Sometimes it’s best to be alone. We don’t always need a partner or significant other to validate us and make us feel whole. You have to learn to be ok on your own before you go out into the world and look for a partner.
Niam ntshuab teev aws tej zaj no kuv dhau los lawm ib tug poj nrauj mas tu siab tshaj plaws li peb cov pojniam hmoob uas muaj txiv mas saib tsis taus peb cov pojnrauj nimno kuj muaj lub neej lawm tabtsis lub neej dhau los xav txog mas tu siab kawg nkaus qhia 6 tus niam tsev no
That is what I am saying, after the first husband, why bother with another one? Have another one is having another child to take care of and being torture and abuse by him. Being by yourself when you are old is enough work as it is, sister. Taking care of yourself is hard already.
Tuaj nyob teb chaw no kev mus ua niam tshiab ma nyuaj tiagtiag. Nyob ntuj qub qab tsua muaj niam tshiab tsi hlub minyuam ntsuag tab si nyob teb chaw no ces lub ntuj tig rov lawm os, yeej pom coob tu ntsib txoj kev no tu siab kawgggg
Omg, sounds a little similar to my life too. He has 1 child with a white girl from a previous relationship and I have 2 from a previous marriage. I couldn’t say anything to his child. If I did, I didn’t love his kid. If I didn’t, I didn’t love his kid. If he was naughty, which he was, I’d tell his dad, his dad would yell back at me. My ex husband was never on my side. Never stood up for me. Him and his family always said that I was a bad hearted new mom. My ex mother in law didn’t help either in a sense that she could never see that her grandson did any wrong. Let alone my ex husband. She never said anything to my step son either. He was SO naughty! The other thing that was similar was that my step son’s mom did take off too. Cheated on my ex husband- followed other men. Never stable. Once she found out we got married, she wanted him back. Started calling again. Wanted her son back. ETC. He said no, BUT whenever she called or text and its not about their child, he’d be responsive and attentive to her needs. He’d always put her first or feelings first before me. ETC. If I said anything afterwards, he’d be mad at me. I really felt like I was there too- to be a slave or just go places with him to show “face,” and or to show he had “someone.” Even my mother in law made me feel, I wasn’t enough compared to my ex husband’s ex girlfriend. So stressful and hurt! But my step son wasn’t ever “mean,” to me like how these kids were & my kids are not mean to him or my ex’s family. The mom did brain wash my step son a lot. I mean A LOT. A difference is that we had 2 kids together- a boy and a little girl. But sometimes, so called “love,” isn’t enough. There so much more to my life, but fast forward also 5 years, we got divorce. He didn’t want to be married to such a horrible person anymore who doesn’t love his son and his family. Fine. Okay. I didn’t want another divorce under my name. But I was so sad & depressed. I lost so much weight. But fast forward another 5 years later, I went back to school. Got my degree. Going back for higher education. Taking care of my kids by myself. Living in my house that I bought myself for my kids and I. And he has been wanting me back and pursuing me for last 2,3 years. When he started to pursue me again, “I was such a great mom. Patient wife. I really did love his child just like mine. So, did my parents, 2 brothers & 2 sisters. They treated him like they were MY kids. Im a good hearted person. I never yelled, just wanted what was best. I never even yelled at his mom!!!! He's sorry. He didnt see his wrong. ETC………his mom wants me back too. So does his stepson.” Again, there’s so much to MY story, but I understand somewhat what this lady is saying. I don’t know what the future holds in MY life and future, but I also definitely learned a lot more around this time, but I am not dating or haven’t dated since my second divorce. Im so much happier even if it’s just my kids and I. But we’ll see what happens.
Stepkids are very evil, but everyone sees them as angels bc they're "kids". There's no point of wasting time on a fool who has no respect for you at all.
Ab tsi muaj tus txiv twb tsi tuag los sav tib neeg tuag puv toj puv pes twb tsi muaj ib tus es tuag txiv neej es tsi txhob coj yus tus kheej mus rua lawv tsim txom os mog
Me viv ncaus aw ua cas ua neej yuav nyuaj ua luaj li os pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog, nyob meka teb chaw no tsis muaj txiv los yeej tsis tuag thiab tsis muaj txiv thiaj li kaj siab os mog, txhob tu tu siab thiab os. Cov txiv hmoob no ces tsis muaj npa ham rau tus txiv tham hluas nkauj los yeej muaj npa ham lwm yam nawb, qhov zoo ces yus nyob yus thiaj kaj siab.
Tus mes viv ncaus txawm yog zoo li kos es kuv los ua poj nrauj tau kaum lub xyoo no lawm kuv thiaj tsi thub lab cov txiv yawg nrauj ntawd los tus mes viv ncaus
Cov txiv neej li ntawd niam ntsuab hais no yeej tseeb nawb vim kuv pom kiag ntawd kuv tsev neeg kiag ua rau kuv tau hais cov kwv tij tlj kiag qhov teeb meem mas yog li no tus kwv tij ntawd ua neeb kho iam tais thiab yawm txiv nrog nws nyob tsis pub niam tais thiab yawm txiv vas npuas nrog nes tsev neeg kuu thiaj hais nws yuav vas niam nkawv nrog nej xwb vim niam nkawd nrog koj nyob tus kwv ntawd cem kuv kiag kuv thiaj tau hais rau nws zoo ua koj niam nkawd yuav tu siab
Being single is also a choice it doesn't mean no one want you. Know your value. Dont settle for less just because our culture view you as "Not A Good Enough" woman just for being single. Single can be lonely at time but most of the time you're free and can do whatever you want. Dont let that 5% loneliness make you take a wrong road.
