I’ve been married 32 years this September and I agree to keep it fresh, and spicy. We have always done weekly date nights and I think it’s a great thing for your children to witness, that mum and dad still like each other lol. I started watching for the curls info, now I just enjoy your personality. Great job to show a Christian woman in this generation living life to the fullest and keeping it real.
I really appreciate and love how you approach this topic. So many people make it awkward and uncomfortable, and you just go about it so normally, naturally and comfortably. You make it appropriate, but still informative and helpful, and I really appreciate that. Thank you to you and Daniel both for this video.
One tip I can give you for a long marriage is to each write down a list of all the house hold chores. Make the list together of everything that has to get done around the house. . Then each of you look at that list and write down which of the chores you hate and then your spouse do the same. When you both go over the list I bet you each have tasks that you hate but that doesn't bother your spouse and vise versa. I hate doing the laundry but I don't mind folding the clothes and putting them away. I hate to mow the lawn but I don't mind taking the trash out or doing the dishes. This simple tip was given to us by our pastor before we got married and he said swapping chores with eachother made his marriage better with his wife and it made our life so much better. We never feel like we are forced to do chores anymore and it makes us feel like a team.
I LOVE THIS TIP SO MUCH. Daniel and I at the beginning of our marriage agreed I’d do laundry bc I don’t mind it and he would do dishes bc he doesn’t mind it. BUT we didn’t discuss the trash, the recycling, walking the dog etc. And that led to some arguments early on. I love this idea !
@@indiabatson26 We have been happily married for 10 years in December. That tip really works because like I said you don't feel forced into doing chores you hate and It really makes you feel like a team. It really is true, "Team Work Makes The Dream Work" Thanks so much for posting your videos... they have helped me so much such as finding a good bra or on taking care of my skin. So when I saw this I thought I need to share the tip about swapping out chores. Thanks again and love your channel. P.S. I'm a bra size 38G and I found a comfortable wirefree bra. Never thought I would be able to go wirefree but it is the most comfortable bra. It is made by Honeylove and it is called the Crossover bra. You should do a review on it. They would probably love it if you would do a review, I bet they would send you one for free. I'm not affiliated with them at all... just really like the bra!! They make shape wear so the hit it out of the park when the designed that bra.
And if one of you starts slacking, instead of getting resentful, list those chores for both on you and stick them on the fridge and without saying a word, just highlight what you have done each day. At the end of the week the lazy one will see, without you having to say anything, the things that they have left undone so hopefully they will pick up the slack without you even having to remind them!
@@TheTyaptyap good idea. It has become a routine for us now. It's kind of like a game. We made a promise to love eachother no matter what so now we made a promise to take on the tasks eachother hate to do. My husband hates to be the bad guy or have to give bad news to people. He is so kind and does not want to make anyone feel bad so I agreed to always handle being the "bad guy". We joke the he is good cop and I am bad cop. But in return for him never having to be the "bad guy", I no longer have to give the dog a bath. I hated having to do that because I end up soaked. I definitely got the better end of that deal ;)
Oh this is so kind Chelsea 🥹 we are far from perfect but truly so love each other 💛💛 and try to continue to put effort into our marriage and I pray that never stops ❤️
OMG HE"S CUBANNNNN!!!! This made my whole night! Congrats on your 2 year anniversary!!!! I'm Cuban that's why I'm so excited lol! Also please do an in depth video of cultural differences!!! I'm with my first currently all American bf and I'm so heavily concerned for the family aspect!
@@nessapie23 I was told that I looked like a Barbie..and was with a CUBAN, but he was a narcissist with phycopath type personality.. Impulsive and unreasonable, even the mail was tossed with coupons so I could not use the coupon if we went out, but my kids used them so we could get free food, buy 1 get 1 free..I love watching them because I was just like India and KEPT quiet to just keep peace ..even when their comments were rude, to the point where they insult me and said I was Jelous of their family...His mom always took my house and kids as they were hers and do the opposite of what I asked her to do or not do..she even told him not to love me too much because I might cheat on him, yet he would talk about private things behind my back and READY talk about cheating on me with Who...
So nice meeting your husband! You two are so adorable and well matched and it is fun to see a fresh loving couple that is genuinely interested in each other. I have a loud family and my ex-husband came from a quiet family so it was always interesting at family gatherings. Also I think we as women generally are more sensitive and our feeling do get hurt many times unnecessarily. It takes time and trust in the other person to know they would never intentionally do you harm. Keep doing what you two do, it is working for you both. So excited for your future together and may your new home be blessed with much joy, love and memories that carry on for generations!!
I am white and my Husband is Thai and when he is with his family, those who speak it, they speak Thai. I am ok with it and feel that I don’t have to be part of every conversation! We have been married for 12 years and together 26! Here is to many happy years together! Pick your battles and don’t sweat the little things that don’t really matter in the end!! You two are so cute together!!!
I agree - don’t let the little things a person does bother you. That’s my #1! They don’t matter, and there will be many of them, so don’t let them be a thing. 🙌
Daniel is cracking me up. Love that yall so opposite but get together so well spiritually 😁 Love you guys and happy almost 2nd anniversary! Anything planned ?
My husband comes from a partly Italian family and in the beginning I would always apologize for interrupting… he would look at me cock eyed and say, “Huh? Ok let me explain something to you. In my family, that’s just called ‘talking’ “. 😂
I’m about to celebrate 22 years with my husband, and I would recommend having a joint bank account for bills/mortgage and big ticket items, but keeping your own individual account(s) for ‘fun’ purchases. Also, I never did change my name. At first it was because I’m lazy, but then I decided I liked my last name better than his, lol.
