Exactly. Women don't go without sex. They just go without sex from their husbands or boyfriends. They want sex every bit as much as men do. So if she's not getting it from her husband, she's getting it somewhere else
Yes I didn't see that coming and she is still pretending that she's the victim, she f*cked another guy and starved her husband of even the basic levels of affection all whilst pretending that sex wasn't iumportant well of course not you're getting is somewhere else.
Doesn’t know where she went wrong? When she swallowed the feminist kool aid and saw her own husband with contempt. And on top of it, an affair?? She’s a horrible person and her suffering is just.
@@tnoyes4023The reason alienation of affection has been removed from the books in most states as too many politicians were winding up on the wrong side of it!. It's seriously time to rethink these no fault divorce laws, all they do is encourage cheating. As there is no real penalty for it. A cheating, spouse, male or female should in no way benefit from that treachery and destruction of the marriage and family. If your really that unhappy do a split as amicably as possible.But do not show that level of disrespect to the person you called your life partner.
No sex, no marriage. You're not roommates and this marriage is broken, get a divorce and find someone that will give you everything you want from marriage. When the wife stops being affectionate and having sex her husband, she is cheating.
I'm old with a lot of experience so listen to the truth : if your wife doesn't want sex with you she doesn't love or respect you. She doesn't want to be your wife anymore. It couldn't be more obvious if she put it in neon letters. Walk away, throw them out. You WILL be happier. I'm not joking. Whether she's cheating or not, it's over. She's the problem, not you. You've done nothing wrong, she just doesn't love you anymore. Those are the facts and most married men are in marriages just like this. Marriage is dead. Women are temporary now.
She was cheating on her husband, but we don't hear about it until 17 min into the story. No wonder Josh wasn't getting anything. She was getting it all from somewhere else. The reason OP's BFF, Sarah, isn't communicating with her like before is because divorce is contagious. Sarah realized, via OP, that the grass is only greener where you water it. Sarah's husband, probably didn't want Sarah hanging out with OP because, again, divorce is contagious.
If she isn't getting it from her husband,she is getting it somewere else . Just like this one,who had a side piece all along. Never ever accept this crap in a relationship or marriage. Women have the power over the bedroom,but men have the power over the relationship. If the men walks away,there is nothing left. Always be prepared to walk away
He didn't have a wife anymore, he had a roommate. Best he divorce her and find a woman who is attracted to him. His wife just wants the material comforts he provided. She decided she didn't want to be a wife anymore, he doesn't have to be a husband anymore.
Unless there are medical issues, a marriage without sex is not a marriage. She sees you as an ATM and roommate. Divorce her and find a partner that respects you.
Robin Williams said: The worst feeling isn't being alone. It's being with someone who makes you feel alone. That's Liz. And that's why Josh should divorce her - for both their sakes, as Liz herself admits his touch "makes her skin crawl".
Suddenly she realised her meal ticket might be ending. " oh crap better let him have some of this godly gift i set on. Toss him some pity sex, then he'll keep supporting me and i can cut it back like before". Clearly this woman is a victim! A victim of her own mal formed brain. I'm just glad this poor woman was able to get out of that toxic relationship! You go girl! 😂 Cut her lose and DO NOT GET REMARRIED!
Hee body, her choice. His wallet, his choice. She wants to act like a roommate she can be a roommate. She better start paying the bills since she's abusing her husband
I agree with one of the other commenters here - alienation of affection is grounds for divorce in multiple states. All he needs to do is set up cameras - especially after the affair started - and record the times that she reacted badly. And then point out how she suddenly changed her tune ONLY after he filed for divorce. Even a BAD lawyer could convince a judge "Your Honor, if this divorce is denied, what's to prevent her from turning that switch off once more after she doesn't need to worry about not having a husband? Nothing. She'd go right back to alienating him." I'm not a lawyer, and I'm pretty sure that even I could convince a judge with that.
She passed over her affair so casually, you would miss it if you weren't listening. "My divorce was because of my stubbornness. (Not because of my affair)."