Love is blind. We forget to realized that after a divorced, when looking for a new spouse we have to see if this new person truly loves our children before settling down. U could love someone, but if they don't love ur children, it's no bueno.
Tus me Viv ncau aws txaus ntshai heev os tiam no tsi txiv zoo kiag li os av tsim nyob li ko xwb os mog. Kuv Los ntshes yuav poj ntsuam tag tiam no thiab os vim tsi muaj txiv neej zoo li lawm os.
Cov me nyuam liam li ko ces yog niam txiv liam es me nyuam thiaj li txawj lim hiam li ko mas niam txiv coj tsis zoo ne ces me nyuam thiaj li tsis zoo los ntawm niam txiv tsis yog txiv os yog txiv dev xwb na nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam nws zoo duas
Me vivncaus aw... txhob tus siab mog peb pojniam yeej yug los poob txhua txoj cai. Tam sim no cov txiv neej zoo xyov puas muaj 1% lawm tsis muaj tus txiv los u nyob u tsis tuag txiv li mog.
It must had been hard for all parties involved including all the children. It is just a sad and unfortunate situation. Best to just date only if there are young children involved. There’s always two sides to every story
Cov me nyuam phem li ko vim nws niam thiab nws txw kom nws ua. Kuv twb dhau lub neej lwj siab li ko los lawm phem tiag tiag li os tu me Niam tsev aws. Txhob mus lawm zoo dua nawb
Nej cov nkauj nrab twb hais tias thaum ua hluas nkauj deev hluas nraug tsis tau txaus siab es ntu laus no mam nrauj txiv los nyob ua kom txaus pauj yav thaum hluas no ces txhob tu2 siab thiab txhob yuav txiv thiaj tau li qhov yus ntshaw hos
Txiv neej ruam. Yus yug tau tsawg tsawg xwb es thiaj nrog luag hlub luag tej thiab mas. Ib tug neeg coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no ces yuav leej twg los tsis haum.
Sib nrauj lawm ces txhob yuav poj niam thiab txhob yuav txiv lawm vim tej me nyuam tsis sib haum. Kuv tij laug poj niam tuag lawm es nws yuav tau ib tug poj ntsuam los ces coj tau 5 tug me nyuam los ntxiv kuv tij laug 5 tug thiab mas cov me nyuam tsis sib haum kiag li ces kuv tij laug cov nyob hauv qab daus hos niam tij cov nyob sab saum living room mas ua neej nyuab siab kawg. Ua mus ua los kuv tij laug mob hlwb dhau lawm ces nws ua siab tuag lawv niam tij hlob qab lawm thiab.
If you already sense from the children that they hate you why would you blindly go ahead and marry him? You just made yourself suffer in your 2nd marriage. He already told you his kids are his first priority and he'll always be on their side.
Riku Xiong children should be their parents’ first priority. I’m sure she thought these kids would grow to like her. She didn’t expect them to be so mean and hateful.
@@maimoua3992 I think your children should be one of your "top" priority since you choose to have them, you must be a responsible adult BUT that doesn't mean you stand by all their wrong-doing. It's part of your job as a parent to teach your kids manners, compassion etc. Also, these children are going to grow up and live their lives soon. If the father already knew how needy his kids are, why bother to go looking for a significant other?
Yog muaj tseeb li tus tsev no hais tiag tus txiv neej no yuav 1000 tus poj niam tom ntej no los yeej tus haum tus yuav haum nws ces yog yuav tus pob ntseg yeej tsis hnov neeg ntiaj teb ib lo lus thiab lub qhov muag los yeej tsis ib yam khoom nyob hauv ntiaj teb no li mas thiaj yuav haum vim lawv hais li cas los nws tsis hmov hos lawv ua li cas los nws tsis pom ces thiaj yuav haum tus txiv neej no
raug leej niam cob lawm os cov me nyuam no na leej niam xav ua kom tus txiv tsis muaj neej ua es cia tus niam ua rau lawv txiv ntsia xwb na cov me nyuam teb chaws no yog tsis muaj tus cob mas lawv tsis txawj ua phem os yog lawv niam cob lawv lawm os
Ntuj aw, niag txiv phem txiv liam ko ces muab pob tseg kiag! Cov niag me nyuam phem ko ces kav tsij muab pov tseg kiag thiab os..me nyuam tsis sawm zoo, niag txiv tsis sawm zoo...sib phim ua cov niag txiv tub phem lim hiam! They don’t deserve your love. Let them suffer, cia cov neeg phem ko ua ntsuag ciaj!!!
Sister I also been there and done that. Rau peb cov poj niam hmong, hlub peb tus kheej thiab peb cov me nyuam mog tsis txhog coj yus thiab yus cov me nyuam mus rau luag tsim vim yus ntshaw txiv.
lawv txiv twb cia siab tias lawv niam yuav rov qab los. koj tus txiv no nws tsis hlub koj yog hlub ces nws yeej tsis nrog nws cov menyuam ua phem rau koj. nws tsum tiv thaiv koj. nws tsis xav yuav koj lawm xwb os es nws thiaj cia nws cov menyuam ua phem rau koj. tus txiv neej no tsis thas yuav, veg tu nrho, cov menyuam no tsis yog yus yug ces yeej phem vim lawv niam twb yog tus kom cov menyuam ua phem los mas.
I agree, our kids is always our first priority, but discipline should be involve with those kids behaviors. Seem like the Dad have no discipline for his kids. Most step kids always get influenced by their own birth mom, to hate on the new mom.
