Cole Swindell - You Should Be Here (Official Music Video)

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  • @haste91
    @haste91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    I lost my wife last Wednesday and the visitation is today. I’m breaking down and I wish she could still be here. Our kids are hurting, my family is hurting. I love you Kelly. Rest in Heaven baby

    • @dwaynehartkopf7049
      @dwaynehartkopf7049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My deepest and dearest condolences to you and your family.

    • @muk002954
      @muk002954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hang in there man, all the best to you.

    • @Magnetism412
      @Magnetism412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lifting you and your kids in prayers. She is always with you and watching over your kids.

    • @Ghosty921
      @Ghosty921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m very sorry for your loss but at least she’s in a better place

    • @alexrobles6603
      @alexrobles6603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I dont want ur going thourg but hang in there i lost my dad last year i know loss a wife must be hard but God loves u

  • @teresabeaudoin1361
    @teresabeaudoin1361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6465

    To everyone who has lost a parent, a best buddy, someone you just can't imagine your life without.. this song is for you! We miss all y'all!!

    • @pammitchell5476
      @pammitchell5476 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i know we miss all yall

    • @taconiteamvs3884
      @taconiteamvs3884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I never had a father figure growing up but man, I wish I had a country lovin one.

    • @kennysmith5985
      @kennysmith5985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I lost my best friend a year ago today an this song brings me to my knees every time I hear it I miss him so much 😔

    • @CordeliaPinegar
      @CordeliaPinegar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      My brother 3 months today

    • @melindawoodard5921
      @melindawoodard5921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My son 21 years ago.

  • @dennisbartley1776
    @dennisbartley1776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2126

    My girlfriend lost a tough battle with congestive heart failure at the age of 25. We laid her to rest yesterday and this song hits home so hard. Fly high angel I love you.

    • @craigwhite8918
      @craigwhite8918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Never easy to lose someone you love. Especially when they had a whole life to live.

    • @tylerhiller9477
      @tylerhiller9477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m real sorry man

    • @Lu-ev7lk
      @Lu-ev7lk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm so sorry for your loss my sympathy goes out to you.she had a whole life ahead of her

    • @bighanky8919
      @bighanky8919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So sorry about your lost god bless you

    • @carsoncraig5426
      @carsoncraig5426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dennis Bartley sorry for your loss

  • @tiffanyd1528
    @tiffanyd1528 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    Lost my mom out of no where unexpectedly in November 2023. Thanks for this song. Hug your loved ones every chance you get

    • @jermiebolt-ru2lg
      @jermiebolt-ru2lg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My heart felt apologies to you, prayers for you !! Keep strong

    • @TuffyMyer
      @TuffyMyer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lost my brother on 12/30/00 and still hurts like it was yesterday

    • @garritydavid6225
      @garritydavid6225 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry for Your loss Hugs

    • @ThatKidDuke04
      @ThatKidDuke04 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes you should most my mom in 2012 I was 8 and it only gets worse cause you realize how much of an impact they make on your life just everything I love you and miss you more than every mom 💔💔😭

    • @preknife
      @preknife 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lost my dad unexpectedly in April and God I miss him so much . . . I always thought I'd have more time with him

  • @brianajones1634
    @brianajones1634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2022

    I lost my dad 5 years ago😢I really miss him. Like this if you have lost someone that you loved❤

    • @joshingraham5145
      @joshingraham5145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      i lost both of my parents and this is the only song that reminds me and my siblings of them. im sorry for loss

    • @d4rkk_k4rma16
      @d4rkk_k4rma16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am 100% Very sorry for your loss

    • @d4rkk_k4rma16
      @d4rkk_k4rma16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@joshingraham5145 I am 100% very sorry for your loss

    • @makayla5033
      @makayla5033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost my grate gramall

    • @thiscowboyhat8659
      @thiscowboyhat8659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm sorry for your lost I lost my uncle that served in the Vietnam war in a tractor accident in 2014 and I miss him

  • @cyndieriksen
    @cyndieriksen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    I lost my oldest son 3 yrs ago,he was 24. His girlfriend was pregnant with his first baby. His daughter is his twin. I miss him so much. He should be here

    • @emilyann5073
      @emilyann5073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I feel the pain of your loss and my heart.goes out to you!

    • @uhhh3903
      @uhhh3903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i’m so sorry, i lost my grandfather 2 years ago, he was my father figure for a while and it hurts like hell still, i don’t know how you got through that but i’m so proud of you for that, i just like to think they’re in a good place with everyone else we’ve lost looking over us and keeping us safe

    • @warrenw939
      @warrenw939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cyndi I lost my son Austin to suicide on October 3rd, he would’ve turned 24 on October 29th

    • @emilyann5073
      @emilyann5073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@warrenw939I empathise with you intense pain. My hope is for you to one day be strong to recover from this heart shattering tragedy. Understanding and forgiveness, for him and you for yourself, will be key. May the holy spirit comfort you and family.

    • @armahneesnead5991
      @armahneesnead5991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I lost my baby sister she was 9 months old 😢 😪

  • @jeffreyketchum9324
    @jeffreyketchum9324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9440

    For those of you who are lucky enough to have your parents still alive, for the love of God hug them and tell them you love them. Mine are both gone and miss them every day. And those of you who are reading this comment, you may not know me but I just wanted to tell you I love you and you're here on this Earth for a reason 😉😘

    • @MyName-mn7yu
      @MyName-mn7yu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      I lost 2 dads 😭😭 my moms the only parent I have- I tell her I love her daily...

    • @joshuaward8073
      @joshuaward8073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      The lose of a mother on Mother’s Day is the absolute worse

    • @walterfocus682
      @walterfocus682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Hello there ✋

    • @imaCLOVER
      @imaCLOVER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      So true lost my bio dad Oct.17 2018 and my mama nov 27 2018.. A month and 10 days apart. No rewind button yall ❤😔

    • @hanaberry.shortcake
      @hanaberry.shortcake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This goes for those with rocky relationships, too. I lost my dad two and a half weeks ago and he wasn’t a great dad tbh. Always made me promises he never kept, best me here and there, had to tell me about his drug problem, lied to me over the phone about while being obviously high. But he went through some kind of crazy trauma as a child and never got help for it. He never had a chance. When he died, he was starting to get better. Had stoped using, had a steady job, and he made enough money to support his mother. Then while driving an 18-wheeler for work, he swerved to avoid a truck driving the wrong way on a one-lane bridge, and my dad went over the bridge and died at the hospital. We found out later that there had been a van with kids behind the pickup truck. My dad purposely drove himself off the bridge to avoid killing the idiot pickup driver and the family in the van. He was a good man who had a lot of demons, few of which were his fault. It made our relationship rocky for sure, but I loved him dearly and he loved me more than the whole world. Having a bad relationship doesn’t make the pain any easier.

  • @racingrebel823
    @racingrebel823 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My aunt passed away this week and my cuzins are taking it really hard. We'll we all are but this song reminds me of my aunt. I love you aunt Tammy and I miss you dearly you were like my second mom. ❤

  • @kimdrehmel7613
    @kimdrehmel7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    5 years ago I lost my 19yr old son in a car accident. I'll miss his smile forever. Update! Celebrated Brandon's 25th birthday yesterday 6-24-20. I know he's in a better place but as a mom I would give anything if he could be here 💖

    • @casandrabrown219
      @casandrabrown219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      im sry thats sad

    • @casandrabrown219
      @casandrabrown219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i lost me dad mat 13 of last year and i miss haveing daddy and doughter time it sucks loosing someone so close to you

    • @hidhhhh
      @hidhhhh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m so sorry for your lost I wish I could help you with it I wish we don’t have to loose ones we love but it’s part of life the hardest part of life I lost my uncle a couple weeks ago 😢

    • @kimdrehmel7613
      @kimdrehmel7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hidhhhh so sorry for your loss, the pain is endless 😢😇

    • @clevermulemeli1518
      @clevermulemeli1518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry 😭😭😭😭

  • @georgiedawn4427
    @georgiedawn4427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    My nephew was murdered while he slept and not able to defend himself. That was 2 months before he would have walked across the stage to receive his HS diploma. Miss his phone calls, texts and the pop in visits. I miss his stories he loved to tell and his laugh. I miss his big goofy grin. I just miss him. He should be here!

  • @KotaKronic
    @KotaKronic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    Today is Father's Day. To everyone who has lost a parent just know they are watching over you and love you very much and they miss you too❤

    • @ChadSawtelle
      @ChadSawtelle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I lost my mother last fathers day and it been hard thank you for this message

  • @gennylingerfelt8501
    @gennylingerfelt8501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +303

    I lost my dad on May 2022, lost my mom in December 2023 and my grandmother on Valentines Day 2024. Never take your loved ones for granted. Hug them tight everyday.

