the way Hungani looks at her is so cute omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!awwww u guys are the best enjoy ur lives God has a plan for you ihnore the hate comments.tough times dont last only tough beautiful people last lots of love!
Personally for me, negative comments are the worst. Especially in my case i take them to heart and it eats up my self esteem. 💯 so with what Steph is saying where she ignores and deletes the negative comments, i think i should do the same.... its completely unhealthy to have all the negative energy around me. Thank you for this Hungani and Stephanie. The Ndlovu Gang... u guys are truly incredible and genuine. Love u guys. Have an awesome weekend 😎
I used to be like that as well...Every comment thrown at me I take it to heart until I dealt with my "issues" , childhood trauma. So maybe look at yourself and ask yourself what it is that happened to you that you never dealt with. That could be the case, I dont know.
I also cannot handle negative comments. This is why I’m not even on social media because wow it can be rough out there. People will attack your personality yohhhh sana 😅
Yhooo just like me,,,,, I think I can't handle to be in the public space where everyone can hev anything to say about me,,, Especially now as we are such a toxic generation, I can't handle negative comments yhoooo!
“It’s about how you say it.” That has to be some of the most critical life advice one can get on differing w/ others maturely, which is more constructive.
thank you so much for this. ♥not everyone loves what we do as people, not everyone will cheer for us. It helps that the positive feedback from others keeps us going. I love yall's spirit. it's inspiring
There are people out there who are not happy with themselves and take their frustrations out of others .....to my amazing couple keep up the good job that you are doing keep entertaining us there is nothing wrong that you are doing i can listen to your channel the whole day ....may the good God grant you strength to see your child grow to be strong like you......i love you my favorite couple
Loved this ❤️❤️ People are so bitter and they take it own on others. I used to talk back but eventually I realized that it was time wasting people will always continue, so now I just ignore and skip and live my life.
I think I'm so good on ignoring the bad comments,I remember when I was at secondary school people used to say a lot of bad things about me but I never confronted anyone people didn't understand me how I did it coz didn't say anything,even at work place some people may comment negatively but I never comment coz I don't want to give people that power,I ignore them and life goes on,I just don't care I guess I'm living my life,coz most of the negative comments comes from the insecurities and it has to cure so I don't care.
I avoid confrontation by all means, like it's leprosy to me so I literally withdraw and leave people be. It hurts deeply but ya... I loved Steph's passion on this topic, nje from the intro she went straight to it🎯I wanna be you when I grow up stru #goals
Negative words used to bother me a lot, but I have come to realize that there opinions really don't matter to me , what is important to me is what God thinks of me or unless it's coming from people I care about like parents or hubby but for the rest of them!! since they have nothing better to do with there time they can continue planning on how I should live my life
I don't entertain negative people. I'd just tell myself I'm not here for anyone. In short they don't have the passion to believe in people greater than themselves.
Context is very important. I have learnt this with Journalist now...They will write negative stories about people without even getting the context of the full story and make it a "headline" which is what people tend to do really...they take the negative and run with it ... So much negativity 😩😩
I just live for this channel. Pretty much been here since day one and I've watched every video. This is the first video ever on TH-cam as a whole that I actually take the time to comment, I just get awkward commenting on here lol, but best believe I do like, been subscriber since day one and my notification bell is on... I just love your content, guys. Its different and so authentic. Usually couples on TH-cam are so predictable and pretty much recycle each others content(Not hating on anyone)... I get that, that's probably amazing to some of us and that's okay... But I gotta acknowledge the new feel you guys bring to the whole "TH-cam couple channel" environment(I couldn't find any other word apart of environment lol... Movement maybe??)... I love how real you guys are, I love that I get to learn through this channel. I like how every video is unpredictable. Keep up the good work. Stay blessed and happy🌻
Hi guys. I was rather perturbed by this topic when I watched this video last night. Two things I wanted to say to say to you; In my personal experience I have always said, when a person says something negative to me, it has nothing to do with me, but things that are not going right in their lives. On a Christian perspective I want to encourage you with Jesus words when He said: "Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul..." (Matt. 10:28) You are good, period and that may rattle some people's demons
Aaaah people with negative comments are just psychologically damaged they need serious help. Thank you Hungani and Steph this was helpful on how to deal with negative comments. You guys are lovely😍 . your # 1 fun from Malawi😃😃😃
Personally, I have developed this thick skin towards negativity and that helped me to go through the most without being fazed.. However, it ain't easy though.
