I was best friends with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and when she blew up and discarded me...she was BRUTAL. She used my insecurities that I confided in her with and threw it all in my face and then some...it was devastating.
They just announced that Amber Heard is Borderline and Histrionic. SHOCKER. I'm over 2 years away from that nightmare of a marriage to a BPD. Still healing from it
Yeah and all the borderlines are out in force on social media. Ones just said to me "I didnt abuse anyone." And is now throwing a wobbler because I said "in your opinion. You can't speak for every single person you've interacted with"...
When I first heard about the story some time ago I instantly thought Borderline, anyone that’s experienced that kind of treatment from a borderline tends to have a radar and alert system embedded once it’s over.
They said she does, but she doesn’t. Thanks for stigmatizing the ever-loving shit out of my illness. Good god, you guys think full of ourselves? Listen to you all in these comments! Vile!
Funny how they didn't mention Johnny Depp is a covert narcissist. he pulled the wool over a lot of peoples eyes but his abuse was clear as day to many who've dealt with one
My experience with someone with BPD was feeling very seen and hopeful at first to about two years later being abused very badly. Please speak up for yourself and your needs at the beginning of these bonds.
The ones I've encountered could hold it together for a while to maximize the love bombing. 2 yrs seems to be the top limit. I don't give a crap what "experts " say. I learned through experiemce.
My last ex was a borderliner. It reminds me of the Trojan horse theory. Let one into your life, then everything comes out. Sadly, when it comes to the devalue, abuse, and threats, don’t take it lightly. Ridding the borderliner from my life required a restraining order. As she was escorted from my house, I realized at that point that I took my life back. Never again will I ignore the red flags. Thanks Dave for your videos for they have helped me relate to a recent relationship.
That sound pretty bad to get to that point, I'm sorry Bob. Learn everything you can about your experience and yourself. What a horrible mistake to make twice, trust me.
Brilliant vid. Was married to one 19 years. Crazy town. So apparent after the last 4 years of intense personal dev. It’s sad but they burn every bridge!! No helping then.
I agree! Men are victims from cluster b personalities as much as women are! I know of a few personally from my own experience being abused from females!
Joan Crawford the actress from the mommie dearest book her daughter wrote, 😮 that’s either malignant narcissisism or high end spectrum definitely untreated borderline..
Great video . I was with a woman that was BPD misdiagnosed as bipolar . Yes the enmeshment is strong and you’ll will start losing yourself. They drain your energy and it becomes a full time job . She never could take accountability, never her fault. I heard of a great acronym S.I.G.N Shame you,Insult you,Guilt trip you ,Need to be right. She was sweet charismatic but it was a emotional rollercoaster ride. But I can’t blame her for everything I had my faults as a codependent as I ignored the early red flags . But they’ll suck the energy out of you , it was a full time job . And sometimes I get mad because if only she didn’t snap as much one day one week things are good then we are off then on again then off one month cool then snap . 3 days cool then snap . You get the picture. It’s exhausting . In the beginning of this reply I mentioned that she was misdiagnosed as bipolar, her sister told me a few times that she was diagnosed as bipolar as a teenager because she would see me after her sister and I would fight . Another sister would tell me just to leave her or ask me how could I stand her . But after the break up I stumbled across narcissistic behavior which she did have some traits but it was then I learned about borderlines and wow that was her she check marks 7 of those 9 traits on the DSM for BPD. Anyways a little over 5 years with her it ended I left her it was hard because I did love her so 6 months broken up she met this guy and within a week he moved in with her and in less than a month they’re getting married. Damn !!! What the heck .
Sorry to hear about this,there's going to be alot of pain and eventhough you're the victim...guilt. Take some solid advice go full non contact ,block them everywhere and stick to it no matter what. You take care of yourself now 👍
@@RAB-om9jy I really appreciate the advice! I left an open channel but this is something I just do not want to return to, so I ended up doing the full block. Thank you!
