दुनिया में अब यही हो रहा हैं। अच्छे को अच्छा नहीं मिल रहा । बुरा आदमी/औरत ऐसी जिंदगी की वाट लगा देते है....जी नहीं करता कि जिंदगी जिए...लेकिन हार मत मनो खुद के लिए जिओ
Very inspiring story, you proved that women are not born to tolerate Domestic Violence👏👏🔥 if we decide to change our destiny then no one can stop us…I am proud of you Aparna❤
Zindagi bhut khoobsurat hai....beshak aap ne zindagi ko jhelne se bachaloya hai aur phir sanwarliy. ....AAP ke hosle ko salam hai Ejaz Rumi ka. ...AAP k hosle ko God ne bhut saraha hai aap ko shandar platform milgaya hai....thanks God❤
😮😔😔 so much pain... Beti... Deergha Aayushmaan Bhava 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Digvijayi Bhava 🙌🏼🙌🏼🚩🙏🏼 Glad you saved your life in time . Only if you had complained very first day after marriage when he hurt you.. Abuse by anyone should not be tolerated.
Har ladki ko sochna chahiye apni personal savings ko kabhi apni marriage me na lagaye apne future k emergency ke liye rakhe chahe in laws aur husband kitne bhi achche ho. Blind na bane mind use kare😢🙏
I am also a doctor I was in narcissistic abusive relationship for 12 years. After studying and researching, took many psychiatric help, done many course , then I got strength to come out of that relationship Now I am helping those who are stuck in this abusive relationshipMy life is much better now. I m happy now
Great beta you are angel they will suffer why ladies are so soft why they get beaten come on be strong don’t get bullied from nonsense people be strong
Aapka bahut bahut dhanyawad aur aabhaar is pyaaar aur blessing ke liye, aap jo bhi hain aapke is message se meri aankhein nam ho gayin. 🙏🏻 Aapne beta bola, it means a lot. 🙏🏻
Mere sath same situation hui thi and main aaj tak us rakshas ko saja dilane k liye lad rhi hu..aesa ladke ko bhagwan sabka sikhaye..swayam shri krishna uska vadh karenge wishwas h mjhe
We should look other side of story too as according to supreme court 90 percent of domestic violence aee fake..and women often often portray victim to get easy financial benifits and attention to public so that they can have talk show like that .. and Atul subash case isse prove Karta he ladkiya kitni jhoot bolti he
Tolerating violence again and again and then showing here that you're survivor or brave is not right. Girls, once he hit you, give him back. If you can't,just run.
I have also faced the same violence and mental torture. The maid was removed from the job by the inlaws the very next day just because I didn't carry any dowry with me. They had made no demand either but made me do all the work in the house. My husband didn't touch for first few months. God knows why. I left him after the incompatiblity . Yet gave him many chances but finally left everything and made my own career and got retired from my teaching job successfully.
किसी भी रिश्ते में जाने से पहले उस रिश्ते की बुनियाद को परख जरूर लेना । और जो रिश्ता सिर्फ पैसे और जिस्म की सुंदरता से जुड़ा हो ऎसे रिश्ते की बुनियाद कुछ ही पल में गिर जाती है
Very true.kabhi bhi husband se ya sasural valo se mar mat khao.turant hi fir karke 1medical certificate le lo for your safety. Same my story I am also a doctor.educated women ke saath bhi aisa hota hai. Work for yourself hamesha apna saving bhi rakho.if sasural vale and husband demanding samzo ki they are making you financially handicapped.never be a part of there greed shadi se pahle unka family background hamesha check kar
Proud to be single and independent. Of course I feel fearful at times but when I hear such stories, I thank my stars for my decision 🙂. Maybe not all men are monsters but most are. Why take chances ?
I broke my marriage many times... Due to these reasons... It's better not to get married than face all this.. We are not objects.. We should give them back immediately the day we get a single sign of greediness... Hame bachpan se sahna seekhate hai but yeh galat hai.
