Honestly think the opposite, I love this new bit of content where you are happy, doing things with and for James. It’s clear you are genuinely happy and I’ve also always admired you being so real and relatable. When the effort and energy is reciprocated it makes the relationship flow so healthy. Makes you wanna do more for each other! Remember that eventho those comments tend to be the “loudest”, they are a tiny percentage of hundreds of others that see the good eventho she may not have meant harm ❤️
I LOVE the wifey girl energy vibes!!! I want to see more! I like seeing daily homely content, just simple everyday things, nothing crazy! I’d love to listen more about the whole getting into your feminine energy
That’s literally what love is. You do a lot for that person and they do a lot for you. Girls who don’t have partners or partners who love them in this way just won’t understand. You don’t need to explain. I love that you always mention him, he’s a huge part of your life, it’s only NORMAL! proceed to do you. xx
I LOVE your content Tarsha. Don’t change, you are one of the most authentic content creators I’ve come across. I like that you don’t plan your vlogs, I like that what we see is what truly happens in your day to day life. Your true supporters want nothing more than to see you being you❤️ love from South Africa🇿🇦
Tarsha dont ever apologise for being in love !!! its moments like that, that us girls were dreaming about since we were little. Were so happy of the strong and caring woman you have become we love hearing about your relationship. My mum passed away 10 years ago while giving birth to my younger sister I was only 10 at the time but one thing I remember she loved doing was cooking food for my dad she would always try out new recipes and seeing you cook for your partner reminds me of those memories. she would always tell me as a little girl "no act of kindness, no matter how big or small is ever wasted" you putting out vlogs for us and sharing ur life with us is so kind and wet dont want you to ever think that your wasting your time or that's its boring we love it tarsha just thought I would share that with you if you ever feel discouraged ❤
💖💖You literally DO NOT need to explain yourself doll, personally I ADORE every single one your videos just as they are, and your vlogs are my absolute favorite!! I love how real, genuine and relatable you are Tarsha, as your followers we love that you’re happy and that your boyfriend treats you like the queen that you are!! As always, you look stunning and Boo is so freaking cute!!💖💖
Anyone writing negative comments about you are clearly jealous and immature. You are the sweetest, most real and loveable vlogger. We are lucky you have opened up about James and you have not lost yourself at all, you're an inspiration! There will always be people trying to bring you down when you're so fabulous xx
I think you should vlog whatever it is on your heart and mind for that moment ❤ it's exactly what separates you from other people love. I love the transparency and love the "mundane " parts for lack of better words cause it makes you so relatable❤Keep being YOU🥰
don’t feel the need to apologize for being in love!!!!!! it’s obvious too that your love language is acts of service, you cooking for your bf or spending time with his family isn’t an ill thing. it’s just your reality now! love your vlogs - i always watch them while getting ready 🤍
It’s kind of funny that people have those kinds of opinions when they don’t know you personally they only know what you show and just make judgements based off that. I’ve always admired your drive and the you have this calming energy about you I just love watching your content.
Girl I’m the same way with my boyfriend and always wanna be with him and his family because I didn’t get that same bond with my own so I value it so much. She’s still going to her workout classes, posting, working, and yes she’s gonna talk a lot abt James and spend time with him because they’re in a serious relationship, that’s a big part of her life. This is not just some boy she’s messing around with… constructive criticism is appreciated but let’s be happy for one another!
I think it’s crazy that you now have to leave a trigger warning just when mentioning your bf!😅😅 Your content is amazing and we’re happy that you’ve found some one, but just keep doing what you want for your vlogs bc it’s YOUR channel!💖💖💖
wifey goals, james is a very lucky man, to hell with what anyone else says, if you are happy, he supports you and does things for you, the fuck everyone else, take care of him like you are, life is important, be hapy
Tarsha Whitmore, first and most of all you don't owed no one an explanation of why you bring up James in most of your vlogs. People always criticize those they envy but you're so classy in wanting to explain yourself. I enjoyed all your vlogs and most of my friends as well just keep being realistic. Some vloggers aren't exciting and realistic as you. I enjoyed your vlogs and Allie Auton and the rest of your prestigious friends ya all motivate me to work out, eat healthy and love yourself. 👍 Thanks for your TH-cam channel! Head up and ignore the haters...love you... James got a very down to earth girlfriend. God bless! 💯❤️🙏🙏
Hey Tarsha! You are beautiful and you are doing incredible being independent, managing life and showing so much courage. Take tour time to do whatever makes you happy internally and don’t worry about viewers or anyone for that matter. If you want a good tip for hair repair that really works I got the perfect solution for hair growth after bleaching and damage. I use the product K18 which repairs keratin bonds and doesn’t wash off. (Apply it after a clarifying shampoo) I also use olaplex once a week or less (protein treatment) and I stopped using conditioner. ( it’s unnecessary as a product and can make hair dull and flat) instead a tiny amount of K18 helps brush the hair and actually repairs them! I wish you the best in life and know that you don’t need anything to be the radiant and wonderful person you are and you should be proud of all you are already!
