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She knows his SMV is way higher than hers, hence the "fear of loss" and insecurity. She will unconciously try hard to Betatise him. Women innately desire an integrated and connected "FEEL" from their relationships. This insecurity is a type of emotional brick wall that blocks the "FEELING" of connection/integration. Her hunger for this will eventually cause her to begin to instinctuallyHATE his workouts, time volunteering, and, by the psychological process called "associative transference" , him in general. She will get distant, because she's feeling un-intigrated, and will likely be unconciously driven to be snarky toward him and his activities. She won't feel loved although he may deeply love her. Many women in this situation level a marriage ultimatum unconciously thinking that this will get her the commitment, connection, and integration that she so desires. There's a super good chance that she will self-sabotage this relationship or he might unknowingly marry a woman who will make his life challenging. Once he marry her she will feel very comfortable in demanding he spend less time in the gym and other Betatising demands. If he or she had any idea of the underlining emotion/psychology is just mentioned then they could go about resolving this in a relationship preserving manner, but they don't and likely won't. There are so many relational/psychology dynamics that destroy relationships and make a guy miserable that most men will never have the education to understand. If this woman could/would understand and articulate her core level emotions then it's possible a solution could be found. For example, there are many integration/connection habits and exercises that he/they could be doing that would cause her to "FEEL" deeply connected. The chances of this couple getting to this healthy realization prior to relational destruction taking place is a very minimal chance. Therapy could be good for her in this instance if she would be completely transparent with this guy and a therapist, but she probably won't. It's very hard on a woman's ego to not blame him and his schedule for her insecurity. And, the :fear of loss" would cause her to ego protect and not explore the full depths of her insecurity, desire for connection, and unconciously driven self-destructive tendencies in this relationship. There's a high chance this relationship will end and she will eventually settle down with a very relatioally oriented man but she will likely be alpha widowed at that time and the new guy will pay the price for that.
She also said he's "sweet, caring and funny", which means he's not enough of a bad boy and she doesn't really feel at risk of losing him. Unfortunately, if he made her feel as though she wasn't good enough or that he might cheat/walk at any moment, she would probably be beyond happy...lol.
What a hilarious 😂 oxymoron happy being unhappy Agents of chaos and confusion(women love drama/fantasy/intrigue/spontaneity). Guys don’t give them your meat 🥩 M.E.A.T.[Money/Energy/Attention/Time]. However, all men pay - Coach Greg Adams. The notion of Happy Wife-Happy Life is a flawed one. Instead it should be gender neutral i.e. Happy Spouse-Happy House
@@CharlieBravo887 long gone are the days of selfless service that is a “man’s Duty” when women don’t uphold their end of the bargain. No sir it is you, that we should have pity on, for not being able to see the forest from the trees.
@@brabus8317 yeah, i would have the same question. There are so many things more interesting to be curious about, seems you want to keep complaining and blame women for everything.
Similar story with Tom Brady. High status, millionaire, doesn't drink or gamble, Christian, over 6 feet tall, etc.. the guy literally checks every box every woman has ever had, and his chick still divorced him. Amazing..
Brady was to boring for her, he had everything but he’s probably the dude at the party eating celery and drinking water, she needs to get fucked drunk on a boat every once in a while, Brady was to much of a straight arrow, women get bored of that
Gisele married him for status. He was above her in social status, celebrity and wealth. She wanted to show him off among her local brazilian 1% (she comes from money.) But he was On Mission, constantly achieving and earning. He simply wasn't available for all her ridiculous social status demonstration plans. Brady's big mistake was not being more demanding and critical from the beginning of their relationship. He was too nice to her - a reflection on his strength and depth of character, but inappropriate to use with a woman who is distinctly lacking in any character or depth.
Most chicks also say they want a fit guy but they don’t. Because that means she will have to keep putting in the work to not get fat. It also makes them feel insecure because they think they have to be the hot one in the relationship in order to maintain power over her man.
Correct. You get it. She’s not in competition with him. She’s insecure that she cannot easily keep his attention because of his high function and positive life.
@@associatealpha1166 I wouldn't say it's "incredibly easy". Most women pull the fat grenade at some point in their lives, it's usually when they have kids.
Most women won't have the patience for a guy to workout - they hate the time her guy spends working out and begin to resent him for not spending it on her. Then they complain he isn't fit when he slips on his workouts because guys don't look fir with more than 15% body fat (but women can still turn heads with 25-30%). B#tches want everything but they have no clue what it costs.
She’s intimidated because she knows that she can’t compare to him. She doesn’t stack up to his level and she feels less than. As a result, she knows intuitively that she would be easily replaceable.
Yes a wife will get upset sensing that her husband’s SMV is so much higher than hers. I think the best way to manage that within reason is age gap marriage. Notice in this example the couple is only 3 years apart. She wouldn’t be so insecure and hard to deal with if she was in her 20s while husband is in his 40s for more balanced SMVs.