Kya physical violence hi violence h ..trust me mentally violence 1000 time more dangerous because usko to koi smjhta tk nhi mar ko koi bol k bta skta h mara h lekin jo apko mentally torture krta to apko khud ko hi nhi smjh aata kisiko kese batana h😢
To ap apne ap ko torture hone hi q derhe ho ,kisi ka hak nhi h k hume preshan kre is tarah k hum khudse bhi darne lage,koi apke photo,vdeo se dara rha h ya koi maa Baap ko marne ya apko mar dene k dhamki se dara rha h ,ya koi esi glti bhul hogyi apse jiska sach use pta h pr pura sach apko pta h fr b vo dara rha h k kon tumpe vishwas krega to tum daro nhi tum usse lado tum use darao, tum kisi got officer ki help lo vo tumhe har tarike se nikalenge
*जो पैसे वाला होता है वो और पैसा चाहता है...और आपके जैसी बडे घर की पैसे वाली लडकी...वो भी रिस्ता पैसे वालों से ही जोडती है...चाहे वो प्रेम हो, दोस्ती में हो या शादी में क्यों की उनको थोडा गरीब नहीं चलता उनकी सोसायटी में फजीहत होती है..आज कल की लडकीयॉं...किसी होन हार, मेहनती, सच्चा, इमानदार लडके से रिस्ते बनाती ही नहीं..! जिस में लालच है, स्वार्थ है वो कल किसी भी हद्द तक गिर सकता है..! किसी गरीब लडके से शादी कर अपने अमिरी का तमाशा ना कर, शादी को संजोए रखा तो वो गरीब लडका आपके जैसे लडकी के पैर धोकर पाणी पिएगा..पर अक्सर ऐसा होता नहीं अगर किसी गरीब लडके से शादी भी की तो...तो उसको प्रताडित किया जाता है..! रिस्ते को बचाना दोनो की जिम्मेदारी होती है..अकेला रहना ये कोई सोल्युशन नहीं होता..! एक दुसऱ्याला समजून घेणे व adjustment करणे हेच आयुष्य आहे. तुम्ही adjust करत नसाल तर तुम्ही किती ही श्रीमंत असू दे...ते नाते कधीच टिकणार नाही.*
We should look other side of story too as according to supreme court 90 percent of domestic violence aee fake..and women often often portray victim to get easy financial benifits and attention to public so that they can have talk show like that ..
Very inspiring story of life .women all over World face such life. Why do women tolerate and hope to have better life with same person by giving him one more chance?? This is the first mistake of trying to patch up. Some families of women coax women to return to hell. Women should be economically independent and should report to police immediately such incidents. Our families aren't so weak they will with stand the social remarks.
I was stuck in a wrong marriage and got out of it within two months and long two years legal battle. A wrong marriage is a hell. I am still wondering this girl is so educated and still was taking the beating.
@@MoniAlly-tr6hs my best wishes with you. Yes its social conditioning and been happening a lot. I loved that dialogue in Thappad Movie. Sirf ek thappad tha but nahi maar sakta. Its as simple as that. Hope this social evil gets eradicated soon.
Aap log aisa kaise ker lete ho .I am stuck in wrong marriage for 12 years, have a 8 year old child. Don't u know or may be I don't know that it is hard to get married again for divorced women. In addition job prospects are not same for male and female...ek baar baccha ho gaya to usko paalna hi ek work hai....
Aise hi marte h... 1-1 ghanta... Bina ruke... Buri trha... Phone lelete h... Pitte waqt yaad ata h ki koi bacha le aab nahi rahugi... Pitayi rukne k baad pati sirf sorry bolta h... Or patni... Apne ghar wale, kahan jaugi, bacche, school baccho ka, financial, sab sochti h or ruk jati hai...
Dear girls hmesha yaad rakhna, mard ka ak hi kaam hota h vo h earning krna, jo mard aalsi nalle hote h irresponsible hote h, nalayak bete ho vo mard dusro ki kmayi p jeete h....
