Excellent I loved it 😊❤ I too am a daughter-in-law and I remember my mother-in-law telling me, "ok let the room be just like as it is... it's ok to have it messy...you need not make it perfect everyday, take care of your children which is the main priority".... and many other such instances ❤😎💗
Ohhhhhh.....how lucky you are. My MIL used to tell that every thing should be neat and clean. And I was not able to spend much time with my child due to house chores.
Love it. Letting go is liberating!!! I learned this from my mother, who was a perfectionist to a fault. But, as a professional woman with enormous pressure at work, she had to early on find a balance between work and her family responsibilities. This clip also echoes exactly what we are taught in the Management classses: "Perfection is the enemy of good enough." That doesn't mean settling for mediocrity, but cautions one against excessive compulsion to every time achieve perfection, which can cause things to quickly go in a downward spiral. The same is true in personal life. Indian men seem to have attained a far more balanced outlook, but not so much Indian women. We set up arbitrary high standards for ourselves or often buckle down under the unrealistic expectations of the family. As more and more women are entering the workforce, their burdens are considerably greater and different than those endured by their mothers and grandmothers. So, set yourself free!!! If you don't do it for yourself no one will.
What you said is absolutely true. I have enormous pressure to keep everyone happy in my family especially the inlaws side but inspite of all this I am always been scrutinized and one day after an argument I was told that you are 99 percent correct always still we will focus on the one percent wrong. That day I said to myself that the only one who is perfect is God and I am like any other human being . I decided that day it's high time I take a stand for myself and like said in the video that just don't care and first love and respect yourself then only you will get the same from others. I feel as though I was in chains and now free after so many years. So yes changing your attitude and taking a stand is essential for your own upkeep.
@rajyashreetripathi7472 completely agree with you. Thanks to you for posting this comment. Not sure why but it was much needed for me for someone to say - it’s ok, you need not to be perfect in every aspect. Glad that your comment did that today. Cheers!
@smile-dm9kp Hearty Congrats! Good for you. We and only we are responsible for our happiness and peace of mind. The sooner we accept that and take charge, the sooner we can breathe freely.
@nagapavani9582 You are not alone in feeling thebpressure of unreasonable demands from our family , especially, the in-laws. But remember, you and only you are responsible for your happiness and peace of mind. The sooner you accept this fact and take charge of your life, the sooner you can breathe freely. Stop being perfect... just do the most you can. Case closed!
It was something very difficult for my mom to get....but now when she says things like this... I feel true right, why should everything be perfect, I am not saying imperfection is good but perfection isn't needed na. 😊.
Beautiful message. Striving for perfection is actually causing unnecessary stress. Appreciate your efforts. One small suggestion, you could have avoided the abusive word to make it even more joyous and family friendly content.
Good massage for this orthodox community and may be especially for India (anywhere or some specific places) Those who don't know the emotions or feelings of their wives. Because suddenly after getting married they start believing to follow their M.O.T.H.E.R to make his wife's life harder for those who don't care about him in their childhood or any important decisions. It is good to teach women from their stress but here some orthodox husbands believe only the needs of his family members.
yeah yeah very good message to not improve so that feminists can lower the bar of the world and then can equate to the men. Why not strive harder to reach men position rather than lowering the bar? Ah!?
But see, you did not learn from your life and its people either. It is very easy to blame others. The buck starts with self and ends with Self. Be the change that you want to see in others. Like yourself first. Respect yourself first....so that no one steps all over you....❤
What happened to you, Dice Media? After Crushed and Ghar Waapsi, there seems to be almost no big series! What about Clutch 2, Operation MBBS 3 and Adulting 3? 😮
Well very true.... Bhool Rahi hu khud ko... Perfect banane mein... Kya yahi hai zindagi .. We all are human not god... Let's enjoy our imperfections....