Toxic trait to negative people whom I have a relationship with is to avoid them and distance myself from them. But the older I’m getting I’m working on having the uncomfortable conversation about them. Never had an intentional negative comment from a stranger(on social media) thank goodness
I will never understand why a person would waste even a second on people that they not like??? It doesn’t make sense to me…because you can just ignore instead of being mean to others.
We all do weird things for fame and likes and trust me behind those walls of social media there's just one tiny person with mental issues ....trying to avoid the fact that they need help by making others feel bad . It's really hard to deal with social anxiety but I like how steph says that she takes a social media break when things turn sour . YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE TO BE MEAN AND BITTER TO BE HEARD ❤. I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH .( Hey Hungs ,Did you get a new ring for steph ? 😂🤔)
I think that some people are just so bitter and insecure with themselves, so they project that onto others and it’s so cringe🥴 . What Steph said about people picking on kids is actually the reason I was so scared to post my son for like over a year since he was born🙆🏻♀️I literally just started getting comfortable with the idea a few months ago. Also I believe in blocking 🤣I don’t play games with negative nancies! You guys are awesome though! Your platform will always have some haters but the love far outweighs them 🙂
I have a problem with people like this Rodwell nton nton mxxxm they read captions without understanding and comment rubbish 🗑 next time wena Rodwell learn to watch the video before commenting I feel like slaping you right now☹
Further comments on this topic, some wise words from wiser people: "How we see ourselves, how we see each other, should be determined by us and by people who generally do not like us". "Where inside myself should I look for answers to external human problems that defy one's best efforts. I learnt that some people just refuse to learn, if learning isn't good for them, doesn't profit them, they are not interested". (Sydney Poitier)
Personally for me I use to take negative comments personally but iv outgrown that and just say whatever and move on. I still have a good night's sleep irrespective of wat someone said negatively about me. Pls advice were to buy Ndlovu merchandise
With me, i clap back shame… sorry but you say something negative to me, I give it back to you…. If you want me to learn something from you, then you will say it to me nicely full stop…. Someone used to body shame me and I used to cry about it. Until I said you know what, enough it’s enough…. I clap back, and that was the last time they did it.
Yho people can be rude hey, I wish we were more kind hey. I started my channel as well and fortunately I haven't received negative comments yet but I'm so scared😭😂
Some of my whatsapp contacts aren't saved so that I never come across their statuses. They've hinted that they think I have GB whatsapp 🤣 kanti I don't want to see them talking down at people with different beliefs. I don't want to witness their passive aggression because I'm just like them and I might post a passive aggressive response. If you choose to talk about/at me when you have my number, you don't get deliver those messages.
I've have had my cousins call me "gogo" just because I'm 5 years older than them. I mean I played with them ,but when we arrive in places where they have to introduce me they'll be like this is "gogo"and I don't like it.i prefer my name after all.In most cases I feel like they introduce my age instead of introducing me as a person. We hardly go out and my age is not mentioned, even when we are with an uber driver my age is on their lips.Am I too insensitive because I sometimes don't see the reason for them to say my age always. And I'm always this quiet person, I don't drink alcohol when we go out.Im just the boring type as they say.I don't even dance although I just engage in topics that we usually have.Am I insensitive ?
Remove yourself from that situation or share with them how it makes you feel. Life is short, you can’t always be tolerant of what hurts you. Ignore or remove yourself.
The way H looks at you Steph is purely love...it's really beautiful and I love how H gave you the platform today..lol.. Anyway is it possible to have your merch in Botswana?
Unfortunately I don't really know how to deal with negative comments/people, I just take their abuse& it usually weighs down on me. I can tolerate negative comments directed at me but directing them to innocent kids is just so wrong & when their parents/guardians defend them negative people would say ,"why put them on social media?" Like being put on social media calls for bullying &shaming. Some even go as far as calling parents names or bitter 🤦♀️
Personally, I have developed this thick skin towards negativity and that helped me to go through the most without being fazed.. However, it ain't easy though.
the way Hungani looks at her is so cute omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!awwww u guys are the best enjoy ur lives God has a plan for you ihnore the hate comments.tough times dont last only tough beautiful people last lots of love!