Just an observational list about this disorder I made that in my experience is very common in almost all bpd ive met. - they love animals but discard them quickly but morn them later only to get sympathy. - they are drawn to empathic people - they often change their apperance to an extreme, haircolor, make up, tattoos. - they like puzzles and crafts like knitting - they bend over backwards to please people but only outside a relationship or family member. - asking for favours that they easily could do themselves without help. - playing videogames where they can enter a new personality. - having dark things at home, black curtiains, skulls and such. - they love over the top fantasy novels. - extreme homes, throw things on the floor, no cleaning, hoarding. But at the same time they hate a mess but are powerless to change. - they like organizing, even by color or number but it doesnt go further than their most personal things. - lack basic economic function. Often have problem keeping a job, pay rent or even electric bill because they dont want to be forced to enter the real world. - they really think they hate themselves and thats true to an extent but with so little or any selfimage, the lack of own self is what they hate. The confusion destroys them from the inside and thats why they look for someone to mirror to not feel that way. - after they mirrored someone and total meshmode is complete they stop showing empathy towards that person which lead to total degrading phase. - Even if you both had the same experience together they could tell you it wasnt that way. If you tell em they are wrong, extreme anger and crying follows because they disociate and this is their truth, as far they know this is what actual happend and you are just being cruel.
Hey David, I know this video is a year old, but the real life examples and situations you describe, continue to help me understand more and more. I thought I understood most of it after researching for over a year, but yours are like you've been through these, which I'm sure you have. Just another thank you and I hope you keep going.
Hi David from NC. I've seen a documentary on this case. Very sad. What you said bout compromising our values (ex. premarital relations) hit home with me. I've been lax in the past but not now. Not again. There is a case in Wilmington NC where a world renowned serpentarian was shot to death by his wife. Very sad. He had done wonderful work that saved lives (venom antidote work) and promoted snakes. He ran his own serpentaria downtown. She did it in a fit of anger. Tragic. I think they had a daughter together. Thank you for your videos.
I've seen the rage of a person with BPD.They are triggered so fast and for no apparent reason.Ide bet a lot of these murders we see everyday in the news are committed by a ragging BPD.David what do attribute to a person commiting random murders of strangers without any motive?Thanks,KB from CT
Great videos! Yes I remember seeing her and she had absolutely no guilt or remorse. I would love for you to talk about the Casey White Story. If that guy doesn't have dead eyes and mad manipulation skills...damn! I became really interested in their story. The fact that a murderer could charm a sheriff's officer to break him out is wild.
Great video David! Loved how you described this mental illness, as to what it is, what it isn’t! That like everything else, it’s on a spectrum! I would like more videos like this. Thanks David! Take care!😎
Hi Rory! I hope the cold hasn't come back, I know it still snowing in New York. I have some more extremely interesting cases already but always open to suggestions.
@@daviddemars Hi David! It’s really cold here but no snow yet! Haven’t put winter clothes away just yet! It’s hard for me to wrap my head around how someone can have no regard for another’s life! Like, Oh, I just murdered someone, I better go put make up on!! I watched a segment on 48 Hours about this murder , just appalled at her explanation as to what happened!! Looking forward to more of your videos. Take care!😎
@@daviddemars Though I’d give you suggestions for your murder cases. Started first with ones in Ohio. 2009 Anthony Sowell known offender 11 bodies(gruesome)! Jeffrey Dahmer. Ariel Castro 2013 kidnapped 3 girls who lived to tell their story of ten years of captivity. Trying to watch words I use. Side note, growing up, one of our neighbors murdered a neighbor lady and was connected to a couple other crimes. We lived in the country. My mom would walk down our long driveway to get the mail. Well, she wasn’t getting any of her mail she usually got. When she went one day, non in mailbox, she heard something on the wooded hill. She walked up hill and here was this kid looking through her mail! Same kid that turned out to be a murderer a few years later! Scary stuff! Thanks David!
Want to hear something crazy? About 8 years ago I spent an extensive amount of time studying cluster B as it was fascinating, fast forward to now and I'm just getting out of a "relationship" with a borderline of 8 months. I was taken the entire time but she pursued anyway. I tried to manage and support and encourage but holy crap, it's every bit as crazy as it sounds. Quite tragic and disorienting/painful too.
I don't care what people think,there is a whole different level of psycho what she did to Travis. I was with a dangerous man. He could've killed me 3 times.
Hi Bill, thank you. I remember first hearing her story before the series. Big investors will take classes and training to detect deception but it doesnt seem to matter when emotions are mixed in. They have to always get inside your personal life somehow.