Tsi tau hnov tus txiv cov lus tab sis yog phem npaum ko lawm ces xyeeb hlo pov tseg xwb Tsi kk nws kiag li lawm cia nws nrog nws cov me nyuam ua neej xwb
I would not deal with that bullshit!! If a man cannot protect you, he's not for you!! It was hard for me to listen to this story. It mad me really mad!! It takes a lot to become a STRONG WOMAN!! And once u become one, no man can handle u and u wouldn't want no WEAK man either!! Good Luck!!
There is always more to the one side story. Everyone so quick to blame the kids and father. Don’t forget your children is your # priority, mother or father. Maybe she wasn’t filling the parental role. If you don’t want heart ache, don’t marry someone with baggage.
I can't stand parents who suck up to their kids. As parents we should always find out the truth first and even them still need to be fair. If you're going to always stick up for your kids regardless how bad your kids is then you'll be taking care of them when they're old too and even raise the grandkids too.
Asiane yang y did you always have to call people dumb u r dumbass cuz u don't understand it. Just because you are lesbian. U should never be rude calling other people names.
Tus niam tsev aws koj ruam lo ntse na es koj tseem mus khaws tus yawg nrauj ko lo ua kev nyuab siab na nws cov me nyuam tsis nyiam koj ceev faj tsam koj mag cov me nyuam ko lom thiab tsim.koj xum muab nrauj mus txhob khes tus yawg nrauj ko xum cia bws nyob nrog nws pab me nyuam os kav tsij ntxov taem ntxov zoo vim lawv ntxub koj txhob yuav tus yawg nrauj ko os vim koj tus txiv ko tuaj tiaj nws cov me nyuam.tog xum txhob yuav zoo dua
Kuv ntseeg tias lawv xav tias lawv tsuas xav kom lawv txiv hlub lawv xwb vim lawv ntshai tsam ib tug niag Poj niam uas tsis yog lawv niam los tsam tsis hlub lawv thiab lawv ntshai qhib lawv lub siab los lees ib tug stranger rau hauv lawv lub tsev. Qhov tseeb yog lawv niam tseem nyob hauv lub Nyiaj teb no ces lawv tsis kam acept a new person to share their father’s life
Tim tus txiv tsi xwb os. Koj tus txiv yeej tsi hlub koj tiag, nws fwm fwm nws cov menyuam nws thiajli tsi khoo ua tawv qhawv rau cov menyuam. Zoo qhov uas cov niag menyuam dab tsi tau dag muab koj foob rau police os.
Nws twb tias koj siab me me no ne?? Nws twb hlub tsis taus koj cov mi nyuam thiab ces nyias mus nyias xwb moj!! Ntuj aw!!! cas koj tseem nrog taus nyiag yawm hmoob ntawd nyob taus 5 lub xyoos diam?? Koj tus txiv ko ces txiv nyiaj xwb, nws lub siab me dhau, tsis tas siib tham lawm, kua muag poob lig dhau lawm, txhob tu siab, tus zoo 2 tseem tshuav
Lawv es... Tiam tsiab no ce txob yuav txiv lawm os tham hlua nraug kau nyiaj xwb lo ma yog tsi muaj nyiaj ce muab pog thoob khib nyiab nriav dua tu tsiab xwb os ua hlua nkauj hlua nraug kaj siab tsaj tsi ta sib yuav li os
He spoil his kids, you spoil yours,u can’t love his kids, he can’t love your kids, no one can spent money for each other kids.This why meskas hais tias sib nrauj lawm ces nyob single zoo dua. Peb poj niam hmoob cas pheej nyob tsis tau ib leeg li. Twb yog lwj2 siab thiaj sib nrauj, khiav dai mus ntsib tsov,hais thiab tsis hais los yeej txhaum tag, koj cov kuv cov los nyob ua ke ces zoo li miv thiab dev xwb, koj thiab kuv kev hlub ploj dais tim qab ntug li no xwb tiag lawv e..
Most of the time, cov me nyuam phem phem ces twg yog los ntawm leej niam leej txiv los ntag mas. Niam thiab txiv coj tus cwj pwm phem phem ces tej me tub me nyuam thiaj phem phem.
Tu siab ua luaj. Ua ib lub neej poj nrauj yeev xav kom yus muaj ib lub neej kaj siab xwb. If that was me sister, I will never marry a hmong men ever again. Lawm muaj muaj cai li os!
I know it a 2 side to the story. But some kids is very disrespectful to the step mom or step dad as well. These kids are rude n disrespectful. Bit its also all start from the husband he's not a man enough to control n raised his own kids right.
Cia zaj dab neeg no qhia kom txhob muaj Poj nrauj yawg nrauj coob2 vim lub neej niam yog txiv nta ces zoo li no vim luag minyuam los tsis hwm yus yus minyuam los tsis hwm tsis mloog lawv ua lub neej nyuaj npaum li cas es sawv daws sib ub sib zam es thiaj tsis nyuaj2 txog tej niag minyuam no laub tom
Cov me nyuam no tseem phem tshaj leej niam lawm na hos qhov tseeb twb yog leej niam txw kom leej txi tsis muaj lub neej xwb cov menyuam nyuam yog menyuam dab ntxwg nyoog xwb na es koj tseem xav ntshaw thiab
Txiv Dev zoo li no ces muaj coob os. Muaj ib tug txiv Dev nws tus poj niam deev hluas nraug muaj ib tug me nyuam Los nws tseem ua Dev leg hlub nws tus poj niam. Tom qab nkawv sib nrauj tag nws tus poj niam twb mus tham xyov pes tsawg tus hluas nraug lawm Los thaub ntawd haj tseem niaj hnub khuv xim pog tseem niaj hnub Hu pog thov pog rov Los yuav. Cov txiv dev zoo li no ces tab tom haum cov poj niam Liam22 thiab heev22 xwbnws thiaj li nyoo. Yog tus poj niam zoo CES kawg raug nws tsim xwb. Leej twg ntsib thiaj paub os.
