Thank you sir.... So cool. How do you really sustain good friendship with someone who's interested in marrying you, but you are not interested. And at the same time you don't want to seem rude or insensitive or blunt. And you still don't want to pass the wrong message by being friendly?
One important thing to understand is that when entering into a relationship of any sort, there has to be an establishment of the needs/requirements of the other person. This need is mostly not explicitly stated, but it’s important to infer it. During the course of the teaching I mentioned that you shouldn’t enter into a relationship when you haven’t been able to establish the needs of the other person - and when you know what they need, you also have to be honest enough to admit if you can meet it. If it is clear that you they are interested in getting married to you but you are not feeling the same way about them, you will have to redefine the scope of the relationship clearly, letting them know. And in that case friendship could be a strong word except if they in the same way can move on from that unmet expectation. - Min. Ololade Israel Thank you!
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Thank you sir.... So cool.
How do you really sustain good friendship with someone who's interested in marrying you, but you are not interested. And at the same time you don't want to seem rude or insensitive or blunt. And you still don't want to pass the wrong message by being friendly?
One important thing to understand is that when entering into a relationship of any sort, there has to be an establishment of the needs/requirements of the other person. This need is mostly not explicitly stated, but it’s important to infer it. During the course of the teaching I mentioned that you shouldn’t enter into a relationship when you haven’t been able to establish the needs of the other person - and when you know what they need, you also have to be honest enough to admit if you can meet it.
If it is clear that you they are interested in getting married to you but you are not feeling the same way about them, you will have to redefine the scope of the relationship clearly, letting them know. And in that case friendship could be a strong word except if they in the same way can move on from that unmet expectation.
- Min. Ololade Israel
Thank you!