@Ricardo Cadet the f*** are you talking about? she has no knowledge of self because her deadbeat black daddy soft staying as being more important than sticking around and being involved in his children's life. Funny how your PATHETIC ASS won't mention that though
VictoriaWasHere :) Doja definitely sounds like different ppl in the industry... you can tell that she’s Nicki and Rihanna inspired.. nothing wrong with that
@Magnolia Lady You must be really ignorant about real hip hop era and female rapper culture. Kim and Missy are extravagant but so different in terms of lyrics, beats, flow, and STYLE. And they were and still friends and music collab. Real fans of hip hop and urban genre knows that Nicki stole everything from Kim for the young pop folks who are totally ignorant about hip hop…
EveryCompilation they are messy and childish. But, there’s no Rap Competition for any Female rapper just Know that all of them are talented to me end of it. Don’t put a female against each other!!! Cause it’s dumb as heck💯
EveryCompilation fr, like two male rappers could get into a physical fight, barely anyone would care, but doja says something that sounds slightly rude to Nicki (Even though doja wasnt even talking about her) they create a whole dang tag
Sincerely Ty Taylor He is so ready to show her off. As a South African I really empathize with Doja cat. Hopefully this situation with her dad is dealt with in private cause it's getting sadder with each interview he’s in.
Kat Derre some barbz just don’t have much to do really I was one but no more instead of streaming Nicki’s music and getting anaconda to 1b thy out here dragging I motioned that on Instagram and the tried to drag me💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
-KEO- 🤦🏽♀️ that’s not really it and think most of them are miserable and they enjoying dragging people Like seriously if thy drag someone who hates or drags Nicki I would understand but doja is always showing love to Nicki so y drag her if someone wanted to see doja in the middle that’s their personal view y can’t people speak freely seriously barbz made me hate barbz and now I still like Nicki but not like before
I haven’t heard of anyone trying to “cancel” her until this report. Every person on earth has people who like them and people who do not, celebrities are no different. I do notice of late she does remind me of Nicki a lot. I have been a supporter for years I could always see that influence, but she was clearly her own artist, until lately. Then it came to light that she hired some traitors that were former integral members of Nicki’s team. It may seem like a strategic move to some people. She is a fan, and I think it may be the team members that have shady motives, and not necessarily Doja Cat.
Nah Meghan markle's dad is a whole other beast. that one you need to throw the fuck out real quick. Meghan is way better off without him. Doja's father just moved to the other side of the world. went back home. huge difference
@@Jessicaro are you trying to make excuses for doja's d3adb3at dad? lol meghan's dad is sсum indeed, ironically he was part of her life till a point and helped financially raise her till a point, doja's dad didn't even try everything else is excuses. btw i'm not trying to say meghan's dad is a better father, cuz he isn't but i'm definitely saying they are on the same level cuz they are
@@Jessicaro "just moved to the other side of the world" girl what???? He abandoned a whole ass family. He's a successful actor but couldn't take the time to buy a plane ticket to visit. Not one time in 24 years did he even try to speak to her. Even when she tried to contact him he did basically nothing. Now she's famous he's going around in the press flexing his "daughter" and STILL hasn't actually tried to speak to her directly. Girl where is your logic that he "just moved" like it ain't nothing. Throw him the fuck out too. All these women better off without their deadbeat dads.
@@crown5303 i'm not trying to make an excuse but at least he just left and stayed away. some men are better of not being in a child's life. it better then promising shit they will never uphold. and having the mother to explain every time he doesn't come to the kids why not. Sorry i much have a man who is upfront with it and just leaves then a man who is in and out of the life of a child. Besides they had contact doja said it herself. They just never see eachother
tatianna brooks so does nicki I can’t believe all these ppl got so worked up when nicki and Doja are fine with each other , I’m a barb I guess but I like doja I think they are different and both good
Princess Yonna ♡ because they’ve been in gangs since they were teens. They don’t know any better. Nicki shouldn’t start doing that her big age. Gang members kill innocent people and raps young women.
Aphroditeyoung they do kinda, they make people who actually want to enjoy the artists music run away because they don’t want to be associated with a toxic fandom
Ok I love Jhene Aiko but I swear most of the girls that are fans of her are problematic. In my personal life all of the girls I know who ride for her hit niggas 😂😂😂
Also realize that these bloggers use the fans for headlines, and the artists use the fans for their selfish purposes but may not truly even be a fan of the respective artists. Anyone who seems to like Nicki or side with her on a particular issue, is automatically labeled a barb. One or two fans may drag an artist, and it’s reported that “the barbs” did it. For a while the bee hive was blamed for everything but global warming, nowadays it’s “the bárbs”. Sometimes the fans may act out, but the artist is not. the blame for all they do.
Thank you! All Doja did was stand up for one of her fans, she didnt disrespect Nicki or talk about her. She didnt even agree she should've been in the middle she was just telling her fan not to let the people coming at him bother him. Some of these hardcore fans really need to stop acting like these celebrities are cutting them a check. Im sure Nicki wont be Cash-apping any of those people that attacked him.
@French Vanilla nicki isn't doing anything to doja, Nicki has nothing to do with this situation. It's the barbz that blew up something that wasn't a big deal lol.
I think something Similar happened with Shaq, n!ggas wasn't nowhere around around when these celebs were children now theyve become successful they Daddy wanna slide back into the picture frame & play Father -____-
This man is lying, he has money if he really wanted to meet her, he would have flown to America to see her. He wants her to go to south Africa to use her to make money, I hope she doesn't fall for it and get hurt
Esther- Oo lol he doesn’t have enough money for flights to the US ,ill tell u that for sure 💀South African actors dont make much . But he still could have tried harder to see her . Agreed
Sister tea Spill nobody said he was poor ... i said he doesn’t make much.. and ddnt u read the part where i said he still is accountable for not trying to see her .
You ever meet someone who has a real dead beat dad? They never own up this is them. I dont even like how empressive said he fell in love with doja’s mother, dude left a woman with his two kids thats not love
I agree. Dead best dads act like it's not their responsibility to have a good relationship with their kids. You want her to come to Africa so bad. Buy a plane ticket lol
Facts!!!!! Growing up i never understood how blessed I was to have my dad raising me daily. I use to be ashamed of my dad because the kids use to say he walked like ET because he was pigeon toed. But non of them had a dad. I realize that now. RIP Daddy.😞
@@everythingislove5806 Don't try to say that Cardi was genuine because we both know she was just showing fake love, me personally liked Cardi I used to comment on her post things like "I LOVE YOU!! HOPE YOU GET IT" until I realized that she was liking shady post and comments about Nicki since she got her #1 trying to start some messy shit to get more relevant and be fighting like a RAT becase we all know she was THIRSTY to fight Nicki to follow the Nicki hate train and get people attention, specially nicki's hater so stop..
@@jairozolanski5723 I remember when we were accusing Nicki of showing fake love to Kim...and every Nicki fan acted like fake love wasn't a real thing that existed. They were obtuse, dismissive and gaslighting like they couldn't wrap their minds around the concept of fake love. So it's funny now when I see Nicki fans now ALL OF A SUDDEN ABLE TO UNDERSTAND FAKE LOVE & WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GENUINE....now when they're accusing CARDI B of it, b/c it benefits Nicki! The hypocrisy, man! LMFAO
@@ddacoe0 Wrong. She supported Kim & all the other old heads as her inspirations as they paid her dust. Kim got mad at Slim & Baby, but took her anger out on Nicki. Then Nicki came at her neck. Nicki gave Cardi a chance to work with her (something the older heads couldn't even do) & Cardi ruined that because she dumb & couldn't figure out that the verse wasn't a diss. Nicki still has genuine love for her older heads, Cardi doesn't even show them love anymore. That lets you know it was fake.
@@OsatoHertytude um, what happened to respecting our elders? at the end of the day, calling him an idiot is a bit harsh. you wouldn't like it if someone called your dad an idiot..
@@Shadow11237 why are you acting as if it's your father, at the end of the day it's Doja's father and she decides if she wants him in his life. Not you. So actually fuck you.
@@sxlted_caramel4338 Eh the respecting elders thing... Honestly, respect needs to be earned. You can't automatically get it because you're an elder. That's why so many boomers these days are assholes (not all) because there's this of "respect your elders". Now, I'm not saying it's okay to disrespect your elders, but respect should be earned. At least that's how I feel... (Lol don't come for me I'm not tryna be mean or anything😂)
Brainjock shut the hell up and go sit in the corner with your dunce cap on! ....FACE THE DAMN WALL TOOOO and DONT EVEN LOOK AT ME!! STAY OUTTA GROWN FOLKS, BLACK FOLKS AND WOMEN BUSINESS 🙄🙄
He is delusional. It's not her team keeping her from seeing him, it's his actions. Doja is a whole 25 years old and he has not met her once. He was not in prison, there is no excuses. It is the responsibility of the PARENT to raise and nurture their relationship with their child. And in that interview she does not seem all that interested in seeing him now. He is a clout chaser and a bad father.
@@Similo i mean at this point it does seem fake. Now that she's blowing up she's your African princess? But where were you when she was growing up to teach her South African values and culture?
I don’t believe him, a true father would do anything to be in their child’s life despite the circumstances. He has money so what’s the problem ??? He’s not ready for all that even in his old age. He will regret it and I feel sad for her too it’s just a sad situation
As a South African woman, I'll be honest. A LOT of South African men who got to travel the world have kids in other countries that they either haven't met or neglected and never supported. Even right here at home, we have a lot of men who leave their girlfriends pregnant and alone, never meeting their kids or leaving when they're young. Dumisani Dlamini is not the only one and his excuses are just so pathetic. Seems to me like he wanted to make it big in America and bag a white woman and then when nothing worked out, he ran back home where he knew he would find work for sure. It's his country and he's talented. How do you try to bring your family here but then you don't make efforts to see your kids ever again? The man is not broke. We all know him. He's actually a legend here. There are popular actors here married to each other and they have time for their kids. He's a liar.
