"You get to choose who will be your head" such a powerful message...every woman should hear this...well said Pastor Ma. Not after you choose, say I do, now you want to change the Man!
No, he doesn't. You don't get to choose a man and want to be his head because you feel he doesn't have what it takes. That is why you are given the power to choose who will be your head. Why choose him when you believe he doesn't have what it takes?
For me Age is not issue for me. I can date and marry a man that I older than as long as he has the values I desire, committed to growth and we share same faith persuasions.
Pastors you are doing great in ministry and are well appreciated. I trust you are making time to work on your weight loss like the rest of us. Overall good health to us all. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you again PK n PM this topic is exactly all that was running through my mind. All these really doesn't matter but it's how the public in our African context would look at. But the man really has to be mature and no one would notice unless the physical shows. God bless your ministry sir and ma❤
Jesus give me strength. I KNOW YOU CAN CHANGE MY LIFE. As a single mom and it is hard to have everything on my shoulders. Especially because both of my sons are special needs but despite the challenges I face. I keep faith in Jesus even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. Faith over fear. I love you Lord. I have faith you will provide.💕
I can marry a man I am higher with every other aspect but when it comes to age I don't trade that with anything, I can't marry someone I am older than never😂
Wonderful section sir/ma. I loved the introduction. Pastor Midred said welcome to my TH-cam channel. Funny! You are right thats the way "TH-cam channels owners do it"
Part of this conversation highlights why many Nigerian men living abroad usually find it easy to come marry a lady living in Nigeria while many Nigerian ladies find it often impossible to come marry a man in Nigeria. The "you must be 1000x better than me" dopamine is really at work! 😊
32:46 I need to send a voice note!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Pastor K say "wowww..." (as if he understood). Then he said "babyless-mothers' home"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm rolling... Heppp me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 Pastor Mildred peleee 🤣 she said "cuttt... I'm done with this man"
omg, i think the holyspirit prompted you guys to make this video specially for me... i would watch this video over and over again, until i have caught it. thank you both
Pastor Kingsley said kiss at the end of the section. Funny couples. You are both doing well. Is been long i watched your videos but i always see your funny posts on instagram. Including the recent aged couples you posted. More wisdom and Grace sir and ma.
I love you guys🎉❤ You have change my life deeply with your merital teachings😍😍😍 but the african accent is at times very difficult to understand like in this video so please if you could pay attention on that one🙈😇👍🏻
If a men is the head, any head in any society in the world comes with responsibility. And it affects man if they are not up to the responsibility, as their behaviour changes and they becomes unsecured. Woman in these situations definitely lose respect for the man, not intentionally but because they place their husbands high. If he is not meeting the expectations woman becomes disappointed, believe me extremely sad in the marriage.
can we have bible scriptures to back up this point o, cus imagine as a woman earning more and smarter and everything but now have to allow the lower one be the head...it would be hard o
@@enumangene6914what she is saying is true, LOOK AT THE BIBLE, Husbands were ahead their wives. Apostle Peter was ahead of his wife in the New testament. We need to start using the scriptures to back opinions
They've been quoting scriptures all along. To be submissive and loving as in Eph. 5:25ff also the rich woman of Prov. 31:10-31 check that out. The woman does most things and the man supports her and isn't insecure. It's about being Christlike, and all those things don't matter. Mutual agreement is the essential in marriage and being in one accord, praying together would bring understanding in your homes. God bless us in the journey ❤
I think men should work hard at being ahead in all ramifications. Strive to be better and work it out deliberately. So many are very comfortable with mediocrity and use culture to back it up. May God help us find our mates in Jesus name, amen
I really do not have any issues being with someone who's younger wit a year or 2 but just don’t act like a baby...........act mature & have core values
It hurts so bad when the friend you love doesn't love you back. What is love? "For God so loved the world" isn't it nice when you're friend loves you like you do. You can only give yourself and that's beautiful, so with Christ in us and when we walk by the spirit, we give the best, we give Christ. "Give yourself sis, it's the Lord in you. Walk in the spirit. We'll win every time
Hot Topic! The woman talking here appears to me as someone that married for the wrong reasons. She obviously didn’t know what she was getting into when it comes to marriage. Marriage is a journey and the current situation should not define your reason or influence the kind of partner you choose. You choose based on someone you see yourself growing with, meaning you can both influence each other when it comes to growing through life and not one person leaving the other behind, hence you see yourself as superior to the other person. There’s even nothing wrong if either the man or the woman is more financially stable/one has involved more than the other. That’s where genuine love comes to play. Love beyond achievement or who your partner is. God help us
@@enumangene6914Don't risk it. An older will begin to RESENT you as you climb higher. Don't end up being the man of the house whereby you start paying the bills, fulfilling sexual desires, taking care of the kids, supervising the house etc. I do not know why Nigerian women have scarcity mindset in getting a husband. Ask to give you a better person, PRODUCE YOUR CAUSE (Isa 41:21)
Having the qualities and characters of a good mother such as compassion, nurturing, organizational skills and caretaking etc. has nothing to do with age. There are many examples of young women who are more responsible as mothers than older women. Just as a side note, most hard working men look forward to going home to a wife who can “baby” him
@@megasonehizLIES my father is a successful man, he never wanted my mum to baby him. That is trash, do away with that toxic mindset. Every successful man I met wants a well behaved beautiful woman to respect him and create a peaceful home he can return to after work. Are you a baby? This is why personal development is important,it makes you do away with toxic & invalid mindsets.