Hey! Tarsha I really really love your contents so so so so much and I love your vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 200K Subscribers very very soon!✨☺️❤️
1. Shampoo once to get rid of dirt and oil 2. Shampoo again to clean and open the hair cuticle 3. Towel dry your hair slightly and apply treatment while the hair cuticles are open so the treatment can get deep into the hair 4. Rinse then apply conditioner to close the hair cuticle and then rinse the conditioner out This is what a couple hairdressers have explained are the correct steps💗
I honestly just think that comment came out of love for u like ur one of our besties!! I’m not going to lie when the vlogs started to become more of just u meal prepping for james (which I know probably takes forever) and maybe not seeing ur friends in the vlogs probably seems a bit not like u from the outside. But we know that of course this is just a SMALL snippet of ur life. We love u & care for u like ur our bff🫶🏼
Yes yes & yes Tarsha! I feel like a lot of people were genuinely worried about all the things you were doing for James when it came to meal prep etc. and how you said you were very old school/traditional because they were ASSUMING that he doesn't also do stuff in his daily life that makes your life easier. Its just because nowadays you see a lot of women try so hard to be "wifey" or a traditional woman in a relationship to men who couldn't care less to take on the "traditional" role of a man in a relationship aka be a provider and those women end up burnt out doing most of the work in the relationship. People really just HAVE to stop assuming things about peoples lives and acting like their assumptions are facts. Y'all have no idea what he does for her, you're only seeing her daily vlogs not his lol and she just stated that he's a provider so y'all can hang it up now lmao
so true! I think it's great for young girls to see that you can both work hard on yourself/career while also being a feminine woman and taking care of someone who also takes care of you! xx
Ahhh you didn’t have to address the comment about James but much respect & so mature of you❤️ I don’t think you’ve lost yourself at all! You seem happier than ever and truly in love. I’m the same way when it comes to my man!! 😂❤❤ He makes me happy and he’s a very important part of my life so naturally I talk about him a lot and wanna do wifey shit for him lol. Those who get it get it 🤷🏾♀️ P.S. - I think your hair looks so pretty with your natural darker roots coming in 😊
Whoever told you the comment about talking about James needs to calm down. Honestly Vlogging is meant to be your real life not prepared vlogs. We want to see your real life. That’s what most of us are here for Please don’t feel like you can’t talk about it now that’s just ridiculous. I love you content and so do many more people. Please ignore that comment 😊
I think the girl was projecting her own problems onto your life. Sad really. We tune in to see your life, whatever you happen to be doing. If you Love someone you would think your real supporters would...support you! lol Remember I'm the one who said I wouldn't mind your vlog being you chatting while waiting for paint to dry 😛Love you hon!! :-))))))
mmmmmm don't watch the channel if its to mundane for you is my advice Life is not always about jumping out of aeroplanes ya know???? I think people think you have to always ALWAYS be travelling or recreating you all the time Its exhausting 🥴 Lets just be instead of do and that you need to 'clear the air' seems redundant to me but anyway...... not a rant just an observation 🎈
But what does he do for you hun? It seems you’ve become like a mum. I hope you’re not doing his washing too. You may end up the breadwinner, doing all the chores and taking care of the kids. Just look out for yourself.
@@niad4040 but what is he providing? Tarsha pays her own rent, probably pays for all that food… he may have said he’s a provider but he’s not really. It’s strange to fall into traditional relationship roles after just a few months of dating.
Omg I’m sure you probably mean well but you literally commented last time. I recognise your name and double checked. I’m sure I speak for a lot of us when I say, give it a bloody rest already 🤣 Tarsha is a grown woman. Your level of investment in her relationship is very weird. It’s honestly no one’s business but hers and James.