African RumPunch also he keeps saying that he’s going to get her to come here and do shows and connect with local artists. He clearly just wants to use her. The radio hosts keep asking about him having a relationship with her as mending their relationship and all he’s on about is her doing shows. That’s really fucked up.
They wasn't. She is getting a little bit too high in fame to care about what stans are fighting about. This is what gets Cardi Dragged she shouldn't go down that path.
@@raevalentini How is having pride in your work wrong. She's been grinding forever. She's not like cardi who doesn't even write her songs. She deserves her fame.
Im a huge barb too and I didn’t take Doja’s comment the wrong way. I knew she is a huge fan of Nicki and she even mentioned she had been a fan for 10years and a lot of her influence comes from her, so I know that comment wouldn’t be towards the barbs..... people just take shit the wrong way and want to cause drama 🙄🙄
He really tried to blame his irresponsibility on Americans who he believes are trying to create a story and tarnish his nonexistent relationship with Doja Cat. Just sad.
Lechabile Motjamela based on his interviews he sounds like he doesn’t care about her. Which is sad coz most South African men are like that he probably has his own family and she really wants to meet him but he doesn’t seem to be interesting just contradicting himself on the radio
I'm South African... And this man is just disappointing honestly. Now all of a sudden, just because she's famous, he sees the need for her to come meet her ancestors. He was a terrible father who abandoned his family like many South African men did back then when they moved around for work. He must just own up to it and stop trying to save face. He fucked up.
@@milo_phd2437 we're surviving, it's spreading but people are also recovering. I hope we all can find a vaccine or a way to move forward as the world and recover from this.
That’s really upsetting, about her dad. He never flew his kids out!? Whoopi said he’s a good man and he may be decent but can you really be a good man and never meet your kids? They’re adults now.
Like imagine never meeting your dad, and then only coming to meet you because you’re more famous then him... and he wants to ride your coat tail. Smh. Sad, and another heartache for his child.
Why is he only speaking on Doja and not his son and her brother.. I know the interview is about her cause she’s the famous one but he should’ve said “I need both of my children to come back with me to the motherland and connect with their ancestors” and not just Amala.
Wandee if he would’ve put in the same energy with his kids he did with his own career he could’ve done so. He acting like he’s been looking for her, LIES ! He can simply message her directly or contact her mom.
stan twitter even started the hashtage #shawnmendesisoverparty just to share their fancams for views, shawn didn't do anything 🤦🏿 edit: lemme rephase, lol, he hadn't done anything RECENTLY, my bad, yall
In her song Addicted she says “I’ve got such a pretty body, it’s prettier when I’m a mess. And I just like to call him daddy, CUZ THE FIRST ONE UP AND LEFT” 🥺 shit hit home but this video made me hurt
lol yeah fathers like that should be ashamed of themselves. Too many men take no responsibility for their own children, and the people around these "fathers" enable them to feel as though they did nothing wrong.
Nonya lol although I agree that men and “fathers” should MOST DEFINITELY be ashamed of themselves and should be put in their place in someway shape or form. In my opinion, I think what you said/suggested about how their should be a law to have men (dead beat fathers particularly) castrated is a bit much....😂 that’s a little too over dramatic don’t ya think?? 😅🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@@hannahalexis9233 at the very least, these people need to use freaking condoms or get vasectomies if they conceive children that they refuse to care for.
norma kay because doja brought him up duh. He addresses her because she brought him up first. I’m not defending him but he has mentioned his other child. Just because he doesn’t say their name doesn’t make them less important doja is just famous and a household name
Every 10yrs or so, A female rapper comes out with colored hair and is accused of being like another female rapper. Nothing's new, fans need to clam down🤦🏾♀️
Alia exactly like the only similarities is the colorful hair and dassit. Can’t even wear a pink wig without being accused of copying Nicki. Nicki didn’t make the color pink
It’s so sad that Dumisani left his children in America... Doja has been missing that fatherly love I can imagine how bad it made her feel in them teen years hence she left school. And went straight to music as an escape. You can tell that Doja really wants to meet her father irrespective of what he did. I really hope Dumisani fills in the void and explains to her the real reason why he left. There’s always two sides of the story... I really can’t say or judge much because we honestly don’t know the real reason as to why he left. I hope they reunite and spend as much time together and stay in contact. Dumisani better see his children for who they are not because of fame.
I truly appreciate how mature Doja handled the topic about her rollingstone father. Her dad giving me Drake father's vibe. Only showing up now that he has something to be proud of smh
Exactly. And then last year Drakes dad came out and said he was basically lying in his music, which obviously I did not believe. Typical deadbeat to deny
No offence but they didn't have ANY shows in south africa until like 10-15 years ago.. making it pretty damn easy to be the only star in a country that's busy dealing with strife. He sounds like a typical boasting full of sht south african. I've dated plenty to kn ow this is exactly how they talk. Legends in their own minds (the cocky ones)
As a South African I'm suffering from major embarrassment because of our Chester. He is a legend but now I see his floushing career came at a great cost. His actions are unacceptable.
Don't be an embarrassed on behalf of SA men. This is a global problem,men in our race have a tendency of abandoning kids. I'm based in the USA and i see it all the time.Dont
Ok let me say facts. I’m South African and so is Doja’s dad. Ever since early early 2000 Doja’s father Dumisani has always been talking about his children and ex wife which is Doja’s mother. Wooopi said he is a great man because he really is. He stated over and over again that Doja’s grandfather didn’t accept Doja’s dad because he was a really poor African. Her grandfather made sure of the breakup after that had Doja. So it always broke his heart. People must stop assuming things and just do research really. Doja knows this or maybe her mother just won’t tell her the truth. He spoke this waaay back befor her fame... she was probably a toddler then.
@@zillowhomes4230 Yeah but she tried to reach him in her teenage years . Plus he writes under her post he could of told her to come visist him. He is making excuses its so sad cause you can see the hurt when she talked to Whoopi
I don't know the whole situation so I'm not gonna sit here and judge but I agree she's hurting by not having a relationship with him. She said it like it's no big deal but it is.
Exactly no excuses spending time and showing love for your children is priceless and I bet her brother feels that way. Fathers don't realize that kids only want time and love from there dad. He full of bull ish period. A deadbeat with excuses and he don't see he was wrong at all. How you gonna be here now once she is an adult and blowing up in the music world smdh at him🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
mkterrhaun: EXACTLY! You hit the nail on the head with my favorite fact; “People make time for what they WANT, to make time for...” and that’s that on that.
I'm south African and I can tell you at some point he was the biggest star here, so big he will always be in demand,he doesn't have to do shit.so yeah,he probably has a massive ego.
I am from west Africa. What are you saying. Disappointment????? No the father is not. Rather it's her white mother a disappointment. That Becky American didn't raise her right to see her African father. Instead she probably talk bad of him to Doja.
bobby ben what you’re spewing is pure conjecture 🤦🏽♀️ did you not hear Dumisani articulating that it’s Doja’s MANAGEMENT that’s been keeping him from reconciling with her?! WHERE on earth did he mention Doja’s mother at all?! Because he’s lying, he knows very well he’s to blame for not being present in her life (hence the blameshifting).. Learn to process information before responding 🙄
Whoopie there telling her that her father is a good man when he wasnt even a good dad. Doja should go meet him now, they have the money to travel & see each other. Doja is gorgeous & talented, he should be proud.
WHY YALL CONCERN WHY HE IS A DEADBEAT, SO MANY BLACK MEN ARE DEADBEAT BUT BECAUSE SHE IS MIX AND FAMOUS, YALL PLAYING FUCKING PITY PARTY YALL SUPPORT FUTURE AND SO MANY RAPPERS , THEN GO TO HIS CONCERTS AND HE AINT TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS YALL SHUT THE FUCK UP
applecandy folks bruh calm down ppl say this about slot of ppl. Part of her being famous is the whole reason they’re telling her to run cause he tryna come into her life now
applecandy folks wtf are you talking about? He is a deadbeat. PERIOD. He has yet to give a legitimate reason why he has never tried to meet his daughter & now he wants her to meet her brothers and sisters something that he’s never tried to arrange before. He keeps mentioning she’s a superstar. Why would that matter when he doesn’t even know her?
why is it “obvious” that she wants to meet him? she’s over it and explains that she wanted to see him when she was in her early teens. she doesn’t want to sound cold by saying that she no longer wants to see him.
FleurChantes PrettySoliel I think she already has that’s why she doesn’t even care to meet the man. She see the bs for what it is. He is a deadbeat point blank. How you go to your home country become a star and not reach back and love on your children that you created. All I heard was excuses. 🤦🏽♀️
Even though she's jaded about the situation I think she still has a small desire to see him. But his intentions are so sketchy that she might not even want to see him at this point. I feel bad for Doja
@@Empressive damn! Thats so sad. My dad dropped me when I didnt fit in the plan. But once I finish up my studies and graduate, hell be back to say if he never wouldve ignored me I wouldnt be successful. So i think your right, its seems more business than love
I think it's obvious because she's all over social media and national TV bringing him up, claiming him as her father. You could see the hurt on her face as she talked about him with Whoopi. He's her father so she's always going to feel void left by his absence.
The way she delivers especially when she raps is similar to Nicki plus her mannerisms tend to be like Nicki's it's not just the Just the Wigs and shit.
Trueeeee I'm not even a huge Doja cat fan but I don't see the comparison. Yes she wears colorful wigs but so does everybody else on Instagram. Doja gives me entirely different vibes she's not trying to be this faux gangster girl like Nicki
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I'm not trying to start anything but if you check her music especially her second album hot pink in some songs the way she delivers her bars plus her flow is very reminiscent of Nicki plus Zandile's Versatility is Similar to Tanya's Versatility, image wise err'body dresses like that but musically it's another story yes Doja has her own style but the way she does it, can easily remind you of Nicki.