This is a perfect example of someone taking their seek other for granted and only realizing it until they check out of the marriage and move on with life
My sister is in a similar situation. She and her husband married in the late 1970s. He became a CEO, they traveled the world, have always lived in beautiful homes, they have servants, three daughters together, and she hasn't had sex with him since 1990. When I married she'd call me every day to lecture me on the evils of marital sex, until I told her that if she mentioned it just one more time I'd never speak to her again. Recently she called to angrily report that she believes he's having relations with Rosie Palm. Today they live with her eight clawing, shitting cats and their two youngest daughters, both of whom have nasty attitudes and are well past the age of spinsterhood. Oh, and in the 1990s my sister cheated on her husband with anybody who wasn't fast enough to crawl away. Guess what? In her opinion, IT'S ALL HIS FAULT. He just wasn't enough of a provider for her.
This story hits too close to home for me. The differences is that there is no affair (as far as I know) and I'm in my 60s. We'll be married 20 years this upcoming December and have had sex fewer times than that in those 20 years. We still do stuff together, and I'll occasionally get a hug, kiss, or a hand hold, but that's it. If I were still in my 30s, I'd be gone.
why is the cheating not mentioned until the last couple minutes in the story and then it's not even part of the reason he got divorced? did someone forget this was supposed to be a cheating story and think, "oh, we better throw that in really quick".
Going on for way too long. Have one final conversation, let her know that this will be the final conversation. If she refuses, dump her. She’s got serious issues, outside influences? Friends, co-workers? Sexless marriages are cancers growing some slowly and others burn out like a rocket. Her post divorce papers reaction act is too little too late. Manipulation and desperation is useless. In the end she was cheating, plus the emotional abuser and loser!
I agree!If When he got told my body my choice, then he should have answered: YOu have to make another choice, you change dramaticaly how you treat me or we seperate. This is also your choice. You have 5 days to think what you want. Till then i stay in an hotel and go on no contact! When you choose me, then i never ever will hear that stupid arrogant selfish uncaring sentense or any thing in this direction. And then i would pack a bag and move to a hotel and prepairing for divorce. Move money to a seperate account and so on!
@@tomallen8296 Thanks, i think it is the only valid answer. In deed she si a fee woman and her body is hers. This is fact. But that does not mean that i need to stay with a person who hold back on purpose and play with me like a with a dog. This all is only about power, about the need to feel to be in charge, about to be in control. This is all about how less she respects the partner and the relationship. You can not stay with a person, who turns the relationship into a competition. ANd since you only can control your own actions and not hers, you need to act. And you shouold do it right when it comes up for the first time.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177because back then they weren't entitled and luxurious enough to believe they deserve everything good without giving anything in return like today... heck if you look at those couples they can happily say "my wife is boss of house" or something similar without feeling like a replacement...modern women "test" long term partners with their cheating,gaslighting and mind games to earn right to their body while giving it away for free for some buff asshole...honestly I wish sexuality was some optional or changeable thing
I am sure she didn't have this problem before they were married. If she is truly not interested in her husband, the they should divorce. She is not attracted to her husband. This is a friends w/o benefits situation. It is delusional to believe the marriage is good if the lack of intimacy is ignored.
"My body, my choice!" Funny how she didn't mention that this was also her infidelity and her fault. The only reason she even bothered to try in the end was because her affair had fallen apart. Here's another catchphrase that sums-up her up perfectly, "Good riddance to bad rubbish!" 😆
So, she grew distand and cold, hiding behind her shield of "my body, my choice" while also letting herself go. In the end it's revealed that she had an affair allthough she gained weight and is so adamand about not having intimacy, a stance she even defends while dating after the divorce. Really? I think the affair was a last minute addition to the story, something to make her look even worse - and you know we all should think that women are bad in general, right? There is no real hint about it, nothing about not feeling attracted towards her husband anymore, no boredom, nothing. And she still stands by her refusal of intimacy even when dating anew. Without the added affair, the story would be much more better and cohesive.
