so many memorable lines this episode, grandpa preaching some deep wisdoms "dont let yourself drown in a puddle before you've seen the ocean". I dont know what it fully means yet but that's gonna stay with me a while.
@@susananderson4093 You don't need a lot to travel. I go on two month long trips with just a carry-on and my camera bag. And shorter trips with just a shoulder bag (‾◡◝)
When in a distraught mind like Gu Jia, luggage is the last thing she would think of. She wanted to go away and be alone for awhile, by herself, trying to forget, but everything would play over and over in her mind like a movie... And the stranger she talked and laughed with was like a different world and a welcome escape for her sad reality that she never expected to happen to her life. Anyways, she can buy new clothes anywhere she will go..
Was so goood that her friends told him ALL that he did wrong and he doesn´t deserve any pity or forgiveness. How difficult must be for Gu Jia, and she is even in her pain such a strong woman. That girl thinks so highly of herself, she can´t compare in the minimum with Gu Jia. Gu Jia would never do what she did, this was so low; trying to steal a man that was already married, break a home, don´t think in the future, depend in another person for living puffff no girl, you are trash and she is gold
U U first time ”love” and s3xual experience with the husband both make the pull of this relationship really strong for her and it is making her a bit psychotic.
Now he says Gu Jia is the one which I love most. She always was there for him unconditional, and he betrayed her and his lovely son. Now is too late to say I'm sorry.
Loved seeing the scenes of XiaoQin and Nini scolding that useless ass husband, IT'S WHAT HE DESERVES! I feel so bad for Gu Jia, can't even imagine how much pain she must have been in to want to escape to another city and not talk to anyone. I really hope she can find happiness in the end
I wish Man Ni had recorded that conversation with that corrupt sales manager and the manager from the warehouse, then gone to the President and shown him all the evidence she had collected so far..
Can’t get that girl YouYou haha, she thought she was in the same position as GuJia to say as if they could be friends bla bla. How ridiculous!!! In every of her actions it showed no thoughtfulness at all.
Ooooohhhhhh la mejor frase que he oido (perdón leido hehe) en mucho tiempo “Are you in love with this man or the mark of another woman on this man?” The best! Gu jia, you are
When Men cheating it take a lots to forgive him but can you for get ? Most of the time women stay because children’s that when you suffered in side hopefully she can be happy in the end with him
The subtitled translation mistakenly states "56 thousand" when he said "56 wan." A "wan" is a unit of measurement for 10,000 so it's 560,000 (aka 4 zeros) instead of 56,000 (aka 3 zeroes). The translation makes it seem as if the full amount of royalties from her book is 1,005,600 Yuan when he actually said 1,560,000 Yuan. I wanted to point out the inaccuracies in the subtitles in case there are any Mandarin learners out there. And FYI: 1,560,000 Yuan actually converts to $244,204.12 USD. Hardly rich by any measure.
God gives his hardest tests to his strongest soldiers, He gave this to her cuz He KNEW she could handle it, she was capable enough to go through, despite the hurt. This is real life ofc & no one’s life is meant to be perfect, we all have our own flaws & ups in downs in life. As the saying goes “everything happens for a reason”, & the biggest reason to why such things happen to people is to let them grow, & become the best, & strongest version of themselves. Flowers have to go through the harsh winter in order for them to bloom again (I’m pretty sure someone says something like that towards the end of the drama, but it’s true, very true). I hope you understand & don’t take what I said to heart, I meant no harm 🤍
Can someone translate the entire text msg exchange and who it’s from? The one right before she decides to leave. It feels important and the translation of ‘I hope I never see you again’ is only the last little bit.
Gu Jia decided to leave because she wanted to be relieved. The msg was from the third-wheel YouYou Lin, YouYou said smth like I will never see you again. It is hard to translate because it is a Chinese phrase. GuJia went to the airport and bought YouYou a ticket because GuJia knows that YouYou didn't buy a plane ticket. YouYou still wants to be with Xu HuanShan and YouYou thinks that if Xu HuanShan comes, he wouldn't let her go because she thinks Xu Huanshan loves her. But instead, GuJia came, ane because woman knows another woman, Gujia bought Youyou ticket for her to go home.