She literally does not bother anyone. She's a goofball and she's just having fun. Edit: I don't see no comparison. Nicki and Doja are two different artist like what ? If you hear Doja's old songs, Yoooo they sound nothing like Nicki, NOTHING. The rap style is totally different.
@@PennyMsElitemm yeeah but c'mon.. music videos don't make the music. I get it but we should pay more attention to lyrics, the vibe, the flow in the music. Not just a stupid music video, no offense lol I love their music videos, but their just for visual standpoint. Not into it, their music is what makes them, THEM. Their talented af and I love them DEEPLY. I just think the fans need to chill
Elizabeth Rodriguez I will say Doja definitely has music that is inspired by Nicki. Especially songs like cyber sex, rules and a bit of say so. That’s not a bad thing tho cause she admits to getting inspiration from nicki, some barbz just take it too far.
Exactly. You can’t compare someone who has just got into the industry to someone who has been leading the pack for 10+ years. They’re both great at what they do.
@@hollywood3848 girl no, don't make assumptions. I know Nicki to the core. When I wasnt bumping Doja, I'm bumping Nicki. That's THATTTTT. But obviously you not a Doja fan either to KNOW the style is different. Cause girl..it's different, trust me.
Doja dad is a dead beat father. He choose his career over his children ,no sugar coating the BS . He wants to be in the lime light with Doja. Doja run away from this man like he ran from you seek therapy for the pain this has caused you not his approval. OOh and he never mention his son Doja brother.
I'm still confused how neither of them have visited each other. Especially for his part! Like this man couldn't hop on a plane and visit his various illegitimates??
I don’t think she’s copying her. But I do think she’s following in her footsteps. The way Nicki Minaj used to still give you bars wow singing on a pop songs. Cyber sex was a tribute to Nicki Minaj. She’s not copying her, she’s inspired by her and those are two completely different things. It’s not a rate considering that Nicki Minaj is her number one idol. And what’s that both of them apart from other rappers is they can both sing and rap over pop records and any other musical genre. The barbs need to just stop blowing something out of proportion.
It's never us the adult Barbz, its unfortunately the young bored ones and a few gay European stans, they worship chaos. Remember at Nickis shows in europe when things were going bad, they'd start chanting cardi..
I literally got exhausted from listening to Dumisani’s Metro FM interview...he’s such a lier and a sneaky person, I’m so embarrassed that he is South African, we don’t ack like this. I’ve always been a fan of his work but now I’m so disappointed in him.
Sounds like her dad is only interested in exploiting Doja's fame. He keeps saying she "needs to come home" ...like the only connection to South Africa is him. Other than that he seems like an opportunist. 🤔
@@SlondileZitha no girl you know how black fathers can be in SA. If he wanted to meet her he could have done so anytime he has the money but he didn't. If she wasn't famous I dont think he'd be trying.
@@UnicornBeeches don't generalise black fathers because I have an amazing father who has been there for me and my siblings since day 1. Don't project your experience to me girl😳😳😳... You can't generalise when it suits you okay. I'm sure you hate it when people say all black women are ugly or have HIV.
My father was in my life until his last breath. I have a strong disdain for dead beat fathers. They dont realize how powerful their presence is (good or bad) and how they can affect a child's life. "I've been trying to find her" shut cho ass up! Clout chasing at its finest. Doja is a public figure which makes her extremely accessible. Theres always someone who knows someone who can reach said person. Excuses.
so he basically just drops his seeds everywhere. sir, if you REALLY wanna see your KIDS, doja & the brother that I haven't heard you talk about, you will make a way just like you made a way to go back to South Africa to act. he's a deadbeat. full of excuses.
Claudine 27 Girl please!!!!!!!!! These men lie like a MF. U can’t tell me tht man didn’t sell doja mom a dream. Shit she had two kids by him so it wasn’t a hit and run obviously. The nigga lied!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Her dad is a waste of space who is only interested in her now because she is famous!! She seems like a lovely lady. Hope she has nothing to do with him.
Based on his attitude, I don't think he is still interested in her despite the fame cos she is willing to connect but he is still giving excuses till date. He is just an unrepentant deadbeat.
Mpendulo Hlatshwayo its been 20 something yrs and she never met him and he has money there is no excuse to why they never met and doja older sibling is his child too but he only mentioning the famous one
Mpendulo Hlatshwayo My father is in my life. A proud Girl Dad🤪. So don’t be hypocritical assuming stuff about other people’s lives. An absent father is a disgrace. Whatever you say won’t change that 😂😌. Worry about your life or this video but not ours luv😘.
Nova Xo Ok let me say facts. I’m South African and so is Doja’s dad. Ever since early early 2000 Doja’s father Dumisani has always been talking about his children and ex wife which is Doja’s mother. Wooopi said he is a great man because he really is. He stated over and over again that Doja’s grandfather didn’t accept Doja’s dad because he was a really poor African. Her grandfather made sure of the breakup after that had Doja. So it always broke his heart. People must stop assuming things and just do research really. Doja knows this or maybe her mother just won’t tell her the truth. He spoke this waaay back befor her fame... she was probably a toddler then.
So let me get this straight, Doja Cat's father abandoned his partner and children because he was "homesick"? OK, fine. He has had fame and resources for her whole life, which meant he could have visited the US or even better, let her meet him in SA, and he's now talking about how he can help her collaborate with artists?! This guy is a whole clown. He is only interested in her now that she is famous. I bet that if she was quietly successful in any other industry, he wouldn't be commenting on her social media or wanting to meet her now. If she forgives him, she better never forget, because given a chance he will break her heart all over again. I wish Doja Cat every success in her career, but if for whatever reason it doesn't progress as she wants it to, I think her father is highly unlikely to be so keen to be in her life.
Not talking to your kids has no excuse.... personally I find it awkward.. this is why we have so many baby mamas too many baby daddies but less families... shame on him
5,ooo LightYears Away right when usually they are usually the main ones tryna get the dad to be involved, no one wants to spend 18 years tryna convince a dad to be a dad to their kids. They should know to contact they kids. The mom and child shouldn’t always be held responsible for whether they hear from they father or not smh especially the kid that baby ain’t ask to be here
Exactly! It’s always the woman Who has to stop her life and be responsible for the kid when it should be both. Im convinced that men and women don’t love the same. They will always choose themselves over their families.
Woopie didnt look awkward, she looked shocked and like she knew something deeper and bigger about him than doja is maybe did... it looked emotional for them both
You should Google and even watch that movie Sarafina to understand that!!! One of the most fundamental movie on the continent. A historical masterpiece that depicts apartheid! Watch it
Soooo... it’s everyone and everything else’s fault he couldn’t reach out to his daughter to at least take her to get a scoop of ice cream for 24 years? Stop. 😒
I’m South African & people here have been dragging Doja’s dad for his deadbeat tendencies. He was on a local radio station a few days ago addressing it. He’s pathetic for being absent in his child’s life like this, esp cos he’s always been in the entertainment industrt & could definitely afford to even go see her.
WHY YALL CONCERN WHY HE IS A DEADBEAT, SO MANY BLACK MEN ARE DEADBEAT BUT BECAUSE SHE IS MIX AND FAMOUS, YALL PLAYING FUCKING PITY PARTY YALL SUPPORT FUTURE AND SO MANY RAPPERS , THEN GO TO HIS CONCERTS AND HE AINT TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS YALL SHUT THE FUCK UP
@@applecandyfolks7979 Dang people can't be concerned for multiple people at the same time? Didn't know we should have a limit to who we feel empathy for
applecandy folks the funniest part about this is it’s you that supports deadbeats but your projecting on everyone else that they support deadbeats, futures gotten plenty of backlash for being a piece of shit parent, but have fun your delusions
In Whoopi's defense on her saying that Doja's dad is "a good man," it was probably a bit uncomfortable for her to hear Doja say she had never met her father. Whoopi was probably caught way off guard and didn't know what to say nor wanted to say the wrong thing. Something like that would catch me off guard too. There is no doubt the man is an absolute poor excuse for a father. I do admire the fact that Doja doesn't seem bitter or as though she's holding a grudge.
I wondered if maybe Whoopi assumed he passed because Doja said “I never got to meet him”. It sounded as if she’ll never get the chance. But maybe she was trying to be nice calling him a good man cause she thought he might’ve died 😩🥴
AnonymouslyRich too proud is giving him more credit than he's worth. Based on him never attempting to contact them it seems more like he just didn't care. For him to be too proud means there was something he was refusing to bow down to
Deadbeat Dad: “You’re my african princess”
Doja: WHEEEEET?! 👀
LMAO love her
Binima frfr😂🤣💀
Dead 💀
@Ricardo Cadet the f*** are you talking about? she has no knowledge of self because her deadbeat black daddy soft staying as being more important than sticking around and being involved in his children's life. Funny how your PATHETIC ASS won't mention that though
@Ricardo Cadet left behind? He left when her and her sibiling were children, plz have a tall glass of stfu
@Ricardo Cadet she's not even African she's African and white no wonder she said what
Doja just be minding her business she’s in her own lane
Sharon Murray period
Facts!!! Just bcuz she's in her own limelight, people Gon always throw shade, believe me, there always Gon be HATERS!!!!
She really is! I love her.
Her own lane? Her whole style is a copy of the Queen 🦄
Reta More I swear as As one “barb” says something y’all run with the same opinion 😂 no identity
Dead Beat fathers always want to come around when the child is doing good/successful.
Or whenever they start to feel regretful for whatever reason.
I agree.
It’s really sad people wanna be an dead beat!The. They come around when they want too and they haven’t been in there life for years and years
He doesn't even want to come around he's had many opportunities and shut them all down he doesn't want to come around
Preach
They call every black colorful female music artist a nicki wannabe .. Not everyone tryna be her
Forget that Kim did it first and nicki was a Kim wannabe
INANEGHOST go listen to her songs I love Doja but she definitely sounds like Nicki on many songs
It’s the Tyra and Naomi situation all over again. Putting to women against each other when there is plenty room for both in the music industry.
