My boyfriend is too busy to marry me. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.04.22]
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Hello Counselor EP. 409
- Guests : Kwanghee, Lee Seokhoon, Oh Jeongyeon, Naeun, Jinsol
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I feel like the hosts completely forgot the point of the topic. He’s a workaholic and he doesn’t make time for his girlfriend. He has time for all his jobs and all his hobbies, but he has no time for her. He doesn’t talk to his girlfriend, BECAUSE he doesn’t make time for his girlfriend. How could she possibly know that having a family is important to him if HE doesn’t make time to spend time WITH HER?! They shouldn’t even be dating, imo. Their mindsets and goals are completely different.
Amen
Sleeping 4 hours is an admired thing. There is no life balance. But he is on to promote himself. Get another job..
She looked close to tears for most of the show, especially when they were praising him after his dance and how being passionate is a good thing... But he sure doesn't seem to devote the same passion for his girlfriend!
teddymoon Preach Amen
My husband is the same. He works night shifts. Goes to school. Teaches kids. Goes to the gym. We've gotten into arguements about it and he just says im doing this for us. Hes gotten better cause somebody told him he needs to watch out cause I could get postpartum depression. So lately hes spending more time w his son and me.
They are both good people but not good for each other.. They should just break up and find someone with similar mindsets..
akshika rajawat just broke up and that’s so nice to read ☺️🌸
@@iXoXoMaddi thanks to hear that my comment made u happy 😊😊
I wish i found someone like the guy. I can totally get used not seeing him because i despise constant interactions while dating. I just dont like seeing someone so often eventhough those people are my friends, family members etc
@@reidesuga tbh I m like that too.. I can go without meeting a guy for 3-4 months and not get bothered by it 😂
dance4ever I think you misunderstood. I broke up with my boyfriend. Don’t know about these two on the show ☺️
he clearly doesn't wanna marry you, lmao, move on since that's what you're looking for; you can't force him....heck, he doesn't have time to even sleep, let alone date; stay out of the dating world, dude....smh
if he doesn't even have time for a gf how he gonna have time for kids. lol he's delusional
And his mom is on his side. Herghhh.. i can imagine this mama boi and mother-in-law will make the girl life harder if they get married 😣
@@choohah5604 please don't attach negative connotations to words like mama boi.
@@fMONA94 wea? Im not saying all mamaboy is the same. But mostly 🙄. Perhaps you are...? 🤨
even if they were to get married you would have to question how long that marriage will last.
Kwanghee getting frustrated is so funny and even im being mad to them just by looking at him 😂😂
Only 6 minutes to make him say "just break up". Haha.
He represents me
I don't think he's wrong, but I get where the girl's coming from. He shouldn't have gotten into a relationship if he has no time to date, but at the same time, she knew about how passionate he was about work from the beginning so she shouldn't have stayed.
What I want to say exactly. The woman expecting him to change which he won't. The man expecting her to understand everything which she will get tired of doing so. Does having a baby will makes things change for the better? Maybe but they just make/put the baby as a main problem.
@@saotul you are quite right in most part. What I would add is the fact that she is a typical girl, she liked him for stuff like his body, his personality and how he talks. He is the typical guy, he liked her for how she looks and how she talks.
I'm not sayin that that stuff are bad but when basic stuff like conversation and not being selfish are lacking, then it can't work out easily
yes jana yes yes yes
Ok but his dance was amazing
He is just buying time for her to realize that he doesn't want to marry her. A man knows when she is the one.
But he said he wants to marry her
At the end he looked pretty convinced about marry her this year 🤔 i don't know.. I just want them taking good choices
I think there's just some deeper conversations they haven't yet had. As you can see and hear from the lat 5 minutes of the clip, the reason why he wasn't sure about marrying her was because of the fact that she didn't want to have children. BUT again, that is a conversation that they should've had a long time ago, because it seems like they've been dating for at least 5 years.