Tus me niam tsev aws txawm yuav pes tsawg tiam lo cov txiv neej liam no yeej tsis pauv tsis hloov li os txiv neej hmoob ces cov ua hluas ces yeej yog feem coob xwb os txhob tos txiv neej txoj kev hlub lawm mog txhob tu siab lo ua poj nrauj lo tsis yog koj xwb muaj puv qab ntuj na teb chaw no tsis luaj teb ntov ntoo lawm.os xum nyob ua poj nrauj kom tag tiam no.yog yeej zoo yuav txiv lo yeej muaj muaj kev nyuab siab os
I'm glad tus Niam tsev left those evil kids and the husband. No need to stay best to leave.
Ua poj nrauj yuav tsum siv hlwb es thiaj tsis raug dag, raug tsim. Nyob ibleeg kaj siab duas. Txiv neej los poob peev ib yam tabsis lawv tsis lees xwb.
Yog lawm ma
Poj niam tau ua poj nrauj tus txiv kuj yog yawg nrauj thiab nev..😜😜
Sometimes it’s best to be alone. We don’t always need a partner or significant other to validate us and make us feel whole. You have to learn to be ok on your own before you go out into the world and look for a partner.
Most definitely!! Why does some women act like it’s the end of the world without men!!
Agree 100%
Niam ntshuab teev aws tej zaj no kuv dhau los lawm ib tug poj nrauj mas tu siab tshaj plaws li peb cov pojniam hmoob uas muaj txiv mas saib tsis taus peb cov pojnrauj nimno kuj muaj lub neej lawm tabtsis lub neej dhau los xav txog mas tu siab kawg nkaus qhia 6 tus niam tsev no
ua niam tshiab ces yeej zoo li no os mog sister. nyob twj ywm zoo dua mog. I feel you. you so strong. sonproud of you.👏👏
Tus txiv neej hmoob ntawv tsis yog txiv neej. All his fault. Nws yog hom txiv neej hnav tiab xwb.
That is what I am saying, after the first husband, why bother with another one? Have another one is having another child to take care of and being torture and abuse by him. Being by yourself when you are old is enough work as it is, sister. Taking care of yourself is hard already.
We all can't tell what tomorrow will being. I live for today, but others live for tomorrow. Yet they don't know tomorrow my never come.
Tuaj nyob teb chaw no kev mus ua niam tshiab ma nyuaj tiagtiag. Nyob ntuj qub qab tsua muaj niam tshiab tsi hlub minyuam ntsuag tab si nyob teb chaw no ces lub ntuj tig rov lawm os, yeej pom coob tu ntsib txoj kev no tu siab kawgggg
Omg, sounds a little similar to my life too. He has 1 child with a white girl from a previous relationship and I have 2 from a previous marriage. I couldn’t say anything to his child. If I did, I didn’t love his kid. If I didn’t, I didn’t love his kid. If he was naughty, which he was, I’d tell his dad, his dad would yell back at me. My ex husband was never on my side. Never stood up for me. Him and his family always said that I was a bad hearted new mom. My ex mother in law didn’t help either in a sense that she could never see that her grandson did any wrong. Let alone my ex husband. She never said anything to my step son either. He was SO naughty! The other thing that was similar was that my step son’s mom did take off too. Cheated on my ex husband- followed other men. Never stable. Once she found out we got married, she wanted him back. Started calling again. Wanted her son back. ETC. He said no, BUT whenever she called or text and its not about their child, he’d be responsive and attentive to her needs. He’d always put her first or feelings first before me. ETC. If I said anything afterwards, he’d be mad at me. I really felt like I was there too- to be a slave or just go places with him to show “face,” and or to show he had “someone.” Even my mother in law made me feel, I wasn’t enough compared to my ex husband’s ex girlfriend. So stressful and hurt! But my step son wasn’t ever “mean,” to me like how these kids were & my kids are not mean to him or my ex’s family. The mom did brain wash my step son a lot. I mean A LOT. A difference is that we had 2 kids together- a boy and a little girl. But sometimes, so called “love,” isn’t enough. There so much more to my life, but fast forward also 5 years, we got divorce. He didn’t want to be married to such a horrible person anymore who doesn’t love his son and his family. Fine. Okay. I didn’t want another divorce under my name. But I was so sad & depressed. I lost so much weight. But fast forward another 5 years later, I went back to school. Got my degree. Going back for higher education. Taking care of my kids by myself. Living in my house that I bought myself for my kids and I. And he has been wanting me back and pursuing me for last 2,3 years. When he started to pursue me again, “I was such a great mom. Patient wife. I really did love his child just like mine. So, did my parents, 2 brothers & 2 sisters. They treated him like they were MY kids. Im a good hearted person. I never yelled, just wanted what was best. I never even yelled at his mom!!!! He's sorry. He didnt see his wrong. ETC………his mom wants me back too. So does his stepson.” Again, there’s so much to MY story, but I understand somewhat what this lady is saying. I don’t know what the future holds in MY life and future, but I also definitely learned a lot more around this time, but I am not dating or haven’t dated since my second divorce. Im so much happier even if it’s just my kids and I. But we’ll see what happens.
Stepkids are very evil, but everyone sees them as angels bc they're "kids". There's no point of wasting time on a fool who has no respect for you at all.
