I would have been angry at him if he didn't, both because the guy is a danger to other people and because that's the cherry on top of the revenge OP was taking.
Not only did the teacher grab OP, she also unzipped her jacket and shamed her for her clothing 😳 I’m absolutely amazed that she as a teacher thinks that is appropriate behaviour. OP had bruises. I really wish that OP had contacted the police. If only for the sake of the other students in that women’s care. Shameful behaviour
Never understand the teacher/administrator/parent/employee's defense. Imagine going in front of a judge and having to say "Your honor, I did not mean to assault an adult, I only meant to assault a minor"
She absolutely should have pressed charges. Someone like that does not need to be working around children. She should have absolutely gone to jail and possibly lost her teaching license over it. As a former student who left middle school behind nearly 30 years ago, I can tell you they're absolutely were some teachers who overstepped their bounds and people always looked at the other way.
RIGHT!!! people think pressing charges is some long drawn out ordeal that they don't want to go through when in fact they have very little to do after pressing!!! It is in the police and prosecutors hands after your decision to do so!
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especially since she did it to what she thought was a minor too!
Exactly this woman should never be allowed to work with children again she should be banned and fired as she literally grabbed someone physically assaulted them and also publicly shamed them and unzipped their clothing I mean are you serious? She also assumed that the person she was doing this to was a minor she did it on University property which instantly makes it a felony! It is really hard to fully sympathize with someone who refuses to take just a little bit of time to press charges in order to prevent what just happened to them happening to someone else it just shows that they don't give a damn about anything other than their time because they're so busy or they just don't want to do it because of blah blah blah....... NO!! PRESS CHARGES!! THESE PEOPLE AREN'T "GOING To HAVE AN EPIPHANY" OR "LEARN THEIR LESSON ", They're going to smirk knowing that they got away with it because no one stood up to them yet again which gives them the balls and the entitlement to continue to do these things because no one stands up to them and that's it so yeah I feel real bad for the opp but at the same time dude really
Always press charges because you can often convince them to settle for a bit of cash instead of them getting a permanent charge of some kind on their record. It's just free money.
Story 4: Some people are just that bold and stupid. This guy harassed women, parked in the wrong place (in a sloppy way too), and threatened a dude trying to warn him about a parking ticket. In the end, he got multiple tickets and a possible drunk driving charge. That's karma for ya
Story 3 - OP definitely should’ve pressed charges on that awful excuse of a teacher for assault. I mean who the hell just grabs someone, thinking they are a student from their school and manhandles them like that? That woman should not be allowed anywhere near kids at all.
The fourth story. You think it can't get worse. Then it gets worse. Then it gets even worse than that. Plus it's one of those "Fuck around and find out."
@lancerevell5979 I doubt that he'd get off light (light as in first time doing it). I feel additional charges are/will/had been done. You can take the white trailer park trash out of the trailer park but ya can't take the white trailer park hillbilly trash out of the person.
Story 4, that drivrr racked over $2600 dollars in fines parking where he did. Plus thats not counting the bills for driving drunk. That was one very expensive night for that fool.
Same here, am glad this story showed how many homeless people are not drunks or drug addicts like most claim. Many will gladly take what little you gave them for a hot meal, that they sadly do not get to enjoy often. Reminds me of my childhood, a poor man outside the pizza place asking for some money to buy food. We instead gave him some of our pizza since we had more than enough food to share. It was years ago, but I remember how grateful he was.
In story 3, even if OP were a student from a field trip, the fact that this teacher left marks on someone is terrible. Heck, if I were a parent and my kid came to me with marks from a teacher, I'd make hell look like a vacation in comparison to what I'd do to her.
I'm always sad when one does not use self defence to it's fullest and afterwards not even press charges. That teacher commited S3xual assault. And for all she knew, it was s3xual assault on a minor......... Karen teacher should NOT be near students.
Story 4: why do people need to make life so much harder for themselves? If a parking enforcer or security of a place told me to move, I’d just apologize and move. Or better yet, I wouldn’t park in a spot CLEARLY LABELED “Loading and Unloading Only”!!!
Near where I live there's an area famous for illegal u-turns to save ~40 seconds of driving. It's caused an accidenr ever few months because it's a blind area near a pedestrian crossing(there's bushes around the crossing), they take it too fast and by the time they spot the pedestrian or other car stopped at the crossing it's too late to stop. So it obvious should be illegal, it's just not safe. The council put up no u-turn signs, drivers ignored them. The council added traffic cones to the gap, people removed the cones so they could continue the illegal u-turns. The council put up signs warning being caught would result in fines along with a camera. Some jackasses spray painted the camera lens. Then the police got involved and just started waiting on the other side to pull over every car. Can you believe some entitled people actually complained to the local paper about how unfair it was because they use that illegal u-turn twice a day and never got ticketed before, but now they've got 8 in one week and need to take a day off work to fight them in court.
@@scragar We had such a location that too was an accident waiting to happen ..... as many did. Signs did not deter drivers from being stupid. When all else failed, and after a fatal accident, the County's Traffic Engineering Division took care of the problem ..... they redesigned the road and median and neatly closed the gap. Nobody has made a u-turn since.
There were MULTIPLE updated on the final story, turns out the Father/OP of the story has a history of harassing workers, picking on anyone he thinks is weaker/below him, using his money to buy his kids' affection and then taking away gifts over even the smallest of slight, and being a general Karen. The Park event wasn't an isolated case, it was the final straw, his daughter has gone full NC with him, his son says he's doing the same as soon as he enter college, even his wife has left their home and is living with her sister. He was offered the chance of reconciliation with the family but would have to attend individual and family therapy, he has refused because, and I quote "They are the ones with the problem, not me."
Exactly! The number of jumped up, bitter, entitled people who call OP's daughter out of her name for his first post and still backed him up after the updates was WILD. I'm really disappointed with Dark Fluff for just taking that at face value and shitting on OP's daughter without context.
@@JezebelNeverDied I mean, it reads like a teenager wrote the story, so I'm calling it as one of the many fakes. The OP just wanted to make things more interesting and came up with more random stuff since he's 'dad' character wasn't getting enough hate the first time around. So yeah, OP is butthole, but mostly for writing an a crap story.
Isn't it important to teach middle school students the importance of accepting consequences for their actions? What a better lesson than seeing a teacher being handcuffed?
The teacher story: If I had been OP and that woman laid hands on me, I definitely would have pressed charges against her. No one lays hands on me without paying the consequences.
Last story has multiple updates now and it turns out op is a super unreliable narrator. I won't spoil anything but let's just say, op has a temper and how he explained what happened in the story is very likely under playing his own reactions. Also, his son is scared of making him angry, so he tends to agree with his dad to avoid his temper, not because he thinks his dad is in the right.
I figured something like that. Daughter has a car he bought her two years ago, and now she's getting another one?? It's inconceivable that he's not a rich entitled a-hole! In all likelihood, the entire family are a-holes - just like dad!
I was just about to say something about this. I head this story on another channel and yeah, OP is definitely an AH. He totally downplays the situation in the first post to make himself look good. I highly recommend hearing/reading the entire story.
Yep. The daughter didn't even want to go to the zoo with him, and was already on the verge of going no contact. She told her mom that the car would be a test - she already knew he'd find some excuse not to buy it, because apparently it's his M.O. The fact that he went nuclear because someone brushed past him at the exit sealed the deal and the whole family wants nothing to do with him. I think my favorite thing was redditors telling him he should look into therapy and him saying, "Why should I get therapy, I'm not crazy, everyone else I meet is." more or less.
