@@gotenblack2542 both her and her momma are unhinged
yup
Very sad, another Story where money leads over love and all. I think it was the right way but boy that costs alot of tears and fears. Sorry for that man and i hope he can get on well
Thank you!!! I read the key stories Other redit readers never finish.
His video is good time pass in stressful day
Technically speaking, wouldn't the wife giving her mother a key to the house and pushing for you to not call the police make her an accomplice to the theft?
W background Game. (Maneater)
On the first story, op you did the right thing. Your wife and mil are so entitled, I would get away from both of them.
Story 2: expectation of being a housewife? Welcome to the 21st century
Glad OP in the first story got his key collection back. He needs to divorce his wife.
Story one I agree with op get your mother in law arrested divorce, your wife. Story 2 I would let the families know how his wife cheated.
The fact that the mother in law sold the whole collection for 3 hundred dollars and it actually cost 2 to 3 grand shows how stupid she is
First story: Not cool crazy mother in law, not cool!
Before I let the story about the cheating wife, first op I would get a pertinity test done, the baby might not be yours, I would get away from her.
Love the stories but was disappointed not seeing the shark take out beach party at end....
My phone is 4years old lol
These videos never fail 😊😊❤❤
Am i the jerk For not allowing my grandma in my life?
My grandma has a bad backround whit my dad which means we dom't speak a lot. She lives a few houres away from me but my other grandma lives in a other country, she always visites us birthdays,christmas ect. But my dads side saw as lastly when i was 8 for like 2 houres and then went back. Me and my siblings really miss her and from what i know she has a house where she lives by herself. Both of my grandmas send gifts even tho i appreciate them both i still think that one comes from the heart and other not
Am i the jerk?
not the jerk, my grandmother is better than yours.
You can your mother in law sell things to buy new phone
Story 1. the mother in law stole from op and got arrested actions have consequences
I hope the first dude is ok
My dad and step mom got married a couple years ago and I didn’t like her and I didn’t wanna go but I was forced but she’s nice now
op shouldn't listen to his wife and he will get his mother in law arrested for trespassing and stealing, oh and he should divorce his wife and leave her.
so that he can move on.
I would have lost it
If you hate Am I the Jerk you’re probably going to hate Am I the Genius
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Last story, she was wrong. It sounds like Kim was trying to include her. Maybe she did it in not the best way but she was trying. The op is an entitled pos
If you love am I the jokes you’re probably gonna love am I the genius That line is in almost every single video it just gets so annoying to listen to😅
I have the same phone I bought in 2019 and that was the first phone I got after my nokia flip phone which I had for almost 10 years.
Well I still use my Samsung that I got in 2020 and it works okay. It's glitching out and I can't play games like I used to but it works
Homeboy vastly over estimates how much a pawn shop will pay for a very niche hobby.
But that's not really the point of the story.
Edit... hold up. So his wife took out a large sum to cover both bail and the pawn debt. But there was still enough in the shared account for him to withdraw the full amount he contributed? So.... the wife paid the bail with her own money?
Yes after he cleaned his out of the account otherwise she would still have all of the money she put in alas using his half money
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can someone show the first story's socials
On the last story, op you are NOT the jerk in this, your dad and kim are the BUTTHOLES in this story 100%.
Story 1 has another video with the next part but I forgot witch one can someone tell me please
So does EVERY story start with "Cause i seriously, dont know what to do...." That shit is annoying AF. Youve gotta be adding that.
Oh hey I have that game on my switch
Bruh. My phone is 3 yrs old and I will refuse to get a new phone
Stopping people from saying first.
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What game is in the background video ?
First few comments club!
What game is that
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Did he use ai? Cuz it will pronounce things weird
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