Mam aap bahut acchi beti Ho Apne mata-pita ki aapane acchi patni banne ki koshish kari vah Shaitan aapke layak nahin tha vahan se hatkar apni jindagi bacha Li❤
You are such a strong girl... Hr ldki independent honi chahiye... Jo bolte h ldki galat h wo khud giri hui mansikta k vyakti hote hain...
दुनिया में अब यही हो रहा हैं।
अच्छे को अच्छा नहीं मिल रहा ।
बुरा आदमी/औरत ऐसी जिंदगी की वाट लगा देते है....जी नहीं करता कि जिंदगी जिए...लेकिन हार मत मनो खुद के लिए जिओ
ha yar puri duniya ghatiya hoti ja rahi hai
@@True_feedback fake story suna rahi hai.. one sided ..
Dr. Aparna Pandey, You are great, in many ways! Trust yourself, more and more! You have more abilities, than you think! My blessings, be happy!
Sahi kaha har critical condition me b ham social media me apne ap ko happy dikhaye h
Entire video... ,same my story too...lot of people have same story...i can relate...everyone is going through same thing...
Wonderful to know how you turned your life around. Very inspiring. God bless you
Very inspiring story, you proved that women are not born to tolerate Domestic Violence👏👏🔥 if we decide to change our destiny then no one can stop us…I am proud of you Aparna❤
acha lga sab support kar rahe ho
Omg ,God give u strength to face this violent abuse,u r a strong girl
You are very strong person. God bless you 😢.
Haan bht strong h itni maar khaa lia bht strong h
Zindagi bhut khoobsurat hai....beshak aap ne zindagi ko jhelne se bachaloya hai aur phir sanwarliy. ....AAP ke hosle ko salam hai Ejaz Rumi ka. ...AAP k hosle ko God ne bhut saraha hai aap ko shandar platform milgaya hai....thanks God❤
कुछ लोग नर पिशाच होते हैं।दूसरों को जीने नहीं देते।बहुत दुख हुआ ,सुन कर इतनी प्यारी,पढ़ी लिखी लड़की के साथ ऐसा हुआ।
Aapne bahot achhi baat kahi video ke end me maam, bahot achhi Sikh di aapne 👏👏😊
If husband asks wife to bring any amount from her parents, ask him to bring same amount from his parents also
U r so Lucky that you have a such supportive family...may all girls have a powerful support so that they could stand for their selves
Mam so much pain ful story but happy starting ❤❤❤❤
😢😢😢😢
😮😔😔 so much pain...
Beti... Deergha Aayushmaan Bhava 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Digvijayi Bhava 🙌🏼🙌🏼🚩🙏🏼 Glad you saved your life in time .
Only if you had complained very first day after marriage when he hurt you..
Abuse by anyone should not be tolerated.
You are great DR Aparna 👍 👏
@@Anjana_shahi_1 fake story hai
Har ladki ko sochna chahiye apni personal savings ko kabhi apni marriage me na lagaye apne future k emergency ke liye rakhe chahe in laws aur husband kitne bhi achche ho. Blind na bane mind use kare😢🙏
Great Aparna ji ....stay strong
Aaj thak ka sabse aacha story thanku di
I am also a doctor
I was in narcissistic abusive relationship for 12 years.
After studying and researching, took many psychiatric help, done many course , then I got strength to come out of that relationship Now I am helping those who are stuck in this abusive relationshipMy life is much better now.
I m happy now
U r a fighter.....apne ye khud ko samghya k jurm karne s jyda use sahna h aur us nark s nikali❤❤
Great beta you are angel they will suffer why ladies are so soft why they get beaten come on be strong don’t get bullied from nonsense people be strong
Aapka bahut bahut dhanyawad aur aabhaar is pyaaar aur blessing ke liye, aap jo bhi hain aapke is message se meri aankhein nam ho gayin. 🙏🏻 Aapne beta bola, it means a lot. 🙏🏻
Esa hi hota h , ye sari baatein der se samajh aati h. Kyoki humm ese nhi hote.