Dealing with negative comments, well I don't give them power or my attention that way they lose their value. Works everytime
Personally for me, negative comments are the worst. Especially in my case i take them to heart and it eats up my self esteem. 💯 so with what Steph is saying where she ignores and deletes the negative comments, i think i should do the same.... its completely unhealthy to have all the negative energy around me. Thank you for this Hungani and Stephanie. The Ndlovu Gang... u guys are truly incredible and genuine. Love u guys. Have an awesome weekend 😎
I used to be like that as well...Every comment thrown at me I take it to heart until I dealt with my "issues" , childhood trauma. So maybe look at yourself and ask yourself what it is that happened to you that you never dealt with. That could be the case, I dont know.
I also cannot handle negative comments. This is why I’m not even on social media because wow it can be rough out there. People will attack your personality yohhhh sana 😅
Yhooo just like me,,,,, I think I can't handle to be in the public space where everyone can hev anything to say about me,,,
Especially now as we are such a toxic generation, I can't handle negative comments yhoooo!
“It’s about how you say it.”
That has to be some of the most critical life advice one can get on differing w/ others maturely, which is more constructive.
Now I understand why we had comprehension tests at school💔💔
thank you so much for this. ♥not everyone loves what we do as people, not everyone will cheer for us. It helps that the positive feedback from others keeps us going. I love yall's spirit. it's inspiring
♥️
There are people out there who are not happy with themselves and take their frustrations out of others .....to my amazing couple keep up the good job that you are doing keep entertaining us there is nothing wrong that you are doing i can listen to your channel the whole day ....may the good God grant you strength to see your child grow to be strong like you......i love you my favorite couple
Steph you look beautifu, i can see where the glow is coming from cant wait to hear Good news soon🤗😍😍
Waiting too 🙈🙈🙈
There are real devils children out here guys, please do not pay attention to them. Look at the love you are getting... it is WIIIILD!!!🔥🔥
Loved this ❤️❤️
People are so bitter and they take it own on others. I used to talk back but eventually I realized that it was time wasting people will always continue, so now I just ignore and skip and live my life.
I think I'm so good on ignoring the bad comments,I remember when I was at secondary school people used to say a lot of bad things about me but I never confronted anyone people didn't understand me how I did it coz didn't say anything,even at work place some people may comment negatively but I never comment coz I don't want to give people that power,I ignore them and life goes on,I just don't care I guess I'm living my life,coz most of the negative comments comes from the insecurities and it has to cure so I don't care.
Hi gang, I agree Hungani why comment without listening people nje get bored
I avoid confrontation by all means, like it's leprosy to me so I literally withdraw and leave people be. It hurts deeply but ya...
I loved Steph's passion on this topic, nje from the intro she went straight to it🎯I wanna be you when I grow up stru #goals
Negative words used to bother me a lot, but I have come to realize that there opinions really don't matter to me , what is important to me is what God thinks of me or unless it's coming from people I care about like parents or hubby but for the rest of them!! since they have nothing better to do with there time they can continue planning on how I should live my life
You guys are amazing 👏 ugly comments are just people showing they're true colours. Stay amazing
I don't entertain negative people. I'd just tell myself I'm not here for anyone.
In short they don't have the passion to believe in people greater than themselves.
Ill keep saying this
This lady is beautiful 🥺
I always remind myself that how people see me is not my problem then I move on. I don't even try and entertain the fact the is something wrong with me
Context is very important. I have learnt this with Journalist now...They will write negative stories about people without even getting the context of the full story and make it a "headline" which is what people tend to do really...they take the negative and run with it ... So much negativity 😩😩
I just live for this channel. Pretty much been here since day one and I've watched every video. This is the first video ever on TH-cam as a whole that I actually take the time to comment, I just get awkward commenting on here lol, but best believe I do like, been subscriber since day one and my notification bell is on... I just love your content, guys. Its different and so authentic. Usually couples on TH-cam are so predictable and pretty much recycle each others content(Not hating on anyone)... I get that, that's probably amazing to some of us and that's okay... But I gotta acknowledge the new feel you guys bring to the whole "TH-cam couple channel" environment(I couldn't find any other word apart of environment lol... Movement maybe??)... I love how real you guys are, I love that I get to learn through this channel. I like how every video is unpredictable. Keep up the good work.