    • @Brandon-ch2ot
      @Brandon-ch2ot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Wow. Stay strong. I am sorry for your losses

    • @rjay7019
      @rjay7019 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm sorry 😢 💔 I know how hard it is. I've been through it. Also lost my husband of 32 years he was my best friend 😢 people say time heals. IDK about that. It still hurts.

    • @bethann7811
      @bethann7811 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @Mitzy-yh4hm
      @Mitzy-yh4hm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss, your such a strong person, never forget how strong you truly are.

    • @DanielEllenburg-zu3ju
      @DanielEllenburg-zu3ju 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I lost my dad last year on Valentine's Day

  • @vinceengelking6803
    @vinceengelking6803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    My mom passed away a good 10 years before this song ever reached the air ways. When I first heard this song it literally brought me to my knees. I miss my mom dearly and every time I hear this song I tear up. My mom passed way to young from Colon cancer.
    In loving memory of
    Patricia Martha Engelking

    • @thecypress4011
      @thecypress4011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im sorry for your loss. Just know they are watching over you. God bless you and your family.

    • @daniellebeehan2485
      @daniellebeehan2485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💕💕💕💕

    • @thereal843parker
      @thereal843parker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      my nana died when i was 9 it hit me hard because she was the one person their with me when nobody else was there for me when i was going threw hard times

    • @mattdodson4857
      @mattdodson4857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️🙏

    • @htown2pa365
      @htown2pa365 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My daddy died in 2014 still in 2020 it makes me weak but I'm sure they are both looking down with smiles from ear to ear chin up brotha

  • @richardrobinson6830
    @richardrobinson6830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    I'm 12 and my dad passed away when we went to his funeral we played this song bc he should be here thought every moment but he's not here he passed April 24 2020 I miss him so much

    • @lanarobbins91
      @lanarobbins91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yea its hard when you lost someone who means the world to you i lost my uncle to cancer around 5 months ago and it still hurts to know hes gone so i know how you feel

    • @sethcoble9033
      @sethcoble9033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I lost my dad 2 years ago i was 39 whn he died i cnt imagine if i would have lost him at ur age u r a strong young man and just remener no matter where u are n life ur dad will alway b with u god bless u lil man prayers to u and ur family

    • @tomswink5394
      @tomswink5394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sethcoble9033 God bless you kid he's looking down on u

    • @lisahilton6270
      @lisahilton6270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey kid just always know ur dad is with u always and he's ur guardian angel now just keep him close to ur heart and u will always feel him with u...i lost my dad in 07 and it still hurts to this day...just keep going and just know u will see him again someday...

    • @graceypelech2974
      @graceypelech2974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so sorry :(

  • @michaeldewitt467
    @michaeldewitt467 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3603

    I lost my real dad to cancer and today I made it a year without drugs and alcohol.

    • @eaglesrlife
      @eaglesrlife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Michael Dewitt nice work!

    • @steveduprey2367
      @steveduprey2367 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Keep moving forward, fight the good fight!

    • @trishlamour7030
      @trishlamour7030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      That's so tough, and I'm sorry for your loss. Congratulations on getting your year I know your dad would be proud. Hang in there and keep fighting it, you're worth the fight.

    • @lyricmannixon1793
      @lyricmannixon1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      who cares

    • @zk6754
      @zk6754 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Just got dads death certificate. His “wife” was a snotty bitch that the family grew to not like. I disagree with how she handled his death & life but I needed this closure.

  • @SuperKingStevie
    @SuperKingStevie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I lost my momma in 2013. I wish she could be here. See me do great things. You taught me how to be kind to everyone I meet. Love ya mom. Really miss you.

    • @storm197512
      @storm197512 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is watching over you. She can see everything you do. She is your guardian angel.

    • @joaniefoxworthy
      @joaniefoxworthy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@storm197512 this is exactly what I was gonna say . She's seeing everything tou do smiling and proud of you!

    • @EmmaKinney-q4z
      @EmmaKinney-q4z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost my step Dad to suicide he hung hinself like I tried to do several times and on May 27th of this year 2024 I was gonna hang myself and before I could my now ex gf stopped me and if u didn’t know I’m bi sexual and non binary and poly

  • @christinastevedarnell7307
    @christinastevedarnell7307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1043

    My husband died 10 years ago and omg today I heard this song it was deep he should be here with me watching our grandbabies grow

    • @joyhruska9377
      @joyhruska9377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I completely understand how you feel. My husband passed un 06 and he has missed weddings, graduations, grandbabies, so much. He should be here too. Sending hugs.

    • @davidclements503
      @davidclements503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This will never let me forget my April Lee craig

    • @joyhruska9377
      @joyhruska9377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@davidclements503 i understand. We belong to a club that unfortunately nobody wants to be in. Sending hugs.

    • @davelinkous2248
      @davelinkous2248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Love u

    • @rhondamendiola794
      @rhondamendiola794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      SO 😪 SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS💔

  • @daiseymae6263
    @daiseymae6263 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    I just lost my 26 year old son, this song will be played at his celebration of life, thanks to all these amazingly talented artist who write and perform these songs for us.

    • @popasmurfyblue4901
      @popasmurfyblue4901 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sorry for your loss, god bless you 🙏

    • @chikajoy7757
      @chikajoy7757 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So sorry dear

    • @daiseymae6263
      @daiseymae6263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@popasmurfyblue4901 thank you

    • @claymcclendon
      @claymcclendon ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cannot Imagine, So sorry for your loss

    • @FiveSeVIIen
      @FiveSeVIIen ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its good to remember your son is in a better place, no hurt or hate, no sadness. hes okay now, now its your turn to find your happiness, you dont have to forget him, but you do have to start living the life he wanted you to live.

  • @michellemorgan9671
    @michellemorgan9671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Lost my son to suicide three years ago on August 9th and I have dedicated this song to him. I love and miss him so very much and to this day I cry when I hear it. His birthday is coming up and this is exactly how I feel...He should be here

    • @SHDANK
      @SHDANK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This brought a tear to me eyes, may god bless you and if anyone shall be lookin’ down on you, may it only be your loved ones above

    • @missourigirl7272
      @missourigirl7272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm sorry for your lose I lost my mom to suicide August 4th 2014.. it still bothers me everyday..

    • @monicat5164
      @monicat5164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So sad to hear of the loss of your beloved child. Hugs to you❤️

    • @Jen-qi5qm
      @Jen-qi5qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost my younger brother to suicide in 2006. I also miss him terribly and wish he could be here.... every day....

    • @candykay4533
      @candykay4533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lost my son too. Ryan forever 10

  • @lydiajackson9304
    @lydiajackson9304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I found my dad passed, will forever haunt me. Please cherish your dad’s even when they are being hard work and shouting i promise you’ll miss it.

    • @mikesimko5834
      @mikesimko5834 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand my Dad paaes suddenly on March 23, 2024 found face down on the floor at the end of his bed.

  • @dustinolson9032
    @dustinolson9032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    The pain never goes away once they're gone, but yet we still have to move on. Always hug them like it's the last one.

    • @sheenatolentino1871
      @sheenatolentino1871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Q

    • @AG-_-Blockz
      @AG-_-Blockz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True. My dad passed away from Cancer a few weeks ago and I talked to him a week and a half before that and never knew it would be the last. His health dropped dramatically after our phone call.

    • @dayneshelton7343
      @dayneshelton7343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AG-_-Blockz prayers to y’all

    • @alondraaacevedo3812
      @alondraaacevedo3812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello

    • @roseannamanues2111
      @roseannamanues2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even though I get mad and upset at my cousin over the things that he says when he’s drunk. I still love him and I am going to miss him when he’s gone. On top of stomach cancer and kidney and pancreas. He just got told that he now has blood cancer. The doctor gives him less than a year

  • @MyName-mn7yu
    @MyName-mn7yu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    My dad died and this is the song we played at his funeral and I just cant stand it I break down every time I hear this song 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Edit: Thanks for all the likes :') appreciate it

    • @mattcross3846
      @mattcross3846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @markmccormick8481
      @markmccormick8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same Here

    • @jaidynallred1451
      @jaidynallred1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i just now brought myself to listen to this after having it play at my dad funeral 2 years ago. i couldn’t even finish the songggg

    • @SantiagoGarcia-vj8ms
      @SantiagoGarcia-vj8ms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We played at my grandpas funeral

    • @montanaw5808
      @montanaw5808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here we played this at my mom's funeral in 2019

  • @kootyies6118
    @kootyies6118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    my grandpa was in the hospital and he showed me this song and said “ everytime you’re feeling down just remember i’ll always be here “ and then he passed away 20 minutes later right there in front of me he passed away giving his little buddy one more hug i miss you 🥺

  • @johnpahlbrandonblatz6449
    @johnpahlbrandonblatz6449 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    lost my brother 3 years ago . we all miss you down here bubba . youd freak out knowing you got another neice or nephew on the way . Til i see you again

  • @samanthatemke3142
    @samanthatemke3142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    This song hits a lot different now that my dad has passed and it made me grateful for every moment we had together ❤️

    • @sylveon1067
      @sylveon1067 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @toddporter1267
      @toddporter1267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I listened to this song with my mom after dad passed now I play it for them both since they were reunited in heaven on 2020.its not about who we lost or when.what matters what we did with the time we had.dont count on tomorrow .it's not promised to anyone .