I'm female, most people get confused at my posts because of my name. If women want my body my choice, then what can men do about the draft. As soon as a man turns 18, he gets to celebrate by giving his entire body, by law, to the government for the draft in case of war. A man's body is his own, so we better toss the draft because according to US law, a man has jo choice what happens to his body the second he turns 18. Just saying.
This sounds like what Happened to Me but I stayed because we Had 4 Kids & I knew two were Mine but I was a Father to All of them, Her actions didn't change that. My Revenge was Cruel before I got Custody of all 4 & Raised them on My own
In some jurisdictions, denial of affection is actually deemed a form of domestic ab**e and is grounds for divorce so, actually, you kind of DO owe your partner "affection".
Your body your choice, my wallet my choice. After a couple months of that BS, its time for a lawyer and be done with the crap. If your partner wants to act and be single, let them and move on.
Liz is not in a marriage. She is in a roommate situation. Josh needs a new roommate. So she was giving the intimacy to an AP while denying her husband. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but s3x is 70% of a relationship, because it creates a bond that seeps into all the other aspects of the relationship, that’s why it’s called intimacy as well, that’s why cheating is wrong 😢 Marriage should not be the end of intimacy, it should only strengthen the bond even more and sorry to be the bearer of bad news again but a relationship and subsequently marriage, means work, putting in effort from both sides… Where have these people been living?😂😂
To start, I was not shocked that the wife had a side peace. Simply by the lack of interaction, not just sex gave it away. When people close to them sided with him was the clue that she was not right. I had to laugh when she said the same crap to online daters ghosted her in the middle of the date! WOW! lol Good one!
OP, move on. Sex isn’t the only part of a marriage but it’s super important. Is she cheating? Someone is getting it… OP your wife wants a roommate not a husband! Run….
Another example of why no man marries. Just get a FWB's. Marriage no longer works in this country. Men are finally waking up to the unjust legal system.
Don’t feel bad about looking for a divorce lawyer. If the marriage was a box full of love then it would greatly affect you but since the box is empty the corresponding feelings are also empty.
Couples who have Good Sex Lives will tell you that Sex only affects 10 to 15% of their relationship. Couples who have low/no sex marriages will tell you the PROBLEMS are vastly beyond that 10 to 15%, and make up over half of the issues. My own wife and I went through a long drought of affection - and I finally told her after many years that I wasn't going to live the rest of my life with a room-mate and unless she made intimacy a priority again - like it was when we younger - that I wasn't sure what the point of being married was. My wife listened - and we are working through the problems, and yes - being much more intimate. But the most important thing is we are learning to TALK about anything and everything again, including some very long buried resentments and angry responses to situations that were decades old. Of course, neither of us ever cheated on our spouse, or found a "backup plan" for if things fell apart.
It had something to do with psychology, why she cheat.. obviously she hates her husband guts to a level she want take physical touch away of her life.. but when he's trying every time to reach it.. she gives it to someone else to never give it to him or make him think something gonna be different... It's mental that's why we should understand each other he lost a lot of his life on such woman who build a lot of resentment over him..
The thing is some people can even gaslight themselves, she carries on in the whole story about my body my choice, but in the end, she was just another cheater playing keep her husband away from her.
“Just because I’m married doesn’t mean I’m obligated to have sex with you”… Marriage over. I’d go ahead with a new relationship with someone else with a clean conscience. I’m a prenup loving man so I don’t stand losing a damn thing.
My ex-wife would only have sex with me about 3 times a year. I told her that I need to be intimate with her at least twice a week. She countered with once a week. I told her no, it has to be twice a week minimum. She said no. So I divorced her. I got the kids. I haven't spoken to her in 5 years now. Divorced for 9. I didn't get married to never have sex again
what she did is called gaslighting. She enticed him into marriage with intimacy and physical promises and once she landed him, she cut him off and proved she was all in it for herself.