@Alexandra Ruiz
I don't think you saw the full episode if this is your response. The guy is honestly more honest with her than she is. She is the one pressuring him more into the wedding and on top she doesn't wanna have a baby with him which is something he wants. She is honestly being really selfish and that's probably a good reason why he concentrated into havin more hobbies than time for her.
A man will close himself and distance himself from a woman when she repeatedly wants her ways. If she wants him then they will have kids and he will ofc marry her. The guy even made it clear that he wants to marry her.
@@meganod279 Agree with you. At first I thought that the girl just need to break up with him and never comeback again because she picture of him as a workaholic. But, at the end when they suddenly talk about having a baby and the girl doesn't wanna because it's scary... I think I understand why the man tried to postpone their marriage and instead did so many things while still dating her.
I think it's important for the couple to really talk about what they want in their relationship. The topic of her not wanting to have children and he wanting to have children is a real and serious topic. Many relationships, even marriages end up not working out because of these types of conversations. I say, if she sincerely wants to have a child, then get married and have a child. However, if she's only going to have a child to save her relationship, don't get married. It's sad to bring a child into the world for those reasons. Have a child because you actually want to love and nurture a child.
Agreed!
The man said they both love kids, the matters is the woman maybe have phobia or too much worry about pregnancy.
Some of my friends are the same, they think they will die while pregnant lol.
So true!! If they don't discuss those issues they might come back on this show later with even bigger problems.
@@sel__sel you can check the number of women who die while childbirth even in 2019 and the west and then 'lol'. Your ignorance amazes me.
@@sel__sel Sometimes it is just more than that they are scared to have children because of childbirth and pregnancy. You can love children and kids but still not want a child. All I'm saying is, if in the bottom of her heart, she does not want a child, she should tell him and then they both should move on.
He shouldn't marry her hoping that one day she'll change her mind about wanting to have children. That'll both hurt him and her in the long run. AGAIN, having a child does not solve or save your relationship.
6:41 I'm pretty sure the boyfriend came on tv more for the cameras than to see his gf🤣
Right
Yep
Why would anyone think he came to see his gf? Nobody has ever come on that show to see their partner guest ever. Not to mention literally the first thing he said was that he came on to make his case to the audience.
I don't think he will marry her. He clearly dosen't have time for relationships right now. But that's okay. Maybe one day if they're on the same page they will get married but I just don't see it..
she should break up with him, eventually they will find better people for each other
He's too much into himself, his interests rather than into her.
she wants him because of his looks, not an ideal person to marry
@@aaishahd1604 she mentioned it how she couldn't get over him because he was attractive
Aaishah :D But then she also said how she liked him at first because of how he is so passionate about his jobs and is a hard worker unlike many others. But of course, it became too much because of how he ended up putting work first and barely had any time to see her anymore.
I really hope they do break up for good, and that she’ll find someone who’ll take care of her.
P.S. love your user name, so cute!☺️
He should be called to do commercials for korean energy drink. Tired 😓 slouching at work? drinks energy drink than starts breakdancing in business attire.
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that is such a great idea LOL!!!
That good😂
"Get your groove back with *_Seoul Hot_* energy drink" 😂
Hahahaha
Girl I still don't understand why you aren't able to see that this guy doesnt want to marry you. I am so sorry to say this. I hope she finds someone who is on the same path as she is.
These two just don't belong together.
It is obvious the mother doesn't like the girlfriend...I'm sure the couple will break up eventually.
han roto muchas veces así que no me sorprendería sí rompieran y volvieran de nuevo
*Both of them still don't know what true love really is. They just consider each other as some kind of supplement to complement each other's goal better or look good on profile & paper*
The girl sees a whole complete package in the guy, which is why she's not letting go of him, to the point of even wanting to bear kids with him just for the sake of getting married together. Possession/ownership + desperation for life investment.
The guy sees her as just a side dish. His personal life comes first above all before her. To him, she is not a 'need', but only a 'want'. He didn't even bother to involve her in every aspect of his life. Yet, he just tags along with the girl, hoping that this relationship will just blossom without putting in effort.