    • @evanwinship7326
      @evanwinship7326 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too man my dad always listen to this with me because his dad died and now I listen to it because of him

    • @kesiyarodas164
      @kesiyarodas164 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, it's been two months for me to handle this pain

    • @jeffreyes1568
      @jeffreyes1568 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad passed away last year
      Sure do miss him. He was my best friend

  • @mattwoolwine9472
    @mattwoolwine9472 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I lost my dad last week.. this song is for him. Thank you for this song

    • @Flex__365
      @Flex__365 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love is eternal ❤ Sorry for your loss, but this song brought us all here🙏

    • @jeffkosinski7090
      @jeffkosinski7090 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just said goodbye to my dad today, he passed 2 days ago.

    • @Flex__365
      @Flex__365 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @jeffkosinski7090 Playing it for you brother🙏

    • @TeresaBeardsley-og4ci
      @TeresaBeardsley-og4ci 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I loss my dad a year ago.

    • @RT-wq8bd
      @RT-wq8bd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry for your loss. I never had a Dad so I can only imagine the hurt.

  • @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557
    @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    I should be here. I'm fighting Cancer and I'm trying to be here for my kids and family. I should be here with my Husband more and family that love me. 📿🙏💕😢😢❤

    • @shawnanthony4719
      @shawnanthony4719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Praying for you

    • @jenniferpesak7326
      @jenniferpesak7326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOKING GOOD BROWNEYEGIRL ❤️❤️❤️💯❤️

    • @tylerweelborg478
      @tylerweelborg478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LOKING GOOD BROWNEYEGIRL I’ll pray for you every day

    • @abigailhiman5687
      @abigailhiman5687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love u stay strong momma u got this

    • @brookedavis3007
      @brookedavis3007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOKING GOOD BROWNEYEGIRL I'm sorry stay strong I believe in u!

  • @VirginiaOrosco-m8w
    @VirginiaOrosco-m8w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I lost my dad to cancer in 2011. I will never have that daughter/ father dance at my wedding. I choose this song in loving memory of my dad daughter/ father dance and to dance with my uncles and my 2 male cousins. 😢

    • @tiffanyscarberry6974
      @tiffanyscarberry6974 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I never knew who my father was. My mother claims she doesn't remember.... When all the kids in school got to bring their dad's to school for whatever the occasion I was always sitting in the back with my head down

    • @patriciak7486
      @patriciak7486 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Millions Of Hugs.

  • @jonathanwarner9231
    @jonathanwarner9231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    When he says, "God, I wish somehow you could be here" that desperation and pain in his voice breaks me

  • @msbehaze68
    @msbehaze68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    Lost our youngest son to cancer a few years back, love this song. Definitely makes me think of him, what he would be like now, 17 was too young..... Miss you my boy, love you Devin.

    • @timwheat6262
      @timwheat6262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless y'all.

    • @biglaketowingtransportatio1697
      @biglaketowingtransportatio1697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I also lost my son 18 years old, a last year. I know your pain now that Father’s Day is approaching. We should not go thru this ever in life

    • @MissDixon
      @MissDixon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️🙏

    • @hannahharris5666
      @hannahharris5666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'm so sorry to here that

    • @lisamiller4123
      @lisamiller4123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This message breaks my heart

  • @autumnrodgers687
    @autumnrodgers687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    I lost my mom in 2010 at the age of 43. Everytime I hear this song it feels like someone stole the air out of my lungs and I can't catch my breath just as it felt the moment I got the call. Hug your parents because you only get them for a short time and when God calls them home you don't get a second chance. Love you Mom!
    Cole I saw you in concert at Stage AE in Pittsburgh and I felt the hurt in your voice as you were singing this! Thank you for sharing this with your fans.

    • @clarebarnes592
      @clarebarnes592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I lost my mum in 2020 she was 60 it's the hardest thing iv ever been trough

    • @jomoore7794
      @jomoore7794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss I'm 25 and I completely understand how you feel my momma past two months ago and I can only listen to a second of the song before I break down and get a huge lump in my throat. Prayers for you ❤️

    • @shelleygilger8812
      @shelleygilger8812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry for your loss. My mom passed away at 43 too, and I was only 11. She died in 2001, it'll be 22 years this year.

    • @davidmacos5357
      @davidmacos5357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello 👏 Autumn how are you doing today I hope you are having a wonderful day with you over there?

    • @pamelaliggitt8927
      @pamelaliggitt8927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I lost my mom too and it has been the very hardest thing I’ve EVER been handed and I can’t stop crying I miss her terribly

  • @JazzyJ2697
    @JazzyJ2697 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I didn’t lose a parent but I did lose my brother this January and he was literally a warm hearted and kind soul. He always looked out for everyone and loved everyone with everything he had. Just a sweet soul. ❤ forever missed and loved always. He loved nature and family he should be here celebrating his birthday, the times we travel as a family, events with the cousins, and many more stuff. He should be here and it’s heartbreaking knowing that he’s not. I know he’s in a better place but it doesn’t hurt any less. ❤️‍🩹 pray for everyone’s healing through tough times and grief. 🙏🏻

    • @JoeD-z4w
      @JoeD-z4w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God Needed him more up there

  • @hannahkennedy1590
    @hannahkennedy1590 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Coming from a country girl who lost her dad at the age of 14, I cry every time I see this video or hear the song! There is nothing like the feeling of wanting to share the moments with your dad when he is gone. Cannot wait to see you LIVE in a few weeks!

    • @BaileyTaylor-zx2pc
      @BaileyTaylor-zx2pc ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so hard to here I lost my mom at the age of three and get builded for it and I feel like some people don't get what's going on

    • @donjuan7158
      @donjuan7158 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I lost my dad at 25. And I also cry every time i listen to this song. Plus I lost my grandma and grandpa

    • @carriestephenson1122
      @carriestephenson1122 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This came out when I lost my mom😢❤and I miss her every day

    • @dawnstonerock4253
      @dawnstonerock4253 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lost.mine at 19. I understand! ❤

    • @dawnstonerock4253
      @dawnstonerock4253 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carriestephenson1122 it's meant for you!

  • @deelo881
    @deelo881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    "They say now you're in a better place and I would be too if I could see your face" - one of the hardest hitting lines i've ever heard

    • @lucia7133
      @lucia7133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @FreddyFazbear-cg5cu
      @FreddyFazbear-cg5cu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bad

    • @jazlynnealvarado2514
      @jazlynnealvarado2514 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is very true

    • @kelsieterrones4892
      @kelsieterrones4892 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It hits hard for me cause it makes me think bout my uncle that’s passed

    • @kaitlynsmith7620
      @kaitlynsmith7620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm feeling that way right now about my dad... he's not gone, but he's not here with me and my family right now... it's hard to be strong everyday...

  • @patriciaparker3007
    @patriciaparker3007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    Lost my 18 year old daughter in 2016 miss her every day r.i.p Des I love you baby girl

    • @crystaltalton194
      @crystaltalton194 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry sweetie

    • @airicadams1359
      @airicadams1359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know how you feel my mom lost my sister she was only 20

    • @jonathanpebley5473
      @jonathanpebley5473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Patricia Parker iam praying for you and your family

    • @kaylamarie5808
      @kaylamarie5808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💔 I could never imagine. I am so sorry for the pain

    • @spencercatalan9718
      @spencercatalan9718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏

  • @CrystalSmith-me4bs
    @CrystalSmith-me4bs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Miss you dad I love this song he has a beautiful voice

  • @hisfireflystare
    @hisfireflystare ปีที่แล้ว +157

    This song just hits so deep. Lost my Dad 10 years ago and wish he was here for all the highs and lows. It's an awful ache that never goes away.

    • @bullballsallday
      @bullballsallday ปีที่แล้ว

      I just lost mine recently. I've been acquainted with many who have passed, but nothing hit me like this. I hope you live a fulfilling happy life to honor your father, as I hope to do the same.