It seems she left a key bit of information out of her telling of the story that she had an affair and ongoing affair, which is why husband wasn’t getting any a fat 33 year old woman is going to have a tough time dating
The funny thing is, before 1993 a husband requiring access to his wife's body - whether she was "in the mood" or not - was the norm. Was actually what marriage was all about. If you don't want to have sex with the guy, divorce him so he can get a woman who will & you can be friends - if even that.
So she was cheating at the end she didn't get no loving to her husband but to another man but the minute the husband is leaving now she's trying to show that she does love him😂
Another Fake story, But more 1 sided. So she makes the rules, and haves a affair. Well nothing new there. Then behaves like she's the victim in all this... Glad to see hes better off without that deadweight. Yay for man happy ending...
No one could be this clueless. She really didn’t have any clue her husband wasn’t satisfied with their marriage? Her body, her choice… so cheating was okay, but he should just accept her giving her body to someone else?
Her body her choice; his wallet his choice.
She clearly was a demented parasite.
So she was cheating on him how typical no wonder he wasn’t getting any. She never loved him.
If she isn’t f’in you, she’s f’in someone else……………………….
Ok
Exactly. Women don't go without sex. They just go without sex from their husbands or boyfriends. They want sex every bit as much as men do. So if she's not getting it from her husband, she's getting it somewhere else
In the end she admits having a side piece. And he confirms to be that only, a sidepiece
There is something to be said about, "One size fits all."
Yes I didn't see that coming and she is still pretending that she's the victim, she f*cked another guy and starved her husband of even the basic levels of affection all whilst pretending that sex wasn't iumportant well of course not you're getting is somewhere else.
Doesn’t know where she went wrong? When she swallowed the feminist kool aid and saw her own husband with contempt. And on top of it, an affair?? She’s a horrible person and her suffering is just.
Josh made is expectations plain. She chose not to abide, so she gets to live alone. Good on Josh for growing a backbone
Manuplating Sht
Just because we’re married does not mean I am obligated to give you money !
Or time
Attention
Commitment
Genius.
Witholding money can be considered financial abuse in some jurisdictions.
@@TheMarcuslindberg Always best to check with a lawyer before launching into a plan.
Or anything else for that matter
Sorry to inform you, but alienation of affection/ sex is indeed grounds for divorce.
alienation of affection has been taken off the books in 44 states, and in the remaining 6 is rarely used.
@@tnoyes4023 and you can thank feminism
Most jurisdictions don't require a specific reason for a divorce. This is now just covered under the catch-all of irreconcilable differences.
@@tnoyes4023The reason alienation of affection has been removed from the books in most states as too many politicians were winding up on the wrong side of it!. It's seriously time to rethink these no fault divorce laws, all they do is encourage cheating. As there is no real penalty for it. A cheating, spouse, male or female should in no way benefit from that treachery and destruction of the marriage and family. If your really that unhappy do a split as amicably as possible.But do not show that level of disrespect to the person you called your life partner.
She is misguided childish immature .
This dummy got what she deserved, she was cheating and is lucky the ex didn't find out before he divorced her.
No sex, no marriage. You're not roommates and this marriage is broken, get a divorce and find someone that will give you everything you want from marriage. When the wife stops being affectionate and having sex her husband, she is cheating.
Was no sex for him, she was cheating the wole time. She was having sex all the time.
I'm old with a lot of experience so listen to the truth : if your wife doesn't want sex with you she doesn't love or respect you. She doesn't want to be your wife anymore. It couldn't be more obvious if she put it in neon letters. Walk away, throw them out. You WILL be happier. I'm not joking. Whether she's cheating or not, it's over. She's the problem, not you. You've done nothing wrong, she just doesn't love you anymore.
Those are the facts and most married men are in marriages just like this.
Marriage is dead. Women are temporary now.
@@frankconley6321 100% agree.
If she's not getting it from you, she's getting it from someone else. The biggest lie ever told to men is that women have a lower sex drive.
@@tulkasainur5091 She was plenty interested in sex all this time...just not with him.
