Coming out story!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 มิ.ย. 2017
- Hey guys! This is the first video on my channel and I thought since it's pride month the only right thing to do was start off with my coming out story. I hope you guys like it and if you do subscribe and give it a thumbs up! Instagram and twitter below.
Insta: @jimenezz_97
Twitter: @ajimenezz16
Lmaooo "I walked away like a boss ass bitch"
I meaann I had to show them who ran that game. ( jk Def not me I suck at basketball)
AlexanderJimenez You are easy to listen to. Thanks for sharing your story. Please do more vids. I just subbed. Peace!
u r fucking gorgeous and i loved the vid
will u be my bf?
is one of yourselves asking the other one out?
I would so love for him to be my bf, he's a cutie and seems very genuine
Dude, you are drop dead gorgeous. You'll be fine in life.
jcb561 i salute u
Coke Guts do you feel better now?
So true
And then some
"Who doesn't love senior year??"
Me, it was 1984, I was still closeted and I had just changed schools had no friends and was socially awkward. The conflict between the hormones and the sociological norms caused me great distress. This lasted until three years ago when I finally came out at the age of 48.
Kevin I am so glad that you came out. I came out to my mother at 24. It didn't go to well, a hater and a poor mother. Gave me up at 4yrs old and 2 other tmz after that. Dad was already gone. I am fortunate to have been together with my other half for several years. PEACE!
I am a senior now and COVID-19 is screwin things up
Alex, it's really a shame that so many people who saw your video completely missed the point. I know how nice it is when one is complimented on appearance, but the coming out is what's important. We must all tell our stories of arrival, of of being, of our shared humanity. Kudos to you for doing this. You are a credit to your generation, and I hope you'll continue to be one. People in my generation have tried to open some doors for you guys; your job now is to pay it forward. This is one of the ways you do it.
DJuan Thomas THANKYOU !!! Someone who ACTUALLY wants to talk about something other than his looks. It's nice to know SOMEONE around here has a brain, and a heart. 👍
DJuan Thomas it’s a shame you look ugly as hell and you’re gay, wish gays looked hot like me ugh just can’t right now !😫😍👌🏽
@Coke Guts - Actually, they're probably doing just as I've done on all of your replies that I've seen - reported them as harassment / bullying. That makes them disappear for me. That's what the 3 little dots are for. I'm sorry you are so angry, and I hope that someday you will recover from whatever it is that made you so hateful.
Are you kidding? His looks are all that matter.
@@brentwhistler i so do that too any homophobia or preachy preached report unwanted spam ✌️
your eyebrows are so frickin beautiful
Austyn J. Also his bedroom eyes are frckm gorgeous!!!!! 😍😍😍
Austyn J. I think every feature on his face is unbelievably beautiful
He needs to thread them.
yes they are
oh yes he is so cute
doesn't shock me alot of really good looking men have come out. Glad for you. Best to be who you really are.
AWESOME DUDE!
I'M so happy you are at peace with yourself .
i'm a 50 year old gay man that took me years to come out .
sooo happy for you!
hello George the same for me I am pascal from Albany Australia
Gay by birth proud by choice...
Titus Santos I love that statement Titus - one of the very best!! He is a cutie that's for sure. Cheers!
TRUTH
Titus, GAY PRIDE, bitches!!
Damned right!
LOVE this!!!
You were so fortunate and I'm very happy for you. It doesn't always turn out so well for some, there are far too many young people whose families have completely turned them away and never spoke to their kids again. So sad that some parents don't have unconditional love for their own children.
That is because of the highly toxic influence of religion particularly fundamentalist Christianity.
Love your story Alex, beautifully expressed. Enjoy being out and proud and more to the point, just enjoy being you.
What a great Coming Out Story. Thank you for sharing. To have such a positive experience is a blessing. You are very lucky. Keep it up and I will look forward to more from you. Thanks for sharing. I hope you help others take these first steps!
Really enjoyed your coming out story! You are obviously going to be loved by the youtube gang. You are real and that is what this world needs more of......real. Good on ya!
Are. You. KIDDING? His looks matter.