    • @AnitaNelson-qw9wl
      @AnitaNelson-qw9wl ปีที่แล้ว

      I know how you feel.. It's been 10 years on October 3rd of my dad's passing and 8th of barring him on his birthday. I was the one who last spoke to him, found him, and last heard from him before he passed away over the heart attack in his sleep. It was also the same year I graduated high school. He was my best friend, not just my dad.

    • @davidbarr-pq4vx
      @davidbarr-pq4vx ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my dad in motorcycle accident on Fathers day in 2014 and ur right it never goes away

    • @NickalisDemmitt
      @NickalisDemmitt ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my dad almost 9 years ago and I wished he was still here i drive his truck and every time i start driving I see him smiling at me in the passenger seat🥺

    • @deborahrisner5813
      @deborahrisner5813 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just lost my dad 4 weeks your right it's awful heart ache. Every day I want him here so bad

  • @jeffreyharper4837
    @jeffreyharper4837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I lost my twins 19 years ago on December 13, 2000. They would be 19 years old tomorrow. They should be here but god had other plans for them. I miss you austin and dustin.

    • @cool-hf2pe
      @cool-hf2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn that's awful

    • @k-hog6123
      @k-hog6123 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayylmao yo

    • @aliyahnorman8442
      @aliyahnorman8442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sad

    • @TheBiggestRedneck
      @TheBiggestRedneck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jeffrey Harper May They Rest In Paradise & Always Watch Over Ya An Sendin Ya All My Prayers

    • @jamiedonaghey7189
      @jamiedonaghey7189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so sorry

  • @acntiny5433
    @acntiny5433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    I wonder how many times he cried trying to sing this song😭😭😭

    • @EthanFinley1
      @EthanFinley1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      If you watch the video of him singing this live at the grand old Opry you can see how hard it was for him to get threw it

    • @tammylott8234
      @tammylott8234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      had to be about a billion cause I cried about a million and I don't know him.....beautiful song.

    • @megansmetter9207
      @megansmetter9207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me

    • @ashtondavis8939
      @ashtondavis8939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this songs means alot my dad was killed in 2011 in iraq

    • @acntiny5433
      @acntiny5433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ashtondavis8939 I'm sorry about that 🥺 I wish you the best of luck

  • @markanderson1088
    @markanderson1088 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I lost my younger brother 15 years ago today. He was 18 years old and he and I were very close. I miss him so much it hurts. Love you, Jack.

    • @BUTTERFLY31214
      @BUTTERFLY31214 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🦋🇺🇸🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏So sorry 😢

  • @ToddLOwens
    @ToddLOwens 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    My Dad died when I was 17. I'm 54 now and I still miss his wisdom and his guidance to this day. This song makes me think of him. Miss you Dad!

    • @williama.richer1668
      @williama.richer1668 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sure he's watching over you and proud of you man! Sorry for your lost...🙏

    • @everettewoldt6707
      @everettewoldt6707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As u should

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Todd L. Owens
      Awww...your comment put a knot in my throat and tears in my eyes. I’m sorry for your loss.
      I was very close to my granny. She was my best friend and my #1 fan no matter what. Even when I wasn’t doing my best in life. I miss her so much and it has been 3 years almost but I really hurt just as much today as I did three years ago IF I allow myself to think about her. I just have to force myself not to honestly because I could get depressed if I let myself go there too often.
      So, to me your comment was heartbreaking all on its own just because you are going through it still but it also made me realize I’m going to continue missing my own lost loved one when I’m 54 too. I hope it doesn’t hurt this much though when I’m 54.
      With all that said, 17 would be a terrible age to lose a parent! Any age is terrible to lose someone I know but I was at least able to enjoy having my granny here during my wedding, the birth of my children, etc...I guess you weren’t able to have your dad around during those times in your own life😔❤️ I’m sorry. That must’ve been tough at times.

    • @thecrazy9561
      @thecrazy9561 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      =the

    • @thecrazy9561
      @thecrazy9561 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jina Cohen and clean yards 💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸

  • @jerrywdodgejr7204
    @jerrywdodgejr7204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    I lost my dad when i was 12, my mom when. I was 16, my husband when i was 31, fiancee when i was 37, my 22 yr old son when i was 42. Ill be 43 in may. Plus grandmas amd grandpas, aunts and uncles??? This song fits for all of them.

    • @thethreejs9871
      @thethreejs9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Stay strong

    • @JessicaGordonLB
      @JessicaGordonLB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same. Takennaway from mom at 8 Lost mom at 12 . Dad never involved.
      Disowned by family. At her funeral s hi ioped off to homes. Then I thought I found happiness after years of being homeless. . Then I lost my family to drugs and narcissists. . Then my husband left after over 20 + years
      Lesson. Let the past go. Your past will catch up. Those who have does have found better enrichment for the soul. And those lost and undead. Will find their way back. ..
      Happiness is a choice away.

    • @sandrastromberg8805
      @sandrastromberg8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omgod. We've lived an almost identical life I've never heard of someone my age who had lost so many. My parents, my husband, my daughter, my sister. just last week my brother. I feel like I walk around pretending I'm ok.

    • @timothygilmore7147
      @timothygilmore7147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aprilmorris8279
    @aprilmorris8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +944

    My folks have passed,I'm getting married tomorrow & this will be played in honor of them. My son will walk me down the aisle in place of my dad. ❤❤ I tear up every time I hear this song tomorrow will no different.

  • @mrgoos4901
    @mrgoos4901 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I just found this song a couple of days ago. Found out my Dad passed away almost 3 WEEKS after he did. My family had estranged from me (Dad, 1/2 Sister initially and my only Son and Mom followed along) ...my grief was exacerbated by millions !!! This July 37. 2024 will be 3 years he's gone. I grieved the relationship we never fully had along with questions about what we did have. My Son & Mom have since reconnected and she hates "hugs" and my Son is very distant and troubled in his nature still. I pray always for God's will.

    • @mrgoos4901
      @mrgoos4901 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Typo: July 27, 2024, not 37...

    • @joannafernandez3848
      @joannafernandez3848 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I found out in an email that my father had passed. I hadn't spoken to him in almost 3 years. He was a bad man so I cut ties with him but my grandfather emailed me and I accidentally stumbled upon this email 2 weeks after he had passed. No love. No loss. But a few years later my mom was diagnosed with stage IV cancer esophageal and stomach cancer which metastasized to her lungs. She fought so hard for 2 years but eventually passed away June 28th 2020. This is the hardest month for me. It'll be 4yrs my mom has been gone on this June 28th. She was only 56. Just turned 56 on June 6th just to pass away 22 days later. That was the hardest loss for me. This has always been our song. I live in Florida and she did too her whole life but State of Florida wouldn't help her with her chemotherapy and radiation so she had to move back to New Jersey to get emergency Medicaid and get treatment. That was hard being so far away for 2 years but she was so strong she got on an airplane to visit me in FL every 6 months. 3 times. That June she was supposed to visit for the 4th time but I knew in my heart that Christmas 2019 was our last one together. 😞😔😢😭😭😭🥹

    • @christinep.4238
      @christinep.4238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@joannafernandez3848

    • @joannafernandez3848
      @joannafernandez3848 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@christinep.4238 hugs 🤗 to you also Hun. My father m*lested me since I was 4yrs old that's when I remember it starting. It could have been earlier. 😔😒😞😓 And he didn't leave my life until he fled on my 30th birthday. It was the best birthday gift I ever got. He was controlling and manipulating and tortured me mentally, physically, emotionally.. etc.

    • @cathleenkeller9419
      @cathleenkeller9419 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'll. Pray for this too for you

  • @terrydishman4292
    @terrydishman4292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    Am I the only one still getting tears from this in 2019? Sure does hit home

  • @duke5437
    @duke5437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    Just lost my dad on Christmas Day, still trying to come to terms with his death. He was only 58, if your lucky to have your parents make sure you tell them you love ‘em, you never know when things are going to change

    • @tcsbaseball1
      @tcsbaseball1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My dad passed from covid on February 9th, only 58 as well. It still doesn’t feel real

    • @brandonleewatson18
      @brandonleewatson18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to suicide and he came up for Christmas and a week later he did it. I’m sorry I don’t know you but I feel your pain and hope your did loved you as much as my dad loved me. He was 49.

    • @JohnDavis-hi5uh
      @JohnDavis-hi5uh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Im sorry for your loss. Lost my dad 1-26-20. I know how you feel. We were best friends. I miss him everyday. Hang in there. He is watching you. Make him proud.

    • @knights2k10
      @knights2k10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow im literally not the only one! Im so sorry for your loss id like to tell you what everyone says and say it gets better with time or something but my dad passed on xmas eve 2019 he was 57 and i still miss him more and more as days go by. So ill just say youre not alone.