Story 3: There are several better ways to approach this and the teacher chose this. Come on, we all should know you don't grab and drag ANYONE like that. Heck, she could've done this to the actual students
With story 3, after she glared at me for her mistake, I would have definitely pressed charges and filed a complaint. She's not going to be reminded, she's not going to care. Hell, that glare this proves that she thinks it was OP's fault and not hers. Always press charges or file a complaint to at least have it noted somewhere that they are a problem.
That last story was missing a TON of context. There were several updates and follow up posts that changed the story significantly. Basically, this guy is constantly making snide marks and causing issues to the point that his whole family is embarrassed by his entitled behavior. Was his daughter entitled for expecting him to buy her a new car? Yes. There was more context to that too, and supposedly it was a "test" because the OP has an established behavior of promising things then taking them back when he feels slighted, as well as using his money to attempt to control his family. The wife has been defending his terrible behavior for years, and when OP told his daughter he was getting her a new car, she told her mother she never expected to actually get it, and that when he inevitably decided to punish her by "taking it away," she was going no contact. Later posts revealed that the son was backing up dad because he was basically too scared to speak out against him. That kind of test is major BS, and terrible communication, so the daughter is either still very entitled, or just a passive aggressive AH, but either way, the story ends up being more of an ESH than NTA. Every update made it clearer that he was intentionally leaving stuff out to make himself seem like the victim, and really presenting a warped version of the real story. If I remember correctly, his daughter did cut him out, his wife ended up leaving him, and the son basically said as soon as he finishes school, he's gone.
I thought it sounded like punishing the daughter for daring to disagree with him. I suspect "why do you always have to say something?" was a true statement.
You need to read / listen to the full story. The updates paint the father as the real AH in this story. If I hadn’t seen the updates I would 100% agree with you, but his own updates show just how much of an idiot the father is in this story.
@@arthurbrandonnielsen I tried to post a link and TH-cam won't allow it, so I'll do this the tedious way: Google (in quotes) "AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me"
@@recycledapathy7411 Thanks. Just read the updates. Oh boy... Even when writing from his perspective he sounds like a crybully who lost his kids respect over years of petty nonsense and breaking promises over his ego.
Parking in a white zone - $90 Parking in a blue zone - $900 Parking in a white zone - $90 Parking in a blue zone - $900 Parking 12+ inches from the curb - $120 Parking on the wrong side during Alternate Side Parking -$??? That is expensive parking.
Story 3: I would have insisted that on calling the police and pressing charges for assault. It would be so easy for her school to just sweep this under the rug because she's a veteran teacher, blah, blah, whatever, with just a complaint. When I was in college, I carried a backpack from class to class. When I went on middle school field trips, nobody carried anything with them because we didn't need books or anything other than an occasional pencil, and maybe the girls carried their purses, but that's it. Middle school students wouldn't have needed their books to tour a university campus. So, my bet is that there were several context clues here that the teacher just ignored.
Try looking at this story objectively. You've got two groups of people in a public location. Group 1 walks out of the building. The passage is wide enough that someone from group 2 starts behind group 1 but leaves faster. They do this without touching anyone. So what precisely has this person done wrong other than being a woman who walks faster than a man? So, after this happens the father from group 1 starts making passive aggressive remarks to the person who happened to walk faster than him. Who's the bully in this situation? Guy from group 2 comes to the defence of his mother, who is being insulting for no reason. Daughter from group 1 also speaks up saying that her dad always does this. Even if this story is 100% true as told the OP still looks somewhat bad. And if OP tried to make themselves look good as often happens with these sorts of posts, it sounds like he probably has anger issues and tends to cause scenes in public a lot.
Even if it is a passive aggressive in some sort. The behavior the women showed is something i only remember when i was in school or at a train (mostly because you actually have some appointments or you try to get at least to your job in time). If you show that behavior at a place like a zoo or anywhere else that has nothing to to with relevant things i would also think if that person never learned any manners and with not apologizing for it but getting angry without a second is also quite a prove that the person is always doing these small things. See it like you (in this place OP) would drive a car and just before you get to an intersection and someone (the Mother) turns over right in front and cuts you of by this. If you have to hard-break in this scenario only because someone cannot wait maybe 2-5 seconds it wont be the first or the last time that this person will do this.
This story has an update. OP is the asshole, and picks fights everywhere he goes belittles service personal the whole nine Karen yard. This situation whas the last straw for his family and OP ends without them and having not learned anything.
For story 1 my mom is a bleeding heart she's constantly giving out money,food and drinks to homeless people, she even has a pack of cigarettes set aside to give away, she of course is mindful of her safety, but nonetheless shes a bleeding heart. I distinctly remember having a conversation over if the homeless people really needed the money or if they're trying to score drug money, and her response is ingrained in my brian " I give that money away because I can, I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt, I truly hope that it doesn't go to drugs but I can dictate that, miss cat there will be times when you should be cynical of the world but all I'm trying to do is be kind and make this corner of the world a better place, kindness doesn't cost anything, a random act of kindness is the motto that I live by". I actively try to live by her values but sadly I'm more likely to look at the world in a negative light and be cynical about it.
Story 1 - should have been in the UK. You don’t put a fixed amount on the pump. You just pump petrol (gas) and pay at the end. She would have pumped 40 dollars (or pounds) worth, expecting it to be paid for and got a shock. If she drove off without paying, number plate recognition would identify her car and she could expect a visit from the cops.
@bayardkyyako7427 Not all states are like that. Some you need to pre-pay a certain amount first. Others won't even let you pump your own gas (new jersey). All in the attempt of stopping people from stealing gas.
The last story with the OP and his daughter giving her phone number to that random guy who was defending his mom, has a crazy update! After a few more posts, it becomes apparent that OP is a real life Karen and his whole family basically goes no contact with him over his Karen ways. I definitely went through a box of popcorn reading his unhinged posts.
The daughter is 25!!! Her dad has zero obligation to buy he grown arse adult daughter a car!!! I had 2 kids by that age driving a car I paid for!!!! WTF
@@sakatababaOp is a hot tempered ashole it would seem. So be it. But regardless of this, his daughter is still a grown woman and can buy her own car if she wants a brand new one when he has already given her one only 2 years ago. Most people in the world don't have such a new car with only 2 years on it. I bought my present car in cash as brand new 4, nearly 5 years ago, and it's still one of the newer cars around. And where I live in Denmark, not even most rich people will buy their children cars, let alone brand new ones. If the children want one, they can buy it themselves with their own money so that they will know that money isn't growing on trees for the free picking. You earn it by working for it so that you know the value of it, and life is not a free ride. And I have the story to prove that they learn that. We have a rich family here that is every bit as wild as the richest in the US with scandals and what not, and particularly the oldest daughter is often hitting the news with her escapades. They own a huge enterprise called the Aller Press Corporation. But I actually happened upon her in town on one occasion, and apparently some guy in her company had made some form of degrading remark about some girl who was clearly not part of the Danish jet set trying to buy a drink or food or something from an in place with the jet set. But contrary to her reputation of being very haughty, she immediately shut him down hard, telling him that the girl had clearly worked hard for her money, and if he couldn't accept that she spent HER money on things SHE liked, He could just leave the party and go home, thank you very much. I won't say that this made me doubt every bit the media has ever written about her. Where there is smoke, there is fire. But I did get a bit higher respect for her after that since she clearly knows and accepts that every people around has a right to the money they work so hard to earn and the right to spend it the way they want without being scolded for it by some rich spoiled brat.