I can't stress the importance of having a joint account for bills and keeping your own individual accounts. I was married for 30 years to a man who became financially abusive as the years went on. He would check our bank accounts multiple times daily to monitor my spending. Eventually he eliminated my access to our joint accounts cutting me off completely. I didn't have an account or money of my own. Luckily I did have my own credit card which is also very important to have. I was in a position that I had to file for divorce in order to legally get money to buy food and personal items.
I’m Cuban and my husband is American (Norwegian/German). I agree that it’s definitely different in regards to culture. It was weird having his family be so ‘quiet’ and independent, while my family is always a group and just crazy loud. Also, his family shows up early…. I am on CPT (Cuban People Time). Always late. Do you relate😂😅
Lol...yes....but I guess after 24 years and getting PTSD, anxiety and constant control from all of them..I said adios..later alligator...The neighbor ratted all the garbage that was talked about me behind my back, so did my friends....they were high 5 celebration, but I was sick and unhealthy in my digestive system from all the stressful situations... Peace..I hope they keep the parents in their place..not in the marriage...it was not exactly perfect in the End...the TRUTH always comes out to the light..all the friends that I have meet in different city had no idea I was with a Cuban till I opened my mouth and spoke Spanish...they went nuts...you speak Spanish like a CUBAN whatttttttt.....but your white American...lol...yes, Barbie was what I was called at my daughter's wedding...it was told all over the TRUTH...how Barbie was broken...
Definitely turning off the tv is great!! We actually don’t have a tv in any of our main living areas…we do have a tv in our RV garage where we watch sports, and that’s about all we watch.
May God bless..I still remember a video of yours when I first started to follow you ... a video in which you tell that you're religious and ..... time flies! greetings to you💗
He’s really grounded. It’s interesting with these two! Two of my son in laws are Hispanic, I just adore them, I adore my daughter in law! It’s amazing!! I surely have the most beautiful grandkiddos!! I love them all. Feels good when hearing my kids are grounded, they better be!
Cracks me up! My kids send me pictures of the pictures of “ Theme rooms”!! That, I must say, they’re creative, & that’s really awesome to me that they have this get away, especially these days! You know, one of us grandparents are watching over the kiddos!!😁😘😘😀 Keep spicy in your lives!💖
Married for 10 years here.... I would suggest each keeping your own banking accounts and getting one combined for home/marriage type things that you both monthly put money into.
I am 🇪🇨🇨🇴 and my husband is 🇨🇭🏴🇳🇱 we knew we wanted to marry someone from each other’s cultures. Yes after 2 1/2 yrs there are cultural differences but we are similar personalities so it works. When I’m with my family our NY side comes out & he dosen’t mind because he wanted a sassy girl from NY. We speak in Spanish all the time in front of my husband or even when I talk to other Hispanics & he does not mind or his family, they like it & it’s helped him learn Spanish. They speak Swiss German & high German and they do the same & I don’t find it rude. It’s helped me learn German more. Then again we are first born American generations but he has dual citizenship so we don’t think like Americans or our families. We are international & open minded.
I don't know that differences in discussion/argument/etc. is a cultural thing. There are "white" families who are very open and loud, and there are some "cultural" families who are very quiet. I think it's more a family history thing, rather than a cultural thing.
I have been married for just over a year and hadn't changed my name yet either. 🙃 I bought the Newlynamed box a few weeks ago and just got my new SS card in the mail today! I have my DMV appointment scheduled too. Such a good buy for me!
it was a blast 🤗 he took me to a movie on the lawn, my favorite encanto !!!! It was so much fun ☺️ I’m wearing two different eyeshadow palettes 😅😅 some from each palette . Do you still want me to share ?
@@kristinshaw6253 I used: go.magik.ly/ml/1l5g5/ I use the shimmer color called Vermeer in my inner tear duct almost everyday or my life. It’s my favorite !! And then I used this: go.magik.ly/ml/1l5g7/ For everything else ! i used the brown shadow the “eyeliner” and the reddish brown for the crease and the lightest color for under my eyes 💛 the color range is perfect in this palette in my opinion for most neutral eyes and it’s small and easy to travel with. But the quality is better in the ABH one in my opinion, more buttery. Hope this helps friend 🤗
Have you ever heard of The Adventure Challenge? They have a couples book and a book for the bedroom - they are great for bringing fun and spontaneity into dating and intimacy!
I think it's great to have a joint bank account for household expenses, absolutely. But every women needs their own bank account. You should never be in the position of asking your husband for money. You need your own account to buy whatever you want.
A lot of women wish they kept their own name after marriage. When I get married I want to change mine. We also agreed we'd have a joint bank account for our life together but separate ones also for our own stuff. (I shop a lot and love buying perfumes and he doesn't need to see that on a joint bank account statement!) I think that Daniel seems sweet, but I can't help but notice the odd comment posted from people that's cruelly targeted towards him,... But for goodness sake sometimes couples slip up and say things they don't mean... People need to realise that relationships aren't perfect. I wonder if this ever make him feel sad to read these things... I wish you both the best and hope that Instagram and TH-cam doesn't ever bring you down. Sometimes a deactivation and a break can work wonders for a week or so! (Ofc I love to watch your videos and all that so don't take a permanent break!) 😂 Good luck with the house !
