I know this video is for comedic purpose, but I’m literally crying because I want a mom like that, idc real or not, when she said “son? son? sweetie? I love you.” I started crying so much 💀
It's strange how the kids often do turn against kind lovely people and wouldn't 'out of fear' to parents that beat them.. biblical scripture; spare the rod and spoil the child!!! 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️😥
I get an allowance and I’m pretty spoiled, but never in my life would I talk to my parents like this. I was appalled when I learned people actually call their parents by their first names sometimes.
I know right, my parents never even did grounding even when I did yell as a little kid but once I straightened out I could never. And I respect and fear la chancla. Or an equivalent.
I was hit in my childhood and mildly spoiled but I call my parents old man/lady. They always call me old lady right back. I’d never call them by their names. Not because it’s disrespectful, but because it’s weird. What kind of weirdos go around calling the people who raised them by their name? Unless they don’t deserve to be in that person’s life anymore to begin with or something. But an actual good, loving parent like this? Nope. Crazy.
i love how you act out both sides of the coin. too much kindness spoils the kid, just like strictness. edit: damn mom im famous lololol thanks for 12K likes ig!!!
My parents allow and buy me everything and are the nicest but my siblings and I aren't acting like brats. Spoiling isn't a bad thing as long as you raise the kid good.
My mom is Jamaican, sometimes my brother yells at her, and she is the mom at the end. 😢 (not exactly like she still disciplines us but my brother doesn’t listen when she’s not here)
This shows how different parenting can change a person. Be too nice to your child, and he’ll turn into a brat. Be strict and rude, he’ll turn into a slave. Balance it just right, and you have a perfect, good child. Not too spoiled, and not a slave.
Yeah I'm a lot like the 'white mom' but if my kid ever said anything like that my response would be "See those shoulders? They're going to be missing a head. I did *not* raise you to speak to anyone like that, least of all me!"
Last year, there was this guy in my class, who was an Asian whom I learned was adopted by white parents, and he’s literally one of the kindest people I know🤍
I really felt bad for the mama at the end...even though she isn't real, she is just what all Asian kids need sometimes. Kindness and love. We need a whole episode dedicated just for her one day! 🥺♥️
I stared at the end of the video for some seconds... I feel really sad to see this... It's true that it's like that in many families, although spoiling alone doesn't raise such kids.. it's also a lot of anger from the parents towards the children, but without actual borders of discipline and education that Asian parents set, so it makes adult babies..
Soooo true! The other day I was playing on a Western server and I couldn't execute a simple task. When I finally got it, a total stranger praised me. I am an adult but that was way more praising that I have ever gotten in my childhood lmao
I feel like the stereotype of strict and harsh Asian parents is often pertpetuated so much that we forget about all the amazing parents out there who don't conform to this trope. I have two (unconventional, to say the least) wonderful Asian parents who would never punish me so harshly, and have always been encouraging towards me. It makes me grateful to be who I am.
This guy is hilarious and we know he is exaggerating cultural attitude differences. My (white) family was not very supportive of higher education and considered college educated people uppity (condescending), but when I graduated in engineering with an ROTC commission, my father took credit for helping me, though he kicked me out of house, changed locks and wouldn't sign for loan or grants. Actually Evil Step Mom influenced him negatively because he was a good Dad until she built the Ginger Bread House.
@@rarart-gamesproductionbyci9353 Life provides all the entertaining challenges you would never expect but I've had a pretty good life. On the downhill side now, but better than many. Most best parts of my family have passed but lots of good friends remain to sustain old men talking about the good days. If all goes well, I'll complete my private flying cert by this time next year. I'm old, slow but I don't quit and should eventually get there.
I just had one of the worst days where I was once again accused and slandered for no reason. But that's a usual. But seeing this video was more of an emotional support than i thought it would be when i clicked it. You just became a mother to millions of Asians out there mate.
I'm sorry you had a bad day, but I'm glad you're better now. I'm from europe, but I'm the scapegoat in our really messed up probably narcissistic family. So I get the slandering and stuff. I hope you'll get better and that you can move out soon! Moving out saved my sanity!
I've been there. There's really no pleasing them. Even if you do one thing right, they'll find something else you're not good at and use that against you. Don't worry though. It gets better. You'll be in control of your life soon, and then you can choose to live your life and not be an asshole to your kids should you choose to have some in the future.
Same I’m white and I used to hear it all the time but after 3rd grade I started to never hear it anymore and I started to think I’m never good enough for my mom I have to be perfect for her to like my older sister even my twin felt unloved so she Changed her personality to be like my older I would always try to be perfect to just hear I’m proud of you or congratulations I started to develop OCD and social anxiety because of it I thought something was wrong so I started to bottle up my emotions and when I started to break from the pressure my mom told me to stop crying even though my mom died i still feel like I never be good enough for anyone in this world and I have to be perfect
@@Gucocdyrs What !?! Omg i hope everything is gonna be ok, and the most important thing is, even if u end up having no one else left in your life, then try to be good enough for yourself then, that matters more then what others want for you, because they have their own world and may not understand. And I know what social anxiety feels like, i have like almost no friends anymore T_T and im rlly quiet, anyways i hope it gets better!
@@riptide8198 okay uh no. I don't know what kinda fucked up place you're from, but it is normal to tell your child you love them. It won't "boost their ego". What it will do is give you a better relatioship with your child. Only thing it'll boost is your kid's mental health.
@@kazazalea7747 parents do say it lmfao you probably grew up getting what you always wanted but parents say it only when its deserved not all the god damn time cba with people thinking oh lordy mental health issues shits 80% of the time in america
I saw this behavior a lot from Asian families in the US. I was a figure skater and it seems like a lot of Asian parents put their girls into figure skating for some reason. The way the moms treated those little girls had me cry and tense up and they weren't even talking to me. I mean I have mommy issues about not being enough. My mom died 19 years ago and I am doing stuff to try and win her approval. How twisted is it that you are seeking the approval of a dead woman.
@@mushroomexpress3049 absolutely!!! It is just from a small sample I see on a daily bases. There are some white moms that are horrible to their kids but I have yet to see an Asian mom not losing their mind when their kid falls on a new jump in practice.