    • @richardgatlin6269
      @richardgatlin6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lost my mom Christmas eve man I know the feels

  • @timperry6410
    @timperry6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Lost my 19year old son, my only child, my world 3 years ago today.... It never gets easier, miss him more and more every day! 💔 R.I.P Timothy Wayne Perry Jr. 10/3/97 - 1/20/17. YOU SHOULD BE HERE! I Love You Jr

    • @wrenster34
      @wrenster34 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayers to you Tim!!

    • @jamiehoward3151
      @jamiehoward3151 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending you prayers, I can't even imagine your pain!

  • @sheilalittleton7345
    @sheilalittleton7345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Well, sitting here with tears falling. April 24, 1965, I turned 4 years old.
    Just 12 days later, my daddy, 45 years old, daddy of 5 of us, died of a heart attack. I wish he could have been here for all the moments I needed him, cried for him. I didn't get to know him very long, but I so remember him.
    😢❤

    • @tjodogify
      @tjodogify 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My daddy died when I was 7 yo in a car wreck …two weeks after our BDs, in May…his BD may 5, mine the 7th and he died at age 31 on May 24, 1965…….his absence has haunted me my entire life…I’m sorry this happened to u..my husband died at 31 yo May 1, 1991 when our son and daughter were just 5 and 7 yo ….I could not believe my worst nightmare had happened..he died at work, in an explosion..changed our lives forever….I often wonder why GOD could let that happen to our children…his BD and death were in May also…hard month for me…

    • @sheilalittleton7345
      @sheilalittleton7345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tjodogify I am so very sorry for all your heartache.

    • @tjodogify
      @tjodogify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ErkanYildirim-eu5ib was born and raised in Flint MI, but when my daddy died, she moved all of us back to her home in Louisiana…

    • @tjodogify
      @tjodogify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sheilalittleton7345 thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 GOD carried me thru most of the way..

    • @mlynnofficial2164
      @mlynnofficial2164 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this because I worry all the time that my then 9 year old who 10 would forget my daddy

  • @peanut1319
    @peanut1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    They say "now you're in a better place"
    well I would be too if I could see your face
    💔

    • @bobbycota5183
      @bobbycota5183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrF%×3234859598585959959959595995959

    • @jakeboi4056
      @jakeboi4056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel this about my aunt💔💔💔

    • @lemoncardboard4877
      @lemoncardboard4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "They're in a better place up there, but they sure left a hole down here"

    • @debbiesykes8894
      @debbiesykes8894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When they're gone they're gone can't go back I wish I could

    • @debbiesykes8894
      @debbiesykes8894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been crying all day

  • @katypost9629
    @katypost9629 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1627

    My dad passed in March and I've been looking for the perfect song to play during my 'daddy daughter' dance at my wedding when I dance with my uncle, my dad's twin. I think I've found it. Thanks Cole

    • @meganpowanda6503
      @meganpowanda6503 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I understand exactly what you're going through. My dad passed in March 2011 and never even met the man I married. I love that you're still going to dance. I did the same. I danced to "Butterfly Kisses" with all of my brothers.

    • @tracyburke1131
      @tracyburke1131 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Katy Post ~~Well, I think WE all have found the Perfect song~

    • @Payerl81191
      @Payerl81191 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm responding because I also lost my father in March from cancer. The moment I heard this song I thought how beautiful it would be for a wedding dance. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you and your family find peace ❤️

    • @creamithmanning2632
      @creamithmanning2632 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My (Insert Family/Friend) died last (Insert Month) and I can't seem to cope. Listened to this purposefully vague, generic song and it spoke to me.
      Miss you (Insert Family/Friend)!

    • @jordanlott8510
      @jordanlott8510 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +SupplySide Jesus I hope you rot in hell you stupid fuck being negative on peoples stuff go to hell dude seriously

  • @jimmoyer3718
    @jimmoyer3718 7 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Hey Cole Swindell if you get this message this is to let you know that "you should be here" is the greatest song that touches our families heart's today. I lost my mom 14 yrs ago. And my wife lost her dad 2 yrs ago. Yeah when I hear that song we cry and we always say you should be here. But God called them for a reason that only he knows why. Thank you so much Cole Swindell for being one of the greatest country singer's ever.

    • @eldahavard5534
      @eldahavard5534 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      your song you should be here. touched all our hearts.
      I lost my husband and my children lost their dad.

    • @leftyflo6616
      @leftyflo6616 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      trent key101

    • @zk6754
      @zk6754 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jim Moyer it was a hidden gem to me. It kept poppin up on my you should listen to it list. Finally I gave in, not long till it broke me. Thinking of grandpa, how he was always here for us. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him.

    • @jimmoyer3718
      @jimmoyer3718 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thanks zack. you never forget the ones that mean the most to you when they're gone no matter how long it has been. they should be here with us forever but it doesn't seem to happen like that. thanks zack for your comment.

    • @mariahhorn8170
      @mariahhorn8170 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zack Kaiseri
      ihvdgd00

  • @treyheise4777
    @treyheise4777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Lost my daughter 8 years ago. This was her favorite song. It kills me to hear this song, we played it at her funeral.

    • @fthunnid4048
      @fthunnid4048 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep your head up RIP

    • @BUTTERFLY31214
      @BUTTERFLY31214 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🦋🇺🇸🥹🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Brent_Emmons
    @Brent_Emmons 8 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    Just makes you think... We shouldn't take life for granted.cherish everyday more than the other and be thankful you woke up this morning. God Bless!

  • @marthavargas9562
    @marthavargas9562 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    My husband passed away 2 months ago and this song...says so much for me and my 2 kids!! We miss u Verde!

  • @madt.3602
    @madt.3602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I lost my dad recently and it was very sudden. He raised me all by himself and he was always a "hero" in my eyes. He was a bronze star recipient times two, and a purple heart.
    I love you and miss you, dad. This song ALWAYS makes me tear up!!!

    • @Iceman_RL
      @Iceman_RL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I also lost my dad about a month ago due to a car accident on his way to a job site

    • @TheGribbles
      @TheGribbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Cole Swindell Official Channel fucked up man

    • @RatixZhd
      @RatixZhd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My moms parents both passed away in 2020. Her mom passed in January of an unexpected accidental fentanyl overdose in January 2020 and her dad couldn’t take it they met in 8th grade so he basically drank himself to death and he passed away last October. Shit hurts like hell but we all need to rise up and accept that they’re in a better place

    • @benjamindotson1983
      @benjamindotson1983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The same thing happened to me. I'm 11 I lost my dad 3 days ago and it's really hard for me right now

    • @madt.3602
      @madt.3602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benjamindotson1983 Keep your head up. It's okay to be sad, and believe me.....I struggle daily. But, it does get easier and I try to think about the good times. I am young too...... just try and do your best in life

  • @itshavenjones
    @itshavenjones 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My grandma passed away in 2022, and this song reminds me of her every time I listen to it. I was baptized about a week ago, and she was the one who introduced me to the religion. I was so close to crying when this song came to mind. She should have been there.

  • @troybrewer6072
    @troybrewer6072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I lost my grandma and grandpa this year , I’m 17 , Holidays are rolling around and it’s just not the same . ☹️

    • @wesleymontgomery5301
      @wesleymontgomery5301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It will never be the same man, it’s a new norm but they will be there watching you smiling down and protecting you

    • @cecilygeorge9776
      @cecilygeorge9776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel this soo much. I lost my grandpa a year ago and my grandma in February. Domt know how to get through it without them

    • @bentongilmore7056
      @bentongilmore7056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just lost my grandpa Thanksgiving day 2019 I feel your pain. Its just not the same nothing is.

    • @theresasmith5333
      @theresasmith5333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @chrisstretch3703
      @chrisstretch3703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i lost my pupe and im 9

  • @mariai7006
    @mariai7006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    I just lost my mom who was my best friend, only friend, my person in life on the 19th of December. This song as so many other songs make me think of her and how I wish I could just hear her voice, laugh one more time! I have so much to talk to her about and I just need to hear her say things will be ok or that I need to get my stuff together! Lol. Thanks yall!!

    • @fenceguy1029
      @fenceguy1029 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have a good loving heart, she's smiling down on you everytime you smile.❤

    • @Susan-t2j
      @Susan-t2j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my mom 3 years ago, so I can relate to you. She wasn't just my mom but my best friend ( my only friend, here on earth that I could trust and count on) l miss talking to and telling her about everything and hearing her advice and saying all is going to be ok. Smiling and giving me a hug. I know she's better now where she's at but I miss her so much. R.I.P Mama until we meet again 💔

    • @fenceguy1029
      @fenceguy1029 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God blessed you with this music to your soul, I hope this helps you cope a little easier.😊

    • @Susan-t2j
      @Susan-t2j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fenceguy1029 Thanks for the kind words 💜🙏💜🙏

    • @stephaniekay5350
      @stephaniekay5350 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @maria I lost my mom on December 16. I so understand what you are going through. My mom was my only parent and I miss her so much. I feel lost

  • @ditchdoktor777
    @ditchdoktor777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    God this song hurts on Father’s Day 😢

    • @therealbobthebandit6426
      @therealbobthebandit6426 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does

    • @Fishinginpa
      @Fishinginpa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes it does cause just the thought of it killed me I don’t ever wanna lose my dad he is the best thing I have

    • @sinistercentre5733
      @sinistercentre5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Losing them when they're still alive is the worst.

