why people take advantage of you?💔 30 lessons i learned before turning 30

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  • @diyakedia9557
    @diyakedia9557 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I’ve always wanted an elder sister and you giving us this honest advice makes me feel like I got my elder sister! This series is eye opening truly! Lots of love❤

  • @chiranjeetachetry905
    @chiranjeetachetry905 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Setting boundaries is necessary ❤❤

  • @ritikarawat8664
    @ritikarawat8664 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Boundaries is really important ❤️

  • @BlinG-Apoorva
    @BlinG-Apoorva 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Some people make u feel bad for setting boundaries. Like This is my nature 🎂

  • @sheetalsharma0810
    @sheetalsharma0810 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is everyone giving 'GYAN' on social media but you girl giving real life advice .
    I've been going through the same recently
    And now I'm pretty clear about my goal.
    Thank you for sharing such advice
    Always wait for you to upload something new
    Lots of love ❣️

  • @jenniferliu4852
    @jenniferliu4852 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    So true. Boundaries are very important. ❤

  • @ankitasur4378
    @ankitasur4378 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so important to set a BOUNDARY✌️

  • @vanshika_tanwar76
    @vanshika_tanwar76 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    People have to normalise setting boundaries !!

  • @suwarnakadam2694
    @suwarnakadam2694 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    You should create a playlist for this 30shorts, coz it's quite thereputic to watch when you feel low....❤

  • @kumariprerna5780
    @kumariprerna5780 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed to hear this. I have been going through something similar in my life and this just made me feel seen! Thank you Aditi! ❤👍

  • @RuchitaPatiil
    @RuchitaPatiil 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Setting boundaries can help you protect your mental health💯❣️

  • @diivya_s
    @diivya_s หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very very true…boundaries are really important for everyone..not only it helps to protect ourselves but it also helps too protect our mental peace as well..in that way we do not have to stress over people pleasing❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Krishnsakhi28
    @Krishnsakhi28 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm so glad I follow an influencer like you 💗
    You're a gem quirky💎

  • @shagunagarwal8184
    @shagunagarwal8184 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I fully agree on this one!!It's so significant to set up boundaries for your mental and physical peace!You don't want a person who is so much close to you needs to know about you EVERYTHING & At times when he/she doesn't want to open about it!❤
    We need to knoww that itsss not that one is betraying YOU BUT Not in a space to say you about itt!!
    Utmost respect, acceptance &honesty must be maintained💯
    Ps:YOUR ARE LOOKING SOO PRETTTTTTYYYYYY😍🔥

  • @khushboosingla4536
    @khushboosingla4536 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I could set some boundaries in my life earlier as it is MANDATORY. Your each and every word in the video is WORTHY 💯

  • @theamritamadan
    @theamritamadan หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true ❤ thank you so much for coming up with this series. 💁‍♀️🙌

  • @HobbyholicDiaries
    @HobbyholicDiaries 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love it dear! Well said!❤❤ Thanks Chirpy Girl 😘😘💞💞

  • @Nandini123-h5d
    @Nandini123-h5d 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Setting boundaries is literally what everyone needs to learn, best lesson for someone in a relationship❤

  • @dr.arushiprakash5896
    @dr.arushiprakash5896 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really adore you and eagerly wait for your content every Tuesday and Friday. It’s brings me joy!! I actually say it with youuuu, HIIII EVERYONE WELCOME BACK TO MY CHANNELL!! I say the whole thing in sheer excitement each time!! Love you loads aditi🧿🧿

  • @sakshigoesplaces
    @sakshigoesplaces หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Trust me I really needed to hear this! I was always there for my best friend, always listening to her problems like you correctly mentioned “saviour” but there came a very low point in my life where I went into my shell avoided everyone and wasn’t there for her one time and damn she tried to make me feel bad about it like, why weren’t you there for me. You should’ve been there. And I felt so betrayed. Like you are always there for everyone but no one is there for you.

  • @Lovnaa.Thukral
    @Lovnaa.Thukral หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dearest Quirky, you are wiser than your years and I am thankful that people have this platform where they can coach themselves on so much and I am glad you shared this

  • @PickyPinks
    @PickyPinks หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Always be polite. You can say no politely and not hurt that person. ❤ love this series ❤

  • @rohinibasak1540
    @rohinibasak1540 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love you didi ❤
    Dealing with financial issues, mental and physical health issues also!
    But watching your videos give me Strength ❤

  • @vithikagoutam6982
    @vithikagoutam6982 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Everyone has faced what you are saying and I have also faced .u just killing it in series ❤ lots of love ❣️

  • @weightlosswithme1084
    @weightlosswithme1084 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just love this series ❤❤❤

  • @nirmladevi8767
    @nirmladevi8767 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today I felt you are me. I connected with you. God bless u girl😍

  • @khushiharsora2595
    @khushiharsora2595 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Soo truee!!! Setting boundaries is soo important 🙌🏻