@@andreaelizabeth5494 lol, I get zero on math twice, and she just half jokingly frustrated. she said its fine as long as I graduate school and have things that guaranteed my survival on real world. when I was kid she was strict and demanding(but never abusive). when I bring up the past she said she was anxious of her dying before I can survive real world. I think its due to generation gap tbh, I honestly understand why back in the days beeing strict to kid is necessary, and why they're anxious of proverty. as time goess I think my mom(and lot of chinese mom) realize how world has changed, she even support my art major choice ps: this is only my experience as chinese, it doesn't apply to all asian.
The more I watch these Asian parents simulation creations the more I love my Chinese parent more. They are so different from most Asian parents tbh, they never forced me to learn or do anything; they never underestimate my abilities and always be there for every decision I make in my life. My mom still kisses me everyday even I’m 21 now, my dad remembers everything I wanted (food, drinks, etc) and he will buy those when he goes to supermarkets. My name, it’s Chinese and have meanings, basically means freedom, music, rhythm, and my mom’s wish for me to be happy, healthy, and live a self-loved life. They don’t care about my grade, in middle school I once got D and F and even got drop off from my intermediate math class. They saw the grade letter and they talked to me, telling me that they understand it’s been hard for me because we just immigrants to US for a year. English is still a huge problem for me so they understand my struggle and only asked me to work hard, don’t regret. I think this is exactly why I start to force myself into higher education and eventually got me 5 UC offers last Fall! I’m a history major, there’s no way for me to be doctor or lawyer since I don’t like it, and my parents never forced me to do anything I don’t like. I can feel love everyday from my parents, even tho they also don’t say “I love you” like Western parents, their love was visible and surrounding me all the time. Because their love and understanding, I can make this far in my life and become a better person in the future. I hope everyone, no matter you are Asian or not, remember the unique of you as an individual. Remember to love yourself before loving others. Remember that no matter what problem you faced through, there’s a way out, and keep believing in yourself❤
As an Indian I think the kind of relationship you had with your parents many Indian girls have something similar to that if they are brought up in upper middle class families because of gender role tho girls are educated they are not expected to do as well as guys and talking about guys...........they have a tuff time becuz they are expected to be providers.
I love the Asian custom of taking off shoes in the house, I think it's a good thing. My Taiwanese friends would give me these special slippers to wear whenever I visited them.
this is commonplace in Canada. Also, many Europeans have this practice. Hell, my mom posted a plaque on the front door that said "please remove shoes before entering" when we lived in the states.
I love how it went from being so wholesome with the kid being free and not being forced and beat into a traumatizing situations and the parent reassuring them that everything is fine and that there a good kid, but the end the kid is spoiled and the video reveals the hard truth of not spoiling you're children. P.S, I don't love it, I actually really hate it cause I was gonna cry cause of how sweet it was, to late now 😁👀
@@elvenleaf5589 Asian parents beat their children but love them a lot….. they don’t spoil their kids with allowance and gifts but rather they let their children stay with them forever, pay for their college, pay for their expensive marriage, and make their future easy
I'm European, and my experience is kind of middle way between the Asian and the American one... No allowance, no declared unconditional love, top marks at school and the University, but I did what I wanted with my life. (No, I'm not a doctor. I travelled the world, I work as an event manager and now also in the movie industry.)
@@jpye8989 I did it for a few years, working for the international cooperation in different continents, then I stayed in my city (Florence) for a few years working in the events sector (international fairs and congresses = still surrounded by foreigners all the time), and I ended up travelling again as an assistant director and assistant editor. I just came back from a 3-week trip to LA. Let's hope COVID won't prevent me from travelling again...
@@Myria83 I have been to Italy and I have heard about Florence but unfortunately I didn't end up traveling in your city. One day! I would like to have a career change, hopefully I can do a job that involves international traveling. I don't want to be traveling all the time, but a job that has opportunities to travel around the world. That's my dream. I wish I have skills that you may have, but we never know, in life anything is possible. I will let you know when that day comes 🙂
you can be a cool parent while being strict, my mum is asian but she's chill, understanding and knows hardwork a lesson she told me is that :you dont have to score high, as long as you put in hardwork i will always appreciate you. i always set high expectations for myself so this hit hard in the feels
I feel you. My parents don’t set their expectations too high of me, but my self expectations are incredibly high. Like If I don’t get straight As I start thinking about dropping out and switching schools lol. Love my parents.
@@kindlethekitsune why is this me lol, im a procrastinator but I still try to keep my grades at As and Bs, it makes me feel better about myself. (besides the switching schools part)
My Asian parents love me and my sibling with all their hearts, disciplined us with belt as kids and NEVER SPOILED us. But they supported us in every way possible and gave us freedom to decide for our own lives as we became adults. And constantly reassuring us of their love, still giving us kisses and warm hugs. Love my mom and dad so much. 💕
Every child that has been hit lies to themselves when they say they love their parents it's the "love and affection" they are running after and idealize their parents bc otherwise they would have to deeply accept that they have never been really treated with true love and that would be too much to cope with. So don't encourage people to hit their children and be honest with yourself otherwise u will never heal.
Child abuse is never okay. But sometimes kids or teenagers can be too unruly and disrespectful. In times like that we need heavy discipline or else they will turn into a spoiled brat like the one in the end of this video. Ofc I personally don't prefer hitting, so I screamed and guilt tripping them in order to make them do self reflect. It always works.
" we'll give you a weekly allowance of $30 " " whatever makes you happy I'm willing to give you anything you want !! " I'm white, and even I know that's messed up 💀
As a asian teenager, my body feels weird going out with my friends all the time, or needing the "I'm willing to give you anything you want" words, I might feel pissed off and I had to educate that parent of how to take care a child, without spoiling them SMH (Coming from a dysfunctional household, I need orders to be function, I just got used to perfectionism everyday 😅) Oh I isolate too, good luck with the white parents trying to take care of me 😂 I never go out of my room, unless I have to eat, IN MY ROOM 😌
I'm white and am in a very financially stable household. If I asked for money, I got it. Of course, I didn't do this all the time, and especially in hs. My parents were HAPPY when I would go hang out with friends cuz I don't do that a lot.
