That was a very good topic sonali ji. I know its tough to leave everyone back home in india and getting adjusted here in USA. I came here 30 yrs back and i went thru lot of depression as i was in my 20’s. Compromise is inevitable doesn’t matter which age u get married is what my thinking is 😊.Was in NJ for almost 15 yrs
❤ What say ! Sonali you seems to be an Angel who understands and discuss real issues. ❤ Loved and Huge Respect ❤ Thanks a ton I am sure this will going to help many ❤
Hello, Thank you i am 40 & not married .This video is so clear with good advice. I am being looking for marriage but always has fear of making decisions. Will keep your advice in mind for sure Thank you 🙏
I got married at 39 as i had the responsibility of my younger brother and mom...had been an independent career women ...unmarried till 2023..when I thought i found my soulmate...i got married..you were right...Marriages in India are destroyed by inlaws and money...the same trouble i went through...but thankfully in a better space now...i am 41....worried about whether i would be able to conceive naturally and have my own baby..but i have learned that you live what you manifest...so thinking positive...watched you play Akshara's mom in law in Yeh Rishta...really admire your journey ma'am...please make a video on pregnancy post 40...would be invaluable to be inspired by you...Godbless you ...and to all the single ladies in their 30s and 40s here ...waiting for Marriage...please don't stress...eat well, rest well, exercise, work , spend , invest and love your self ....you will attract the man meant for you..❤
Have always liked watching you on TV. Good to see you after a long time. Your Hindi and way of speaking is so beautiful 😀 Ma'am one major thing you have missed- child bearing capacity. Sadly, pregnancy becomes tougher as we age 😢
I am 34 year old. Shadi karna chahti hu. Par jese aapne bola prem ko bhul jate he kabhi kabhi. Respect to honi hi chahiye. Bs jab respectful person milega tabhi life me shadi krugi 😊❤
Thank you So much Mam..Aap ne Bahut ache se explain kiya aur aap jab smile karte hu toh aap ka serial yaad aataa hai..Yeh Rista kya kahlata hai aur aap young SasuMaa ke look mein bahut Beautiful lagi young Sasumaa Superb..aur Ki Smile Bahut Pyaari hai..💚😍
Nice thought mei bhi 30+ hu aur mujhe bhi sab kha rahe hai ki mere liye koi nahi hai buhat kuch bola zo mujhe personally acha bhi nahi laga but mei bhi aap ke zayse hi thought rakhti hu ki agar dono mei maturity nahi hogi toh marriage ka kya matlab hai.kyu ki life mei love respect honi buhat important hai dono ke liye .America mei toh freedom hai ki society kuch nahi khati but india mei parents saath hoge kyu ki woh pyaar karte hai but society toh he bhagwan woh toh zine nahi denge.
Shaadi se pehle itna nh sochna chahiye trust me shaadi blind game h kbi kbi dekhe bhale log dhoka de dete hn and kbi kbi ajnabi log dilo m jagah dete hn
I am 28 + working girl i am too facing pressure from society relatives and frnds to get married otherwise will be Alone 😢dont wait too long to get married
From India from Karnataka district-Bagalkot ap meri favourite Gayatri hai.Maibi apka age ki hu marriage late nahi huwa per Bachcha late hogaya mera beta ninth me padata hai
Very true. With age some time sickness also sets in and also conceiving becomes difficult. At an young u have less patience. So yes compromise is the key word but it should be made with full awareness of what is going to come.❤
Society people i am not living Many people should understand that having a successful career and if money is there then marriage is survived.... Marriage is a big life changing decision.. Marrying late is better than marrying wrong..................... marriage is also a life of both boy and girl
Very nice video 👍 I have decided not to marry because that works for me best. 👍 Whether to go back to the USA is still something I am trying to decide. There are some advantages, but you can't help but feel some alienation because you haven't grown there. I think it is easier there if you're married and have a family. 😃 Without family or Indian friends it can get lonely.
Me daily yrkkl dekhti hu to sochti hu agar aap nhi chhodhte to aap kahi or hote Mam plz share Krna jab apna chhodha us time set pr kesa mahol tha apko sabse jyda kya bura lg raha tha plz share krna
I watched ur interior design / hotel interior show on ndtv in my childhood.i forgot the show name.i tried seaeching couldnt find on youtube.i used to be such huge fan of that show.even when we went for vacations I never missed the episodes.i liked ur charm in terms of the way u speak with so much poise and politeness.shows ur family background and also ur educational background.