Both of them don't know that marriage is a long time sincere love of sharing life experience with each other, for rich or poor, for better or worse, in sickness or in health. The inner personality of their truest self will be the most important in acceptance of each other.
J. V. That’s so true indeed. I think the guy doesn’t really need her. And the girl, just for the sake of lookin’ good in the society.
Well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
J. V. perfectly said.
🙏🏻
you hit the nail on the head. they both need help
Both of my sisters got married at a young age and they quit pursuing their dreams. I totally understand this man. He is at a age where he’s still young and wants to fulfill his dreams before he gets married.
Then he shouldn't dating from the first place. Expecting people to understand you is thoughtless
@@milkeyway7105you can be busy and career minded and still want to date. They've been together for years, he expected her to be more understanding seeing as his always been like that.
I feel the same way, which is why I prefer being single. I think he needs to be straight with her and just say that he's not ready to get married. As for the girlfriend, she needs to realize that she can't change him and she should just move on.
She's 29 for crying out loud... And he postponed the marriage for 5 yrs... A bit late for marriage if you want children... Her bf doesn't care.. If he really wanted children.. He'll marry her and convince her to have a baby after... As a woman ages the risks when giving birth increases..and.... A girl's reproductive system deteriorates at the age of 30.onwards...its one of the causes of autism and down syndrome. These disorders are caused usually when the woman is late on conceiving... It's kind of a glitch on the woman's chromosome if im not mistaken.. That comes out usually when a woman ages..
Sadly a guys value appreciates while they age.. Women's value however go the opposite...
Please.. Girl... Wake up and look for somebody else...
@@lanik4072she could be understanding but he doesn’t want marriage. He’s stringing her along. He knows she wants to spend more time with him and eventually get married but him postponing getting married 5 more years is ridiculous. Cause later he’ll keep postponing it until she’s tired or he breaks it off and gets married to another girl he actually wants
So many red flags. This guy puts in so much effort for licenses and achievements and yet can’t give a few hours to his gf. And making her wait for 3-4 hours just seems like he doesn’t respect her time. Imo he only devotes energy to himself and takes her affection for granted.
He is a a smooth talker that no one can ever win over him by talking. U will easily be convinced by his sweet words so u eventually lost the argument😂😂😂😂
She's lovely. She deserves the best.
Kwanghee is right why not break up with him. I know she broke up with him couples time but I guess she need to try harder. A guy told u to wait another 5 years is something he is not ready for marriage.
She likes him because of his looks.
@@JinStyles agree too
Idk what to say, they man seems so passionate and just too perfectionist.
He want to be "recognized" as a very successful man (maybe more for his own pride, not only for his father)
He looks like a good man with good passion, BUT i don't think he really love her.
Idk, somehow i believe he be with her only as a backup. If he ever find more perfect woman, i believe he will left her.
I don't really know, but thats what i see from 24 mins.
Kwangheeeeee 😍😍😍😍 am i the only one who like him???? I'm ZE:A's fans back then and he was and is still my fav😍
You're not alone. I'm so happy he's back, but I'm mad at whomever screwed up his face...
@@epifanny yea i know he definitely done something to his face but its okay, he is still cute tho💕
He annoying but I cant hate him :(
I don’t find anything bad with him doing all those different stuff and being busy. Dating may be temporary, but learning new stuff every day and doing things THAT YOU ENJOY lasts forever. Some may disagree, but this is my opinion. If I were him, I would break up. He’s still not ready, maybe after 2-3 years, yes, but now? He’s still young and should enjoy his life rather than worrying about dating.
maybe he is ready but she's not the right one. Men pops the question when they feel that they found the one, no one is ever too busy.
Dark Bloom agreed with u
@@rahman1314 so he should make it clear for her, what he wants..if he does not want her, let her free... so she can find some1 that gives her what she needs.
I agree
@@georgina4811 if someone is too busy for you, you walk out. It's common sense. He is making it pretty obvious for her. Actions holds more weight than words.
This girl seriously is so prideful this entire episode. She's just proud that she has a hot talented bf. Do you see her smiling the entire time?