Love you guys so much but please you guys are adding too much weight, please for your health and children’s sake take time to eat healthier and exercise Pst K, and balance your hormones so you can lose weight easier Pst M. Love you guys ❤
With all due respect, this comment is sensitive and should not be coming from someone who only has a social media relationship with these people. And no matter your relationship with them, this kind of advice should not be a public TH-cam comment. I hope you understand. Thank you
I want Pastor Kingsley to do a counseling video of ladies who want to marry an already-married man. Most Nigerian ladies and even more Christians are jumping on the getting married to a man that's already married as second or third wife with even all bible examples like King Solomon used.
I think men should work hard at being ahead in all ramifications. Strive to be better and work it out deliberately. So many are very comfortable with mediocrity and use culture to back it up. May God help us find our mates in Jesus name, amen
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"You get to choose who will be your head" such a powerful message...every woman should hear this...well said Pastor Ma.
Not after you choose, say I do, now you want to change the Man!
A MAN TO BE THE HEAD HE HAS TO HAVE WHAT IT TAKES!!!
PERIOD
😅😂 wonderful. People only listen to what suits their ideas and not the truth.
@@therealolaleyewhat she said is true, BASED ON THE SCRIPTURES from the OLD TESTAMENT to the NEW TESTAMENT, HUSBANDS WERE AHEAD OF THEM in ALL THINGS
@@sadraolaedo4733 okay
When what you believe is not working, wisdom demands that you change what you believe.
No, he doesn't.
You don't get to choose a man and want to be his head because you feel he doesn't have what it takes.
That is why you are given the power to choose who will be your head.
Why choose him when you believe he doesn't have what it takes?
Pastor K is funny... give him beans. Make i start eating beans myself 😅😅
Just Us Girls is the real deal 🤝🤝🤝🤝 kudos to you my mentors and the cast for just us girls
Pastor M is beautiful
Pastor K said babyless mothers 😂😂😂😂 I love Pastor K and M. Thank you for allowing God to use you. You both are a blessing
Wonderful people of God, we appreciate you 🙏 Pleas watch your weights.
I really like this sit out of conversation
An average lady wants somebody who is above her 😂
Amazing!
Learning a lot
Geninuely happy to see your ministry growing like this! God is working, truly.
For me Age is not issue for me. I can date and marry a man that I older than as long as he has the values I desire, committed to growth and we share same faith persuasions.
Pastors you are doing great in ministry and are well appreciated. I trust you are making time to work on your weight loss like the rest of us. Overall good health to us all. 🙏🙏🙏
I love P Mildred sincerity.... "Should be the head! Lolz. Beautiful... I get the message though, thank you ma
Respect to Pastor M.
❤❤❤❤ so excited to watch this ❤❤Love you Pastor K and Pastor M
Pst Mildred, you have succeeded in shattering the table!!! Thank you for being so real.
Thank you again PK n PM this topic is exactly all that was running through my mind. All these really doesn't matter but it's how the public in our African context would look at. But the man really has to be mature and no one would notice unless the physical shows. God bless your ministry sir and ma❤
Please do a video for the men who marry these women 😊
Thank you pastor K and M. for this great message ❤
You just solve the issues of single men and older woman.
Normally I run away from older woman and richer women. Thanks for this
Thank you for the beautiful teaching. What if a guy comes and tell you that his family is against your union because you're older ?
Jesus give me strength. I KNOW YOU CAN CHANGE MY LIFE. As a single mom and it is hard to have everything on my shoulders. Especially because both of my sons are special needs but despite the challenges I face. I keep faith in Jesus even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. Faith over fear. I love you Lord. I have faith you will provide.💕
It is well my DEAREST ❤God is in control
Find scriptures that align with your situation and start confessing/declaring them. To complain is to remain. I hope this helps.
God who is the husband to the widows will take care of you and cater to your needs.
God will continue to strengthen you and your faith in Him. You are amazing!
God’s grace is multiplied in you dear ❤
I can marry a man I am higher with every other aspect but when it comes to age I don't trade that with anything, I can't marry someone I am older than never😂
Don't ever marry a man you are richer than, black women all over the world who tried it NEVER ENDED WELL.
am here for you
Thank you PM and PK.