@@sakatababa Oh, I'm perfectly aware of it. Make no mistake. But wether you can see it the way I do or not, It does not remove the fact that even a high profile scandalist like her is able to see that people actually earn their money to buy their things and lead their lives and that she (or anybody else for that matter) cannot take for granted that there will just always be money around in abundance if you do not put in he effort to make sure they are there. Or haven't you noticed from your own experience that those we call freeloaders tend to end up in either homelessness or some squalid place that nobody else wants to be in?
Last story: you missed a few updates on this one ;) Basically, OP has been promising things to his daughter and then not keeping those promises for petty reasons quite a few times in the past and the car thing was the last drop. The mother took the daughter's side, the son tried to smooth things over but was really on the daughter's side too because there seem to have been a lot of incidences in the past, then the daughter called the son a pussy for not saying what he really thought because he didn't want to lose his daddy-paid trip to Europe. OP absolutely refused to get therapy for all the issues that came up because OP thought he didn't need it and liked himself the way he was. It went on and on and I think OP's wife is getting a divorce and the daughter cut contact with OP. Overall no one in that family sounded like a particularly nice person, it was a whole shitshow and Reddit couldn't decide whether it was YTA or ESH even after OP tried to present himself in the best light possible.
Story 3. I understand how OP felt. My junior year at Uni in Florida, I got an apartment practically across the street. At least twice a week I’d get stopped by the cops asking where I was supposed to be? They’re real big on truancy down here. I always had to sow my school ID.
Not buying someone a car for a present isn't a punishment! Buying someone a car for a present is a wonderful, generous gesture, & not doing a wonderful, generous gesture for someone who's just disrespected & ill-treated you isn't a punishment, it's a natural consequence. If daughter's happy taking dad down a peg or two by schmoozing up to a stranger who is harassing him, she should be fine with getting taken down a peg or two herself by not getting her fancy-schmancy birthday present. Why would you expect someone to buy you an expensive gift when you've just treated them like crap & told them they deserved it??? She can drive her current, perfectly good car & if she doesn't like it maybe she'll figure out how to treat people with courtesy when they're going to do her a big favor. ^mic drop^
Final story: OP is NOT the a-hole. His own daughter turned against him because some guy was cute. Well, she should've thought twice before doing that, she don't deserve a new car. Especially if she has a working car already. Sorry, not sorry. The daughter played stupid games, she got stupid prizes. Of course OP's wife is going to argue that they should still do it. OP should ask if she'd buy a car for someone who tried to humiliate them in public over a stupid reason.
There are several updates that boil down to OP downplaying his behavior and constantly doing entitled/petty shit. When Reddit handed him his ass he tried to blame it on childhood trauma but refused individual or group therapy because "they're the ones with the problem, not me". His daughter is NC, his son will be when he leaves for college and his wife left him.
@@Azulakayesyep. If you read the full story and updates, he is an abusive prick who refuses to get family therapy because "I don't have issues, everyone else does."
Story 3. That woman should not be allowed around minors or in any position of power. If she's putting her hands on someone she thinks is a student, not even one of her own, what is she doing to her own students? Story 4. This was hilarious. Watching karma hit this guy over and over again as everyone and their dog used the exact wording of the law to exact vengeance.
10:25 - She adds a glare at the end like that and I'm going straight back to that security officer to file a complaint and get the teacher's & school's names to contact the school.
Story 3: ALWAYS. PRESS. CHARGES. OP really should have pressed full charges. 1) Attempted Kidnapping. 2) Assault & Battery. 3) Harassment. Then sue the nasty khunt. Story 5: OP is NTA. OP didn't want little Ms. Smartass to get 'infected' with his "entitlement money" by buying her a SECOND car. She can get the "cute" guy to buy it for her.
Story 2 - Trying to hook up with the owner's daughter. Man, I would say that guy, Chad, had a pair on him if he had known that, but I bet he would have paled several shades if Katie mentioned it lol
another car for her b day after already giving her one...?!?!?!? at 16 I had to pay my folks $400 for the old family wreck and then take it to a garage to get it fixed and pay for that, plus my licence, reg and insurance.... Spoiled... I'd say so
There is a comment further up by sagejungworth4155 saying that there is a whole saga and the dad might have left information out to not look as bad, and he might be super controlling so i'm leaning to not reliable narrator until there is more information.
If I remember the updates he might not have even gotten her the first car and she only asked for the second as a test. Apparently he is really willing to promise big things but she always manages to "mess up" and he recinds the offer just before he's going to get the item.
My Dad always taught me to be self-reliant. He did buy me a used motorcycle when I turned 16, which I had to do maintenace on, but bought my sister a brand new car ('76 Pinto) when she turned 16. I bought my own first car while in the Airforce at 19.
Story#5. My dad would have sent me packing! I would have probably had to have walked home or caught a taxi. And dad would have told mom to shut up or hit the road with your daughter!! My dad was stern, but just. He worked hard for his family of 5 and took no BS!!! Mom never had to work a day in her life!! OP not the A-HOLE, daughter and mom, yup!!!
Oh, the wife did hit the road. Apparently, the OP has a history of being an asshole in public, the wife told him that the daughter was about to go NC before the zoo incident anyway and had already known he was going to come up with some excuse to not live up to his promise about the car, the OP pretty much said, "Well, tough shit, I'm not an asshole, everyone else in the whole world is an asshole" so his wife left.
Ticket guy is looking at around $2500 in fines, plus 6-9 months of suspended license. $180 for parking in a no parking, 1,800 for parking in a handicapped, 120 (depending on state, but the cost of mine here) for parking on street cleaning time, and another 150-800 for dui plus court cost(again, for my state, so it depends), with 6-9 months suspended license. Incredible pay back tbh
Story 2: Even as far back as 60 years ago there were plenty of silly sitcoms of idiot guys who lied to impress a girl, and all through today they all end the same way...😂😂😂
Last story: NTA. That behavior is uncalled for. OP has every right to do that after she dissed him. If that were my dad I would be in big trouble by not only my dad but my mom
Turns out he was lying, and there's pretty good evidence he didn't even get her the supposed first car. There are updates showing he'd lied about most of the story to make himself look better.
That wasn't "karma for messing with people who are politely trying to help you" that was the consequence of his actions. It could be called karma for harassing all those girls tho... he prolly does it All The Time.
I would have said, "Yeah. You're right. I'm entitled. I should stop buying new cars for my daughter every 2 years. Glad you noticed my entitlement. We should all be more grateful of what we have. In fact, let's see how else we're entitled. Let's donated the cost of a new car to charity."
Story 5 had a bunch of updates, and basically, EVERYONE in that story come off as total AHs. OP is outed as an entitled jerk who thinks because he has money, he can swing his dick around and embarrass his family in public, however his kids are no prizes either. Daughter thinks daddy owes her a brand new 200k car just because she wants it, and claims later she only demanded the car because she knew OP would back out, and is leveraging her relationship with OP for it, basically 'buy me what I want or I'm cutting you off'. Son is also a dick, he agrees OP is too aggressive, but tells OP to his face 'well I'm not going to cut you off because I still need you to pay for my room and school, but then after that I'm cutting you off'. Wife is a peach too, she gossiped about OP's childhood to the daughter behind his back and basically makes OP pay for everything in the household so she can save her entire paycheck for fun money, and says if OP won't buy princess a car, mom will buy it herself. Everyone in final story are a bunch of spoiled, entitled brats.