Can you do a more in depth video on the cultural differences with your husband and his family and what are some of the things you did to help even in yourself? I’m dating a Brazilian man and I felt the language thing so much… so much so that I started to take Brazilian Portuguese classes. But there’s so many more obstacles in an interracial relationship beyond language that it can feel overwhelming!
what other obstacles? i’m asking because i’m eastern european dating a colombian dude and we haven’t noticed much in terms of cultural differences, in fact we seem to share a lot of similarities between our cultures.
Something I have learned for my relationship and from a loooot of friends-most men can’t consistently get it up and hold it to completion. Think of viagra like a sex toy-so many people in your life use it and he doesn’t even need to go to the doctor to get it. He can get it online real cheap. We had some trouble in that arena while ttc for a year and that’s when friends started coming out of the woodwork about it. Take the anxiety and pressure off your man and get some!
I live in a loud white family. People sometimes tell me that I don't realize I am yelling. I'm not yelling we just passionate about whatever we are talking about.🤣😁🤣
I don't understand why some people describe their culture as white. To me Black or white is not a culture. I'm french and white. My culture is french, is spanish, is European. In France there is a lot of Black people. They have african culture of they come from africa they also have french and european culture.
Omg so relatable! My hubby also takes up a lot of the dining table for his stuff and if I try to organize it or clean it up he gets upset that I moved it. Lol 🤦🏻♀️
Sure, it’s the woman’s “feelings being hurt” and “too sensitive”, never the man actually hurting feelings because they’re rude - even after he admitted he and his family don’t care about hurting feelings! Bank accounts: separate, always. Keep it that way!
My husband is German and he did come off rude a lot at first. It wasn't him being rude or me being sensitive, it was just a cultural and personal difference. Now we know each other better and know how to communicate. And, we had separate bank accounts at first and eventually combined them once we had our house. He also looks after the finances even though I can see it all. He enjoys it and I can see everything. It works for us and we are loving it! Just beginning 5th year of marriage. 😊
Y’all are so funny, I’m Latina and my husband is white American and it’s the same dynamic lol India you look so much like your mom in this video. You are so beautiful, glad you have yourself a good man 💕
🙄THE CULTURA LATINA, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO (Latini) TRIBES, THE LATIN ETHNICITY ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA. Latin europe was Latinized by ROME ITALY hence how Latina italy got the name Latina. & HISPANIC (Hispania) is literally the Latin language MEANING SPAIN NOT the NATIVE AMERICANS they Colonized. Latin America got its name SOLELY and ONLY to mean the part of the Americas CONQUERED by LATIN EUROPE and that is all it will EVER MEAN. Latin ORIGIN, HISTORY& people are NON INTERCHANGEABLE. STOP THE CULTURAL THEFT OF MY PEOPLE& OUR ANCESTRY. BRAINWASHED AMERICAN/ MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL APPROPRIATION & CULTURAL THEFT FOR "PROFIT AND GAIN" WILL NEVER BE LATINO. CULTURAL APPROPRIATION EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATIN PEOPLE AND OUR HISTORICAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS! AND US TRUE LATINS ARE & HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR GENETIC CONTRIBUTORS FROM OUR MIDDLE EASTERN (ASIAN), NORTHERN AFRICAN, AND BALKAN GYPSIE DNA. THERE ARE NO "WHITE" LATINS. JUST MORE ASSIMILATION . SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICANS AND MEXICANS ARE NATIVE AMERICANS, MESTIZOS, CASTIZOS, PARDOS, ZAMBOS, AND PURE SUB SAHARAN AFRICANS. NOT LATINS, NOT LATIN BLOOD, THEREFORE NOT LATINO. IN SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICA AND MÉXICO THE ONLY PEOPLE CALLED LATINO AND HISPANIC ARE US SOUTHERN EUROPEANS OF LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN. OBVIOUSLY THE SAME IN LATIN EUROPE. PUSHING AND CONTRIBUTING TO BRAINWASHED NORTH AMERICAN MISAPPROPRIATION OF FOREIGN TERMS SUCH AS LATIN/LATINO AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR SOCIAL STATUS TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE CONTINUING CONTRIBUTIONS OF CULTURAL THEFT. THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE TERM LATINI, THE LATINI WHERE THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE TO EXIST FROM ITALY! LATINI IS PLURAL MEANING MORE THAN ONE LATINO! AND LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI MEANING ONE LATINO. THE SAME WITH LATINA AND LATINE. ALL TERMS CREATED BY THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY. PUSHING BRAINWASHED AMERICAN MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL RAPE AS A FASHION TREND FOR “PROFIT & GAIN” NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR
“They’re not screaming” 🤣🤣 my boyfriend is cuban too! And when I first moved to Miami from NY, I was shocked when I saw 2 grown men “talking” outside of a store bc I thought a fight was about to go down😭 but seconds later there were laughs🥲 LOLOL
Changing your name is such a hassle - I wish someone had told me that before. I didn’t feel super strongly about changing mine, but I felt pressured- so I did. It took forever and it was such an annoying process and now I kind of miss the uniqueness of my old last name. But it’s nearly impossible to change it back…so don’t feel like you HAVE to unless you really want to for you!
Totally get it. And you absolutely do it that way if you want to.I think everyone just needs to do what’s best for them and what both people are comfortable with 👏👏
Totally off-topic, I know you have a lot of curly hair routine videos. My hair is naturally curly, but after bleaching it, it’s not curling up as it used to. What products can I use to help my curls come back?🥰 Love you and your videos
I can tell that you live your life to be able to talk about it on social media. Being a social media influencer changes people and rarely for the better. I can tell it has already changed you, sorry to say.
