@@gabak1292 I wish we had that in the US (payback of child support and jail sentence for paternity fraud) but unfortunately, the justice system is not very just.
@@kyleanuar9090 Yeah because the courts just don't care. They just don't want to take care of single mothers if they can help it. It's sad but it's the truth regarding this whole ordeal.
@@brad5167 Yeah, you're right, the US's justice system is messed up on a lot of things. It would be great if parents who commit paternity fraud would get legal consequences, including prison time. Personally, I think they should do DNA tests on every baby, not just because of paternity fraud but baby mix ups in hospitals can and do happen.
After 14 years of supporting the kid - he has established parental rights. The bio dad would owe all those years of back child support. If bio dad knew and didn’t try to seek visitation and pay child support the courts would discard any claims
@@fjnxtgdjsjeeh6073 exactly and the only reason that he came and told him was because the fact that he knew that he wouldn't be able to get the money out of the business that they were supposed to start. Add OP would have gotten a substantial amount of money to live happily with his son.
Geeze, yes, it does stay with you. I'll be 70 in August and it still bothers me. Not to mention that I had an abusive marriage. We were only married 3 years. I never remarried. Was engaged once. I'm fine living by myself. I have twin daughters and a younger daughter. Plus I'm a great grandma of 4 boys and a baby on the way.
I do understand why people say that violence is not the answer but sometimes in some cases it can be as a last resort. And i mean when you defend yourself.
@@robertx8020 That's a good point. I know in the US this would be abuse. Laws does vary around the world on what's defined abuse and I'd imagine most first world countries would also be considered abuse.
He did not assault her, he defended himself from her shaking him and grabbing onto him without his consent! Johnny does not have a problem with violence, Johnny is a good boy who will eventually defend himself. Go Johnny
She deserved to be outed in court!! I get that OP just wanted closure, but after everything she pulled on OP and her son, she needs to face legal consequences. As for the lab employee- has he done this to other people?? Accusing the mother of fraud would have revealed his involvement and prevented future fraud or even corrected past court cases. So disgusting!! Also kid has every right to defend himself. And if lawyer was recording, mom’s actions could be shown as abusive.
The bullying part of the story is a believable part to me. Usually it’s only when the victim fights back that schools finally do something. Usually against the victim.
Yup, the second person always gets caught in the act. The person who instigates it rarely are seen starting it, especially when others show up because they heard all the noise after it already started.
When I was in school it was impossible to get the teachers or school admins to do anything about bullying. It does not sound like it has gotten any better in the past 50 years.
Happens all the time. Happened to me. Happened to my kid. They even knew about the bullying. They just don't care until it becomes a conflict, rather than ab use.
A few years ago, we had issues with my grandchild being bullied at school. Of course this was a school that claimed it had a zero tolerance policy towards bullying, but this grandchild first of all had a cliff lip scar, is part of the LBGTQ+ community and had the misfortune of being a head taller and about 50 lbs heavier than the kids that were bullying them, so even from the beginning of the situation they knew that just because of the size difference alone they could not really do much to protect themselves. My daughter had gone to the school when the bullying started to try to get help about this child being targeted and it is so funny how incident, after incident of this child being tripped, push from behind, having thing thrown at them and no teacher or administrator ever saw a thing. But when out kid finally got slapped by a kid outside of a music class and they told the kid to leave them alone because they hated him and they wished he was dead, our kid got suspended. One thing that is a fact is that the bullies control the situation, and they don't bully where teachers can see their actions and hear their words. And they also don't bully around anyone who would stand up for the kid being bullied, either because they are surrounded by their buddies, or because the other kids don't want to be victims themselves. And I also tend to believe in more than a few cases teachers never see the bullying because the teachers have issues with kids that look different, act different, or just don't fit into their definition of normal. So, when I heard the bully part my heart went out to the son, and I don't think he needs any lectures from dad when mom was the one using force and being aggressive and all the kid wanted to do is get away from her.
The guy at the lab who conspired against OP with the witch, yeah, he needs a special place in hell AFTER he gets his pants sued off and serves a prison sentence.
@@PungiFungi Oh yeah, definitely not his first rodeo. Probably not even his 5th or 6th time doing something like that. I mean changing the results 3X like that ... and only "getting a conscience" when the promised payment would take a few extra months, no it's a career of fraud.
Come on OP, the lab man deserves to go to jail. How many more family he is defrauding for money? And you are fine with that?? That says a lot about you too.