Exactly...and at same time if she finds a guy that's less then her or equal she will want more! Never ending cycle of bullshit. Hit it..quit it. Rip and dip etc. etc.
Women don’t know what they want. A woman is to submit to her father till she gets married then she still submit to her husband that has been taken away in modern society and that’s why we are in the conundrum. We are in now.
Yes, "submission" is treated as a 4 letter word in the west. Anyone that has a traditional mindset is labeled as a "misoginist" or patriarch by most of society.
Men have to take on the father figure qualities: Protector, Provider, Authority figure, Disciplinarian. Betas were never taught this, especially the last two things.
This summarizes the “Husband Store” joke perfectly. Where women get to go pick a man and each floor they go up the men get progressively “better” until at the end they reach the final floor that reads “ You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.”
You said everything in that simple word, "competition". We (society) have been training women to compete in the work place against men for sixty years or more. Is any of whats happening now a surprise? Of course not. Its a natural outcome of our own actions. Women today see men as competition, whereas we we designed to compliment each other.
The key is that happiness is not found through a relationship. Anyone seeking a relationship or another person to "complete" them is deeply flawed. You generate your own contentment and happiness, outsourcing it to other people is a terrible idea and a sign of mental distress. In short, you are responsible for your own happiness and mental state.
Lol. What you've just said applies to men. Women have almost zero capacity for generating their own contentment or happiness. ...hence, the relationship drive.
Bro I’m 66 years old been married 3 times just found out last week My wife of 32 years said she is moving out ? Don’t care ! I’ve spent my life trying to make my women happy , and you are right ! Not possible ! I’m finally going to do me ! And let them do them !
Spend more effort in making them miserable, they're gonna leave most likely anyhow - it will just speed up that innate 'bride on the run' habit that afflicts 80% of women and free you up for more tang, and less long-term breakup heartbreak
My dude, there's a clip on youtube where a woman is leaving her man but the guy doesn't give a single fuk. He sips whiskey and reviews it while the woman is slowly leaving in the background. It's hilarious and you remind me of him.
It is not that he is perfect, it is because he WILL NOT WORSHIP her narcissistic ego. These girls are narcs. She wants to be the one who is looked up to, she wants to BE THE GUY.
It’s frightening to her because she is all about herself. He is not a beta. He is a go getter. Over time she will never be happy. Even with him sluggin it.
modern woman: I want to be a man also modern woman: I want to be treated like a woman also modern woman: I want a masculine man also modern woman: I want all the attributes of a masculine man but I STILL want a masculine man! The rest of us: WE ARE SO CONFUSED BY WHAT FEMINISM HAS DONE TO THE FAMILY/WEST!
You are right. But she isnt meant to be in his leauge. She is there to compliment him and he should compliment her. Thats how its meant to be. Unfortunately, this natural dynamic isnt there anymore because she has been conditioned to compete with men.
She’s intimidated by his success…well look at that. It interesting how Women always accuse men of this and yet they are the ones who are truly intimidated. PROJECTION
Worked with a guy who left his job of selling cars because his girlfriend didn’t like the long hour shifts he had to work. You already know who wears the pants and you already know who will get walked all over.
Good pep talk, brother. I will stay positive and continue to be focused on hard work, increasing my spirituality and treating other fairly and respectfully.
I’ve said this before and I will say it again the old saying girls mature faster than boys is so true but what you’re not told is they stop maturing past the 13 maybe 14-year-old mentality This video simply proves that claims to have a perfect man. She even uses the word perfect but still finds things to complain about. That is a childish mentality.
Lots of women cannot handle this type of man, however he is living with her out of wedlock so he's not truly traditional, he's still assessing her and could dump her whenever. Otherwise he sounds great and men take breaks/vacation for the right wife. Lots of men can't handle being with an exceptionally beautiful woman. Be careful what you wish for.
She wants both. Wimmin don't care about reality. they want the fantasy (which they can never have) and will continue to whine and complain about it for their entire lives.
Women think they are perfect only from their outside look , because this is the only thing they care about themselves. Till they start living with the perfect man beautiful not only from outside but in anything else .
And the funniest part of all is if she would just stop worrying, stay in decent shape, support him and his actions and being a boss ass man, she would probably have one of the easiest lives. Any woman could ever live. She would probably get to be a stay at home, mother Give him a couple of kids take care of the house. Take care of the kids and she would be highly rewarded at the end of the day, but like most women she’s probably going to dream up way to screw it all up, ladies. It’s not that hard to keep a man he already finds you attractive or else he wouldn’t be with you. Stay in decent shape support him don’t nag about stupid crap and chances are he will be yours till the day he dies. It’s not that difficult but most women simply can’t do those few little things in today’s modern age.
It's not that they don't know what they want. It's that they want Everything. Regardless of whether those desires are mutually-exclusive. Or at best, infeasible.