Hi mam i really like your vlogs ..... Your voice has some calming effect.....i am in corporate world and at night it feels really relaxing simply listening you.....but what would you suggest i a boy loves you but your parents will not agree to it and you loove your parents more than anything else
How about conception and first time motherhood..u might be experienced and learned about all aspects of life.but motherhood is a different world.how u handled it all.and then did u plan a second child also.how were the hormonal emotional challenges
Mujhe he bolte h ghar vale mujhe bhut bura lag jaata 24 ki hogyi h shadi kar de rahe h par mera dimaag kharab ho jaata h mujhe pehle careear banana h kuch karna h life me fir karni h shadi ❤❤
Now am married, but at the age of 35 am scared to getting children, hoga ya kaise hoga.. Toh aap apne bacche Ka plan, health of Mother, uss journey/experience ke baare me batao plzzz.. It will help many
Mujhe abi tak mere sasural wale sunate hi ki mein saari bahuoun se umar me badi hun.budi dulhan bolte hi 33 me hui hi shadi .mujhe fark ni padta .thank you aap is bare me bath kare ho
hello mam agar aap mera ye comment read kar rahe ho to please aap Hina khan mam tak meri ye baat pahucha dena , wo vese to muslim community se hai, but agar ho sake to wo shivji ko ek lauta jal chadaye or use pile unka cancer 15 din m puri tarah se thik ho jayega , pls mam un tak ye baat jarur pahucha dena pls pls
such good vibes from this lady...kitni pyaari smile hai inki
You are a really greatest very honest person. Aaj Tak is tarah ki personal topic par apna experience share koi nahi karta..so very salute to you
That was a very good topic sonali ji. I know its tough to leave everyone back home in india and getting adjusted here in USA. I came here 30 yrs back and i went thru lot of depression as i was in my 20’s. Compromise is inevitable doesn’t matter which age u get married is what my thinking is 😊.Was in NJ for almost 15 yrs
❤ What say ! Sonali you seems to be an Angel who understands and discuss real issues. ❤ Loved and Huge Respect ❤ Thanks a ton I am sure this will going to help many ❤
So True Maam. I was 22 when got married faced difficulties. All words true.
You nailed it Sonali. Same thoughts I have. You should do a podcast on this, really.
Hello,
Thank you i am 40 & not married .This video is so clear with good advice.
I am being looking for marriage but always has fear of making decisions.
Will keep your advice in mind for sure
Thank you 🙏
I am too looking for marriage but I cannot trust nowadays 😞..and getting scared of anyone leaves me and fear of being alone
I got married at 39 as i had the responsibility of my younger brother and mom...had been an independent career women ...unmarried till 2023..when I thought i found my soulmate...i got married..you were right...Marriages in India are destroyed by inlaws and money...the same trouble i went through...but thankfully in a better space now...i am 41....worried about whether i would be able to conceive naturally and have my own baby..but i have learned that you live what you manifest...so thinking positive...watched you play Akshara's mom in law in Yeh Rishta...really admire your journey ma'am...please make a video on pregnancy post 40...would be invaluable to be inspired by you...Godbless you ...and to all the single ladies in their 30s and 40s here ...waiting for Marriage...please don't stress...eat well, rest well, exercise, work , spend , invest and love your self
....you will attract the man meant for you..❤
Kitne bariki se apne samjhaya bahut acha laga mam ❤
Very real, raw and practical talk❤❤. Please do more such videos. On lighter topics perhaps. God bless you.
Very helpful and important tips for marriage ❤❤thank you❤ ma'am
I got married at 20 meri life mein bahut struggle Kiya hai you are right ❤
How sensible you are and very clear also .👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Lovely vlog nicely explained i was finding this issue to be discussed thanks for sharing vlog
Lovely thoughts.....nice vlog...i liked this topic u spoke on.....need courage to talk on this topic..❤❤😊😊
U r so cute and sweet aap kitni pyari bate krti ho maine first time aapka vlog dekha hai aapke baat krne ka andaz boht acha laga ❤
Have always liked watching you on TV. Good to see you after a long time.
