Let's Talk About Fertility | Things to NOT ask

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  • Fertility journeys are quite sensitive. Here is a video just to talk about infertility and also things to not say to people regarding fertility.

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  • @nadiahaihambo1905
    @nadiahaihambo1905 ปีที่แล้ว

    Folks don’t realize how painful infertility is , having gone through secondary infertility it gave me a glimpse. The assumption that once you have become a parent that the next will just come but waiting for 6 years was a tough journey with a loss and miscarriage in between. The Lord who restores came through in the end and there were 3. Thanks for educating on this sensitive matter. Cheers fellow angel baby mommy. 🙏🏽😮😇

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว

      The God of testimonies
      Thank you so much for sharing this my love, I hope someone gets to read this and they are filled with Hope.
      When you said they were three, do you mean you got triplets or you mean in the end you have 3 children?

  • @emiliasadrax5253
    @emiliasadrax5253 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Butterfly 🦋. Kindly get time and please go on Good Morning Namibia to give a talk on this fertility topic. I really wish I could double like this video. I personally suffer from adenomyosis and uterine fibroids and the amount of comments and questions I get from people are so heartbreaking and the stigma out there regarding fertility is on another level.

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I moved out of the country for now, to go specialize.
      Hopefully one day, someone who is more versed in the topic medically, can actually go on and talk about it.
      Thank you for sharing this. I hope you did find some sort of encouragement from this. 🙏🏾

  • @LainaEndjala
    @LainaEndjala ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s true,people should stop asking questions like this….I’ve a 2 years old daughter and now I have a lot of people asking me when will I ah e a second child,or the child should have a sister or a brother….it’s not easy and it’s not good. Sometimes you don’t even know what people have in plans,sometimes one is already finding it hard to have another child or to fall pregnant,some are going through a lot of miscarriages….it’s really draining 😢😢

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is draining
      And imagine they won’t even help financially if you got more kids. Eish, our people.

    • @stephanieo8933
      @stephanieo8933 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lanina God, will you give childeren trust Jesus fast healing womb praying read the Bible its not easy i have misscarrring too I am trust Jesus christ I fast praying talk with the Lord read the Bible and I have no partner or childeren 39 old years in November 40 years low weight suffering abuse victim therapie i don t just drugs no drinking no more sometimes I am feeling so lonely right now a christen man chat with me on Baddo he won t too marriage me next month all I have not meeting him I say too that I don t know you Lets grab a drink and know a together okay you know I am not so easy too fallen in Love haha now he want too meet me he lives in Amsterdam too but my sister in christ say you must be becarful. My neybors say you will be a great mom when are you coming your childeren I saying too that God will gave me partner i have only too be still and I praying for that its working. 🙏🕊😗

    • @LifeWithSiEl
      @LifeWithSiEl ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! This is also
      What we’re going through.

  • @Ndeumona-Scho
    @Ndeumona-Scho ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a good topic, it even gets worse when you are an older woman above 35 and not married, the pressure of being married and getting children even gets worse, it’s like the comments that gets thrown around are totally insensitive and it’s not like you don’t want to get married or have children. I have even had more pressure from a Dr asking me what is happening in my relationship, and that there are so many other options I can take to get a child on my own if this man is not ready yet and that I don’t need a man to get kids, I was honestly just baffled. But anywhere, good topic let’s keep educating and sensitizing our people.

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah the pressure gets more and more with age. Imagine you yourself can be going through the struggles on your own already and it’s not happening and here are all the external people saying all these things.
      May we all strive to be better people 🙏🏾

  • @ndiitungapomaria474
    @ndiitungapomaria474 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an educating video. Sometimes we really need to be mindful before we ask this sensitive questions because we don't know what others are going through and we just end hurting them.

  • @johannamichael9005
    @johannamichael9005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative video. A child comes fro God its not that we dot want kids sometimes ther are other issues preventing us from conceiving so please peole should stop with judgmental questions and gossips

  • @LifeWithSiEl
    @LifeWithSiEl ปีที่แล้ว

    One speaker briefly touched on this at the motherhood event and it automatically reminded me of this video. Thank you for reaching us Dr. Elina❤️

  • @kaunakauna7811
    @kaunakauna7811 ปีที่แล้ว

    I only if Mrs Shilongo knew how I love her🥰 may you be blessed and keep educating us🙏

  • @Sellyomagano
    @Sellyomagano ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was definitely informative 🤗😊I have learned that we should be more mindful about what we ask . 💕✨Thank you Elina

  • @wetutala
    @wetutala ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so informative. Thank you.

  • @estheripinge1423
    @estheripinge1423 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Since we are here, please make a video of contraceptives. Is there a link between contraceptives and infertility?. Thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shuu, wow 😆
      I won’t even lie, that’s a topic I am not good in myself, I guess I haven’t also ever been interested in finding out much.
      But I’ll try to find time.
      But as for the relation, some mess with your hormones and affect conception, but I can’t 100% say they make you infertile

    • @estheripinge1423
      @estheripinge1423 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the response. Love your content . Keep it up ❤️.