Few men are great psychologist, they knew women's kindness and abuse it
ऐसे लोगो को पता चले फौरन छोड़ दो और अगर कुछ करना हो तो इनको भी साथ ले के जाओ... जो पैसों से प्यार करते है किसी के नही होते
Aapko koti koti pranaam🙏 beta himmate marda madate khuda🙏
Sahi hai yar
Aapka bahut aabhar aur dhanyawad is pyaar aur blessing ke liye. Aapne beta kaha, ye shabd bahut sheetalta deta hai. Bahut dhanyawad aapka. 🙏🏻
Salute hai maime aap ko❤❤
Koi nahi aap pareshan na ho kush raho god bless 😊u di
Mere sath same situation hui thi and main aaj tak us rakshas ko saja dilane k liye lad rhi hu..aesa ladke ko bhagwan sabka sikhaye..swayam shri krishna uska vadh karenge wishwas h mjhe
Heads of you sister god bless you😊😊😊🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sab kush galat hone k baad b ham ladies apna ghar tute nai aur kbi na kbi sab thik ho jayega soch k bas jindagi kaat lete h
U r very strong women 💪. Aap sab k liye bahut badi prerna ho.proud of u.
We should look other side of story too as according to supreme court 90 percent of domestic violence aee fake..and women often often portray victim to get easy financial benifits and attention to public so that they can have talk show like that .. and Atul subash case isse prove Karta he ladkiya kitni jhoot bolti he
बहुत हिम्मत वाली हो , भाग्य अच्छा रहा।
अच्छे को अच्छा नहीं मिल रहा ...यही वजह से सवाल उठाता है क्या सच में मानवता मौजूद है..? क्या प्यार होता है..? क्या भगवान का अस्तित्व है..?
reality humanity sab mar gya hai aaj kal
Achi ladkiyo ke sath yahi sab kiya jata hai .
Right decision Dr sahab ji
जुल्म करने वाले से जुल्म सहने वाला बडा अपराधी होता हैं।
Tolerating violence again and again and then showing here that you're survivor or brave is not right. Girls, once he hit you, give him back. If you can't,just run.
Aparna Bahan aap ek achchi Mahila hone ka Saboot diya. Badkismat hai wo Mard jisne aapki achchayi ko nahi dekha.
Wah wah kya h aap m bolne se hi lagta h ki aap kya hn durga hn aap sakti hn naman aap jasi sabhi lady ko 🙏🙏👌👌
Nice salute to you 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
कभी भी ओनलाइन शादी नही करनी चाहिए ....कितना तकलीफ झेलनी पड़ती है हम लड़कियों को 😢😢😢😢😢
Bravo hatts of you bachcha
Very inspiring story ma'am salute 👏
I have also faced the same violence and mental torture. The maid was removed from the job by the inlaws the very next day just because I didn't carry any dowry with me.
They had made no demand either but made me do all the work in the house. My husband didn't touch for first few months. God knows why.
I left him after the incompatiblity . Yet gave him many chances but finally left everything and made my own career and got retired from my teaching job successfully.
Ma'am aap ki kahani ekdom meri kahani jaisi har ek word.
हे भगवान कैसे कैसे कसाई लोग हैं इस दुनियां में 😢
Hats off you Madam... Very nicely explained your life ' s struggle ...
शाबाश
राक्षसों से दया की अपेक्षा करना महामूर्खता है
Dil ko chhu gyi aapki baat😢❤❤
Ohh god kaise kaise log hai god bachaye aise logo se
किसी भी रिश्ते में जाने से पहले उस रिश्ते की बुनियाद को परख जरूर लेना ।
और जो रिश्ता सिर्फ पैसे और जिस्म की सुंदरता से जुड़ा हो ऎसे रिश्ते की बुनियाद कुछ ही पल में गिर जाती है
More power to you girl....👍🏼
Very true.kabhi bhi husband se ya sasural valo se mar mat khao.turant hi fir karke 1medical certificate le lo for your safety.