Agree 100%
Ab tsi muaj tus txiv twb tsi tuag los sav tib neeg tuag puv toj puv pes twb tsi muaj ib tus es tuag txiv neej es tsi txhob coj yus tus kheej mus rua lawv tsim txom os mog
Wow hom txiv neeg Zoo li no mas lawb neeg lawb dab tib si lau.
Cov me nyuam dab ntxhaug no koj txhob hlub lawv....koj tus txiv ntawm koj los koj yuav tsum muab lawv tso plig kom tag......
🤣🤣🤣🤣yog lawm yog lawm. Muab dov kauj vab kom tag yom lol
Peb yuav tau train peb tus kheej tias peb yuav lawv txiv peb tsis muaj yuav yuam kom lawv cov menyuam nyiam yus li os. Cia lawv nyob lawv qhov chaw yus nyob yus qhov chaw xwb zoo dua.
Me viv ncaus aw ua cas ua neej yuav nyuaj ua luaj li os pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog, nyob meka teb chaw no tsis muaj txiv los yeej tsis tuag thiab tsis muaj txiv thiaj li kaj siab os mog, txhob tu tu siab thiab os. Cov txiv hmoob no ces tsis muaj npa ham rau tus txiv tham hluas nkauj los yeej muaj npa ham lwm yam nawb, qhov zoo ces yus nyob yus thiaj kaj siab.
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no siab phem thiab heev dhau lawm yeej tsim nyog peb cov txiv tsev nrhiav noj sab nrauv nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw........
Twg kom yus ntshaw2 nws thiab yus tsab2 muaj es
Niam ntsuab nteev koj cov neej neeg e koj kom mu saib li ca kv g nkag siab kj pab qhia kv seb
I'm glad you're strong enough to walk away.
Ditto that!
Kev hlub li no xwb ce xum ua poj nrauj zoo dua
ntuj e om kuv neeg zoo lus thov kom lub. ntuj pab daim av coj es kuv tau nrog koj ua neej xwb os me muam tus neeg zoo
Um glad you learned and grew. Wishing you well, sister
Tus mes viv ncaus txawm yog zoo li kos es kuv los ua poj nrauj tau kaum lub xyoo no lawm kuv thiaj tsi thub lab cov txiv yawg nrauj ntawd los tus mes viv ncaus
tus muam koj muaj tsawg xyoo lawm os?
Cov menyuam zoo li no, kawg ciaj laib.
kookashi me nyuam laib phem ces yog pab no ntag ma cov zoo tsis coj li no txawm tsis nyiam los tsis txhob mus ua phem li ntawv rau
Koj ua yog tsis txhob ntseeg txiv neej cov lus dag txiv neej yeej cov zoo tab sis muaj cov phem yog cov coob lub neej 1 tsis zoo lawm ces nyob ib leeg zoo dua
yes men are bad just tham deev xwb txhob yuav nawb..poj nrauj ces txiv neej yeej tsis yuav li lawm vim lawv hais tias poj nrauj yeej phem
Cov txiv neej li ntawd niam ntsuab hais no yeej tseeb nawb vim kuv pom kiag ntawd kuv tsev neeg kiag ua rau kuv tau hais cov kwv tij tlj kiag qhov teeb meem mas yog li no tus kwv tij ntawd ua neeb kho iam tais thiab yawm txiv nrog nws nyob tsis pub niam tais thiab yawm txiv vas npuas nrog nes tsev neeg kuu thiaj hais nws yuav vas niam nkawv nrog nej xwb vim niam nkawd nrog koj nyob tus kwv ntawd cem kuv kiag kuv thiaj tau hais rau nws zoo ua koj niam nkawd yuav tu siab
Being single is also a choice it doesn't mean no one want you. Know your value. Dont settle for less just because our culture view you as "Not A Good Enough" woman just for being single. Single can be lonely at time but most of the time you're free and can do whatever you want. Dont let that 5% loneliness make you take a wrong road.
Love is blind. We forget to realized that after a divorced, when looking for a new spouse we have to see if this new person truly loves our children before settling down. U could love someone, but if they don't love ur children, it's no bueno.
I’m not ganna be in love enough to deal any other man’s rude kids!!
Tus me Viv ncau aws txaus ntshai heev os tiam no tsi txiv zoo kiag li os av tsim nyob li ko xwb os mog. Kuv Los ntshes yuav poj ntsuam tag tiam no thiab os vim tsi muaj txiv neej zoo li lawm os.
Cov me nyuam liam li ko ces yog niam txiv liam es me nyuam thiaj li txawj lim hiam li ko mas niam txiv coj tsis zoo ne ces me nyuam thiaj li tsis zoo los ntawm niam txiv tsis yog txiv os yog txiv dev xwb na nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam nws zoo duas
Menyuam no lim hiam tiag tiag li
Tus me niam tsev koj ntsib tsis yog tus neeg yuav hlub koj xwb tus zoo tseem muaj
Me vivncaus aw... txhob tus siab mog peb pojniam yeej yug los poob txhua txoj cai. Tam sim no cov txiv neej zoo xyov puas muaj 1% lawm tsis muaj tus txiv los u nyob u tsis tuag txiv li mog.
It must had been hard for all parties involved including all the children. It is just a sad and unfortunate situation. Best to just date only if there are young children involved. There’s always two sides to every story
yog koj tus txiv hlub koj nws yeej koom siab nrog koj ces neb. yeej yeej cov menyuam xwv. Nws tsis tuaj koj tog...kuv nraug los lawm. Wb sib koom siab Wb yeej lawv tag nrho. lawv mloog Wb lus tom qab no.