This video is pretty spot on. Not for me, but for my little brother. Not once has he been disciplined or discussed about his actions, and now he acts so distant to the family. He doesn’t even eat dinner with us anymore, he just brings food to his room. It’s pretty sad.
i've seen both the overly strict side and spoiling side in my family alone and what i can say is...the spoiling side is wayyyyy wayyyyy more destructive with lasting effects. now that my parents are gone, i'm forced to babysit older sibling that refused to grow up no matter what being said or what happens after being spoiled for so much(even though there were some shares of strictness/harshness too). even among my relatives...it's the ones that grew up with harsh treatment that somehow ended up humans....while the spoilt ones continue to be big boss babies while their parents expect their own siblings who are as old as them(rather than their now adult children)or even other siblings' children(who succeeded to grow up without being considered babies for life) to do things for them. honestly, balance is key, but if i have to choose one...after seeing my own family....yeah maybe the harsh treatment work better, for Asians at least...or for my family... lol. i remember even a school friend who grew up being beaten up(and she's a girl...in my house, women/girls never got hit) said she was proud that all the beating made her human and she couldn't stand the new generation that complaints about the littlest things.
Me and my sister graduated in a degree my mother wanted both of us to have. My mom didn’t even praise us. She cared more about her vacation and the after party. Some Asian parents like my mom are a joke. They only care about reputation and their retirement back up children. Deep down I know she never gave enough sh*t about us
I never heard those words ever. Funny thing is, after a whipping for some infraction, she would say that she loved us. (Had 2 siblings.). No wonder my brother likes to rough his wife up during sex.
Also, there are a few things that Asian parents should learn: 1. Never break promises. When you promise something you have to full fill it. 2. Don't force children to do what you want. Imagine someone treats you like that. 3. Don't compare your child to anyone (especially you). 4. Encourage your child. Don't discourage your child. 5. Don't ground them all the time. They won't be comfortable with you and they won't do much bonding with you. 6. Don't scream at them. They won't feel happy. They will be depressed. 7. Don't stalk them or check through their phones. They won't trust you. I hope you have learned how to deal with a child and have learned a moral from it.
If only they would understand but I don't even have the guts to show them this because If I do I know they will just emotionally guilt trip me in thinking I'm not grateful towards them and I should respect them and decisions
@User_Unknown Well, I graduated high-school at 16, got my masters degree at 22, and now work in the R&D department at a BioTech facility. My father is my best friend and If im being honest... I have always seen him as my real life super hero. Even now, despite my being well into my 30s. These days, now that he's in his mid-70's, he and I live together once again. Something that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world... Being able to give him back what he had always made sure to give me. A life of security, support, love, and mutual respect. One that I truly appreciated enough that all i ever did was want to make him proud. Also... I never had blue hair. It was red, thank you very much. Perhaps those pre-conceived notions about "the west" aren't as accurate as you thought.
@@ReapingWillow that's like the life story of almost 75 percent of the people I know and their parents were really strict with them lol. The thing is most parents here grew up in poverty and doesn't really want their kids to grow up to be like them. Most kids understand this by the time they reach adulthood.
Imagine if Steven he is his dad and amber heard is his mom man he will commit suicide the same day he was born he will Speedrun his life and commit oof
why can't you be like your classmate xxx? rather give birth to a roast pork than give birth to a junk like you! I pay for your clothes ,I pay for your food, how dare you disobey me !?
As an Asian I can bet no Asian child ever adopted by a white mom and told “I’ll always love you no matter what” will ever treat her like you showed in the video after the leap. We’ll eternally be grateful to the kind woman, she showed more love and support than an Asian parent ever would. Edit : I seem to be giving out a wrong message about Asian parents through my comment and I’m extremely apologetic for it. I didn’t mean to, but my comment unintentionally got biased towards my own experiences and hence I said the last line out of rage. Again it had nothing to do with everyone but just my personal experiences. There are good parents in all cultures and vice Versa. I didn’t mean to hurt sentiments through it.
Let's not make Asian parents out to be demons here. The love is there, it's just expressed differently. I'm sure you'll treat your parents well. But not all kids grow up respecting their parents. Even Asian kids with Asian parents who grow up in Asian countries can become spoiled brats. There are bad parents everywhere, on both ends of the spectrum.
@@kphamcao I completely understand, it was just the treatment I received from my parents that made me resent them, so I might have got a little biased here. However, I admit there are both good and bad parents in all cultures. It depends on an individual to choose to become the parent they want to be.
you make asian parents seem like really bad when its not. my parents act like stereotypical asian parents but with no toxicity, they said things stereotypical of asian parents but not on serious way. I would never trade my asian parents with the white mom
Asian parents are not evil. They can be a little strict. He was clearly exaggerating. Parenting is all about balance. You should know when to be soft and when to discipline
God, you hate your race when you really should just hate your own parents. My Asian parents tell me they love me. How about instead of white-worshipping you strive to change that culture and be loving to your family in the future?
True indeed! Love & support your child but don't spoil them. Also children need to give respect to their parents as well as others. Appreciate what we get & never forget where we came from 👍
As an Italian we technically wear shoes in the house but we have outdoor shoes and slippers for in the house. I still have no idea who just comes in the house with their dirty outdoor shoes unless their house is filthy.
Thats what i mean. You can wear what you want in the house! I just think its weird to have to shoes you played with outdoors, went to school with its odd to outdoor shoes in the house.
A lot of people do for many reasons. First off, unless your shoes are nasty your bare feet are worse if you have a carpet just from your natural oils, I would think it's worse for you too. IDK if this counts with wood / stone. When people have dirty shoes they take them off outside or right inside the house if you have a place for it. If your shoes are clean it's not a big deal, and people who do this often wipe their shoes before entering the house too so they don't track in any dirt or sand. While I don't wear shoes in my house now as they get too dirty here because of the climate. When I lived in Florida my shoes where always clean, spend a few seconds wiping them down and they where good as new. As long as you clean your house and don't live like a pig it makes no real difference. Health reasons, my grandmother for example needs her shoes as walking around without them pains her. She's got outside shoes too that she is willing to get dirty and never brings inside. Just a culture thing, and always shown on TV is another reason.
@@larissatom6910 So are you saying that everyone in the world except Americans takes off their shoes in the house? I don't think so. I lived for awhile in Brazil and have spent a lot of time in Mexico. No one ever took off shoes in the house.
Moral of the story for Asian and non Asian parents. Do not be too strict on your kids, love, respect and support your kids and their skills they are good vs bad at and discipline them for knowing the rights vs wrongs to make sure your kids go to a straight healthy path in life.
As an Asian, when I have kids I will use the white parenting technique with a few modifications(because duh I'm not having my kids be like that to me)so my kids will be those few asian(probably half asian) kids that can't relate to asian parents being terrible
@@heynotizzy7493 me and my chinese friends are more surprised seeing abusive toxic household actually- our parents act like asian parents but in lovely kind of way. abusive family are not majority on current asian household.