Same my story I am also a doctor.educated women ke saath bhi aisa hota hai.
Work for yourself hamesha apna saving bhi rakho.if sasural vale and husband demanding samzo ki they are making you financially handicapped.never be a part of there greed shadi se pahle unka family background hamesha check kar
App ki story se bahut duk whoa but app ki life Jo ab hai isse bahut kushee hue
Something happened to me... suffering from 2 1/2 years...
Moov on swati
Very brave girl stay blessed keep going🙏❤️🥲🥺❤️❤️
Proud to be single and independent. Of course I feel fearful at times but when I hear such stories, I thank my stars for my decision 🙂. Maybe not all men are monsters but most are. Why take chances ?
Very inspiring story ma’am
Such a beautiful soul.
Marriage has become a business. Most relationships are materialistic and toxic. Stay single stay happy.
You are brave Hats off
Jay shree Ram ji 🚩🙏
Bahut achcha Laga sunkar aapko bahut Khushi Hui is mukam per dekh kar main bhi aapke Shahar Gorakhpur se hi hun
Ladkio ko gold digger bolte hai bt reality me kuch log financially drain krte hai
U r great inspiration ma'am
Online marriage sirf fraud hi hote hai.meri bhi huye hai .sab logo ne jhooth bol ke shaadi kiya
bada dukh huaa
par pariwar to sahi mila hoga na aap ko
Salute he mam apko 👏👏👏😌
Dr Arpna Pandey Ji bhut dukh hai ap ki kahani sunkar AAP to doctor thi aam ladki samna nhi kar pati hai
Very motivating video
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne aap bahut strong ho mere sath bhi aesa hi hua tha bahut lalchi log the black mail kar te the mujhe
I broke my marriage many times... Due to these reasons... It's better not to get married than face all this.. We are not objects.. We should give them back immediately the day we get a single sign of greediness... Hame bachpan se sahna seekhate hai but yeh galat hai.
Kya physical violence hi violence h ..trust me mentally violence 1000 time more dangerous because usko to koi smjhta tk nhi mar ko koi bol k bta skta h mara h lekin jo apko mentally torture krta to apko khud ko hi nhi smjh aata kisiko kese batana h😢
Ri8 sister
100% schi bat boldi sis apne
Same condition h
To ap apne ap ko torture hone hi q derhe ho ,kisi ka hak nhi h k hume preshan kre is tarah k hum khudse bhi darne lage,koi apke photo,vdeo se dara rha h ya koi maa Baap ko marne ya apko mar dene k dhamki se dara rha h ,ya koi esi glti bhul hogyi apse jiska sach use pta h pr pura sach apko pta h fr b vo dara rha h k kon tumpe vishwas krega to tum daro nhi tum usse lado tum use darao, tum kisi got officer ki help lo vo tumhe har tarike se nikalenge
Sahi bat btaye samjhaye mam thank u
God bless you.
Great Job Aparna ji 👏👏👏 Well done 👍
You are great sister
Better is to be single......
Work earn n enjoy ur life..
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If u want child then adopt....
*जो पैसे वाला होता है वो और पैसा चाहता है...और आपके जैसी बडे घर की पैसे वाली लडकी...वो भी रिस्ता पैसे वालों से ही जोडती है...चाहे वो प्रेम हो, दोस्ती में हो या शादी में क्यों की उनको थोडा गरीब नहीं चलता उनकी सोसायटी में फजीहत होती है..आज कल की लडकीयॉं...किसी होन हार, मेहनती, सच्चा, इमानदार लडके से रिस्ते बनाती ही नहीं..! जिस में लालच है, स्वार्थ है वो कल किसी भी हद्द तक गिर सकता है..! किसी गरीब लडके से शादी कर अपने अमिरी का तमाशा ना कर, शादी को संजोए रखा तो वो गरीब लडका आपके जैसे लडकी के पैर धोकर पाणी पिएगा..पर अक्सर ऐसा होता नहीं अगर किसी गरीब लडके से शादी भी की तो...तो उसको प्रताडित किया जाता है..! रिस्ते को बचाना दोनो की जिम्मेदारी होती है..अकेला रहना ये कोई सोल्युशन नहीं होता..! एक दुसऱ्याला समजून घेणे व adjustment करणे हेच आयुष्य आहे. तुम्ही adjust करत नसाल तर तुम्ही किती ही श्रीमंत असू दे...ते नाते कधीच टिकणार नाही.*
We should look other side of story too as according to supreme court 90 percent of domestic violence aee fake..and women often often portray victim to get easy financial benifits and attention to public so that they can have talk show like that ..