I must say best timing of uploading this clip.. Exam sar par hai, syllabus khatam huva nahi.. I am in full stress.. And now feeling relax a bit... I am like 'u can't complete entire syllabus.. Let it go' 😅😅
I watched this before marriage and saw so many dreams. Now watching it again, and feel so stupid. No such mother in law exist. No such video should ever be upladed, it only breaks heart and courage.
Perfection is the enemy of good enough - a good reminder for each one of us. If you don't have one hour to workout, that's ok... workout for only ten minutes. Something is better than nothing!
V Nice Concept of this short Story !👌👌 So True…. We can’t have it all’ in life ! And have to learn to not to take Life so seriously, and become a ‘Control Freak’ wanting everything to be ‘Perfect’ And driving everyone around us Crazy. We don’t realise in that Moment’ of getting Annoyed at someone, for Trivial Reason , that we are Driving our Loved ones, and Friends, far from us ! No one wants to be around a Whinger ‘ right ? Life is Short ‘ Kal Ho na Ho … Let’s live it spreading and sharing Love’ and Kindness ‘to each other. 😊
Same things are happening with me bt if things are not done perfect I have to listen to taunts too...the things I do are not that stressed, the taunts, rude behaviour that include lie adds ghee to my irritated level to hype even more..
I wish everyone has this type of mother in law
Don't always say mother in law... Wish there exist more such daughter in law... Who the first thing after marriage think of separation from parents
my mother in law goals are like her, she empthasizes the stress that puts you under when you try to be everyone's level of perfect.
@@demifreesoul3958Then start with not separating her from her parents !
Excellent I loved it 😊❤ I too am a daughter-in-law and I remember my mother-in-law telling me, "ok let the room be just like as it is... it's ok to have it messy...you need not make it perfect everyday, take care of your children which is the main priority"....
and many other such instances ❤😎💗
Excellent ! So did you go on date together.
I get stressed around my mom , mother-in-law never judged me .
Same happens with my wife as well
Ohhhhhh.....how lucky you are. My MIL used to tell that every thing should be neat and clean. And I was not able to spend much time with my child due to house chores.
Love it. Letting go is liberating!!!
I learned this from my mother, who was a perfectionist to a fault. But, as a professional woman with enormous pressure at work, she had to early on find a balance between work and her family responsibilities.
This clip also echoes exactly what we are taught in the Management classses: "Perfection is the enemy of good enough."
That doesn't mean settling for mediocrity, but cautions one against excessive compulsion to every time achieve perfection, which can cause things to quickly go in a downward spiral.
The same is true in personal life. Indian men seem to have attained a far more balanced outlook, but not so much Indian women. We set up arbitrary high standards for ourselves or often buckle down under the unrealistic expectations of the family. As more and more women are entering the workforce, their burdens are considerably greater and different than those endured by their mothers and grandmothers.
So, set yourself free!!! If you don't do it for yourself no one will.
What you said is absolutely true. I have enormous pressure to keep everyone happy in my family especially the inlaws side but inspite of all this I am always been scrutinized and one day after an argument I was told that you are 99 percent correct always still we will focus on the one percent wrong. That day I said to myself that the only one who is perfect is God and I am like any other human being . I decided that day it's high time I take a stand for myself and like said in the video that just don't care and first love and respect yourself then only you will get the same from others. I feel as though I was in chains and now free after so many years. So yes changing your attitude and taking a stand is essential for your own upkeep.
Very nice mgs
@rajyashreetripathi7472 completely agree with you. Thanks to you for posting this comment. Not sure why but it was much needed for me for someone to say - it’s ok, you need not to be perfect in every aspect. Glad that your comment did that today. Cheers!
@smile-dm9kp
Hearty Congrats! Good for you. We and only we are responsible for our happiness and peace of mind. The sooner we accept that and take charge, the sooner we can breathe freely.
@nagapavani9582
You are not alone in feeling thebpressure of unreasonable demands from our family , especially, the in-laws. But remember, you and only you are responsible for your happiness and peace of mind. The sooner you accept this fact and take charge of your life, the sooner you can breathe freely.
