Exactly, women are usually drawn toward the emotional security that comes with being in a relationship. Moving too fast can take away the sense of security she's expecting and scare her away
Women want men for money and sex and validation. There's rarely an actual relationship. Her relationships are with her friends and her female family members.
You're not wrong. Treat her like a queen and she'll treat you like a peasant. What's that saying? Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan. Treat her like a partner, equal, or even treat her like she has to work for you; that is how you keep her attraction.
With my first girlfriend I was both clingy and intense. Naturally she ended it all, and then I promised myself never to fall so much in love again, since it was not meaningful. I understand her, I was probably a bore.
Or just simply work on *Yourself* before you start going into a ~ *Relationship* You can't expect the best from your partner if they can't handle you at the worst.
"Women lose interest in you because you are too" boils down to a list of dos and don'ts that should be followed for success or in other words a list of expected/demanded behaviour of men by women when in a relationship. I look forward to the video exploring the expected/demanded behaviour of women in a relationship. Ultimately, although it may take different forms but, hypergamy is why she will lose interest.
I show no Interest at all, so I can enjoy my life with my own house, 2 Dogs, 3 Motorbikes my X Box Series X. At 70 yrs old I can't be Bothered so Women will have to find a Man who is Daft Enough to want her in the First Place !!!
@@wayofthekodiak3118 I never met a Woman who could really say anything interesting at all !!! They talk about their previous Boyfriends and their Friends all the Time.
@@jendabekCZWhat a Stupid Comment !!! I watch videos on the Ukraine War, but I have no intention of fighting in it myself. Watching relationship videos answers questions about the Insane behaviour of some of my girlfriends I had many years ago !!! You have obviously never had a Girlfriend !!!
Hi Anna! That first tip hit right at home. I did too much thinking with my heart and rushed things, something my then-GF just let happen and ignored her multiple chances to slow me down. Naturally, by the time we started having problems we were already engaged. If there is a “next time”, I’ll be absolutely sure to do the opposite.
One step forward and two steps back nobody gets to far like that , one step forward and 2 steps back this kind of dance can never last , my hope my fear my destiny my faith 😂
Just happened to me, been friendzoned becouse one night two girls tried to get with me and i chose the wrong one. Now the one that wanted to sleep with me has lost interest so i got neither from both. Great.
You should know if it feels right you shouldn’t have to try to hard it should just happen naturally, just don’t mess it up when this opportunity comes along.
These are the reasons why : 1) Too quick to commit 2) Predictable 3) Clingy and needy 4) Too intense 5) Passive no initiative in relationship 6) Being negative 7) Unreliable
Relationships are too much work and confusing. It’s either you’re too nice or not nice enough. It’s either you show too much interest or not enough interest. I’m seriously dizzy at this point.
With a woman’s rocky road of emotions, if you pay too much attention to them, you are wasting your time. If she likes. you and wants to follow you, great. Otherwise she can just hit the road. She either knows how to make a commitment and wants to, or you are wasting your time and setting yourself up for heartbreak. Who has time for that? I don’t.
If I could go back in time there was this one girl who was a friend & we connected so well. I wanted to be more than just friends, I’ll never forget the night I came down to visit her & spent the night. She came downstairs & laid beside me & I held her all night. No kissing, no sex & when I woke up beside her it was like that magical Christmas feeling. I left later that morning & gave her a hug & that was it… Should have never let her go… 😞
Thing is if I need to jump through psychological hoops to get any woman then that woman isn't worth it. Guys should work on themselves for themselves and let women decide if they just want to be moody or not.
I've been watching your TH-cam channel for about last 3 to 4 days, and I'm trying to learn now. I've been around a young lady and we've been dealing with each joined for about 3 and a 1/2 years. And that's been a 3, and if you're sometimes I think I um don't give her enough breather. No, when I first initially met her. She asked me what did I do. What's my hobbies? I'm baby quiet about my hobby. Because a lot of people will frown upon it. So when I told her I am actually figure collector and I do, and I and I do collect a Hot Wheels and an adult themselves. She just can't not get past that. Now there's reason why so I do not want to get into because it's too personal but I'm trying to. I'm trying to be more of a guy that she is looking for but if I'm not, I know I'm always gonna wish. I'd never been good luck and in happiness forever it is.
The passive thing and lack of effort are good points under the assumption that he has enough interest level in her to want to make the effort. If he doesn't care about what becomes of the relationship then it is a moot point. He shouldn't be making any effort if he doesn't care for her.