VictoriaWasHere :) Doja definitely sounds like different ppl in the industry... you can tell that she’s Nicki and Rihanna inspired.. nothing wrong with that
@Magnolia Lady You must be really ignorant about real hip hop era and female rapper culture. Kim and Missy are extravagant but so different in terms of lyrics, beats, flow, and STYLE. And they were and still friends and music collab. Real fans of hip hop and urban genre knows that Nicki stole everything from Kim for the young pop folks who are totally ignorant about hip hop…
Her Dad is blaming their estranged relationship on everyone but himself. IM SICKKKKKK
This guy had 24 years to form a relationship
🗑️
Honey that’s how most men are, especially niggas
callmechi_chi right!!! He’s a bum!
Exactly you had plenty of time to get to know her before all this fame, when he was the famous one.
@Ricardo Cadet it's always deadbeats who try to stand up for deadbeat stop telling on yourself we can tell you're a piece of s***
Dead beat “parents” who only want to see/talk about their “kids” after their “kids” have become wealthy/famous are truly the worst.
Yea he should of done this very privately and bond like that.
Criss O yes, so true! Took the words right after my mouth.
macewbee yes, so true!
He himself is wealthy and famous
It's disgusting
Nicki Minaj actually blocked some barbs that we’re talking about doja .
Edit :Thanks for the likes🥺
I feel like Nicki is about to take Doja as her baby like wayne did with her
TrappBarbie As she should. Some of them are too messy and start beef for no reason. Smh
@Emerald Beauty i mean shes doing it megan
TrappBarbie those fans are losers. They live vicariously through an artist they never met in their lives. Beyoncé stans are the worst
jay dot don’t down talk them that’s only some and tbh they had a fair reason the just chose the wrong approach and assumed .
i don’t see why fans always try to make drama out of female rappers.
EveryCompilation they are messy and childish. But, there’s no Rap Competition for any Female rapper just Know that all of them are talented to me end of it. Don’t put a female against each other!!! Cause it’s dumb as heck💯
Idk for drama
EveryCompilation fr, like two male rappers could get into a physical fight, barely anyone would care, but doja says something that sounds slightly rude to Nicki (Even though doja wasnt even talking about her) they create a whole dang tag
WaywardHorses 220 Yea, lets not act like Katy perry vs Taylor swift wasnt a thing
Cause it’s a stereotype that women are problematic and messy but no one comes for the male artists arguing on live 😭😭😭
The father keeps mentioning she's a superstar. It seems like he's more interested in her fame than her.
You peep that too. That’s why God is closer to the heart of woman. Idk how the hell a man could create a helpless baby and disappear with no remorse 💯
@@stormvtenchai exactly living life like her or her brother don't exist smh. He aint no good making excuses instead of accepting what he did.
Sincerely Ty Taylor He is so ready to show her off. As a South African I really empathize with Doja cat. Hopefully this situation with her dad is dealt with in private cause it's getting sadder with each interview he’s in.
That's the clue
lol the nigga said “ii’m a superstar too”
🤦🏽♀️😩😂🤣 that niggas a bottle head.
As a Barb I don’t see what Doja did wrong some people in the fandom just always been hating doja
Kat Derre some barbz just don’t have much to do really I was one but no more instead of streaming Nicki’s music and getting anaconda to 1b thy out here dragging I motioned that on Instagram and the tried to drag me💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
I certainly did but I saw her give Nicki her dues and I listened to her album. V good btw
Kat Derre she didn’t have to take sides. Why did she have to jump in and call that fan of hers even though it was a barb a scum
I'm a barb and I think other barbs dont want any woman in hip hop to 'replace' nicki
-KEO- 🤦🏽♀️ that’s not really it and think most of them are miserable and they enjoying dragging people Like seriously if thy drag someone who hates or drags Nicki I would understand but doja is always showing love to Nicki so y drag her if someone wanted to see doja in the middle that’s their personal view y can’t people speak freely seriously barbz made me hate barbz and now I still like Nicki but not like before
They’ve been trying to cancel Doja but this gal is so likeable. She’s living her best life and we love her for it. She’s not going anywhere
Okay but why have you been trying to cancel her though? Curious to know..
@@merci-jardine6728 the person didn't say that they were doing it🙄
Not all of us I love Doja
@@freepalestine1764 right🤦 my bad.
I haven’t heard of anyone trying to “cancel” her until this report. Every person on earth has people who like them and people who do not, celebrities are no different. I do notice of late she does remind me of Nicki a lot. I have been a supporter for years I could always see that influence, but she was clearly her own artist, until lately. Then it came to light that she hired some traitors that were former integral members of Nicki’s team. It may seem like a strategic move to some people. She is a fan, and I think it may be the team members that have shady motives, and not necessarily Doja Cat.
Rihanna's dad. Meghan Markle's dad. Doja's dad. Smh.
They ain’t shit🤦🏾♀️
Nah Meghan markle's dad is a whole other beast. that one you need to throw the fuck out real quick. Meghan is way better off without him. Doja's father just moved to the other side of the world. went back home. huge difference
@@Jessicaro are you trying to make excuses for doja's d3adb3at dad? lol meghan's dad is sсum indeed, ironically he was part of her life till a point and helped financially raise her till a point, doja's dad didn't even try everything else is excuses. btw i'm not trying to say meghan's dad is a better father, cuz he isn't but i'm definitely saying they are on the same level cuz they are
@@Jessicaro "just moved to the other side of the world" girl what???? He abandoned a whole ass family. He's a successful actor but couldn't take the time to buy a plane ticket to visit. Not one time in 24 years did he even try to speak to her. Even when she tried to contact him he did basically nothing. Now she's famous he's going around in the press flexing his "daughter" and STILL hasn't actually tried to speak to her directly. Girl where is your logic that he "just moved" like it ain't nothing. Throw him the fuck out too. All these women better off without their deadbeat dads.
@@crown5303 i'm not trying to make an excuse but at least he just left and stayed away. some men are better of not being in a child's life. it better then promising shit they will never uphold. and having the mother to explain every time he doesn't come to the kids why not.
Sorry i much have a man who is upfront with it and just leaves then a man who is in and out of the life of a child.
Besides they had contact doja said it herself.
They just never see eachother
This is stupid like Doja is so unbothered and only wants peace
tatianna brooks so does nicki I can’t believe all these ppl got so worked up when nicki and Doja are fine with each other , I’m a barb I guess but I like doja I think they are different and both good
Nikki fans be delusional
@@astheyoutubestreetsturnrel3166 ong
tatianna brooks Ik, people pushing so hard for another Nicki vs cardi type beef.
exactlyyyyyyy
Nicki unfollowed the fan that started the crap.
Good
I love Nicky for that
Wow, she’s growing up. I wish she would stop throwing up gang signs at 37 years old, though
@@tyresemontell2882 bm do it
Princess Yonna ♡ because they’ve been in gangs since they were teens. They don’t know any better. Nicki shouldn’t start doing that her big age. Gang members kill innocent people and raps young women.
I can't count how many times fandoms have ruined artists for other people 🙄
REVY fandom has NEVER ruined a artist
Aphroditeyoung they do kinda, they make people who actually want to enjoy the artists music run away because they don’t want to be associated with a toxic fandom
Ok I love Jhene Aiko but I swear most of the girls that are fans of her are problematic. In my personal life all of the girls I know who ride for her hit niggas 😂😂😂
Also realize that these bloggers use the fans for headlines, and the artists use the fans for their selfish purposes but may not truly even be a fan of the respective artists. Anyone who seems to like Nicki or side with her on a particular issue, is automatically labeled a barb. One or two fans may drag an artist, and it’s reported that “the barbs” did it. For a while the bee hive was blamed for everything but global warming, nowadays it’s “the bárbs”. Sometimes the fans may act out, but the artist is not. the blame for all they do.
its mind baffling how nicki fans think doja copying nicki lol
doja is actually actually talented.
Dumisane is proud of his daughter , typical zulu dad problem is hes flexing about a child he never raised
Aaaaand wabheda
Lots of black fathers who never acknowledged their children do that. It's messed up
He isn't her dad in the slightest so he can't have typical Zulu dad behavior
@@Junglequeen-pw4ob You're very right about that. Sadly, seems like a global black male issue 🙃
Smh... that’s hella sad. He should be ashamed and embarrassed.
She literally didn’t say anything wrong .🙄I’m a barb and Doja doesn’t bother me whatsoever lol some ppl just do too much.
Thank you! All Doja did was stand up for one of her fans, she didnt disrespect Nicki or talk about her. She didnt even agree she should've been in the middle she was just telling her fan not to let the people coming at him bother him. Some of these hardcore fans really need to stop acting like these celebrities are cutting them a check. Im sure Nicki wont be Cash-apping any of those people that attacked him.
Right... Honestly I believe she speaking of people in general
@French Vanilla nicki isn't doing anything to doja, Nicki has nothing to do with this situation. It's the barbz that blew up something that wasn't a big deal lol.
M Lane she is she played her song on her radio :)
@French Vanilla shes not it's her barbs. It scares me that I know for a fact theyd kill for Nicki
Dumisani is a South African man he left her mother and doja at a young age now that doja cat is famous he wanna come back in her life boy bye!
Hayke uDumisani akayo boy kuwe, sbhanxa
I think something Similar happened with Shaq, n!ggas wasn't nowhere around around when these celebs were children now theyve become successful they Daddy wanna slide back into the picture frame & play Father -____-
If she is open to him restoring her relationship with her father then u should back off.
@@rethy__ batshele👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Are u a South African?
This man is lying, he has money if he really wanted to meet her, he would have flown to America to see her. He wants her to go to south Africa to use her to make money, I hope she doesn't fall for it and get hurt
Esther- Oo lol he doesn’t have enough money for flights to the US ,ill tell u that for sure 💀South African actors dont make much . But he still could have tried harder to see her . Agreed
@@SenamieyNgubeni please not because he is from south Africa that dont make him poor,he probably just dont what to meet or to busy
Sister tea Spill nobody said he was poor ... i said he doesn’t make much.. and ddnt u read the part where i said he still is accountable for not trying to see her .