@@jadenpetersburg1431 don't worry he definitely pays for all his food - I never have to pay any bills with him lmao not even small dinners he won't let me (with the exception of if I'm organising something for him as a gift).. I'm definitely not the breadwinner here but I do work hard for myself still 🥰
if you want to see James everyday, all day...then you should!! People always think what works for them works for everyone. There is no one size fits all ! People are weird🫡🤔
I feel like you always put yourself down and doubt yourself when you say things like “sorry if the vlog is boring” or “my content hasn’t been the best” and you shouldn’t lovely. I actually love your vlogs they motivate me and entertain me and they’re obviously real compared to “vlogs” of other influencers 🤍 But maybe like you said try switching up the content from only vlogs and hauls to other things too so you can try out everything
Honestly think the opposite, I love this new bit of content where you are happy, doing things with and for James. It’s clear you are genuinely happy and I’ve also always admired you being so real and relatable. When the effort and energy is reciprocated it makes the relationship flow so healthy. Makes you wanna do more for each other! Remember that eventho those comments tend to be the “loudest”, they are a tiny percentage of hundreds of others that see the good eventho she may not have meant harm ❤️
thank you lovely! 💘
@@TarshaWhitmore wheres ur poloriod camera from is it the fujifilm mini 9 and wide camera ?
I LOVE the wifey girl energy vibes!!! I want to see more!
I like seeing daily homely content, just simple everyday things, nothing crazy! I’d love to listen more about the whole getting into your feminine energy
That’s literally what love is. You do a lot for that person and they do a lot for you. Girls who don’t have partners or partners who love them in this way just won’t understand. You don’t need to explain. I love that you always mention him, he’s a huge part of your life, it’s only NORMAL! proceed to do you. xx
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I LOVE your content Tarsha. Don’t change, you are one of the most authentic content creators I’ve come across. I like that you don’t plan your vlogs, I like that what we see is what truly happens in your day to day life. Your true supporters want nothing more than to see you being you❤️ love from South Africa🇿🇦
Tarsha dont ever apologise for being in love !!! its moments like that, that us girls were dreaming about since we were little. Were so happy of the strong and caring woman you have become we love hearing about your relationship. My mum passed away 10 years ago while giving birth to my younger sister I was only 10 at the time but one thing I remember she loved doing was cooking food for my dad she would always try out new recipes and seeing you cook for your partner reminds me of those memories. she would always tell me as a little girl "no act of kindness, no matter how big or small is ever wasted" you putting out vlogs for us and sharing ur life with us is so kind and wet dont want you to ever think that your wasting your time or that's its boring we love it tarsha just thought I would share that with you if you ever feel discouraged ❤
Love this comment so much ☺️💗
aww that made me tear up! thank you so much lovely means so much to me 💘 your mum seems like she was an amazing lady!
@@TarshaWhitmore Aw thank you I appreciate that so much she would of loved to recreate all your amazing recipes !
I love your vlogs periodd. You’re in a new stage of your life & it’s so nice that you’re sharing this with us ❤️🔥
💘 thank you x
💖💖You literally DO NOT need to explain yourself doll, personally I ADORE every single one your videos just as they are, and your vlogs are my absolute favorite!! I love how real, genuine and relatable you are Tarsha, as your followers we love that you’re happy and that your boyfriend treats you like the queen that you are!! As always, you look stunning and Boo is so freaking cute!!💖💖
thank you!! she's the best 🤭
Anyone writing negative comments about you are clearly jealous and immature. You are the sweetest, most real and loveable vlogger. We are lucky you have opened up about James and you have not lost yourself at all, you're an inspiration! There will always be people trying to bring you down when you're so fabulous xx
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I think you should vlog whatever it is on your heart and mind for that moment ❤ it's exactly what separates you from other people love. I love the transparency and love the "mundane " parts for lack of better words cause it makes you so relatable❤Keep being YOU🥰
That part about finding a real man .. sooo true!
Love your content always ❤
don’t feel the need to apologize for being in love!!!!!! it’s obvious too that your love language is acts of service, you cooking for your bf or spending time with his family isn’t an ill thing. it’s just your reality now! love your vlogs - i always watch them while getting ready 🤍
thanks babe!!
i love your vlogs 🥰 Please don’t let a comment like that get to you! We really love this journey in your life and so happy for you! ❤
Your videos make me get my sh*t together in the best way 🥲 love the vlogs and how well you take care of yourself and those around you❤️
Yes can’t wait for the next video talking about ur life and etc so exciting 🥰🥰
It’s kind of funny that people have those kinds of opinions when they don’t know you personally they only know what you show and just make judgements based off that. I’ve always admired your drive and the you have this calming energy about you I just love watching your content.
❤ thank you x
Love your vloggies always.Take all the time you need to live your best life cause we love seeing it, sending love and hope you have the best day! xx 🌹
thanks queen!!
Love your vlogs!! And I think it’s the cancer energy that’s just very loving and caring 😂❤
Chill vlog love when cook, it a beautiful thing when u love someone ❤.
