Dare forgot to mention that if you're marrying. Have lots and horses in your inventory and a good clan tier 2. For some reason, family and clan heads love horses. In my recent playthrough. I got married to Abagai for 3k and one steepe horse, and on another save game. I married Yana for 2k, one tyal horse and two steepe horse. The ai loves horses.
@@basileejero3768 well, my relations got so good with Rhaegea and the other leader that when they soon after died in a war against each other, I managed to convince most Empire clans to join my kingdom without even a need for a fight. The Empire was unified under the banner of Rome before my main character was 40 years old. I only wish I could have inherited their respective kingdoms lol Edit: for perspective, it costed be only about 4M to make all the clans join me save for a few 8 or 9 clans.
@Matheus Terra 4M? I can only dream... I play on console (p5), and it's a slow grind to make money. I'm going for Ira as well, but apparently, I need to be worthy as I am clan tier 2. Hopefully, she accepts.
@@basileejero3768 I'm playing on console too, Ps5, I did the Smithing trick with having my family sell the items for me, took me an year in game to go from zero to 2M, then another year to reach 10M and I was set.
I wanted Nadea for Nogand so badly...I felt personally offended when she was married to a Sturgian. I purposefully executed him as a warning to the AI and married Nogand to a good traditional Vlandian Wife for this playthrough.
Sora's a bit of a plank. Married Phaea, right after brother married Nadea. Both immediately got pregnant within days of their respective ceremonies, and once again days within the births of their first children. Two Aserai brothers living the dream.
Anyone know why we cant see stats for people we have not meet before ingame? was really handy for picking a husband or wife. But now i cant see any nobles stats before unless ive meet them.
It's called Fog of War. Like you said, you can't see the stats, only if you met the people before. I think it's in the game for a year or so. Idk if you are on console, but there's a cheat, where you can disable Fog of War so you can see the stats from all of them without meeting. I think the reason that Fog of War is in the game is that you can be surprised and not only going for stats. I almost married Ragnavards daughter Idrun in my first playthrough, luckily I didn't and went for Svana instead.
The advantage of marrying Sora over Ira is tje fact that Sora is member of a vassal clan, meaning you can bring her family to your faction IF you are planning to create your own kingdom If not, Ira is better most of the time...if you are going for an Imperial playthrough of course, and also its not that big of a deal, really...
Totally agree on Sora Here I thought I was the only one. Why not Megathia or Debana instead of Panalea? Both are younger with marginally better stats? Adricha and Vasilia are on the same tier as Sora if you are planning on reeving and executing everything and everyone in Calradia and want a wife that will revel in all the bloodshed with you.
and for what reason sora tops ira??? did i miss something? and author should know by now that player can not marry clan leaders. he really does not know that? this video is somewhat misleading.
For 3 days i tried very hard to marry rhagaea . Almost killed my system and when i got enough money and went on with proposal she told me you can marry my daughter and i thought fck it lets marry her she half her age 😂😂😂😂
If you have fiefs give them to your wife, they are still yours and after a while like about the time it takes for the trade thing to cool down, do it again. I play on an older version because the recent update messed up my current saves so I am not sure if this still works on the most recent update but it should. Also go to a settlement and play the board game with her, you have to beat her though to get relation increase. You might not be able to play games if your relation is in the negatives though, just trade fiefs until you get it up to like 0 or 2 then you should be good to play board games. I have not tried this method but I have read where others said to have your wife form a party near enemies to get captured then you rescue her. I have rescued / assisted them and their family members before marrying but for some reason the game resets the relation stats of your wife once you are married. Like if the stats start off at 2 and you get the stats up to 100 after a few battle assists / rescues, it will revert back to 2 after you marry her. Even small battles like a pack of looters helps.
Dare forgot to mention that if you're marrying. Have lots and horses in your inventory and a good clan tier 2. For some reason, family and clan heads love horses. In my recent playthrough. I got married to Abagai for 3k and one steepe horse, and on another save game. I married Yana for 2k, one tyal horse and two steepe horse. The ai loves horses.