Ya .......that is why she does not want to let go her boyfriend coz he is definitely a complete package.......but she needs to understand that this won't do her any good
This guy is so perfect, he's too perfect, you know? I need some warts.....
Made in Busan Oh, you never know. There might be, you know, in parts that are, ehemm, private. Hhaha
@@fatjune93 lol omg
Women really need to have self esteem and learn how to take a hint! If a man doesn’t want to meet you why are you hanging on to him? Just dump him and look for someone better. She’s a pretty and smart girl, she won’t have a hard time finding a new one. Marry him and you’ll be on the show again in a few years because your husband is never home and you’re taking care of the kids by yourself!
esml *the kids you didn’t want
👍👍
I think she's staying because of her age (some people are like that) and the fact that she has invested 5 years of her youth in this mess...
True self respect is most important to girls
She did. Maybe watch the video.
Breakdancing in formal wear.. that’s a first
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No it's not lol
ok so conclusion: they aren't right for each other and a baby won't solve their problem 🤷🏻♀️
With baby in the picture, more unwanted problems and conflicts will arise. A spiral.
@@rohania.b1855 right! However, ppl think that's the solution, smh
Omo to sleep only 4 hours mainly and he barely have any eyebags and quite nice skin, this man is blessed, despite being super ambitious and always an over-achiever
the guy n his mom are really like a drama character. He suit more to arranged married which is only for business. There's no guarantee he will marry her though, she can't let go of him bcos of that dream guy character which made her proud to have a bf like that. Even if he marry you, you'll always be number two in his eyes n his mom
He is not into her. He may have love for her but he's not in love with her and it show's, a man in love with his lady will stop whatever he's doing just to make sure she's ok, that guy wouldn't even give her an hour. I hope they can talk it out and move on because their not made for each other.
He doesn't love her.
남자분은 혼자여도 행복할것 같아요.
The guy is too perfectionist. And love Fame. I hope the lady will think more before they get married. She must understand him more...
I can't believe they're supposed to be in a relationship. How can you be dating someone and even considering marriage when you don't even talk about things like children. When he said he wanted to postpone the wedding for 5 years, did she not ask why? She just assumed because he was busy? He never thought to tell her why? It's so weird. They barely see each other, I don't think they text or call either. He's so busy, so is she, he literally gives her no attention. I like him and how self-motivated he is but maybe he shouldn't be getting into relationships right now. Maybe when he's in his late 30's and ready to settle down and give time to someone/love someone properly he should date.
I honestly didn't feel anything from him to her, he literally could have been her brother with the way they were acting.
Shes a flight attendant, shes pretty,
She can get another man if she leave him.
So girl, leave that guy this instance
Hes gonna marry his work. His not gonna change even if u guys do get married. Idk, being too obsessed in anything is not good sometimes
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Like she said, no other guy more attractive than her boyfriend now. She is still seeing anything by appearance.
@@simsgazytech2013 yep. After i finished watching..yep. she still cannot give up on him because of his appearance. Mkay girl. Good luck with the son and the mother inlaw. Kinda can expect that she gonna comes again for the next concern 🙄
He’s not into her she’s wasting time a man who wants marriage will marry in a quick timeframe he already will know who he wants to marry bringing him on this show is just gonna get him to have resentment if he does marry her after all
Yaaaaaa the dude is so driven in his life I'm actually feeling a bit inspired to do more in life just from hearing his work schedules and the activities he does🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
did u know what...im 35year old this year..and i still cant find my love..but if u want ready married..find someone who really ready to marry u..this man maybe want to avoid the things..or he maybe not ready..that why he have 4jobs...married make u thinks a little scary..
True.
Everyone has their own timeline. Just do our best and always try something new.
I love Kwanghee🤣🤣🤣 he is really so funny!🤣
Let him enjoy life, his dance man.
이분은 자기애성이고 결혼하셔도 아내분 정~말 외롭게 하실분이예요.
