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Sudha Murthy, a chairperson at Infosys and wife of Narayan Murthy is one of the most well-known Writers, Teacher, Social Worker, and a Great Philanthropist. She was hired as the first female engineer for India’s largest auto manufacturer, TATA.
One of the most humble and well-read minds of her generation, Sudha Murthy has shown compassion to everyone around her, someone who truly believes in giving back to society.
With SIX books under her name, every story feels like she's trying to teach the essence of life, and what better way to teach these lessons full of wisdom than to the future of India.
In today's episode, Sudha ma’am talks about how she came from humble beginnings & saw Infosys rise with her husband and lessons she learned throughout her life.
Diving deeper into personal stories about Romance, Movies, Art, discipline, mindset & marriage.
Hope you take away some important lessons from this heartwarming and insightful conversation between Sudha Murthy & Ranveer Allahbadia.
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00:00- Introduction.
01:57- Meaning of life according to her
04:56 - Mr. Narayan Murty's meaning of life
07:05 - Her love for movies
08:52 - The relation between movies & karma
09:20 - Character building movies of her life
12:02 - Why romance is just one part of your life
14:45- Life with Infosys
17:00- What went right for her
20:18- Contribution of marriage in her life
21:41- The vision of Infosys
22:28- Tough learnings at the start of Infosys
24:12- Motivating her husband in bad times
26:36- Where this generation is going wrong
30:21- Mentality switch she applied in her life
33:10- Her upcoming book
34:17- Why parents should purchase it for their children
37:52- Positives of this generation
38:55 - Her take on the future of India
39:53- Twitter Trivia
44:12- Three advice for her younger self
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00:00- Introduction.
01:57- Meaning of life according to her
04:56 - Mr. Narayan Murty's meaning of life
07:05 - Her love for movies
08:52 - The relation between movies & karma
09:20 - Character building movies of her life
12:02 - Why romance is just one part of your life
14:45- Life with Infosys
17:00- What went right for her
20:18- Contribution of marriage in her life
21:41- The vision of Infosys
22:28- Tough learnings at the start of Infosys
24:12- Motivating her husband in bad times
26:36- Where this generation is going wrong
30:21- Mentality switch she applied in her life
33:10- Her upcoming book
34:17- Why parents should purchase it for their children
37:52- Positives of this generation
38:55 - Her take on the future of India
39:53- Twitter Trivia
44:12- Three advice for her younger self
Can u do podcast with Azim premji??
Ranveer Bhai pls write a book I really want to read it. .. I've never read any self development book but I really want to read a book of life based on your perception ❤️
Pure positivity. Sudha ma'am is an inspiration to everyone.
Ratan Tata should be the next
Just one word wow ..❤️
Ranveer if you can then please bring Honourable Mr. Ratan Tata I know it isnt realistic but a humble request from us
Yes
Bring him
Yeaaa bhai i agree
Yes yes yes please ranveer bhai
Yes
"I may loose the battle, but I'll win the war".. That strikes
Time stamp for this?
@@shubham1445 31:58
Hey it's said by L too in death note no?
❤️
@@surajbamankar3603 I read one of her book she said that line in that it was very motivating
Learnings from this podcast
1. Life goes beyond romance
2. Life is what you make it
3. Less expectations make more happier
4. Love to learn, be a passionate learner
5. Be patient and passionate
*Regret less life makes u happier*
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❤❤❤right
"forgiveness is better but move on is best" and "be ethical and be honest " amazing line
thanku ranveer for thus prodcast
♥
“Life is hard! Hard doesn't mean bad!” wonderful! This hit me the most!!
Very well sad hard not always means bad.infact it teaches many things in life luxury life spoil you no learning...
Thats why Infosys makes the life of it employees too hard. It also explains why using new income tax portal made by infosys is too hard to run properly.
@@muditjoshi5571 I somewhat agree with you. Here in US, Infosys has a bad name. One of my friend was FTE of Infosys and I saw how she used to work 12 hrs a day and was paid peanuts. Infosys and wipro are the 2 worst companies IMHO.
@@monikakaul6045 no life is life for anyone. Money is problem but it's not only the only problem.
Every word is worth to follow 🙏❤️
"Old people dont have old ideas they have matured ideas " such a meaningful line .Sudha Murthy - Perfect example of what one should aim in life.
@Sumeet P then you can go for some foreign author's book....
@Sumeet P if she makes errors that means it's not her mother tongue. As simple as that. I don't judge a person based on their language, especially if he/she an Indian.