Unfortunately people like her are also VERY capable of making HIM disappear. I've heard too many true crime stories where the mom wanted full custody so she could run away with her affair partner and so she offs her husband to get what she wants. Wendi Adelson (her victim was Dan Markel) is a great example (and she has faced ZERO prison time, though her mom and brother were convicted, as it was easier to prove their involvement).
As a woman who has been married and divorced 3 times, I have to say I agree with you. I can totally see figuring out down the road you married the wrong person and I also do understand time and life change people and sometimes marriages end. But the truth is I do not believe that having an affair while being married is ever justified. I personally believe if you are no longer in love you go to your partner, tell them that the marriage isn't working, and you end it. To this day I do not understand how people who are struggling in a marriage can make the decision that bringing extra people into it with all of the extra lies and betrayal is a wise move. I found out that life is hard and marriage is hard too, and adding even more people and more drama into it isn't going to fix anything. People need to learn to be honest and call it quits when the love is over.
Women who do this to men should have their parental rights stripped, they should have to pay back years of what child support would have been from birth until 18 years old to the man that they deceived and then I also think that they should serve prison time for paternity fraud. Last time I checked there was one man who served 5 years in prison for a child that he later found out was never even his. And not a damn thing was done to that stupid woman who did that to him. That man lost 5 years of his life and hundreds of thousands of dollars in child support to a kid that he knew from day one was not his but for some reason the Court's absolutely refuse to do a paternity test I think paternity test should be mandatory at Birth just to make sure if you have nothing to hide what do you care. Too many women get away with this. Because not only is the man utterly traumatizing destroyed by this but usually the children are as well and those deadbeats do not think about this when they do it because at the end of the day they don't actually care about the child if they did they wouldn't lie for all those years on who their father was.
@@Zurroundhe didn't pay child support, I believe. If this is the case I'm thinking of, the mother wasn't actually to blame for the confusion surrounding paternity (at least not in full, as I discuss below I don't know what the situation around the child's conception was). The testing facility messed up and said it was 99.7% his baby. Then later they tested him for a TV show and it found ZERO percent chance he was the father. The mother DID know who the actual father was when she found out who she thought was the father was not. Stupidly tragic all the way around. He lost 5 years of his life and probably some mental security, she missed out on having more financial support for her kid, and her kid probably thought it's father was a deadbeat who would rather go to PRISON than pay to support the kid And to be clear: I don't know the situation surrounding conception. I don't know if cheating happened or they were friends with benefits or what.
15:41 what he did was self defense. You don’t want him defending himself? It’s not like he kept attacking her after he got loose. He got free and got in the car. Good job Johnny
Because i don't know how he kept his composure so long while she was detaining him like a prisoner if the son hadn't tried to free himself then she'd been laid out.
Never, ever, EVER let a kid, no matter the age, ever get the idea into their head that they can not defend themselves against an adult because of who they are. They have EVERY RIGHT to defend themselves if and when they need to. How many kids and teens have been seriously harmed or unalived by a parent? They have all the right to defend themselves. Grabbing onto him like that and not releasing him is assault battery and unlawful detention he has the right to get himself out of the situation by any means necessary. Who knows what she would do if he hadn't. You did good. You didn't encourage the behavior but DID WELL letting him do as he needed to do and not making hom feel he did wrong. I dealt with a mother who was mentally unstable, to put it midly, she tried to kill me 4 times, or at least 4 that I am 100% sure that was her intention there were other instances but I cannot be sure of her intent then. I knew I could defend myself, I remember very little of my father, he died before I turned 6, but I still remember his lessons: don't eat anything she gives you unless it comes in a sealed package or she bought it WITH YOU at a restaurant, don't let her or anyone ever corner you and if you need to ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS defend yourself. You are never to start fights or hurt others but if someone is trying to do something to you no matter who that is, defend yourself. It is these words that saved my life several times while I was in her custody. And they should be a lesson all children learn
Shoving someone who is trying to kidnap you is not an assault. And yes a “parent” can kidnap their own child if they take the child when they aren’t supposed to and against the will of the child. OP is smart for not knocking her out after what she did to the kid, shaking him and screaming at him. I’d have called the cops and gone draconian in every possible way after seeing the “mom” attacking the child and having it on video. OP is not proactive enough. Not even close tbh
My car horns every couple years has to be replaced because of the design. The water gets into it underneath and its ruins it. The other common way is if someone uses their horn a lot, it will wear out. It sounds like he has been using it a lot prior to this incident and/or it's an older horn. There's not a lot of other ways that a horn would just wear out on it's own, especially not using it multiple times during one incident.