I'm just here, because facial hair. 😃
Aldo Sherman I don't follow but he is hott aye?
Ryan Black YAAAS
Aldo Sherman • Absofreakinglutely!
hi alexander, my name is richard. i just wanted to say congradulations. coming out is never easy, but it dose get better. i never made a coming out video because i was never in. your video seemed very relaxed., and i admire you for that. stay proud. rich
Thanks rich! I really appreciate this!
hi alexander, thanks for the thank you note. your very sweet. please keep vloging. your awsome.
Coke Guts, why can't YOU spell properly? It's not spelt, it's "spelled". And Richard Hamilton's use of "your" IS correct. Re-read his comment using YOUR use of "you're" as "you are" and you'll see what I mean. Is pretending to be a smart fuck that can spell part of your whole "str8 acting" thing? Fucking straight loser. Btw, the spelling of straight as "str8" came from the gay community, idiot!
Coke Guts nigga shut the fuck up, you’re just as gay as them.
The question is why is Coke Guts following a gay You Tuber ?
You're a natural. Relaxed and genuine. Get ready! Fast and furious coming your way :) try not to lose your unaffected way. Thanks for making this and adding to the support for all the gay closeted youth who need it. Peace and love ❤️
So, yeah Alexander is hot, but what really makes him attractive, I think, is his maturity and bravery. His attitude and big heart. The fact that he wants to give back and has the courage to put himself out there is what really make this young man so beautiful. Looks fade, what someone has in their heart and their mind & soul is forever and far more attractive in my mind. You go boy! Congratulations! Great job!
Remember guys when commenting on Alexander's channel to give him a thumbs up. And to appreciate what his message is all about. Yes he's definitely eye candy. He's in college and making something of himself. Congrats Alexander on your first vlog! Good one! Thanks for sharing with us your helping many others right now. Be yourself! Be proud! PEACE!
Alex, I LOVED your video. Your timing with telling your friend Alex was classic. I laughed so hard and Your Mom asking you was great too. You're hysterical and I can't wait for more of your videos. You're beautiful. I'm glad that you shared your coming out story. :-)
Aww I loved watching this Alex! Its never easy to come out and everyones story is unique and different. Thanks for sharing man, much respect for you :)
I'm glad you accepted your self for who you are ! You deserve to be happy loving who you want to ! Stay positive and thank you for making this amazing video ! 👏🏻
when I was a senior in 99-00 you didn't dare come out!! you would've got your ass kicked or killed. even not being out I was bullied almost everyday from 4th grade til I graduated. it's amazing how things have changed to where kids feel they can come out in high school now
i remember this guy got beaten up very severely because he was playing some Queen music during that year 99
Happy Pride!!!🌈
Hey, Alexander congratulations and the best of luck in your journey on You Tube. Appreciate you're sharing your own personal coming out story. It will help a lot of kids.
I love how real this video was, drinking out of the milk jug. Also thank you for speaking right to my heart, you are so brave, and have so much courage. know this your video did help!
The video was awesome especially for it being your firs because you come off as very natural. Whether it concerns making videos or other aspects of life in general, just be yourself! Again, great job and glad to hear everything is looking up.
Alexander Jimenez when i came out i was 18 and a couple of month later i started transitoned to female. now i feel more free than ever.
Hey, great video! Thanks for giving back to TH-cam - something to pass on to others. I couldn't agree more on the weight lifted from coming out, and the happier days since - always getting better. This is something many of us older dudes wished we had back in our coming-out days - I am so glad times have changed for the better. Keep up the videos - best of luck!
Thank you for sharing. i came out late in my life. i didn't have this type a support. keep up the great videos Alex.
I love the positivity and I wish you all the best...
Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me hope to maybe come out. Love is love and I just need to stay true to myself.
You did a great video and have a real stage presence with wonderful communication skills. You are made for success on TH-cam and much more! Subscribed and look forward to the next video! I have a feeling you are not one of those empty headed guys who will just rely on good looks, but they will help you express your ideas and dreams! Intelligence is the sexiest thing when combined with confidence and humility!
