K-POP And The Extermination of MASCULINITY || Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan حفظه الله

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  • @SalafiOnyx
    @SalafiOnyx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    Parents and future parents: protect your sons from being influenced by it and protect your daughters from falling for it (and disney princes)

  • @Testbooster7
    @Testbooster7 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    It was narrated that ‘Ali (رضي الله عنه) said:
    The Prophet (ﷺ) had a large head, a reddish complexion, large hands and feet, a large beard, a long line of hair from his chest to his navel, and large joints. He walked as if going downhill, energetically. He was neither short not tall. I have never seen anyone like him before or since.
    Musnad Ahmad 1122
    Narrated Al-Bara:
    The Prophet (ﷺ) was of moderate height having broad shoulders (long) hair reaching his ear-lobes. Once I saw him in a red cloak and I had never seen a more handsome than him."
    Sahih al-Bukhari 3551

  • @taimurahmad
    @taimurahmad 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    True. We need to discuss these matters because unfortunately young men cam fall into other extremes by learning m'an"h"ood from kfr(chasing w'm'n, unneeded harshness/arrogance) etc

  • @E.Cerulean
    @E.Cerulean 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    جزاكم الله خيرا وبارك الله فيكم

  • @ahle.hadith
    @ahle.hadith 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    جزاك الله خيرًا

  • @whyisthiscodenotworking
    @whyisthiscodenotworking 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Alhamdulillah ❤ usthad is talking about this
    Jazakallah khairan ❤

  • @An86115
    @An86115 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    What distinguishes Lion from Lionesse is his Mane .
    Barak Allahu Feekum . Ustadh it’s a plaque Allahu Almusta’an
    May Allah forgive us and guide us Ameen

  • @nikolaandelkovic5284
    @nikolaandelkovic5284 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    بارك الله فيكم، يا أستاذ، ونفع الدنيا بعلمكم وبكم!

  • @لاتداهن
    @لاتداهن 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    بارك الله فيك

  • @YousufS16
    @YousufS16 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @alikhalaf2023
    @alikhalaf2023 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Guardians have your sons to enjoy competitiveness, a good competitive nature can strengthen masculine confidence

  • @Truthseeker0824
    @Truthseeker0824 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    الحمدللہ
    Someone finally spoke on this issue. I have seen young girls totally lost in these so called k-pop women like men. May Allah guide us all. Ameen
    It's not only k-pop it's also k dramas that they watch. Totally crazy about those clean shaven no body haired lizard like smooth men. Gives me creep.

    • @goshbaby8531
      @goshbaby8531 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Truthseeker0824 fr same

    • @dawah93
      @dawah93 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      SUbhanAllah akhi watch on your tongue, insulting is not from the manners of a Muslim delete this phrase or edit it InShaAllah

    • @Stxrria
      @Stxrria 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Truthseeker0824 Koreans naturally don’t grow beards though, it’s also not normal in their society to wear makeup this is only for celebrities (idols).
      K-Dramas have men who act masculine as well. I think the stereotyping can easily become xenophobic. Yes steer clear from feminine men, but do not label all East Asian men as feminine just because they can’t grow beards.

    • @MuslimMessenger267
      @MuslimMessenger267 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @@Truthseeker0824 You do realize that in east asia, a lot of men are naturaly not hairy. They simply don't have that much body hair.
      You really shouldn't insult someones biology.

    • @yes-xw5qx
      @yes-xw5qx 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A couple have

  • @pinkymoh9713
    @pinkymoh9713 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    They dont only promote skin care like girls they also do plastic surgery to look beautiful it's a pandemic in South Korea.

    • @mr.lastchance
      @mr.lastchance 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      they also shape their eyebrows.

  • @musafirghayrmaeruf1
    @musafirghayrmaeruf1 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    And listen to this further:
    By Allah I heard an Imam speak about a case where a Jinn had been cast by the will and power of Allah(this is a recent case)out of a persons body.
    And long story short the jinn accepted Islam.
    Then the jinn said(and I personally believe this story) that there is 2 weapons the shayateen use that are most powerful in the modern day against men.
    One of them I do not remember but the other they said was anime.
    The jinn allegedly said that anime are used by shayateen to make you gay.
    And when you look at anime and I used to watch this you will find so many "men" there look like women.
    Allahu Alam if it is a true story but it makes sense to me.
    Adding K and K pop to this and all Puzzles pieces fall into place.
    A feminization of men is occurring.

    • @Testbooster7
      @Testbooster7 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Perhaps better not to mention that you watched it bro, but yes this is a thing which men all over watch and are exposed to seeing foolish characters with female looks.