'Predictable' or 'unreliable' WTF????? Am I the only one who sees this as illogical ??? Anna forgot that it also depends on the wind direction, the angle of the sun, her current mood, and the color of the belt the neighbor happens to be wearing that day. In other words, women are 100% emotion, and the emotions of a woman change constantly.
Just like all the relationship advice women give, this also makes no sense. If a woman does not feel that man is not much better than her, even the wrong colored sock on your foot can ruin the connection for her. Doing an experiment on Tinder I can confirm that if a woman looks up at you, you even can call her by the names of her genitals and she takes it as a compliment.
Women are too unpredictable with their moods and their emotions. Expecting them to run their own lives is expecting a lot. I can see why they were happier and men were happier when the man worked and the woman stayed home where she didn't have to make too many decisions for herself.
If she not texting u asking u how ur feeling at least once per week she seeing other men or even women. She wasnt looking for a serious relationship to begin with most girls just want a caual friend with benefits these days
Do much but not too much, being unpredictable, but not too much. It seems easier to be a politician than to please a woman 😂 - ah and you have nice british accent
It would be just better if the woman herself tires even 10% of what men have to do. It would be far better. & if she contributes 50% then she is a keeper. Otherwise. Find someone else.
Sounds good and plausible, us guys being too predictable...she probably wants to get into 50 shades of red with you. Lol. In the infinite relationship scenarios anything is possible, she is also FREE to bounce for Whatever reason, No F's given by the guy! The important thing is for us to be IN TOUCH WITH OUR AUTHENTIC TRUTH, our wants, needs and Desires. Always be yourself, NO MASK, ABSOLUTELY NO LIES. You also Do not Want to spend your entire life and time trying to Fix and Heal anyone's traumas (out of their desires as well). No sure if i went on a tangent Again... Lol.
If it's new like say a couple of months then ring or txt her maybe twice a week, anymore and she will definitely lose interest. DON'T make her the centre of your world, have outside interests to take up your time in-between seeing her and work on your self. Take a long hard critical look at yourself things like hygiene clothes etc improve on bits you already like about yourself. Invest in a new hairstyle and maybe some new clothes and shoes. In short look in the mirror and like what you see. Also maybe invest in a new scent, something with jasmine or lavender women love it
These are the reason why : 1) Too quick to commit 2) Predictable 3) Clingy and needy 4) Too intense 5) Passive no initiative in relationship 6) Being negative 7) Unreliable
So have you ever had to deal with managing emotional intensity in a relationship? What advice would you give others? Let me know below 😊
My advice is to never allow yourself to fall so much in love that you become clingy or intense.
So many dynamics and demands. No wonder why breakups and divorce are out of control.
My point exactly! What the hell is really going on here? What is the underlying theme to all this?
@@peanutbuttercup2800What's going on is that the majority of people don't understand fundamentals of a relationship.
Even women understand they are impossible to please.
Bottom line is they lose interest when you show too much interest. There's a fine line you have to walk.
Exactly, women are usually drawn toward the emotional security that comes with being in a relationship. Moving too fast can take away the sense of security she's expecting and scare her away
Women want men for money and sex and validation. There's rarely an actual relationship. Her relationships are with her friends and her female family members.
If you want a woman to loose interest in you , treat her like a queen 😊
You're not wrong. Treat her like a queen and she'll treat you like a peasant. What's that saying? Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan. Treat her like a partner, equal, or even treat her like she has to work for you; that is how you keep her attraction.
@@leexiong2128 word
Eh.. About that. Its a good way to Enter into a relationship but once your in it.
That's another story,
Don't get it twisted.
...and she'll treat you like a Shit of the Dog
@@Real-Name..MaqavoyJust exactly!🤝🏼
When the woman is in a hurry to commitment and I want to take is slow, the woman always leaves. That is my experience.
So bottom is no matter what you do she wants excitement and something new all the time like a honeymoon
With my first girlfriend I was both clingy and intense. Naturally she ended it all, and then I promised myself never to fall so much in love again, since it was not meaningful. I understand her, I was probably a bore.
Have positive energy and get rid of negative energy
Or just simply work on *Yourself* before you start going into a ~ *Relationship*
You can't expect the best from your partner if they can't handle you at the worst.
"Women lose interest in you because you are too" boils down to a list of dos and don'ts that should be followed for success or in other words a list of expected/demanded behaviour of men by women when in a relationship. I look forward to the video exploring the expected/demanded behaviour of women in a relationship.