The last story. I've read some of the comments and people are saying the OP is to blame for it all. I don't see it that way. Ah, the poor poor 23 year old daughter. Daddy isn't going to buy her ANOTHER CAR. wtf. My parents didn't buy me or my siblings, cars. We worked, we saved/took out loans and we got our own vehicles. If the daughter is p'd off that Daddy isn't going to buy her another car, then SHE is the entitled one. And if her mother agrees with daughter, then mom is entitled too. OP is no longer with the family, well that just might be a blessing for OP.
Story 5: There are so many updates!!! It's worse as he's actually a Karen. In the end, his wife leaves him, and his daughter won't talk to him, and the son only stays bc he needs to for school
OP did nothing wrong, calling out the entitled moron for her idiocy. Her son was a huge prick. OP's daughter is an entitled little prick. Wife was basically absentee.
@@Sam-ob4of Mark Narrations covered the whole story a little over a week ago. Turns out OP's one of those busybody types prone to picking fights and stirring up drama, and the daughter actually anticipated him backing out of buying the car, telling the mom that he always holds his money over other people's heads to punish them and she would go no contact once he did it this time... this got the mom angry because her husband proved her daughter right after she went out of her way to defend him. The last update was the whole family torn apart with the son telling OP if he doesn't fix the family by the time he leaves for college, then he won't be coming back.
Don't shake your head too hard is Fluff's disclaimer that he is not responsible for brain damage due to concussions from shaking my head so hard at these Karens.
Last story: I wouldn’t expect family to agree with me. Im also not able to feel embarrassment (mental condition). That said, I’m hyper aware when someone is trying to embarrass me. People like who like to try tend to be very toxic/entitled people who think they can get what they want by trying to put me down. Thanks to them always putting me into positions where I get burned out, it’s one of the traits I look for in people. The daughter in the last story sends red flags. She could’ve easily made her concerns known in private instead of trying to publicly humiliating her dad by siding with someone that’s harassed him.
I know I would have said something like rude much? If a person that cut me off like that. Also tell your daughter that apparently she doesn't care about other things in life if it's just being cute is all that matters to her little Veruca Salt.
Last story: This one has an update I watched in another video, the fight went massive, the wife told him that she was going to buy her daughter a car, the daughter tried to apologize but he asked her if she still talked with the guy, she denied but he found out that was a lie. I don't remember if he divorced his wife tho...
I agree that OP is not the A-hole in this situation... however there are more Story 5, diving a bit deeper into why the daughter has such an attitude towards her father.
First story - this woman has no self worth, nothing in her life that brings her above others. Perhaps too lazy to put forth effort into her life.... but an easy way to get an audience is by catching a drug transaction going down. The police, news reporters, she's a life saver, a star!!!
The story of the teacher mistaking the university student for one of her charges: always, always press charges. Any unwanted contact can be considered as assault.
Story 1: That was so nice to give your last 4 bucks to that homeless guy. Wish I could do that at times too, but I do everything by card. I rarely handle cash.
Story 3: What disturbed me the most was the teacher thinking it was OKAY to unzip someone's jacket without permission! I'd have her with charges of sexual assault - extreme? Perhaps, but I don't care.
good on OP in story 4 for calling the police on the drunk driver
I would have been angry at him if he didn't, both because the guy is a danger to other people and because that's the cherry on top of the revenge OP was taking.
@@YukoHoon I'm in the mind of: if you know someone is drunk driving and you are in the position to report it, then you should always report it
Not only did the teacher grab OP, she also unzipped her jacket and shamed her for her clothing 😳
I’m absolutely amazed that she as a teacher thinks that is appropriate behaviour.
OP had bruises.
I really wish that OP had contacted the police.
If only for the sake of the other students in that women’s care.
Shameful behaviour
Never understand the teacher/administrator/parent/employee's defense. Imagine going in front of a judge and having to say "Your honor, I did not mean to assault an adult, I only meant to assault a minor"
She absolutely should have pressed charges. Someone like that does not need to be working around children. She should have absolutely gone to jail and possibly lost her teaching license over it.
As a former student who left middle school behind nearly 30 years ago, I can tell you they're absolutely were some teachers who overstepped their bounds and people always looked at the other way.
Story 3: she won't get reminded of her harassment because you let her get away with it.
ALWAYS. PRESS. CHARGES.
RIGHT!!! people think pressing charges is some long drawn out ordeal that they don't want to go through when in fact they have very little to do after pressing!!! It is in the police and prosecutors hands after your decision to do so!
especially since she did it to what she thought was a minor too!
Im sure her students will remind her lol
Exactly this woman should never be allowed to work with children again she should be banned and fired as she literally grabbed someone physically assaulted them and also publicly shamed them and unzipped their clothing I mean are you serious? She also assumed that the person she was doing this to was a minor she did it on University property which instantly makes it a felony!
It is really hard to fully sympathize with someone who refuses to take just a little bit of time to press charges in order to prevent what just happened to them happening to someone else it just shows that they don't give a damn about anything other than their time because they're so busy or they just don't want to do it because of blah blah blah.......
NO!! PRESS CHARGES!! THESE PEOPLE AREN'T "GOING To HAVE AN EPIPHANY" OR
"LEARN THEIR LESSON ",
They're going to smirk knowing that they got away with it because no one stood up to them yet again which gives them the balls and the entitlement to continue to do these things because no one stands up to them and that's it so yeah I feel real bad for the opp but at the same time dude really
Always press charges because you can often convince them to settle for a bit of cash instead of them getting a permanent charge of some kind on their record. It's just free money.
Story 4: Some people are just that bold and stupid. This guy harassed women, parked in the wrong place (in a sloppy way too), and threatened a dude trying to warn him about a parking ticket.
In the end, he got multiple tickets and a possible drunk driving charge. That's karma for ya
Everybody gangsta until they get enough parking tickets to bankrupt a micronation.
And then gets additional fines or potentially loses their license for drink driving. We'll never know for sure but...
@@dantenotavailable If he hadn't already lost his license before that incident.
@@TheAttacker732 I'd like to be able to argue that that's unlikely but...
Story 3 - OP definitely should’ve pressed charges on that awful excuse of a teacher for assault. I mean who the hell just grabs someone, thinking they are a student from their school and manhandles them like that?
That woman should not be allowed anywhere near kids at all.
Absolutely! She should be blacklisted from ever teaching again.
AND undoes a jacket, which I'm pretty sure can count as SA
@@sebforce1165 Yep. And he's luck it would not be SA on a minor.
@@Some_Guy6 The teacher in that story was a woman
@@kranberry3318 Still, doesn't make it _not_
The fourth story. You think it can't get worse. Then it gets worse. Then it gets even worse than that. Plus it's one of those "Fuck around and find out."
Just from parking fines he's deep in the hole.
@@timothybarham6374 just three steps from being in deep shit. Then he gets into the car drunk.
If that isn't his first DUI, he is in deep kimchi. May lose his DL for a long time! 😄
@lancerevell5979 I doubt that he'd get off light (light as in first time doing it). I feel additional charges are/will/had been done. You can take the white trailer park trash out of the trailer park but ya can't take the white trailer park hillbilly trash out of the person.