Brilliant stuff here,I have two questions? Why do they seem to always go after an ex weather they were discarded or they did the discarding? Why can't they just let go and move on to the next person (victim)? And before anyone starts I have BPD traits and CPTSD so I'm not bashing on the emotionally ill ok?
Yes, I appreciate this video/topic very much and would be interested in listening to your comments about other famous criminal cases like this. I would be interested to know your thoughts on Chris Watts. I've been following your content for years and you offer very good insight about these disorders. I agree with you, Jodi was borderline and that psychologist was spot on with the diagnosis.
@daviddemars when you mentioned people going to speak to people with restraining orders.. did you mean the one going to speak to the other is the one with the restraining order against them? (An order based on false allegations) I feel like this scenario may not been discussed enough
Your right it is not discussed enough. That is what happened to me. They just make up shit to get one and in my state it is very easy to get one against anyone just make up some stuff that never happened and bingo you get one. It is not fair at all how someone can just make up shit that is not true with no proof just their word and this happens.
@@daviddemars the JCS crime psychology did a video on it. Very interesting, and is essentially a break down of footage of her interrogations. Crazy shit
"To fully get a visual of what Ms. Arias did to my brain you would have to find some fecal matter, throw it into the pan, add a chopped up dead rat and scramble the whole mess up. Once completely cooked this concoction would then approximate the effect that Ms. Arias would have on my brain." --- Kirk Nurmi, former defense attorney
These are demon-possesed. I had a Borderline relationship. Jesus Christ had to cast out demons, exactly like described in the Bible. In my case it was Lilith (satan's wife who did not want to submit to Adam). Fits her to a tee! Hated mothers, children, motherhood, extremely narcissistic, succubus spirits are coming with her and I saw them before I knew what damage they do, she is also appearing as a vampire, gothic music scene, sexual immorality is key to them to seduce. Hated God, religion, Christianity and especially Catholicism. She was obsessed with transgenderism and gay men dressing up as women. This was a deeply demonic experience, and I cast out Lilith from my own home in the name of Jesus. God showed me I was right, shortly after my ex left me very harshly and disrespectfully. I still try to heal from these evil demonic experiences. It is very dangerous and very damaging to ones health.
My bpd ex threw away me,college,new car,animals and all her stuff because she wanted to help her mom financially but her mom told me she was using her I tried to warn her but we fought and I told her if the mother comes in my home and starts taking things I’ll throw hands and the kids she left to “help” could screw off and die. I didn’t want to say it but I have ied and she knew and targeted my triggers “physical touch” during me being in my emotions because my dad was abusive to me. So she called the cops on me. I just wanted her to do good in life but she would not understand she was throwing her life away. I feel so bad
My borderline ex lied about the paternity of her son. I found out many years after his birth that I am the father. It’s plain as day but she still denies it. She just bought a house 2 mins from where I live. It’s really a bizarre situation
from south africa There is person at work. He only comes to work to play games. He gave his number and we talk on whatsapp. It feels uncomfortable. Don't think someone like that is a good influence on me. Scared he wants to drag me down or something, I don't know. Do you think my mom could be Borderline? She seems a lot like it. Especially the inmeshment.
Hi Emile, how are you otherwise? Take the new friendship slower and maybe it will feel better? I dont know your Mom Emily but what you describe is not healthy.
@@daviddemars Hi David Do you mean my mom or the new friend isn’t healthy? I still don’t really have a real friend. There is a group gathering every Saturday night, maby I can find someone there. I am continuing to work at the internship, I don’t really know what else to now so I am continuing working here. I think it’s the best I can do at the moment.
Not so sure I agree with you on this. Where does this need to diagnose people come from? Honestly, we all have traits of all personality disorders to some degree.
I was best friends with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and when she blew up and discarded me...she was BRUTAL. She used my insecurities that I confided in her with and threw it all in my face and then some...it was devastating.
The same thing happened to me.
I'm sorry and I hope you feel better today.
Welcome to the club. It is a horrific thing to go through.