Where were the cops after op blasted the horn that long. Wife is a scammer and sadly this happens a lot. They find some nice guy, get close and then ruin their life as well as take their money. I'm guessing this doesn't take place in America. Also how much do you want to bet that wife wanted to use son for free labor that her new husbands company. Op needs to sue that lab and wife for the fraud they committed. Also a simple exam of the kid would show he wasn't abused. Wife probably planned to bribe them as well
@@AnimeFreakX4 True but it depends on the rules and where the parking lot was ..securite is there to protect the BUILDING not to roam around unless the parking lot is adjected to the building and we don't know if this was the case. It also depends how long the horn was blased and IF it was not that close to the courthouse, then you have to count on the police ..and most cities are understaffed
ALWAYS stand up for yourself, do NOT let yourself be bullied. The boy did what he had to in order to make his mother let go, only after she repeatedly would not let go.
i'm sorry but if this is actually true, One if a kid is being restrained or attacked don't ever tell them they can't defend themselves. Two, the lab tech that falsified the result should lose his fucking job. no ands or ifs about it. if he's done it once he's obviously done it before and will continue with it.
@@Zurround well, no. If it was even possible for such a scam to occur at an accredited DNA testing facility. The fact that OP and his lawyer who heard this confession did nothing to bring the scammer at the lab to justice and have every result the lab ever gave reviewed, oh and sued them into bankruptcy, makes him as bad or worse than anyone in this story.
Hopefully the lawyer got it ALL on video. He would have been smart to do it. Maybe he should have told him to be careful with his anger. But she wouldn't let him go. She had been told to let him go. Numerous times. So she did get what she deserves. Stand up for him and tell the lawyer that he has only gotten physical when he was defending himself.
That's a wonderful ending! That man was willing to fight for Johnny even when he thought he wasn't his biological son. That kind of pop is priceless, biological or not!
OK, if Johnny had told that mom and bio dad had planned all that possible criminal activity then the Judge would have immediately removed him from her home and if all that was happening in the Court House lot, then the police would have been all over it.
You no longer get alimony if you cohabitate with someone. My stepfather’s ex-wife hid that she was cohabitating with her high school boyfriend for years. They finally had the money to hire a private investigator and she had to pay part of the money back from the point they could prove. Anyway, it’s silly she thinks she can get any alimony.
NTA OP. (Before updates.) You are Johnny's Dad in every way that matters, as he has himself shown. He is of an age that a court will listen to him QED. He just has to tell the judge that, if he is made to spend any time with his bio parents, he will run back home to his Dad. His mother assaulted him by grabbing his arm so tightly that he could not free himself other than by pushing her, although he did try (lawyer's video of the incident will confirm this.) She had no right to assault him so what he did would come under 'Least force necessary to restrain', or 'self defence.' OP, I am so sorry that you have had such a profound disappointment in your wife. However, you have the glorious consolation of a rather magnificent son! Good luck
On the subject of violence- sometimes it is necessary when it's used in self-defense, even when it's someone "stocky" like Johnny because unfortunately people will take advantage of size and assume as long they don't actually hit someone then they will not try to defend themselves. Teach the boy FAAFO, don't let violence be the first resort - let would be attackers know that you will defend yourself they should not keep doing whatever they are doing
I keep saying it. There needs to be a national law that ALL births in USA (other countries should do this too but I have no say at all with that, at least as an American citizen I can vote) require DNA test to prove parentage. It seriously needs to be a law. Science and technology are way beyond just "trusting" that its your kid and the law needs to update itself for that.
So she cheats lies to OP about it being his son and she’s a good guy. Even her own son doesn’t want to live with her and her new husband they had a chance to be happy and you don’t get it by walking over people. I hope those two never get their happy ending but I do want a good ending for Opie and his son.
She can have happiness with Nathan, but that does not include Johnny. The fact they were going so low and lieing about things like that. All because she didn’t get the money she thought she deserved. She doesn’t deserve anything.
I know that is pure fictionbut I actually kinda liked it. Not the horible Ai voice some have or mispronounced words. It also moved pretty quickly. Im a little more worried about some of the comments talking offing people.
The paternity thing really jumps the shark. Tests like this have a lot of double blind tests and paperwork for exactly this reason. They have to remain neutral to keep credibility with the courts.
Make your mind up. First Johny shoved Megan pretty hard. Then Johnny only shoved her a little bit and Nathan was there to catch her so what difference does it make. Then Johnny goes back to shoving her hard. Solicitor was filming all this interaction in the beginning but what, did he stop filming before the shaking & shoving issue? I’m not even going to touch on the lab guy and OP only needing to tell his lawyer (with or without the camera) because falsifying documents for use in court is a serious crime, and lawyer would have got that ball rolling easy as pie. 😏
S1 NTA) Your dad is a deadbeat dad and he closed his eyes to the abuse for years. Why do he think you should give him a chance when he never cared. Op get out that house as soon as you turn 18 and never look back at that family again. He still letting her rule him, the best revenge is living a good life. S2 NTA) Why stay with her? The wife expects you to stay with her in a dead relationship.
The same laws that unfairly force men to support children that are not theirs work another way. After 14 years with his name on the birth certificate and supporting and raising him - the law says he is the father. He can get 50/50 custody too. His wife doesn’t get to kidnap his kid
Who cheats and lies! Both the other people cheated and lied.aking this poor man raise and love a boy who wasn't his. So the least they deserve is to loss the boy. Having to pay for child support. They have been using that poor child and her soon to ex husband as an ATM and place holder.
STOP lying to children that ¨violence isn´t the answer when there are times that it is the ONLY answer. This is why bullies are so bold with their abuse.
The subject about how this is effecting Johnny should be a factor. He will get him therapy. They wouldn't. This is having a toll on the boy. The blood parents don't seem to care about his feelings. Treating him like a belonging not a human with feelings. That's not a parent.
OP Johnny is your son. I hope biological mother realizes that not only she was in wrong. That’s abuse. She wants to have her cake and eating too. They are both delusional. 🎊
The technician said that she was clearly immoral and unethical Dude, you just proved that you are also immoral and unethical. You get no brownie points for coming clean in this situation.
She can have happiness with Nathan, but that does not include Johnny. The fact they were going so low and lieing about things like that. All because she didn’t get the money she thought she deserved. She doesn’t deserve anything.
So she cheats lies to OP about it being his son and she’s a good guy. Even her own son doesn’t want to live with her and her new husband they had a chance to be happy and you don’t get it by walking over people. I hope those two never get their happy ending but I do want a good ending for Opie and his son.
Paternity fraud should be a crime with minimum 18y
In some countries, there is a prison sentence, and in nearly every country that I know of, you have to pay back child support.
@@gabak1292 I wish we had that in the US (payback of child support and jail sentence for paternity fraud) but unfortunately, the justice system is not very just.
You can sue but hardly worth the return.
@@kyleanuar9090 Yeah because the courts just don't care. They just don't want to take care of single mothers if they can help it. It's sad but it's the truth regarding this whole ordeal.
@@brad5167 Yeah, you're right, the US's justice system is messed up on a lot of things. It would be great if parents who commit paternity fraud would get legal consequences, including prison time. Personally, I think they should do DNA tests on every baby, not just because of paternity fraud but baby mix ups in hospitals can and do happen.
After 14 years of supporting the kid - he has established parental rights. The bio dad would owe all those years of back child support. If bio dad knew and didn’t try to seek visitation and pay child support the courts would discard any claims
I wouldn't care if he came to me and told me anything I would still have this dude's job and I would sue the laboratory.
exactly, he was a huge pawn for them and if they had won then he would have blissfully never told op anything.
@@fjnxtgdjsjeeh6073 exactly and the only reason that he came and told him was because the fact that he knew that he wouldn't be able to get the money out of the business that they were supposed to start.
Add OP would have gotten a substantial amount of money to live happily with his son.
Sounds good…except this story is 100% pure fiction.
I agree. What the lab tech did was immoral and a crime. He commented fraud. And I bet dollars to donuts he has done it before.
Don't ever get it in a kids head that he can't legitimately defend himself. I'm still dealing with this at 51.
Geeze, yes, it does stay with you. I'll be 70 in August and it still bothers me. Not to mention that I had an abusive marriage. We were only married 3 years. I never remarried. Was engaged once. I'm fine living by myself. I have twin daughters and a younger daughter. Plus I'm a great grandma of 4 boys and a baby on the way.
I do understand why people say that violence is not the answer but sometimes in some cases it can be as a last resort. And i mean when you defend yourself.
Expecially when a grown person attacks a CHILD
This was parental abuse!
Depends on the party in power where criminals can be the villain or protected species.
I do not. I wonder how they would have stopped Hitler, a cup of coffee and a nice talking too?