  • @riya25.01
    @riya25.01 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Setting boundary is the upmost priority for me coz i am over sharer and the people tend to take advantage of me ❤ thankkyouu quirkyyy ❤️

  • @swetahunny4091
    @swetahunny4091 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so true and important ❤❤

  • @ananyajaiswal7578
    @ananyajaiswal7578 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Boundaries are so important in life and we should set them

  • @SaraStyles-ne6ry
    @SaraStyles-ne6ry หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @kabiramnoorkaurgrewal
    @kabiramnoorkaurgrewal หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Girllll your eyelashes🤌🏻✨✨✨

  • @zealous_midst
    @zealous_midst หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A much needed series
    Thank you so much di ❤

  • @dikshajha4530
    @dikshajha4530 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely agree with you dii ❤ and i love this series , we never knew but all your quirky swaud wanted this ted talks 🥹🫂

  • @srishtisingh_
    @srishtisingh_ หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I needed to hear this, trust me.🙃

  • @akshata_thewanderphile
    @akshata_thewanderphile หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true, it is difficult and tricky, but we have to get there💪🙌

  • @philomathh
    @philomathh หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yesss!!! I have also set up a boundary with these peoples and now they are just ignoring me and groupisim and what not! But i am happy in my well set boundary these people just need masala they want to know each n everything that’s going on in my life and i am glad that i made the best decision😌

  • @hajirasultanaansari6320
    @hajirasultanaansari6320 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovin' this series ❤❤

  • @sumramunir7126
    @sumramunir7126 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I followed you when you had 25k subscribers and from that time I really really get inspired by you Girl ❤ I mean I really love you and wish all the best

  • @vidhikothari_
    @vidhikothari_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree setting boundaries is very important ❤

  • @promitakundu5763
    @promitakundu5763 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yess..30 tak ate ate life ne yeh lesson de hi diya..
    Love your new concepts of shorts Aditi..❤❤

  • @suwarnakadam2694
    @suwarnakadam2694 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You should straight up create a playlist of these 30 shorts, coz it's thereputic when u feel low...❤

  • @taranjeetkaursra1650
    @taranjeetkaursra1650 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow that's deep I need to practice that❤ thank you aditi❤

  • @nikki_reviews
    @nikki_reviews หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I swear by this ! ♥️🙏🏻

  • @zinatansari8151
    @zinatansari8151 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yesss that’s absolutely true….❤

  • @shrutimishra1498
    @shrutimishra1498 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    DON'T BE A MAHAN INSAAN factsss 💯💯❤️❤️

  • @DikshaSharma-ph2cf
    @DikshaSharma-ph2cf 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks for the heads up🙌🏼❤️

  • @mehaksharma2571
    @mehaksharma2571 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Off topic but beautiful hair cut !More deets on this please

  • @deepanjali2562
    @deepanjali2562 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes yes , I do it often for my mental peace 😊 They find it rude but who cares . My peace is my priority 🥰😌

  • @Somya2802
    @Somya2802 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yesss, chalo koi to mere jaisa sochta hai love you 😘 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @princysardana
    @princysardana หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So damn true 🤌🏻🫡💜

  • @shaffaqwaseem8047
    @shaffaqwaseem8047 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its just a great advice ....❤....Love from Pakistan ❤

  • @Jiah_856
    @Jiah_856 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing this ❤...In somewhere i knew this but I wanted to hear from someone eles and now I'm clear with my thoughts.. thanks again ❤

  • @khanmuskan0220
    @khanmuskan0220 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much love 💞😘

  • @palaksrivastava2925
    @palaksrivastava2925 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true dii thanks for sharing your experiences and things that for learn to a 18 years girl like me, so I can live my life in a good way ❤❤ love you so much diii ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @drjannatkhanna
    @drjannatkhanna 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So relatable ❤

  • @shrutisingh837
    @shrutisingh837 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thankyou for this 😭❤️

  • @herspace08
    @herspace08 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Giving us life lessons which we cannot get anywhere else. Thank for sharing this gyaan ka bhandar with us❤️🤌🏻
    Waiting for other videos to come out jaldi jaldi

  • @dimplerajpal4413
    @dimplerajpal4413 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Relate max with every word you said! Sometimes you know what you want but you don't know how to put it into words, you just did that for me🫂♥️ Glad I am not the only one feeling this..