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I'm from Karnataka. I'm proud of Sudha Murti. Being one of the richest person she is very simple and great writer.
Can we all take a moment to appreciate Ranveer to brining such amazing inspiring people to the show! ✨🙌👏
Sudha Murthy is my favourite author of all time.
Who all remembered NCERT chapter "How I taught my grandma to read" 🙂
Yes❤️
yes😍
Yes
Yes
Yeah
She donated 45 lakh rupees to the school where I completed my primary education in 2005 - 2007 because her grandfather was once a student in our school. It's Karantaka, Bijapur , PDJ school.
Wow so nice ur lucky
She I mean her company has donated computers to our school too
@@vibzz2475 it's her company only! She is wife of Narayan Murthy.
@@Foodie363 No it's actually their company, the company belongs to both of them
@@vibzz2475 Agree. Belongs to both of them. Currently we are talking only about her so I said like that.
8:55 Karma and all I do not know - She is so genuine and direct. I love it.
Pure Kannadati proud of her. Aura of Kannada can be felt .
She is a Marathi married to Kanadiga
I was so inspired by her books that I too started doing social work.
Till now I have planted 20 trees 🤗🤗
I am in class 11th
U r doing a good job, keep planting trees, what's the count now
keep it up👍
God bless you
God bless you & your family
What is your jee main percentile?
Forgive is ok
Forget is better
Move on is the best😊
That one dialogue
A great woman with great views
Forgive is ok , forget is better & Move on is the best ...Dont stuck on one place.What an inspirational message.
She totally radiates Grandma's vibes who loves you alot, teaches you about life and is the cutest person in your life.
So many quotes from the legendary sudha ma’am in one interview
Forgive is good , Forget is better , move on is best ❤
Notice Mrs murthy drinking water from simple steel glass. 14:50 Such a pleasant and down to earth personality
Damn!!!! I thought billionaire directly take hydrogen and oxygen 🥲🥲🥲🥲🤌🏻
@@tawkeerahmadkhan8221 even upper middle class families dont use steel utensils .including mine
Yes
When I was in Infosys, I have seen them many times on campus. There was no sense of entitlement, they stood in the line like rest of employees in food court. They may just walk past you, and you will not even realise. Especially Sudha Murphy madam has done a lot for society. People have no idea. Every time any disasters happen in India, she literally does the physical work and gets the reliefs delivered.
@@sachinv9886 rubbish
Courage is more important than money. Well said mam.
She wears a silver mangal sutra. How grounded she is . ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ So much to learn from her
“Life is an exam where the syllabus is unknown and question papers are not set. Nor are there model answer papers.”
― Sudha Murthy
Absolutely correct
Anyone from Bangalore 🔥🔥
Sudha Mam is an Inspiration to many
Hu guru❤️
From bengalore
Biig fan from BengaLuru!!
From Bengaluru
I from kalaburigri
best moment of this podcast is when she address you as "Beta". i really admire her. she is the best and humble women i have ever seen
Sudha Murti ji is my heroine ...my guide to life...she showed how simplicity can be a way of life.
Love you sudhaji
I love you Ranveer ....your generation needs an example like you. That is youth is not abusing your body and mind with substances but can be happy with positivity and spirituality .
Love you bachche😘
“Life is hard. Hard is not bad” - just what I needed to hear today
That last advice that she gave is EVERYTHING.
Never underestimate what your parents have to say.
I will talk to sudha murthy mam
She can afford the most expensive headphones but she chose to use a wired one. That is why India is great.
savings for their children, grand and great grand children
Such a humble woman, so real in this unrealistic world.She has everything in life but so grounded.I m learning so much after watching this interview 🙏😊
Could we buy a copy of that book
Plz I would like to have one fr my grand children mostly in English.
The Best Line from the Podcast -
"I had very few Expectations in my life, and that is the reason I was very Happy !"
❤
She's in the same league as Mr. Ratan Tata and Dr. Kalam. People without haters! No matter what age, background, region you come from, you can't help but get sucked in by her motivation and her view on the society overall. Grade A stuff!
I also feel the same. I get the same vibes like that of kalam sir.
No. She is nobody without infoceans like me and many.
@@mohaklondhe3020 what do you have to do with her being motivational lol you don’t have any influence on her mindset 🤷🏻♂️ one can run a company of thousand and still not motivate others. These two are not mutually exclusive.
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I agree with you Pratik. Felt the same vibes.