Stay blessed and happy🌻
I have grown a thick skin over negative comments, thankful that they don’t move or bother me anymore. 🙌🏽
Am a trooper in the army of the Ndlovu Gang,please I will fight every single anti Ndlovu!!! Steph is glowing omg❤️❤️
You are such an amazing couple. I'm definitely inspired by you guys. Much love from Swaziland!😚
🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿
Congrats on your new journey guys❤️❤️u beautiful steph
Hi guys. I was rather perturbed by this topic when I watched this video last night. Two things I wanted to say to say to you; In my personal experience I have always said, when a person says something negative to me, it has nothing to do with me, but things that are not going right in their lives. On a Christian perspective I want to encourage you with Jesus words when He said: "Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul..." (Matt. 10:28) You are good, period and that may rattle some people's demons
Very wise and powerful words
Aaaah people with negative comments are just psychologically damaged they need serious help. Thank you Hungani and Steph this was helpful on how to deal with negative comments. You guys are lovely😍 . your # 1 fun from Malawi😃😃😃
"Have a good life"😂❤argh man you gotta love Steph❤this was a great video.I'm just like Steph I block,period!love you guys
Personally, I have developed this thick skin towards negativity and that helped me to go through the most without being fazed.. However, it ain't easy though.
i juss luv y'all man. keep being one of the coolest realest ones out here ! xxx will always admire your courage to share and be real, we appreciate it
some people in life are unhatable and you guyz are one of them
Toxic trait to negative people whom I have a relationship with is to avoid them and distance myself from them. But the older I’m getting I’m working on having the uncomfortable conversation about them.
Never had an intentional negative comment from a stranger(on social media) thank goodness
10k subscribers to 300k😭😭May God bless your hustle❤
Love y'all, keep the fire 🔥
I will never understand why a person would waste even a second on people that they not like??? It doesn’t make sense to me…because you can just ignore instead of being mean to others.
Thanks for addressing the 🐘 in room 😘
Love the video. After a while you get used to them, but you can reach a breaking point! I've been seeing something
300k subbies we almost there 💃💃much love for you guys 🇱🇸
I just love you guys ❤️
Thank you guys so much for this! I learned so much!
Almost 300K subbies 🥳🥳🥳🥳
10k left🥳🥳🥳🥳then booooooom 💥💥💥300k❤💫
We all do weird things for fame and likes and trust me behind those walls of social media there's just one tiny person with mental issues ....trying to avoid the fact that they need help by making others feel bad . It's really hard to deal with social anxiety but I like how steph says that she takes a social media break when things turn sour . YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE TO BE MEAN AND BITTER TO BE HEARD ❤. I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH .( Hey Hungs ,Did you get a new ring for steph ? 😂🤔)
Steph is glowing
Thank very much this topic is just perfect
I think that some people are just so bitter and insecure with themselves, so they project that onto others and it’s so cringe🥴 . What Steph said about people picking on kids is actually the reason I was so scared to post my son for like over a year since he was born🙆🏻♀️I literally just started getting comfortable with the idea a few months ago.
Also I believe in blocking 🤣I don’t play games with negative nancies!
You guys are awesome though! Your platform will always have some haters but the love far outweighs them 🙂
Guys this is how you know I'm attached! I want to fight these people that are mean to you guys! Angfuni nabazali bami🤣😭😐
I have a problem with people like this Rodwell nton nton mxxxm they read captions without understanding and comment rubbish 🗑 next time wena Rodwell learn to watch the video before commenting I feel like slaping you right now☹
I couldn't have said it better....
It's so irritating🚮🚮🚮🚮
Come back guys❤❤we miss you!!
I block and move no one has time for people that need healing in their life.
Further comments on this topic, some wise words from wiser people:
"How we see ourselves, how we see each other, should be determined by us and by people who generally do not like us".