여자가 더 사랑하네. 한쪽만 더 사랑하면 불행해지는 건 진리
They have different goals in mind. I don't see anything wrong with having different jobs , wanting to experience and learn more and i don't see anything wrong with wanting to settle down, getting married. Is just that they don't want the same thing. Break up and don't waste each other's time. Also dude don't start dating if you don't have time.
Im Waiting for Every Episode For Hello Counselor , Im Obssessed With Every Concern I Think 😅😅😅
Same. I've been binge watching them a lot.
The guy hasn't changed after 4 years and isn't going to. Not for her. One day he'll meet someone that he is willing to change for and that person isn't his current girlfriend. The guy seems narcissistic, so he probably just likes the idea of having a pretty girlfriend rather than truly caring about her as a person. She might be similar since she seems to like him for his looks and doesn't leave him even though she doesn't like the way he treats her. Either way, it doesn't sound like a good foundation for a relationship.
Are we going to just ignore how Lee Young-ja literally insulted and told the blonde girl she is sitting next to that what she said doesn't matter after she shared that at one point in her life she didn't even want to live? Like wtf was even that? I'm suprised by her because she's normally not rude like that... that's crazy. It's at 19:54 if you're wondering.
Girl, people don't change after marriage. He's is not ready to a relationship, I guess they are together only for human necessities, if you know what I mean.
Just break up with him, you don't need this in your life.
the way that he talks....HAHAHA I literally have the same reaction as the girls
No one is ever truly busy!! if they care about you, they will make time for you no matter what.
I found this episode so hillarious 😂
Leave him girl.
HE PREDICTED 40 - 50 AND HE WAS RIGHT LOL
I'm curious about the guy who had only 8 votes idk what ep. it is lmao it seems funny
Stefanie Indarto haha yeah, it was probably in the very beginning episodes of when this show started. And the topics were much lighter and shorter back then
These little things were missing to make a better world:
talking to her = 0, dating her = 0, loving her = 0, having a girlfriend is something he could not do well.
is it just me or does Kwanghee looks healthier now?! ♥
As soon as your ideas of kids don’t match up, you need to leave. The topic of kids is so strong in each person, it’s almost impossible to change someone’s mind about having them or not.
결혼 하지 마라.
또 하나의 불행이 시작 되는군.
여자가 어리석군!
The boyfriend is so damn handsome it made me forget about the concern...
They gave the worst advice didn't ask the right questions I'm so disappointed with this show.
The one skinny guy next to her was right she should definitely dump him and find someone else who can actually focus on her because her guy was way too consumed with his own self and what he wants and not her.
None of them told the son or acknowledge that he is already a son to be proud of by his father and that she should have focused on one job the sportscasting job and his master's or Ph.D program. The counseling is extra that is not something he has to do he just wanted to brag about his life to other kids and be seen as a role model.
And they both needed to talk about the kids issue. If it was an issue to him or deal-breaker he should have said that from the beginning instead of postponing the wedding saying oh we should wait, instead of talking about with the real issues.
Ok but she’s really pretty...like really pretty. Can’t relate
a person that doesn't call you doesn't make time to see you and is always busy has no intention to marry you.
This guy seriously loves attention.
she never had the opportunity to talk to him about kids really.. if you think about it, she rarely even sees him
I love her English
Damn it woman have some pride for the love of god! if someone really love you he will make time for you no matter how busy he was but it just means that you are not the first for him.
Okay but those two are just so different in values and worldviews and that's okay! But a marriage won't erase the differences it'll amplify them.
My fellow girlfriend, i hope you read this. You clearly have to think highly of yourself too, dont make someone under appreciating you like that. You are definitely worth more than the way this guy treats you.
If he truly loves you, he will drop anything in a heart beat to be with you, spend time with you.
This guys loves himself too much, and doesn't love you that much to sacrifice his personal time. I bet you if one day he found the one, he will immediately leave things behind.
Don't forget your value girl, you deserve a better man, a man that loves you with all his heart.
😂😂😂 the way he talks ,like dude have some emotions or consider your words and he actually managed to drift their attention from the main problem
she is beautiful
If she really marries that guy she is gonna face a lonely life later😂
I screamed at his dance and couldn't focus on anything else later lol.