No need to mention white as a race when introducing yourself. We all have eyes, just say American with whatever your ancestry is, British, Scottish, Swedish … talking about race is divisive and to my generation racist. By the way , my mother is as white as you with green eyes but she’s Persian . She would never introduce herself as the colour of her skin , or Caucasian but only Persian or Iranian! We’re living in a strange time so let us be united and don’t let them change or warp our minds. Colour of skin is not your culture or identity!
It seems to be a GUY thing to slowly take up the entire kitchen table with their quote “stuff” un quote 😒 23 years my hubby went from having a few envelopes on the edge of the table… to…. Medicine, vitamins, energy pouch powders, mail, note pads, jump rope, pens, markers, favorite cup, gum, bills, chap stick, ,,, should I go on???? Yep, it’s the whole right side of the damn kitchen counter island! FYI our kitchen island is 7ft long 😫😱🙄 Love him with all my heart though 💖😏
Please keep your name. Don’t even bother. I always kept mine because of the hassle then realized women are not even allowed to do that because of religious reasons. And it makes sense why WHY? Its not like my blood line changed or family changed.
My mother didn't change her name for religious reasons, but I did and I'm so happy did. Especially when we have kids, we will be one unit, same name. It was a hassle temporarily during the changing process, but so much easier and cohesive now. But I get both sides!
I totally get it. It’s not for everyone and I don’t think anyone should feel pressured to! I personally want to change my name. I don’t think Daniel really cares either way honestly but I want to 💛
If I may recommend, DO go ahead and at least put each other on your bank accounts. God forbid something should happen to one of you, your spouse would NOT be able to be able to get the money out, especially since you, India, haven’t changed your name. This could REALLY be an issue! 🦋💜
I’ve been married 32 years this September and I agree to keep it fresh, and spicy. We have always done weekly date nights and I think it’s a great thing for your children to witness, that mum and dad still like each other lol. I started watching for the curls info, now I just enjoy your personality. Great job to show a Christian woman in this generation living life to the fullest and keeping it real.
I really appreciate and love how you approach this topic. So many people make it awkward and uncomfortable, and you just go about it so normally, naturally and comfortably. You make it appropriate, but still informative and helpful, and I really appreciate that. Thank you to you and Daniel both for this video.
One tip I can give you for a long marriage is to each write down a list of all the house hold chores. Make the list together of everything that has to get done around the house. .
Then each of you look at that list and write down which of the chores you hate and then your spouse do the same. When you both go over the list I bet you each have tasks that you hate but that doesn't bother your spouse and vise versa. I hate doing the laundry but I don't mind folding the clothes and putting them away.
I hate to mow the lawn but I don't mind taking the trash out or doing the dishes. This simple tip was given to us by our pastor before we got married and he said swapping chores with eachother made his marriage better with his wife and it made our life so much better. We never feel like we are forced to do chores anymore and it makes us feel like a team.
I LOVE THIS TIP SO MUCH. Daniel and I at the beginning of our marriage agreed I’d do laundry bc I don’t mind it and he would do dishes bc he doesn’t mind it. BUT we didn’t discuss the trash, the recycling, walking the dog etc. And that led to some arguments early on. I love this idea !
@@indiabatson26 We have been happily married for 10 years in December. That tip really works because like I said you don't feel forced into doing chores you hate and It really makes you feel like a team. It really is true, "Team Work Makes The Dream Work"
Thanks so much for posting your videos... they have helped me so much such as finding a good bra or on taking care of my skin. So when I saw this I thought I need to share the tip about swapping out chores. Thanks again and love your channel.
P.S. I'm a bra size 38G and I found a comfortable wirefree bra. Never thought I would be able to go wirefree but it is the most comfortable bra. It is made by Honeylove and it is called the Crossover bra. You should do a review on it. They would probably love it if you would do a review, I bet they would send you one for free. I'm not affiliated with them at all... just really like the bra!! They make shape wear so the hit it out of the park when the designed that bra.
And if one of you starts slacking, instead of getting resentful, list those chores for both on you and stick them on the fridge and without saying a word, just highlight what you have done each day. At the end of the week the lazy one will see, without you having to say anything, the things that they have left undone so hopefully they will pick up the slack without you even having to remind them!
@@TheTyaptyap good idea. It has become a routine for us now. It's kind of like a game. We made a promise to love eachother no matter what so now we made a promise to take on the tasks eachother hate to do. My husband hates to be the bad guy or have to give bad news to people. He is so kind and does not want to make anyone feel bad so I agreed to always handle being the "bad guy". We joke the he is good cop and I am bad cop. But in return for him never having to be the "bad guy", I no longer have to give the dog a bath. I hated having to do that because I end up soaked. I definitely got the better end of that deal ;)
Y'all make a beautiful couple, not only physically beautiful but the love between you is evident and beautiful!! 💖
Oh this is so kind Chelsea 🥹 we are far from perfect but truly so love each other 💛💛 and try to continue to put effort into our marriage and I pray that never stops ❤️
Daniel is cracking me up! You guys are perfect together! Happy 2 years 💗
Oh so much love to you sweet girl !!!!!!
OMG HE"S CUBANNNNN!!!! This made my whole night! Congrats on your 2 year anniversary!!!! I'm Cuban that's why I'm so excited lol! Also please do an in depth video of cultural differences!!! I'm with my first currently all American bf and I'm so heavily concerned for the family aspect!
Ok Barbie....I've never thought you looked like a Barbie but this is screaming it...its the whole look...pink shirt, jewlery, pony tail...cute!