"Where inside myself should I look for answers to external human problems that defy one's best efforts. I learnt that some people just refuse to learn, if learning isn't good for them, doesn't profit them, they are not interested". (Sydney Poitier)
I love y'all so much😭🔥👑Nami rhandza ❤
Personally for me I use to take negative comments personally but iv outgrown that and just say whatever and move on. I still have a good night's sleep irrespective of wat someone said negatively about me.
Pls advice were to buy Ndlovu merchandise
If you say you are very sensitive is it save to assume you are very spiritual.
Notification gang 💃🏽💃🏽
Thank you so much👌👏this was really inspiring 💕
With me, i clap back shame… sorry but you say something negative to me, I give it back to you…. If you want me to learn something from you, then you will say it to me nicely full stop…. Someone used to body shame me and I used to cry about it. Until I said you know what, enough it’s enough…. I clap back, and that was the last time they did it.
It's Hungani how he looks at Steph for me
“Have a good Life!”😂😂😂 but Steph!
We just keep it + ❤️
Yho people can be rude hey, I wish we were more kind hey. I started my channel as well and fortunately I haven't received negative comments yet but I'm so scared😭😂
Carry on Sisi and take notes on the positive criticism ❤️
Have a good life Steph 😂❤️
I do not respond to negative comments immediately but mostly I walk away.
I love this sm!❤️
Negativity is everywhere even among family members. Just don't take it to heart.. People always have something to say. Keep strong guys. Love 💕💕
I love you guys
Omg we're so close to 300k😭❤🥳🥳🥳
Myself I ignore negative comments and delete them then yah
The outro 🤣
Some of my whatsapp contacts aren't saved so that I never come across their statuses. They've hinted that they think I have GB whatsapp 🤣 kanti I don't want to see them talking down at people with different beliefs. I don't want to witness their passive aggression because I'm just like them and I might post a passive aggressive response. If you choose to talk about/at me when you have my number, you don't get deliver those messages.
Negative comments seems more like a you problem (the person making the comment) to me most times.
When I don't agree with you, I mostly don't commment
I miss your games guys. Something a little more light hearted.
I love you guys ❤️❤️
I've have had my cousins call me "gogo" just because I'm 5 years older than them.
I mean I played with them ,but when we arrive in places where they have to introduce me they'll be like this is "gogo"and I don't like it.i prefer my name after all.In most cases I feel like they introduce my age instead of introducing me as a person. We hardly go out and my age is not mentioned, even when we are with an uber driver my age is on their lips.Am I too insensitive because I sometimes don't see the reason for them to say my age always. And I'm always this quiet person, I don't drink alcohol when we go out.Im just the boring type as they say.I don't even dance although I just engage in topics that we usually have.Am I insensitive ?
Remove yourself from that situation or share with them how it makes you feel. Life is short, you can’t always be tolerant of what hurts you. Ignore or remove yourself.
The way H looks at you Steph is purely love...it's really beautiful and I love how H gave you the platform today..lol..
Anyway is it possible to have your merch in Botswana?
😍😍😍😍love your vibe
"have a good life😑 " steph thou 😹😹😹
griziii 4eva
Notification gang
Present🙋♀️
1:13 it's definitely Steph's apology for me 😂😂❤️
Am i the only one who actually says the intro with them now lol
What happened to for the algorithm
Very informative thank you Ndlovu gang 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🥰🥰🥰
Pa pa pa pangggg😹😹😹😹😹😻 me trying to tag along🦾🦾🦾
Pam!!!pam!!!paaaam!!!!!
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popopopo.....💃💃
👍
Are you guys okay? Your intro was a bit off.
I think it’s just the mood for the video. It’s very tiring to address these kinda issues on grown ups
Popopopo!!!
You comment without even watching the video. Something must be wrong with you.LMAOO .
#GANGgang
something is wrong for real🤞
Unfortunately I don't really know how to deal with negative comments/people, I just take their abuse& it usually weighs down on me.
I can tolerate negative comments directed at me but directing them to innocent kids is just so wrong & when their parents/guardians defend them negative people would say ,"why put them on social media?"
Like being put on social media calls for bullying &shaming. Some even go as far as calling parents names or bitter 🤦♀️
Personally, I have developed this thick skin towards negativity and that helped me to go through the most without being fazed.. However, it ain't easy though.