0:09 this is the weirdest thing I found about many America. In my country we wear house shoes in the house then outside shoes outside. But many Americans just come in with their outside shoes
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I love how this is the direct opposite of Asian parents adopting a white kid
Where's that one?
The white kid becomes Asian
ikr
@@curiousme113 pretty sure it's the one with the title: "If Asian parents adopted a karen"
@@calicobagels that was funny lol
“Why would I hit you, that’s insane!” Are the words I am never going to here in my life
i did hear those words.. but it was _after_ i got hit...
@its Time that's SO the full vid, thank u
@@12DAMDO 😭😭😭🤌 relatable
@@12DAMDO i feel u😂😂😭
Truth🙆♀️😭😂
Moral of the story: kids need love, but dicipline should not be neglected.
Yes, but it needs to be realistic, consistent, and fair.
I know this video is for comedic purpose, but I’m literally crying because I want a mom like that, idc real or not, when she said “son? son? sweetie? I love you.” I started crying so much 💀
I'm so sorry you don't have that. Sending a virtual mum hug just for you 🤗
Me too...I feel so warm when hearing that.
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I love you. You're an amazing person. ♥
As an Asian, I almost cried when the mom said that she always loves and supports him. Never heard those words before ;'(((
same 😭
Me too
Aww 🥺🥺🥺
OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE 😭😭😭
eventho i'm supported, but i still cry a bit idk why :")
Same :/
Moral of the story: love your children but don't spoil them 👍🏾
Agreed!
agree
Agreed
Yep
Or else they will become a spoiled brat.
As an Asian, I almost cried throughout the first half but then the second half came in…
nah i just got to it😭
And then?
"Don't beat me !" Had me dying!😂😂😂 That took a dark turn!
Now we know why the child was in the system.
As a Part Asian game developer this is 100% true.
It's strange how the kids often do turn against kind lovely people and wouldn't 'out of fear' to parents that beat them.. biblical scripture; spare the rod and spoil the child!!! 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️😥
@@loveispatientloveiskind2205 why say that
@@josiahademiluyi4677 because unfortunately it can happen... some discipline works... but not beating all the time!!
As a white persone , this is not true, this is nonesense
yes
HIS ACCENT FOR THE 7 YEARS LATER I CAN'T -- 🤣🤣🤣
😭😭💀
HHAHAHAHAHA
U NOT MY MAWM
NAHHHH-
I get an allowance and I’m pretty spoiled, but never in my life would I talk to my parents like this. I was appalled when I learned people actually call their parents by their first names sometimes.
I know right, my parents never even did grounding even when I did yell as a little kid but once I straightened out I could never. And I respect and fear la chancla. Or an equivalent.
I was hit in my childhood and mildly spoiled but I call my parents old man/lady. They always call me old lady right back. I’d never call them by their names. Not because it’s disrespectful, but because it’s weird. What kind of weirdos go around calling the people who raised them by their name? Unless they don’t deserve to be in that person’s life anymore to begin with or something. But an actual good, loving parent like this? Nope. Crazy.
Drop that skincare rn!😭🤬
This! I was mesmerized 😂
the product he uses is called "ASIAN GENES "😭
the product he uses is called "ASIAN GENES "😭
This person behind these videos has the guts to expose the real situation with a pinch of comedy and to do his personal psychoanalysis. Well done!
@beyond your imagination ok
@beyond your imagination bruv
beyond your imagination but why? this isn’t even related to air fryers or potato wedges-
Rho Yeah I know, normally I don’t click. I was just curious though.
IS THIS A PSYCHOLOGY STUDENT I FOUND???
i love how you act out both sides of the coin. too much kindness spoils the kid, just like strictness.
edit: damn mom im famous lololol thanks for 12K likes ig!!!
Exactly! Neither extreme is good. There needs to be a balance.
Ur comment has 666 like
@@kayleym8947 i never noticed lmao
Kindness doesn’t spoil. Enabling entitlement does. There’s a difference.
My parents allow and buy me everything and are the nicest but my siblings and I aren't acting like brats. Spoiling isn't a bad thing as long as you raise the kid good.
As a Asian I cried together with him bcz the words of American mom made me cry😂😂 I wish my asian teacher was kind to me like this American mom.
My mom is Jamaican, sometimes my brother yells at her, and she is the mom at the end. 😢 (not exactly like she still disciplines us but my brother doesn’t listen when she’s not here)
This shows how different parenting can change a person. Be too nice to your child, and he’ll turn into a brat. Be strict and rude, he’ll turn into a slave. Balance it just right, and you have a perfect, good child. Not too spoiled, and not a slave.
Nah, enslave the children.
Yesss
His Acting good 😂
Raise them up in the Church. Of course it ought to be an actual Christian Church. JESUS worked amazingly for me.
Yea so basically a humble child
"You see this hand? This hand is missing a sandwhich" I LOST IT🤣🤣🤣
@hope. shut up
😂😂
Yeah I'm a lot like the 'white mom' but if my kid ever said anything like that my response would be "See those shoulders? They're going to be missing a head. I did *not* raise you to speak to anyone like that, least of all me!"
IKRRR
ROFL I would have lost the hand 🤣
His face when she said: “I BELIEVE IN YOU” 😂😂😂😂😂
Last year, there was this guy in my class, who was an Asian whom I learned was adopted by white parents, and he’s literally one of the kindest people I know🤍
I really felt bad for the mama at the end...even though she isn't real, she is just what all Asian kids need sometimes. Kindness and love. We need a whole episode dedicated just for her one day! 🥺♥️
Awww so sad th-cam.com/video/pgU7bpbwZyA/w-d-xo.html
I stared at the end of the video for some seconds... I feel really sad to see this... It's true that it's like that in many families, although spoiling alone doesn't raise such kids.. it's also a lot of anger from the parents towards the children, but without actual borders of discipline and education that Asian parents set, so it makes adult babies..
@@TalTheBest No, spoiling alone does raise kids like that a lot of the time. However the environment outside the home matters a lot too.
Same
I didn’t. She seemed nice in the beginning but if he turned out like that it’s bc she raised him that way
I am not an Asian but this is still very related
this child was blessed
Neither am i
Wsh
Did your parents ever hit you or scold you?