Been there 4 sure. 6 of them they were all alike. To me
they are Blobs and fearfull
They just announced that Amber Heard is Borderline and Histrionic. SHOCKER. I'm over 2 years away from that nightmare of a marriage to a BPD. Still healing from it
Yeah and all the borderlines are out in force on social media. Ones just said to me "I didnt abuse anyone." And is now throwing a wobbler because I said "in your opinion. You can't speak for every single person you've interacted with"...
When I first heard about the story some time ago I instantly thought Borderline, anyone that’s experienced that kind of treatment from a borderline tends to have a radar and alert system embedded once it’s over.
Hi David, I saw that too and just confirmed what I suspected. Doesnt she just make your skin crawl after having similar experiences as Depp?
They said she does, but she doesn’t. Thanks for stigmatizing the ever-loving shit out of my illness. Good god, you guys think full of ourselves? Listen to you all in these comments! Vile!
Funny how they didn't mention Johnny Depp is a covert narcissist. he pulled the wool over a lot of peoples eyes but his abuse was clear as day to many who've dealt with one
My experience with someone with BPD was feeling very seen and hopeful at first to about two years later being abused very badly. Please speak up for yourself and your needs at the beginning of these bonds.
The ones I've encountered could hold it together for a while to maximize the love bombing. 2 yrs seems to be the top limit. I don't give a crap what "experts " say. I learned through experiemce.
Good advice Alex
My last ex was a borderliner. It reminds me of the Trojan horse theory. Let one into your life, then everything comes out. Sadly, when it comes to the devalue, abuse, and threats, don’t take it lightly. Ridding the borderliner from my life required a restraining order. As she was escorted from my house, I realized at that point that I took my life back. Never again will I ignore the red flags. Thanks Dave for your videos for they have helped me relate to a recent relationship.
That sound pretty bad to get to that point, I'm sorry Bob. Learn everything you can about your experience and yourself. What a horrible mistake to make twice, trust me.
Same man
Brilliant vid. Was married to one 19 years. Crazy town. So apparent after the last 4 years of intense personal dev. It’s sad but they burn every bridge!! No helping then.
Thank you Andrea, I see so much online about how to help the borderline in your life and I found that is often the problem, not the cure.
Talk about how Amber Heard treated Johnny Depp! Women need held accountable for the abuse they do to men!
YES THEY DO. AND MALE BORDERLINES DO THIS TO WOMEN TOO. PROTECT OURSELVES.
I will Troy, thank you. This trial hits home.
I agree! Men are victims from cluster b personalities as much as women are! I know of a few personally from my own experience being abused from females!
Joan Crawford the actress from the mommie dearest book her daughter wrote, 😮 that’s either malignant narcissisism or high end spectrum definitely untreated borderline..
Absolutely
Dangerous when you 're leaving them.
Great video . I was with a woman that was BPD misdiagnosed as bipolar . Yes the enmeshment is strong and you’ll will start losing yourself. They drain your energy and it becomes a full time job . She never could take accountability, never her fault. I heard of a great acronym S.I.G.N Shame you,Insult you,Guilt trip you ,Need to be right. She was sweet charismatic but it was a emotional rollercoaster ride. But I can’t blame her for everything I had my faults as a codependent as I ignored the early red flags . But they’ll suck the energy out of you , it was a full time job . And sometimes I get mad because if only she didn’t snap as much one day one week things are good then we are off then on again then off one month cool then snap . 3 days cool then snap . You get the picture. It’s exhausting . In the beginning of this reply I mentioned that she was misdiagnosed as bipolar, her sister told me a few times that she was diagnosed as bipolar as a teenager because she would see me after her sister and I would fight . Another sister would tell me just to leave her or ask me how could I stand her . But after the break up I stumbled across narcissistic behavior which she did have some traits but it was then I learned about borderlines and wow that was her she check marks 7 of those 9 traits on the DSM for BPD. Anyways a little over 5 years with her it ended I left her it was hard because I did love her so 6 months broken up she met this guy and within a week he moved in with her and in less than a month they’re getting married. Damn !!! What the heck .
It doesnt matter if she marries, that relationship is also doomed, f BPDs.
Same with me. Moved in in a week and planning marriage after a month....but tells me they ARE NOT being impulsive 🤷♂️
100 💯 percent agreed! I have a life. I don’t need to be a “dating service”!