Sister tea Spill deffo manz is not that busy ... his role in Isibaya isn’t even that prominent
@@SenamieyNgubeni he could have afforded it...... This man has beeeeeen in the game
It was a blessing in disguise that he left them. He doesn't sound like a man capable of raising kids.
Based on what?? ...lol
Judith Jackson are you kidding?? Maybe for abandoning his children for 24 + years???
He ain't raising the ones he has here in Mzansi.
Screw him it’s his loss and doja is doing something good now VMA host 2021!!!
I do not like him. He is lying! OWN UP TO IT YOU LEFT YOUR WIFE AND KIDS!
Why didn't the family go with him, Africa is not good enough for them?
@@LadyDiuto Way to spin the negative narrative onto the mother & kids instead of on the father who chose to leave them.
You ever meet someone who has a real dead beat dad? They never own up this is them. I dont even like how empressive said he fell in love with doja’s mother, dude left a woman with his two kids thats not love
I agree. Dead best dads act like it's not their responsibility to have a good relationship with their kids. You want her to come to Africa so bad. Buy a plane ticket lol
I think Doja’s mom was his American fling and he went back to Africa to his real family.
A good man would never abandon his kids
I couldn't have said it any better
facts
Facts!!!!! Growing up i never understood how blessed I was to have my dad raising me daily. I use to be ashamed of my dad because the kids use to say he walked like ET because he was pigeon toed. But non of them had a dad. I realize that now. RIP Daddy.😞
solodolo.e if a dad is a shitty person, sometimes it’s best if they never come around.
Period
The Nicki influence in Doja’s style is undeniable but she admitted herself by calling Nicki one her greatest inspirations so I respect her for that.
Marhaba Mango right! It reminds me of the time Cardi called Nicki a legend and everyone seem to forget that.
@@everythingislove5806 Don't try to say that Cardi was genuine because we both know she was just showing fake love, me personally liked Cardi I used to comment on her post things like "I LOVE YOU!! HOPE YOU GET IT" until I realized that she was liking shady post and comments about Nicki since she got her #1 trying to start some messy shit to get more relevant and be fighting like a RAT becase we all know she was THIRSTY to fight Nicki to follow the Nicki hate train and get people attention, specially nicki's hater so stop..
Jairo Zolanski she never liked any tweets about Nicki. That was her horrible fans making fake ss to start drama
@@jairozolanski5723 I remember when we were accusing Nicki of showing fake love to Kim...and every Nicki fan acted like fake love wasn't a real thing that existed. They were obtuse, dismissive and gaslighting like they couldn't wrap their minds around the concept of fake love. So it's funny now when I see Nicki fans now ALL OF A SUDDEN ABLE TO UNDERSTAND FAKE LOVE & WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GENUINE....now when they're accusing CARDI B of it, b/c it benefits Nicki! The hypocrisy, man! LMFAO
@@ddacoe0 Wrong. She supported Kim & all the other old heads as her inspirations as they paid her dust. Kim got mad at Slim & Baby, but took her anger out on Nicki. Then Nicki came at her neck. Nicki gave Cardi a chance to work with her (something the older heads couldn't even do) & Cardi ruined that because she dumb & couldn't figure out that the verse wasn't a diss. Nicki still has genuine love for her older heads, Cardi doesn't even show them love anymore. That lets you know it was fake.
& he’s saying she needs to “come home”, she’s already at home here in the U.S.
He's an idiot.
@@OsatoHertytude um, what happened to respecting our elders? at the end of the day, calling him an idiot is a bit harsh. you wouldn't like it if someone called your dad an idiot..
lol
@@Shadow11237 why are you acting as if it's your father, at the end of the day it's Doja's father and she decides if she wants him in his life. Not you. So actually fuck you.
@@sxlted_caramel4338 Eh the respecting elders thing... Honestly, respect needs to be earned. You can't automatically get it because you're an elder. That's why so many boomers these days are assholes (not all) because there's this of "respect your elders". Now, I'm not saying it's okay to disrespect your elders, but respect should be earned. At least that's how I feel... (Lol don't come for me I'm not tryna be mean or anything😂)
Doja dad is worthless...he wants a business relationship with his daughter. Not a paternal one. She needs to watch out for him.
@Brainjock
Daddy issues that f*cking deadbeat males create.
nah vro, disrespect her dad like that, if it wasnt for him, she wouldn't be here
@@00II0 don't matter vro,let that shit go,you never know when yo parents are gonna die, you can't be holding grudges
Brainjock that y’all men create
Brainjock shut the hell up and go sit in the corner with your dunce cap on! ....FACE THE DAMN WALL TOOOO and DONT EVEN LOOK AT ME!!
STAY OUTTA GROWN FOLKS, BLACK FOLKS AND WOMEN BUSINESS 🙄🙄
He is delusional. It's not her team keeping her from seeing him, it's his actions. Doja is a whole 25 years old and he has not met her once. He was not in prison, there is no excuses. It is the responsibility of the PARENT to raise and nurture their relationship with their child. And in that interview she does not seem all that interested in seeing him now. He is a clout chaser and a bad father.
olivia martinez Doja is 22 going on 23 next month
@@noymc6614 Actually she's 24 going on 25. Her birthday is Oct. 21 1995. It got it a year off.
Even in my opinion jail is not an excuse. What stopped this "donor" from being not only a father but a "Grown Man". 🤷🏽
Sorry but shes 24
@@noymc6614 WRONG
How old is Doja? Nobody is that damn busy that they've never met their grown child.
Yea he’s trash
Nikita Watkins okay good for you
They're not gonna meet for a long time. Her PR Team is gonna run this story for as long as Doja can get mass attention for it. It'll be while.
Exactly 💯💯
@@Similo i mean at this point it does seem fake. Now that she's blowing up she's your African princess? But where were you when she was growing up to teach her South African values and culture?
I don’t believe him, a true father would do anything to be in their child’s life despite the circumstances. He has money so what’s the problem ??? He’s not ready for all that even in his old age. He will regret it and I feel sad for her too it’s just a sad situation
island _Empire17 I wouldn’t say he has money he’s from a poor economy
@@bhaddbhussy9595 so being from a poor economy means you don't have money😂😂 there are plenty of SAns who have more money than you can dream of.
Philli _02 what are Sans?
@@bhaddbhussy9595 no his not poor tho his an actor from a popular series called Isibaya I'm from South Africa and his not from a poor economy 😐😑
he def has money lol
As a South African woman, I'll be honest. A LOT of South African men who got to travel the world have kids in other countries that they either haven't met or neglected and never supported. Even right here at home, we have a lot of men who leave their girlfriends pregnant and alone, never meeting their kids or leaving when they're young. Dumisani Dlamini is not the only one and his excuses are just so pathetic. Seems to me like he wanted to make it big in America and bag a white woman and then when nothing worked out, he ran back home where he knew he would find work for sure. It's his country and he's talented. How do you try to bring your family here but then you don't make efforts to see your kids ever again? The man is not broke. We all know him. He's actually a legend here. There are popular actors here married to each other and they have time for their kids. He's a liar.
Zahra Ismail exactly you said it correct
Say that! He keeps calling Doja Cat "South African". She was raised with barely any SA influences. He is thirsty.
African RumPunch also he keeps saying that he’s going to get her to come here and do shows and connect with local artists. He clearly just wants to use her. The radio hosts keep asking about him having a relationship with her as mending their relationship and all he’s on about is her doing shows. That’s really fucked up.
RIGHT
Zahra Ismail well said!!
He sounds like he wants to be her manager more than her father 🙄🤦🏽
Don't Be A Hypocrite 😂
Meme Kirilov he’s not a father if he hasn’t even met his own child
Doja cat should take notes from Beyoncé x Matthew Knowles(Beyoncé’s father..) yikes.
The guy is not even in the USA, he is South African. That is why he has never met her, not fair to call him estranged no? 🇿🇦
@@Deanydeanful yeah Matthew Knowles made her a star
I’m a barb and I love Doja cat. These other barbs are being so annoying
You should check them 🤔
They wasn't. She is getting a little bit too high in fame to care about what stans are fighting about. This is what gets Cardi Dragged she shouldn't go down that path.
@@raevalentini How is having pride in your work wrong. She's been grinding forever. She's not like cardi who doesn't even write her songs. She deserves her fame.
Im a huge barb too and I didn’t take Doja’s comment the wrong way. I knew she is a huge fan of Nicki and she even mentioned she had been a fan for 10years and a lot of her influence comes from her, so I know that comment wouldn’t be towards the barbs..... people just take shit the wrong way and want to cause drama 🙄🙄
Somehow the toxic 2% of the barbz population always seem to overshadow us and make us look bad and I'm sick of it 🤦🏾♀️
He really tried to blame his irresponsibility on Americans who he believes are trying to create a story and tarnish his nonexistent relationship with Doja Cat. Just sad.
Moe Allure he’s sick 🤣 really infuriating
Whatta douche 😂
I’m sorry I’m South African but this man doesn’t sound like he cares about anything other than her fame.
OR MAYBE HE DIDNT WANT A WHITE LOOKING CHILD KNOWING THE HISTORY OF SOUTH AFRICA.
Lechabile Motjamela based on his interviews he sounds like he doesn’t care about her. Which is sad coz most South African men are like that he probably has his own family and she really wants to meet him but he doesn’t seem to be interesting just contradicting himself on the radio
Uyasihlaza moss
Period and how stupid must yiu be to just leave your family and never come back
@@applecandyfolks7979??? That made no sense. If he didn't want that he shouldn't have slept with a white woman.
I honestly don't see the comparisons. When I listen to Nicki I only hear Nicki. when I listen to Doja I only hear Doja.
Exactly. I love their uniqueness and love both of their music.
Yeah they are completely different but I love them both
Rite
La'Shay Rushh what? Their music is literally the same.