  • @saarasheya8156
    @saarasheya8156 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very informative👏👏👏

  • @gracendeapo5600
    @gracendeapo5600 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this educative video Doc. We should really be mindful of things we ask others. We never know what people are going through 😢

  • @sandreyaseibes8177
    @sandreyaseibes8177 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said i've been married for a year nd half nd thats the questions i go through almost every day. Its depressing 😢

  • @tebalelomarobane8496
    @tebalelomarobane8496 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Some questions,I got married in December,by now ppl have started whispering, I feel for my mom you can see it's affecting her,that time we are not even try for a baby we are thinking mayb September,I mean there's relocation happening and trying to gather money yooo there's alot,but now ppl dnt know ur plans. U can't even gain weight peaceful ❤

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s the “you can’t even gain weight peacefully” for me 🤣🤣. I feel you man. Soemtimes you and your partner have your own plans but the rest of the world just want you to be on their timeline. Take your time.

    • @tebalelomarobane8496
      @tebalelomarobane8496 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@setapartbutterfly9142 😂😂😂, thank you,we will surely take our time..

  • @ndapewapaulus703
    @ndapewapaulus703 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative 🌸🍃

  • @naemyhaufila
    @naemyhaufila ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Mrs Shilongo. I really learnt a lot from this video.❤️🙏🏼

  • @vainaneshila1221
    @vainaneshila1221 ปีที่แล้ว

    You say it rright girly, people should stop asking those kind of sensitive question asblf. Thank you for the video, i enjoy and learn alot from it

  • @indirambapeuakamutindi453
    @indirambapeuakamutindi453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative. Thank you Mrs. Shilongo ❤️❤️🙏

  • @natacheiilonga
    @natacheiilonga ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video 🦋. Super informative❤👍🏿I have shared this to friends👍🏿

  • @lyliendeikemona5025
    @lyliendeikemona5025 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending you lots of love and strength especially when you get back to work. ❤

  • @theopolinamwaala1378
    @theopolinamwaala1378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for talking about this topic. Very informative indeed. Also its a beautiful butterfly necklace for me😊😊 matching with your name too❤❤

    • @setapartbutterfly9142
      @setapartbutterfly9142  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome, and yes I’m obsessed with Butterflies 🥰🥰

  • @Chartomy
    @Chartomy ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this informative presentation. I like that you included statistics and risk factors 🙌🏽

  • @alinamatti8316
    @alinamatti8316 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have learned alot .... thank you Mrs Shilongo ♥️

  • @flaviashangadi5905
    @flaviashangadi5905 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so informative. Thank you Mrs Shilongo ❤

  • @ilonatimoteus1340
    @ilonatimoteus1340 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly what I signed up for❤❤...I learned a lot 😊

  • @twaffyheita
    @twaffyheita ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much mrs Shilongo. This was very educative. Hoping for more of sit up videos

  • @saarahavula2048
    @saarahavula2048 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Favvvvvv
    Elina dearest, I'm so grateful for your life 😘😘
    You taught me a lot muuunnhhh...specially there by verses eish
    Blessed be your soul

  • @sirkkapaulus5757
    @sirkkapaulus5757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @dankieyadave8230
    @dankieyadave8230 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaaaay, good good good topic

  • @wilkapolla2024
    @wilkapolla2024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mrs Shilongo, this was informative ❤️❤️

  • @lady_nxoko_na
    @lady_nxoko_na ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love love it ❤❤❤

  • @taimiangula
    @taimiangula ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your sit down videos sm❤

  • @Tuyah91
    @Tuyah91 ปีที่แล้ว

    So informative..❤thank you 🦋

  • @naominangolo2189
    @naominangolo2189 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for a very informative video love❤

  • @selmahamukwaya8381
    @selmahamukwaya8381 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom 🙏🙏

  • @kawetejohanna5522
    @kawetejohanna5522 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really like the topic need to talk to u about it

  • @Vlogsbygrace1922
    @Vlogsbygrace1922 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos are Soo informative ❤️

  • @RenateIipinge-mq4sy
    @RenateIipinge-mq4sy ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this

  • @katrinajohannes574
    @katrinajohannes574 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @Ester_Lavo-Laudika
    @Ester_Lavo-Laudika ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋❤❤🦋

  • @epifanianhaimbodi6792
    @epifanianhaimbodi6792 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @foibeinga4521
    @foibeinga4521 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤😻

  • @Emmi_INT
    @Emmi_INT ปีที่แล้ว

    I love sit downs I learn alot and they are very informative

  • @aminahsabano2339
    @aminahsabano2339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for info 🧈

  • @stephanieo8933
    @stephanieo8933 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are my grandchilderen

  • @hilmaamunyela3754
    @hilmaamunyela3754 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤍🤍