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  • @donireeh896
    @donireeh896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    What if you’re worried that once you tell someone they are going to turn around and tell everyone? I live in a small town with very judge people and this is ruining my mental health

    • @donireeh896
      @donireeh896 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jones Ailsa how though

    • @luanastar4971
      @luanastar4971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lbs HBa It is a spam

    • @kareta24
      @kareta24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's very different for small towns and very hard to disclose so it's probably better to not get involved with locals or move lol

    • @6743aman
      @6743aman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi 🔥

    • @kzukiodenthechad7205
      @kzukiodenthechad7205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you a Male or Female

  • @oliverkhoo
    @oliverkhoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Background music a lil loud.

  • @lucy141laible
    @lucy141laible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I loveee u ur so strong ! It helps millons of people what you are posting. Coz only if u have it u get !

  • @sje4444
    @sje4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I contracted it the first sexual act with a condom . I always used condoms so it’s kinda annoying.

  • @macanthony1982
    @macanthony1982 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    bottom line... one is most contagious when having an outbreak.... and way less contagious when NOT having an outbreak (keep your immune system up at all times as much as possible and this will increase not being contagious when not having an outbreak) as well as keeping body-hygiene the focus this will also increase less shedding when not having an outbreak..... too add to that, viral shedding decreases over time

    • @MrMightyToo
      @MrMightyToo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s still going to be passed to the other person. It’s a 10% chance without a break out.

  • @sje4444
    @sje4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just ask for results before hooking up and make sure they are tested for herpes since many people are not . Then move from there .

  • @keonyabond
    @keonyabond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank for the information! Your background music kinda loud tho and it takes away from your message is… well for us who have ADHD 😂😂😂

  • @JazzyNorth
    @JazzyNorth ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes why can’t you. You just need to be transparent with who your sleeping with

  • @rontheviking
    @rontheviking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i had a former girl friend ruin or try to ruin very relationship i had by telling them i had herpes and mine is whitlow but the stigma awful and they say 1 in 6 people have it and don't know

    • @AR7271
      @AR7271 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's more than 1 in 6. 6 out of 10 I think for HSV-1.

    • @MrMightyToo
      @MrMightyToo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AR7271that’s hot true lol

    • @henrywal
      @henrywal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AR7271let's not normalize that

  • @fatboiifromtheotherside7551
    @fatboiifromtheotherside7551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was so nicked up about this fr 😭

  • @maieaksen1128
    @maieaksen1128 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I dont like the background noise at all

  • @tylergnosis2581
    @tylergnosis2581 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Playing with fire

  • @pain5149
    @pain5149 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey after taking medicine if my blister goes away then can i have sex without condom and will it pass to others if my blister goes away

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can transmit even without an outbreak. If the virus is active, and we have no symptoms, it's called viral shedding. We don't know we're shedding, however the virus can be transmitted.

  • @mariaaraujo9976
    @mariaaraujo9976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Se acontecer um sexo casual num primeiro encontro e realmente necessário divulgar?O potencial parceiro vai correr do outro para nunca mais...

    • @luanastar4971
      @luanastar4971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MARIA ARAUJO eu não acho graça nenhuma em sexo casual depois do herpes , eu tento tirar o medo da cabeça mas é difícil

    • @luanastar4971
      @luanastar4971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Encontrei uma pessoa que disse que não liga ,mas sei lá não consigo relaxar

    • @mariaaraujo9976
      @mariaaraujo9976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luanastar4971 é bem assim q acontece mesmo,mas,se a pessoa te aceita,q Bom,tenta relaxar!

    • @luanastar4971
      @luanastar4971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MARIA ARAUJO sim,ele até falou que nem liga se pegar e eu até agora não tive outra recorrência ,se a gente namorasse tivesse algo mais sério,acho que teria como ,mas sexo casual sei lá ,tem muita coisa em jogo ,me sentiria culpada é uma doença pra vida toda,mas ele disse que não liga ,mas não tou a vontade

    • @mariaaraujo9976
      @mariaaraujo9976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luanastar4971 sinceramente n gosto qdo a pessoa diz que não se importa se pegar,penso que relacionamentos podem dar certo ou não e aí vem outra pessoa na vida da pessoa,n acho justo conosco nem com o outro,porém,se ele se sente bem em aceitar e vc quer vá em frente,mas,sem dispensar a proteção do parceiro mesmo ele querendo😘

  • @jackiechun_4205
    @jackiechun_4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can you get/give hsv 1 from kissing?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, you can

    • @ceciliamartinez8953
      @ceciliamartinez8953 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lifewithherpes what if it's herpes 2 can you kiss 💋 or no ??