Girl I’m the same way with my boyfriend and always wanna be with him and his family because I didn’t get that same bond with my own so I value it so much. She’s still going to her workout classes, posting, working, and yes she’s gonna talk a lot abt James and spend time with him because they’re in a serious relationship, that’s a big part of her life. This is not just some boy she’s messing around with… constructive criticism is appreciated but let’s be happy for one another!
exactly right about the fam... thank you! x
Beautiful mashalah, i feel like you’ll look so good with shorter extentions xx
Oh what a lovely surprise i thought you stopped vloging can't wait to watch♥♥
I think it’s crazy that you now have to leave a trigger warning just when mentioning your bf!😅😅 Your content is amazing and we’re happy that you’ve found some one, but just keep doing what you want for your vlogs bc it’s YOUR channel!💖💖💖
lmaoooo
i love taking care of my boyfriend in similar ways so i love seeing that you do the same!!!
You made me die with your trigger warning 🤣 as if that’s even a problem! I’m loving this feminine energy it’s motivating me so much 💌
HHAHAHAH
Keen for that vlog idea where you go through your spending!! I feel like everything is so expensive in Aus 😫
Finallyyyyy a daily vlog 😍😍
Love that you’re happy in your relationship! Its just that your videos are not interesting anymore & slacking
And shessssss back!!! Your vlog for next week got me so excited its coming at the perfect time I might immigrate to Australia
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You just be you Tarsha your such a beautiful person! 💞 can you please do an updated makeup tutorial? xxx
thank you! I've been meaning to.. let's hope before the end of the year I can pull it together lmao
@@TarshaWhitmore hahaha! Can’t wait for it x
A new vlog was definitely needed ❤️
wifey goals, james is a very lucky man, to hell with what anyone else says, if you are happy, he supports you and does things for you, the fuck everyone else, take care of him like you are, life is important, be hapy
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U are such a joy to watch♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I love all your videos!!
Tarsha Whitmore, first and most of all you don't owed no one an explanation of why you bring up James in most of your vlogs. People always criticize those they envy but you're so classy in wanting to explain yourself. I enjoyed all your vlogs and most of my friends as well just keep being realistic. Some vloggers aren't exciting and realistic as you. I enjoyed your vlogs and Allie Auton and the rest of your prestigious friends ya all motivate me to work out, eat healthy and love yourself. 👍 Thanks for your TH-cam channel! Head up and ignore the haters...love you... James got a very down to earth girlfriend. God bless! 💯❤️🙏🙏
thank you lovely 💘
Hey Tarsha! You are beautiful and you are doing incredible being independent, managing life and showing so much courage. Take tour time to do whatever makes you happy internally and don’t worry about viewers or anyone for that matter. If you want a good tip for hair repair that really works I got the perfect solution for hair growth after bleaching and damage. I use the product K18 which repairs keratin bonds and doesn’t wash off. (Apply it after a clarifying shampoo) I also use olaplex once a week or less (protein treatment) and I stopped using conditioner. ( it’s unnecessary as a product and can make hair dull and flat) instead a tiny amount of K18 helps brush the hair and actually repairs them! I wish you the best in life and know that you don’t need anything to be the radiant and wonderful person you are and you should be proud of all you are already!
Hey! Tarsha I really really love your contents so so so so much and I love your vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 200K Subscribers very very soon!✨☺️❤️
Thanks for sharing your life with us 🥰
1. Shampoo once to get rid of dirt and oil
2. Shampoo again to clean and open the hair cuticle
3. Towel dry your hair slightly and apply treatment while the hair cuticles are open so the treatment can get deep into the hair
4. Rinse then apply conditioner to close the hair cuticle and then rinse the conditioner out
This is what a couple hairdressers have explained are the correct steps💗
thanks babe!! 💘
Love to vlogs! Can’t wait for the what i spend in a week video 🥰
Love your vlogs! Where is your white cover up from in the beginning of the video?
would love to see boyfriend challenges, it would be exciting to watch!