凌鸭 Yes, I understood that part. But....The msg at 34:36 is from LYY, a msg from LYY to GJ? Or is that in fact msg from loser hubby and what does it say? Or is it not GJ phone? I am confused about this one part only. The remainder is translated well enough to understand the arc of the narrative without confusion.
I really enjoyed “ Drama “ 1-43 episodes In reality never- a married couple usually discuss about what they’re going to do- Example: the wife said, I quit my job without discussing with her husband. Not in real life!!! It’s only a Soap Opera. Even in Movies- I guess what I am trying to say: Don’t be critical and enjoy it.
Something is wrong with your thinking. A lot of married people don't communicate, they do things on their own, why do you think the divorce rate is so high? You think it only infidelity the cause.
She won’t divorce her husband because of her child. but once a cheater always a cheater . maybe 5 to 10 yrs on the straight & narrow but like a earthquake that peaceful moment erodes then the wanting to cheat happens just like the plates slip & whammy Mother Earth shakes everything out of proportion back to cheating just like that.
I hope Gu Jia keeps her family. I don't think her husband is someone that made a mistake out of conviction, rather he made it out of weakness. What's the point in leaving him and ruining their lives? It's not easy to find a husband that is also the father of your child. Keep him and help him with his weakness. It's inevitable that the heavier burden will fall on the shoulders of the stronger in the relationship. This will not change with a divorce, things only get worse.
Maybe if it was a one time mistake, but instead he bought her a place and continued to have her on the side for a long time. No mercy, she didn't break the family, he did . Why should he get a pass for doing that to gu jia just because they have a kid. He didnt care when he was cheating.
So stay with a cheating man? Well damn. Kudos for your ability to maintain a truly toxic environment. Most women want better for themselves. How unfortunate that you feel one should stay in a relationship with a man who is clearly weak and shows evidence of it over and over and over again. Good luck with that! 🤷🏽♀️🤣
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"You should think about if you're worthy enough for her" HITS HOME. I've literally been waiting for this moment someone says it to his thick head
“Are you in love with this man or the mark of another woman on this man?” This is a bloody magnificent line!
i was clapping
WOW!!!! Priceless!!
Lol, I wished I said the exact same thing 5 years ago. But at the same time I didn’t need the garbage in my life.
so many memorable lines this episode, grandpa preaching some deep wisdoms "dont let yourself drown in a puddle before you've seen the ocean". I dont know what it fully means yet but that's gonna stay with me a while.
@@saotee194 It means.. there are plenty of fish in the ocean...
Gu Gu's dad is top tier
"Don't start your life down such a narrow path. Don't drown in a puddle before seeing the ocean."
This line just hit hard, she's only 22 and still has her whole life ahead.
Friends such as these are worth their weight in gold! In fact, they are priceless!!
I admire how Gu Jia can just take off and fly to another city just like that.
she doesn't even need any luggage.
I had a friend who did this same thing! I still admire her for that, many years later!
@@susananderson4093 You don't need a lot to travel. I go on two month long trips with just a carry-on and my camera bag. And shorter trips with just a shoulder bag (‾◡◝)
@@Almei43 Appreciate the travel tips- when it is safe to travel, I will remember your message!!😊🇺🇸
When in a distraught mind like Gu Jia, luggage is the last thing she would think of. She wanted to go away and be alone for awhile, by herself, trying to forget, but everything would play over and over in her mind like a movie... And the stranger she talked and laughed with was like a different world and a welcome escape for her sad reality that she never expected to happen to her life. Anyways, she can buy new clothes anywhere she will go..
This is tv shows magic 😂🤭
Gu Jia’s dad is too good
Was so goood that her friends told him ALL that he did wrong and he doesn´t deserve any pity or forgiveness. How difficult must be for Gu Jia, and she is even in her pain such a strong woman. That girl thinks so highly of herself, she can´t compare in the minimum with Gu Jia. Gu Jia would never do what she did, this was so low; trying to steal a man that was already married, break a home, don´t think in the future, depend in another person for living puffff no girl, you are trash and she is gold
U U first time ”love” and s3xual experience with the husband both make the pull of this relationship really strong for her and it is making her a bit psychotic.
But we only have her word that it was her first sexual encounter...how come he didn't see / feel the evidence???