@@timothybarham6374 Minimum $3,100 in the hole
Story 4, that drivrr racked over $2600 dollars in fines parking where he did. Plus thats not counting the bills for driving drunk. That was one very expensive night for that fool.
that teacher should have been charged. she manhandled op, unzipped her jacket (which is inapropriate), and pulled her along, practically kidnapping.
Yikes! I was so worried this was going to be a demonization of the homeless man in the first story, so happy it was an entertaining Karen story!
Same here, am glad this story showed how many homeless people are not drunks or drug addicts like most claim. Many will gladly take what little you gave them for a hot meal, that they sadly do not get to enjoy often. Reminds me of my childhood, a poor man outside the pizza place asking for some money to buy food. We instead gave him some of our pizza since we had more than enough food to share. It was years ago, but I remember how grateful he was.
In story 3, even if OP were a student from a field trip, the fact that this teacher left marks on someone is terrible. Heck, if I were a parent and my kid came to me with marks from a teacher, I'd make hell look like a vacation in comparison to what I'd do to her.
I'm always sad when one does not use self defence to it's fullest and afterwards not even press charges. That teacher commited S3xual assault. And for all she knew, it was s3xual assault on a minor......... Karen teacher should NOT be near students.
Story 4: why do people need to make life so much harder for themselves? If a parking enforcer or security of a place told me to move, I’d just apologize and move. Or better yet, I wouldn’t park in a spot CLEARLY LABELED “Loading and Unloading Only”!!!
Near where I live there's an area famous for illegal u-turns to save ~40 seconds of driving.
It's caused an accidenr ever few months because it's a blind area near a pedestrian crossing(there's bushes around the crossing), they take it too fast and by the time they spot the pedestrian or other car stopped at the crossing it's too late to stop. So it obvious should be illegal, it's just not safe.
The council put up no u-turn signs, drivers ignored them.
The council added traffic cones to the gap, people removed the cones so they could continue the illegal u-turns.
The council put up signs warning being caught would result in fines along with a camera. Some jackasses spray painted the camera lens.
Then the police got involved and just started waiting on the other side to pull over every car.
Can you believe some entitled people actually complained to the local paper about how unfair it was because they use that illegal u-turn twice a day and never got ticketed before, but now they've got 8 in one week and need to take a day off work to fight them in court.
@@scragar We had such a location that too was an accident waiting to happen ..... as many did. Signs did not deter drivers from being stupid. When all else failed, and after a fatal accident, the County's Traffic Engineering Division took care of the problem ..... they redesigned the road and median and neatly closed the gap. Nobody has made a u-turn since.
There were MULTIPLE updated on the final story, turns out the Father/OP of the story has a history of harassing workers, picking on anyone he thinks is weaker/below him, using his money to buy his kids' affection and then taking away gifts over even the smallest of slight, and being a general Karen.
The Park event wasn't an isolated case, it was the final straw, his daughter has gone full NC with him, his son says he's doing the same as soon as he enter college, even his wife has left their home and is living with her sister.
He was offered the chance of reconciliation with the family but would have to attend individual and family therapy, he has refused because, and I quote "They are the ones with the problem, not me."
Exactly! The number of jumped up, bitter, entitled people who call OP's daughter out of her name for his first post and still backed him up after the updates was WILD. I'm really disappointed with Dark Fluff for just taking that at face value and shitting on OP's daughter without context.
@@JezebelNeverDied I mean, it reads like a teenager wrote the story, so I'm calling it as one of the many fakes. The OP just wanted to make things more interesting and came up with more random stuff since he's 'dad' character wasn't getting enough hate the first time around. So yeah, OP is butthole, but mostly for writing an a crap story.
yeah ngl that one had a much different vibe than the other stories and I just kind knew behind the scenes that dad was an asshole.
Really? Where are all of those updates? The last one I read, update 2, had none of those updates even in the comments.
Isn't it important to teach middle school students the importance of accepting consequences for their actions? What a better lesson than seeing a teacher being handcuffed?
The teacher story: If I had been OP and that woman laid hands on me, I definitely would have pressed charges against her. No one lays hands on me without paying the consequences.
Story 3: Best case she loses her job, worst case she loses her job and license to teach.
With how she treated OP, I wouldn't doubt that, I mean who does that? The Teacher assaulted OP by pulling her jacket open....
She should have told the security guard that the teacher started to undress her in front of the high school students.
Depending on perspective best case would be losing job/licence and worst would be simple reprimand
@@MuttonTheDragon She should have been banned from teaching other students because of that stunt she pulled, she's a danger to kids in general.
I think you meant "better case" if she loses her job and license to teach. A person like that shouldn't touch worms how to wriggle.
Story 1 - Well played OP, that was great. Indeed a buck well spent.😂😂😂😂
I would have only done a penny
Why? To feel superior?
@@Chuckf66to annoy her😎
I'll bet that gas station manager got a good laugh. #2: What naive? Katie read that jerk like a short story and had fun with him.
And a great story to tell others.😂
The first story: I can guarantee that the Karen was just mad that Op gave someone else money and not her.
I think it was all a con to get the manager or OP to buy her gas.
Oof! Calling 911 after all those tickets and a failed night is like twisting a salted knife in an already bad wound! 🤣
I love that first story. Dollar well spent, indeed.
Last story has multiple updates now and it turns out op is a super unreliable narrator. I won't spoil anything but let's just say, op has a temper and how he explained what happened in the story is very likely under playing his own reactions.
Also, his son is scared of making him angry, so he tends to agree with his dad to avoid his temper, not because he thinks his dad is in the right.
I figured something like that. Daughter has a car he bought her two years ago, and now she's getting another one?? It's inconceivable that he's not a rich entitled a-hole! In all likelihood, the entire family are a-holes - just like dad!
I was just about to say something about this. I head this story on another channel and yeah, OP is definitely an AH. He totally downplays the situation in the first post to make himself look good. I highly recommend hearing/reading the entire story.
Totally disagree I would be peeved if someone shoves you out of the way too. That girl is a spoiled naive brat.
Yep. The daughter didn't even want to go to the zoo with him, and was already on the verge of going no contact. She told her mom that the car would be a test - she already knew he'd find some excuse not to buy it, because apparently it's his M.O. The fact that he went nuclear because someone brushed past him at the exit sealed the deal and the whole family wants nothing to do with him.
I think my favorite thing was redditors telling him he should look into therapy and him saying, "Why should I get therapy, I'm not crazy, everyone else I meet is." more or less.
Can you post a link or say the channel name?
Story 3: There are several better ways to approach this and the teacher chose this. Come on, we all should know you don't grab and drag ANYONE like that. Heck, she could've done this to the actual students
Snacks and Darkfluff =perfect down time.
With story 3, after she glared at me for her mistake, I would have definitely pressed charges and filed a complaint. She's not going to be reminded, she's not going to care. Hell, that glare this proves that she thinks it was OP's fault and not hers. Always press charges or file a complaint to at least have it noted somewhere that they are a problem.
The story with Op's friend getting hit on was hilarious and the commentary was amazing!!