Major learnings from this amazing Podcast-
1: Life never stays same. So just keep working hard for a better future but also enjoy where you are currently
2: Stop romantacizing and be practical.
3: Always stay grounded.
4: Keep learning.
5: Reading will make you the person you want to be.
Life is absorbing every experience every moment every year..
Added up at the end was your life lived
It is a great delight to hear Ms Sudha speak, thank God there are people like her who have profound wisdom, humor and wit..and so much to learn from her
And Ranveer i admire you for your humility, thought-provoking questions, your warmth and camarderie
I sometimes just think "why is a movie not made on this legendary woman? "
It is india where people makes movies on dawood Ibrahim and sanjay dutt but not on people like this ..
I am inspired to write a book on her
gangubai pe busy h sabbb...
a movie is being made on her by Ashwini Iyer Tiwari (director of Bareilly ki Barfi & Panga)
I think that portraying a person of such a caliber and persona into a 2hr movie would be next to impossible task. I would love to read a book on her life instead than a movie.
I missed my dadi ji a lot while watching this podcast, I could not stop smiling watching her.
❤️
@@BeerBiceps @32:00 if you hear properly, maam said " What If I Lost The Battle, I will WIN The War" ...shouldn't the title be changed from LIVED to WIN....
Am i the only one who heard this?🤔🤔
Oh it's not only with me then...my smile curve wasn't getting straight at all..
Hats off to her. This murthy family is having a great financial literacy although they are having one of the best MNC and are blessed with everything but still they are very down to earth and Narayan Murthy still travelling in economy class.
“You may loose the battle but win the war” what a mindset she has.
Really appreciate the wisdom she has given in these 45 mins. Thanks Ranveer for bringing her to your show 🙏🏼
Sudha Murthy!!!! My role model! Excited for this podcast.
Edit: WooW!! Nine likes in 5 minutes!!
Mine too.
Same here
Yeah, she is a great author
Hi
@@paperkraft5779 hello bro iam making funny video please watch
People like Sudha Murthy Mam should at least live for 200 years. Mother of India
YOUR ABSOLUTELY CORRECT......SHE IS A GIFT FROM GOD,,,
Vow .........fabulously said!
Mam your holy mother
Yesmamaiamabsalutely
Very true
I just love her words, the way she thinks, writes, speaks and she has a lot of knowledge to share with us . I have read her two books till now and I must say that we need more people like her! I always try to incorporate whatever she writes or says. Amazing woman with tons of stories that has influential impact.
Excellent interview. Sudha Murthy needs to be the next Chief Minister of Karnataka. Only a fearless and selfless leader like her can uproot all the corruption in the government and help improve the infrastructure of Bengaluru which is currently the nation’s shame.
'Defining life is like blind people defining an elephant. Everyone has their own ways of defining life according to their life experiences.' Sooo profound. That will stay with me forever. ❤️
Its a Jain philosophy argument called Syad-vada....It's called six blind poets and the elephant 🐘.... I
t applies to everything in general.... When 6 blind men are asked to describe an elephant, they touch different parts and come with 6 totally different description (rope, pillar, wall, snake etc)....
The elephant is the metaphor for the whole reality, and the individual descriptions are our versions of reality!
Yeah i guess it's called anekantavad in Jainism - anek means many.
"Ethics takes you to the path of success not money..." - Sudha murty
What a thought !!!
What a perspective !!!
More I get to know about her, more I admire her...
She is so disciplined, contented.. I guess this is what we need in our generation....and sir ur questions are on point
Graceful Lady ,true to human Spirit,,,living Legend🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
'Everybody has a family tree, I have a family forest' hahahaha her sense of humor is awesome.
Perfect example of how simplicity can be so beautiful!
Exactly
She remembers so many movies seen decades ago with all details!! I can't recall last year's movie but am not a movie buff too 👌👍..but she is a brilliant lady very inspiring...love her books 📚
Favorite line - "Learning new things everyday keeps me young"
Being from Karnataka, watching her life snippet in Weekend with Ramesh, I don't have any word that could praise her enough. 🙏 Thank you for everything.
Me too from Karnataka, feel proud n awe of her, what a great personality but still so simple
Busted out laughing when she caught him like a teacher by saying where is romance in Raazi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, me too😂🤣👌
Finally someone said this, such a waste of questions asked , he could built good bunch of questions, what's talking about movies and all?
@@sanjeevastagi3630 True man...