@@blessylachimolala2266 yeah I was adopted from an American family I am an Indian so I get alot of whooping from my old dead mom and dad
@@blessylachimolala2266 yes my grandma, my mom punched me, I got slapped with a belt, a purse, and a chancla flip flop
Soooo true! The other day I was playing on a Western server and I couldn't execute a simple task. When I finally got it, a total stranger praised me. I am an adult but that was way more praising that I have ever gotten in my childhood lmao
" I love you "
" gags "
I should’ve expected that twist…this is hilarious.
honestly I didn't except that either cause now since he knows what freedom is, I thought hat he'd cherish it for the rest of his life.
@@kimseokjin4752 Yeah now he’s probably going to end up in prison…😂
@@kimseokjin4752 same 😂
yOuR nOt mA mOm!
i know! the very end when he starts gagging when the mom says ‘i love you’ 😭
I feel like the stereotype of strict and harsh Asian parents is often pertpetuated so much that we forget about all the amazing parents out there who don't conform to this trope. I have two (unconventional, to say the least) wonderful Asian parents who would never punish me so harshly, and have always been encouraging towards me. It makes me grateful to be who I am.
Lucky
My mum and most my friends parents are... conventional
@@sleepyninjarin7971 what conventional parents means?
Pshh…lucky you
You’r so lucky! I just hope I could say the same thing… even though they’re amazing I had a lack of comprehension in my childhood :(
How face and how he reacts and repeats anything is so funny 😂😂😂
“Violence is never the answer”
Asian parents: tis but an April’s Fool’s Day joke
This guy is hilarious and we know he is exaggerating cultural attitude differences. My (white) family was not very supportive of higher education and considered college educated people uppity (condescending), but when I graduated in engineering with an ROTC commission, my father took credit for helping me, though he kicked me out of house, changed locks and wouldn't sign for loan or grants. Actually Evil Step Mom influenced him negatively because he was a good Dad until she built the Ginger Bread House.
Damn that sucks on the dad and step mom front. But glad you got to finish engineering and fulfill what you set out to do with your life.
@@rarart-gamesproductionbyci9353 Life provides all the entertaining challenges you would never expect but I've had a pretty good life. On the downhill side now, but better than many. Most best parts of my family have passed but lots of good friends remain to sustain old men talking about the good days. If all goes well, I'll complete my private flying cert by this time next year. I'm old, slow but I don't quit and should eventually get there.
@@dilbertjunkmail 🙂😁I'll cheer you on stranger as you keep getting there.🍻🎉
Wait whatttt
I’m sorry that happened to you. I’ve heard terrible things about step parents. I was a very kind step parent but my step daughter was horrible.
I just had one of the worst days where I was once again accused and slandered for no reason. But that's a usual. But seeing this video was more of an emotional support than i thought it would be when i clicked it. You just became a mother to millions of Asians out there mate.
I'm sorry you had a bad day, but I'm glad you're better now. I'm from europe, but I'm the scapegoat in our really messed up probably narcissistic family. So I get the slandering and stuff. I hope you'll get better and that you can move out soon! Moving out saved my sanity!
sorry to hear that, please take care of yourself and be safe. You're precious, even if it's not appreciated yet
I've been there. There's really no pleasing them. Even if you do one thing right, they'll find something else you're not good at and use that against you. Don't worry though. It gets better. You'll be in control of your life soon, and then you can choose to live your life and not be an asshole to your kids should you choose to have some in the future.
Actually bro same..... Idk how but this bhappned to me to
Don't worry. Everything will be fine. 💜
“Violence is never the answer.”
Yeah cause its the question. The answer is yes! 😂
Allowance, cash, presents… you broke him 🤣🤣🤣
1:46: My parents are European, and if I EVER talked to them like that I would be a ghost.
My black parents would’ve sent me to heaven
My Indian parents would first send me to hell and then make sure Lucifer fries me up into the crispiest pakoda
If i talk to my mom like that death would be upon me
honestly it's just american parents
my mom will smack me if i say something rude too lmao q^q
i can not even dare to raise my head in front of my [parents while getting scolded as an indian almost adult teen
When you're white but your parents don't treat you like that: EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
Ikr
Who cares lol as long as we ain't dying
@@veiserexab1428 Actually, that's the truth😃
@@aggelikii_ I know but I don't really care
As a balkan I can confirm
"you not my mom" "i have no mama"😂😂😂😂😂
Bro became The Real Slim Shady 💀
"I support you.."
"I believe in you"
"Don't cry its ok.. I love you"
The words I wish I could hear from my mother :(
Same I’m white and I used to hear it all the time but after 3rd grade I started to never hear it anymore and I started to think I’m never good enough for my mom I have to be perfect for her to like my older sister even my twin felt unloved so she Changed her personality to be like my older I would always try to be perfect to just hear I’m proud of you or congratulations I started to develop OCD and social anxiety because of it I thought something was wrong so I started to bottle up my emotions and when I started to break from the pressure my mom told me to stop crying even though my mom died i still feel like I never be good enough for anyone in this world and I have to be perfect
@@Gucocdyrs What !?! Omg i hope everything is gonna be ok, and the most important thing is, even if u end up having no one else left in your life, then try to be good enough for yourself then, that matters more then what others want for you, because they have their own world and may not understand. And I know what social anxiety feels like, i have like almost no friends anymore T_T and im rlly quiet, anyways i hope it gets better!
because its only going to boost ur ego
ur going to hear it or see it when u deserve it lol
@@riptide8198 okay uh no. I don't know what kinda fucked up place you're from, but it is normal to tell your child you love them. It won't "boost their ego". What it will do is give you a better relatioship with your child. Only thing it'll boost is your kid's mental health.
@@kazazalea7747 parents do say it lmfao you probably grew up getting what you always wanted but parents say it only when its deserved not all the god damn time cba with people thinking oh lordy mental health issues shits 80% of the time in america
I saw this behavior a lot from Asian families in the US. I was a figure skater and it seems like a lot of Asian parents put their girls into figure skating for some reason. The way the moms treated those little girls had me cry and tense up and they weren't even talking to me. I mean I have mommy issues about not being enough. My mom died 19 years ago and I am doing stuff to try and win her approval. How twisted is it that you are seeking the approval of a dead woman.
Hello Elizabeth how are you doing
That's pretty strange indeed. Hope you're well.
remember thats still just a stereotype. I live on Asia, and non of chinese I know have toxic parents.