She isn’t “finding something to be discontent with”. She’s insecure that she cannot easily keep his attention. This is an assurance of fidelity for them. This is the first time this has happened to her and she doesn’t know what to do because everything he does is positive.TL;DR: she knows she can’t keep him.
I think it's slightly different. Sure she craves attention, but she also said he is "sweet and caring", meaning she actually doesn't feel threatened that he might walk. If she did, she'd be more worried about that given his high status and likely enjoy the perceived drama on her end. Women can get the attention and validation they need from other women, especially if their man could potentially cheat with one of them. Women make it hard to be a good guy.
@ I dont agree. She brought up his phone going off all the time right in the middle of listing his “positive” qualities. No reason to mention that. She’s paying attention to the phone because she’s scared/insecure, not dissatisfied or looking for something bad. Solipsistically, she knows what she would do, were she him, she would be, at minimum, keeping options open.
Having been divorced, now single and living on my own for many years I find it hard to see why anyone would want too live with a woman and put them through all the BS.,
They are behind the "perfect" man and in the rare case they find him, they cannot handle him simply because they are not good enough as they have been told online they are all perfect 10s.
Hence, why the idea of a 'relationship' in the world we live is laughable. Women have destroyed 'the relationship'. Be single, be happy: Infinitely less stress, less drama, and let's be serious, women are so quick to jump in bed these days that a relationship isn't even necessary.
Great content as always Rich. You’re spot on with “it’s in their nature to find fault in, well everything”. Thai isn’t a dig, it’s just biological hardwiring. The same way it’s in ours to fix, ironically. In both sexes (especially the unstable or just immature), will create chaos to feel useful, or fix what isn’t broken. When the problem is always because of someone or something else, we avoid doing the work. In today’s society, everyone is a victim. If you fail it’s not your fault, if you’re not happy it’s because of something NOT you. If this is your mindset and you’re always looking for a problem because it’s you hardwired nature; you’ll forever be doomed to this slight of hand. Do The Work.
Back when I was in my late 20's I had a girl friend that wanted to move in together, and have me stay home while she worked, and supported me. I said "hell no"! From what I heard she had a previous bad boy that stayed at home, and had a fake disability that collected SSI while she worked. I kept on working, and ignored her. She eventually broke up with me because she could not control me.
Its all about power and control with them. She has no power or control over him or anything he does. She cannot take credit for any of his achievements and that creates a narcissistic injury. She will resent him for not being able to take credit for his life.
i own a very successful business, Cornell graduate and have been married for 20 years my wife loves our financial life but she is the same complainer about this type of thing
She's intimated because she feels like she is in competition with him...most of these modern girls are taught to see their partners as equal competitors
One of the problems women have with the high a value guy is not talked about. High value men hold women accountable and expect better then betas or bad boys and pooky will. Why would a high value guy put up with habits or behaviour traits they don't want? So they hold them accountable and not make but expect better. Some women cannot or will not handle that well. So just move on guys. Like a salesman I knew used to say. On to the next one.
She realizes she isn’t number one in his life... he has too much going on to be wrapped around her. She wants a guy who has all these qualities... BUT... somehow, impossibly, everything he does is all about her. She has realized that she will never be able to overpower his life and be the center.
They're never satisfied with "only" 1 man. Regardless of how great or "perfect" he is, they will find SOME reason to divorce/dump/cheat-on him. And that reason? She wants some different "sausage." Or... all of the "sausages."
It's beneficial for her to realize that he is too good for her. He doesn't want someone who is trying to compete. Just stay home and give him what he needs at home and he will be thrilled.
It's the beauty and the beast syndrome. They want a tamable beast. However, 1) If they can not tame the beast, they will leave. 2) Finally, if they manage to tame the beast, then also they will leave. So the art here, oneday you have to be in the absolute beast mode. Next day, you need to show that you're tamable. Again, the following day, act as a beast. Day after, again tamable. Keep them guessing. Keep them wondering. Keep them confusing themselves about you. Having said that, Still, they can leave you 😂
You are spot on. If they cannot manipulate or emasculate you, then they will leave. If they manage to do so, then also then will leave. Bottom line here is, men should not be dead serious about women. Let them do whatever the hell they want and men should continue their path to glory in terms of physically, emotionally and finally spiritually.
Wow this clarifies why I need to do what makes most sense to me in my life and circumstances and not worry what women might think. If I'm content I can collect someone who'll fit my circumstances. Women are a force of nature that can never be satiated.
I think the take away should be, is that you can not choose a mate/partner from a list qualities. Human interaction is so much more complex than that. X factor, or chemistry are words that we use to describe what makes a relationship work.
In life the only thing we truly appreciate , it’s the thing we achieved on our own . The most Women are useless , so never could be useful which they deeply know and make em insecure. They know they can be easy replaced for the same version at any given day from the perfect man .