Now he says Gu Jia is the one which I love most. She always was there for him unconditional, and he betrayed her and his lovely son. Now is too late to say I'm sorry.
Gu Jia should divorce Xu Huan Shan. Yes, it is too late... sorry can never erase the pain... and he will do it again..
This drama is like a resume how we should fight life with dignity how to be strong and don't fear judgement or poeple ❤❤❤
I’m glad ManNi and Xiao Qin said those words to the husband. Beautiful Gu Jia I’ve cried lots for u💔
this is seriously an excellent drama
I’m starting to understands maybe it’s the best series I’ve ever seen. It’s so real!!!
Watched it 3 times!!!!! 😅 that's how much I love it.
Loved seeing the scenes of XiaoQin and Nini scolding that useless ass husband, IT'S WHAT HE DESERVES! I feel so bad for Gu Jia, can't even imagine how much pain she must have been in to want to escape to another city and not talk to anyone. I really hope she can find happiness in the end
i loooved xiaoqin lighting his ass up lmao! i'm more like man ni, but we all need a friend like xiaoqin lol
@@lilpopstarr4 hahaha true
I hope Gujia doesnt not divorce. Once a cheater always a cheater
I wish Man Ni had recorded that conversation with that corrupt sales manager and the manager from the warehouse, then gone to the President and shown him all the evidence she had collected so far..
She can never compare ,ughhh.. I’m hoping to see more about the tea plantation if it’s doing good now. Also poor Nini and Gugu.
Can’t get that girl YouYou haha, she thought she was in the same position as GuJia to say as if they could be friends bla bla. How ridiculous!!! In every of her actions it showed no thoughtfulness at all.
Ooooohhhhhh la mejor frase que he oido (perdón leido hehe) en mucho tiempo “Are you in love with this man or the mark of another woman on this man?” The best! Gu jia, you are
The guy with Gujia at the bar when she left town was also in the drama 'Find yourself'. Very cool drama as well.
Come on Maggie!!! Dont let that bully boss you around! Cheering you on!!
顾佳爸爸真的是好到不能再好了。一般人如果看见插足自己女儿婚姻的第三者没打起来就算好了，不会花时间去讲道理什么的。
原来顾佳也喜欢吃小龙虾，却为了家人的健康断食喝果汁。可能只有林有有这种没有经过家庭、没有后顾之忧的人才可以肆无忌惮的展现自我吧，但男人偏偏吃这套，觉得率性可爱，其实哪个女人脱离了家庭不是个可爱的小公主啊
Finally the crazy girlfriend is leaving town
陈旭这话说的挺实在 事儿做的也实在 挺喜欢他
M Jane 对～ 到后面看他帮陈与追回嫂子，觉得这弟弟小时候没白疼～ 😄
童谣演的真好
When Men cheating it take a lots to forgive him but can you for get ? Most of the time women stay because children’s that when you suffered in side hopefully she can be happy in the end with him
Heartbreak is really hard to take in😭
I feel like we re getting closer to the last episode 😭 any similar drama to recommand? ❤️
Commenting too in case someone shares something good
Someone commented ( find yourself) drama .. i wonder if its similar.. did you guys find something good??😢
@@misakesan3498not as good but worth the watch
The subtitled translation mistakenly states "56 thousand" when he said "56 wan." A "wan" is a unit of measurement for 10,000 so it's 560,000 (aka 4 zeros) instead of 56,000 (aka 3 zeroes). The translation makes it seem as if the full amount of royalties from her book is 1,005,600 Yuan when he actually said 1,560,000 Yuan.
I wanted to point out the inaccuracies in the subtitles in case there are any Mandarin learners out there. And FYI: 1,560,000 Yuan actually converts to $244,204.12 USD. Hardly rich by any measure.
yeah there are a few mistakes, like uu say i never want to see you again, is actually; no more see you later.