@@mushroomexpress3049 absolutely!!! It is just from a small sample I see on a daily bases. There are some white moms that are horrible to their kids but I have yet to see an Asian mom not losing their mind when their kid falls on a new jump in practice.
@@andreaelizabeth5494 lol, I get zero on math twice, and she just half jokingly frustrated. she said its fine as long as I graduate school and have things that guaranteed my survival on real world. when I was kid she was strict and demanding(but never abusive). when I bring up the past she said she was anxious of her dying before I can survive real world. I think its due to generation gap tbh, I honestly understand why back in the days beeing strict to kid is necessary, and why they're anxious of proverty. as time goess I think my mom(and lot of chinese mom) realize how world has changed, she even support my art major choice
ps: this is only my experience as chinese, it doesn't apply to all asian.
Him reacting to his own video: dEn He StArT dA cRyInG AyAh 🤣🤣🤣
No sandwich in this hand. Almost made me crash my car🤣🤣🤣🤣
The more I watch these Asian parents simulation creations the more I love my Chinese parent more. They are so different from most Asian parents tbh, they never forced me to learn or do anything; they never underestimate my abilities and always be there for every decision I make in my life.
My mom still kisses me everyday even I’m 21 now, my dad remembers everything I wanted (food, drinks, etc) and he will buy those when he goes to supermarkets.
My name, it’s Chinese and have meanings, basically means freedom, music, rhythm, and my mom’s wish for me to be happy, healthy, and live a self-loved life.
They don’t care about my grade, in middle school I once got D and F and even got drop off from my intermediate math class. They saw the grade letter and they talked to me, telling me that they understand it’s been hard for me because we just immigrants to US for a year. English is still a huge problem for me so they understand my struggle and only asked me to work hard, don’t regret.
I think this is exactly why I start to force myself into higher education and eventually got me 5 UC offers last Fall!
I’m a history major, there’s no way for me to be doctor or lawyer since I don’t like it, and my parents never forced me to do anything I don’t like.
I can feel love everyday from my parents, even tho they also don’t say “I love you” like Western parents, their love was visible and surrounding me all the time.
Because their love and understanding, I can make this far in my life and become a better person in the future.
I hope everyone, no matter you are Asian or not, remember the unique of you as an individual. Remember to love yourself before loving others. Remember that no matter what problem you faced through, there’s a way out, and keep believing in yourself❤
This genuinely inspired me
As an Indian I think the kind of relationship you had with your parents many Indian girls have something similar to that if they are brought up in upper middle class families because of gender role tho girls are educated they are not expected to do as well as guys and talking about guys...........they have a tuff time becuz they are expected to be providers.
That's a whole paragraph in a comment 💀💀💀💀
What it like to be be raised FAIL-YURE?
@Stand up Straight kinda racist ngl
I almost cried when the mom showed so much support.
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I’m sorry but the voice tone when he said “I HAVE NO MAMA” got me giggling and shi 😹
that's actually real sweet
when the kid said "u not gonna hit me" it sounded like something dobby from harry potter would say 😭😭😭
"Where do I put my shoes? " - lmao I remember asking this to my American co-worker when I visited their house for the first time 😂
I love the Asian custom of taking off shoes in the house, I think it's a good thing. My Taiwanese friends would give me these special slippers to wear whenever I visited them.
I’m not Asian and no one in my family has ever worn shoes in the house.
this is commonplace in Canada. Also, many Europeans have this practice. Hell, my mom posted a plaque on the front door that said "please remove shoes before entering" when we lived in the states.
I'm not Asian but I never wear shoes at home.
why are you wearing shoes on house tho. wouldn't that make the house dirty?
almost cried when the mom said i will always love n support u. nvr heard of that of feel that way from parents
“Violence is never the answer” 😂😭I wish💀
its gonna result in two sides : :either the dude becomes the greatest doctor ever or the best drifter
I love how it went from being so wholesome with the kid being free and not being forced and beat into a traumatizing situations and the parent reassuring them that everything is fine and that there a good kid, but the end the kid is spoiled and the video reveals the hard truth of not spoiling you're children.
P.S, I don't love it, I actually really hate it cause I was gonna cry cause of how sweet it was, to late now 😁👀
I became like the latest kid because my parents were violent with me, you can become like that not because you are spoiled but for lack of love
@@elvenleaf5589 Asian parents beat their children but love them a lot….. they don’t spoil their kids with allowance and gifts but rather they let their children stay with them forever, pay for their college, pay for their expensive marriage, and make their future easy
@@Blurufoodaz my parents didn't pay for anything and they neglected me
@@Blurufoodaz they didn't make my future easy, my parents are mentally ill
@@elvenleaf5589 Sry to hear that…. exceptions are there everywhere…. But here we are talking about normal white and Asian parents
0:48 20 dowar
bro this made me cry except for the "7years later part" i felt this as an asian...
I'm European, and my experience is kind of middle way between the Asian and the American one... No allowance, no declared unconditional love, top marks at school and the University, but I did what I wanted with my life. (No, I'm not a doctor. I travelled the world, I work as an event manager and now also in the movie industry.)
That's my dream to travel the world and do it as a job.
@@jpye8989 I did it for a few years, working for the international cooperation in different continents, then I stayed in my city (Florence) for a few years working in the events sector (international fairs and congresses = still surrounded by foreigners all the time), and I ended up travelling again as an assistant director and assistant editor. I just came back from a 3-week trip to LA. Let's hope COVID won't prevent me from travelling again...
@@Myria83 I have been to Italy and I have heard about Florence but unfortunately I didn't end up traveling in your city. One day! I would like to have a career change, hopefully I can do a job that involves international traveling. I don't want to be traveling all the time, but a job that has opportunities to travel around the world. That's my dream. I wish I have skills that you may have, but we never know, in life anything is possible. I will let you know when that day comes 🙂
That seems balanced
Yeah i can agree with that. Tho it is more liberal here in thr balkans bc everyone is more laid back
you can be a cool parent while being strict, my mum is asian but she's chill, understanding and knows hardwork
a lesson she told me is that :you dont have to score high, as long as you put in hardwork i will always appreciate you.
i always set high expectations for myself so this hit hard in the feels
And that’s right!!
W mom
same, she’s the best
I feel you. My parents don’t set their expectations too high of me, but my self expectations are incredibly high. Like If I don’t get straight As I start thinking about dropping out and switching schools lol. Love my parents.