Stop being perfect... just do the most you can. Case closed!
if all saas and bahu are like this, every house will be heaven
Agreed 👍🏻
Ture
💯 agree
True
Exactly
Great research, log yaha 2 minut ki baat kehne k lye 30 minut ki video banate he. Aap ne 2 hour ki baat 5 minut me clear bhi kar di. Thankyou sir.
Very nice message for SaaS bahu..hope this message reaches to every body
And so nice to see Renuka Sahane’ my Favourite Actress ‘ 🙌😊after a long time ‘ 🥰
Hope we get to see her more .😊
It was something very difficult for my mom to get....but now when she says things like this... I feel true right, why should everything be perfect, I am not saying imperfection is good but perfection isn't needed na. 😊.
Beautiful message. Striving for perfection is actually causing unnecessary stress. Appreciate your efforts. One small suggestion, you could have avoided the abusive word to make it even more joyous and family friendly content.
Cool, i love renuka mam , so inspiring almost of my age.
My mom.survived too much in orthodox typical family .she is such a gem .but now she come out from this toxic n feel let it go .n she is happy 😊
Good massage for this orthodox community and may be especially for India (anywhere or some specific places) Those who don't know the emotions or feelings of their wives. Because suddenly after getting married they start believing to follow their M.O.T.H.E.R to make his wife's life harder for those who don't care about him in their childhood or any important decisions. It is good to teach women from their stress but here some orthodox husbands believe only the needs of his family members.
yeah yeah very good message to not improve so that feminists can lower the bar of the world and then can equate to the men. Why not strive harder to reach men position rather than lowering the bar? Ah!?
But see, you did not learn from your life and its people either. It is very easy to blame others. The buck starts with self and ends with Self.
Be the change that you want to see in others.
Like yourself first. Respect yourself first....so that no one steps all over you....❤
It's not only in INDIA... The mil dil story is always the same almost everywhere
This is the best video which God has sent t me…… As this phase is really low & like Renuka told I was thnking what am I how have I bcme. Tnq
What happened to you, Dice Media? After Crushed and Ghar Waapsi, there seems to be almost no big series! What about Clutch 2, Operation MBBS 3 and Adulting 3? 😮
Adulting 3 is already out
They don't care😂
Most awaited MBBS 3
True af
Very good teaching from a wise person. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
No one is perfect in this world.
Really touching....let it go....that's the right attitude.
Well very true....
Bhool Rahi hu khud ko...
Perfect banane mein...
Kya yahi hai zindagi ..
We all are human not god...
Let's enjoy our imperfections....
Really good message for every indian women
Very good message, just work hard ,put your efforts and just let it go whatever happens, spend time fir your self 😊❤
Oh God this was a relief video, trust me I was dealing with the same problem thank you for making this video. We can’t have it All … so true 😊
Ur webseries hits the issues we all are dealing in a very correct way 😊... please come up with some more
So happy to see renuka ma'am after q long time ❤
Watch the whole What the Folks series.
@@gauravipal9518well I have alredy watched and it's been a long time.. that's why said happy to see her back in dice media.
Renuka mam ❤ what a smile ❤❤
I must say best timing of uploading this clip.. Exam sar par hai, syllabus khatam huva nahi.. I am in full stress.. And now feeling relax a bit...
I am like 'u can't complete entire syllabus.. Let it go' 😅😅
Make sure it doesn't slip out from ur mouth in front of ur parents 😅
@@mdhar7825 😁😁
Such a beautiful scene 🤗 and their chemistry is too good 💯👏
Perfectly shown, brilliant
Renuka shahane's personality is so soothing.her presence gives a deep peace to me.dont know why.
Same here
I love this duo of saas - bahu .. i wish we could bond like this.. btw, we have a good understanding but that spark is missing
It was a relaxing video where a mother in law is treating his daughter in law like daughter ❤
Kash ,har ek relation itni saral , understanding hoti .