Menyuam hmoob mes kas tsis txawj hwm leej twg tsis hlub leej twg lawv.
Koj ntshaw koj niag txiv ntawd dhau lawm koj thiaj nyob ntev npaum li koj. Lawm txawm tsim koj npaum ntawd los koj thiaj pheev nyob ntev npaum.
Li no thiaj yog niam tsev zoo mog
Cov me nyuam phem li ko vim nws niam thiab nws txw kom nws ua. Kuv twb dhau lub neej lwj siab li ko los lawm phem tiag tiag li os tu me Niam tsev aws. Txhob mus lawm zoo dua nawb
Nej cov nkauj nrab twb hais tias thaum ua hluas nkauj deev hluas nraug tsis tau txaus siab es ntu laus no mam nrauj txiv los nyob ua kom txaus pauj yav thaum hluas no ces txhob tu2 siab thiab txhob yuav txiv thiaj tau li qhov yus ntshaw hos
Txiv neej ruam. Yus yug tau tsawg tsawg xwb es thiaj nrog luag hlub luag tej thiab mas.
Ib tug neeg coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no ces yuav leej twg los tsis haum.
niam txiv phem ces yug tau me tub me nyuam yeej phem os.thiab yog ib tug txiv coj li no mob hlwb dhau kuv ces kawg tso tseg ntshe yuav kaj siab dua .
Sib nrauj lawm ces txhob yuav poj niam thiab txhob yuav txiv lawm vim tej me nyuam tsis sib haum. Kuv tij laug poj niam tuag lawm es nws yuav tau ib tug poj ntsuam los ces coj tau 5 tug me nyuam los ntxiv kuv tij laug 5 tug thiab mas cov me nyuam tsis sib haum kiag li ces kuv tij laug cov nyob hauv qab daus hos niam tij cov nyob sab saum living room mas ua neej nyuab siab kawg. Ua mus ua los kuv tij laug mob hlwb dhau lawm ces nws ua siab tuag lawv niam tij hlob qab lawm thiab.
Yog lawm tus niam txev tsis tuab tus siab, txiv neej siabphem tsaj nyob rau ntiaj teb no os
If you already sense from the children that they hate you why would you blindly go ahead and marry him? You just made yourself suffer in your 2nd marriage. He already told you his kids are his first priority and he'll always be on their side.
yeah, she's too desperate for marriage knowing she's not his priority.
Riku Xiong children should be their parents’ first priority. I’m sure she thought these kids would grow to like her. She didn’t expect them to be so mean and hateful.
@@maimoua3992 I think your children should be one of your "top" priority since you choose to have them, you must be a responsible adult BUT that doesn't mean you stand by all their wrong-doing. It's part of your job as a parent to teach your kids manners, compassion etc. Also, these children are going to grow up and live their lives soon. If the father already knew how needy his kids are, why bother to go looking for a significant other?
Riku Xiong I agree when the kids are wrong you correct the behavior
Sad story sister 😭😭😭
Yog muaj tseeb li tus tsev no hais tiag tus txiv neej no yuav 1000 tus poj niam tom ntej no los yeej tus haum tus yuav haum nws ces yog yuav tus pob ntseg yeej tsis hnov neeg ntiaj teb ib lo lus thiab lub qhov muag los yeej tsis ib yam khoom nyob hauv ntiaj teb no li mas thiaj yuav haum vim lawv hais li cas los nws tsis hmov hos lawv ua li cas los nws tsis pom ces thiaj yuav haum tus txiv neej no
Tus mi niam tsev aw tus siab los tus tsis tag li lawm es koj hlub koj tus kheej os
Tsis tau ua niam tshiab tsis paub txoj kev me nyuam Liam hiam vim ib txhia yog leej niam qhia kom los ua rau yus xwb
raug leej niam cob lawm os cov me nyuam no na leej niam xav ua kom tus txiv tsis muaj neej ua es cia tus niam ua rau lawv txiv ntsia xwb na cov me nyuam teb chaws no yog tsis muaj tus cob mas lawv tsis txawj ua phem os yog lawv niam cob lawv lawm os
Tseem muaj tus zoo thiab uas yog koj ho tsis ntsi nws xwb txiv neen tsis phem tas tus nawb . Poj nism loz yeej zoo tsis txhua tus thiab ov mog
Ntuj aw, niag txiv phem txiv liam ko ces muab pob tseg kiag! Cov niag me nyuam phem ko ces kav tsij muab pov tseg kiag thiab os..me nyuam tsis sawm zoo, niag txiv tsis sawm zoo...sib phim ua cov niag txiv tub phem lim hiam! They don’t deserve your love. Let them suffer, cia cov neeg phem ko ua ntsuag ciaj!!!
Tej zaum koj pheej ncauj ntau thiab heev dhau lawm pob lo
Txhob yuav txiv hmoob lawm os.txiv neej hmoob yeej tas tus zoo li ntaw xwb os.
Yog tus txiv thiab cov menyuam liam li no tso tseg zoo dua tsis tas nkim lub sijhawm nyob mus nyob yus zoo dua
Sister awww....tsis muaj leej twg yuav hloov tau yus niam qhov chaw os. Kuv yeej zoo li cov menyuam ntawd thiab. Yus yeej tsis xav kom leej twg los hloov yus niam yus txiv qhov chaw. Txawm phem zoo los yus yeej xav kom tsuas muaj yus niam thiab yus txiv xwb.