Your Hindi and way of speaking is so beautiful 😀
Ma'am one major thing you have missed- child bearing capacity. Sadly, pregnancy becomes tougher as we age 😢
Bhut achi baat aap ne kahi thanks for sharing ❤ ek dam sahi bat bhi ki compromise ki ❤
I am 34 year old. Shadi karna chahti hu. Par jese aapne bola prem ko bhul jate he kabhi kabhi. Respect to honi hi chahiye. Bs jab respectful person milega tabhi life me shadi krugi 😊❤
God bless you in abundance
Thank you So much Mam..Aap ne Bahut ache se explain kiya aur aap jab smile karte hu toh aap ka serial yaad aataa hai..Yeh Rista kya kahlata hai aur aap young SasuMaa ke look mein bahut Beautiful lagi young Sasumaa Superb..aur Ki Smile Bahut Pyaari hai..💚😍
Best reply ever ❤
Thankyou so much for inspiration
Nice thought mei bhi 30+ hu aur mujhe bhi sab kha rahe hai ki mere liye koi nahi hai buhat kuch bola zo mujhe personally acha bhi nahi laga but mei bhi aap ke zayse hi thought rakhti hu ki agar dono mei maturity nahi hogi toh marriage ka kya matlab hai.kyu ki life mei love respect honi buhat important hai dono ke liye .America mei toh freedom hai ki society kuch nahi khati but india mei parents saath hoge kyu ki woh pyaar karte hai but society toh he bhagwan woh toh zine nahi denge.
Aap please poora time lekar decision Lena.all the best
@ thanks 🙏
Sahi decision h apka
Mene apni family ke pressure me aakr bahut jadi shadi kr li ab esa lagta h life jee hi nahi 😔
Isliye frustrated rehti hu😢
Apni Nahin Reshmi wali
Sonali Sister. Aap toh God gift ho humare liye. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you so much for sharing this amazing vlog ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Love you.....❤❤❤
Shaadi se pehle itna nh sochna chahiye trust me shaadi blind game h kbi kbi dekhe bhale log dhoka de dete hn and kbi kbi ajnabi log dilo m jagah dete hn
I really liked the content and specially your smile throughout the video
😊❤
Thank you 🙏
So maturely said it ❤
Very nice video Sonali ji ( Ye rishta kya kehlata hai aaj bhi Dopahar mein aapke samay wala jaroor dekhati hoon ) ❤❤
Beautiful thought ❤
Bang on!!!!! Loved ur vlog n ur thoughts are so clear ❤
Thank you Ma'am for sharing your lovely thoughts ❤❤
Very well explained mam❤
Aap bahut cute h❤
I am 28 + working girl i am too facing pressure from society relatives and frnds to get married otherwise will be Alone 😢dont wait too long to get married
You give very positive vibes and it reflects in your face.
Shi h mam money is vry important
Very honest & mature video ❤ thankyou very much for sharing your experience ❤
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Really liked your thoughts....keep making such videos of your experience ❤
Very true mam and u really explained it so well
From India from Karnataka district-Bagalkot ap meri favourite Gayatri hai.Maibi apka age ki hu marriage late nahi huwa per Bachcha late hogaya mera beta ninth me padata hai
Heart touching video
Very true.
With age some time sickness also sets in and also conceiving becomes difficult.
At an young u have less patience.
So yes compromise is the key word but it should be made with full awareness of what is going to come.❤
Yes. I will do heart to heart talk about pregnancy soon
U r my fav from ye rishta ❤
Me apko abhi bhi tv pr yeh rishta me dekhti hu but first time apko bina saree ke dekha😅
I really love you....pls if possible make more such videos of your experiences....❤❤❤
Sahi bath hai mam..... Ham log jaldi shadi karke bahut tention hore abi... Family ko samajna
Society people i am not living
Many people should understand that having a successful career and if money is there then marriage is survived....
Marriage is a big life changing decision..
Marrying late is better than marrying wrong..................... marriage is also a life of both boy and girl
Didi really..... Nice...... Really helpful.... Thank you❤
Love ur spirit...love ur self❤
Respect yourself too
Good topic...100%turn 👍
Loved your candidness and maturity❤
Ye to sahi hai Akele bhi ham khush hote hai agar independent ho to
Thank you maam for your suggestion... 🙏😊
Hi ma'am apki smile achcha positive mahsus karati hai hamesha yu hi khush rahe God bless you all and take care of yourself 🤗
Very nice video 👍 I have decided not to marry because that works for me best. 👍 Whether to go back to the USA is still something I am trying to decide. There are some advantages, but you can't help but feel some alienation because you haven't grown there. I think it is easier there if you're married and have a family. 😃 Without family or Indian friends it can get lonely.