@@robertx8020 That's a good point. I know in the US this would be abuse. Laws does vary around the world on what's defined abuse and I'd imagine most first world countries would also be considered abuse.
@@kyleanuar9090okay but this isn’t the case here so what use is your comment???
He did not assault her, he defended himself from her shaking him and grabbing onto him without his consent! Johnny does not have a problem with violence, Johnny is a good boy who will eventually defend himself. Go Johnny
She deserved to be outed in court!! I get that OP just wanted closure, but after everything she pulled on OP and her son, she needs to face legal consequences. As for the lab employee- has he done this to other people?? Accusing the mother of fraud would have revealed his involvement and prevented future fraud or even corrected past court cases. So disgusting!!
Also kid has every right to defend himself. And if lawyer was recording, mom’s actions could be shown as abusive.
Even though he came clean, he could lose his position over such fraud.
The bullying part of the story is a believable part to me. Usually it’s only when the victim fights back that schools finally do something. Usually against the victim.
Yup, the second person always gets caught in the act. The person who instigates it rarely are seen starting it, especially when others show up because they heard all the noise after it already started.
When I was in school it was impossible to get the teachers or school admins to do anything about bullying. It does not sound like it has gotten any better in the past 50 years.
Happens all the time. Happened to me. Happened to my kid. They even knew about the bullying. They just don't care until it becomes a conflict, rather than ab use.
A few years ago, we had issues with my grandchild being bullied at school. Of course this was a school that claimed it had a zero tolerance policy towards bullying, but this grandchild first of all had a cliff lip scar, is part of the LBGTQ+ community and had the misfortune of being a head taller and about 50 lbs heavier than the kids that were bullying them, so even from the beginning of the situation they knew that just because of the size difference alone they could not really do much to protect themselves. My daughter had gone to the school when the bullying started to try to get help about this child being targeted and it is so funny how incident, after incident of this child being tripped, push from behind, having thing thrown at them and no teacher or administrator ever saw a thing. But when out kid finally got slapped by a kid outside of a music class and they told the kid to leave them alone because they hated him and they wished he was dead, our kid got suspended. One thing that is a fact is that the bullies control the situation, and they don't bully where teachers can see their actions and hear their words. And they also don't bully around anyone who would stand up for the kid being bullied, either because they are surrounded by their buddies, or because the other kids don't want to be victims themselves. And I also tend to believe in more than a few cases teachers never see the bullying because the teachers have issues with kids that look different, act different, or just don't fit into their definition of normal. So, when I heard the bully part my heart went out to the son, and I don't think he needs any lectures from dad when mom was the one using force and being aggressive and all the kid wanted to do is get away from her.
The guy at the lab who conspired against OP with the witch, yeah, he needs a special place in hell AFTER he gets his pants sued off and serves a prison sentence.
As someone else had also pointed out, this may not be the first time he’s done it.
@@PungiFungi Oh yeah, definitely not his first rodeo. Probably not even his 5th or 6th time doing something like that. I mean changing the results 3X like that ... and only "getting a conscience" when the promised payment would take a few extra months, no it's a career of fraud.
Good thing the lab person is fictional.
Come on OP, the lab man deserves to go to jail. How many more family he is defrauding for money? And you are fine with that?? That says a lot about you too.
People like her “disappear” mysteriously..
Unfortunately people like her are also VERY capable of making HIM disappear. I've heard too many true crime stories where the mom wanted full custody so she could run away with her affair partner and so she offs her husband to get what she wants. Wendi Adelson (her victim was Dan Markel) is a great example (and she has faced ZERO prison time, though her mom and brother were convicted, as it was easier to prove their involvement).
Anyone who would deprive a child of a loving parent needs to be arrested! Period! It's hard to think of someone caring so little about their child.
I love these women that are married, don’t work outside the home, and then go out and have an affair. Nothing like biting the hand that feeds you
As a woman who has been married and divorced 3 times, I have to say I agree with you. I can totally see figuring out down the road you married the wrong person and I also do understand time and life change people and sometimes marriages end. But the truth is I do not believe that having an affair while being married is ever justified. I personally believe if you are no longer in love you go to your partner, tell them that the marriage isn't working, and you end it. To this day I do not understand how people who are struggling in a marriage can make the decision that bringing extra people into it with all of the extra lies and betrayal is a wise move. I found out that life is hard and marriage is hard too, and adding even more people and more drama into it isn't going to fix anything. People need to learn to be honest and call it quits when the love is over.
Oftentimes our kids are SOUL family even if no DNA exists between them.