@@kindlethekitsune why is this me lol, im a procrastinator but I still try to keep my grades at As and Bs, it makes me feel better about myself. (besides the switching schools part)
This is truly heartwarming
My Asian parents love me and my sibling with all their hearts, disciplined us with belt as kids and NEVER SPOILED us. But they supported us in every way possible and gave us freedom to decide for our own lives as we became adults. And constantly reassuring us of their love, still giving us kisses and warm hugs.
Love my mom and dad so much. 💕
The belt? who hits kids with belts? thats actually insane 😮
@@saharalizada885just wait and see my Mexican mom ☠️🙏‼️
Every child that has been hit lies to themselves when they say they love their parents it's the "love and affection" they are running after and idealize their parents bc otherwise they would have to deeply accept that they have never been really treated with true love and that would be too much to cope with. So don't encourage people to hit their children and be honest with yourself otherwise u will never heal.
Child abuse is never okay. But sometimes kids or teenagers can be too unruly and disrespectful. In times like that we need heavy discipline or else they will turn into a spoiled brat like the one in the end of this video. Ofc I personally don't prefer hitting, so I screamed and guilt tripping them in order to make them do self reflect. It always works.
@@gracequeeney3399Yikes. screaming at and guilt tripping your child is still abuse, it’s just emotional abuse instead of physical. It’s just as bad.
" we'll give you a weekly allowance of $30 "
" whatever makes you happy I'm willing to give you anything you want !! "
I'm white, and even I know that's messed up 💀
As a asian teenager, my body feels weird going out with my friends all the time, or needing the "I'm willing to give you anything you want" words, I might feel pissed off and I had to educate that parent of how to take care a child, without spoiling them SMH
(Coming from a dysfunctional household, I need orders to be function, I just got used to perfectionism everyday 😅)
Oh I isolate too, good luck with the white parents trying to take care of me 😂 I never go out of my room, unless I have to eat, IN MY ROOM 😌
I'm white and am in a very financially stable household. If I asked for money, I got it. Of course, I didn't do this all the time, and especially in hs. My parents were HAPPY when I would go hang out with friends cuz I don't do that a lot.
same lol
The anything he wants is where hypothetical mom fucked up lol
@@noname8354 at least you have friends
This video is pretty spot on. Not for me, but for my little brother. Not once has he been disciplined or discussed about his actions, and now he acts so distant to the family. He doesn’t even eat dinner with us anymore, he just brings food to his room. It’s pretty sad.
"ILL BE A DOCTOR I SWEAR DONT HIT ME"
AND THEN "20 DORALS" 😭😭😭😭😭
i've seen both the overly strict side and spoiling side in my family alone and what i can say is...the spoiling side is wayyyyy wayyyyy more destructive with lasting effects. now that my parents are gone, i'm forced to babysit older sibling that refused to grow up no matter what being said or what happens after being spoiled for so much(even though there were some shares of strictness/harshness too). even among my relatives...it's the ones that grew up with harsh treatment that somehow ended up humans....while the spoilt ones continue to be big boss babies while their parents expect their own siblings who are as old as them(rather than their now adult children)or even other siblings' children(who succeeded to grow up without being considered babies for life) to do things for them. honestly, balance is key, but if i have to choose one...after seeing my own family....yeah maybe the harsh treatment work better, for Asians at least...or for my family... lol. i remember even a school friend who grew up being beaten up(and she's a girl...in my house, women/girls never got hit) said she was proud that all the beating made her human and she couldn't stand the new generation that complaints about the littlest things.
I like how he added the part at the end of the video it shows even with all its flaws it keeps kids (some not all) from ending up like this
i started crying when the mom said she'd care n love n support him no matter what. i never got that. I still don't
but you will. dont worry.
I promise you that even if your parents don't show it, they love you
Me and my sister graduated in a degree my mother wanted both of us to have. My mom didn’t even praise us. She cared more about her vacation and the after party. Some Asian parents like my mom are a joke. They only care about reputation and their retirement back up children. Deep down I know she never gave enough sh*t about us
Really
I never heard those words ever. Funny thing is, after a whipping for some infraction, she would say that she loved us. (Had 2 siblings.). No wonder my brother likes to rough his wife up during sex.
How His face expression changed when he heard anything 😂
“Sweetie what did I say about potty mouth”
got me rolling on the ground
Also, there are a few things that Asian parents should learn:
1. Never break promises. When you promise something you have to full fill it.
2. Don't force children to do what you want. Imagine someone treats you like that.
3. Don't compare your child to anyone (especially you).
4. Encourage your child. Don't discourage your child.
5. Don't ground them all the time. They won't be comfortable with you and they won't do much bonding with you.
6. Don't scream at them. They won't feel happy. They will be depressed.
7. Don't stalk them or check through their phones. They won't trust you.
I hope you have learned how to deal with a child and have learned a moral from it.
Bro my mom needs to know all of this 💀
If only they would understand but I don't even have the guts to show them this because If I do I know they will just emotionally guilt trip me in thinking I'm not grateful towards them and I should respect them and decisions
How's that working for the blue hair kids over there in the West? 🤔
@User_Unknown Well, I graduated high-school at 16, got my masters degree at 22, and now work in the R&D department at a BioTech facility.
My father is my best friend and If im being honest... I have always seen him as my real life super hero. Even now, despite my being well into my 30s.
These days, now that he's in his mid-70's, he and I live together once again. Something that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world... Being able to give him back what he had always made sure to give me.
A life of security, support, love, and mutual respect. One that I truly appreciated enough that all i ever did was want to make him proud.
Also... I never had blue hair. It was red, thank you very much. Perhaps those pre-conceived notions about "the west" aren't as accurate as you thought.
@@ReapingWillow that's like the life story of almost 75 percent of the people I know and their parents were really strict with them lol. The thing is most parents here grew up in poverty and doesn't really want their kids to grow up to be like them. Most kids understand this by the time they reach adulthood.
it went from “Is this the heaven?” to “Make food or I will send you to jesus”
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Damn well right man
Imagine if Steven he is his dad and amber heard is his mom man he will commit suicide the same day he was born he will Speedrun his life and commit oof
Well send me
The kid sounds like he just woke up from a coma
"YOUR NOT MAH MOM!" 👹👹
killed me
i love how it’s always “I’m not your mom” said by the mom but now it’s “you’re not my mom” from the child 😭
why can't you be like your classmate xxx?
rather give birth to a roast pork than give birth to a junk like you!