@@Em-bi5jk your opinion
Stop blaming Americans for being an absent father😓 I’m South African by the way and this man is just making excuses for not seeing his daughter💔
Chester kanti why vele 😕
What is the mother didn't want... No father wouldn't want to see his daughter...stop judging crocodile without knowing full story
Stop defending him without knowing the story.
@@sirtoombingo7531 Stfu
@sethusirtoo
There are plenty of fathers who disappear from their kids lives only to reappear when they have money.
I'm South African... And this man is just disappointing honestly. Now all of a sudden, just because she's famous, he sees the need for her to come meet her ancestors. He was a terrible father who abandoned his family like many South African men did back then when they moved around for work. He must just own up to it and stop trying to save face. He fucked up.
I'm also South African and I think we are used to these kind of fathers
I’m South African too, I can attest to that as well sadly.
how are ya'll doing with the corona virus?
@@milo_phd2437 we're surviving, it's spreading but people are also recovering. I hope we all can find a vaccine or a way to move forward as the world and recover from this.
Well I hope everyone gets better 🙏
That’s really upsetting, about her dad. He never flew his kids out!? Whoopi said he’s a good man and he may be decent but can you really be a good man and never meet your kids? They’re adults now.
To answer your question. No. You cannot
Keisha Charmaine no u can not
No the two do not go together. A Father that neglects his children is not a father at all!
I love that you’re all answering my rhetorical question lol but right, he’s not.
shock toast nah you stfu
The absentee fathers ALWAYS seem to "have time" to make these babies but no time to take care of them. 😑😒
That's right
Exactly
Facts 👍
And women ALWAYS seem to have time to make babies with these types of men.
@@Laoriginal718 A lot of these guys know how to literally charm the pants off a female.
Shout out to the female South African journalist asking the REAL question On everyone’s mind!💯🤦🏾♀️
Lëa Allen Her name is Pearl Shongwe, she's an amazing girl and a great journalist 💜
I clapped when she asked that question.
Yup!
Like imagine never meeting your dad, and then only coming to meet you because you’re more famous then him... and he wants to ride your coat tail. Smh. Sad, and another heartache for his child.
@@ThokoTwala why did I think it was Pearl Thusi😂??
Why is he only speaking on Doja and not his son and her brother.. I know the interview is about her cause she’s the famous one but he should’ve said “I need both of my children to come back with me to the motherland and connect with their ancestors” and not just Amala.
My thoughts exactly. He's fake asf
Maybe He sees amala needs to reconnect and find her roots, maybe her brother is already in tuned
@@ashaaaaaanti Doubt that,she would have said so
@@lifewithceecee9035 he just wants clout from her so sad
Because he doesn’t actually care! If he did he would have seen his family a long time ago.
Deadbeat dads are so annoying🙄 keep the same energy when you left to now
Wandee if he would’ve put in the same energy with his kids he did with his own career he could’ve done so. He acting like he’s been looking for her, LIES ! He can simply message her directly or contact her mom.
Always want to come back when the child is doing better
That part💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It breaks my heart seeing stuff like this continue. 💔
Doja literally said in her song “I just like to call him daddy/cos the first one had up and left” he’s deadbeat
I sang this part while reading this
lol! which song is this?
@@rtmusicvideos431 addiction - Doja Cat
@@itsmeharperjacksons6633 oh man I love that song can't believe I didn't notice that lyric lol
These “over parties” on twitter are so stupid there’s a new one every week...
stan twitter even started the hashtage #shawnmendesisoverparty just to share their fancams for views, shawn didn't do anything 🤦🏿 edit: lemme rephase, lol, he hadn't done anything RECENTLY, my bad, yall
Monova 😂😂😂 poor Shawn. These over parties are just an excuse for people to be assholes online
Monova Shawn Mendes has been racist🤷🏽♀️ Wouldn’t care if his career ended
@@monovatherealestRacist Shawn Mendez and his racist broad Camilla deserved all the hate. They're both trash.
Ash A *right...🙄.*
Dumisani is making no sense! He's Such a disappointment to fatherhood, shame!
He's just talking trash.
Gosh uyasihlaza
In her song Addicted she says “I’ve got such a pretty body, it’s prettier when I’m a mess. And I just like to call him daddy, CUZ THE FIRST ONE UP AND LEFT” 🥺 shit hit home but this video made me hurt
lol yeah fathers like that should be ashamed of themselves. Too many men take no responsibility for their own children, and the people around these "fathers" enable them to feel as though they did nothing wrong.
@@nonya8193 hahah sometimes I think that might be for the best too
Nonya lol although I agree that men and “fathers” should MOST DEFINITELY be ashamed of themselves and should be put in their place in someway shape or form. In my opinion, I think what you said/suggested about how their should be a law to have men (dead beat fathers particularly) castrated is a bit much....😂 that’s a little too over dramatic don’t ya think?? 😅🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@@hannahalexis9233 at the very least, these people need to use freaking condoms or get vasectomies if they conceive children that they refuse to care for.
C S preach
Why is he talking about Doja cat only and not talking about the other sibling. He has two kids with Doja's mom... deadbeat dad
norma kay because doja brought him up duh. He addresses her because she brought him up first. I’m not defending him but he has mentioned his other child. Just because he doesn’t say their name doesn’t make them less important doja is just famous and a household name
He is looking for clout.
Kamryn No. He’s just talking about the sibling with money. *Stupid ass.*
If you wouldn’t have said it, I would’ve never known. Sad.
Erm because he was constantly being asked about HER
Every 10yrs or so, A female rapper comes out with colored hair and is accused of being like another female rapper. Nothing's new, fans need to clam down🤦🏾♀️
Alia exactly like the only similarities is the colorful hair and dassit. Can’t even wear a pink wig without being accused of copying Nicki. Nicki didn’t make the color pink
Right and what's so annoying is that Nicki and Doja Cat are so different!
@@jayenejay Right!
@@Babytajj They did the same thing to nicki about Kim so, this will never stop🤦🏾♀️
It’s so sad that Dumisani left his children in America... Doja has been missing that fatherly love I can imagine how bad it made her feel in them teen years hence she left school. And went straight to music as an escape. You can tell that Doja really wants to meet her father irrespective of what he did. I really hope Dumisani fills in the void and explains to her the real reason why he left. There’s always two sides of the story... I really can’t say or judge much because we honestly don’t know the real reason as to why he left. I hope they reunite and spend as much time together and stay in contact. Dumisani better see his children for who they are not because of fame.
I love doja, she doesn’t taker herself too seriously and just comes off humble and down to earth
@Giselle Lozoya Damn you are Gorgeous!!!👍💯
The BARBS be doing the most. Shit don’t even be that deep.
Lol right
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thats just the ones that be on twitter.
They're just like their leader. 😒
ConclusivleyChris apparently TH-cam as well because they are all over this comment section.
I truly appreciate how mature Doja handled the topic about her rollingstone father. Her dad giving me Drake father's vibe. Only showing up now that he has something to be proud of smh
dreamerdazegirl exactly, I am surprised 😮 that drake still speaks with his father.
Exactly. And then last year Drakes dad came out and said he was basically lying in his music, which obviously I did not believe. Typical deadbeat to deny
@Ashley Brown and kelly Rowland's dad
Did her dad really just say, “don’t forget I’m also a super star”? Wow....tf??🙄😤🙄😒 I cant with him.
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Because he is a superstar down here!👀
He is in South Africa
Hey 🦚! He is a super star 🌟 if you didn't know 🌍 he works hard and he has been busy for 24 years.
No offence but they didn't have ANY shows in south africa until like 10-15 years ago.. making it pretty damn easy to be the only star in a country that's busy dealing with strife. He sounds like a typical boasting full of sht south african. I've dated plenty to kn ow this is exactly how they talk. Legends in their own minds (the cocky ones)
As a South African I'm suffering from major embarrassment because of our Chester. He is a legend but now I see his floushing career came at a great cost. His actions are unacceptable.
Don't be an embarrassed on behalf of SA men. This is a global problem,men in our race have a tendency of abandoning kids. I'm based in the USA and i see it all the time.Dont
The pain in her voice...this guy is the worst deadbeat ever
K these types are
He's a typical deadbeat, there are so many here, they even have their own special TV show called khumbul' ekhaya
Ok let me say facts. I’m South African and so is Doja’s dad. Ever since early early 2000 Doja’s father Dumisani has always been talking about his children and ex wife which is Doja’s mother. Wooopi said he is a great man because he really is. He stated over and over again that Doja’s grandfather didn’t accept Doja’s dad because he was a really poor African. Her grandfather made sure of the breakup after that had Doja. So it always broke his heart. People must stop assuming things and just do research really. Doja knows this or maybe her mother just won’t tell her the truth. He spoke this waaay back befor her fame... she was probably a toddler then.
@@zillowhomes4230 Yeah but she tried to reach him in her teenage years . Plus he writes under her post he could of told her to come visist him. He is making excuses its so sad cause you can see the hurt when she talked to Whoopi
I don't know the whole situation so I'm not gonna sit here and judge but I agree she's hurting by not having a relationship with him. She said it like it's no big deal but it is.
There’s no excuse for Doja’s dad not being in her and her brother’s lives. People make time for the things that are important to them. No excuse!
The man is detestable
Exactly no excuses spending time and showing love for your children is priceless and I bet her brother feels that way. Fathers don't realize that kids only want time and love from there dad. He full of bull ish period. A deadbeat with excuses and he don't see he was wrong at all. How you gonna be here now once she is an adult and blowing up in the music world smdh at him🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
mkterrhaun: EXACTLY! You hit the nail on the head with my favorite fact; “People make time for what they WANT, to make time for...” and that’s that on that.
mkterrhaun 🙌🏽
Agreed❗❗❗@mkterrhaun
He just wants to show her off because like he said “she’s a superstar”!