Women who do this to men should have their parental rights stripped, they should have to pay back years of what child support would have been from birth until 18 years old to the man that they deceived and then I also think that they should serve prison time for paternity fraud. Last time I checked there was one man who served 5 years in prison for a child that he later found out was never even his. And not a damn thing was done to that stupid woman who did that to him. That man lost 5 years of his life and hundreds of thousands of dollars in child support to a kid that he knew from day one was not his but for some reason the Court's absolutely refuse to do a paternity test I think paternity test should be mandatory at Birth just to make sure if you have nothing to hide what do you care. Too many women get away with this. Because not only is the man utterly traumatizing destroyed by this but usually the children are as well and those deadbeats do not think about this when they do it because at the end of the day they don't actually care about the child if they did they wouldn't lie for all those years on who their father was.
I agree with you 💯%.
I agree too.
Um.... Why did he serve 5 years in prison? That is kind of odd? 5 years for being a father?
@@Zurroundhe didn't pay child support, I believe. If this is the case I'm thinking of, the mother wasn't actually to blame for the confusion surrounding paternity (at least not in full, as I discuss below I don't know what the situation around the child's conception was). The testing facility messed up and said it was 99.7% his baby. Then later they tested him for a TV show and it found ZERO percent chance he was the father. The mother DID know who the actual father was when she found out who she thought was the father was not. Stupidly tragic all the way around. He lost 5 years of his life and probably some mental security, she missed out on having more financial support for her kid, and her kid probably thought it's father was a deadbeat who would rather go to PRISON than pay to support the kid
And to be clear: I don't know the situation surrounding conception. I don't know if cheating happened or they were friends with benefits or what.
15:41 what he did was self defense. You don’t want him defending himself?
It’s not like he kept attacking her after he got loose. He got free and got in the car. Good job Johnny
absolutely! she lucky that's all that happened.
Because i don't know how he kept his composure so long while she was detaining him like a prisoner if the son hadn't tried to free himself then she'd been laid out.
Wow! I did not expect that last development!
The courts are going to have to go back and retest a lot of people who used this lab. This is not a one time occurrence.
Plotting to destroy someone's life because the person she wanted "wasn't serious" at the time is gross
Johnny is your son, you raised him you loved him
Never, ever, EVER let a kid, no matter the age, ever get the idea into their head that they can not defend themselves against an adult because of who they are. They have EVERY RIGHT to defend themselves if and when they need to. How many kids and teens have been seriously harmed or unalived by a parent? They have all the right to defend themselves. Grabbing onto him like that and not releasing him is assault battery and unlawful detention he has the right to get himself out of the situation by any means necessary. Who knows what she would do if he hadn't. You did good. You didn't encourage the behavior but DID WELL letting him do as he needed to do and not making hom feel he did wrong. I dealt with a mother who was mentally unstable, to put it midly, she tried to kill me 4 times, or at least 4 that I am 100% sure that was her intention there were other instances but I cannot be sure of her intent then. I knew I could defend myself, I remember very little of my father, he died before I turned 6, but I still remember his lessons: don't eat anything she gives you unless it comes in a sealed package or she bought it WITH YOU at a restaurant, don't let her or anyone ever corner you and if you need to ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS defend yourself. You are never to start fights or hurt others but if someone is trying to do something to you no matter who that is, defend yourself. It is these words that saved my life several times while I was in her custody. And they should be a lesson all children learn
Do not punish your son for defending himself. I think it was only done because she would not freaking let go.
Shoving someone who is trying to kidnap you is not an assault.
And yes a “parent” can kidnap their own child if they take the child when they aren’t supposed to and against the will of the child.
OP is smart for not knocking her out after what she did to the kid, shaking him and screaming at him.
I’d have called the cops and gone draconian in every possible way after seeing the “mom” attacking the child and having it on video.
OP is not proactive enough. Not even close tbh
Honked so long the horn ran out............of????? Headed to the auto parts store for more horn fluid. 🤣😂
Buy some peeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepppps too 🤣🤣
Maybe he was talking about the battery but in that case ..how would you start your car?
Don't forget to top up the blinker fluid while you're at it!
@@ixxieangel 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣
My car horns every couple years has to be replaced because of the design. The water gets into it underneath and its ruins it. The other common way is if someone uses their horn a lot, it will wear out. It sounds like he has been using it a lot prior to this incident and/or it's an older horn. There's not a lot of other ways that a horn would just wear out on it's own, especially not using it multiple times during one incident.