    • @userxce
      @userxce 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      two of the biggest challenges I have had in my life after accepting Islam were music and anime/drawings. Wallahi they are a tool of the shaytan.

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@userxce​​ Allah tests us all in different ways and it only makes a person stronger when they overcome these challenges. Some are tested with wars, some are tested with pride, some are tested with their own families, some are tested with the opposite or the same gender, some are tested with anger, some are tested with bad parents, some are tested with drugs, desires and music, some are tested with good health and wealth and some are tested with poverty, hunger and sickness, some are tested with anxiety, depression, past trauma and all kinds of mental illnesses.

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@userxce (2:155). We will certainly test you with something of fear and hunger, and loss of property, lives and crops, but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere,
      (18:7). Verily We have made all that is on earth as an adornment for it, in order to test them [humankind] and see which of them are best in conduct.
      (67:2). Who has created death and life, so that He may test you [and see] which o f you is best in conduct, and He is the Almighty, Oft-Forgiving;
      (27:40). One who had knowledge of the scripture said: I will bring it to you in the twinkling of an eye. Then when he saw it set before him, Sulayman said: This is a favour from my Lord, to test whether I will be grateful or ungrateful. Whoever is grateful, his gratitude is to his own benefit, and whoever is ungrateful, then surely Allah is self-sufficient, most generous.
      (2:214). Or do you think that you will enter paradise without such [trials] as came to those who passed away before you? They encountered suffering and adversity, and were so shaken in spirit that even the Messenger and the believers who were with him said: When will the help of Allah come? Verily, the help of Allah
      is [always] near.
      Sorry for such long comments. Its just I like such conversations.

  • @abdurrahmanhabeeb633
    @abdurrahmanhabeeb633 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    what is the poem used in the intro
    جزاكم الله خيرا

    • @Bz-12345
      @Bz-12345 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I think it's a poem called 'I am Salafi' or 'This is my Manhaj'
      و أنتم فجزاكم الله خيرا

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Yep "this is my Manhaj "

  • @Leon-S_kennedy
    @Leon-S_kennedy 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If a person loves a sin he becomes a disbeliever? Because the smallest degree of faith is to hate an evil with the heart, but if he loves such and such a sin what happens?

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Leon-S_kennedy dont worry about it akhi. Dont be so obsessed with t(a)kfir, you might end up (o)ppressing your brothers or yourself. leave it to the scholars.

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think you're suffering from wiswas.

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If a person loves that Allah is disobeyed or he has no problem with Him being disobeyed then that's a serious problem. However, if a person falls weak because of human nature then its not kufr, simple as that. Now move on from this before you kill yourself. Love is not even the right word to begin with when it comes to sins, these are just desires and nobody is free of such desires. The hadith you mentioned is about Allah being disobeyed and you hating it with your heart is the weakest of faith. No, you don't have access to anyone's heart just because a person is watching a movie with some shirky elements doesn't mean he's pleased with Shirk. Now move on

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Either you're trying to spread shubuhat here or you're letting the Shaytan play with your mind. If its the latter then seek refuge with Allah and move on because such whispers will never end.

  • @abuAbdul-Mumeet
    @abuAbdul-Mumeet 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The Japanese do not have different words for men and women for Mr and Mrs, they use the same words for both: san, sama, chan. All three words are used for both in Japan! This also suggests their language is built to affect people in such a way that it blurs the lines between men and women somewhat. When you understand the exact usage and contexts of each of those words and you know the cultural meanings and applications then you will get exactly what I mean. It is way too much to explain here in text, sorry, but it is to do with the different societal and contextual applications of those words as well as what they mean.

    • @abuAbdul-Mumeet
      @abuAbdul-Mumeet 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Furthermore, the Japanese samurai "nobility" used to be just like the Greeks and the Romans in the sense they were pedorasts who took little boys under their "mentorship" and buggered them by force and taught them to do the same to other boys when they grow up! And every year, the Japanese have a penis worship festival where they carry a portable shrine with a large stubby penis sticking out of the shrine and they worship it and they have chocolate penises and all the men, women and even the children walk around eating them. Disgusting on so many levels! Immodest women and homosexual inclined men eating chocolate penises and making children eat them and think it is normal too... unbelieveable!!!!
      And Japan pretends, just like England and America, to be a leading "civilized" nation of the world.... ugh! You just couldn't make this stuff up!