The guest Mr.s Sudha mam was such a great person but the questions Ranveer asked were not interesting.
C,mon guys. She enjoyed the session. Don't be so critical. He tried his best & did very well indeed.
Ya exactly he was speaking with her (he probably expected her to be ) like with any other millennial but she is not that way she has gone over all those ups and downs and now is in the equilibrium space so we should have a different way to speak with her
My god! I am listening to this literally 1 year after releasing...Its completely packed with full of positivity..Just loved this podcast❤❤❤
She’s an amazing combination of versatility, wisdom and simplicity.
She has the voice and words capable of pulling anyone back on track.
"If you do your work without thinking too much of a philosophy, your life itself becomes philosophical"
That was Woww!
🥺💙
totally agree with that..I am still thinking about those lines long after watching the video....
@@SudheerTavta same here. It's like life lesson for life
Addicted to watching madam Sudha Murty's videos....from Nepal ❤️🙏
What an amazing person her simplicity and the fact she does things without an agenda is an example to all of us !!
She is an idol for me! A woman who has vision, patience, willpower, and with all a grace that she maintains ! So much respect for you ma'am! ❤️
Motivational, inspirational
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Made me remember of my grandma ...... thnx man 🥰 she's such a modern woman. Wearing modern dresses and makeup doesn't makes you modern, your thoughts, will to fight the wrong and continuous learning makes you modern... love to hear your podcasts... 😊
👌👌
Here after padma awards announcements
Congratulations to sudha murty ji for padma bhushan
“Accept Failure,Forgive is ok ,Forget is better n Move on is the Best 👌”very nice said Sudha Ma’am.So many things to learn from you 🥰
“If u do your work without thinking much philosophy your life itself becomes philosophical” she is the best example for that huge respect maam 🌹
"It is not the money that makes you happy, it is the courage that is more important in life."
Ranveer, the expression on your face itself was an adjective. While speaking with sudha mam your behaviour was reflecting the halo of an angel with whom you were speaking.Thats the power of Indian value system.
Wow wonderful Beta Ranveer . I am following Madam Sudha for few months now she is a God gift to India. I feel like her as I learnt life from my humble Doctor Grandfather Dr. H.C.WAHLANG n home maker grandmom MRS SILINCY KHARSYNTIEW, FROM CHERRAPUNJEE n my parents too. So thankyou Madam n Ranveer. Now I live in Ziro , Arunachal my husbands hometown and opened a School for Differently Abled children since 2006.
Please bring Rahul Dravid on your podcast. He is another gem that India has produced.
I've almost read all her books. She's a legend. She's beyond feminism and gender empowerment; she's actually trying to make it inclusive and India a better place for everyone without any prejudice.
Just like Buffett's wife was involved more in charity.
Just loved it thank you Ranveer for having Sudha mam on your show, thank you Sudha mam for the wonderful reaching through your life journey
Sudha Murthy madam is so lovable. So happy you interviewed her. Love her books and philosophy.
If there is one person whom I wanna meet and fall on the feet to get blessings it’s Sudha Mam for her Love,Affection,Simple writings,boldness and her intelligence shared for humanity.
I have a great regards to Suda Murtha There is no words I find in the dictionary to match her qualities namely simplest kind ness courage vast knoledge about anything and every thing. Once when I went to Banglore I saw her I Jaya naga temple talking people I want to talk to her But my fear doesnot permiy. I am 85 year old. I have red meny books of her I always hear her talk in LA top My humble regards to her. Let GOD give good health to carry her noble task Please pardon me if any mistake in my typing My son is vice president in infosis USA
Same here
Yes, do meet her in person. Your high wall of regards and love will.come crashing down soon. She is not that warm and loving in person.
Honestly I feel this generation of ours, feels depressed not being depressed at all!!!!!
i am watching this podcast after one and half years when it was published i wish i would have watched this early,
but to be honest these 47:16 minutes has lots of answers of life for the youngsters.
thankyou so much Sudha maam for this
and Ranveer thanks to you for brought her and have sensible conversation.
it feels like my grandma is talking to me....such a lovable person she is....May god bless her with good health
She's not only an author she's the co founder of Infosys Ltd !!
2nd largest IT company !!
Netflix should make a tv show “A fabulous life of Sudha Murthy” instead of making tv show of brainless wives of bollywood 3rd class actors
Absolutely, point-blank-period. People however, aren’t gravitated to that kind of content. I don’t blame them, I have such a tendency too. But we definitely have become a lot more useless after the incoming of social media and we need to control it.