OMG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the ponytail for sure 😂 whenever I wear a ponytail I always feel like a different persona lol
I have always thought she looks like a genuine living doll lol and I love it. They give Barbie and Ken vibes lol
@@indiabatson26 Did Dan ever go to school in NY? He looks so familiar. I swear he looks just like a guy I went to ffs with
@@nessapie23 I was told that I looked like a Barbie..and was with a CUBAN, but he was a narcissist with phycopath type personality.. Impulsive and unreasonable, even the mail was tossed with coupons so I could not use the coupon if we went out, but my kids used them so we could get free food, buy 1 get 1 free..I love watching them because I was just like India and KEPT quiet to just keep peace ..even when their comments were rude, to the point where they insult me and said I was Jelous of their family...His mom always took my house and kids as they were hers and do the opposite of what I asked her to do or not do..she even told him not to love me too much because I might cheat on him, yet he would talk about private things behind my back and READY talk about cheating on me with Who...
So nice meeting your husband! You two are so adorable and well matched and it is fun to see a fresh loving couple that is genuinely interested in each other. I have a loud family and my ex-husband came from a quiet family so it was always interesting at family gatherings. Also I think we as women generally are more sensitive and our feeling do get hurt many times unnecessarily. It takes time and trust in the other person to know they would never intentionally do you harm. Keep doing what you two do, it is working for you both. So excited for your future together and may your new home be blessed with much joy, love and memories that carry on for generations!!
Oh you are such a gem kim 💛💛 thank you for the love !!!!!!!!!
lol the intro India, Daniel + Chris could start a support group for TH-camr husbands hahaha
I am white and my Husband is Thai and when he is with his family, those who speak it, they speak Thai. I am ok with it and feel that I don’t have to be part of every conversation! We have been married for 12 years and together 26! Here is to many happy years together! Pick your battles and don’t sweat the little things that don’t really matter in the end!! You two are so cute together!!!
I agree - don’t let the little things a person does bother you. That’s my #1! They don’t matter, and there will be many of them, so don’t let them be a thing. 🙌
Daniel is cracking me up. Love that yall so opposite but get together so well spiritually 😁 Love you guys and happy almost 2nd anniversary! Anything planned ?
My husband comes from a partly Italian family and in the beginning I would always apologize for interrupting… he would look at me cock eyed and say, “Huh? Ok let me explain something to you. In my family, that’s just called ‘talking’ “. 😂
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Italian men are HOT, you're lucky!
I’m about to celebrate 22 years with my husband, and I would recommend having a joint bank account for bills/mortgage and big ticket items, but keeping your own individual account(s) for ‘fun’ purchases. Also, I never did change my name. At first it was because I’m lazy, but then I decided I liked my last name better than his, lol.
I can't stress the importance of having a joint account for bills and keeping your own individual accounts. I was married for 30 years to a man who became financially abusive as the years went on. He would check our bank accounts multiple times daily to monitor my spending. Eventually he eliminated my access to our joint accounts cutting me off completely. I didn't have an account or money of my own. Luckily I did have my own credit card which is also very important to have. I was in a position that I had to file for divorce in order to legally get money to buy food and personal items.
@@Lifes_Frosting Thats terrible!!!! I hope you're Okay now!
Hermosa pareja!! Muchas felicidades!! Que siga el amor entre ustedes por siempre!! 💞
Muchas gracias mi amor 🫶
I’m Cuban and my husband is American (Norwegian/German). I agree that it’s definitely different in regards to culture. It was weird having his family be so ‘quiet’ and independent, while my family is always a group and just crazy loud. Also, his family shows up early…. I am on CPT (Cuban People Time). Always late. Do you relate😂😅
Lol...yes....but I guess after 24 years and getting PTSD, anxiety and constant control from all of them..I said adios..later alligator...The neighbor ratted all the garbage that was talked about me behind my back, so did my friends....they were high 5 celebration, but I was sick and unhealthy in my digestive system from all the stressful situations... Peace..I hope they keep the parents in their place..not in the marriage...it was not exactly perfect in the End...the TRUTH always comes out to the light..all the friends that I have meet in different city had no idea I was with a Cuban till I opened my mouth and spoke Spanish...they went nuts...you speak Spanish like a CUBAN whatttttttt.....but your white American...lol...yes, Barbie was what I was called at my daughter's wedding...it was told all over the TRUTH...how Barbie was broken...
Definitely turning off the tv is great!! We actually don’t have a tv in any of our main living areas…we do have a tv in our RV garage where we watch sports, and that’s about all we watch.
May God bless..I still remember a video of yours when I first started to follow you ... a video in which you tell that you're religious and ..... time flies! greetings to you💗
He’s really grounded. It’s interesting with these two! Two of my son in laws are Hispanic, I just adore them, I adore my daughter in law! It’s amazing!! I surely have the most beautiful grandkiddos!! I love them all. Feels good when hearing my kids are grounded, they better be!
How strange, me & my kiddos are white as sugar! 😁
Cracks me up! My kids send me pictures of the pictures of “ Theme rooms”!! That, I must say, they’re creative, & that’s really awesome to me that they have this get away, especially these days! You know, one of us grandparents are watching over the kiddos!!😁😘😘😀 Keep spicy in your lives!💖
Oh I bet your grandkids are positively beautiful, perfect angels 💛 I’m so glad you have lovely grounded kids. Maybe God bless your family
@@mamashanshan2772 caucasian skin is more pink like bubblegum , still sweet tho !