    • @camryn7547
      @camryn7547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep your head up

    • @trigger2299
      @trigger2299 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man I’m sorry

  • @kathyross6776
    @kathyross6776 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I lost my son 4 weeks ago in an accident. He was 40 years old and the sweetest, kindest, hard working man I knew. This song was played at his funeral.

    • @jenniferkrystlem
      @jenniferkrystlem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry! I know nothing can take the pain away! Bigs hugs! I lost my daughter in a car accident! FE 16. It turns ur life upside down!

  • @miagomez5370
    @miagomez5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    I just lost my grandma unexpectedly, Christmas is coming up and that was her favorite holiday. This song explains every single feeling I have had ever since she passed. I will miss her so much. She was more than a grandma, she was a best friend, caring person, kind, loving, lovable, selfless, funny, sassy, courageous and young at heart kind of person. Losing her has been of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through. Thank you Cole for making this song.

    • @patriciabowman3030
      @patriciabowman3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry for the loss, It happens someday and you can't really stop it...

    • @miagomez5370
      @miagomez5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@patriciabowman3030 yeah..

    • @jdawg8158
      @jdawg8158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate I just lost mine in March I feel your pain, it sucks

    • @MrSpiderFella
      @MrSpiderFella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im sorry the same thing happened to me

    • @jigjamm2466
      @jigjamm2466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your lost, may God be with her and your family. Good song also is Holes in the Floor of Heaven.

  • @SwaveyySaVageKD
    @SwaveyySaVageKD 7 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Can we all have a moment of silence thank God for taking care of
    our loved ones.❤❤😢😢

    • @HectorGonzalez-to3gn
      @HectorGonzalez-to3gn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      dayten shields if theres a god why does he take our loved ones. our children ??

    • @PsychoJoe519
      @PsychoJoe519 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hector Gonzalez your a fuckin idiot..... God takes our loved ones home, they are in a better place than us..... You can't question that....... dumb Fuck......

    • @ycdreams23
      @ycdreams23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are a real IDIOT !!! The only DUMB F*** is YOU !!!

    • @sargolem4306
      @sargolem4306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      wow cursing a little bit eh?
      go listen rap not this song

    • @tammyoneal9148
      @tammyoneal9148 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      god made us you should be great ful😭😭😭😭

  • @lucasbieser8852
    @lucasbieser8852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    The people that disliked just don't see the pain in his voice like they need to pay attention

    • @desireebussell8437
      @desireebussell8437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ya

    • @natah4426
      @natah4426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True words!!!

    • @burnout6119
      @burnout6119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Loosing a brother is a pain that never goes away

    • @clharpee
      @clharpee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @lucasbieser8852
      @lucasbieser8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hannahgessler1125 fr I feel bad for him

  • @frankwall5177
    @frankwall5177 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    All these comments are so true. I lost my dad back in 1997 and my beloved mom 2010. It feels like it was yesterday. I know people really don’t care for unsolicited advice from strangers. But here it is anyway. Read the comments and take them to heart. I wised up and the last 5 years my dad was around we ate lunch together everyday. It was always freshly deep fried chicken. We became very close again. We ran a very successful business and I was with him there for 35 years. My mom. Well when my dad passed somehow she got through that. She was a tough one. She couldn’t sleep at night and I worked nights when the schedule required that. On the nights I didn’t work I would go to my mom’s house and play scrabble with her until literally the sun rose. I miss those moments with both of them. But I am so thankful I spent as much time as I could. My advice make the time to see them. I believe you will make memories and find out about things you never knew they lived through. That’s it.

    • @TerryCrook-g3r
      @TerryCrook-g3r 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Od less all who have experienced loosing a loved one hearts and prayers to you

  • @sheldonpeter3467
    @sheldonpeter3467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I lost my bestfriend to a car accident. That I grew up with for 10 years. He was only 17 and man I miss him so much he was like a brother to me. And just listening to this song hit me hard. Rest in peace brother.

    • @enicoles119
      @enicoles119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My story's a lot like yours. I lost my absolute bestfriend the same way in May 2017. She was 22 and we were bestfriends since we were six years old. The pain is so real every single day

    • @alexalvey4822
      @alexalvey4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sheldon Peter I lost my bestfriend to suicide in October 2019 and he was 17. It hurts more than anything

    • @stacylisco9358
      @stacylisco9358 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let it roll

    • @samelliott5718
      @samelliott5718 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my best friend in an accident on September 26th 2019 he was 17 I am sorry for your loss I know how it feels

    • @teresaumphrey4940
      @teresaumphrey4940 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my best friend in March. I have not been able grieve with the pandemic taking over life right now. I love and miss you, Debbie, Arnold

  • @evhfanatic
    @evhfanatic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Lost my dad August 4 2020 of a massive heart attack.This is the first time I've heard this and I'm bawling my eyes out over this. I miss that old man so much!

    • @carly_sierrahope3820
      @carly_sierrahope3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg, I’m sorry I lost mine to the same thing may 3 2019 and it’s hard but we can do this

  • @justinpregent976
    @justinpregent976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Me and the wife played this song at our wedding for a tribute to both of our fathers who passed away and couldn’t be present.

  • @Ristina81
    @Ristina81 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My dad only met my oldest. He has 6 total grandchildren. When it says taking pictures and showing everyone, that’s what he would have done. He loved my daughter and was such a proud Papa. Cancer sucks and he’s in a better place, but I miss him more now than when he past 16 years ago.

  • @dawnmarieloftis9900
    @dawnmarieloftis9900 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I lost my brother to a murderer’s gun 31 years ago and there isn’t a day that I don’t wish there was some way to get him back and love him one more day, hour, minute. He was my hero and the sun rose and set at his feet. Whenever I hear a song like this, it takes me right back to the moment I heard he’d been shot. It devastated my soul and tore something from my heart that won’t be replaced ever. Songs like this make me remember what an awesome man he was!!!

    • @justinmajors2872
      @justinmajors2872 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry

    • @colesw79gmail
      @colesw79gmail ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your love and support towards me I really appreciate you and I can’t thank you enough.write me with my address above to be among the lucky few who stand a chance for a meet and greet when I am in your city or city nearby 💕💞❣️💖 💕

    • @christy-sv4vt
      @christy-sv4vt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Felt this!

    • @lindaevans9000
      @lindaevans9000 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So very sorry for your loss😢. My 14 yr old son was murdered almost 29 years by a murder"s gun. My 38 yr old son committed suicide almost 4 years ago.There isn't a day that goes by they l wish that l could see them both one more time to tell them both how much l love them and how much l mss them. I would love to hold them both one last time. Sometimes it's so hard just to get out of bed every day.

    • @Namibellmere198
      @Namibellmere198 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tho I didn’t lose my brother to murder he overdosed on fentanyl recently

  • @karissastrunk3642
    @karissastrunk3642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I lost my son October 2019. He was going to come home. He never made it back home. He should be here.

    • @hamiltonkirk41
      @hamiltonkirk41 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karissa Strunk dang 😔

    • @MA-ri7xe
      @MA-ri7xe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for your loss. I had brothers go out for patrol that never returned. They had went out like us hundreds of Times and came home. God calls the angles he wants home when it’s time.

    • @avimae4225
      @avimae4225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lost my daughter two years ago in January. She was 36. She had a 15 year old daughter. The man that did it is still not in jail. I miss her. So sorry for your loss!

    • @marleneriner3506
      @marleneriner3506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes sir my dad die in 5 15 11 I sorry for your lost

    • @sternenlicht8814
      @sternenlicht8814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so so sorry. I know how you feel, I lost my 19yr old brother in a hit and run. He was my best friend... He was coming over to get me on his bike. In a way he saved me, but I would have rather been with my best friend. Stay strong and keep fighting, no matter how dark it may seem. There will always be a light, even if it may seem like the end; keep fighting...