🤣 🤣 Absolutely
Exactly
Absolutely right
I agree
Love this dear lady, I am in the UK, and love listening to your podcast Ranveer. I feel like I am listening to my mother, her words are very thought provoking and so much love and truth ❤️
Ranveer lemme be direct with you…This is hands down THE BEST PODCAST I have ever listened to..What a powerful woman and such a powerful aura ⚡️ Please Keep doing this and keep shining..More and more power to you ❤️
SIR, WE EXPECTED THIS. THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST PODCAST I HAVE EVER LISTENED.
Happy this made you happy bro
Thnku Ranveer ❤
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Mrs Sudha Murthy is such a minimalist❤, I mean just look at her room
Hats off to her spirit of service and courage. A wise, confident, self-sufficient and compassionate person.
My favorite line from the interview:"I will lose the battle but I will win the war".
Attitude is indeed the altitude.
Sudha murty is perfect inspirational women in this world 🙏🙏
A contented life is a good life❤️
~ Sudha Murthy
The best line....
Yeah why would such millionaires wont be contented?
@@KomalD-cb2bu true
Don't speak when no one is listening.
Sudha's mam
In last I think she should not even replay to the interview, Since he itself was not listening..
Really enjoyed listening to Sudha Murthy...a gem of a person!
It is one of the most insightful talks I have ever heard in my life....Every line mam spoken has something really great to take from and inculcate in life. I wish I can be even 1/4 of her one day. Proud to be born in a nation where people like her exist.Jai hind
Gonna tell my kids if you ever need granny's advice just plug in to this podcast!! ❤️❤️
her net worth is 1300 crores and her simplicity is priceless
Really ??
@@srinivasbelsare4830 bro she is the co founder of Infosys
@@rkr8959 ohh that's really nice to see her in very simple way 😊
True this simplicity is so difficult
@@dranaesthesia0305 yeah
Ranveer, thanks for this nice little interview of Mrs.Sudha Murthy ji 👌. Her simplicity, attitude and perception towards life as well as the pearls of wisdom which she shared had me teary eyed many a time. Very heart warming indeed!!
such a lovely reminder on the joy of living simply and being grateful and happy with what you have, so helpful esp in current troubled times!
Her simplicity and innocence just make her so unique ❤️
Want more female entrepreneurs on TRS♥
Excited for this one🤗
Thank you Ranveer
Just love her... Never seen a person so down to earth like her 💕
Everyone has to go through tough situation to cross the milestones of their life and a person who reaches such milestone becomes our hero.. And Sudha Murthy is our hero 😀
I participated in presentation competition on woman entrepreneurs on the eve of International women's day. I gave my presentation considering respectable Sudha Murthy ma'am, as she has established herself as a strong woman entrepreneurs in addition to philanthropy. I came first 🥇 in that in my college.That event is still very close to my heart. She is so inspiring.🙏
All I could recollect is standard IX CBSE curriculum of English; "How I taught my Grandmother to read"
Respect from every aspect! ❤️
I think I am watching this podcast fr 2nd time (didn't completed this 1st time i think) n what a amazing personality sudha Murthy ji is....a lot of life lessons on relationship, life, parenting to tk away frm this...feel like watching this again....such a humble person she is...thnx ranveer fr inviting her n sharing her wisdom...thnk u
Sudha Murthy Ma'am is wonderful. I just love her thoughts and when she speaks , she is able to connect in just a simple manner.Thank you for interviewing her. I am extremely grateful. ❤️
I have a habit of reading all the books of the certain author before jumping to the other one.
And, last few days ago I was reading her two book books called “here, there and everywhere and three thousand stitches.” The story of her father helping a pregnant girl to have a baby brought me into tears. Right now I am reading “how i taught my grandmother to read.”
Guys! I am a teacher here in Thailand. On and off I tell and share the stories from Sudha Murphy’s books to my Thai students. Yesterday I told the story of a “Ram & Gopal.”
Ranvir. Thank you so much for bringing her into conversation. You’re so lucky to talk to her.
I wish I could meet and tell her how much I love books and stories.
thanks for the idea
Ranveer bro thank you so much for making this podcast with Sudha Murthy Mam. I proud to say that I am Kannadiga... Love from Karnataka
Same here even I'm from Karnataka
the way she says 'Murti' ...😅its so cute, lovely, funny and at the same time represents gender equality so nicely