Such sweet, kaash aisa hi hota everywhere
Love the concept it’s so true learn to love urself first and then it all come in place
Really good mother in law❤
Nicely explained we can't make everyone happy let things go no one is perfect
Beautiful massage for every woman 😊
😂❤ awesome relationship between the 2 ladies
I surely believe, I will be this kind of mother in law❤
Beautiful msg explained extremely well
I watched this before marriage and saw so many dreams. Now watching it again, and feel so stupid. No such mother in law exist. No such video should ever be upladed, it only breaks heart and courage.
Thank you for the video.... this is much needed for me...
Loved the laughter💕💕
Renuka Shahane madam is as beautiful as ever! Loved this one...
Love to see after a long time, waiting for a web series ..make it soon
Missing your combo series. Pls do start againnnnn
After a very long time happy to see a good content
I also tried to be a perfect bahoo for a long time..but now I m happy without this perfection fobia😊
A lesson for me. Great. Thanks for sharing this video
Just awesome....no one cant 100%perfect ....be cool instead....
This was such a beautiful one 💝
Beautiful and very thoughtful 😊❤❤❤❤❤
Perfection is the enemy of good enough - a good reminder for each one of us.
If you don't have one hour to workout, that's ok... workout for only ten minutes. Something is better than nothing!
Renuka s smile just ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow agr esi mother n law milein to sb khush rhe iss duniya me
Thank you so much , because same problem I was facing but know I will try the same formula.
V Nice Concept of this short Story !👌👌
So True…. We can’t have it all’ in life !
And have to learn to not to take Life so seriously,
and become a ‘Control Freak’ wanting everything to be ‘Perfect’
And driving everyone around us Crazy.
We don’t realise in that Moment’ of getting Annoyed at someone, for Trivial Reason , that we are Driving our Loved ones, and Friends, far from us !
No one wants to be around a Whinger ‘ right ?
Life is Short ‘
Kal Ho na Ho …
Let’s live it spreading and sharing Love’ and Kindness ‘to each other. 😊
Nice...superb. ❤
Good massage..
Relatable
this is amazing looking to see their further episodes 😍 , where I can find full series.
Please bring them back... give us new series of this jodi....
Love you Renukaji ❤❤❤
Wow what a cool mother in law😄
Very good lesson.can only do our best.
Loved it ❤
This was really funny thanks guys 😄
Important topic to be discussed.Great
हर सास ऐसी हो तो क्या बात है 😊😊😊
I need a mother in law like this
mother mother in law both should be like this
Great lesson
I love this mother-in-law!
I hope all mother in laws are so understanding 😊 why to boss soo much on poor daughter in laws 😊 Live and Let Live other members of family.😊😊😊
Really we loved it......👌Why we can't have it all.....?😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nice story 👌👌👌
Nice story..😊
Nice concept 😊
So sweet ❤
Lovely lovely content ❤❤❤
Thank you very much, m bhi hamesha perfection lane me lzgi rahti hoo and khud bhi stress me rahti hoo doosro par bhi pressure dalti hoo
Missing this series a lot
Loved these old series
I love renuka sahane
Trying to be perfect is such a mirage concept, lets be the real you rather than being perfect
Jus love it yaar
Will what the folks ever happen again??really missing nikhil,anita's chemistry...
No the show has ended unfortunately
LOVEEEEE IT....NICE .....DONE
I really like it your way of saying it
Renuka Shahane - The great presenter from Surabhi - Who remembers this woman with a lovely smile?
Same things are happening with me bt if things are not done perfect I have to listen to taunts too...the things I do are not that stressed, the taunts, rude behaviour that include lie adds ghee to my irritated level to hype even more..
Best one so far
Excellent 👌👍
I loved it too.
Excellent advice
Mujhe bhi aisee hee mother in law chahiye ❤❤❤❤❤
Very good acting with good concept.
Today I really need this
You can’t have it all…. What a great line. 😅
great yar beautiful mom like a friend
The caption should be like "the words that a Daughter in law wants to hear From a Mother in law
Suuuuuuupppppppppppar👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Nice simple n sweet msg 👏 👏 👌