  • @deeksha9552
    @deeksha9552 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm liking this series of 30 lessons ❤

  • @shweta989
    @shweta989 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish i had learnt this way more early in life before learning it the hardest way m. But we’re here more mature and that’s what matters!! 🌸

  • @mannat7325
    @mannat7325 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thankyou ❤

  • @ApkiBadididi
    @ApkiBadididi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most needed Quirky I am having a hell life right now. Please send some positive energy as well I can't just deal with this shit.😢

    • @preyasarkar4522
      @preyasarkar4522 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In a similar position. But it shall pass. More power to you. Come out stronger. ❤

  • @Bhoomkadian
    @Bhoomkadian หลายเดือนก่อน

    The video got to at the right time! I was friends with her since grade 1, and all this while she did many many many things to fuck up my life. She asked for forgiveness and I forgave her every single time. This time im not letting it slide. Talk about being mahaan

  • @theClumsyPatolaa
    @theClumsyPatolaa หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Everything is alright but your look bhaiiiiiii gonna die😭😭😭😭💕💕💕💕btw this lesson was damn needed🙂‍↔️

  • @stutichaudhary7129
    @stutichaudhary7129 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Boundaries r important❤

  • @radhanidhi591
    @radhanidhi591 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True whom u really adore but telling them I won't help or sharing everything, they really feel upset and won't be able to connect you same as before

  • @PallaviHota
    @PallaviHota หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am glad I could learn it through you before turning 30😉 thanks for this, kahin na kahin realisation thi but acceptance mein time lag gaya. But your words just validated mine. Thanks again Aditi. 🫶🏼

  • @ranjitrangayadav9077
    @ranjitrangayadav9077 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes you are right ❤❤❤
    Thank you
    Maine bahut dhokhe khae Hain
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🛏️🛏️🛏️

  • @naziashaikh6039
    @naziashaikh6039 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boundaries are very important especially in work place learnt it in a hard way

  • @liza8385
    @liza8385 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So so true...❤️

  • @kalpanapatel6162
    @kalpanapatel6162 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Agree😊

  • @vinu7171
    @vinu7171 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true😊

  • @vanshika_308
    @vanshika_308 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Di... I recently felt that way that my bf he knows alot about me which is not exactly a bad thing but i somewhat feel uncomfortable to let anyone know so much about me, I confessed the way i was feeling to him and he took it in a positive way and explained that he wants to know more and more of just because he wants to understand me and help me out when I'm going through something or I'm feeling low... After watching this video i feel that its normal to have that weird feeling.

  • @kanishka67
    @kanishka67 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true ❤❤👍🏻👍🏻

  • @ruchika_das
    @ruchika_das หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glowing ✨💗

  • @hanshuuu551
    @hanshuuu551 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trueeeeeee ✅️

  • @nabanitasaha7941
    @nabanitasaha7941 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After making mistakes i learn boundary is everything you want

  • @ishitasingh1
    @ishitasingh1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true. I learnt at 25.

  • @diya.5
    @diya.5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My strong quirky ❤

  • @Cutegirldiku
    @Cutegirldiku หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its happened with me lot a time 😢

  • @AnanyaHegde-i2o
    @AnanyaHegde-i2o หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True 🔥

  • @The_Crafter_Mataa
    @The_Crafter_Mataa หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ye mene just start Kiya h.. ab m kisi k liye bhi mari ni Jaa ri hu. Jisko aana hoga vo ayega. Jisko Jana hoga vo jayegaa .. 😊

  • @satarupamukherjee1628
    @satarupamukherjee1628 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It will be my mantraaa 😫😫

  • @rashmipunjabi2386
    @rashmipunjabi2386 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ♥️

  • @NagmaRaeen
    @NagmaRaeen หลายเดือนก่อน

    We got it ❤

  • @impriyankanayak
    @impriyankanayak หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My therapist 🤌🥺💞🧿

  • @holdonntohope
    @holdonntohope หลายเดือนก่อน

    After being available for every loved one …so disappointing how people take it for granted…. Lekin koi na achchai zaaya nhi hotii..
    Time to set boundaries ✅

  • @Rea_Remruati
    @Rea_Remruati 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Much needed

  • @swatirichhariya5244
    @swatirichhariya5244 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanku di ❤️ I always remember this ❤️ i know it will help me 💓💓 left hand me kya hua apko ??? Pink pink dikha kuch ???

  • @Anshikak3215
    @Anshikak3215 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But as a person who overshares alot, it becomes annoying when the other person is not willing to share things about their life just because they have boundaries. We understand they want space but sometimes it feels like only we are the ones who are investing in the relationship.

  • @Withnia
    @Withnia หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just leave those peoples and live a peaceful life ❤ #quarky

  • @SuhaniPandey_1308
    @SuhaniPandey_1308 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Learning a lot from you, miss quirky!🤌🏻💜

  • @jharnanarang1727
    @jharnanarang1727 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your look❤

  • @sushmita1202
    @sushmita1202 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    💜💜

  • @Gargi-ow4qo
    @Gargi-ow4qo 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *You made me pretty emotional quirky* 🥹🥺🥺 I think i seriously needed this.
    *_- Loads of love and a virtual hug from ur younger sister_*

  • @urmaa24
    @urmaa24 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eye opening lessons by quirky..

  • @rasikabangare5618
    @rasikabangare5618 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, which mascara you using, please tell me

  • @jhalak831
    @jhalak831 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, I hate people who are getting involved in me even if I show no interest or straight ignore them they don't even understand stand that I am not interested in them, want space, than They tag me as egoistic person. They find all ways to disturb my routine, my Life like they don't have any other work to do.

  • @shrutivohra9757
    @shrutivohra9757 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