I've heard it said that when the sex is good it's only 10% of the relationship. When it's bad or non-existent it's 90%.
My wife and I saw that in a "rekindling intimacy" book we're reading. And it makes a lot of sense....
She’s neglecting you. She doesn’t love you. Maybe cheating. Probably. Time to call it quits. Stay single men!!!
She was cheating
Well if I listened correctly she had a side peace that rejected her when her husband filed for divorce
She was cheating on her husband, but we don't hear about it until 17 min into the story. No wonder Josh wasn't getting anything. She was getting it all from somewhere else. The reason OP's BFF, Sarah, isn't communicating with her like before is because divorce is contagious. Sarah realized, via OP, that the grass is only greener where you water it. Sarah's husband, probably didn't want Sarah hanging out with OP because, again, divorce is contagious.
Most women who cheat eat Oscar Mayers in silence.
I have to wonder is Sarah wasn't also having an affair?
If she isn't getting it from her husband,she is getting it somewere else . Just like this one,who had a side piece all along. Never ever accept this crap in a relationship or marriage. Women have the power over the bedroom,but men have the power over the relationship. If the men walks away,there is nothing left. Always be prepared to walk away
Ok when was she ever right, had affair, removed herself from marriage and now she plays victim because he divorced her.
Twice in 14 months for someone in their 30's? Good bye!
I like how at the end she just casually dropped she had been cheating the entire time
She just didn’t want to cheat on her side peice
Divorce, alienation of affection!
Constructive abandonment.
@@geradinespicer6016 Is that better?
@davidedbrooke9324 not really. When dealing with divorce what is.
@@geradinespicer6016 true
He didn't have a wife anymore, he had a roommate. Best he divorce her and find a woman who is attracted to him. His wife just wants the material comforts he provided. She decided she didn't want to be a wife anymore, he doesn't have to be a husband anymore.
I disagree. He didn't have a wife, he had a parasite.
@@metheglynpymont8731 I bow to your superior intellect! I can't refute your analysis. .
Unless there are medical issues, a marriage without sex is not a marriage. She sees you as an ATM and roommate. Divorce her and find a partner that respects you.
Robin Williams said: The worst feeling isn't being alone. It's being with someone who makes you feel alone.
That's Liz. And that's why Josh should divorce her - for both their sakes, as Liz herself admits his touch "makes her skin crawl".
Suddenly she realised her meal ticket might be ending. " oh crap better let him have some of this godly gift i set on. Toss him some pity sex, then he'll keep supporting me and i can cut it back like before".
Clearly this woman is a victim! A victim of her own mal formed brain. I'm just glad this poor woman was able to get out of that toxic relationship! You go girl! 😂
Cut her lose and DO NOT GET REMARRIED!
This is what feminism causes.
Hee body, her choice. His wallet, his choice. She wants to act like a roommate she can be a roommate. She better start paying the bills since she's abusing her husband
She's only panicking because her comfy life is disappearing. It's like "Lets get married but live in different houses."
But if he didn’t sign that piece of paper paper, he wouldn’t have these problems
She is now getting the same neglect she has been giving him for so long. You don't have to do anything for anyone, just like no one owes you anything.
Liz: The rejection stung more than I want to admit (after I tried to hug him)
Well, now you know how Josh felt all those times you rejected him!
The fact that she ends the story with "Is being right worth being alone" goes to show that she didn't learn, and never will.
I agree with one of the other commenters here - alienation of affection is grounds for divorce in multiple states. All he needs to do is set up cameras - especially after the affair started - and record the times that she reacted badly. And then point out how she suddenly changed her tune ONLY after he filed for divorce. Even a BAD lawyer could convince a judge "Your Honor, if this divorce is denied, what's to prevent her from turning that switch off once more after she doesn't need to worry about not having a husband? Nothing. She'd go right back to alienating him." I'm not a lawyer, and I'm pretty sure that even I could convince a judge with that.
Liz is delusional. No love from her. Josh needs to get out of this roommate situation.😊
Her body, her choice. His relationship with her, his choice.
She passed over her affair so casually, you would miss it if you weren't listening.
"My divorce was because of my stubbornness. (Not because of my affair)."
Wife - My body , my choice. You don't have any say in this.
Hubby - My decision, divorce . Leave 👍💯
"I shouldn't have to compromise..." is what a dumbass who thinks their needs in a marriage are the ONLY needs say
This is a perfect example of someone taking their seek other for granted and only realizing it until they check out of the marriage and move on with life
Divorce is the perfect counter to "my body my choice"
Kevin Samuels used to say something like, "Women are in charge of sex. Men are in charge of relationships".
I wouldn't waste my life getting married
Lol, after the divorce she mentions her AP, like an after thought... what a 304.
Just because you are not having sex doesn't mean she isn't. Guys never settle on roommates status with your wife.
My sister is in a similar situation. She and her husband married in the late 1970s. He became a CEO, they traveled the world, have always lived in beautiful homes, they have servants, three daughters together, and she hasn't had sex with him since 1990. When I married she'd call me every day to lecture me on the evils of marital sex, until I told her that if she mentioned it just one more time I'd never speak to her again. Recently she called to angrily report that she believes he's having relations with Rosie Palm. Today they live with her eight clawing, shitting cats and their two youngest daughters, both of whom have nasty attitudes and are well past the age of spinsterhood. Oh, and in the 1990s my sister cheated on her husband with anybody who wasn't fast enough to crawl away. Guess what? In her opinion, IT'S ALL HIS FAULT. He just wasn't enough of a provider for her.
This story hits too close to home for me. The differences is that there is no affair (as far as I know) and I'm in my 60s. We'll be married 20 years this upcoming December and have had sex fewer times than that in those 20 years. We still do stuff together, and I'll occasionally get a hug, kiss, or a hand hold, but that's it. If I were still in my 30s, I'd be gone.
why is the cheating not mentioned until the last couple minutes in the story and then it's not even part of the reason he got divorced? did someone forget this was supposed to be a cheating story and think, "oh, we better throw that in really quick".
Going on for way too long. Have one final conversation, let her know that this will be the final conversation. If she refuses, dump her. She’s got serious issues, outside influences? Friends, co-workers? Sexless marriages are cancers growing some slowly and others burn out like a rocket. Her post divorce papers reaction act is too little too late. Manipulation and desperation is useless. In the end she was cheating, plus the emotional abuser and loser!
I agree!If When he got told my body my choice, then he should have answered: YOu have to make another choice, you change dramaticaly how you treat me or we seperate. This is also your choice. You have 5 days to think what you want. Till then i stay in an hotel and go on no contact! When you choose me, then i never ever will hear that stupid arrogant selfish uncaring sentense or any thing in this direction. And then i would pack a bag and move to a hotel and prepairing for divorce. Move money to a seperate account and so on!
@@rapsack7058I like your approach.
@@tomallen8296 Thanks, i think it is the only valid answer. In deed she si a fee woman and her body is hers. This is fact. But that does not mean that i need to stay with a person who hold back on purpose and play with me like a with a dog.
This all is only about power, about the need to feel to be in charge, about to be in control. This is all about how less she respects the partner and the relationship.
You can not stay with a person, who turns the relationship into a competition. ANd since you only can control your own actions and not hers, you need to act. And you shouold do it right when it comes up for the first time.
5:14 she knows nothing of a 1950’s housewife
Actually the vast majority of 1950's housewives were happier than women of today.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177because back then they weren't entitled and luxurious enough to believe they deserve everything good without giving anything in return like today... heck if you look at those couples they can happily say "my wife is boss of house" or something similar without feeling like a replacement...modern women "test" long term partners with their cheating,gaslighting and mind games to earn right to their body while giving it away for free for some buff asshole...honestly I wish sexuality was some optional or changeable thing
When a married bed goes dead, it’s near-certain infidelity is in play.
She cheated on her husband while cutting her husband off.