Good to see you!
This video came at just the right time, thank you! My quiet borderline ex discarded me two nights ago.
Hi FindingNima! So sorry for what you’re going through! Take care!
Sorry to hear about this,there's going to be alot of pain and eventhough you're the victim...guilt.
Take some solid advice go full non contact ,block them everywhere and stick to it no matter what.
You take care of yourself now 👍
@@rorywright5692 Thank you! I appreciate it!
@@RAB-om9jy I really appreciate the advice! I left an open channel but this is something I just do not want to return to, so I ended up doing the full block. Thank you!
@@FindingNima7You are very welcome, its hard but its necessary to help heal and eventually move on.
Just an observational list about this disorder I made that in my experience is very common in almost all bpd ive met.
- they love animals but discard them quickly but morn them later only to get sympathy.
- they are drawn to empathic people
- they often change their apperance to an extreme, haircolor, make up, tattoos.
- they like puzzles and crafts like knitting
- they bend over backwards to please people but only outside a relationship or family member.
- asking for favours that they easily could do themselves without help.
- playing videogames where they can enter a new personality.
- having dark things at home, black curtiains, skulls and such.
- they love over the top fantasy novels.
- extreme homes, throw things on the floor, no cleaning, hoarding. But at the same time they hate a mess but are powerless to change.
- they like organizing, even by color or number but it doesnt go further than their most personal things.
- lack basic economic function. Often have problem keeping a job, pay rent or even electric bill because they dont want to be forced to enter the real world.
- they really think they hate themselves and thats true to an extent but with so little or any selfimage, the lack of own self is what they hate. The confusion destroys them from the inside and thats why they look for someone to mirror to not feel that way.
- after they mirrored someone and total meshmode is complete they stop showing empathy towards that person which lead to total degrading phase.
- Even if you both had the same experience together they could tell you it wasnt that way. If you tell em they are wrong, extreme anger and crying follows because they disociate and this is their truth, as far they know this is what actual happend and you are just being cruel.
My GF to a T in this description
Best
This describes my ex girlfriend perfectly.
Holy sht that's my ex to a T as well!!
Interesting!
Hey David, I know this video is a year old, but the real life examples and situations you describe, continue to help me understand more and more. I thought I understood most of it after researching for over a year, but yours are like you've been through these, which I'm sure you have. Just another thank you and I hope you keep going.
Jodia Arias was also singing O Holy Night in the interview room. 😖
What a show, its just so hard to understand how people can be nonchalant about murdering people in their life.
Hi David from NC. I've seen a documentary on this case. Very sad. What you said bout compromising our values (ex. premarital relations) hit home with me. I've been lax in the past but not now. Not again.
There is a case in Wilmington NC where a world renowned serpentarian was shot to death by his wife. Very sad. He had done wonderful work that saved lives (venom antidote work) and promoted snakes. He ran his own serpentaria downtown. She did it in a fit of anger. Tragic. I think they had a daughter together. Thank you for your videos.
Hi Connie, thank you and good to see you. Sadly, there are so many cases but we need to learn from them and not just label them.
NC seems to be ''Narc Central.''
Omg!!!!! This guy drags it out.
I've seen the rage of a person with BPD.They are triggered so fast and for no apparent reason.Ide bet a lot of these murders we see everyday in the news are committed by a ragging BPD.David what do attribute to a person commiting random murders of strangers without any motive?Thanks,KB from CT
Absolutely, it is actually used as a defense. Psychotic rage with memory loss due to dissociation. It doesnt stick but they try.
Hello David!! Ohio here!😎
Hellloooo Rory in Ohio! A friend showed me pics of snow in New York, I hope its still warming up there.
@@daviddemars Really frigid cold out! Monday it was so nice, I was able to do yard work! That’s Ohio weather! Hope yours is better!!😎
Great videos! Yes I remember seeing her and she had absolutely no guilt or remorse.
I would love for you to talk about the Casey White Story. If that guy doesn't have dead eyes and mad manipulation skills...damn! I became really interested in their story. The fact that a murderer could charm a sheriff's officer to break him out is wild.
Great video, David. Yes, would like to hear more on cases.