Story 1, I would have put 99 cents on her pump, showing her that I don't give a "buck"! 😂
That last story was missing a TON of context. There were several updates and follow up posts that changed the story significantly. Basically, this guy is constantly making snide marks and causing issues to the point that his whole family is embarrassed by his entitled behavior. Was his daughter entitled for expecting him to buy her a new car? Yes. There was more context to that too, and supposedly it was a "test" because the OP has an established behavior of promising things then taking them back when he feels slighted, as well as using his money to attempt to control his family. The wife has been defending his terrible behavior for years, and when OP told his daughter he was getting her a new car, she told her mother she never expected to actually get it, and that when he inevitably decided to punish her by "taking it away," she was going no contact. Later posts revealed that the son was backing up dad because he was basically too scared to speak out against him.
That kind of test is major BS, and terrible communication, so the daughter is either still very entitled, or just a passive aggressive AH, but either way, the story ends up being more of an ESH than NTA. Every update made it clearer that he was intentionally leaving stuff out to make himself seem like the victim, and really presenting a warped version of the real story. If I remember correctly, his daughter did cut him out, his wife ended up leaving him, and the son basically said as soon as he finishes school, he's gone.
I thought it sounded like punishing the daughter for daring to disagree with him. I suspect "why do you always have to say something?" was a true statement.
Story 3 - ALWAYS, always press charges. They will never learn otherwise.
Last story: OP has raised an entitled daughter. My favourite saying applies here: fuck around and find out...daughter did.
You need to read / listen to the full story. The updates paint the father as the real AH in this story. If I hadn’t seen the updates I would 100% agree with you, but his own updates show just how much of an idiot the father is in this story.
Oh, he fucked around and found out. The daughter, the son, and the wife of all cut him out of their life
Cannot find anything to any updates or the post itself. Is it deleted or name changed?
Signs that say "24 hour enforcement" would make OP's job much easier.
People who don't listen to other people don't read signs.
True, but it's a good way to say, "I told you so" when they get a ticket. @@jorgecarreras4214
😂 OMG!!! Chad just talked himself into trouble! I love this story!!!!
You definitely need to read the updates for story 5. There is so much more to it.
Do you know where to find the updates? I did a reddit search and came up blank.
Yeah, I can't find it either
@@arthurbrandonnielsen I tried to post a link and TH-cam won't allow it, so I'll do this the tedious way: Google (in quotes) "AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me"
@@recycledapathy7411
Thanks. Just read the updates.
Oh boy...
Even when writing from his perspective he sounds like a crybully who lost his kids respect over years of petty nonsense and breaking promises over his ego.
Mark Narrations covers the full story with the updates.@@arthurbrandonnielsen
Parking in a white zone - $90
Parking in a blue zone - $900
Parking in a white zone - $90
Parking in a blue zone - $900
Parking 12+ inches from the curb - $120
Parking on the wrong side during Alternate Side Parking -$???
That is expensive parking.
Story 3: I would have insisted that on calling the police and pressing charges for assault. It would be so easy for her school to just sweep this under the rug because she's a veteran teacher, blah, blah, whatever, with just a complaint.
When I was in college, I carried a backpack from class to class. When I went on middle school field trips, nobody carried anything with them because we didn't need books or anything other than an occasional pencil, and maybe the girls carried their purses, but that's it. Middle school students wouldn't have needed their books to tour a university campus. So, my bet is that there were several context clues here that the teacher just ignored.
Daughter siding with this young man yelling at her father: if that guy bullies adult men in public, how would he treat her in private?
Try looking at this story objectively. You've got two groups of people in a public location. Group 1 walks out of the building. The passage is wide enough that someone from group 2 starts behind group 1 but leaves faster. They do this without touching anyone. So what precisely has this person done wrong other than being a woman who walks faster than a man?
So, after this happens the father from group 1 starts making passive aggressive remarks to the person who happened to walk faster than him. Who's the bully in this situation? Guy from group 2 comes to the defence of his mother, who is being insulting for no reason. Daughter from group 1 also speaks up saying that her dad always does this.
Even if this story is 100% true as told the OP still looks somewhat bad. And if OP tried to make themselves look good as often happens with these sorts of posts, it sounds like he probably has anger issues and tends to cause scenes in public a lot.
Even if it is a passive aggressive in some sort. The behavior the women showed is something i only remember when i was in school or at a train (mostly because you actually have some appointments or you try to get at least to your job in time). If you show that behavior at a place like a zoo or anywhere else that has nothing to to with relevant things i would also think if that person never learned any manners and with not apologizing for it but getting angry without a second is also quite a prove that the person is always doing these small things.
See it like you (in this place OP) would drive a car and just before you get to an intersection and someone (the Mother) turns over right in front and cuts you of by this. If you have to hard-break in this scenario only because someone cannot wait maybe 2-5 seconds it wont be the first or the last time that this person will do this.
This story has an update. OP is the asshole, and picks fights everywhere he goes belittles service personal the whole nine Karen yard. This situation whas the last straw for his family and OP ends without them and having not learned anything.
Story 3 $2,200 in tickets AND A DUI. SOUNDS GREAT!
Not reporting these Karens to the police is like feeding the bears. You're just going to encourage their bad behavior.
17:30 wow that story was funny. all he had to do was move his car and would have saved a ton of money in tickets. 😹😹😹
For story 1 my mom is a bleeding heart she's constantly giving out money,food and drinks to homeless people, she even has a pack of cigarettes set aside to give away, she of course is mindful of her safety, but nonetheless shes a bleeding heart. I distinctly remember having a conversation over if the homeless people really needed the money or if they're trying to score drug money, and her response is ingrained in my brian " I give that money away because I can, I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt, I truly hope that it doesn't go to drugs but I can dictate that, miss cat there will be times when you should be cynical of the world but all I'm trying to do is be kind and make this corner of the world a better place, kindness doesn't cost anything, a random act of kindness is the motto that I live by". I actively try to live by her values but sadly I'm more likely to look at the world in a negative light and be cynical about it.
Story 1 - should have been in the UK. You don’t put a fixed amount on the pump. You just pump petrol (gas) and pay at the end. She would have pumped 40 dollars (or pounds) worth, expecting it to be paid for and got a shock. If she drove off without paying, number plate recognition would identify her car and she could expect a visit from the cops.
what's betting she just filled until the pump shut off and just drove off without even checking
You can do that in America too
Pay at pump or pay cashier inside are the choices in California. Pay-inside is often cash.
@bayardkyyako7427 Not all states are like that. Some you need to pre-pay a certain amount first. Others won't even let you pump your own gas (new jersey). All in the attempt of stopping people from stealing gas.
Never refuse to file a complaint
First story is exactly Karens in my church.
The last story with the OP and his daughter giving her phone number to that random guy who was defending his mom, has a crazy update! After a few more posts, it becomes apparent that OP is a real life Karen and his whole family basically goes no contact with him over his Karen ways. I definitely went through a box of popcorn reading his unhinged posts.
I look really young, with make up I look 14 .... without you look ? Such a funny way to make sure we all get that she's a babyface. Love her for that.
I was carded until I went gray. Being treated like a kid in your sixties sucks.
The daughter is 25!!! Her dad has zero obligation to buy he grown arse adult daughter a car!!! I had 2 kids by that age driving a car I paid for!!!! WTF
facts appear a bit different
multiple updates happened
Oh, the OP is an unreliable narrator! There are so many updates.
