We had 6 miscarriages followed by many years of infertility. When I did find out I was pregnant, it was definitely a shock - but my doctor insisted I be on bedrest for the first trimester so I took medical leave from my job. MIL? I was being "lazy". Then, just as the doctor was about to allow me to go to work, I had some extreme bleeding and we thought for sure we'd lost the baby - but doppler found a strong heartbeat. "Bedrest for the 2nd trimester if you want to keep this baby." So we did as the doctor ordered. MIL? I was "being lazy" again. And about halfway through, doing absolutely nothing, we had two more scares of bleeding, followed by another bout of bleeding at the end of the second trimester - so the doctor said "Alright, we're keeping you on bedrest for the rest of the pregnancy." We really wanted Peanut, so we followed the doctor's orders. At least once a week, my husband dealt with "She's just being lazy" and "I was pregnant five times and did all the gardening and canning, cleaned the house from top to bottom every day, yet she insists on laying around doing nothing but being lazy!!!!" blah blah blah. It was about half-way through the third trimester he yelled at her on the phone - and then dealt with a barage of calls from all his siblings about "making Mom cry" - which they quickly understood once he told them what happened. She was blessed to have easy pregnancies with all five of her children. I was not. I was not only on bedrest the entire time, I dealt with being sick from morning to night, having the slightest scents set me off (I could only handle the smell of broccoli and steak cooking - anything else, even potatoes boiling, made me sick). Believe me, I would have loved to be able to do some "nesting". "Bedrest" is only "fun" for about a week and then it gets extremely boring!!! And then, after all that, when Baby was about 6 months old...She had the nerve to say "So, when can I expect another?" Just HOW would we handle another pregnancy on bedrest with a baby already in the house? Bless my husband when he said "The only option would be to hire someone to come in and look after everything because she would have to be stress-free, and having you move in with us would NOT be stress-free!" She was angry with him for a good month and didn't call a single time. It was a good month.
I am so sorry you went through all of that. I know how you feel. I've had 13 pregnancies and 2 very premature babies who are now adults. I was told that I would never carry a baby and always misscarry by 12 weeks ironically I'm also highly fertile and get pregnant even on contraception implant and injection, im in my late 40s yet i have my last misscarrige early this year 🙄 I just don't produce enough hormone to keep baby to the point I've never had a positive pregnancy test result even minutes before delivery it came back negative !! They actually think I was carrying twins with my kids and I lost 1 each time and hey think that's what saved them as my body thought id got rid of them, I also was on bed rest I actually spent most of it in the hospital until they were delivered at 31 weeks 3lb10oz and 26 weeks 1lb12oz. I was so very lucky, although i did joke with the dr that he lied when he told me I'd never carry it and I should sue him lol 😀 I'm so glad you hot uo have uour baby I'm sure your story will bring a little hope to others who are struggling to have a baby. As for uour kither in law id personally cut all contact with her she obviously doesn't respect you in any way, and trust me when i say you don't need toxic, sociopathic, narcissistic people in your life and you will be so better off without them, I know i was after i cut ties from my beyond crazy family 😀 take care and stay safe. And enjoy that little one while it's ikkle and cute as they turn into horrible teenagers before you know it 🤣 xx
Demand alimony for what she's not cheating on him she hasn't done anything at all that he can claim alimony from if anything she can claim alimony from him because she's a non-working mom and she can claim compensation from MIL for abuse
M i l is a crazy abusive tool, what did she sacrifice making a very pregnant woman come over and clean her house m i l should have been cleaning the pregnant woman's house