Am expecting this to come on TH-cam video live.
Love when you come up with something new
Thank you! This is wholesome💚🧡
Wonderful section sir/ma. I loved the introduction. Pastor Midred said welcome to my TH-cam channel. Funny! You are right thats the way "TH-cam channels owners do it"
Thank you both for your time ⏲️
Thank you so much. I really enjoyed your show. Remain blessed pastor k and pastor m
Hmmm! Just digested this insightful topic. God bless you Sir and Ma❤
Understanding is the key to life in general
Thank you sir and Ma'am
God bless you both Pst K& M
This was really good and I've been married for 31 years, so I should know.😉 Thank you for sharing. 😊
Part of this conversation highlights why many Nigerian men living abroad usually find it easy to come marry a lady living in Nigeria while many Nigerian ladies find it often impossible to come marry a man in Nigeria.
The "you must be 1000x better than me" dopamine is really at work! 😊
Narcissist men are characteristic of this.
So true!
Yes!
32:46 I need to send a voice note!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Pastor K say "wowww..." (as if he understood). Then he said "babyless-mothers' home"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm rolling... Heppp me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Pastor Mildred peleee 🤣 she said "cuttt... I'm done with this man"
Needed to hear this
omg, i think the holyspirit prompted you guys to make this video specially for me... i would watch this video over and over again, until i have caught it. thank you both
Ahhhhh!!!!! I want this!!!!!!! God bless you
Great message ❤
Thank you so much for this podcast Sir & Ma🙏. Please what do you say about women who attracts older men ?
Helpful
Pastor Kingsley said kiss at the end of the section. Funny couples. You are both doing well. Is been long i watched your videos but i always see your funny posts on instagram. Including the recent aged couples you posted. More wisdom and Grace sir and ma.
I have it all o! I feel so blessed.
This was very insightful
Amaizing❤
Pastor k thank u so much 😊
Pastor Mildred🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love you too much. Thank you for this video PK and PM. Thank you. Very insightful. Ahead to go do some more mind renewal
I love you guys🎉❤ You have change my life deeply with your merital teachings😍😍😍 but the african accent is at times very difficult to understand like in this video so please if you could pay attention on that one🙈😇👍🏻
The more you listen, the more you get used to Nigerian intonation
You can simply activate the subtitle button, it will go a long way in helping you understand it better.
I have really been blessed
amaizing
Thank you for this ❤🇿🇲🇿🇲
God please I need another chance🙏🙏
I agree with you mama
You are looking good 👍
who laughed at 45:50 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... PK wanted to finish PM 🤣🤣🤣... I laughed shaaa but l loved the tandem between them.
The comments come at the exact time 😂
Exactly!
Being a man is tough books are hard you don't have time and you are afraid of rejection
Love it❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What does the man being the head really entails? Like how should he exercise the leadership?
By being MASCULINE
If a men is the head, any head in any society in the world comes with responsibility. And it affects man if they are not up to the responsibility, as their behaviour changes and they becomes unsecured. Woman in these situations definitely lose respect for the man, not intentionally but because they place their husbands high. If he is not meeting the expectations woman becomes disappointed, believe me extremely sad in the marriage.
When you see yourself as a team, you won't be disappointed
The reality!
God bless you.
You are WISE
I love you two. My models
Hmnn. Don't marry potential...marry patterns
“Redeem my image now”😂😂
Smarter than him? No wayyy! Older than him? Depends on age gap. Wealthier than him? Possible. Spiritually than him? Risky! 😅😅😅😅
is the risky part for me 🤣🤣🤣. We have the same thoughts
I've been there, he will drag you down 100% ! Don't joke with his spirituality please.
Spiritually- Don't try it
Financially- NEVER, he might get lazy and leave all the bills for you
Older than you- FINE
(@@patienceDery-ro8uw it's just tooo risky! 😅
@@RonkeJoseph-mo3cx understood
can we have bible scriptures to back up this point o, cus imagine as a woman earning more and smarter and everything but now have to allow the lower one be the head...it would be hard o
Ephesians 5 is enough scripture.... the man is the head of his wife even as Christ is head of the Church
If it’s hard for you then choose differently
Choose your head
Choose energy that you reciprocate...
@@enumangene6914what she is saying is true, LOOK AT THE BIBLE, Husbands were ahead their wives. Apostle Peter was ahead of his wife in the New testament. We need to start using the scriptures to back opinions
They've been quoting scriptures all along. To be submissive and loving as in Eph. 5:25ff also the rich woman of Prov. 31:10-31 check that out. The woman does most things and the man supports her and isn't insecure. It's about being Christlike, and all those things don't matter. Mutual agreement is the essential in marriage and being in one accord, praying together would bring understanding in your homes. God bless us in the journey ❤
Most of this kind of man are imsecure really.Men that will be secure with such women are really rare
I think men should work hard at being ahead in all ramifications. Strive to be better and work it out deliberately. So many are very comfortable with mediocrity and use culture to back it up.