LOVEEE the things you buy/recieve! You should do a follower give away for the things u dont want anymore💕id die for the things u have
I honestly just think that comment came out of love for u like ur one of our besties!! I’m not going to lie when the vlogs started to become more of just u meal prepping for james (which I know probably takes forever) and maybe not seeing ur friends in the vlogs probably seems a bit not like u from the outside. But we know that of course this is just a SMALL snippet of ur life. We love u & care for u like ur our bff🫶🏼
Yes yes & yes Tarsha! I feel like a lot of people were genuinely worried about all the things you were doing for James when it came to meal prep etc. and how you said you were very old school/traditional because they were ASSUMING that he doesn't also do stuff in his daily life that makes your life easier. Its just because nowadays you see a lot of women try so hard to be "wifey" or a traditional woman in a relationship to men who couldn't care less to take on the "traditional" role of a man in a relationship aka be a provider and those women end up burnt out doing most of the work in the relationship. People really just HAVE to stop assuming things about peoples lives and acting like their assumptions are facts. Y'all have no idea what he does for her, you're only seeing her daily vlogs not his lol and she just stated that he's a provider so y'all can hang it up now lmao
so true! I think it's great for young girls to see that you can both work hard on yourself/career while also being a feminine woman and taking care of someone who also takes care of you! xx
Tarsha I love your Keepall bag! Is it the 45 or 50?
I love your vlogs ❤
thank you 🥰
Thanks for vlogging. YAYYY. 👠🥑💅🏽
Ahhh you didn’t have to address the comment about James but much respect & so mature of you❤️ I don’t think you’ve lost yourself at all! You seem happier than ever and truly in love. I’m the same way when it comes to my man!! 😂❤❤ He makes me happy and he’s a very important part of my life so naturally I talk about him a lot and wanna do wifey shit for him lol. Those who get it get it 🤷🏾♀️
P.S. - I think your hair looks so pretty with your natural darker roots coming in 😊
thanks babe!! x
Jaz Hand went to the same house! it’s beautiful 😍
so so gorgeous!
You should do a designer shop with me
lmao I would but I don't buy designer as much as I used to!
Whoever told you the comment about talking about James needs to calm down. Honestly
Vlogging is meant to be your real life not prepared vlogs. We want to see your real life. That’s what most of us are here for
Please don’t feel like you can’t talk about it now that’s just ridiculous.
I love you content and so do many more people. Please ignore that comment 😊
try the jshealth hair vitamins they saved my hair x
Bombshell Beauty.
Girl Brunette is your colour!
where's your white dress at the end from? xx
fashion nova! xx
I think the girl was projecting her own problems onto your life. Sad really. We tune in to see your life, whatever you happen to be doing. If you Love someone you would think your real supporters would...support you! lol Remember I'm the one who said I wouldn't mind your vlog being you chatting while waiting for paint to dry 😛Love you hon!! :-))))))
thanks boo! hahah I do xx
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Tarsha, do you! Uh! People, just stop being negative. Look at your own life.
I don't even find you speak about him much.....He's a big part of your life so I don't see the issue.
mmmmmm don't watch the channel if its to mundane for you is my advice Life is not always about jumping out of aeroplanes ya know???? I think people think you have to always ALWAYS be travelling or recreating you all the time Its exhausting 🥴 Lets just be instead of do and that you need to 'clear the air' seems redundant to me but anyway...... not a rant just an observation 🎈
Just go brunette babe
But what does he do for you hun? It seems you’ve become like a mum. I hope you’re not doing his washing too. You may end up the breadwinner, doing all the chores and taking care of the kids. Just look out for yourself.
Did you listen to what she said at all lol? She said he's a provider type.
@@niad4040 but what is he providing? Tarsha pays her own rent, probably pays for all that food… he may have said he’s a provider but he’s not really. It’s strange to fall into traditional relationship roles after just a few months of dating.
I’m sure he pays for his food. It would be quite expensive.
Either way she seems to be happier then ever & that’s all that matters 💕💕
Omg I’m sure you probably mean well but you literally commented last time. I recognise your name and double checked. I’m sure I speak for a lot of us when I say, give it a bloody rest already 🤣 Tarsha is a grown woman. Your level of investment in her relationship is very weird. It’s honestly no one’s business but hers and James.
@@jadenpetersburg1431 don't worry he definitely pays for all his food - I never have to pay any bills with him lmao not even small dinners he won't let me (with the exception of if I'm organising something for him as a gift).. I'm definitely not the breadwinner here but I do work hard for myself still 🥰
if you want to see James everyday, all day...then you should!! People always think what works for them works for everyone. There is no one size fits all ! People are weird🫡🤔
ahh an upload!!
I feel like you always put yourself down and doubt yourself when you say things like “sorry if the vlog is boring” or “my content hasn’t been the best” and you shouldn’t lovely. I actually love your vlogs they motivate me and entertain me and they’re obviously real compared to “vlogs” of other influencers 🤍 But maybe like you said try switching up the content from only vlogs and hauls to other things too so you can try out everything
Lmao I definitely do say that a lot, I just feel bad if people were expecting a vlog filled with activities HAHAH
Hey Tarsha! What camera settings do you use on your camera for vlogging ?