Awesome, thanks for sharing! It's always a great thing when coming out stories have a happy ending, you are a lovely example of why it's worth it to stick around for life after coming out. :) If it's not great and grand at first, push through because before you know it you'll have a happy ending too.
SO TRUE ✌️
you're fine, you are like one of the most gorgeous looking dude out there. but beyond the looks, i think you are beautiful inside as well. I hope i will have that encouragement soon as well.
What a nice story.. keep yourself and dont forget to be a blessing to others.
Just came across ur channel and you are so freeeeakin adorable. ^_^ You share stories like you are a "buddy" to us. Which is kind of cute :) Bless you man
Great! For being true to yourself... Be happy of what you are... Lucky enough you have supportive, understanding & loving parents. Go! Go! Go! God bless you.
Great Video. Natural, honest, real. I hope others feel inspired and encouraged to be who they are around those they love. As an older guy I can only marvel at the freedom, acceptance and support that exists for younger gay guys & gals. When I was your age it was against the law to be gay. Couples were separated and imprisoned in different jails on the suspicion of being gay. In one state the penalty for gay sex was a prison sentence of 20 years, the same for murder. We learned to keep our closet doors very closed. We survived, we got laws changed, we became more visible and vocal about equality. And now I can watch a young handsome guy begin his adult life feeling loved and supported and safe from the bad laws. Life has dealt you a good hand - I hope you play your cards with compassion for others less fortunate than yourself.
Oh man! The way those lips move. Fascinating!
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My favourite quote from Gone With The Wind: Rhett Butler: No, I don't think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.
I love your quote!!!
Awesome Alexander! I'm proud of you..... Welcome. You have someone here to lean on and talk to if and when ever you need to.
Love love this 💕💕❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Im glad you liked it!
I NEVER came out to my family!! They just knew!! Family always knows. I got lucky. I have a GREAT family!!
I sort of had that feeling that family always know, they've always known but they just keep it down, like they don't say anything because they don't know if it might crush or destroy you..... But stil not easy
Nice vid Alex! I'm glad to hear you had an awesome coming out experience. I want to thank you for sharing. Even tho the majority of people comment on looks more than the story you shared, there are people of all age groups that look up to your courage. I would like to know who's coming out vids inspired you to make one of your own? Anyways thanks for sharing, loved the vid, and I hope you continue to make more. You got love from northern Nevada!
Hey Alexander, great meeting you. I enjoyed your coming out story. It's not easy for all of us so it's nice to hear some people can get through it better. I'm living a good life as a gay man too so more power to us all. Stay strong and enjoy life. You're very cute and nice.
you don't strike me as gay, I'm surprised everyone asked you in school. either way, congrats on coming out and being you!
What an inspiring story! So great you had some great support! Sadly we still have to "come out". One day it's my hope that we won't have to come out it will just be a normal thing. You should be proud of your courage. Of course for you it helps that you are cute as a button!
thank you! you give me the hope i needed to coming out. I'm gonna have a lot of troubles probably, but life is hard pretending to be something that i'm not. Saludos!
First I was really annoyed by the rocking chair, but when I got totally captured by you beautiful eyes. They are amazing! Btw. sweet coming out story!
Alex - the chair was driving me crazy
Alex -•- There was a chair? 😁😘😍🤣
Ur a cutie!
Thanks for your honesty and bravery.
Alexander thank you for this awe inspired message. You have a great family and friends that are very supportive. That is amazing in its self, your in college and making something of yourself.You had TH-cam and other social media to encourage you. You are one handsome guy with awonderful attitude. Hugs sent your way...xXxX PEACE!