Married for 10 years here.... I would suggest each keeping your own banking accounts and getting one combined for home/marriage type things that you both monthly put money into.
yes, very good advice
Rickie and Lucy! I wish you guys all the happiness in the world and a much brighter and sweeter future than my favourite Lucy.
Fellow Cuban from Miami and can relate to the loud, rude, Spanglish thing lol. Beautiful couple ❤️
Hola mi amor ! 🫶
Great video! Your husband is darling. . . And I can’t wait to see the new house finished!
My first thought was you really do look like a barbie in this video 😍 Stunning
I am 🇪🇨🇨🇴 and my husband is 🇨🇭🏴🇳🇱 we knew we wanted to marry someone from each other’s cultures. Yes after 2 1/2 yrs there are cultural differences but we are similar personalities so it works. When I’m with my family our NY side comes out & he dosen’t mind because he wanted a sassy girl from NY. We speak in Spanish all the time in front of my husband or even when I talk to other Hispanics & he does not mind or his family, they like it & it’s helped him learn Spanish. They speak Swiss German & high German and they do the same & I don’t find it rude. It’s helped me learn German more. Then again we are first born American generations but he has dual citizenship so we don’t think like Americans or our families. We are international & open minded.
They both are very beautiful. She's perfect, looks like Adele.
I was raised to always have your own bank account AND a joint account (joint for either bills or rainy day cash, whichever is agreed upon)
What, 2 years already 😳😳 wow, where did time go!!! Congratulations 🎉💗✨✨
You and the hubby should do your go to air fryer recipes… I would so watch that! 😋
Girllllll we use the air fryer for EVERYTHING 👏 salmon, Turkey bacon, Brussels sprouts, carrot chips literally ANYTHING
@@indiabatson26 so, if it moves, it’s air fried! 😂
@@sandraweicht2831 we are over here air frying lettuce 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ANYTHING EDIBLE
@@indiabatson26 well that’s a relief! 😅
I don't know that differences in discussion/argument/etc. is a cultural thing. There are "white" families who are very open and loud, and there are some "cultural" families who are very quiet. I think it's more a family history thing, rather than a cultural thing.
Какие красивые вы все, особенно твоя мама, если я правильно поняла. Такие бодрые, здоровые
I have been married for just over a year and hadn't changed my name yet either. 🙃 I bought the Newlynamed box a few weeks ago and just got my new SS card in the mail today! I have my DMV appointment scheduled too. Such a good buy for me!
Love this eye shadow look! Can you link your shadow(s)? Hope the surprise date was fun!
it was a blast 🤗 he took me to a movie on the lawn, my favorite encanto !!!! It was so much fun ☺️ I’m wearing two different eyeshadow palettes 😅😅 some from each palette . Do you still want me to share ?
@@indiabatson26 I love that movie! How fun! If you don't mind, I'd still love to know, even if it's just the palettes themselves. The look is fire!
@@kristinshaw6253 I used: go.magik.ly/ml/1l5g5/
I use the shimmer color called Vermeer in my inner tear duct almost everyday or my life. It’s my favorite !!
And then I used this: go.magik.ly/ml/1l5g7/
For everything else ! i used the brown shadow the “eyeliner” and the reddish brown for the crease and the lightest color for under my eyes 💛 the color range is perfect in this palette in my opinion for most neutral eyes and it’s small and easy to travel with. But the quality is better in the ABH one in my opinion, more buttery. Hope this helps friend 🤗
I really want to know eyeshadow colour but the links just take me to French Sephora page. What was the name of the pallets? Xx
Great video 💕 And yay Cuban representation 🇨🇺
Gracias por veo …i thinkkkkkkkk THATS how you say it LOL
Don’t be a simp?
Loved this! 😍 Such a beautiful couple ❤
Thank you for watching friend 💛💛💛💛
New subscriber here 😍 Love your channel! Love your vibe! You guys are seriously the most beautiful couple I've ever seen!
Oh you are the best Christine! Thank you for the love 💛
New subscriber here too and I couldn't agree more. You guys are so gorgeous together.
Hahahaha Daniel’s fam totally sounds like mine. “We’re not yelling” “this isn’t an argument” lol
Two year marriage is a feat on its own, but still young in the whole realm of things.
Have you ever heard of The Adventure Challenge? They have a couples book and a book for the bedroom - they are great for bringing fun and spontaneity into dating and intimacy!
I think it's great to have a joint bank account for household expenses, absolutely.
But every women needs their own bank account. You should never be in the position of asking your husband for money. You need your own account to buy whatever you want.
This girl is adorable
A lot of women wish they kept their own name after marriage. When I get married I want to change mine. We also agreed we'd have a joint bank account for our life together but separate ones also for our own stuff. (I shop a lot and love buying perfumes and he doesn't need to see that on a joint bank account statement!)
I think that Daniel seems sweet, but I can't help but notice the odd comment posted from people that's cruelly targeted towards him,... But for goodness sake sometimes couples slip up and say things they don't mean... People need to realise that relationships aren't perfect. I wonder if this ever make him feel sad to read these things... I wish you both the best and hope that Instagram and TH-cam doesn't ever bring you down. Sometimes a deactivation and a break can work wonders for a week or so! (Ofc I love to watch your videos and all that so don't take a permanent break!) 😂 Good luck with the house !
Can you do a more in depth video on the cultural differences with your husband and his family and what are some of the things you did to help even in yourself?
I’m dating a Brazilian man and I felt the language thing so much… so much so that I started to take Brazilian Portuguese classes. But there’s so many more obstacles in an interracial relationship beyond language that it can feel overwhelming!