Very inspiring story of life .women all over World face such life. Why do women tolerate and hope to have better life with same person by giving him one more chance?? This is the first mistake of trying to patch up.
Some families of women coax women to return to hell. Women should be economically independent and should report to police immediately such incidents. Our families aren't so weak they will with stand the social remarks.
JAY MATA RANI JI 🕉️🙏❤️
That's why I would like to say If you have been tolerating all the trauma so you are fool. You need to make determine decision and make you happy
I was stuck in a wrong marriage and got out of it within two months and long two years legal battle. A wrong marriage is a hell. I am still wondering this girl is so educated and still was taking the beating.
I m educated , earning , faced worse than this… reason societal conditioning
@@MoniAlly-tr6hs my best wishes with you. Yes its social conditioning and been happening a lot. I loved that dialogue in Thappad Movie. Sirf ek thappad tha but nahi maar sakta. Its as simple as that. Hope this social evil gets eradicated soon.
Aap log aisa kaise ker lete ho
.I am stuck in wrong marriage for 12 years, have a 8 year old child. Don't u know or may be I don't know that it is hard to get married again for divorced women. In addition job prospects are not same for male and female...ek baar baccha ho gaya to usko paalna hi ek work hai....
@@khub6806wat happened with u sis
Aparda , very good beta.aap ko dekh ka baki beti bhi shikhegi😊
Aise hi marte h... 1-1 ghanta... Bina ruke... Buri trha... Phone lelete h... Pitte waqt yaad ata h ki koi bacha le aab nahi rahugi... Pitayi rukne k baad pati sirf sorry bolta h... Or patni... Apne ghar wale, kahan jaugi, bacche, school baccho ka, financial, sab sochti h or ruk jati hai...
Great you are ❤
Great job 👍👍
What a story..................
My life teaching- Do not take emotional decisions. I am 47 years old man.
Shi h didi phle hi sochna chahiye ese admi ke sath kbhi compromise nhi Krna chahiye
Dear girls hmesha yaad rakhna, mard ka ak hi kaam hota h vo h earning krna, jo mard aalsi nalle hote h irresponsible hote h, nalayak bete ho vo mard dusro ki kmayi p jeete h....
Great yaar you gave police complaint but only mistake we give chance that is the biggest mistake. God bless you help many ladies need people like you
छी छी कैसे लोग दूसरो के पैसों से ज़िंदगी जीना चहाते है l भगवान ऐसे लोग किसी की ज़िंदगी में ना आये l
ese logo insan nhi hote hai
Mam aap bahut acchi beti Ho Apne mata-pita ki aapane acchi patni banne ki koshish kari vah Shaitan aapke layak nahin tha vahan se hatkar apni jindagi bacha Li❤
Nafrat ho gyi hai mujhe is matlabi duniya se 😢😢😢 kabi kabi lagta hai mout achi hai is zindagi se 😢😢😢😢
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Hello 👋 Josh talks,I’m your regular viewer.Much love from Nepal 🇳🇵 ❤❤
Very nice,👍👍❤️❤️☑️💯👌👌
Apko salute h Mam 😊
माँ दादी बहन सबके साथ मार पीट हो रहा है इस देश में पुरुष के द्वारा 😢
Thank you mam ❤