She is vile. Withholding intimacy is abusive behavior, and more than enough reason to get hat and get gone. She ain't worth it.
Yes, when married, you are obligated to be intimate with your spouse!
I am sure she didn't have this problem before they were married. If she is truly not interested in her husband, the they should divorce. She is not attracted to her husband. This is a friends w/o benefits situation. It is delusional to believe the marriage is good if the lack of intimacy is ignored.
Hilarious that she glossed over cheating on her husband. A women not having sex for months is a clear sign she is cheating
"My body, my choice!" Funny how she didn't mention that this was also her infidelity and her fault. The only reason she even bothered to try in the end was because her affair had fallen apart. Here's another catchphrase that sums-up her up perfectly, "Good riddance to bad rubbish!" 😆
So, she grew distand and cold, hiding behind her shield of "my body, my choice" while also letting herself go. In the end it's revealed that she had an affair allthough she gained weight and is so adamand about not having intimacy, a stance she even defends while dating after the divorce. Really?
I think the affair was a last minute addition to the story, something to make her look even worse - and you know we all should think that women are bad in general, right? There is no real hint about it, nothing about not feeling attracted towards her husband anymore, no boredom, nothing. And she still stands by her refusal of intimacy even when dating anew.
Without the added affair, the story would be much more better and cohesive.
I'm female, most people get confused at my posts because of my name. If women want my body my choice, then what can men do about the draft. As soon as a man turns 18, he gets to celebrate by giving his entire body, by law, to the government for the draft in case of war. A man's body is his own, so we better toss the draft because according to US law, a man has jo choice what happens to his body the second he turns 18. Just saying.
and that's why the government allows common men the right to vote instead of only business owners ,and property owners.
This sounds like what Happened to Me but I stayed because we Had 4 Kids & I knew two were Mine but I was a Father to All of them, Her actions didn't change that. My Revenge was Cruel before I got Custody of all 4 & Raised them on My own
In some jurisdictions, denial of affection is actually deemed a form of domestic ab**e and is grounds for divorce so, actually, you kind of DO owe your partner "affection".
Your body your choice, my wallet my choice.
After a couple months of that BS, its time for a lawyer and be done with the crap.
If your partner wants to act and be single, let them and move on.
Liz is not in a marriage. She is in a roommate situation. Josh needs a new roommate. So she was giving the intimacy to an AP while denying her husband. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but s3x is 70% of a relationship, because it creates a bond that seeps into all the other aspects of the relationship, that’s why it’s called intimacy as well, that’s why cheating is wrong 😢
Marriage should not be the end of intimacy, it should only strengthen the bond even more and sorry to be the bearer of bad news again but a relationship and subsequently marriage, means work, putting in effort from both sides…
Where have these people been living?😂😂
To start, I was not shocked that the wife had a side peace. Simply by the lack of interaction, not just sex gave it away. When people close to them sided with him was the clue that she was not right. I had to laugh when she said the same crap to online daters ghosted her in the middle of the date! WOW! lol Good one!
OP, move on. Sex isn’t the only part of a marriage but it’s super important. Is she cheating? Someone is getting it… OP your wife wants a roommate not a husband! Run….
Another example of why no man marries. Just get a FWB's. Marriage no longer works in this country. Men are finally waking up to the unjust legal system.
Its not about my body my choice. Its about you not wanting your husband, so therefore, you get NO husband. You only get to keep a man you want.
Don’t feel bad about looking for a divorce lawyer. If the marriage was a box full of love then it would greatly affect you but since the box is empty the corresponding feelings are also empty.
Couples who have Good Sex Lives will tell you that Sex only affects 10 to 15% of their relationship. Couples who have low/no sex marriages will tell you the PROBLEMS are vastly beyond that 10 to 15%, and make up over half of the issues.