Yeej tsis muaj leej twg hloov tau yus niam qhov chaw tias sis twb tsis yog tus niam tshiab ntawv nws rhuav koj niam nkawv lub neej neb es tsis txhob ua siab phem rau luag yus yog me tub me nyuam xwb luag txawm yog niam tshiab xwb los lub npe niam yuav tsum tau hwm es yus thiaj tsis npam yog niam tshiab yeej hlub yus thiab yuav tau hwm thiab
Sister I also been there and done that. Rau peb cov poj niam hmong, hlub peb tus kheej thiab peb cov me nyuam mog tsis txhog coj yus thiab yus cov me nyuam mus rau luag tsim vim yus ntshaw txiv.
lawv txiv twb cia siab tias lawv niam yuav rov qab los. koj tus txiv no nws tsis hlub koj yog hlub ces nws yeej tsis nrog nws cov menyuam ua phem rau koj. nws tsum tiv thaiv koj. nws tsis xav yuav koj lawm xwb os es nws thiaj cia nws cov menyuam ua phem rau koj. tus txiv neej no tsis thas yuav, veg tu nrho, cov menyuam no tsis yog yus yug ces yeej phem vim lawv niam twb yog tus kom cov menyuam ua phem los mas.
Niam luas koj lub neej tu saib tshaj li os kuv nrog koj tu siab heev😭😭😭😭
Yog leej twg tsis tau uas niam tshiab txhob rawm tuag os mogtxoj kev uas niam tshiab yeej lwj siab li no os
Lub neej txais ib tog ib leeg ib tse me nyuam ces cov zoo yog cov tsawg feem ntau ces yeej yog kuav txob thiab qhov muag xwb os mog
nyob zoo os tus me niam tsev...tus tswv zaj neej neeg (ua poj nrauj kom tag tiam no) ...me muam aw kuv hais rau koj tias koj hmoov phem nawb koj txaiv tau ib tug txiv tsev tsis tau zoo txaus nawb ...nws yog ib tug txiv tsev tsis txawj cob qhia me nyuam kom nkag siab txog neb lub neej tiag...kuv yog koj nws yuav kuv xwb tsis yuav yus cov me nyuam ...kuv xum tsis yuav mog
Zoo li no ce kawg nrauj xwb o
I agree, our kids is always our first priority, but discipline should be involve with those kids behaviors. Seem like the Dad have no discipline for his kids. Most step kids always get influenced by their own birth mom, to hate on the new mom.
Sim neej no leej twg tsi ntsib cov yawg nrauj tsheej pab menyuam phem li no ces txhob rawm tuag nawj.
Tsi tau hnov tus txiv cov lus tab sis yog phem npaum ko lawm ces xyeeb hlo pov tseg xwb Tsi kk nws kiag li lawm cia nws nrog nws cov me nyuam ua neej xwb
I would not deal with that bullshit!! If a man cannot protect you, he's not for you!! It was hard for me to listen to this story. It mad me really mad!! It takes a lot to become a STRONG WOMAN!! And once u become one, no man can handle u and u wouldn't want no WEAK man either!! Good Luck!!
There is always more to the one side story. Everyone so quick to blame the kids and father. Don’t forget your children is your # priority, mother or father. Maybe she wasn’t filling the parental role. If you don’t want heart ache, don’t marry someone with baggage.
I can't stand parents who suck up to their kids. As parents we should always find out the truth first and even them still need to be fair. If you're going to always stick up for your kids regardless how bad your kids is then you'll be taking care of them when they're old too and even raise the grandkids too.
KOJ yog ib tug Pojniam RUAM tshaj plaws. Txiv tag lawm los cas es koj yuav ua ib tug Maum Dev lino rau ib tug Txiv DEV thiab na?
Asiane yang y did you always have to call people dumb u r dumbass cuz u don't understand it. Just because you are lesbian. U should never be rude calling other people names.
Tus niam tsev aws koj ruam lo ntse na es koj tseem mus khaws tus yawg nrauj ko lo ua kev nyuab siab na nws cov me nyuam tsis nyiam koj ceev faj tsam koj mag cov me nyuam ko lom thiab tsim.koj xum muab nrauj mus txhob khes tus yawg nrauj ko xum cia bws nyob nrog nws pab me nyuam os kav tsij ntxov taem ntxov zoo vim lawv ntxub koj txhob yuav tus yawg nrauj ko os vim koj tus txiv ko tuaj tiaj nws cov me nyuam.tog xum txhob yuav zoo dua
Follow up with the dude, how many more wives were let go because of the kids n his attitude?
Me nyuam deb os
Kuv ntseeg tias lawv xav tias lawv tsuas xav kom lawv txiv hlub lawv xwb vim lawv ntshai tsam ib tug niag Poj niam uas tsis yog lawv niam los tsam tsis hlub lawv thiab lawv ntshai qhib lawv lub siab los lees ib tug stranger rau hauv lawv lub tsev. Qhov tseeb yog lawv niam tseem nyob hauv lub Nyiaj teb no ces lawv tsis kam acept a new person to share their father’s life
Txhob tu siab os tus muam, tej zaum koj yeej nqa tau daim ntawv los zoo li ko es nyob twj ywm sawvdaws thiaj saib taus koj mog
Tim tus txiv tsi xwb os. Koj tus txiv yeej tsi hlub koj tiag, nws fwm fwm nws cov menyuam nws thiajli tsi khoo ua tawv qhawv rau cov menyuam.
Zoo qhov uas cov niag menyuam dab tsi tau dag muab koj foob rau police os.
Niag siab phem li ntawd ntuj thiaj li tsis pub kom muaj me nyuam coob coob...