PreciousOne he said so is he 😭
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Please read my comment to this video. Kind Regards
@@deonnairis the ignorance 🤦🏿♀️
dont mean hes a good guy
He sounds like he has an ego...."He's not gonna reach out to her, she needs to reach out to him" is the vibe I'm getting. Typical african pride.
Right on the dot that pride is disgusting.
I'm south African and I can tell you at some point he was the biggest star here, so big he will always be in demand,he doesn't have to do shit.so yeah,he probably has a massive ego.
Lucius Christ doesn’t excuse his shitty behavior 🤦🏽♀️
His Ego is godly. I support Him.
@@johnson6858 YOU sir are a weak ass follower
“That’s my baby girl” Byeee 🤦🏾♀️
I’m South African and my Dad will forever be my best friend. This man is a complete disappointment! Goodness. 🚮
I am from west Africa. What are you saying. Disappointment?????
No the father is not. Rather it's her white mother a disappointment. That Becky American didn't raise her right to see her African father. Instead she probably talk bad of him to Doja.
Bobby Ben but do you have proof though. No your just assuming which means you don’t know
bobby ben what you’re spewing is pure conjecture 🤦🏽♀️ did you not hear Dumisani articulating that it’s Doja’s MANAGEMENT that’s been keeping him from reconciling with her?! WHERE on earth did he mention Doja’s mother at all?! Because he’s lying, he knows very well he’s to blame for not being present in her life (hence the blameshifting).. Learn to process information before responding 🙄
@@bobbyben6134 no she didnt. That's bullshit.
@@lebo_t 😂😂😂 your clapback
As a South African, I am ashamed of Doja's dad. WTF?!
Mandisa Hlongwane yazin😒same sis
I feel the same way💔
Wtf bazalwane 😂😂😂
Im not
Why isn't he going to see his family because it's not only Doja that he left back there
When Doja said she never met him i thought he died... he's living and still hasn't seen her 🤦🏾♂️
I take it that he was a ladies man. He was a minor star back in the days. Probably full of himself. Look how the tables have turned.
Whoopie there telling her that her father is a good man when he wasnt even a good dad. Doja should go meet him now, they have the money to travel & see each other. Doja is gorgeous & talented, he should be proud.
Its so damn akward
I thought he died too
He is a bum!!! Now that she’s famous he wants her to come “ home”. Doja run he’s tryna use you.
WHY YALL CONCERN WHY HE IS A DEADBEAT, SO MANY BLACK MEN ARE DEADBEAT BUT BECAUSE SHE IS MIX AND FAMOUS, YALL PLAYING FUCKING PITY PARTY YALL SUPPORT FUTURE AND SO MANY RAPPERS , THEN GO TO HIS CONCERTS AND HE AINT TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS YALL SHUT THE FUCK UP
applecandy folks bruh calm down ppl say this about slot of ppl. Part of her being famous is the whole reason they’re telling her to run cause he tryna come into her life now
applecandy folks wtf are you talking about? He is a deadbeat. PERIOD. He has yet to give a legitimate reason why he has never tried to meet his daughter & now he wants her to meet her brothers and sisters something that he’s never tried to arrange before. He keeps mentioning she’s a superstar. Why would that matter when he doesn’t even know her?
applecandy folks shut the fuck up
applecandy folks Shut yo bitch ass up
First Cardi, now Nicki...she is not out there for drama she is just doin her music! Damn let her breathe...
Nicki didn't do anything. It's some of her fans...
Jameela Gill I was tryna say that’s what people make it look like u know? A female rapper in the rising!? Let’s attack....u know?
Cardi is a god damn fool. She is out for everybody and everything. Nicki never did anything-she’s fine with Doja
@@raheljustina5262
The difference is Cardi actually attacked her whilst It's SOME of Nicki's fans that attacked Doja.
Its always the fans causing the drama
why is it “obvious” that she wants to meet him? she’s over it and explains that she wanted to see him when she was in her early teens. she doesn’t want to sound cold by saying that she no longer wants to see him.
I wouldn't want to meet him after all of this. I believe as she gets older, she'll make sense of what happened...it's soo sad
FleurChantes PrettySoliel I think she already has that’s why she doesn’t even care to meet the man. She see the bs for what it is. He is a deadbeat point blank. How you go to your home country become a star and not reach back and love on your children that you created. All I heard was excuses. 🤦🏽♀️
Even though she's jaded about the situation I think she still has a small desire to see him. But his intentions are so sketchy that she might not even want to see him at this point. I feel bad for Doja
@@Empressive damn! Thats so sad. My dad dropped me when I didnt fit in the plan. But once I finish up my studies and graduate, hell be back to say if he never wouldve ignored me I wouldnt be successful. So i think your right, its seems more business than love
I think it's obvious because she's all over social media and national TV bringing him up, claiming him as her father. You could see the hurt on her face as she talked about him with Whoopi. He's her father so she's always going to feel void left by his absence.
'Your daughter was looking for you"?!!! Why weren't you looking for her?!!!! Sounds like he was not interested
Carana Ivan Girlllll, I blinked so hard when I heard that. That man does not care about his child.
@@tkfordeful he sounded so ridiculous. Such a shame!
Because he wasn't
Notice he has 2 kids with her mom. I haven't heard him say anything about her brother/sister.
As a South African Im quite impressed by the level of research and accuracy of this whole video...
Let me go on and subscribe
Wow your name is cool. I like it.
Exactly... i picked that up
People need to understand that just because Doja raps, sings, and wears colorful hair, doesn't mean she's trying to be like or similar to Nicki Minaj.
The way she delivers especially when she raps is similar to Nicki plus her mannerisms tend to be like Nicki's it's not just the Just the Wigs and shit.
Trueeeee I'm not even a huge Doja cat fan but I don't see the comparison. Yes she wears colorful wigs but so does everybody else on Instagram. Doja gives me entirely different vibes she's not trying to be this faux gangster girl like Nicki
@@jusmotheo5160 been loving nicki since the beginning and I dont see the comparisons. Yall are always tryna start beef
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I'm not trying to start anything but if you check her music especially her second album hot pink in some songs the way she delivers her bars plus her flow is very reminiscent of Nicki plus Zandile's Versatility is Similar to Tanya's Versatility, image wise err'body dresses like that but musically it's another story yes Doja has her own style but the way she does it, can easily remind you of Nicki.
Because Nicki got it all from Lil Kim
Her dad is a typical deadbeat...characteristics of a deadbeat= Excuses and lies🤦🏾♀️shoutouts to to dedicated and loving dads!!!
And only comes around when the child has succeeded in life in some way
She literally does not bother anyone. She's a goofball and she's just having fun.
Edit: I don't see no comparison. Nicki and Doja are two different artist like what ? If you hear Doja's old songs, Yoooo they sound nothing like Nicki, NOTHING. The rap style is totally different.
Elizabeth Rodriguez *You clearly not a Nicki fan cause baby DOJA if anybody is a SPIT IMAGE of the way Nicki USE to rap!*
@@PennyMsElitemm yeeah but c'mon.. music videos don't make the music. I get it but we should pay more attention to lyrics, the vibe, the flow in the music. Not just a stupid music video, no offense lol I love their music videos, but their just for visual standpoint. Not into it, their music is what makes them, THEM. Their talented af and I love them DEEPLY. I just think the fans need to chill
Elizabeth Rodriguez I will say Doja definitely has music that is inspired by Nicki. Especially songs like cyber sex, rules and a bit of say so. That’s not a bad thing tho cause she admits to getting inspiration from nicki, some barbz just take it too far.
Exactly. You can’t compare someone who has just got into the industry to someone who has been leading the pack for 10+ years. They’re both great at what they do.
@@hollywood3848 girl no, don't make assumptions. I know Nicki to the core. When I wasnt bumping Doja, I'm bumping Nicki. That's THATTTTT. But obviously you not a Doja fan either to KNOW the style is different. Cause girl..it's different, trust me.
He said a whole lot of nothing about nothing. Awful.
Doja dad is a dead beat father. He choose his career over his children ,no sugar coating the BS . He wants to be in the lime light with Doja. Doja run away from this man like he ran from you seek therapy for the pain this has caused you not his approval. OOh and he never mention his son Doja brother.
That let you know right there his a user
I'm still confused how neither of them have visited each other. Especially for his part!
Like this man couldn't hop on a plane and visit his various illegitimates??
Thank you. The truth hurts.
I’m a barb and I’ve never thought that Doja was trying to follow nicki I love them both
HereForTheBullsh*t Exactly.
Right,its always the fans that cause drama and do the most🤦🏾♀️
Yup ! bored and delusional fans*
I don’t think she’s copying her. But I do think she’s following in her footsteps. The way Nicki Minaj used to still give you bars wow singing on a pop songs. Cyber sex was a tribute to Nicki Minaj. She’s not copying her, she’s inspired by her and those are two completely different things. It’s not a rate considering that Nicki Minaj is her number one idol. And what’s that both of them apart from other rappers is they can both sing and rap over pop records and any other musical genre. The barbs need to just stop blowing something out of proportion.
It's never us the adult Barbz, its unfortunately the young bored ones and a few gay European stans, they worship chaos. Remember at Nickis shows in europe when things were going bad, they'd start chanting cardi..
It's awkward. Whoopi probably thought the man had died😭
OnyxFirefly 1 that seems a lot more logical lmfao
Whoopsi lol
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I literally got exhausted from listening to Dumisani’s Metro FM interview...he’s such a lier and a sneaky person, I’m so embarrassed that he is South African, we don’t ack like this. I’ve always been a fan of his work but now I’m so disappointed in him.
Sounds like her dad is only interested in exploiting Doja's fame. He keeps saying she "needs to come home" ...like the only connection to South Africa is him. Other than that he seems like an opportunist. 🤔
He's a actor here in South Africa and he got his own money. Maybe he just wanna know his daughter🤔...
BTW I'm from South Africa
londi zitha exactly people think just because he’s from South Africa he’s poor and wants to be in her life just for money 🤦🏾♀️
@@SlondileZitha no girl you know how black fathers can be in SA. If he wanted to meet her he could have done so anytime he has the money but he didn't. If she wasn't famous I dont think he'd be trying.