In other words... *HE'S PERFECT.*
just don't get married you guys are obviously not a match for each other... I mean what is the point of going through all that trouble when it's not gonna work out. you can't change a person they have to be willing to change. sis get a life and let the man be.
Girlllllll BreAKUP with him. IF you ready and he ain't, go find yourself someone that loves you gives you time. Period. She's really beautiful too.
I cant ever live or even be in a close relationship with a guy like this. My goodness!
Most entertaining episode yet🤣🤣
this guy is a legend.
family of braggarts makes the boyfriend and mother unattractive, no matter how accomplished they are.
And working as a model is not the same as joining a dating show.
Anyway, he doesn't want to marry her and it seems like mom doesn't care for the gf either... and those kids he wants are probably going to be another accomplishment for him,
I know right?! Working as model and joining a dating show when you're fucking have a girlfriend is two different thing.
Stupid.
I can't believe no one in this show has pointed this out.
And he made the child thing as an excuse for people to justify and defend his actions. He doesn't want to be guilty. Ah so stupid . They should have a professional in this show
In korea dating shows are different than USA there are some on TH-cam . In korea they don't kiss and touch that much , it's just like a tutorial so no need to worry
Great comment
He knows he looks good. He's more into himself than the gf. He has time to work out, post half naked pics of himself & respond to comments but he doesn't make time for her. He honestly thought it was ok to go on a dating show bc she was modeling?
GURL. *YOU ARE NOT THE ONE* move on. it means he is not the one for you either, you will find someone don't worry.
girls always remember this *men do change when they find the right woman.. if he doesn't want to, it's your sign to find "your right man"* who would actually fight for you.
Kwanghee is kind of adorable
The dance let me speechless
This guy is really something. He only posted picture with her after this show. He acts like single on his IG account and he even follow alot of sexy women on IG.
I think she must think carefully if she will spend her time with this guy.
Can u give me his IG handle?
lmaao im so invested,after so many years,can i know where u found his ig?
@@heenyhoney it's hwang._.joong
Perfect man doesn't exi-
Yeszz..finally i can watch this
Dude give me 10% of your confidence 😂😂😂 he's awesome haha
Get married have kids 5 yrs later. I never wanted kids until I got bitten by the baby bug. Now I'm the proud mom of 3 and they are the ABSOLUTE BEST thing I've ever done
I wonder how they became a couple without seeing each other that much
If he wanted to spend time with her, he'd make the time. If he wanted to marry her, he'd have married her already. If he couldn't find the time to be with her now, forcing a marriage on him won't make him suddenly have time for her. For her own good, even if he protests a bit, she should just let him go and move on.
Thanks for sharing, good luck to both of you 🤘☮️😜
He probably wants a kid so his father can be a grandfather before he passes away or something idk
No he wants a kid because he loves kids, but if his girlfriend doesn't want one then he'll never have kids for the rest of his life unless they divorce... No one makes a life long commitment like having a kid just to please their parents.
@@calicofishy in Asian culture sometimes they do
좋은 남친 이네요 결혼은 하지마세요
I guess Yunho can relate him so much
That man seriously doesn't love her..... I don't see any love in his eyes or in his way of talking... He has time to reply to comments but no time to spend with his girlfriend.. Seriously..... And his mother is soooo annoying she's telling the girl to be understanding???? Like wtf ???... Girls we should always put self respect before a man it's not selfish..... She shud leave him and marry someone who loves her I believe fate will help her find her man
It’s simple... you make time for the things that truly matter to you. If he’s not making time for her, she doesn’t matter to him. He may not realize it yet and she may not either...but, I hope they do before they get married. They’re each personable people who deserve to find someone that they’re so crazy about that time together never feels like enough.
Multitalented 😍😍😍😍
Okay, when she said she didn't want to have kids when he did, that's when I knew they should probably just break up. That is a HUGE step and even if she had her arm twisted into having a kid, sometimes women grow to resent children they were pressured into having. This is a NO GO.
You can't begging for love, love is mutual.