Nws twb tias koj siab me me no ne?? Nws twb hlub tsis taus koj cov mi nyuam thiab ces nyias mus nyias xwb moj!! Ntuj aw!!! cas koj tseem nrog taus nyiag yawm hmoob ntawd nyob taus 5 lub xyoos diam?? Koj tus txiv ko ces txiv nyiaj xwb, nws lub siab me dhau, tsis tas siib tham lawm, kua muag poob lig dhau lawm, txhob tu siab, tus zoo 2 tseem tshuav
Lawv es... Tiam tsiab no ce txob yuav txiv lawm os tham hlua nraug kau nyiaj xwb lo ma yog tsi muaj nyiaj ce muab pog thoob khib nyiab nriav dua tu tsiab xwb os ua hlua nkauj hlua nraug kaj siab tsaj tsi ta sib yuav li os
He spoil his kids, you spoil yours,u can’t love his kids, he can’t love your kids, no one can spent money for each other kids.This why meskas hais tias sib nrauj lawm ces nyob single zoo dua. Peb poj niam hmoob cas pheej nyob tsis tau ib leeg li. Twb yog lwj2 siab thiaj sib nrauj, khiav dai mus ntsib tsov,hais thiab tsis hais los yeej txhaum tag, koj cov kuv cov los nyob ua ke ces zoo li miv thiab dev xwb, koj thiab kuv kev hlub ploj dais tim qab ntug li no xwb tiag lawv e..
Wow! Txhob tu siab tag tag tej zaum koj twb paub lawm ... tsis tau txog xwb.
Txhob rawm tas Kev cia siab mas. Nyuam qhuav ob tug txiv xwb. Koj tsis tau ntsib tus neeg zoo xwb os. Yeej muaj cov siab zoo thiab nas.
Txiv tas lawm koj thiaj yuav tus txiv tshiab ntawv ntev npaum kov os. Nws twb tsis hlub koj es thiab tsis hlub koj tus mes nyuam mas.
Most of the time, cov me nyuam phem phem ces twg yog los ntawm leej niam leej txiv los ntag mas. Niam thiab txiv coj tus cwj pwm phem phem ces tej me tub me nyuam thiaj phem phem.
Yes, one evil family! They deserved each other.
Tu siab ua luaj. Ua ib lub neej poj nrauj yeev xav kom yus muaj ib lub neej kaj siab xwb. If that was me sister, I will never marry a hmong men ever again. Lawm muaj muaj cai li os!
Tham hluasgauj tsis txhaum yog nej phaum laus xwb nawb, peb phaum no ces yog tham hluas nkauj..poj niam paub ces yus kawg ua dev nqov ntuj
Cov txiv neej coj li tus no yog npua los thawj xwb os .
Those kids are definitely spoiled.
I know it a 2 side to the story. But some kids is very disrespectful to the step mom or step dad as well. These kids are rude n disrespectful. Bit its also all start from the husband he's not a man enough to control n raised his own kids right.
Cia zaj dab neeg no qhia kom txhob muaj Poj nrauj yawg nrauj coob2 vim lub neej niam yog txiv nta ces zoo li no vim luag minyuam los tsis hwm yus yus minyuam los tsis hwm tsis mloog lawv ua lub neej nyuaj npaum li cas es sawv daws sib ub sib zam es thiaj tsis nyuaj2 txog tej niag minyuam no laub tom
Cov me nyuam no tseem phem tshaj leej niam lawm na hos qhov tseeb twb yog leej niam txw kom leej txi tsis muaj lub neej xwb cov menyuam nyuam yog menyuam dab ntxwg nyoog xwb na es koj tseem xav ntshaw thiab
Poj niam hmoob ma ib qho ob qho Los quaj, ncaw taw ua nw kua muag tu kiag
Pog aws....... txiv neej tag lawm los ua li cas yuav muab koj cov me nyuam cia ua ntsuag ciaj tiag2 li os.
Txiv Dev zoo li no ces muaj coob os. Muaj ib tug txiv Dev nws tus poj niam deev hluas nraug muaj ib tug me nyuam Los nws tseem ua Dev leg hlub nws tus poj niam. Tom qab nkawv sib nrauj tag nws tus poj niam twb mus tham xyov pes tsawg tus hluas nraug lawm Los thaub ntawd haj tseem niaj hnub khuv xim pog tseem niaj hnub Hu pog thov pog rov Los yuav. Cov txiv dev zoo li no ces tab tom haum cov poj niam Liam22 thiab heev22 xwbnws thiaj li nyoo. Yog tus poj niam zoo CES kawg raug nws tsim xwb. Leej twg ntsib thiaj paub os.
Good for you niam tsev. you can still date for fun but just don't move in together. this is the USA. good luck to you.
Tus me niam tsev aws txawm yuav pes tsawg tiam lo cov txiv neej liam no yeej tsis pauv tsis hloov li os txiv neej hmoob ces cov ua hluas ces yeej yog feem coob xwb os txhob tos txiv neej txoj kev hlub lawm mog txhob tu siab lo ua poj nrauj lo tsis yog koj xwb muaj puv qab ntuj na teb chaw no tsis luaj teb ntov ntoo lawm.os xum nyob ua poj nrauj kom tag tiam no.yog yeej zoo yuav txiv lo yeej muaj muaj kev nyuab siab os
Tsis yuav tu txiv neej no lawm nawb. Tog muaj tiag.
Ho yo cov txiv neej dev tsis Muaj qhov muag zoo li ko ces muab lawb xwb os txhob nyob ua nws qhev os
Hob yau pab niag txiv tub zoo li ko ces kav tsij ntxov muab lawb xwb os..xaj maim no yog tsis zoo ces nrauj tsawg tus tsis ua cas li os sister aw.