许给顾留言说感觉真的要失去顾佳了，出轨的时候从来没有想到失去老婆？为啥男人总觉得自己可以被原谅呢？是确实因为女人总是轻易原谅他们吗？
是的
出轨的时候没被抓着，所以还有侥幸心理。再说这只是电视剧而已，剧本也只是个刚到30的小姑娘写的，你还想从这里学人生哲理不？😂
16:00演到这里，就剧情来说老许真不错，差不多得了，说破大天为了那么可爱的儿子子言能不受伤，承受再大的委屈，也值了。
这个导演太牛了，拍那对新人的时候眼泪一下就崩了😭
許幻山的留言只给我一個想法：持家的老婆離開了男人，男人是什麼都做不了的，因為家里的所有，男人一概不懂。
顾家的蓝色风衣好好看 什么牌子呀
THEORY Open-Front Suede Leather Kimono Coat
真心疼顾家 无敌心疼 她做错什么 上天要这样对一个好人 她明明可以放弃茶厂 只不过是为了那些贫穷的小区 还有那些可怜的孩子 为何上帝也不怜悯她啊
God gives his hardest tests to his strongest soldiers, He gave this to her cuz He KNEW she could handle it, she was capable enough to go through, despite the hurt. This is real life ofc & no one’s life is meant to be perfect, we all have our own flaws & ups in downs in life. As the saying goes “everything happens for a reason”, & the biggest reason to why such things happen to people is to let them grow, & become the best, & strongest version of themselves. Flowers have to go through the harsh winter in order for them to bloom again (I’m pretty sure someone says something like that towards the end of the drama, but it’s true, very true). I hope you understand & don’t take what I said to heart, I meant no harm 🤍
Best part is when Gu jia set the mistress straight. Then her best friend Mani did the same with the husband.
挺喜欢陈旭的
这陈旭是真的牛皮
我的天啊！晓芹，用你赚的一百五十六万买脑子。。。
Lmaoo for the people who cant read this, this comment basically says that Xiaoqin should use the 1.5 milion to buy some brains.
同意。三个女人中最不喜欢王money + 晓芹
金池唱得真好
这集顾佳是主角的感觉。。。。。。。想飞就飞， 哪里都可以。
回归单身了，当然轻松啊
顾假就是曾经的我，因为我经历过体会过
顾佳确实管太严了，夫妻过成了母子，多了这是为你好，却少了尊重。要给别人成长的机会啊，而且每个人的想法都不一样，不一定你算的利益得失就是正确答案。谁说做技术就没有做CEO开心呢？这种全方位的保姆，全方位的不肯服输，真的让人窒息。不是说许幻山出轨有道理，而是他们的婚姻确实有问题，不只是许的问题、顾佳确实应该反省。
我也感覺 是被逼到窒息了...想要有出口
说的轻松但做起来很难啊！ 现实中我认识的结过婚的女人绝对比女主角强势100倍，剧里的已经算是很好了！
林有有是个诱因 这两个人处事方式不一样 早已经有裂痕了 这个时候有个人可劲勾引 渣男就hold不住了
33:32 The sixty-four thousand dollar question!
the scorpio girl is really pretty .. I'm from November10 thoe
Can someone translate the entire text msg exchange and who it’s from? The one right before she decides to leave. It feels important and the translation of ‘I hope I never see you again’ is only the last little bit.
Gu Jia decided to leave because she wanted to be relieved. The msg was from the third-wheel YouYou Lin, YouYou said smth like I will never see you again. It is hard to translate because it is a Chinese phrase. GuJia went to the airport and bought YouYou a ticket because GuJia knows that YouYou didn't buy a plane ticket. YouYou still wants to be with Xu HuanShan and YouYou thinks that if Xu HuanShan comes, he wouldn't let her go because she thinks Xu Huanshan loves her. But instead, GuJia came, ane because woman knows another woman, Gujia bought Youyou ticket for her to go home.
凌鸭 Yes, I understood that part. But....The msg at 34:36 is from LYY, a msg from LYY to GJ? Or is that in fact msg from loser hubby and what does it say? Or is it not GJ phone? I am confused about this one part only. The remainder is translated well enough to understand the arc of the narrative without confusion.
@@soledeadolci The msg if from LYY to GJ. It is GJ's phone.
凌鸭 Thanks!!!!
@Mishti Chakraborty the msg says we won't see each other ever again from YouYou Lin.
女主角演的太好了
好理解顾佳临时买张机票去另一个地方的心情！在这种时候如果还待在同一个城市真的有窒息的感觉……
糖果妈妈 对… 每天看着一样的景却不一样的心情，多伤心💔 出去走走反而可以让自己清醒一些…
我也好想来场说走就走的旅行，就一个人😂
Young naive mistress reeled in , but went too far going near the child
I agree with Gu Jia's dad. XIAO Lin must leave and go back to her home for good.