Might also be them being Khuzaits
I got a camel so I should be fine 😎
Tyal horses are worth 8k Blud
@@KadenNorman-qk5yz in late game. 8k is like pocket change.
@@gre3nishsinx0Rgold4 I married Sora for 4k nothing else in year 1085
Have to love Ira. I have married her more times than anyone else in the entire game, and she rules.
Ira is mid, svana is best
@@chickenpurple6704 Nadea and svana are my top picks. If one die from childbirth i pick the other one a reboud wife.
@@chickenpurple6704svana is really good
Top 3 for me is svana is 1 Ira is 2 and elys 3
Ira always my goto
In my Campaign mode I just started, I married to Ira and married off my brother with Nadea, my roleplay is to unify the Empire via blood.
How did it turn out, if you don’t mind me asking?
How did it turn out???
@@basileejero3768 well, my relations got so good with Rhaegea and the other leader that when they soon after died in a war against each other, I managed to convince most Empire clans to join my kingdom without even a need for a fight. The Empire was unified under the banner of Rome before my main character was 40 years old.
I only wish I could have inherited their respective kingdoms lol
Edit: for perspective, it costed be only about 4M to make all the clans join me save for a few 8 or 9 clans.
@Matheus Terra 4M? I can only dream... I play on console (p5), and it's a slow grind to make money. I'm going for Ira as well, but apparently, I need to be worthy as I am clan tier 2. Hopefully, she accepts.
@@basileejero3768 I'm playing on console too, Ps5, I did the Smithing trick with having my family sell the items for me, took me an year in game to go from zero to 2M, then another year to reach 10M and I was set.
I wanted Nadea for Nogand so badly...I felt personally offended when she was married to a Sturgian. I purposefully executed him as a warning to the AI and married Nogand to a good traditional Vlandian Wife for this playthrough.
Thanks for this! i am currently in an Imperial playthrough, and was looking for a good wife.
Glad I could help!
Player characters can't marry king's queens or clan leaders I believe. If you marry a Male heir to a clan leader they leave your clan.
they change that have save where i have sutern empire becuse ragea dies and my spouce is ira and have control on hole faction.
@@radekplug Nice
They can't, but Ira isn't a clan leader. This will only be a problem if Rhagaea dies before you marry her.
ah, ira... I roleplay in my head that she runs away with me, sacrificing her southern empire throne rights ;P
35?! *shudders in DiCaprio*
This comment is underrated, but certainly not underage.
My thoughts exactly
Love the wife guides. Do more!
More to come!
Great stuff. Loving the Bannerlord content. I'll tell you when i stop loving it.
Debana has the best armor.
Dude small world, I married Ira with my characters name being Julius Caesar too lol
Sora's a bit of a plank. Married Phaea, right after brother married Nadea. Both immediately got pregnant within days of their respective ceremonies, and once again days within the births of their first children. Two Aserai brothers living the dream.
Anyone know why we cant see stats for people we have not meet before ingame? was really handy for picking a husband or wife. But now i cant see any nobles stats before unless ive meet them.
It's called Fog of War. Like you said, you can't see the stats, only if you met the people before. I think it's in the game for a year or so.
Idk if you are on console, but there's a cheat, where you can disable Fog of War so you can see the stats from all of them without meeting.
I think the reason that Fog of War is in the game is that you can be surprised and not only going for stats. I almost married Ragnavards daughter Idrun in my first playthrough, luckily I didn't and went for Svana instead.
I am having difficulty trying to get my big brother to marry Sora. Her father keeps offering up her younger sister instead
There's a mod to let you automate this feature in the tavern. It's been super helpful
@@TehFlush what mod?
@@RonRon-pz7ld arrange marriage for family I think it's called
Ira is the best one in my opinion, because you can be evil and she's fine with it; is the heir to one of the thrones; and has great stats and items.