May God help us find our mates in Jesus name, amen
Hallelujah
Sermon: Kingdom Marriage - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Thank you sir,ur message is a blessing to me
What about a man who is constantly asking you for money during courtship and always complaining he does not have money because you earn more than him.
He is opportunistic, dont allow him manipulate you. Hands go. Hands come
Run!
Run super fast away from him!!!
😂😂😂
Run!!!!
This response is coming from a man!
Please run
I really do not have any issues being with someone who's younger wit a year or 2 but just don’t act like a baby...........act mature & have core values
It hurts so bad when the friend you love doesn't love you back. What is love? "For God so loved the world" isn't it nice when you're friend loves you like you do. You can only give yourself and that's beautiful, so with Christ in us and when we walk by the spirit, we give the best, we give Christ. "Give yourself sis, it's the Lord in you. Walk in the spirit. We'll win every time
31:23 Pastor K said “breastfeeding program” LMAOOO🤣🤣🤣
Like me, I so believe in Adam is older than eve. 😂😂
Please has just us girls released new episode?
Hot Topic! The woman talking here appears to me as someone that married for the wrong reasons. She obviously didn’t know what she was getting into when it comes to marriage. Marriage is a journey and the current situation should not define your reason or influence the kind of partner you choose. You choose based on someone you see yourself growing with, meaning you can both influence each other when it comes to growing through life and not one person leaving the other behind, hence you see yourself as superior to the other person. There’s even nothing wrong if either the man or the woman is more financially stable/one has involved more than the other. That’s where genuine love comes to play. Love beyond achievement or who your partner is. God help us
please where is the question and answer channel
Having a joint account isn't possible in some countries
BTW Christ and the church who is the provider
Competition
Anyone in the Uk looking for friendship lol
A father in a husband not a beast
❤❤
What if he’s 20+ older than me but I earn more, what is your take on this?
...the friendship part which is an integral part may be hard seeing that you come from different generations.....
Run 20years old and you are still ahead Habaaa no now. But if u truly love him and are willing to overlook this plz go ahead❤
@@Mr.Articulate146 we are actually good friends because he doesn’t act his age.
Alright ..
Kindly Listen to your heart,do aself-analysis &make an informed decision.
@@enumangene6914Don't risk it. An older will begin to RESENT you as you climb higher. Don't end up being the man of the house whereby you start paying the bills, fulfilling sexual desires, taking care of the kids, supervising the house etc. I do not know why Nigerian women have scarcity mindset in getting a husband. Ask to give you a better person, PRODUCE YOUR CAUSE (Isa 41:21)
But younger guys tend to be immature than ladies their age
What of man looking for someone to mummy them but marry a younger lady expecting her to be a mother
Having the qualities and characters of a good mother such as compassion, nurturing, organizational skills and caretaking etc. has nothing to do with age. There are many examples of young women who are more responsible as mothers than older women.
Just as a side note, most hard working men look forward to going home to a wife who can “baby” him
@@megasonehizLIES my father is a successful man, he never wanted my mum to baby him. That is trash, do away with that toxic mindset. Every successful man I met wants a well behaved beautiful woman to respect him and create a peaceful home he can return to after work. Are you a baby? This is why personal development is important,it makes you do away with toxic & invalid mindsets.
.,not a headless head.
In this day and age, this seldom happens
...whether he has a big head or a small head..
😂😂
😂😂😂
Love you guys so much but please you guys are adding too much weight, please for your health and children’s sake take time to eat healthier and exercise Pst K, and balance your hormones so you can lose weight easier Pst M. Love you guys ❤
With all due respect, this comment is sensitive and should not be coming from someone who only has a social media relationship with these people. And no matter your relationship with them, this kind of advice should not be a public TH-cam comment. I hope you understand. Thank you
Your comment reflects your SHALLOW MINDSET
@@sadraolaedo4733 God bless you ♥️
Nor your business! Totally unacceptable . You shouldn't do this.
Taller 😂
Mrs. Seems to have a lesser sense of humour... Mummy gives me that serious vibe
I want Pastor Kingsley to do a counseling video of ladies who want to marry an already-married man. Most Nigerian ladies and even more Christians are jumping on the getting married to a man that's already married as second or third wife with even all bible examples like King Solomon used.
I think men should work hard at being ahead in all ramifications. Strive to be better and work it out deliberately. So many are very comfortable with mediocrity and use culture to back it up.
May God help us find our mates in Jesus name, amen