Ultimately, although it may take different forms but, hypergamy is why she will lose interest.
Remember gentleman, Anna is sharing just one relationship style. There are others as well.
I show no Interest at all, so I can enjoy my life with my own house, 2 Dogs, 3 Motorbikes my X Box Series X. At 70 yrs old I can't be Bothered so Women will have to find a Man who is Daft Enough to want her in the First Place !!!
Enjoy good sir! Sounds like the perfect set up. Women are way less interesting than they make themselves out to be.
@@wayofthekodiak3118 I never met a Woman who could really say anything interesting at all !!! They talk about their previous Boyfriends and their Friends all the Time.
That's why you watch relationship videos :)
@@jendabekCZWhat a Stupid Comment !!! I watch videos on the Ukraine War, but I have no intention of fighting in it myself. Watching relationship videos answers questions about the Insane behaviour of some of my girlfriends I had many years ago !!! You have obviously never had a Girlfriend !!!
Hi Anna! That first tip hit right at home. I did too much thinking with my heart and rushed things, something my then-GF just let happen and ignored her multiple chances to slow me down. Naturally, by the time we started having problems we were already engaged. If there is a “next time”, I’ll be absolutely sure to do the opposite.
I got it, she walks away when you are too,,,,,
Making her very predictable
Good because she isn't a problem to be solved ❤
I like how you color matched your computer screens to your lighting :) Nice touch!
Chicks lose interest with dudes that put the chick first and are too invested in them, like she's the Almighty
One step forward and two steps back nobody gets to far like that , one step forward and 2 steps back this kind of dance can never last , my hope my fear my destiny my faith 😂
Just happened to me, been friendzoned becouse one night two girls tried to get with me and i chose the wrong one. Now the one that wanted to sleep with me has lost interest so i got neither from both. Great.
You should know if it feels right you shouldn’t have to try to hard it should just happen naturally, just don’t mess it up when this opportunity comes along.
one step forward, 2 steps back, 2 steps forward, 5 steps back, 5 steps back again.
I feel you Mike..
These are the reasons why :
1) Too quick to commit
2) Predictable
3) Clingy and needy
4) Too intense
5) Passive no initiative in relationship
6) Being negative
7) Unreliable
Thank you for this. So glad I didn't have to sit through the video. This could have easily been a 3-5 minute video.
Being Negative is actually Good for Women since it gives them a reason to stay with you and fix you 😂
@@Sports590😂
Relationships are too much work and confusing. It’s either you’re too nice or not nice enough. It’s either you show too much interest or not enough interest. I’m seriously dizzy at this point.
With a woman’s rocky road of emotions, if you pay too much attention to them, you are wasting your time. If she likes. you and wants to follow you, great. Otherwise she can just hit the road. She either knows how to make a commitment and wants to, or you are wasting your time and setting yourself up for heartbreak. Who has time for that? I don’t.
If I could go back in time there was this one girl who was a friend & we connected so well. I wanted to be more than just friends, I’ll never forget the night I came down to visit her & spent the night. She came downstairs & laid beside me & I held her all night.
No kissing, no sex & when I woke up beside her it was like that magical Christmas feeling. I left later that morning & gave her a hug & that was it… Should have never let her go… 😞
What´s next if a woman loses interest in you ? Well reciprocate her and move on.
Thing is if I need to jump through psychological hoops to get any woman then that woman isn't worth it.
Guys should work on themselves for themselves and let women decide if they just want to be moody or not.
I can’t be arsed with games anymore- I’ll wait until I find a grown up
Soooo, If I don't make the first move, women don't think I'm being masculine.
But when I do make the first move, I'm moving to fast.
Thank you for asking Dear Anna. Later will say something about it
I've been watching your TH-cam channel for about last 3 to 4 days, and I'm trying to learn now. I've been around a young lady and we've been dealing with each joined for about 3 and a 1/2 years. And that's been a 3, and if you're sometimes I think I um don't give her enough breather. No, when I first initially met her. She asked me what did I do. What's my hobbies? I'm baby quiet about my hobby. Because a lot of people will frown upon it. So when I told her I am actually figure collector and I do, and I and I do collect a Hot Wheels and an adult themselves. She just can't not get past that. Now there's reason why so I do not want to get into because it's too personal but I'm trying to. I'm trying to be more of a guy that she is looking for but if I'm not, I know I'm always gonna wish. I'd never been good luck and in happiness forever it is.