My own wife and I went through a long drought of affection - and I finally told her after many years that I wasn't going to live the rest of my life with a room-mate and unless she made intimacy a priority again - like it was when we younger - that I wasn't sure what the point of being married was. My wife listened - and we are working through the problems, and yes - being much more intimate. But the most important thing is we are learning to TALK about anything and everything again, including some very long buried resentments and angry responses to situations that were decades old.
Of course, neither of us ever cheated on our spouse, or found a "backup plan" for if things fell apart.
It had something to do with psychology, why she cheat.. obviously she hates her husband guts to a level she want take physical touch away of her life.. but when he's trying every time to reach it.. she gives it to someone else to never give it to him or make him think something gonna be different... It's mental that's why we should understand each other he lost a lot of his life on such woman who build a lot of resentment over him..
The thing is some people can even gaslight themselves, she carries on in the whole story about my body my choice, but in the end, she was just another cheater playing keep her husband away from her.
She has no right to demand anything from him as well. He is way better off without her.
“Just because I’m married doesn’t mean I’m obligated to have sex with you”…
Marriage over. I’d go ahead with a new relationship with someone else with a clean conscience. I’m a prenup loving man so I don’t stand losing a damn thing.
My ex-wife would only have sex with me about 3 times a year. I told her that I need to be intimate with her at least twice a week. She countered with once a week. I told her no, it has to be twice a week minimum. She said no. So I divorced her. I got the kids.
I haven't spoken to her in 5 years now. Divorced for 9. I didn't get married to never have sex again
The funny part, she's gonna give it in her new relationship😂
No, it's only her body, when married, it's his body too!
I like the format where name flashes who is speaking
what she did is called gaslighting. She enticed him into marriage with intimacy and physical promises and once she landed him, she cut him off and proved she was all in it for herself.
Participation trophies😅 understood enough said
Your body your choice,his wallet,home,and business his choice
It seems she left a key bit of information out of her telling of the story that she had an affair and ongoing affair, which is why husband wasn’t getting any a fat 33 year old woman is going to have a tough time dating
The funny thing is, before 1993 a husband requiring access to his wife's body - whether she was "in the mood" or not - was the norm. Was actually what marriage was all about. If you don't want to have sex with the guy, divorce him so he can get a woman who will & you can be friends - if even that.
His life, his decision.
So she denied sex for her husband but readily gave it to her affair?
Just cuz they signed some papers don't mean he gotta pay for stuff. His wallet, his choice. Cancel all accounts, phone and utilities.
So she was cheating at the end she didn't get no loving to her husband but to another man but the minute the husband is leaving now she's trying to show that she does love him😂
A man will only take rejection so many time's before he is done I know
Another Fake story, But more 1 sided. So she makes the rules, and haves a affair. Well nothing new there. Then behaves like she's the victim in all this... Glad to see hes better off without that deadweight. Yay for man happy ending...
You could slowly pull any financial support. Stop paying for things. "My wallet my choice"
No one could be this clueless. She really didn’t have any clue her husband wasn’t satisfied with their marriage? Her body, her choice… so cheating was okay, but he should just accept her giving her body to someone else?
What car does she have that she can stand in it?! 🤨🤯
The best way to screw up a love affair is get married. The only known cure for numphomania is a wedding ring.
Crazy to casually throw in the wife’s side piece as if that didn’t have a lot to do with the marriage ending.
Wow she left out the part she’s been cheating for years
Ohh I wish a wife would tell me that bullshit😂…your body your choice huh😂…
Using X to get him back, so pathetic and sad.
LADIES: If you did it ONCE, you'll do it again. You can't come back from certain things.
Oh she was cheating.... Surprise surprise.
My body, my cats.
He found an apartment, but stayed in the one he had shared with his ex-wife?
Yea, I heard that to. It's like the AI did a U-turn unexpectantly.
Twice in 14 months , no intimacy =no marriage. Personally divorce papers would be served by week 2
I love listening to the "delusion of reality" that modern women believe in so much.
Isn't it the whole idea of marriage to "exist for his/her pleasure" ?
My body, my choice, my accountability, my consequences.
Let's not shorten the full phrase.