Traduza em português Brasil por favor
I really enjoyed “ Drama “ 1-43 episodes
In reality never- a married couple usually discuss about what they’re going to do-
Example: the wife said, I quit my job without discussing with her husband.
Not in real life!!! It’s only a Soap Opera.
Even in Movies- I guess what I am trying to say: Don’t be critical and enjoy it.
Something is wrong with your thinking. A lot of married people don't communicate, they do things on their own, why do you think the divorce rate is so high? You think it only infidelity the cause.
I think the writers screwed up The cheater deleted the mistress contact info, so how is he able to see a text from her🤔
36:37 this
为何没有中文字幕啊 英文字幕不是看不懂 而是我很想看中文字幕 因为我总的等我宝宝睡着了才看
屏幕右下角 设置里面可以显示中文字幕，或者屏幕右下角第一个按键
顾佳这样好心疼她
30:52 出门不带手机的嘛
看到片尾，说不出是心酸还是温馨，我小时候也是这么洗澡的😅
我小時候也這么洗过，想哭的感覺
小三突然疯狂爱上一个已婚男，主动送货上门，还死缠烂打，属于偏执狂，有心理疾病
小龙虾🦞啊啊啊啊
The drama is good but the problem is the subtitle the English subtitle it cover with the Chinese language that's bad
That Chinese sub can be turned off. It's on the right bottom corner of the screen.
戲好好睇，但系廣告好多。。。Rio, 唯品會，按摩椅，各個咖啡館，面店，酒店。。。好明顯的推廣。。。令人出戲😑😑
片尾花的小家庭看像挺溫馨的 但是導演 編劇也要想想 中國式家庭教育是否也要提高一一點 六七岁的男孩還要媽媽抱來抱去洗澡 好多媽寶。就是這樣养出來 今天的影视作品都提高很高的水平了 真心希望我們中國人在大时代的飞跃中国人的各方面教育都提高 真心希望中國人越來越強大不再受別国欺压！有更强大的抗压性
刚上幼儿园耶，应该3.4岁吧……。3.4岁让妈妈抱、亲妈妈很正常吧……
六七岁抱来抱去也正常啊。孩子和我都很开心
特别赞同的评论，现在中国大部分的男孩都妈宝男，所以为中国以后交给10后感到担忧
看这个家庭的居住环境应该是不换鞋进家的那种，妈妈抱宝宝去洗澡时因为不想孩子走过去的时候脚弄脏了，直接抱过去是为了方便。这位同学想得太深刻了。
其实换个角度想想，这种家庭这么穷 每天妈妈要带着孩子摆摊 爸爸要送饿了么，孩子应该是很坚强的 你应该是没有学过心理学，妈宝之所以妈宝 是因为母亲太强悍了 爸爸非常弱 所以才会凡事依赖于母亲 会妈宝 所有事情都希望母亲帮他处理掉 这种环境下 成长出来的男孩子 一般都会非常有责任心 想要保护妈妈 因为家庭条件非常辛苦
花干了，香薰没了，那你自己去浇自己去买啊！
围城里的我看完整部剧既没觉得许幻山太渣也没觉得陈老师自私的不可理喻。婚姻无非是互相理解包容。反而在我看来王曼妮爱上的才是一个极品渣男！
因为爱，自以为爱，就可以没有道德底线，肆意破坏别人的家庭了吗？！
佳佳的妈妈是不是叫何平？
陈鱼鱼你知道嘛，你跟顾佳她爸长得一毛一样
Andy Yang 是真爸
剧外 是父子
@@xiangcheng4572that's why I say so
Andy Yang Both have dark eyebrows
@@msaja The are father-son outside of the episode.
林有有的下场真好
是呢 不是据说广电总局不允许小三有好下场来着
@@Miliyaliyahe 哈哈哈😂
@@Miliyaliyahe 真的假的？广电总局连这也管啊
Gu Jia went to Changsha, Tangerine Island, here I come (⊙o⊙)
She won’t divorce her husband because of her child. but once a cheater always a cheater . maybe 5 to 10 yrs on the straight & narrow but like a earthquake that peaceful moment erodes then the wanting to cheat happens just like the plates slip & whammy Mother Earth shakes everything out of proportion back to cheating just like that.