@@UnicornBeeches don't generalise black fathers because I have an amazing father who has been there for me and my siblings since day 1. Don't project your experience to me girl😳😳😳... You can't generalise when it suits you okay. I'm sure you hate it when people say all black women are ugly or have HIV.
@@SlondileZitha he could have tried to meet with the daughter
My father was in my life until his last breath. I have a strong disdain for dead beat fathers. They dont realize how powerful their presence is (good or bad) and how they can affect a child's life. "I've been trying to find her" shut cho ass up! Clout chasing at its finest. Doja is a public figure which makes her extremely accessible. Theres always someone who knows someone who can reach said person. Excuses.
so he basically just drops his seeds everywhere. sir, if you REALLY wanna see your KIDS, doja & the brother that I haven't heard you talk about, you will make a way just like you made a way to go back to South Africa to act. he's a deadbeat. full of excuses.
DREAMHOUSE right!!! No word on the son from him at all. Sad.
He's the South African version of Future
sochima89 🤣😂😅👌
Claudine 27 Girl please!!!!!!!!! These men lie like a MF. U can’t tell me tht man didn’t sell doja mom a dream. Shit she had two kids by him so it wasn’t a hit and run obviously. The nigga lied!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whew. The read you gave that man. Yes all facts👏👏👏👏
She has a lot of pain over her dad
Her dad is a waste of space who is only interested in her now because she is famous!! She seems like a lovely lady. Hope she has nothing to do with him.
But the guy has been famous too🤷🏾♂️🇿🇦
The Truth, u are absolutely right! Men like him, make good good men like me, look bad! SMMFH
Hold on now, that man doesn't need her money or her fame. He's got his own here in South Africa 🇿🇦
@@lovethachef660 LMAO the "Hold on now" had me ded
Based on his attitude, I don't think he is still interested in her despite the fame cos she is willing to connect but he is still giving excuses till date. He is just an unrepentant deadbeat.
Just Doja didn’t he had a son as well 🧐🤨 with doja’s mom !? So he wants to get in touch with doja not the son ?!
Who knows how many children he has scattered around the globe...
@@bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 WHO KNOWS HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE RELATED TO DOJA CAT??
Doja Cat's dad sounds like a clout-chaser. She should avoid him at all cost.
He aready has clout. He only speaking on doja name cause he doesn’t want seem like a deadbeat even though he is. He doesn’t want face the backlash
@@yasmeenasante4417 He doesn't have enough clout. Only SA knows him.
Yeah he never wanted nothing to do with her or try to contact her but now shes famous he wants to
Chukwunonso Udeh oh that explains it her trying further his career and become international
Chukwunonso Udeh are you Nigerian
This guys' an embarrassment... comin from a South African. Bro just quit it
BLACK REVENUE Just disgraceful behavior from any father, no matter where they come from smdh.
Mpendulo Hlatshwayo its been 20 something yrs and she never met him and he has money there is no excuse to why they never met and doja older sibling is his child too but he only mentioning the famous one
Mpendulo Hlatshwayo My father is in my life. A proud Girl Dad🤪. So don’t be hypocritical assuming stuff about other people’s lives. An absent father is a disgrace. Whatever you say won’t change that 😂😌. Worry about your life or this video but not ours luv😘.
Please read my comment to this video. Kind Regards
@@nimegai yeah you hit d spot .....it their personal matter
He focused on her linking with another artist, buisness and not just seeing her, makong a bond, talking , forgiving etc. He only about buisness !
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@Nova Xo Damn you are Beautiful!!!👍💯
Nova Xo Ok let me say facts. I’m South African and so is Doja’s dad. Ever since early early 2000 Doja’s father Dumisani has always been talking about his children and ex wife which is Doja’s mother. Wooopi said he is a great man because he really is. He stated over and over again that Doja’s grandfather didn’t accept Doja’s dad because he was a really poor African. Her grandfather made sure of the breakup after that had Doja. So it always broke his heart. People must stop assuming things and just do research really. Doja knows this or maybe her mother just won’t tell her the truth. He spoke this waaay back befor her fame... she was probably a toddler then.
Masha And The Bear English they know nothing bro
So let me get this straight, Doja Cat's father abandoned his partner and children because he was "homesick"? OK, fine. He has had fame and resources for her whole life, which meant he could have visited the US or even better, let her meet him in SA, and he's now talking about how he can help her collaborate with artists?! This guy is a whole clown. He is only interested in her now that she is famous. I bet that if she was quietly successful in any other industry, he wouldn't be commenting on her social media or wanting to meet her now. If she forgives him, she better never forget, because given a chance he will break her heart all over again. I wish Doja Cat every success in her career, but if for whatever reason it doesn't progress as she wants it to, I think her father is highly unlikely to be so keen to be in her life.
Not talking to your kids has no excuse.... personally I find it awkward.. this is why we have so many baby mamas too many baby daddies but less families... shame on him
Exactly.... its really sad. I feel sorry for them.
5,ooo LightYears Away right when usually they are usually the main ones tryna get the dad to be involved, no one wants to spend 18 years tryna convince a dad to be a dad to their kids. They should know to contact they kids. The mom and child shouldn’t always be held responsible for whether they hear from they father or not smh especially the kid that baby ain’t ask to be here
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So true it takes 2 to make a baby so I wonder why only a woman should suffer.... men let's man up please....
Exactly! It’s always the woman Who has to stop her life and be responsible for the kid when it should be both. Im convinced that men and women don’t love the same. They will always choose themselves over their families.
Woopie didnt look awkward, she looked shocked and like she knew something deeper and bigger about him than doja is maybe did... it looked emotional for them both
You should Google and even watch that movie Sarafina to understand that!!! One of the most fundamental movie on the continent. A historical masterpiece that depicts apartheid! Watch it
@@judithjackson1086 I love that movie, it's been years since I've heard someone mention it
Soooo... it’s everyone and everything else’s fault he couldn’t reach out to his daughter to at least take her to get a scoop of ice cream for 24 years? Stop. 😒
Dear Empressive
As a South African, I'm so proud of your thorough investigation in your uploads. I know you're a legit source for anything.
Dusty men always have an excuse for being irresponsible.
Doja cat's dad really doesn't give af about her that's so heartbreaking, she's such an amazing person 😔
Not anymore!
I’m South African & people here have been dragging Doja’s dad for his deadbeat tendencies. He was on a local radio station a few days ago addressing it. He’s pathetic for being absent in his child’s life like this, esp cos he’s always been in the entertainment industrt & could definitely afford to even go see her.
You a Nigerian not a South african.
@@paballoulenda897 Nandi is a Zulu name hey. Like Queen Nandi
I’m glad they getting his ass
@@paballoulenda897 wow how do you tell someone you dont even know that they are not who they say they are? WAAAWU.
@@malmo8301 who cares where she is- soka, y'all should just stop criticizing everything
Doja really had to say "I don't know her" about her own dad. That's so sad. Shame on him.
poor doja, her dad clearly only wants a business relationship
WHY YALL CONCERN WHY HE IS A DEADBEAT, SO MANY BLACK MEN ARE DEADBEAT BUT BECAUSE SHE IS MIX AND FAMOUS, YALL PLAYING FUCKING PITY PARTY YALL SUPPORT FUTURE AND SO MANY RAPPERS , THEN GO TO HIS CONCERTS AND HE AINT TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS YALL SHUT THE FUCK UP
Kat and that’s sad
@@applecandyfolks7979 Dang people can't be concerned for multiple people at the same time? Didn't know we should have a limit to who we feel empathy for
applecandy folks the funniest part about this is it’s you that supports deadbeats but your projecting on everyone else that they support deadbeats, futures gotten plenty of backlash for being a piece of shit parent, but have fun your delusions
"He probably would be busy doing stuff" Girl, if he's anything of a good father, he will make time for you.
I get the feeling she's saying that as a dig at him because he was "too busy doing stuff"when she was younger.
My man said “don’t forget I’m also a superstar” looooooooool
He's fvckin rich here in South Africa so yeah 😂
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Step up your father game...it's not too late
@@andreacoleman4684 I think it is too late
Ruth Akosua literally just heard that part. Smfh!
“That’s my baby girl” PLEEEEASEEEEE💀 Do not even try we caught you red handed you fool
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In Whoopi's defense on her saying that Doja's dad is "a good man," it was probably a bit uncomfortable for her to hear Doja say she had never met her father. Whoopi was probably caught way off guard and didn't know what to say nor wanted to say the wrong thing. Something like that would catch me off guard too. There is no doubt the man is an absolute poor excuse for a father. I do admire the fact that Doja doesn't seem bitter or as though she's holding a grudge.
Deanna Isaac yeah I agree. Was Whoopi meant to call him a horrible man when Doja seemed excited like that?
@@ImadeIyamu EXACTLY
I wondered if maybe Whoopi assumed he passed because Doja said “I never got to meet him”. It sounded as if she’ll never get the chance. But maybe she was trying to be nice calling him a good man cause she thought he might’ve died 😩🥴
@@ImadeIyamu Whoopi knew Doja's dad before she was born they got to act in Sarafina together
@@afrodolly whoopi knew her dad before Doja was born
He’s a narcissist if she hadn’t become who she was he still wouldn’t have tried to meet her and he didn’t even acknowledge her brother
Right
Yea, he is making excuses. Just buy a damn ticket & go see your children. Pride is a deadly sin.
AnonymouslyRich pride is not the problem here
He wouldn't care to see her if she was not famous and some poor person living on the streets
@@marcbatista3975 it is with her dad. Too prideful to go see her, she has to make the effort to see him.. that's what I got.
AnonymouslyRich too proud is giving him more credit than he's worth. Based on him never attempting to contact them it seems more like he just didn't care. For him to be too proud means there was something he was refusing to bow down to
@@marcbatista3975 pfp lookin dummie thiçč🍑