The passive thing and lack of effort are good points under the assumption that he has enough interest level in her to want to make the effort. If he doesn't care about what becomes of the relationship then it is a moot point. He shouldn't be making any effort if he doesn't care for her.
Fade into my own place of mind alone and safe 😅
Women chase me when I don't need them 😂
She Lost inestest man just walk away find another woman
You will never know what to do a woman changes with the wind
'Predictable' or 'unreliable' WTF????? Am I the only one who sees this as illogical ??? Anna forgot that it also depends on the wind direction, the angle of the sun, her current mood, and the color of the belt the neighbor happens to be wearing that day. In other words, women are 100% emotion, and the emotions of a woman change constantly.
😊😊 very helpful video
If she loses interest ,It can only mean that someone is feeding her
I often leave a very good comment or compliment and don't get a reply back
9 out 10 times I lose interest first¡! Trauma damage boring ,Ah kool
Cute ear rings. .👌
Just like all the relationship advice women give, this also makes no sense. If a woman does not feel that man is not much better than her, even the wrong colored sock on your foot can ruin the connection for her. Doing an experiment on Tinder I can confirm that if a woman looks up at you, you even can call her by the names of her genitals and she takes it as a compliment.
Because you’re real
No matter what a man says or does, women enjoy playing with men's feelings. Men who no longer want to play this game should go their own way!
I'm too intense for this video. ❤
focus on build a garden. they come and still, dont stop building a garden
Women are too unpredictable with their moods and their emotions. Expecting them to run their own lives is expecting a lot. I can see why they were happier and men were happier when the man worked and the woman stayed home where she didn't have to make too many decisions for herself.
When they get another 99 matches on tinder
Inevitable someone will be YOUNGER TALLER HOTTER RICHER
None of this JUNK will help
Don't act like you are interested.....simple. Got it. XD
If she not texting u asking u how ur feeling at least once per week she seeing other men or even women. She wasnt looking for a serious relationship to begin with most girls just want a caual friend with benefits these days
Do much but not too much, being unpredictable, but not too much. It seems easier to be a politician than to please a woman 😂 - ah and you have nice british accent
It would be just better if the woman herself tires even 10% of what men have to do. It would be far better. & if she contributes 50% then she is a keeper. Otherwise. Find someone else.
Women lose interest in me because I don't finish the titles of my TH-cam videos.
Can we just please acknowledge the fact that more and more men dont really give a toss about women ?
guys have side chicks, and girls have friend zones lol
Sex is like a bank account. As soon as you make a withdrawal you lose interest!!!
🙏Thanks🙏 Anna
so if you like a woman and show that to her makes em run away? so we better just stop loving a woman and treat them like a thing i guess 🤷♂
❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sounds good and plausible, us guys being too predictable...she probably wants to get into 50 shades of red with you. Lol.
In the infinite relationship scenarios anything is possible, she is also FREE to bounce for Whatever reason, No F's given by the guy!
The important thing is for us to be IN TOUCH WITH OUR AUTHENTIC TRUTH, our wants, needs and Desires.
Always be yourself, NO MASK, ABSOLUTELY NO LIES.
You also Do not Want to spend your entire life and time trying to Fix and Heal anyone's traumas (out of their desires as well).
No sure if i went on a tangent Again... Lol.
Thank you Anna and I am not into hunting right now! Your videos are always beautiful
And very instructive!❤
Can not chang3 to b3 able to be with sb maybe that is why I am single
If you have ADHD, you are probably going to come across as "too intense".
Love Anna's voice and the way she speaks .. Not listening though :)
Guys, how often a guy should contact a girl that he is seeing ?
If it's new like say a couple of months then ring or txt her maybe twice a week, anymore and she will definitely lose interest. DON'T make her the centre of your world, have outside interests to take up your time in-between seeing her and work on your self. Take a long hard critical look at yourself things like hygiene clothes etc improve on bits you already like about yourself. Invest in a new hairstyle and maybe some new clothes and shoes. In short look in the mirror and like what you see. Also maybe invest in a new scent, something with jasmine or lavender women love it
lmao! Women don't know what they want. Stay single, Stay sane.
I was left to die on the street, chances, if there actually was such a thing, are I'll never talk again. Accept it, I have!
These are the reason why :
1) Too quick to commit
2) Predictable
3) Clingy and needy
4) Too intense
5) Passive no initiative in relationship
6) Being negative
7) Unreliable
You missed the most important reason. They have someone else.