Omg so excited 😆
33:34 profound.
41:26 happy family ch 41. Take a bath
yo theres english comments
在中国翻墙上TH-cam看这个到底是为了什么:(
Gu Jia does rebound one night stand? I don't like that development in the script.
这部剧里的歌真是不好听，不知是谁唱的这么难听
每个人欣赏不一样吧 金池唱JAZZ挺好听的
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这几个女的顾佳最丑
只是你的眼睛不配欣赏她的美
难道不是林友友最丑？
我代表大多数男人告诉你，基本上都想取顾佳。你觉得丑，只是人家扮相老，顾佳是成熟女性的美，这种御姐气质，对20多岁小男生也都非常有杀伤力的。
@@sagitta2012 得了吧，我作为一个男人就这三个演员外形及性格来说首选江次选毛，逼不得已可能才会考虑童。
@@巍峨-d4c 性格来说，我也喜欢傻白甜，选毛晓彤演的钟晓芹就是好哄好骗，你对她稍微上点心，哄一哄，她就满足得不得了，多可爱啊。顾佳穿上职业装，长发披肩的御姐范，是让很多男人有征服欲望，但是真正娶回家，你会慢慢受不了她的强势，这也是为何张雨绮颜值不低了，婚姻还不幸福，太强势了。我的观点只是说这种御姐范，或者office lady，身材火辣的姐姐，对很多还在念书的小男生很有杀伤力。反而是男人上岁数了，变油腻老男人了，都口味一致，喜欢小姑娘，喜欢傻白甜。
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問題是那些爛攤子不都是顧家自己找的嗎？是你要他離開原來的設計團隊自己創業，你要買的高檔小區房子，你要小孩上的用英語面試的幼兒園，這些都不符合他的價值觀他為了愛你做妥協在自己不擅長的領域生活。你把對方推入他不適應的領域然後還怪對方沒學會擔當你真的有腦子啊？
唉喲，真的 太噁心了啊，愛上這種女的真的慘啊
我就是屬於顧佳這種太太. 工作能力大於先生, 而且也是控制欲比較強的. 確實如你所說, 如果不改變自己那就是逼著先生在我面前假裝自己是我可以接受的樣子. 對兩人都很傷害, 沒意義. 所以她也有要學習的課程
shek d 出轨就是不对！！ 还有理了？
離開舒適圈，學習掌握新知識和技能就是進步呀。有些人自己推自己，有些人要別人來推，有些人別人推他都不動。畢業後人和人成就的距離就此產生
许幻山作为一个成年人什么都只听老婆的，自己遇到困难都是让老婆解决，家具都不会自己装，自己不想要的改变却又自己不说，要去和小三聊，这就是你认可的做事行为吗？
结婚之前顾佳就不是这样的吗？许幻山可以不找她结婚呀，找一个小鸟依人百依百顺的。
I hope Gu Jia keeps her family. I don't think her husband is someone that made a mistake out of conviction, rather he made it out of weakness. What's the point in leaving him and ruining their lives? It's not easy to find a husband that is also the father of your child. Keep him and help him with his weakness. It's inevitable that the heavier burden will fall on the shoulders of the stronger in the relationship. This will not change with a divorce, things only get worse.
Maybe if it was a one time mistake, but instead he bought her a place and continued to have her on the side for a long time. No mercy, she didn't break the family, he did . Why should he get a pass for doing that to gu jia just because they have a kid. He didnt care when he was cheating.
His weakness is not her burden. She gave him many chances to come clean. He didn’t.
Sounds like you've only been in toxic relationships and disregard your self worth.
She has lost respect for him. He can't even get rid of the mistress himself! Once you lost respect, there's no turning back.
So stay with a cheating man? Well damn. Kudos for your ability to maintain a truly toxic environment. Most women want better for themselves. How unfortunate that you feel one should stay in a relationship with a man who is clearly weak and shows evidence of it over and over and over again. Good luck with that! 🤷🏽♀️🤣
The guy with Gujia at the bar when she left town was also in the drama 'Find yourself'. Very cool drama as well.