Take your time. Live life at your own speed ❤️❤️
@Sonalivermaheartandsoul 👍❤️
VERY GOOD ADVISE ❤
Bahut ache se samjhya mam aap ne thank you ❤aap ne yrkkh show kyu chod diya
Nice vlog dear ha ji
Beautifully said 🎉
Me daily yrkkl dekhti hu to sochti hu agar aap nhi chhodhte to aap kahi or hote
Mam plz share Krna jab apna chhodha us time set pr kesa mahol tha apko sabse jyda kya bura lg raha tha plz share krna
Nice thought Mam 🎉
I watched ur interior design / hotel interior show on ndtv in my childhood.i forgot the show name.i tried seaeching couldnt find on youtube.i used to be such huge fan of that show.even when we went for vacations I never missed the episodes.i liked ur charm in terms of the way u speak with so much poise and politeness.shows ur family background and also ur educational background.
Money is very important
Love you Sonali ji 😍
Love you Sonali ❤ Best video on this topic .
Absolutely 💯 right ma'am 😊
Mein apse yehi puchana chahti thi but I felt shy😊 thank you for giving this gesture ☺️
Please Jo dil mein hai poocho.. we’re talking heart and soul
Totally agree mam as I also married in 38
Hi mam i really like your vlogs ..... Your voice has some calming effect.....i am in corporate world and at night it feels really relaxing simply listening you.....but what would you suggest i a boy loves you but your parents will not agree to it and you loove your parents more than anything else
Very very nice thought mam... ❤
Hi mam. Aaj aapki baat sunke bahat motivation mili. Main abhi apne 30s main hun aur unmarried hun.
Mam pls talk more about relationships and how to handle ❤
Aap ko sun ke bahut achha lagta h😊
Aap sab se baat karke mujhe achcha lagta hai 🙏
Great 👍
Very helpful
😊
Very well said❤
You are absolutely amazing 🤩
Nice thought
I agree with you 🎉
I really liked this vlog ❤
Yes mam u r my favorite ❤
Thnxx mam for your guidance
Very true mam nice vlog
Thank you ❤
Nice thought good block
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Nice vlog ❤❤
Aap house tour vlog bhi banaiye😊
It's beautiful. You r lucky par many times not happen whatever you r saying and thinking it's luck only
Most of it is gods blessings
@@Sonalivermaheartandsoul ya. Thanks for sharing. Ur smile is so beautiful. R u doing anything else. God bless you
How about conception and first time motherhood..u might be experienced and learned about all aspects of life.but motherhood is a different world.how u handled it all.and then did u plan a second child also.how were the hormonal emotional challenges
Mujhe he bolte h ghar vale mujhe bhut bura lag jaata 24 ki hogyi h shadi kar de rahe h par mera dimaag kharab ho jaata h mujhe pehle careear banana h kuch karna h life me fir karni h shadi ❤❤
May God bless you with success
Wow ❤
U r so sweet
Thank you really and nice video.New subscriber
Very nice ❤❤❤
Now am married, but at the age of 35 am scared to getting children, hoga ya kaise hoga.. Toh aap apne bacche Ka plan, health of Mother, uss journey/experience ke baare me batao plzzz.. It will help many
Mam u are very sweet
Mujhe abi tak mere sasural wale sunate hi ki mein saari bahuoun se umar me badi hun.budi dulhan bolte hi 33 me hui hi shadi .mujhe fark ni padta .thank you aap is bare me bath kare ho
Hi mam i am your big fan❤
Thank you 😊
hello mam agar aap mera ye comment read kar rahe ho to please aap Hina khan mam tak meri ye baat pahucha dena , wo vese to muslim community se hai, but agar ho sake to wo shivji ko ek lauta jal chadaye or use pile unka cancer 15 din m puri tarah se thik ho jayega , pls mam un tak ye baat jarur pahucha dena pls pls
Hi madam can u help me
.ots very difficult for me to stay very far from my parents and siblings after marriage 😢