My husband is Brazilian :) I totally get this. 5 years and 2 kids later and we are still figuring out the cultural differences;)
what other obstacles? i’m asking because i’m eastern european dating a colombian dude and we haven’t noticed much in terms of cultural differences, in fact we seem to share a lot of similarities between our cultures.
You said interracial relationship. Is a Brazilian of European descent considered "white" in America?
@@RobertoCarvalho8990 no. It is filled with cultural differences though.
@@rebeccafalkner2876 eu sou brasileira.
Enjoy the great weekend, India!❤️❤️💫💫
You too !!!! Have a lovely weekend (:
You too as well!
Beautiful couple. I really enjoyed this. I'm looking forward seeing your New home when you are all settled in.
Oh you are so kind and lovely 💛🤗 we are so excited & grateful !!!!
You remind me so much of Carrie Bradshaw, in the best possible way!
I totally agree ❤️
I am honored ☺️
You two are a riot.........but great at communication , date night is a must...............Donna in Toronto
Something I have learned for my relationship and from a loooot of friends-most men can’t consistently get it up and hold it to completion. Think of viagra like a sex toy-so many people in your life use it and he doesn’t even need to go to the doctor to get it. He can get it online real cheap. We had some trouble in that arena while ttc for a year and that’s when friends started coming out of the woodwork about it. Take the anxiety and pressure off your man and get some!
I love the honesty ❤❤
oh I so appreciate you watching 💛
Beautiful couple 💗
I live in a loud white family. People sometimes tell me that I don't realize I am yelling. I'm not yelling we just passionate about whatever we are talking about.🤣😁🤣
Weren't you on the show good girls???
Binge watching ❤ new subscriber
I don't understand why some people describe their culture as white. To me Black or white is not a culture. I'm french and white. My culture is french, is spanish, is European.
In France there is a lot of Black people. They have african culture of they come from africa they also have french and european culture.
Omg so relatable! My hubby also takes up a lot of the dining table for his stuff and if I try to organize it or clean it up he gets upset that I moved it. Lol 🤦🏻♀️
congrats you 2 may you be very happy together a long time n God bless you.
Omg you look so much like Derek jester’s wife!! Beautiful couple.
Always a fun and positive video! Quick hair question though: what’s your current fav blow dryer and diffuser?
oh thank you for watching friend 💛 I love the dyson for an expensive option and conair Infiniti pro for a cheaper alternative
Sure, it’s the woman’s “feelings being hurt” and “too sensitive”, never the man actually hurting feelings because they’re rude - even after he admitted he and his family don’t care about hurting feelings!
Bank accounts: separate, always. Keep it that way!
My husband is German and he did come off rude a lot at first. It wasn't him being rude or me being sensitive, it was just a cultural and personal difference. Now we know each other better and know how to communicate.
And, we had separate bank accounts at first and eventually combined them once we had our house. He also looks after the finances even though I can see it all. He enjoys it and I can see everything.
It works for us and we are loving it! Just beginning 5th year of marriage. 😊
i think that’s a great point and it’s a balance 💛 me being a little less sensitive and him being more sensitive so we can meet in the middle ☺️☺️
Barbie & Ken🥰
Both of you are very cute and adorable 😍🥰
Y’all are so funny, I’m Latina and my husband is white American and it’s the same dynamic lol India you look so much like your mom in this video. You are so beautiful, glad you have yourself a good man 💕
🙄THE CULTURA LATINA, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO (Latini) TRIBES, THE LATIN ETHNICITY ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA. Latin europe was Latinized by ROME ITALY hence how Latina italy got the name Latina. & HISPANIC (Hispania) is literally the Latin language MEANING SPAIN NOT the NATIVE AMERICANS they Colonized. Latin America got its name SOLELY and ONLY to mean the part of the Americas CONQUERED by LATIN EUROPE and that is all it will EVER MEAN. Latin ORIGIN, HISTORY& people are NON INTERCHANGEABLE. STOP THE CULTURAL THEFT OF MY PEOPLE& OUR ANCESTRY. BRAINWASHED AMERICAN/ MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL APPROPRIATION & CULTURAL THEFT FOR "PROFIT AND GAIN" WILL NEVER BE LATINO. CULTURAL APPROPRIATION EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATIN PEOPLE AND OUR HISTORICAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS! AND US TRUE LATINS ARE & HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR GENETIC CONTRIBUTORS FROM OUR MIDDLE EASTERN (ASIAN), NORTHERN AFRICAN, AND BALKAN GYPSIE DNA. THERE ARE NO "WHITE" LATINS. JUST MORE ASSIMILATION . SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICANS AND MEXICANS ARE NATIVE AMERICANS, MESTIZOS, CASTIZOS, PARDOS, ZAMBOS, AND PURE SUB SAHARAN AFRICANS. NOT LATINS, NOT LATIN BLOOD, THEREFORE NOT LATINO. IN SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICA AND MÉXICO THE ONLY PEOPLE CALLED LATINO AND HISPANIC ARE US SOUTHERN EUROPEANS OF LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN. OBVIOUSLY THE SAME IN LATIN EUROPE. PUSHING AND CONTRIBUTING TO BRAINWASHED NORTH AMERICAN MISAPPROPRIATION OF FOREIGN TERMS SUCH AS LATIN/LATINO AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR SOCIAL STATUS TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE CONTINUING CONTRIBUTIONS OF CULTURAL THEFT. THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE TERM LATINI, THE LATINI WHERE THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE TO EXIST FROM ITALY! LATINI IS PLURAL MEANING MORE THAN ONE LATINO! AND LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI MEANING ONE LATINO. THE SAME WITH LATINA AND LATINE. ALL TERMS CREATED BY THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY. PUSHING BRAINWASHED AMERICAN MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL RAPE AS A FASHION TREND FOR “PROFIT & GAIN” NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR
“They’re not screaming” 🤣🤣 my boyfriend is cuban too! And when I first moved to Miami from NY, I was shocked when I saw 2 grown men “talking” outside of a store bc I thought a fight was about to go down😭 but seconds later there were laughs🥲 LOLOL
And u can just learn the language so u can understand makes things easier
she is learning spanish, she’s done shorts on it. learning a new language isn’t a walk in the park though.