He is a high value man, but she is not a high value woman. She can't handle the level to which she must raise her self to be with this man. This will never work out. He is on his grind and is not going to be bothered with her. When he meets someone on his level he will drop her and go to the better choice. It she want to stay, she better get busy and bring her A Game and learn what he needs instead of complaining.
And it will play out that she leaves him. And she will be depressed and "eat her feelings" and cut herself. And it will be someone else's fault, probably his.
In fairness this is people in general. I read once the secret to a happy life is low expectations. However her expectations have been met and she's still moaning.
Her complaining on the internet is the first step in sabotaging this "perfect" relationship. Her problem centers around her girlfriends, where's she's getting twisted advice from. He can do much better and hopefully he catches this clip and realizes who the mystery girl is.
this thanks to social media and dating apps, my mother went through hard times before meeting my step dad, all her previous relationships were toxic and abusive, i as a child witnessed this, when she met my step dad he checked all the boxes and she did not hesitate to lock him down lol 25 years later and theyre still together, but it could aslo be because she didnt have 30 different options too, she saw this as a once in a lifetime opportunity and took it, now women will meet that man and run the opposite way, what women really want is a man they can control, a yes man that can do whatever she says and not ask questions, the problem isnt that this man is successful, the problem is he is masculine, thats what scares her, he has options, if she leaves he will be good, and that is terrifying to alot of women
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She knows his SMV is way higher than hers, hence the "fear of loss" and insecurity. She will unconciously try hard to Betatise him. Women innately desire an integrated and connected "FEEL" from their relationships. This insecurity is a type of emotional brick wall that blocks the "FEELING" of connection/integration. Her hunger for this will eventually cause her to begin to instinctuallyHATE his workouts, time volunteering, and, by the psychological process called "associative transference" , him in general. She will get distant, because she's feeling un-intigrated, and will likely be unconciously driven to be snarky toward him and his activities. She won't feel loved although he may deeply love her. Many women in this situation level a marriage ultimatum unconciously thinking that this will get her the commitment, connection, and integration that she so desires. There's a super good chance that she will self-sabotage this relationship or he might unknowingly marry a woman who will make his life challenging. Once he marry her she will feel very comfortable in demanding he spend less time in the gym and other Betatising demands.
If he or she had any idea of the underlining emotion/psychology is just mentioned then they could go about resolving this in a relationship preserving manner, but they don't and likely won't.
There are so many relational/psychology dynamics that destroy relationships and make a guy miserable that most men will never have the education to understand.
If this woman could/would understand and articulate her core level emotions then it's possible a solution could be found. For example, there are many integration/connection habits and exercises that he/they could be doing that would cause her to "FEEL" deeply connected. The chances of this couple getting to this healthy realization prior to relational destruction taking place is a very minimal chance.
Therapy could be good for her in this instance if she would be completely transparent with this guy and a therapist, but she probably won't. It's very hard on a woman's ego to not blame him and his schedule for her insecurity. And, the :fear of loss" would cause her to ego protect and not explore the full depths of her insecurity, desire for connection, and unconciously driven self-destructive tendencies in this relationship.
There's a high chance this relationship will end and she will eventually settle down with a very relatioally oriented man but she will likely be alpha widowed at that time and the new guy will pay the price for that.
You know why she’s frighten by him to Her; SHE CANT CONTROL AND MANIPULATE HIM!
Bingo.
Nailed it!
100% facts
She also said he's "sweet, caring and funny", which means he's not enough of a bad boy and she doesn't really feel at risk of losing him.
Unfortunately, if he made her feel as though she wasn't good enough or that he might cheat/walk at any moment, she would probably be beyond happy...lol.
@@makeyourmark00 100% truth here ...
A women isn't happy unless they're unhappy.
...and can complain to other women about it.
That's deep
women are drama stricken and unhappy thats just them.
@@marianogomez1664 Yes it is deep, but unfortunately true.
What a hilarious 😂 oxymoron happy being unhappy Agents of chaos and confusion(women love drama/fantasy/intrigue/spontaneity). Guys don’t give them your meat 🥩 M.E.A.T.[Money/Energy/Attention/Time]. However, all men pay - Coach Greg Adams. The notion of Happy Wife-Happy Life is a flawed one. Instead it should be gender neutral i.e. Happy Spouse-Happy House
I don't give a flying F... what woman want... I live for myself and answer to nobody.
So why you’re here?! i’m not waiting for any answer.😅
@youtubesurfer1533 I'm here because I'm curious about the world.
First part is fine. Last part is sad.
@@CharlieBravo887 long gone are the days of selfless service that is a “man’s Duty” when women don’t uphold their end of the bargain. No sir it is you, that we should have pity on, for not being able to see the forest from the trees.
@@brabus8317 yeah, i would have the same question. There are so many things more interesting to be curious about, seems you want to keep complaining and blame women for everything.