Southern empire isn’t an option for me because I completely destroyed them.
The advantage of marrying Sora over Ira is tje fact that Sora is member of a vassal clan, meaning you can bring her family to your faction IF you are planning to create your own kingdom
If not, Ira is better most of the time...if you are going for an Imperial playthrough of course, and also its not that big of a deal, really...
Totally agree on Sora Here I thought I was the only one. Why not Megathia or Debana instead of Panalea? Both are younger with marginally better stats? Adricha and Vasilia are on the same tier as Sora if you are planning on reeving and executing everything and everyone in Calradia and want a wife that will revel in all the bloodshed with you.
6:41 i would pronounce it Fey-uh
I once meet phea as enemy with 260 party she good fighter.
Some of the best wives in the game, to be sure.
If only you could marry Rhagaea, she'd take the top spot, despite her age. 😭
I heard there was a mod that allows you to marry anyone.
SIMP
Ira, Nadea, Epipheria are probably top 3 :)
My guesses were horrendous LMAO!!! Only got 1 right.
@@DestroyerOfOgis You got two didn't you? Nadea and Ira.
@@thebiglebrowski3695 No, top 3 was Phaea, *Ira* and Sora. Nadea was fourth though
@@DestroyerOfOgis Ohhhh I see what you mean now
What impact do the personality traits actually have?
wait...this...this isn't Sturgian armour :s
Sturgian armour 😩😩😩
@@DestroyerOfOgis Armour Sturgian 😩😩😩
@@RaggaBaby Vlandian nightmare 🗿🗿🗿
Which one has the best armor?
and for what reason sora tops ira??? did i miss something? and author should know by now that player can not marry clan leaders. he really does not know that? this video is somewhat misleading.
For 3 days i tried very hard to marry rhagaea . Almost killed my system and when i got enough money and went on with proposal she told me you can marry my daughter and i thought fck it lets marry her she half her age 😂😂😂😂
late but you cant marry faction leaders at all so keep that in mind
Nice and young .dare to game 2022
Ephipheria only gave me 2 kids 😭
Does anyone know how to increase relationships with spouses? I’ve tried giving gifts but that didn’t work.
Do missions for them
If you have fiefs give them to your wife, they are still yours and after a while like about the time it takes for the trade thing to cool down, do it again. I play on an older version because the recent update messed up my current saves so I am not sure if this still works on the most recent update but it should.
Also go to a settlement and play the board game with her, you have to beat her though to get relation increase. You might not be able to play games if your relation is in the negatives though, just trade fiefs until you get it up to like 0 or 2 then you should be good to play board games.
I have not tried this method but I have read where others said to have your wife form a party near enemies to get captured then you rescue her.
I have rescued / assisted them and their family members before marrying but for some reason the game resets the relation stats of your wife once you are married. Like if the stats start off at 2 and you get the stats up to 100 after a few battle assists / rescues, it will revert back to 2 after you marry her.
Even small battles like a pack of looters helps.
@@davidwebb1428 I tried giving fief to wife but that doesn't work. Cant give her anything, can just make her troop leader but nothing more
To increase relation just get her in your Party and defeat enemy nobles
Ira is best grill
You said theres so many imperial options...
Then say #5 is 35 lmao
Marry Ira have an heir from last emperor
Build empire kingdom ,unite 3 empire , Go to war!!!!!
Oh yeah I got Nadia first try
I got it back
37k for phaea
I never take my wife's armor. I never even thought to do it!
YEET
YOTE
YOELP
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
yo ngl any top 5 list without Corein is trash
Corein isnt Empire but I also agree with the sentiment, as she is goals for half my playthroughs.
@@ColtNomad Down with the Empire!!!
Only problem with corein is her negative character traits. Particularly cruel.b
@@noblej7897same goes for Ira. I avoid negative traits unless it's a villain playthrough
The dubious little goblin is neat and all if you’re on your villain arc but Ladogual is best welshfu.