Wow... your brave to say that to the public!.. so proud of you Bro 🙂.. stay gorgeous and hope everyone can accept and understand individual deferences. We support you all the way. God bless u🙂
I really enjoyed Your Coming Out story! Thank you for sharing! Love and hugs from CK, Toronto, Canada.
oh my god this was both inspiring and adorable 💖💖💖
Well done! It takes a LOT of courage to even come out to close friends let alone to literally the world being you posted this on UTube. I'm a bit older then you, 51 and things were WAY different in the 80s being gay. It was almost like you had to be closeted or feared being beaten, dis-owned, alienated etc. Our struggles help pave the way for the younger generations like yourself, though the inner struggles and feelings remain the same for ALL of us Gay/LGBTQ people. WE often don't feel comfortable within our own skin and or are ashamed to be who we want to be or even afraid! BUT once we accept it, find out who we really are and become that person our life gets so much happier and brighter! :) Thanks for sharing your story with us! I can tell you one thing... pick your friends wisely and don't stress the haters because there will ALWAYS be people whom hate if you have something they don't. You have it all, kind and free spirit, pleasant demeanor, nice looks/build etc. Stay beautiful INSIDE as you are and you will always be a person whom others want to be around. Looks do fade, I was considered VG when I was young and was/am a kind person and even at 51 people still want to be around me. Its the INNER person that people will always see in the end! Thanks again for your story and peace and LOVE to ALL people of ALL races, genders and beliefs ! United we are strong and beautiful, but divided we are ugly and fail as a Nation!
What a wonderful story! So happy everyone was so supportive...that means so much! Thank you for sharing this!
Ughhh, I love you so much! This almost made me cry. I am so proud of you! You are so brace, miss you a ton!
Thank you Mary! I miss you too!
AlexanderJimenez I care for what & who you are...
thank you for being who you are
Thanks so much for sharing this! I definitely can relate to your story... And the camera issues. Awesome inspiration for others like me to share stories and hopefully help others.
What a great story, and a great reaction from your parents, and your siblings. Congratulations on a successful coming out, and I hope your story will help others who may not be ready yet.
It was the apostle Paul who first said, "To thine own self be true." But when I came out, my mother said I was the lowest thing that God put on the earth! She later said that as a "Christian" woman, she should kill me in my sleep! Needless to say, I didn't sleep there for quite some time. YOU are a gorgeous young man! I'm so glad that your experiences have been so positive. Let no "Christians" enslave you and put you down for who you are because Jesus does not!
It hurts me you had such an awful experience. I hope you're in a good place now.
im sorry you had such a horrible experience ✌️
Amen
Thank you for sharing your story, it gives me courage and less suicidal thoughts... Peace
never ever commit suicide. there are ways to communicate and socialize with others. you are not alone. you got frienda
You are the best looking dude on the planet. Your mouth, eyes and eyebrows -- Woof! Glad you're out. All blessings and good wishes being sent your way. Great honest story.
Coming out is never easy, i commend you for it! Awesome video man :)
Must say congrats to you buddy, wish i could go public..... Soon though, must say that you are an inspiration...... Love. 😘
Marco Davis So... Have you finally come out?
when your comfortable
omg BJ in the background being such a good boy and then he loses it at the end lol my dude
so young...so much life to live....three years have passed since this....I'm sure you're doin' great...God Bless and be safe handsome!!!!!!
I can’t even imagine what it would be like to have all that support! Your experience was the very opposite of mine, and I’m very happy for that! I hope more and more kids have positive experiences like yours!
Hey Alex, Awesome video, great story, well told, but get outa that rocking chair Grandpa, LOL, you are so cute, awesome scruff and those eyes and brows, so lucky, all the way around. Keep up the great work, and relax, you're irresistble, peopledo and will love you. Les, Vancouver, BC, Canada
Be yourself. With your looks you should have not problems in life. Just respect yourself and do not let yourself be used. Again be yourself.
Beautiful testimony. You are very lucky and very blessed to have a supportive family and friends. Continue living your life with such grace and sweetness. So proud of you.
"Lickin, Lookin, Listening & Loving it" Lol... What a Great Guy & wonderful Story, U are amazing ! #Inspired ❤
You are gorgeous! :)
Truly inspirational!✨ and the dog 🐶 in the background is SOO me😂💗💀
He honestly wouldn't get out of the shot he wanted to be known haha.
AlexanderJimenez omg YESS!!😂😂
Jesus Buenrostro congrats! Stay true!