Similar story with Tom Brady. High status, millionaire, doesn't drink or gamble, Christian, over 6 feet tall, etc.. the guy literally checks every box every woman has ever had, and his chick still divorced him. Amazing..
they don't want a "good" man, nothing to complain about and a bit "boring".
Brady was to boring for her, he had everything but he’s probably the dude at the party eating celery and drinking water, she needs to get fucked drunk on a boat every once in a while, Brady was to much of a straight arrow, women get bored of that
And cheats on him with a shorter, broke, average looking jiu jitsu instructor.😏
He drinks actually
Gisele married him for status. He was above her in social status, celebrity and wealth. She wanted to show him off among her local brazilian 1% (she comes from money.) But he was On Mission, constantly achieving and earning. He simply wasn't available for all her ridiculous social status demonstration plans. Brady's big mistake was not being more demanding and critical from the beginning of their relationship. He was too nice to her - a reflection on his strength and depth of character, but inappropriate to use with a woman who is distinctly lacking in any character or depth.
Most chicks also say they want a fit guy but they don’t. Because that means she will have to keep putting in the work to not get fat. It also makes them feel insecure because they think they have to be the hot one in the relationship in order to maintain power over her man.
Correct. You get it. She’s not in competition with him. She’s insecure that she cannot easily keep his attention because of his high function and positive life.
...she makes her man fatter than herself, so she looks "fitter"....I lost 30lbs. of ugly fat, just by walking out the door....
Very few of them put in the work it takes to be fit.
We all know it’s incredibly easy to be fit - they just refuse to do it.
@@associatealpha1166 I wouldn't say it's "incredibly easy". Most women pull the fat grenade at some point in their lives, it's usually when they have kids.
Most women won't have the patience for a guy to workout - they hate the time her guy spends working out and begin to resent him for not spending it on her. Then they complain he isn't fit when he slips on his workouts because guys don't look fir with more than 15% body fat (but women can still turn heads with 25-30%). B#tches want everything but they have no clue what it costs.
My father said it like this: “son you can give a woman the world and she will still want the stars” its pointless.
When i figured out that they are children pretending to be adults all my problems went away...
You too? 😅
Caught up w an elderly aunt yesterday for lunch, & made a ref to this - she didnt think twas funny....
10 year olds in adult bodies.
Oldest teenager in the house
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She’s intimidated because she knows that she can’t compare to him. She doesn’t stack up to his level and she feels less than. As a result, she knows intuitively that she would be easily replaceable.
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Yes a wife will get upset sensing that her husband’s SMV is so much higher than hers. I think the best way to manage that within reason is age gap marriage. Notice in this example the couple is only 3 years apart. She wouldn’t be so insecure and hard to deal with if she was in her 20s while husband is in his 40s for more balanced SMVs.
Nailed it
Exactly...and at same time if she finds a guy that's less then her or equal she will want more! Never ending cycle of bullshit. Hit it..quit it. Rip and dip etc. etc.
@@JG67679you are absolutely right .
I would of replace her at 40 for 20s or at 50 for 20s most definitely with the same version but much younger.
Women don’t know what they want. A woman is to submit to her father till she gets married then she still submit to her husband that has been taken away in modern society and that’s why we are in the conundrum. We are in now.
Yes, "submission" is treated as a 4 letter word in the west. Anyone that has a traditional mindset is labeled as a "misoginist" or patriarch by most of society.
Men have to take on the father figure qualities: Protector, Provider, Authority figure, Disciplinarian. Betas were never taught this, especially the last two things.
That’s sound biblical advice
Yup I stopped taking responsibility for anyone or anything I don't have direct authority over years ago!
Women know exactly what they want
1. More
2. Something else
She's going to leave him in 10 years for a martial arts instructor...
She needs a Guts Mixer.
No. The mailman.
This summarizes the “Husband Store” joke perfectly. Where women get to go pick a man and each floor they go up the men get progressively “better” until at the end they reach the final floor that reads “
You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.”
You be certain that the number will increase exponentially in the coming years! 😂
You said it at 3:50
She needs to change her mindset. Instead of viewing him with envy or as competition she needs to focus on supporting him.
But modern woman have been raised to expect men to support them, not the other way around. She's going to take half his stuff in a few years.
You said everything in that simple word, "competition".
We (society) have been training women to compete in the work place against men for sixty years or more. Is any of whats happening now a surprise? Of course not. Its a natural outcome of our own actions. Women today see men as competition, whereas we we designed to compliment each other.
Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, Bradley Cooper, and many more couldn't make it work. For modern western women, IT IS NEVER ENOUGH.
Let's face it, western women are way out of control and every man should always be ready for the moment he'll have to move on
The key is that happiness is not found through a relationship. Anyone seeking a relationship or another person to "complete" them is deeply flawed.
You generate your own contentment and happiness, outsourcing it to other people is a terrible idea and a sign of mental distress.
In short, you are responsible for your own happiness and mental state.
Hahahaha
Lol. What you've just said applies to men.
