In Islam, there is nothing like force marriages. In Islam, our Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said in a hadiths that, No one can force either a man or a woman into any form of marriage except both parties agree, even if the family of any of the parties disagrees but the party thus either the lady or the man still wants to marry the other and they are okay with their character, the family has no right to disagree or reject. This might be their custom tradition. In Islam, we don't even wear rings on wedding days like the Christians do. And for the face covering, its optional, you can choose to cover the face of the bride for only the husband to see but not the public or otherwise. If only it does not expose the bride's body.
There are rules in Islam that most people put a blind eye on. So do not be deceived by tradition as if it's part of a religious right or believe. This is just their culture. And one thing you should all know is that, Most 'Hausa' is a tribe not religion. Most of the people in Niger dress up like Muslims based on their looks but doesn't mean they are Muslims. I believe most of you know 'President Tinibu' of Nigeria, Is he a Muslim? No, but he dresses like one... It's just their culture, has nothing to do with Islam. So please know the difference between Culture and religion before you pass any judgement.
Nope! There is. There is something known as power of ijbar...i am a Christian but as a student of law, I had to study Islamic law in my country & we was taught that; a father can marry off his daughter
@@Rumbu_P Which law are you talking about bro? "Power of ijbar" In Islam, the laws we follow are only 2. Thus what the Qur'an says and the Sunnah (thus the teachings of Prophet Muhammad S.A.W) and there is no where you can find the "power of ijbar" as you're saying. Maybe it's a law set by and Islamic country but not Islam as a religion. Cus there is nowhere the Qur'an state a law that the Haddith disagrees or otherwise.
Islam does not allow forced marriage it's culture that do that. In Islam a woman have all the Right to chose the man she wants to Marry Point of correction Scanty. And there's a Difference between culture and Religion, most people have a grey area on it.
Once again I want to remind y’all that Islam is perfect but Muslims aren’t. If any muslim does anything unlawful, blame it on their attitudes and shortcomings not Islam. Islam endorses early marriage but not force married Subhanallah 😢This video clearly shows the girl isn’t interested but no shy. Acting shy during your marriage is cultural heritage not Islam and some people are shy naturally. Whatever may be the case the girl can object to it if she’s not interested in the guy. If this is a forced marriage, everyone involved will be judged by Allah😢
Not true Women feed on men naturally So when the man loves the woman more the relationship works better cos the woman will worship a man who shows her crazy love
Oh it could be culture too.. I learnt about one recently where the bride is suppose to frown while the groom's family throw money on her and she finally smiles when she's satisfied 😂
😂😂😂 shes shy... 1. She's clearly underage (like you said ) 2. She may have wanted a wedding in Bahamas or meldivas 3.she dey in her men's 4. She preg 5. She doesn't love the guy
No parent is allowed to force their children into marriage in Islam. Some ignorant people think women dont have rights in Islam and whatever her parents or husband wants, she does. Culture is different from religion lets be guided.
In Islam there are things that are required for marriage to happen . It doesn't matter where you are from, culture etc, as long as you are Muslim that is required. But there are other things that vary from culture to culture which is not forbidden. So don't look at it from your point of "how marriage should be done", but be open to learn and understand how things are done in other religions and culture.
When we talk about things being archaic we need to consider religion. Religion is for the past and technology is the future . 2023 and we have people believing the Bible and Quran 😏
Pls in Islam we cover the bride like that… u can obviously see she is shy probably Becos her parents and people present der …I would hv done same cos I’m da shy type tooo … I think ur conclusion is not accurate
I think this is at the reception cos trust me this is not anything islamic. Islamic marriage is almost the same with Akan engagement or traditional marriage but few things are quiet different. Islamic marriage is mostly done at the ladies house or the mosque. The ladies father with his witness , the husband to bes father and the witness and the imams the officiate or ordain the marriage thas all. But what you guys mostly see in the Muslim communities are the celebration part in other words reception. So all this ring wearing are all fabricated like the same way Christians adopted a white man's way of marriage call wedding.😢😢😢😢 . Every marriage program u see in zango passed through the same process but only the reception side changes based on the people involve...