We had 6 miscarriages followed by many years of infertility. When I did find out I was pregnant, it was definitely a shock - but my doctor insisted I be on bedrest for the first trimester so I took medical leave from my job. MIL? I was being "lazy". Then, just as the doctor was about to allow me to go to work, I had some extreme bleeding and we thought for sure we'd lost the baby - but doppler found a strong heartbeat. "Bedrest for the 2nd trimester if you want to keep this baby." So we did as the doctor ordered. MIL? I was "being lazy" again. And about halfway through, doing absolutely nothing, we had two more scares of bleeding, followed by another bout of bleeding at the end of the second trimester - so the doctor said "Alright, we're keeping you on bedrest for the rest of the pregnancy." We really wanted Peanut, so we followed the doctor's orders. At least once a week, my husband dealt with "She's just being lazy" and "I was pregnant five times and did all the gardening and canning, cleaned the house from top to bottom every day, yet she insists on laying around doing nothing but being lazy!!!!" blah blah blah. It was about half-way through the third trimester he yelled at her on the phone - and then dealt with a barage of calls from all his siblings about "making Mom cry" - which they quickly understood once he told them what happened. She was blessed to have easy pregnancies with all five of her children. I was not. I was not only on bedrest the entire time, I dealt with being sick from morning to night, having the slightest scents set me off (I could only handle the smell of broccoli and steak cooking - anything else, even potatoes boiling, made me sick). Believe me, I would have loved to be able to do some "nesting". "Bedrest" is only "fun" for about a week and then it gets extremely boring!!! And then, after all that, when Baby was about 6 months old...She had the nerve to say "So, when can I expect another?" Just HOW would we handle another pregnancy on bedrest with a baby already in the house? Bless my husband when he said "The only option would be to hire someone to come in and look after everything because she would have to be stress-free, and having you move in with us would NOT be stress-free!" She was angry with him for a good month and didn't call a single time. It was a good month.
I deeply sorry your many misfortunes… I am glad you get away from INSANE and EVIL MOTHER IN LAW! Wishes you happiness!
So great you had your baby after going through all that. ,😁
I am so sorry you went through all of that. I know how you feel. I've had 13 pregnancies and 2 very premature babies who are now adults. I was told that I would never carry a baby and always misscarry by 12 weeks ironically I'm also highly fertile and get pregnant even on contraception implant and injection, im in my late 40s yet i have my last misscarrige early this year 🙄 I just don't produce enough hormone to keep baby to the point I've never had a positive pregnancy test result even minutes before delivery it came back negative !! They actually think I was carrying twins with my kids and I lost 1 each time and hey think that's what saved them as my body thought id got rid of them, I also was on bed rest I actually spent most of it in the hospital until they were delivered at 31 weeks 3lb10oz and 26 weeks 1lb12oz. I was so very lucky, although i did joke with the dr that he lied when he told me I'd never carry it and I should sue him lol 😀 I'm so glad you hot uo have uour baby I'm sure your story will bring a little hope to others who are struggling to have a baby. As for uour kither in law id personally cut all contact with her she obviously doesn't respect you in any way, and trust me when i say you don't need toxic, sociopathic, narcissistic people in your life and you will be so better off without them, I know i was after i cut ties from my beyond crazy family 😀 take care and stay safe. And enjoy that little one while it's ikkle and cute as they turn into horrible teenagers before you know it 🤣 xx
Is there an epidemic of sociopathic mil's who are willing to endanger their dil"s and their grandbabies.
No one would put up with a mother in law like this! Daughter in law should call taxi and check in to closest full service type of hotel in the area!
A complete spa hotel to spoil herself!
If she's trying to break down the door, record it and CALL THE POLICE!
If daughter in law and husband shown as renters or owners of dwelling and can prove it then call the cops and toss out mom!
MIL is rude. MIL should get off her butt and clean her house
Women out there, if you don't like your DIL then don't be around them.
That through i Love my daughter-in-law
Hey MOM....................THE KARMA TRAIN A COMING..................And It's COMING FOR YOU!!!!!!!!! 4:57
This was the best "insane & outdate mean mother in law story" EVER! i demand more Noah-like husbands/boyfriends in these stories!!!
Hmm, if she has relatives and a brother, how is that being without a family?🤔
According to MIL,If you don't have parent's,you don't have family.
Obviously Mil has never been pregnant
It's not a matter of ever being pregnant. She wanted a slave.
If my mil had a mouth like that she was ganne catch hands
Seen this video before minus the accents.😂
Demand alimony for what she's not cheating on him she hasn't done anything at all that he can claim alimony from if anything she can claim alimony from him because she's a non-working mom and she can claim compensation from MIL for abuse
M i l is a crazy abusive tool, what did she sacrifice making a very pregnant woman come over and clean her house m i l should have been cleaning the pregnant woman's house