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good that you came out... and your coming out was pretty smooth... I am still trying... and hope that in my time also... it would go so smooth.... all d best... stay blessed and enjoy..😉😉😊😊😉😋
you're so right. Life is much better out of the closet! And it's not just something you only do once. you'll do it as you meet ppl, join clubs or gyms, at new jobs, as new family comes into the world etc... I'm so glad you have wonderful open minded parents and peers! My friends were all really cool with me when I came out in 10th grade, but my family took it really hard (very religious family) and now at 34, it's still an issue at times especially w my dad. it's always harder w dad's I think.
But thank God for the progress we as the LGBT community are making! If I were in high school now, I bet I'd see even more acceptance, like it's more commonplace these days.
...Your 1st video, big success! You were nervous as I'm sure I'd have been too. keep em coming. and congratulations my brother! 🙋
PS VERY Handsome! if you're still single you will make someone an excellent boyfriend someday, and if you are not single well then your boyfriend is a lucky lucky man. lol! 😉
nice vid.
handsome dude :)
God bless you, brave and beautiful man/child
WOW you are some HANDSOME MAN! :D
Thanks for sharing your story and Congrats on your first TH-cam video, i wish you the best! #NewSubscriber :) Will make sure to keep my eye on your future content!
Alex, thank you for your story & your simple approach. God bless you, protect you & provide you someone who deserves you! Cheers!
i have the same story! my mom asked me and everybody i told said "i know" lol
what a cute boy
Alexander! Thank you for this great video.. please make more! You are so beautiful and seem so down to earth.. I'm Australian and I also needed youtube to help me come out when I did. I only have Facebook but somehow want to stay in touch with you..
Thanks for sharing your story! It's giving me hope and I needed to hear this.
I'm so glad the video helped you!! Now its time for you to go make your story so you can pass it down too! Good luck with everything!
Omg he is sooooo beautiful 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Don't reply to me cuz I literally don't care. - I’d agree but you said not to reply. 🤪
Congratulations! Is your coming out story from a recent time? I just came out to my family this past Mother's Day, not planned, but I am fortunate to have a very accepting family; my mom even bought me a cake with a rainbow on it for my birthday a week after!
What a terrific Mom! Lucky you.
I‘ve been convincing myself not to post any comment coz I feel like you won‘t notice it anyway... but regardless, I still want to say congratulations for having that courage to show the world the real you！And I am happy for you knowing that everyone who loves you accepted you with open arms！And by the way, may I just say that u look beautiful and I dont know but I feel like you have a good heart. and u look so cute with those throat disturbing thing hehe.. God Bless you..
Oh my gosh I feel so liberated when I watched this, I love hearing how happy you are, I like don't even know what to do cause I've come out a bit, and it went great with some people and poorly with others, so I got scared and blocked those friends on every social media account I have and just shut them out of my life out of fear. But this is the first time in a really long time that I've felt excited to try it again! I hope it goes well.
Accepting yourself is so key. Thanks for sharing this! Be good to yourself . Your people are out there
Alex your an amazing guy! I want to say I am gay also and I came out of the closet late in life, I wish I didn't wait so long because as you know now it's sooooooo AWSOME to be out no more hiding no more worries about will they find out etc. I am sure you understand... this video will help other gays come out or at least accept themselves. I wish you the best Alex your a very handsome guy I mean VERY! I subscribed to,your Chanel and I hope you post other videos so you can share things in your life. I am sending you a great big hug 🤗 to a fellow gay thanks for sharing your story and happy PRIDE🏳️🌈👍👍
Thanks for sharing your story, this video was great!! Please keep making more ☺️ btw your dog is adorable. 😜
Thanks for sharing your story! Your video was very honest and will help some who are struggling with their sexuality.
he's is so handsome gosh!
You're so damn cute! I could watch you all day long. Doesn't even matter what you're saying.
That's an objectif point of view ! I agree !
Very handsome guy, I'm following on all of your accounts. Nice way to start your channel, and just in time for Pride month. Happy Pride!
You're so brave boy❤
I'm happy for you being out finally🙌
Well done you. And you are so so handsome 😘
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I cant focus on the story. You look so beautiful
Thanks for sharing your coming out story 😊. Also, you're absolutely gorgeous 💕
Super love Alex, and congrats on the coming out. Best wishes from Bali!