Women have almost zero capacity for generating their own contentment or happiness.
...hence, the relationship drive.
Good point. Relationships fail because one or even both of them thought the other would make them happy, or complete.
Bro I’m 66 years old been married 3 times just found out last week
My wife of 32 years said she is moving out ? Don’t care ! I’ve spent my life trying to make my women happy , and you are right ! Not possible ! I’m finally going to do me ! And let them do them !
Married 3 times? What's wrong with you?! 🤔
@@oceanhedonist265 ....if he is like me...I don't put up with female "zhit tests"....I walk out the door!
@@oceanhedonist265 slow learner
Spend more effort in making them miserable, they're gonna leave most likely anyhow - it will just speed up that innate 'bride on the run' habit that afflicts 80% of women and free you up for more tang, and less long-term breakup heartbreak
My dude, there's a clip on youtube where a woman is leaving her man but the guy doesn't give a single fuk. He sips whiskey and reviews it while the woman is slowly leaving in the background. It's hilarious and you remind me of him.
True happiness comes from the internal, not the external..... if your happiness comes from things external, then it's inevitable you will be let down
Hence why woman are miserable
It is not that he is perfect, it is because he WILL NOT WORSHIP her narcissistic ego. These girls are narcs. She wants to be the one who is looked up to, she wants to BE THE GUY.
Some people are just not never happy. Give them what they want, & still find away to complain
It’s frightening to her because she is all about herself. He is not a beta. He is a go getter. Over time she will never be happy. Even with him sluggin it.
WTF do you think life with a top-tier man is like? Unless he's a trust fund playboy, HE HAS TO WORK HIS ASS OFF.
modern woman: I want to be a man
also modern woman: I want to be treated like a woman
also modern woman: I want a masculine man
also modern woman: I want all the attributes of a masculine man but I STILL want a masculine man!
The rest of us: WE ARE SO CONFUSED BY WHAT FEMINISM HAS DONE TO THE FAMILY/WEST!
She's afraid because she believes she is NOT in his league.
That's why
You are right. But she isnt meant to be in his leauge. She is there to compliment him and he should compliment her. Thats how its meant to be. Unfortunately, this natural dynamic isnt there anymore because she has been conditioned to compete with men.
Bang on the money on that one 👏
At least she's saying she's intimidated rather than saying he's perfect and then still nitpicking some shit about him.
l thought only men could be “intimidated” since that’s all they ever say about men.
Give her time. Let them marry and you will see all the nitpicking you will ever need to divorce him and take half.😁
She’s intimidated by his success…well look at that. It interesting how Women always accuse men of this and yet they are the ones who are truly intimidated. PROJECTION
He’s got a lot going on in his life to a point he can’t give her the attention she needs.
It’s a her problem.
She’s going to cheat, and it’ll be his fault.
....and it will be a homeless, penniless, tattoo covered dirt bag fresh out of prison.
🤣 yep lol
Always, and yes it is, gonna be his fault.
Yep, he didn’t meet my needs and it’s his fault, why I cheated.👍
Worked with a guy who left his job of selling cars because his girlfriend didn’t like the long hour shifts he had to work. You already know who wears the pants and you already know who will get walked all over.
Yes. If they date the richest man in the world some of them still go into the “grass is greener on the other side” syndrome.
I love cooking, working and hanging out with my dog. Women have been nothing but trouble, a complete waste of time. Celibacy for the win gentlemen.
Good pep talk, brother. I will stay positive and continue to be focused on hard work, increasing my spirituality and treating other fairly and respectfully.
When I was insecure, I wanted to be a girl boss. Now I know better
Rich Cooper just blowing this wide open for female nature. Makes me grounded listening to this man.
When girls say that they don’t know what they want, you can actually believe them on this one.
Myron to panel girl: "Have you ever dated a millionaire?"
Panel girl: Yes
Myron: " Could you tell him what to do?"
Girl: "No"
I’ve said this before and I will say it again the old saying girls mature faster than boys is so true but what you’re not told is they stop maturing past the 13 maybe 14-year-old mentality This video simply proves that claims to have a perfect man. She even uses the word perfect but still finds things to complain about. That is a childish mentality.
This woman is a liability. She complains about his success, but will stick along to take half when he is at his peak. Witch
She sounds insecure, not unhappy. She didn't mention her education level, etc. She isn't in his league and she is insecure about it.
Lots of women cannot handle this type of man, however he is living with her out of wedlock so he's not truly traditional, he's still assessing her and could dump her whenever. Otherwise he sounds great and men take breaks/vacation for the right wife. Lots of men can't handle being with an exceptionally beautiful woman. Be careful what you wish for.
She knows she has to step up her game if she doesn’t want to be dumped. A lot of women will not go the extra mile to keep a good man.
She’s not his equivalent 🤣
She's not for him. She would bring him down. She wants a beta.