Good looking couple ❤
So cute!!!
Nice video, thanks!
Interesting body language, stay blessed xoxo
Changing your name is such a hassle - I wish someone had told me that before. I didn’t feel super strongly about changing mine, but I felt pressured- so I did. It took forever and it was such an annoying process and now I kind of miss the uniqueness of my old last name. But it’s nearly impossible to change it back…so don’t feel like you HAVE to unless you really want to for you!
Kind of random.. But what fragrances/perfumes are your favorites ?
We are loud and Proud :)
I liked your vídeo 😂👍 and Happy Friday 🌚
I hope you enjoy !!!!
Girl I keep looking at you thinking you look familiar....ADELE HUNNY. Anyone else see the resemblance?! x
He’s gorgeous!!!
He really is 😻 lol
Hi I was wondering where you got your necklace from?
Barbie and Ken vibes!
India, were you able to update the description box with links? Still not seeing anything couple days after this was uploaded.
Hi friend !!!!! They should be there now. So sorry for the delay!
I haven’t changed my last name either 😂 and my husband puts all of his crap on top of the fridge 😏
This is just me. I would like to have my own money my own personal account and maybe have another shared account.
Totally get it. And you absolutely do it that way if you want to.I think everyone just needs to do what’s best for them and what both people are comfortable with 👏👏
@@indiabatson26 you are so right. Each to their own…. You guys complement each other,and so cute together
Lol I'm half italian and we can be loud. My mom is all Italian so the culture is different or it could be the Ny thing🤔
Are these really her eyes or is she wearing contacts?
I can't believe it's already been 2 years!!!!
I CANT EITHER ?!?!?
Excellent Questions. Thanks for the tips
So much love to you xoxo
I am definitely a morning gal
❤️❤️❤️
OMG...I have been married for almost 33 years...and my husband STILL dumps his stuff all over the table! Makes me crazy!
Totally off-topic, I know you have a lot of curly hair routine videos. My hair is naturally curly, but after bleaching it, it’s not curling up as it used to. What products can I use to help my curls come back?🥰
Love you and your videos
I am indeed white....LMFAOO they are hilarious!! So glad you introduced him!!! I am from Greece and husband is Grenadian, both families are loud LOL
I love making excel spreadsheets too. Lol
Beautiful Couple 🤗❤
Thank you so much 💛💛💛💛💛
I can tell that you live your life to be able to talk about it on social media. Being a social media influencer changes people and rarely for the better. I can tell it has already changed you, sorry to say.
No need to mention white as a race when introducing yourself. We all have eyes, just say American with whatever your ancestry is, British, Scottish, Swedish … talking about race is divisive and to my generation racist. By the way , my mother is as white as you with green eyes but she’s Persian . She would never introduce herself as the colour of her skin , or Caucasian but only Persian or Iranian! We’re living in a strange time so let us be united and don’t let them change or warp our minds. Colour of skin is not your culture or identity!
It’s hard dating a non-Cuban until they have tostones for the first time.
It seems to be a GUY thing to slowly take up the entire kitchen table with their quote “stuff” un quote 😒
23 years my hubby went from having a few envelopes on the edge of the table… to…. Medicine, vitamins, energy pouch powders, mail, note pads, jump rope, pens, markers, favorite cup, gum, bills, chap stick, ,,, should I go on???? Yep, it’s the whole right side of the damn kitchen counter island!
FYI our kitchen island is 7ft long 😫😱🙄
Love him with all my heart though 💖😏
Were you in the movie like a boss?? The girl looks just like you!! I recognized
the big smile! :)
Honestly I just want to see her
0:01 You look wonderfully beautiful in pink. You are very very gorgeous 💕💘😍
Awww that is so kind 🥹🌸
You should always keep separate accounts, and have 1 joint acct you both add to for bills, KEEP YOUR OWN ACCT!!!!
Please keep your name. Don’t even bother. I always kept mine because of the hassle then realized women are not even allowed to do that because of religious reasons. And it makes sense why WHY? Its not like my blood line changed or family changed.
My mother didn't change her name for religious reasons, but I did and I'm so happy did. Especially when we have kids, we will be one unit, same name. It was a hassle temporarily during the changing process, but so much easier and cohesive now.
But I get both sides!
I totally get it. It’s not for everyone and I don’t think anyone should feel pressured to! I personally want to change my name. I don’t think Daniel really cares either way honestly but I want to 💛
Way too cutesy kak
If I may recommend, DO go ahead and at least put each other on your bank accounts. God forbid something should happen to one of you, your spouse would NOT be able to be able to get the money out, especially since you, India, haven’t changed your name. This could REALLY be an issue! 🦋💜
Yes so true!
This is a fantastic point I’ve never even thought of from this perspective !!!!! I appreciate you Holly 🫶