Please scanty this is not about Muslim is about tribe or ethnic groups in some parts of the country some of this things doesn't really happened here but in some parts of northern Ghana
Quran 4:19 says “It is not lawful for you to become heirs to women against their will” You forced marriage is forbidden in Islam. Islam simply means submission to the will of the almighty Allah. So if a family is forcing marriage to their children, just know that they are not Muslims. Their dressing or names are not enough to describe them Muslims. When it comes to matters of faith, please find out what the doctrines/teachings of the faith say about the subject matter before you make a comment (it’s very important) Note: some people life style are highly influenced by their culture on the blind side of their religious teachings. Cheers 🥂 😊
No offence to my muslim brothers and sisters but this thing still dey go on for muslims demma community. The way the guy shadda you fit see sey he get money. So ebi something wey dem dey do oo. S3sei koraa oba nu y3 akordaa. Muslims wey fit give demma daughter hand in marriage in advance, but just sey if she bi minor a she still go dey ein parents demma side. But she's someone's wife in advance😅. This thing too dey go on for the northern side waaa. No offence but it's true
Sir, even Christians, Hindus, Koreans, Chinese, basically almost every culture has some of these things going on. Stop asserting it to one religion. We see parents push their wards into marriage for a piece of cloth, have you ever heard any Muslim blame it on Christianity? No. Don’t we see and hear of people around the world giving their kids out for marriage from birth? Are those also religion based or cultural?. Forcing your girl child into marriage is totally haram/ a sin in Islam. Such marriages are considered void. Let’s act educated please.
I disagree with Scanty on this matter today. I don't think there is enough evidence for most of the claims he's making. Also, some of the comments weren't necessary and came off as disrespectful to certain groups and cultures especially when there's almost no evidence for his assertions. People engaging in archaic and backward lifestyles can do better, yes and so can Scanty. 😊
If they were Christians, I bet u wouldn't thnk of any disrespectful act. What is it about muslims that's different from Christians that when u me tion something about them pɛ, probablem?
The way dem wrap am she be Christmas gift 🎁 😂😂
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Bars ma naga
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U r mean 🤣🤣🤣
Ashock😂
I must say, Scanty has really developed just within a small time..... bigups Scanty
At this point , I feel like Scanty deserves a "thon" ...maybe adviceathon 🤣🤣
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Foolathon😂
I'm a Muslim and I think this is unacceptable....SMH..... how can you force someone into marriage ?
The way Scanty make serious narh 😂it seems the lady be his sis😂😂💔
Hahaha 😂😂💔
I swear charley. Scanty take thing personal with serious facial expression and I’m like huh! 😂😂
In girlfriend 😂
It could be your sister… In Ghana we don’t take things serious…… people are in pain…. U de laugh.
In Islam, there is nothing like force marriages. In Islam, our Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said in a hadiths that, No one can force either a man or a woman into any form of marriage except both parties agree, even if the family of any of the parties disagrees but the party thus either the lady or the man still wants to marry the other and they are okay with their character, the family has no right to disagree or reject. This might be their custom tradition. In Islam, we don't even wear rings on wedding days like the Christians do. And for the face covering, its optional, you can choose to cover the face of the bride for only the husband to see but not the public or otherwise. If only it does not expose the bride's body.
There are rules in Islam that most people put a blind eye on. So do not be deceived by tradition as if it's part of a religious right or believe. This is just their culture.
And one thing you should all know is that, Most 'Hausa' is a tribe not religion. Most of the people in Niger dress up like Muslims based on their looks but doesn't mean they are Muslims. I believe most of you know 'President Tinibu' of Nigeria, Is he a Muslim? No, but he dresses like one... It's just their culture, has nothing to do with Islam. So please know the difference between Culture and religion before you pass any judgement.
Nope! There is. There is something known as power of ijbar...i am a Christian but as a student of law, I had to study Islamic law in my country & we was taught that; a father can marry off his daughter
Errm so bro please what’s actually happening there … because your explanation is clear but differs from what’s happening here
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Which law are you talking about bro? "Power of ijbar" In Islam, the laws we follow are only 2. Thus what the Qur'an says and the Sunnah (thus the teachings of Prophet Muhammad S.A.W) and there is no where you can find the "power of ijbar" as you're saying. Maybe it's a law set by and Islamic country but not Islam as a religion. Cus there is nowhere the Qur'an state a law that the Haddith disagrees or otherwise.
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Not getting you clearly bro
The key soap package dey tear me😂😂😂
The girl is not ready, why would she sit for a good design on the hand 😂😂😂
The name of the tradition be shy tradition 😂😂😂
Islam does not allow forced marriage it's culture that do that.
In Islam a woman have all the Right to chose the man she wants to Marry
Point of correction Scanty. And there's a Difference between culture and Religion, most people have a grey area on it.
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Cultural is changing 😂😂😂 ei scanty 😅
What u talk for my mind ge this herh Scanty 😂😂😂😂
Scanty your facial expression is sending me…. Charlie the thing Dey bore scanty😢😅
That marriage might last longer than most of these modern marriages. Dey there
This is sad. This shouldn’t be illegal. Isn’t this against some kinda law. It’s obviously against her wishes 😢
You meant to say "this shouldn't be legal" lm sure
I can’t also dance on my wedding day for 1 million dollars 😂😂😂. It stresses me out always.
Me too. I'm very shy
Red flag the bride is not happy 😂😂😂😂
It's disgusting!