She wants both. Wimmin don't care about reality. they want the fantasy (which they can never have) and will continue to whine and complain about it for their entire lives.
She wants a beta for security. But wants Chad, Tyrone, and The Guts Mixer to blow her back out.
Amen.
Women: I demand perfection!
Perfect guy enters picture
Women: OMG; what's wrong with you, be less perfect!
Women think they are perfect only from their outside look , because this is the only thing they care about themselves.
Till they start living with the perfect man beautiful not only from outside but in anything else .
She thinks life is a competition…….like she has to “ keep up” with him. You don’t
they are so competitive its unbearable. If only they knew we are operating in 1st gear, often in idle or reverse when interacting with them...
No, she’s insecure because she cannot easily keep his attention and has no excuse to do so since he’s doing positive things at a high level.
Reminds me of "comparison is the oldest known thief of human joy"
This is a lesson that far too many men learn too late in life!
Proverbs 31:3 Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings.
Even the bible says it
Sounds like she’s found the problem and it’s her.
And the funniest part of all is if she would just stop worrying, stay in decent shape, support him and his actions and being a boss ass man, she would probably have one of the easiest lives. Any woman could ever live. She would probably get to be a stay at home, mother Give him a couple of kids take care of the house. Take care of the kids and she would be highly rewarded at the end of the day, but like most women she’s probably going to dream up way to screw it all up, ladies. It’s not that hard to keep a man he already finds you attractive or else he wouldn’t be with you. Stay in decent shape support him don’t nag about stupid crap and chances are he will be yours till the day he dies. It’s not that difficult but most women simply can’t do those few little things in today’s modern age.
It's not that they don't know what they want. It's that they want Everything. Regardless of whether those desires are mutually-exclusive. Or at best, infeasible.
She isn’t “finding something to be discontent with”. She’s insecure that she cannot easily keep his attention. This is an assurance of fidelity for them. This is the first time this has happened to her and she doesn’t know what to do because everything he does is positive.TL;DR: she knows she can’t keep him.
I think it's slightly different. Sure she craves attention, but she also said he is "sweet and caring", meaning she actually doesn't feel threatened that he might walk.
If she did, she'd be more worried about that given his high status and likely enjoy the perceived drama on her end.
Women can get the attention and validation they need from other women, especially if their man could potentially cheat with one of them. Women make it hard to be a good guy.
@ I dont agree. She brought up his phone going off all the time right in the middle of listing his “positive” qualities. No reason to mention that. She’s paying attention to the phone because she’s scared/insecure, not dissatisfied or looking for something bad. Solipsistically, she knows what she would do, were she him, she would be, at minimum, keeping options open.
In Sickness and Health '' yeah right! lol
A woman that looks in the mirror and doesn't like what she see's...in herself. She knows she doesn't have what it takes to keep him.
Having been divorced, now single and living on my own for many years I find it hard to see why anyone would want too live with a woman and put them through all the BS.,
good seeing you in the gym today bro, love your content
They are behind the "perfect" man and in the rare case they find him, they cannot handle him simply because they are not good enough as they have been told online they are all perfect 10s.
Hence, why the idea of a 'relationship' in the world we live is laughable. Women have destroyed 'the relationship'. Be single, be happy: Infinitely less stress, less drama, and let's be serious, women are so quick to jump in bed these days that a relationship isn't even necessary.
There’s a big difference between wanting something and wanting to want it.
Great content as always Rich. You’re spot on with “it’s in their nature to find fault in, well everything”. Thai isn’t a dig, it’s just biological hardwiring. The same way it’s in ours to fix, ironically. In both sexes (especially the unstable or just immature), will create chaos to feel useful, or fix what isn’t broken.
When the problem is always because of someone or something else, we avoid doing the work. In today’s society, everyone is a victim. If you fail it’s not your fault, if you’re not happy it’s because of something NOT you. If this is your mindset and you’re always looking for a problem because it’s you hardwired nature; you’ll forever be doomed to this slight of hand.
Do The Work.
Most of us are just going to get in a womans harem. They can love you. You can be their best option. And they will still. Leave.
Back when I was in my late 20's I had a girl friend that wanted to move in together, and have me stay home while she worked, and supported me. I said "hell no"! From what I heard she had a previous bad boy that stayed at home, and had a fake disability that collected SSI while she worked. I kept on working, and ignored her. She eventually broke up with me because she could not control me.
Eve had the perfect Husband,
and still chose to follow the serpent.
The NFL guy , the Batman actor , Kaka the footballer, etc
The batman actor = Ben Affleck
Its all about power and control with them.
She has no power or control over him or anything he does. She cannot take credit for any of his achievements and that creates a narcissistic injury.
She will resent him for not being able to take credit for his life.
what a surprize women still not happy i
i own a very successful business, Cornell graduate and have been married for 20 years
my wife loves our financial life but she is the same complainer about this type of thing
When 'Happy' is another word for 'Ungratefulness'
Imperfect women in an imperfect world looking for the perfect man.