Colorado
Great video David! Loved how you described this mental illness, as to what it is, what it isn’t! That like everything else, it’s on a spectrum! I would like more videos like this. Thanks David! Take care!😎
HI RORY. GOOD TO SEE YOU. HERE AGAIN.
@@treelover1050 Hey Tree Lover! Good to see you too! Interesting murder case!!😎
Hi Rory! I hope the cold hasn't come back, I know it still snowing in New York.
I have some more extremely interesting cases already but always open to suggestions.
@@daviddemars Hi David! It’s really cold here but no snow yet! Haven’t put winter clothes away just yet! It’s hard for me to wrap my head around how someone can have no regard for another’s life! Like, Oh, I just murdered someone, I better go put make up on!! I watched a segment on 48 Hours about this murder , just appalled at her explanation as to what happened!! Looking forward to more of your videos. Take care!😎
@@daviddemars
Though I’d give you suggestions for your murder cases. Started first with ones in Ohio. 2009 Anthony Sowell known offender 11 bodies(gruesome)! Jeffrey Dahmer. Ariel Castro 2013 kidnapped 3 girls who lived to tell their story of ten years of captivity. Trying to watch words I use. Side note, growing up, one of our neighbors murdered a neighbor lady and was connected to a couple other crimes. We lived in the country. My mom would walk down our long driveway to get the mail. Well, she wasn’t getting any of her mail she usually got. When she went one day, non in mailbox, she heard something on the wooded hill. She walked up hill and here was this kid looking through her mail! Same kid that turned out to be a murderer a few years later! Scary stuff! Thanks David!
Hello David Paul from Wisconsin. Day off
Hi Paul, how's Wisconsin? I know its still pretty cold in others near you.
Want to hear something crazy? About 8 years ago I spent an extensive amount of time studying cluster B as it was fascinating, fast forward to now and I'm just getting out of a "relationship" with a borderline of 8 months. I was taken the entire time but she pursued anyway. I tried to manage and support and encourage but holy crap, it's every bit as crazy as it sounds. Quite tragic and disorienting/painful too.
Damn my GF checks most of these marks. She sent me to the hospital once and still put the blame on me. Wild stuff
I don't care what people think,there is a whole different level of psycho what she did to Travis. I was with a dangerous man. He could've killed me 3 times.
Hey David. I’d like to hear your take on Anna Delvey. She’s portrayed in Netflix’s Inventing Anna.
Anna Sorokin in real life
Hi Bill M! That series Inventing Anna was so good!! Nice to see you!
Hi Bill, thank you. I remember first hearing her story before the series. Big investors will take classes and training to detect deception but it doesnt seem to matter when emotions are mixed in. They have to always get inside your personal life somehow.
@@daviddemars her greatest skill was sensing anyone that was amenable to her manipulation. They needed to believe in her and she took full advantage.
The narcissistic female doesn’t perceive people as being disgusted with them, they actually believe people are just jealous of them.
Brilliant stuff here,I have two questions?
Why do they seem to always go after an ex weather they were discarded or they did the discarding?
Why can't they just let go and move on to the next person (victim)?
And before anyone starts I have BPD traits and CPTSD so I'm not bashing on the emotionally ill ok?
Hi Rab! They want to continue to have their claws in you! Even if they did the discarding, they can’t stand to loose! Thank you for sharing!😎
Laziness, availability
Yes, I appreciate this video/topic very much and would be interested in listening to your comments about other famous criminal cases like this. I would be interested to know your thoughts on Chris Watts. I've been following your content for years and you offer very good insight about these disorders. I agree with you, Jodi was borderline and that psychologist was spot on with the diagnosis.
Please talk about more cases, it's very interesting.
@daviddemars when you mentioned people going to speak to people with restraining orders.. did you mean the one going to speak to the other is the one with the restraining order against them? (An order based on false allegations) I feel like this scenario may not been discussed enough
Your right it is not discussed enough. That is what happened to me. They just make up shit to get one and in my state it is very easy to get one against anyone just make up some stuff that never happened and bingo you get one. It is not fair at all how someone can just make up shit that is not true with no proof just their word and this happens.
HI DAVID. THANKS FOR THIS INTERESTING VIDEO. I WATCHED HER POLICE INTERVIEW. TREE LOVER-USA.