@@ixxieangel Expected your username to be @ChrisFix
Where were the cops after op blasted the horn that long. Wife is a scammer and sadly this happens a lot. They find some nice guy, get close and then ruin their life as well as take their money.
I'm guessing this doesn't take place in America. Also how much do you want to bet that wife wanted to use son for free labor that her new husbands company.
Op needs to sue that lab and wife for the fraud they committed. Also a simple exam of the kid would show he wasn't abused. Wife probably planned to bribe them as well
Well tbh, depending on where OP lives, cops might not be around all the time ...or in the Donutshop /s
@robertx8020 didn't this happen during a custody hearing and even then they would be somewhere where security would be.
@@AnimeFreakX4 True but it depends on the rules and where the parking lot was ..securite is there to protect the BUILDING not to roam around unless the parking lot is adjected to the building and we don't know if this was the case.
It also depends how long the horn was blased and IF it was not that close to the courthouse, then you have to count on the police ..and most cities are understaffed
ALWAYS stand up for yourself, do NOT let yourself be bullied. The boy did what he had to in order to make his mother let go, only after she repeatedly would not let go.
If he's on the birth certificate then he can prove she knew and lied.
He only defended himself, and she would not let go mother or no mother this woman is messed up.
i'm sorry but if this is actually true, One if a kid is being restrained or attacked don't ever tell them they can't defend themselves. Two, the lab tech that falsified the result should lose his fucking job. no ands or ifs about it. if he's done it once he's obviously done it before and will continue with it.
So the guy didn’t retest in another lab!?
There was something wrong with all these adults.
Not all of them. The OP was a victim and the only good one.
@@Zurround well, no. If it was even possible for such a scam to occur at an accredited DNA testing facility. The fact that OP and his lawyer who heard this confession did nothing to bring the scammer at the lab to justice and have every result the lab ever gave reviewed, oh and sued them into bankruptcy, makes him as bad or worse than anyone in this story.
Hopefully the lawyer got it ALL on video. He would have been smart to do it. Maybe he should have told him to be careful with his anger. But she wouldn't let him go. She had been told to let him go. Numerous times. So she did get what she deserves. Stand up for him and tell the lawyer that he has only gotten physical when he was defending himself.
Ewwww, Johnny didn't win with decent parents. They're both really creepy.
He did inform you, so you got to give him credit.
SHE'LL GET MORE THAN A SHOVE IF THAT WAS ME.
That's a wonderful ending! That man was willing to fight for Johnny even when he thought he wasn't his biological son. That kind of pop is priceless, biological or not!
Maybe it was the lab tech. Seeing this. He is trying to fix a wrong. Or go to several places. Just so you don't tell her where.
OK, if Johnny had told that mom and bio dad had planned all that possible criminal activity then the Judge would have immediately removed him from her home and if all that was happening in the Court House lot, then the police would have been all over it.
Rips out laptop and starts furiously writing a novel. Me, after hearing this story. 📖
Not sure what country this is supposed to have taken place in, but if it is in the U.S., there are some plot holes to the story.
Usually they're places like India or Asia.
He still needs a paternity test. That might be his son.
You no longer get alimony if you cohabitate with someone. My stepfather’s ex-wife hid that she was cohabitating with her high school boyfriend for years. They finally had the money to hire a private investigator and she had to pay part of the money back from the point they could prove. Anyway, it’s silly she thinks she can get any alimony.
NTA OP. (Before updates.) You are Johnny's Dad in every way that matters, as he has himself shown. He is of an age that a court will listen to him QED. He just has to tell the judge that, if he is made to spend any time with his bio parents, he will run back home to his Dad. His mother assaulted him by grabbing his arm so tightly that he could not free himself other than by pushing her, although he did try (lawyer's video of the incident will confirm this.) She had no right to assault him so what he did would come under 'Least force necessary to restrain', or 'self defence.' OP, I am so sorry that you have had such a profound disappointment in your wife. However, you have the glorious consolation of a rather magnificent son! Good luck
On the subject of violence- sometimes it is necessary when it's used in self-defense, even when it's someone "stocky" like Johnny because unfortunately people will take advantage of size and assume as long they don't actually hit someone then they will not try to defend themselves.
Teach the boy FAAFO, don't let violence be the first resort - let would be attackers know that you will defend yourself they should not keep doing whatever they are doing
I want the update where Megan gets dumped by Nathan because she gave up on the alimony and settlement.....
Same here.