She's intimated because she feels like she is in competition with him...most of these modern girls are taught to see their partners as equal competitors
She will cheat on him with a loser…I guarantee it!
One of the problems women have with the high a value guy is not talked about. High value men hold women accountable and expect better then betas or bad boys and pooky will. Why would a high value guy put up with habits or behaviour traits they don't want? So they hold them accountable and not make but expect better. Some women cannot or will not handle that well. So just move on guys. Like a salesman I knew used to say. On to the next one.
She realizes she isn’t number one in his life... he has too much going on to be wrapped around her.
She wants a guy who has all these qualities... BUT... somehow, impossibly, everything he does is all about her.
She has realized that she will never be able to overpower his life and be the center.
They're never satisfied with "only" 1 man. Regardless of how great or "perfect" he is, they will find SOME reason to divorce/dump/cheat-on him.
And that reason? She wants some different "sausage." Or... all of the "sausages."
It's beneficial for her to realize that he is too good for her. He doesn't want someone who is trying to compete. Just stay home and give him what he needs at home and he will be thrilled.
The fact is that there's no foolproof perfect man that ticks all the boxes. In my experience nothing beats attraction and genuine burning desire.
It's the beauty and the beast syndrome. They want a tamable beast. However,
1) If they can not tame the beast, they will leave.
2) Finally, if they manage to tame the beast, then also they will leave.
So the art here, oneday you have to be in the absolute beast mode. Next day, you need to show that you're tamable. Again, the following day, act as a beast. Day after, again tamable. Keep them guessing. Keep them wondering. Keep them confusing themselves about you.
Having said that,
Still, they can leave you 😂
You are spot on. If they cannot manipulate or emasculate you, then they will leave. If they manage to do so, then also then will leave. Bottom line here is, men should not be dead serious about women. Let them do whatever the hell they want and men should continue their path to glory in terms of physically, emotionally and finally spiritually.
It's too much stress. They're not worth it
Another scenario is The Ballad of Clark Kent which Rollo Tomassi covers well but can be researched on Google.
Something else to this, women probably don't want to live the lifestyle of a wife, to the man they claim to want.
Wow this clarifies why I need to do what makes most sense to me in my life and circumstances and not worry what women might think. If I'm content I can collect someone who'll fit my circumstances.
Women are a force of nature that can never be satiated.
Great video. Great reminder. Thank you.
She is insecure because she can’t betatize him
Preach
She's lazy....
Competition anxiety,she has the tinglings that she will get replaced
Good job Rich.
Thankyou rich I needed this clip .
I think the take away should be, is that you can not choose a mate/partner from a list qualities. Human interaction is so much more complex than that. X factor, or chemistry are words that we use to describe what makes a relationship work.
In life the only thing we truly appreciate , it’s the thing we achieved on our own .
The most Women are useless , so never could be useful which they deeply know and make em insecure.
They know they can be easy replaced for the same version at any given day from the perfect man .
If she knows you’re focused on her happiness, it will make her cringe. Focus on your own success, and she’ll be happy to follow. It is what it is.
Discontentment is a personal problem. Human nature is prone to it, but contentment and gratitude are always an individual choice.
If you are a father i would tell my daughter this is the guy for you. They see this as boring. They want the Tyrone and Chad drama lol
He is a high value man, but she is not a high value woman. She can't handle the level to which she must raise her self to be with this man. This will never work out. He is on his grind and is not going to be bothered with her. When he meets someone on his level he will drop her and go to the better choice. It she want to stay, she better get busy and bring her A Game and learn what he needs instead of complaining.
And it will play out that she leaves him. And she will be depressed and "eat her feelings" and cut herself. And it will be someone else's fault, probably his.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the menstrual cycle
In fairness this is people in general. I read once the secret to a happy life is low expectations. However her expectations have been met and she's still moaning.
That just it isn't. Let them have their quibbles.We don't have to indulge them.
Her complaining on the internet is the first step in sabotaging this "perfect" relationship.
Her problem centers around her girlfriends, where's she's getting twisted advice from.
He can do much better and hopefully he catches this clip and realizes who the mystery girl is.
Women always ask me why the other ones left the relationship, this is why.
You're right, just respect yourself, the rest follows
this thanks to social media and dating apps, my mother went through hard times before meeting my step dad, all her previous relationships were toxic and abusive, i as a child witnessed this, when she met my step dad he checked all the boxes and she did not hesitate to lock him down lol 25 years later and theyre still together, but it could aslo be because she didnt have 30 different options too, she saw this as a once in a lifetime opportunity and took it, now women will meet that man and run the opposite way, what women really want is a man they can control, a yes man that can do whatever she says and not ask questions, the problem isnt that this man is successful, the problem is he is masculine, thats what scares her, he has options, if she leaves he will be good, and that is terrifying to alot of women
She doesn't like being in the shadows...
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