  • @kaitlyngriffith8095
    @kaitlyngriffith8095 8 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I lost my dad 5 years ago.....when i lost him i was fresh out of prison.....since then i have gone to college got a great education now i made really good money to take care of my new growing family......i never got the chance to see my dad proud of me....this song breaks my heart.........i love you dad you should be here

    • @Mellymel1995
      @Mellymel1995 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kaitlyn Griffith I'm sorry for you're loss and congrats on making your life better. I'm sure he'd be very proud

    • @tonytanti8138
      @tonytanti8138 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kaitlyn Griffith once a criminal... always a criminal

    • @IAmTheDuckPond
      @IAmTheDuckPond 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tony Tanti tell that to all of my brothers and sisters that have criminal records, please tell them how they will always be a criminal.

    • @jayotero4923
      @jayotero4923 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was an inmate as well and now I make double your salary if not more the legal way.

    • @jayotero4923
      @jayotero4923 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tony tanti

  • @benjaminlee6308
    @benjaminlee6308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lost my dad a month ago and it’s so hard to handle. I have always strived to be just like him. Take care and raise my kids the way he did. He was the best man I know and my best friend. God got a good one when he called him home. Rest in Peace dad. You are greatly missed by so many people.

  • @williameades6463
    @williameades6463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I lost my best friend to a car accident at the age of 17 this year and this song is perfect.
    Rest easy Josh.

  • @SPN4eva312
    @SPN4eva312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Lost my dad last month... And although this song makes me cry every time I hear it, I keep coming back to it. Such a beautiful song 🖤

    • @THATBASSBURB
      @THATBASSBURB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My mom died December 21 2021 I wasn’t expecting her to die at 46

    • @drewnurnberg2938
      @drewnurnberg2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jan 23 2022 for my dad.

    • @rachelledman1092
      @rachelledman1092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lost my Daddy January 2021 it's still a struggle everyday I was only 33 felt like I didn't get enough time with him!! But I know I will spend eternity with him and he is watching over me!!! The hurt sucks!!! I am thankful for music it helps me!!!

    • @whitnie1084
      @whitnie1084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lost my dad in June…. Today is his birthday…. It’s hard but you got this! Hugs!

    • @sarahashleyhorton1418
      @sarahashleyhorton1418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost my dad last month, too. Same here, I play it more and more now. Hugs!

  • @anonymoussandwhich2390
    @anonymoussandwhich2390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Hey you who is reading this comment, I want you to know how important you are to this world, you are a beautiful person, don't let this world bring you down, know you can get through this hard time in your life, tell yourself things will get better, stay positive and happy and always know you can do it, always try and never give up.
    I'm just a 21 year old guy that is just trying to make people feel better and happy who are going through a tough time in their life, just always tell yourself things will get better and know you can get through this difficult time in your life.
    I hope my comment made a positive impact in your life. 😊
    Be who you are and live life to the fullest.
    Help me spread this comment so it can help people who are in need of it.

    • @nathancuiriz1690
      @nathancuiriz1690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for this man you don’t know how much this helps me

    • @nomianquotes9456
      @nomianquotes9456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are an amazing human being

    • @nathancuiriz1690
      @nathancuiriz1690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nomian Quotes and so are you brother keep spreading positive light in this cruel world your words help tremendously.

    • @brandinrouch5019
      @brandinrouch5019 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have lost a lot of my family members

    • @laineunderwood4384
      @laineunderwood4384 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop

  • @cdrmt3229
    @cdrmt3229 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    We lost our Dad on Fathers Day 2024. Hurts like hell. I feel him everyday, everywhere. He should be here. I know he is. Love you Dad.

    • @BUTTERFLY31214
      @BUTTERFLY31214 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🦋🇺🇸🙏🙏So sorry for your loss. I lost both parents and it hurts but we have to go on and make them proud 🙏🙏🙏

  • @geoff8253
    @geoff8253 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    All you young kids need to reflect and listen to this song when you come back to this song one day. It’s heart breaking. Life doesn’t last long. I miss my daughter so very much.

    • @MikeRay1075-s4e
      @MikeRay1075-s4e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost my daughter this past October. She would have been 21 yesterday. May God give you continued strength & perseverance. 🙏

    • @geoff8253
      @geoff8253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I miss my daughter too. It’s been almost 9 years this fall. It hurts every day.

  • @matt.r18
    @matt.r18 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    A song you take a drive to.. RIP to those lost to soon.

    • @Susan-t2j
      @Susan-t2j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've lost my husband, my mom, my dad and my only sister. It was way to soon but I know the Lord doesn't make mistakes. Their in a better place but I miss them so much. R.I.P my Loved ones until we meet again 💔

    • @melissacastillo4307
      @melissacastillo4307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This song is for my loved ones I miss y'all RIP and soar with the angels 😢😢

    • @Thishouseisaprisononplanetbs
      @Thishouseisaprisononplanetbs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yell and scream and wish they were still here.😢

  • @T1GEVERETT
    @T1GEVERETT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I hardly ever cry but I can't hold it in when this song plays. I love you grandpa Steve Spiger. RIP😖

  • @tonyagreathouse3077
    @tonyagreathouse3077 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I lost my mother almost 4 years ago. And at 49 i still need her so much. I miss her terribly. Life will never be the same. I love you Mama. Even death cant stop our love.

  • @minefreak2376
    @minefreak2376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My baby brother passed away shortly after his birth in 2009 and I would give anything to have him here today.. my dad bought a car for him before he was born and that car is the only thing that I have to be close to him.. sometimes I go out and sit in it and pretend he’s in the seat next to me... I’ll see you in heaven Robbie, I love you so much little brother 😔

  • @averyclements1110
    @averyclements1110 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1371

    the people who disliked obviously never expierenced the loss of a loved one

    • @ImaGamePlayer
      @ImaGamePlayer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Avery Clements So true.

    • @shadowhunter6873
      @shadowhunter6873 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Avery Clements or they maybe thought that it was too sappy :/ or maybe it was just out of hater fever. Meh, leave those people to themselves. They don't know how to appreciate good music!

    • @cindylynn706
      @cindylynn706 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      my name is Hunter

    • @LiveSunday
      @LiveSunday 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not necissarilly

    • @cliffdr.detroitlynch3903
      @cliffdr.detroitlynch3903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Avery Clements aint that the truth

  • @butchreese6211
    @butchreese6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    My father passed away when I was 18 months old. Never knew him. Wonder what life would be like if he was here. I’m 52 now and this song really hits home!

    • @kellylynds8293
      @kellylynds8293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I lost my dad when I was 1.5 years old, hunting accident... always wonder what my life would have been like if I hadn't lost him...

    • @getstuk87
      @getstuk87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me too man, me too

    • @raymondkeller8987
      @raymondkeller8987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here brother my Dad passed away when I was 8 days I sit and wondering am I doing as you would want your son. I just wish I could just have a face to face conversation I will be 41 in 2 months

    • @melissajardine6760
      @melissajardine6760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My son and me lost my husband, his father when he was only 3 months old. It really hits hard when I think of all the love my husband had for his son and will he every truly know how badly he wanted nothing more then to be his dad. My heart breaks for the time and future they lost and ours as a family. My dreams came true for 17 weeks. No time would have ever been long enough but that was far far to soon.
      I'm sure your dad was so in love with his little man, watching you learn and become your own little person. I'm sure he didn't wanna miss out on being a huge part of your life and whatever you may believe in I'd like to think my son has a little guardian looking out for him for life now as I'm sure you always have ever one of your 51 years without him here.

    • @paytklapper4762
      @paytklapper4762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you wonder, he’s living vicariously through you buddy, the way you move with confidence & enthusiasm and thrill for life like he had. Love it and love it for him do things he never did he’s with you

  • @Addalynnwatson
    @Addalynnwatson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this song. I swear it was made just for my daddy 😢. Everytime I hear it I get chills all down my body

  • @billygilbert7564
    @billygilbert7564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I lost my dad when I was 5yrs old & lost my mom when I was 12yrs old. Song really hits home and sometimes I wish they could see me one more time..

    • @jerseysmith5752
      @jerseysmith5752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel your pain I lost my father in November five days before my 13th birthday

    • @oliviamiller8040
      @oliviamiller8040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you need support I'm here

    • @mipha2871
      @mipha2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You were so young!! Omg I'm so sorry!!😢

  • @xd_colt9117
    @xd_colt9117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I cry every time I listen to this song I lost my grandpa in 2014 I loved him so much we did every thing to gether but he died of cancer Frick cancer people don’t deserve to lose people that they love like just give us one more day with them ❤️ 😥

    • @Charles.Spillman
      @Charles.Spillman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am 14:This song really hits me I just think about my grandfather cause he's basically my father I fill like he's not going to be with me much longer he has had 9 heart attacks and 1 stroke he also has black lung,COPD and pancreatitis:in 2012 i had a seizure I was in a coma for a week he stayed with me the whole time he drove fast enough to beat the helicopter in a drive that was 1 hour away,in 2018 I shattered my humorous and broke my growth plate he was with me i have Epilepsy,Anxiety,severe sleep apnea high cholesterol,hypothyroidism, ADHD,PTSD,depression, And EOE iv had surgery 18 time. my real dad has never been in my life

    • @cozmo3559
      @cozmo3559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss i lost my cousin 3 years ago he died in a car crash which he did not have his seat belt on.If he would of had his seat belt on he would of lived he always wears seatbelts but all it takes is one mistake to lose your life.once again I'm sorry for all your loss.