Once again I want to remind y’all that Islam is perfect but Muslims aren’t. If any muslim does anything unlawful, blame it on their attitudes and shortcomings not Islam. Islam endorses early marriage but not force married Subhanallah 😢This video clearly shows the girl isn’t interested but no shy. Acting shy during your marriage is cultural heritage not Islam and some people are shy naturally. Whatever may be the case the girl can object to it if she’s not interested in the guy. If this is a forced marriage, everyone involved will be judged by Allah😢
I think say na mood swing be that coz eii😂😂😂
The lady should just report for rape case if the guy force himself on her
Am sure is some 14 years old girl
That why the girl is believing that way
Their forcing her 😢
If she is not in support she will not be there
It doesn't make sense, why force someone, there will be divorce or cheating
Most times when the woman loves more than the guy tge relationship works very true ❤
Nope it’s the other way. The guy has to love more. On average, After women give birth, they’re not going anywhere tbh.
@@stephanie9463 it is true but women easily forgive in a relationship than me
Not true
Women feed on men naturally
So when the man loves the woman more the relationship works better cos the woman will worship a man who shows her crazy love
Nope. It’s when the man loves the woman. With that the marriage works
@stephaniesomuah1456 Most men give up when the woman is not giving out her best in a relationship.
😂😂😂maybe she was forced
It really sad others are doing this. Purposely done for money.😂
She is happy! she just doesn’t want to leave her parents house
Maybe the parents and the people around took something from him coz eiii😅😅😅
Oh it could be culture too..
I learnt about one recently where the bride is suppose to frown while the groom's family throw money on her and she finally smiles when she's satisfied 😂
this culture de3 we can keep i have sisters🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Scanty it happened in Mauritania, and clapping and singing of traditional songs.And the lady you dare not disobey your parents
You dare disobey them when it comes to your marriage. It’s acceptable in the religion. In fact marrying someone you have no love for is a sin.
eiii ahh well mede3 if the wedding no dey excite the girl pass me its not for me😌😌
Scanty wey house na u dey for mawuli
Scanty ein face gestures be funny 😂😂😂😂pass
The guy too no dey shy
may be she's shy🤣🤣🤣
she go cheat till death do dem part🤣🤣🤣🤣
Here we don’t understand “excuse me to say” oooo💔😆you’ve said it masa😆😆😆😆😆
Yo scanty the way u dey talk de3 u go get problem oo😂😂😂
Ebi sad oo, she's not the only lady in the world but dem claim am
women choose their partners. men have no choice.
Echeck like scanty get more experience for marriage inside 😂.. my brother when you get married way you no tell us😃😃.. well said bro🙌
2:40 I sure say Ibi loan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Telepathy?
“…because cultural is changing…”?
Man scanty for find some water cos eii.
When are you please breaking down SIMMER DOWN by blacko please 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Please send your boys to come and cover the Awutu Awubia festival this Monday it’s a very nice one😩
If by force, I will put the ring 💍 on your finger was a person 😂
Ahhh Scanty 😂😂😂😂
What if she is not a minor😢Also think abouts that one too
Cus we haven't seen the face
Naaa I’m sure she is extremely shy type
There are more appealing arranged marriages than this.. She may not be a minor but she's just not into it... Sad..
This nonsense cultural things must stop ✋️.
Some parents are just too desperate
Eiii u too who talk u say ebi by force marriage she no know say he Dey come wear the ring give her ern dem cover her face so she Dey shy
is from Mauritania marriage 🇲🇷 🇲🇷 🇲🇷 🇲🇷 🇲🇷
Scanty cool down 😂
😂😂😂 shes shy...
1. She's clearly underage (like you said )
2. She may have wanted a wedding in Bahamas or meldivas
3.she dey in her men's
4. She preg
5. She doesn't love the guy
Does not force marriage. Is a culture pls
She's shy
is Mauritania people bro 😂😂😂
This is quite normal in the Islamic religion
Yoo scanty. Where is Bants and rants with adjoa.
I'm also very shy of dancing
Today dieeer I’m early here😂😂😂😂…. Debiaaaa 1k comments today dieeer at least just 7 …. Small small… I will get there😂😂😂😂
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Scanty point of correction it not the religion it the tribe please
No parent is allowed to force their children into marriage in Islam. Some ignorant people think women dont have rights in Islam and whatever her parents or husband wants, she does. Culture is different from religion lets be guided.
4:28 Disgusting eiiii scanty 😂 somebody in fingers
She dey preg so he for marry am
Naaa she is shy
It’s disgusting
I’m here in 2024 nov just to see how kss started lol 😂
Quick loan wedding paaa hahahhaha😅
This time I disagree with Scanty. Some real educative muslim are really shy in their marriage ceremony.