  • @luanastar4971
    @luanastar4971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Do you can make a vídeo about ghsv1 shedding? I read that after 2 years ,only shed 4 days for year

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can. I do have a video about it th-cam.com/video/A-w5Xi2ltEM/w-d-xo.html

    • @6743aman
      @6743aman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi 🔥🙏

    • @Blessed-me6tf
      @Blessed-me6tf ปีที่แล้ว

      Is this true????

  • @FindingJose
    @FindingJose ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This girl I been talking to we did sex oral and everything and she tells me three weeks later that hey I have herpes like wtf man why didn’t you tell me should I leave her ? I think it’s messed up if you knew and not tell me 😢 now im gonna get tested

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We understand this shattered the trust. There were reasons why she didn't tell you, and while we understand you feel betrayed, maybe you can just hear her out. By no means we want to say it's ok she withdrew this information form you, but with as much stigma as there is around herpes, many people are terrified of rejection and disclosing.
      As for your tests, they will probably show negative. It's rare to test positive in such a short time, even if you were so unfortunate to get it. However, the chances are not high in any case, unless she had an active outbreak at the time.

    • @Ray-gl1nl
      @Ray-gl1nl ปีที่แล้ว

      Same BS happen to me smh some women are garbage

    • @xoc_freaky6995
      @xoc_freaky6995 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nahhhh you cant actually be validating that?@@lifewithherpes

  • @DoubleVladi
    @DoubleVladi 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6 min video and no answers. disclosure is the key . And ? Can i ? Can i not ?

  • @marytalaroc5224
    @marytalaroc5224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can you still pass herpes if on veltrex?

    • @dazhaanderson8166
      @dazhaanderson8166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes you can, the drug only lessens the percentage by 48%...the best way or chance to avoid of spreading it ia to have a healthy immune system while taking valtrex.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yep everything that DaZha said

    • @6743aman
      @6743aman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi 🔥👍👍

  • @jusflicks8856
    @jusflicks8856 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dip Away RuNnnn RUNNNN

  • @ryanmayes6591
    @ryanmayes6591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I would still date you ma'am ❤️

  • @theberserker5077
    @theberserker5077 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why do you all skirt around the idea that many of us will not use protection given the right circumstances? why don't you talk about odds of transmission in a number of specific circumstances? this fear of rejection etc. men's nothing when you are in love... how do you dance around no protection because the feel is amazing... what if your p[partner says... go for it... what about everyone having the test done to see if they have it?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Testing everybody would be a great idea! We have that choice of getting our partners tested before sleeping with them, and if that's important to you, then you should totally do it. Some doctors may not want to test for HSV if you're not getting any symptoms, but you can find a doctor that's willing to do it.
      When it comes to condoms, they're great, but they don't offer protection against herpes. Since transmission is skin to skin, there's still area exposed to it (unless the condom actually covers the whole area where one gets hsv outbreaks).

  • @macanthony1982
    @macanthony1982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Should be having safe-sex if you are having casual sex

  • @jamesstewart8376
    @jamesstewart8376 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    No you shouldn’t.

  • @RJMCA
    @RJMCA 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i’m never telling anyone lol

  • @robb6059
    @robb6059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "sex outside of marriage binds one to this material world and so is counterproductive from the spiritual point of view. The point is that sex for other purposes than producing God conscious children makes us more materialistic and slows our spiritual progress." Kindly read The Bhagavad-Gītā As It Is please. Hare KRSNA.

  • @Angrymobs62
    @Angrymobs62 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why disclose to anyone but an upstanding person?

  • @tomthexrpbomb9197
    @tomthexrpbomb9197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    are you single?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No.

    • @6743aman
      @6743aman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baby ❣️ your whatsapp number

  • @siobhanquinn4635
    @siobhanquinn4635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You shouldn’t

  • @jusflicks8856
    @jusflicks8856 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ZoMbies 🧟‍♀️