@@sakatababaOp is a hot tempered ashole it would seem. So be it. But regardless of this, his daughter is still a grown woman and can buy her own car if she wants a brand new one when he has already given her one only 2 years ago. Most people in the world don't have such a new car with only 2 years on it.
I bought my present car in cash as brand new 4, nearly 5 years ago, and it's still one of the newer cars around. And where I live in Denmark, not even most rich people will buy their children cars, let alone brand new ones. If the children want one, they can buy it themselves with their own money so that they will know that money isn't growing on trees for the free picking. You earn it by working for it so that you know the value of it, and life is not a free ride.
And I have the story to prove that they learn that. We have a rich family here that is every bit as wild as the richest in the US with scandals and what not, and particularly the oldest daughter is often hitting the news with her escapades. They own a huge enterprise called the Aller Press Corporation. But I actually happened upon her in town on one occasion, and apparently some guy in her company had made some form of degrading remark about some girl who was clearly not part of the Danish jet set trying to buy a drink or food or something from an in place with the jet set. But contrary to her reputation of being very haughty, she immediately shut him down hard, telling him that the girl had clearly worked hard for her money, and if he couldn't accept that she spent HER money on things SHE liked, He could just leave the party and go home, thank you very much.
I won't say that this made me doubt every bit the media has ever written about her. Where there is smoke, there is fire. But I did get a bit higher respect for her after that since she clearly knows and accepts that every people around has a right to the money they work so hard to earn and the right to spend it the way they want without being scolded for it by some rich spoiled brat.
@@Jens-Viper-Nobel you do understand anecdotal evidence is a proof of nothing?
@@sakatababa Oh, I'm perfectly aware of it. Make no mistake. But wether you can see it the way I do or not, It does not remove the fact that even a high profile scandalist like her is able to see that people actually earn their money to buy their things and lead their lives and that she (or anybody else for that matter) cannot take for granted that there will just always be money around in abundance if you do not put in he effort to make sure they are there.
Or haven't you noticed from your own experience that those we call freeloaders tend to end up in either homelessness or some squalid place that nobody else wants to be in?
1st story, you know, I'd have been even pettier, and told the cashier to put 40 cents on the pump instead. Make more of a point than a buck. :D
Always press charges!!!
Giving a drug addict money isn't a crime.
Giving illegal narcotics to a drug addict is a crime, but normally the addict gives you money first.
Love that first story!
Last story: you missed a few updates on this one ;)
Basically, OP has been promising things to his daughter and then not keeping those promises for petty reasons quite a few times in the past and the car thing was the last drop. The mother took the daughter's side, the son tried to smooth things over but was really on the daughter's side too because there seem to have been a lot of incidences in the past, then the daughter called the son a pussy for not saying what he really thought because he didn't want to lose his daddy-paid trip to Europe. OP absolutely refused to get therapy for all the issues that came up because OP thought he didn't need it and liked himself the way he was. It went on and on and I think OP's wife is getting a divorce and the daughter cut contact with OP.
Overall no one in that family sounded like a particularly nice person, it was a whole shitshow and Reddit couldn't decide whether it was YTA or ESH even after OP tried to present himself in the best light possible.
Not only would My daughter not be getting a car from me she would also be looking for a new place to live
Story 3. I understand how OP felt. My junior year at Uni in Florida, I got an apartment practically across the street. At least twice a week I’d get stopped by the cops asking where I was supposed to be? They’re real big on truancy down here. I always had to sow my school ID.
thank you for being the only reddit-story youtuber that doesn't suck!! you're the only one i sub to anymore.
hidden tale and melon cast are also quite nice.
What is it with Karens/Kyles getting POed or trying to get "revenge" for being proven stupid?
Ego can be a hell of a drug.
Story 4 was basically play stupid games win a fantastic stupid prize
Not buying someone a car for a present isn't a punishment! Buying someone a car for a present is a wonderful, generous gesture, & not doing a wonderful, generous gesture for someone who's just disrespected & ill-treated you isn't a punishment, it's a natural consequence. If daughter's happy taking dad down a peg or two by schmoozing up to a stranger who is harassing him, she should be fine with getting taken down a peg or two herself by not getting her fancy-schmancy birthday present. Why would you expect someone to buy you an expensive gift when you've just treated them like crap & told them they deserved it??? She can drive her current, perfectly good car & if she doesn't like it maybe she'll figure out how to treat people with courtesy when they're going to do her a big favor. ^mic drop^
Final story: OP is NOT the a-hole. His own daughter turned against him because some guy was cute. Well, she should've thought twice before doing that, she don't deserve a new car. Especially if she has a working car already. Sorry, not sorry. The daughter played stupid games, she got stupid prizes. Of course OP's wife is going to argue that they should still do it. OP should ask if she'd buy a car for someone who tried to humiliate them in public over a stupid reason.
There are several updates that boil down to OP downplaying his behavior and constantly doing entitled/petty shit. When Reddit handed him his ass he tried to blame it on childhood trauma but refused individual or group therapy because "they're the ones with the problem, not me". His daughter is NC, his son will be when he leaves for college and his wife left him.
There is so much more to the last story. Trust me has multiple updates, and the ending is something that even surprised me.
Story 5: Op is definitely NTA. If I were the dad, I'd do the same thing. It's disappointing for the daughter to take the side of a total stranger.
Ask yourself why...OP is an unreliable narrator and a Karen.
@@Azulakayesyep. If you read the full story and updates, he is an abusive prick who refuses to get family therapy because "I don't have issues, everyone else does."
Story 3. That woman should not be allowed around minors or in any position of power. If she's putting her hands on someone she thinks is a student, not even one of her own, what is she doing to her own students?
Story 4. This was hilarious. Watching karma hit this guy over and over again as everyone and their dog used the exact wording of the law to exact vengeance.
On the last story I was on OP's side until the updates. What he says about therapy really shows how he truly is
You really should have covered the updates to story #4 - there is so much more to it!
Story 4 - "I f**k you up!" ...yeah, we will see about that. 😂
Story 4 - Wooow that was Brutal OP, but can’t say that the guy didn’t deserve it.
10:25 - She adds a glare at the end like that and I'm going straight back to that security officer to file a complaint and get the teacher's & school's names to contact the school.
Story 3: ALWAYS. PRESS. CHARGES. OP really should have pressed full charges. 1) Attempted Kidnapping. 2) Assault & Battery. 3) Harassment. Then sue the nasty khunt.
Story 5: OP is NTA. OP didn't want little Ms. Smartass to get 'infected' with his "entitlement money" by buying her a SECOND car. She can get the "cute" guy to buy it for her.
for that last story I think Michael Corleone said it best " You never take sides against the family"
Story 2 - Trying to hook up with the owner's daughter. Man, I would say that guy, Chad, had a pair on him if he had known that, but I bet he would have paled several shades if Katie mentioned it lol
another car for her b day after already giving her one...?!?!?!? at 16 I had to pay my folks $400 for the old family wreck and then take it to a garage to get it fixed and pay for that, plus my licence, reg and insurance.... Spoiled... I'd say so
There is a comment further up by sagejungworth4155 saying that there is a whole saga and the dad might have left information out to not look as bad, and he might be super controlling so i'm leaning to not reliable narrator until there is more information.
The updates show he made most of it up to look better than what he is. His entire family hates him because he's extremely aggro.
If I remember the updates he might not have even gotten her the first car and she only asked for the second as a test.
Apparently he is really willing to promise big things but she always manages to "mess up" and he recinds the offer just before he's going to get the item.