Hey Tree Lover! Thank you, I dont know about a police video? I guess she manipulates other inmates and Guards for everything she wants in their.
@@daviddemars IT'S CALLED WRATH OF JODI ON TH-cam. 2 HOURS.
@@daviddemars the JCS crime psychology did a video on it. Very interesting, and is essentially a break down of footage of her interrogations. Crazy shit
"To fully get a visual of what Ms. Arias did to my brain you would have to find some fecal matter, throw it into the pan, add a chopped up dead rat and scramble the whole mess up. Once completely cooked this concoction would then approximate the effect that Ms. Arias would have on my brain." --- Kirk Nurmi, former defense attorney
Almost been a year since I slit with Kim
Congratulations, Paul!!😎
Happy Anniversary Paul! I'm sorry for your loss and if you are still hurting. Congratulations on your life though Paul.
Incubator can cause, ( attachment gap) sexual abuse, et al. They don't really know
How to I get well. 74. 12 yrs of therapy-nope::they made the money.
Mr deMars you make sense.
I believe it is demonic torment. Read Mark Chapter 5, I believe verse 5
These are demon-possesed.
I had a Borderline relationship. Jesus Christ had to cast out demons, exactly like described in the Bible. In my case it was Lilith (satan's wife who did not want to submit to Adam). Fits her to a tee! Hated mothers, children, motherhood, extremely narcissistic, succubus spirits are coming with her and I saw them before I knew what damage they do, she is also appearing as a vampire, gothic music scene, sexual immorality is key to them to seduce. Hated God, religion, Christianity and especially Catholicism. She was obsessed with transgenderism and gay men dressing up as women.
This was a deeply demonic experience, and I cast out Lilith from my own home in the name of Jesus. God showed me I was right, shortly after my ex left me very harshly and disrespectfully.
I still try to heal from these evil demonic experiences. It is very dangerous and very damaging to ones health.
Can you talk about BPD children who had BPD parents?
My bpd ex threw away me,college,new car,animals and all her stuff because she wanted to help her mom financially but her mom told me she was using her I tried to warn her but we fought and I told her if the mother comes in my home and starts taking things I’ll throw hands and the kids she left to “help” could screw off and die. I didn’t want to say it but I have ied and she knew and targeted my triggers “physical touch” during me being in my emotions because my dad was abusive to me. So she called the cops on me. I just wanted her to do good in life but she would not understand she was throwing her life away. I feel so bad
My borderline ex lied about the paternity of her son. I found out many years after his birth that I am the father. It’s plain as day but she still denies it. She just bought a house 2 mins from where I live. It’s really a bizarre situation
Can you do a video on Sam Little or The Netflix series- The Bad Vegan next.
Korissa, thank you for recommending the Bad Vegan! Started watching it today!
👍🌍💐🙏
from south africa
There is person at work. He only comes to work to play games. He gave his number and we talk on whatsapp. It feels uncomfortable. Don't think someone like that is a good influence on me. Scared he wants to drag me down or something, I don't know.
Do you think my mom could be Borderline? She seems a lot like it. Especially the inmeshment.
Hi Emile! Happy to see you! 😎
Hi Emile, how are you otherwise? Take the new friendship slower and maybe it will feel better? I dont know your Mom Emily but what you describe is not healthy.
@@daviddemars Hi David
Do you mean my mom or the new friend isn’t healthy?
I still don’t really have a real friend. There is a group gathering every Saturday night, maby I can find someone there.
I am continuing to work at the internship, I don’t really know what else to now so I am continuing working here. I think it’s the best I can do at the moment.
@@rorywright5692 Hi Rory how are you today?
@@emilemerten6535 Hello, Emile! Doing good! Hope you are too!
Not so sure I agree with you on this. Where does this need to diagnose people come from? Honestly, we all have traits of all personality disorders to some degree.
Hello David Paul from Wisconsin. Day off
Hi Paul! Nice to see ya! 😎
@@rorywright5692 Hello Rory 👋 ☺️.
How nice, I hope you enjoyed yourself. I asked you earlier if its still cold there, I know it is near there and its almost May.
@@daviddemars had a few nice days. Today I don't think it was over 40