To add to that she pathetically crawls back to OP and son and they slam the door in her face
I keep saying it. There needs to be a national law that ALL births in USA (other countries should do this too but I have no say at all with that, at least as an American citizen I can vote) require DNA test to prove parentage. It seriously needs to be a law. Science and technology are way beyond just "trusting" that its your kid and the law needs to update itself for that.
If I remember well, it is the case in some case for the last year.
Yeah, then messing with the kids head and emotions.
So she cheats lies to OP about it being his son and she’s a good guy. Even her own son doesn’t want to live with her and her new husband they had a chance to be happy and you don’t get it by walking over people. I hope those two never get their happy ending but I do want a good ending for Opie and his son.
He should have recorded on his phone. Just to have extra proof.
I would have sued her for emotional damages for you and the son.
Of all the things that didn't happen, this didn't happen the most.
She can have happiness with Nathan, but that does not include Johnny. The fact they were going so low and lieing about things like that. All because she didn’t get the money she thought she deserved. She doesn’t deserve anything.
I know that is pure fictionbut I actually kinda liked it. Not the horible Ai voice some have or mispronounced words. It also moved pretty quickly. Im a little more worried about some of the comments talking offing people.
Got to a different lab to back up your proof.
The paternity thing really jumps the shark. Tests like this have a lot of double blind tests and paperwork for exactly this reason. They have to remain neutral to keep credibility with the courts.
Make your mind up. First Johny shoved Megan pretty hard. Then Johnny only shoved her a little bit and Nathan was there to catch her so what difference does it make. Then Johnny goes back to shoving her hard. Solicitor was filming all this interaction in the beginning but what, did he stop filming before the shaking & shoving issue? I’m not even going to touch on the lab guy and OP only needing to tell his lawyer (with or without the camera) because falsifying documents for use in court is a serious crime, and lawyer would have got that ball rolling easy as pie. 😏
Personally I would had sued her
S1 NTA) Your dad is a deadbeat dad and he closed his eyes to the abuse for years. Why do he think you should give him a chance when he never cared. Op get out that house as soon as you turn 18 and never look back at that family again. He still letting her rule him, the best revenge is living a good life. S2 NTA) Why stay with her? The wife expects you to stay with her in a dead relationship.
The same laws that unfairly force men to support children that are not theirs work another way. After 14 years with his name on the birth certificate and supporting and raising him - the law says he is the father. He can get 50/50 custody too. His wife doesn’t get to kidnap his kid
Who cheats and lies! Both the other people cheated and lied.aking this poor man raise and love a boy who wasn't his. So the least they deserve is to loss the boy. Having to pay for child support. They have been using that poor child and her soon to ex husband as an ATM and place holder.
STOP lying to children that ¨violence isn´t the answer when there are times that it is the ONLY answer. This is why bullies are so bold with their abuse.
Creative (?) fiction by a 12 year old.... "until the horn ran out..." Really? LOL
Maybe THE BATTERY?>
You are to focused on finding 'gotchas
The horn runs off a fuse and those blow really easy
@@jonathonvillella1614 You're right I forgot about that
The subject about how this is effecting Johnny should be a factor. He will get him therapy. They wouldn't. This is having a toll on the boy. The blood parents don't seem to care about his feelings. Treating him like a belonging not a human with feelings. That's not a parent.
Horn ran out?
Vile and evil !!!!
Use a different lab for paternity test
So dramatic... like a cw show
OP Johnny is your son. I hope biological mother realizes that not only she was in wrong. That’s abuse. She wants to have her cake and eating too. They are both delusional. 🎊
The technician said that she was clearly immoral and unethical
Dude, you just proved that you are also immoral and unethical. You get no brownie points for coming clean in this situation.
Find the fraudulent paternity test bit a little far fetched
Should have told Nathan she can have her happy life just not with my money
"Money isn't everything". Translation: "Size matters too".
You are so naive, my dear chap.
Not very perceptive are you; too embedded in your emotions.
He only defended himself, and she would not let go mother or no mother this woman is messed up.
She can have happiness with Nathan, but that does not include Johnny. The fact they were going so low and lieing about things like that. All because she didn’t get the money she thought she deserved. She doesn’t deserve anything.
Damn straight. And she doesn't deserve to have a relationship with her son, either, after all the heinous ?#*$ she pulled.
So she cheats lies to OP about it being his son and she’s a good guy. Even her own son doesn’t want to live with her and her new husband they had a chance to be happy and you don’t get it by walking over people. I hope those two never get their happy ending but I do want a good ending for Opie and his son.
Same here.