    • @csnider_1281
      @csnider_1281 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Charles.Spillman my dad was absent for most of the first half of my life. Not because he was a pos runaway but because he was working long days at the hospital he worked at and long nights at the fire station. I still remember going out in working in his wood shop with him once a month or so. He resigned from the service a few years ago. He says it’s the best thing he’s ever done because now he can come home and stay home once he’s don with his day job and can spend time with his family.

  • @icejonesy9265
    @icejonesy9265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I lost my 19 year old cousin in Florida. I live in ohio. As soon as we heard we booked a flight and left. Everyone was devastated. He was the life of any party and brought joy to everyone. He even saved a girl he didn't even know from committing suicide. He was known for his back cracking bear hugs. There was over 600+ people at his funeral. I barely ever got to see him and I wish I got to a little more. I want everyone to always wear there seatbelts and use your time wisely and spenda lot of it with your family and friends because you never know when you could lose someone.

  • @JMSM2009
    @JMSM2009 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lost my Mom unexpectedly 3 months ago. Some songs that were triggers I can now manage to listen to without losing it. This is not one of them. I think this one will always make me breakdown. I miss you Mom 💔

  • @LcCplAbel
    @LcCplAbel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I lost my wife and son in February and this song takes me back to when things were perfect, and the fact that things would still be perfect if they were here. I know both of them are smiling down on me and sending me blessings but "they should be here"!! I love you Lindsay and Matthew, fly high and rest easy!!!!

    • @misswindy13
      @misswindy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What an unimaginable loss that is I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure this. You must be a very strong willed man I bet your wife and son were and still are proud of you. Please take care of yourself.

    • @FireballYT70
      @FireballYT70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sorry to hear hope u ok and take care

    • @chantalfuglistaler3312
      @chantalfuglistaler3312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im so sorry for you! If you want someone to talk i will listen. Still grieving 20 years... So i can understand

    • @yvonnetucker2208
      @yvonnetucker2208 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry.

    • @patricecrow9668
      @patricecrow9668 ปีที่แล้ว

      I m so so sorry for your loss

  • @melodyshepard2883
    @melodyshepard2883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I love this song. So many milestones in my life that my daddy missed. 28 yrs ago. Lost my mom last Dec. I don't care how many days go bye they are always in my thoughts.

    • @ajwiisonwiison1591
      @ajwiisonwiison1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ucdgxuyzxcdsdsgizcsddshbiucsdgicdscsyxcdcdyxugzcsdhicsdshiusdsdzidchiucdcdshidcdisdcsdiucsdcsbiuxdcdshicdhicduhzixc yccduxcdcduygixzxcixczdcdhbi 3

    • @staci7107
      @staci7107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad passed before my wedding and births of my beautiful daughters. It hurts so much not to have him physically here but I believe he didnt miss it. He's watching

    • @Robertocarlosoficialmusic
      @Robertocarlosoficialmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that's so amazing
      I'm Valence, I lost my family to pandemic
      Being a long while from now!!!
      No one to love and its really pissing me off, sometimes I feel like there is no one to care for.
      I do need someone to have a good conversations with, hope u don't mind?

  • @elizabethotten8039
    @elizabethotten8039 6 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    my best friend Connor loved Cole Swindel and his music. we actually planned on checking out tour dates soon but unfortunately on May 28th 2018, Connor lost his life in a tragic car accident. he was 16 years old and he loved this song. it was the song he sang for his grandfather in our school concert. so sitting here today, I'm listening to this song as we celebrate his birthday. he would have been 17 today. Connor was kind spirited and so outrageous. he always went to rodeos and he loved his horse Buck. I knew Connor since birth. happy birthday in heaven Connor. I know your rocking out with Granpa Jack and singing this song.

    • @shanes6948
      @shanes6948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Man i am sorry to hear that

    • @tanyaallard8457
      @tanyaallard8457 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elizabeth Otten
      he sounds like an awesome person.

    • @jonathanpebley5473
      @jonathanpebley5473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elizabeth Otten iam praying for you ma'am

    • @carlieparga6847
      @carlieparga6847 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m sorry to hear that. I know it’s really hard losing a friend. One of my best friends almost took their own life away. I was so scared. There was one point when she was in the hospital from cutting herself where they thought she wouldn’t make it. She lost a least 3 liters of blood and after she got out and I saw her at school I started crying because I blamed myself. Things are getting better for me now and I hope they are for you too.

    • @clapiosx1590
      @clapiosx1590 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Made me tear up

  • @amandabergdoll5537
    @amandabergdoll5537 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lost my dad two years ago to COVID. I had this song played for my brother at the funeral. I love you daddy, I miss you everyday.

  • @chancedemei2291
    @chancedemei2291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I get chills and tears every time I hear this on the radio. what sucks, is that I didn't hear this till a year I lost my dad. he was my motivation to finish HiSet. just a message, don't forget to spread the love to the family. I'm truly sorry Mr. Swindell, my condolences 😢

    • @pebbles3373
      @pebbles3373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This song was him sending you a sign.I just lost my daughter in July 23 21.I look for signs.I even pick pennies up an angel sent that for you it's a gift

    • @bl4ze600
      @bl4ze600 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pebbles3373 I’m very sorry🙏❤️

    • @canstantstorm
      @canstantstorm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I lost my father and my husband in 2020 I heard this song recently 😭 im cancer free now our girls are getting so big and I'm riddled with such conflicting emotions I miss my husband so much I can't even get past it to grieve my father im just stuck in this puddle right now 😭💧🌊

    • @sonniawelsh3771
      @sonniawelsh3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fdyf5ufudyfh

  • @TacoStacks
    @TacoStacks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +836

    This song still hits the feelings 6 years later.

    • @intothewild8477
      @intothewild8477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Shoot I wish I found this 6 years ago barely found this like a year ago cole is now my favorite country artist Fursure

    • @bellah.n6285
      @bellah.n6285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He’s really awesome.
      I saw him in concert once.

    • @bettymays6498
      @bettymays6498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same😞

    • @austinfarley811
      @austinfarley811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel it my uncle just passed yesterday

    • @Sharon-sw7mr
      @Sharon-sw7mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@austinfarley811 I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @The31JRush
    @The31JRush 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    This song always gets to me. I lost my baby sister in a car accident. It just amazes me that she'll be 21 this year..

    • @allisengarrett1983
      @allisengarrett1983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💜✨

    • @jerryhilton6012
      @jerryhilton6012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so sorry about your sister I have never lost any of my siblings but I have lost friends when I was younger and then I lost my dad in 07...so I do understand what you're going through...just hang in there and know she is with you...

    • @dabigsuge
      @dabigsuge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Holy shit man. Rest in peace. She lives on through you forever

    • @BTA08
      @BTA08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @cindyreviews4you
      @cindyreviews4you 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Prayers

  • @RobinShinall
    @RobinShinall หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My dad passed away November 19th, 2023, can't believe it will be a year next month, love and miss you so much Dad 😢

  • @arlenblock5174
    @arlenblock5174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Sitting here on my back porch. 4 July 2019. My son just took his own life 6 days ago. All my wife and I can think is “you should be here.”

    • @royfisher1536
      @royfisher1536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Damn man sorry to hear about your loss

    • @dereklopez9870
      @dereklopez9870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im sorry that happen to you 😔

    • @patsyhancock2805
      @patsyhancock2805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We lost our oldest son January 13th 2018 it still hurts and will until I take my last breath.

    • @moshymosh2076
      @moshymosh2076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry brother. I really am. I hope you and your wife are getting through it as well as you can.

    • @keatin1063
      @keatin1063 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My prayers go out to you and your wife and the rest of the family, no parent should have to go through that.,,, stay strong my man.

  • @stacyk7876
    @stacyk7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This song got me through when my mama passed and I had so much going on in my life. It’s crazy how some of us go through the hardest times of our lives at the same times. Just know you’re not alone. We all go through hard times but at least we all know we are blessed by wonderful parents.

  • @Mellymel1995
    @Mellymel1995 8 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    You can feel the heart in this beautiful song. Every time I hear it I just wanna break down

  • @blainehamner7098
    @blainehamner7098 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Got the news my uncle passed away. Hung up the phone and this song came on. 8 years later I still choke up on this song. Rip K.D.L