My Dad always taught me to be self-reliant. He did buy me a used motorcycle when I turned 16, which I had to do maintenace on, but bought my sister a brand new car ('76 Pinto) when she turned 16. I bought my own first car while in the Airforce at 19.
Story#5. My dad would have sent me packing! I would have probably had to have walked home or caught a taxi. And dad would have told mom to shut up or hit the road with your daughter!! My dad was stern, but just. He worked hard for his family of 5 and took no BS!!! Mom never had to work a day in her life!! OP not the A-HOLE, daughter and mom, yup!!!
Oh, the wife did hit the road. Apparently, the OP has a history of being an asshole in public, the wife told him that the daughter was about to go NC before the zoo incident anyway and had already known he was going to come up with some excuse to not live up to his promise about the car, the OP pretty much said, "Well, tough shit, I'm not an asshole, everyone else in the whole world is an asshole" so his wife left.
Ticket guy is looking at around $2500 in fines, plus 6-9 months of suspended license. $180 for parking in a no parking, 1,800 for parking in a handicapped, 120 (depending on state, but the cost of mine here) for parking on street cleaning time, and another 150-800 for dui plus court cost(again, for my state, so it depends), with 6-9 months suspended license. Incredible pay back tbh
Story 2: Even as far back as 60 years ago there were plenty of silly sitcoms of idiot guys who lied to impress a girl, and all through today they all end the same way...😂😂😂
Last story: NTA. That behavior is uncalled for. OP has every right to do that after she dissed him. If that were my dad I would be in big trouble by not only my dad but my mom
*You can take her car shopping as you promised...but did you promise to **_buy_** her a car again?*
Turns out he was lying, and there's pretty good evidence he didn't even get her the supposed first car. There are updates showing he'd lied about most of the story to make himself look better.
That wasn't "karma for messing with people who are politely trying to help you" that was the consequence of his actions. It could be called karma for harassing all those girls tho... he prolly does it All The Time.
I would have said, "Yeah. You're right. I'm entitled. I should stop buying new cars for my daughter every 2 years. Glad you noticed my entitlement. We should all be more grateful of what we have. In fact, let's see how else we're entitled. Let's donated the cost of a new car to charity."
i physically WINCED when hearing the ticket totals
I would have paid money to see that conversation between Katie and Chad
Story 5 had a bunch of updates, and basically, EVERYONE in that story come off as total AHs. OP is outed as an entitled jerk who thinks because he has money, he can swing his dick around and embarrass his family in public, however his kids are no prizes either. Daughter thinks daddy owes her a brand new 200k car just because she wants it, and claims later she only demanded the car because she knew OP would back out, and is leveraging her relationship with OP for it, basically 'buy me what I want or I'm cutting you off'. Son is also a dick, he agrees OP is too aggressive, but tells OP to his face 'well I'm not going to cut you off because I still need you to pay for my room and school, but then after that I'm cutting you off'. Wife is a peach too, she gossiped about OP's childhood to the daughter behind his back and basically makes OP pay for everything in the household so she can save her entire paycheck for fun money, and says if OP won't buy princess a car, mom will buy it herself.
Everyone in final story are a bunch of spoiled, entitled brats.
Story 3:
Me, as a middle schooler, randomly: "Hey, you guys remember that time Ms. Karen tried to kidnap that older girl?"
Betting Katie wasnt as naive as thought but is secretly a genius trilevel chess player
If you ask me that wasn't a wasted dollar😂😂
The teacher story is funny. I can understand OP's outrage, but having taught middle school, I wouldn't wish that experience on anyone!
Story 2
Wonder if that girl was hearing Phoenix Wright music when questioning
The last story. I've read some of the comments and people are saying the OP is to blame for it all. I don't see it that way. Ah, the poor poor 23 year old daughter. Daddy isn't going to buy her ANOTHER CAR. wtf. My parents didn't buy me or my siblings, cars. We worked, we saved/took out loans and we got our own vehicles. If the daughter is p'd off that Daddy isn't going to buy her another car, then SHE is the entitled one. And if her mother agrees with daughter, then mom is entitled too.
OP is no longer with the family, well that just might be a blessing for OP.
Apparently, according to some other comments, this isn't the full story. Seems like OP was quite the biased narrator.
I think it boils down to an ESH story, some more than others, but it's hard to tell from the narrator's perspective
Story 5: There are so many updates!!! It's worse as he's actually a Karen. In the end, his wife leaves him, and his daughter won't talk to him, and the son only stays bc he needs to for school
OP did nothing wrong, calling out the entitled moron for her idiocy. Her son was a huge prick. OP's daughter is an entitled little prick. Wife was basically absentee.
Came here to mention this! There's SO much more to that story that completely changes the perspective.
Could you please give a reliable source? He deleted his account
Yeah, it's worth remembering this was from his own perspective and I was still viewing this as an everyone sucks even when given the best light.
@@Sam-ob4of Mark Narrations covered the whole story a little over a week ago.
Turns out OP's one of those busybody types prone to picking fights and stirring up drama, and the daughter actually anticipated him backing out of buying the car, telling the mom that he always holds his money over other people's heads to punish them and she would go no contact once he did it this time... this got the mom angry because her husband proved her daughter right after she went out of her way to defend him. The last update was the whole family torn apart with the son telling OP if he doesn't fix the family by the time he leaves for college, then he won't be coming back.
The third story the OP should have pressed charges against that teacher.
story 3: I would press charges. I was once mistaken for a high school student until they saw my face
Don't shake your head too hard is Fluff's disclaimer that he is not responsible for brain damage due to concussions from shaking my head so hard at these Karens.
Last story:
I wouldn’t expect family to agree with me. Im also not able to feel embarrassment (mental condition).
That said, I’m hyper aware when someone is trying to embarrass me. People like who like to try tend to be very toxic/entitled people who think they can get what they want by trying to put me down. Thanks to them always putting me into positions where I get burned out, it’s one of the traits I look for in people.
The daughter in the last story sends red flags. She could’ve easily made her concerns known in private instead of trying to publicly humiliating her dad by siding with someone that’s harassed him.
I know I would have said something like rude much? If a person that cut me off like that. Also tell your daughter that apparently she doesn't care about other things in life if it's just being cute is all that matters to her little Veruca Salt.
Last story: This one has an update I watched in another video, the fight went massive, the wife told him that she was going to buy her daughter a car, the daughter tried to apologize but he asked her if she still talked with the guy, she denied but he found out that was a lie. I don't remember if he divorced his wife tho...
Story 4: always fun dealing with hüdrats while doing security 🙄🥃
I agree that OP is not the A-hole in this situation... however there are more Story 5, diving a bit deeper into why the daughter has such an attitude towards her father.
First story - this woman has no self worth, nothing in her life that brings her above others. Perhaps too lazy to put forth effort into her life.... but an easy way to get an audience is by catching a drug transaction going down. The police, news reporters, she's a life saver, a star!!!
The story of the teacher mistaking the university student for one of her charges: always, always press charges. Any unwanted contact can be considered as assault.
Story 1: That was so nice to give your last 4 bucks to that homeless guy. Wish I could do that at times too, but I do everything by card. I rarely handle cash.
Story 3: What disturbed me the most was the teacher thinking it was OKAY to unzip someone's jacket without permission!
I'd have her with charges of sexual assault - extreme? Perhaps, but I don't care.