    • @letsthink8245
      @letsthink8245 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Hello. I studied Japanese and it’s not exactly true. They have the he as “kare” and she as “kanojo”. It’s true they dont use gender in speech much to refer to others but same can be said for other languages too. Let’s not jump to conclusions.
      Also -kun is used too for younger children, men, etc. There are also masculine ways of speaking such as with “Ore”, “Boku”, etc.

    • @Abdullah34610
      @Abdullah34610 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Turkish is also a genderless language, but I don't think that's what's causing the issue.
      Japan has a history of samurai and depicting men and women as distinct (at least that's what I understand from my shallow understanding). Modern day blurring of the genders is just that: modern. WWII probably has a lot to do with it.

  • @eisreturn
    @eisreturn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    in regards to skincare for men, as a woman, i dont think its emasculating. i dont find acne scars or dry skin or big pores attractive in a man.

    • @E.Cerulean
      @E.Cerulean 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Yes but men's skin are thicker than women and less sensitive to acne etc. There is a not-so-fine line between basic hygiene and care (hair, face, teeth etc) and obsession with skincare (sophisticated face mask with cucumber on eyes, day cream, night cream, face oil, serum, facial). The latter is specific to women, and nowadays it's way overboard by the way, trust me you don't need tons of products to achieve healthy skin, it has more to do with good hygiene, diet, sleep, stress management, quality moisturizer, exfoliation, etc. But anyway, obsessing over skincare is a girly thing, no doubt, and thats clearly what he is talking about.
      May Allah bless you

    • @mr.lastchance
      @mr.lastchance 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you're conflating skincare with make-up

    • @3bdurrahmaan
      @3bdurrahmaan 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Talbees iblees

    • @eisreturn
      @eisreturn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mr.lastchance masks and creams are not makeup

    • @eisreturn
      @eisreturn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@3bdurrahmaan what does that mean?

  • @OldenTreeCult
    @OldenTreeCult 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi everyone!!!!

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hi, hope you're doing well. May Allah bless you, Its much better to say Salaam so that we all get rewarded and benefit eachother as Muslims.

  • @Alysha177
    @Alysha177 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yeh BTS 😭

    • @Pixel_chaser
      @Pixel_chaser 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      May Allah protect us and our spouse from the and their fitna and our offspring and this generation

    • @Alysha177
      @Alysha177 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Pixel_chaser Ameen 😔

  • @DigitGangsta
    @DigitGangsta 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    They be still getting girls 😭

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      yeah, not REAL virtuous women. so they can keep them and the real women want real men

    • @Mark-eb8uf
      @Mark-eb8uf 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      @@DigitGangsta girls not women

    • @SA-ux4qt
      @SA-ux4qt 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And gay men are still getting guys. What's your point?

    • @Xilver_
      @Xilver_ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      its just kuffar doing zina, get married the proper way

    • @Wildbrufialler
      @Wildbrufialler 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they get women no real man wants brother

  • @MuslimMessenger267
    @MuslimMessenger267 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It should be mentioned that in east asia, a lot of men do not have much body hair naturaly.
    And there is nothing wrong or sinful about it. You really shouldn't insult someones biology like that. Ridiculing them.

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They can grow hair trust me Ive researched this. Its just less than Arabs. But they shave it, it's their culture (contrary to the fitrah)

    • @MuslimMessenger267
      @MuslimMessenger267 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @IslandWisdom To remove and shave the hair is wrong but some guys truly don't have much beard growth. Or only get it later.
      We really shouldn't shame muslim brothers who don't have an arab beard. It is genetics afterall.
      Our indonesian brothers don't have much hair either.

    • @IslandWisdom
      @IslandWisdom 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@MuslimMessenger267 Yes yes its ok if its not a lot akhi. But trust me its part of their culture to shave, so they have literally none at all and people think thats how they naturally are, thats the issue. But if u cant grow a lot its ok as long as you have some hair (if u can)

    • @MuslimMessenger267
      @MuslimMessenger267 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@IslandWisdom
      I know that it is part of their culture. In a lot of cultures, having facial hair is seen a "unkept" or ,,dirty"
      But i know guys who literally have baby skin. They have zero facial hair. Or just one or two hairs popping out.
      The command for men is not to grow the beard, just to leave it. Which means that a men does not have to worry about having/getting a beard.
      If you don't have it, its fine.
      Just don't remove what you have.

    • @ibnsulayman3660
      @ibnsulayman3660 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@MuslimMessenger267 yes but our Indonesian brothers don't look effeminate like these kpop singers

  • @UdruusJayyida
    @UdruusJayyida 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    جزاكم الله خيرا وبارك الله فيكم

  • @Mohamed_jeddah
    @Mohamed_jeddah 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    جزاكم الله خيرا