I pay for your clothes ,I pay for your food, how dare you disobey me !?
Now let's see Asian mom adopts white child
The child is gonna become a servant and a doctor and marry a doctor.
Already done, watch how Karen was adopted by Asian parents dude that's awesome
@@vylis85 I meant the kid not that
@@arandomdude9982 almost the same lol did u watch?
@@vylis85 that's right lah
That escalated quickly.
The fact he’s sweating like crazy
As an Asian I can bet no Asian child ever adopted by a white mom and told “I’ll always love you no matter what” will ever treat her like you showed in the video after the leap.
We’ll eternally be grateful to the kind woman, she showed more love and support than an Asian parent ever would.
Edit : I seem to be giving out a wrong message about Asian parents through my comment and I’m extremely apologetic for it.
I didn’t mean to, but my comment unintentionally got biased towards my own experiences and hence I said the last line out of rage. Again it had nothing to do with everyone but just my personal experiences.
There are good parents in all cultures and vice Versa. I didn’t mean to hurt sentiments through it.
Let's not make Asian parents out to be demons here. The love is there, it's just expressed differently. I'm sure you'll treat your parents well. But not all kids grow up respecting their parents. Even Asian kids with Asian parents who grow up in Asian countries can become spoiled brats. There are bad parents everywhere, on both ends of the spectrum.
@@kphamcao I completely understand, it was just the treatment I received from my parents that made me resent them, so I might have got a little biased here. However, I admit there are both good and bad parents in all cultures. It depends on an individual to choose to become the parent they want to be.
you make asian parents seem like really bad when its not. my parents act like stereotypical asian parents but with no toxicity, they said things stereotypical of asian parents but not on serious way. I would never trade my asian parents with the white mom
Asian parents are not evil. They can be a little strict.
He was clearly exaggerating. Parenting is all about balance. You should know when to be soft and when to discipline
God, you hate your race when you really should just hate your own parents. My Asian parents tell me they love me. How about instead of white-worshipping you strive to change that culture and be loving to your family in the future?
As an Asian Hispanic this made me cry until the ending 😭💀🤣🤣
My new ‘favorite’ channel.
NAH NO SHOES IN THE HOUSE😡
True indeed!
Love & support your child
but don't spoil them.
Also children need to give respect to their parents as well as others.
Appreciate what we get & never forget where we came from 👍
“I have no mom” The words I will never be able to say to back to mom
Well obviously not because the only time you’ll be able to say that is when she’s old and dear
i know how you feel bro 🙏🤚
asian mum: rather give birth to a roast pork than give birth to a junk like you
"I swear I will become the doctor u want" , almost killed me cuz its so true
Moral of the story: Asian kids are underwhelmed by stressed and it's toxic
WHO WEARS SHOES IN THE HOUSE?! EVEN MY PARENTS THINK ITS WEIRD (THEY WHITE TOO)
As an Italian we technically wear shoes in the house but we have outdoor shoes and slippers for in the house. I still have no idea who just comes in the house with their dirty outdoor shoes unless their house is filthy.
Thats what i mean. You can wear what you want in the house! I just think its weird to have to shoes you played with outdoors, went to school with its odd to outdoor shoes in the house.
A lot of people do for many reasons.
First off, unless your shoes are nasty your bare feet are worse if you have a carpet just from your natural oils, I would think it's worse for you too. IDK if this counts with wood / stone. When people have dirty shoes they take them off outside or right inside the house if you have a place for it. If your shoes are clean it's not a big deal, and people who do this often wipe their shoes before entering the house too so they don't track in any dirt or sand.
While I don't wear shoes in my house now as they get too dirty here because of the climate. When I lived in Florida my shoes where always clean, spend a few seconds wiping them down and they where good as new. As long as you clean your house and don't live like a pig it makes no real difference.
Health reasons, my grandmother for example needs her shoes as walking around without them pains her. She's got outside shoes too that she is willing to get dirty and never brings inside.
Just a culture thing, and always shown on TV is another reason.
me
@@larissatom6910 So are you saying that everyone in the world except Americans takes off their shoes in the house? I don't think so. I lived for awhile in Brazil and have spent a lot of time in Mexico. No one ever took off shoes in the house.
Before adoption: "mom! mama!" "I'm not your mom, I'm not your mama, you have no mother"
After adoption: 2:12
I’m not your Dad! 😂😂😂
The foice when he said YOUR NOT MY MOM !!!!!!
Moral of the story, do not spoil your kids or they will become Slim Shady
1:20 i wish my parents said that
Same
Me too
Me three
I want to be a film director!!,!,,!,!
1:00
for some reason i hear "of course and a *Prison* for your birthday!"
SAME BAHAHAAH
The last one is so funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Moral of the story for Asian and non Asian parents. Do not be too strict on your kids, love, respect and support your kids and their skills they are good vs bad at and discipline them for knowing the rights vs wrongs to make sure your kids go to a straight healthy path in life.
Now do an Asian family adopts a white kid 💀💀
He did
As an Asian, when I have kids I will use the white parenting technique with a few modifications(because duh I'm not having my kids be like that to me)so my kids will be those few asian(probably half asian) kids that can't relate to asian parents being terrible
Genius parenting my dude
Bro whichever children you have in the future are gonna be so lucky
you'd be a great parent
But bro imagine the look on the other asian kids' faces when my kid says "but my parents aren't like that-"
@@heynotizzy7493 me and my chinese friends are more surprised seeing abusive toxic household actually- our parents act like asian parents but in lovely kind of way. abusive family are not majority on current asian household.
0:48 they way he said dollor😭😭😭
"Dorraour" 😭😭😭
Don’t spoil them but believe in them.
“I love you”
“OUAGH OUAGH OUAGH OUAGH”
Got me rolling on the floor dying
am i the only one who cried when the mom was being supportive-
Not you making me want to give a fictional lady played by yourself a hug
the ending is actually so sad
As an Arab my heart melted when the mom said those words, I never hear them before
Same I’m white and would love to hear that stuff my mom stopped saying it to me and my sister after 3rd grade
0:09 this is the weirdest thing I found about many America. In my country we wear house shoes in the house then outside shoes outside. But many Americans just come in with their outside shoes
Haha yeah..
"Son!" "You're not my mom!"
"Mom!" "I'm not your mum"
LOL
Every child deserves such a mom 💖