She be Minor
This is definitely Nigerians because Ghana Muslims we do not force marriage like this
In Islam there are things that are required for marriage to happen . It doesn't matter where you are from, culture etc, as long as you are Muslim that is required. But there are other things that vary from culture to culture which is not forbidden. So don't look at it from your point of "how marriage should be done", but be open to learn and understand how things are done in other religions and culture.
Na where’s the gal face 😂😂😂😂😂
Did I hear cultural is changing 😅😅
Eiii scanty
She most def must be a minor. In 2023 they still do this. This is shouldn’t be allowed
First person here, by force married 😂😂😂
Scanty is the 21st century 4 me am even shocked they still do polygamy😂
This argument does not hold water, I see nothing wrong with polygamy...
Nothing wrong with polygamy if one can afford and maintain it holistically
Is it right for pple to get married and have 2 or 3 girlfriends in addition or have polygamy as an alternative?
You are shocked of polygamy but not homosexuality and transgender people 😂😂😂
Perhaps her parents force her to marry a rich man:the guy is rich.....
Today am first yehhhhh!!! Scanty 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Scanty please learn the difference between Islam and northerners .
bro it beautiful 😂
When we talk about things being archaic we need to consider religion. Religion is for the past and technology is the future . 2023 and we have people believing the Bible and Quran 😏
You dey here wae you make dey cry on bike😂
Pls in Islam we cover the bride like that… u can obviously see she is shy probably Becos her parents and people present der …I would hv done same cos I’m da shy type tooo … I think ur conclusion is not accurate
If u are shy, do ur finger also needs to be forced to accept a ring from someone u love?
Eiii this shyness is on another level
Islam does not need ring to show
dem go beat u peerrrhh , continue dissing wai..............
This is not Islam. This is a tribal something. In Islam we were no rings..
I think this is at the reception cos trust me this is not anything islamic. Islamic marriage is almost the same with Akan engagement or traditional marriage but few things are quiet different. Islamic marriage is mostly done at the ladies house or the mosque. The ladies father with his witness , the husband to bes father and the witness and the imams the officiate or ordain the marriage thas all. But what you guys mostly see in the Muslim communities are the celebration part in other words reception. So all this ring wearing are all fabricated like the same way Christians adopted a white man's way of marriage call wedding.😢😢😢😢 . Every marriage program u see in zango passed through the same process but only the reception side changes based on the people involve...
Christmas came early, I guess
HAUSA MUSIC and MOSQUITO noise....Choose one😀
Make mosquito bite me die
scanty be real geee 💪
the woman is shy.*
Please scanty this is not about Muslim is about tribe or ethnic groups in some parts of the country some of this things doesn't really happened here but in some parts of northern Ghana
Its not right
Slow kraa 💔
Quran 4:19 says “It is not lawful for you to become heirs to women against their will”
You forced marriage is forbidden in Islam.
Islam simply means submission to the will of the almighty Allah. So if a family is forcing marriage to their children, just know that they are not Muslims.
Their dressing or names are not enough to describe them Muslims.
When it comes to matters of faith, please find out what the doctrines/teachings of the faith say about the subject matter before you make a comment (it’s very important)
Note: some people life style are highly influenced by their culture on the blind side of their religious teachings.
Cheers 🥂 😊
Exactly! A simple research would’ve avoided this. Dude seems to already have a problem with Muslim.
Naa... She Islamic Gifts🎁
No offence to my muslim brothers and sisters but this thing still dey go on for muslims demma community. The way the guy shadda you fit see sey he get money. So ebi something wey dem dey do oo. S3sei koraa oba nu y3 akordaa.
Muslims wey fit give demma daughter hand in marriage in advance, but just sey if she bi minor a she still go dey ein parents demma side. But she's someone's wife in advance😅. This thing too dey go on for the northern side waaa. No offence but it's true
Sir, even Christians, Hindus, Koreans, Chinese, basically almost every culture has some of these things going on. Stop asserting it to one religion.
We see parents push their wards into marriage for a piece of cloth, have you ever heard any Muslim blame it on Christianity? No.
Don’t we see and hear of people around the world giving their kids out for marriage from birth? Are those also religion based or cultural?.
Forcing your girl child into marriage is totally haram/ a sin in Islam. Such marriages are considered void.
Let’s act educated please.
Barrister Scanty 😂😂😅
W'ano p3 asem paa..😂
I disagree with Scanty on this matter today. I don't think there is enough evidence for most of the claims he's making. Also, some of the comments weren't necessary and came off as disrespectful to certain groups and cultures especially when there's almost no evidence for his assertions. People engaging in archaic and backward lifestyles can do better, yes and so can Scanty. 😊
Seeing clearly that the lady was refusing the ring is not enough evidence..? Well……😮
If they were Christians, I bet u wouldn't thnk of any disrespectful act. What is it about muslims that's different from Christians that when u me tion something about them pɛ, probablem?
@@sirlord_7235 Ask again.
They are too needlessly sensitive@@sirlord_7235