💖Pick A Heart💖 Are They Sorry For Hurting You Now?

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  • @soulmanna1111
    @soulmanna1111  3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    ⭐️Timestamps⭐️
    Heart 1: 1:01
    Heart 2: 20:54
    Heart 3: 44:45
    Heart 4: 1:06:50
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    • @meaghansoria3336
      @meaghansoria3336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg I can't even tell you the timing of this right now

    • @lizzettorres1111
      @lizzettorres1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I picked #3 and all I could feel is this is about your mother and you described her perfectly. Everybody bothers me because I cut her off but they can't see what she really is, she has them all fooled. Thank you, Dee, for confirming what I already knew. She could win an Oscar for acting like she cares about anybody

    • @tantrika.exotica
      @tantrika.exotica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You Are a 'licensed physician' in my opinion lol I love how thoroughly you manage and maintain the channel but it's kind of oddly ironic to read the disclaimers... between 3 and 5+ Dimensions how we have to cover our butts when All Is Divine 😇 Love You Queen Dee💜💙💚💛🧡❤

    • @jacquigirard3737
      @jacquigirard3737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup pile 3...toxic Oscar winner in my case is a doctor..yup a doctor ..in my case god himself put a bock on him ...I am rudely great full to have such a wonderful group having my 6..you are so fabulous I am truly blessed by the messages you deliver

    • @kathysemrau2301
      @kathysemrau2301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This person is a perfect example of what not to marry. He has stalked me, used me, and disrespects me everyday. Then it's all my fault. He wants a maid and a wet nurse. I have done the best l could, and he has been going hard on me. I pray he leaves me, l don't care. He is a bad guy and he just doesn't care what he's doing to me. This is abuse.

  • @jules.wins.
    @jules.wins. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    #2
    I moved on. I forgive myself for being with him. I completely removed him from my mind.

  • @spiritcat77
    @spiritcat77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Pile 3. 110% accurate. I'm still receiving counselling 6 years after this toxic relationship. Empath/ Narcissist

    • @susanc.2207
      @susanc.2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg that's me too. I'm thinking that's him. I left during the love bombing so not much abuse but almost. I was out so I stayed out.

    • @traciieespinosa1694
      @traciieespinosa1694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hugs for you💕

    • @scorpiosol6234
      @scorpiosol6234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unfortunately this is not only true for my ex but for family members too

    • @carolorsmond8642
      @carolorsmond8642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Family member Ended last December after 67 years of jealousy & malicious gossip and I fell for it on & off for years I kept taking her back & lowering my guard and paid everytime. Notes to self: stop trying to forgive or change her and beware of those friends & fam who think its ok to inform the offender of everything I do, because it gets jinxed everytime

    • @irakapoor4389
      @irakapoor4389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My all sympathies with you!! I am also going through the same!!

  • @Tina_Bo_Binaaa
    @Tina_Bo_Binaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Pile 3: That’s why with people like this, you give them only the minimum effort. It will always keep them interested. They will never feel like they’ve conquered you. Don’t feel bad about playing with their emotions, cause they don’t care about yours. Empaths will always attract narcissists.

    • @kathleennabordenten6271
      @kathleennabordenten6271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      #3 wow.. yes so true and I am the Empath! Hurt by them years ago.
      Gut says "you dodged a bullet"!
      Gut is CORRECT!
      GOODBYE NARCISSIST.

    • @Tina_Bo_Binaaa
      @Tina_Bo_Binaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @FELICIA 'The Crown Collector' maybe you’re not. It’s simply a game for them, you will never win so you might as well use them or let them use you in turn thus you’ll constantly be wounded by them and looking for some sort of way to salve your wounds with videos like this. Sorry but I speak as an empath that lived with both parents who are narcissists. The sooner you face the truth the better.

    • @Joedamoyaw
      @Joedamoyaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Tina_Bo_Binaaa or just walk away. But i guess being alone isn’t an option for some people. 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @Joedamoyaw
      @Joedamoyaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @FELICIA 'The Crown Collector' you're human lol. We are just surrounded by a plethora of robots who have been programmed. That girl clearly isn't aware that she's the narcissist. But then again narcissist don't ever realize their narcissist, they play the victim. It just bothers me to know that people like that walk around with a fake sense of enlightment and use it to boost their egos and have people who back them up in their false ego.. the blind are leading the blind.

    • @Tina_Bo_Binaaa
      @Tina_Bo_Binaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @FELICIA 'The Crown Collector' an empath must also protect themselves or they become an emotional wreck. Sorry but I’ve had years of practice and trial and error to reach where I have today. Don’t protect yourself either and you will be constantly hurt by people like this.

  • @sparkedperspective
    @sparkedperspective 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    #3 ..... SPOT ON! Thank you for this reading. The mask he wore was almost perfect for 6 yrs. The mental manipulation was so bad, the trauma bond is real! Grateful for the Divine intervention that ended it!

    • @vanessasworder
      @vanessasworder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow,,,,,,absolutely him.....I was with him for six years too... I left him in 2011 but it took a long time to heal ....a long time .....but I am now free and have been for a several years but the pain was so deep ...the gas lighting, manipulation, constant lying and humiliation....🌎🕊🪶I now feel free of him and have no feelings for him romantically....🦋🙏🦋

    • @traciebond24
      @traciebond24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m totally with you ladies. Trauma bonding is horrific. I ended it too after 24 years of mental and emotional abuse

  • @gypsy8942
    @gypsy8942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I picked #3 and I am blown away by the accuracy of this reading.

  • @ranceapostol1399
    @ranceapostol1399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    #2 yes. he's wrong but he never admit that up until now. a very stubborn person full of ego. he loves the material world, manipulative, what more can I say. an empath will always attract a narcissist. *sigh 😔

  • @DivineGuidanceTarot
    @DivineGuidanceTarot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Pile 3 was so accurate. After 6 years of being manipulated by him with his sad stories and love bombing I'm finally done. He is so toxic.

  • @diamondsmith5912
    @diamondsmith5912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Wow, you were absolutely on the money with Number 3. It was a harsh reality for me being awaken to this person’s true personality. I thought I could love this person through their pain only to have it revealed that he was selfish and toxic.

    • @trishhill7563
      @trishhill7563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That person's my mom.

    • @ThereseDavidson
      @ThereseDavidson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This person is my mom also.
      She had bordeline and have taught me so much, but last time I called her out for lying (and she was calling because she needed money) - and she have disappeared since then.
      Sorry to hear you’re in a similar position Trish, but man... have it made us strong!

    • @wholeness8215
      @wholeness8215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation . Love and heal yourself. Not worth it trust me. Got phisically I’ll because of him . Let go best u can do . Much love

  • @KayoYuuki
    @KayoYuuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    2 is my person in a nutshell, I can't describe how painful loving this person is. Loving myself now.

    • @lucyinthesky3684
      @lucyinthesky3684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen. 😔💛👋Same pile. same pain...

    • @christopherhennessey8991
      @christopherhennessey8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kayo,good that you’re loving yourself.Their loss not yours.

  • @rachel_brite
    @rachel_brite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pile #2 Was Spot on!! He loves to have the control... and he will never admit fault... it's crazy!

  • @victorian_cheddar
    @victorian_cheddar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Pile 2, this is so spot on. This person triggered my dark night of the soul.

    • @tamara4655
      @tamara4655 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Triggered my Dark Night of the Soul too 💔

  • @margaret4807
    @margaret4807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pile 2
    Absolutely correct...HE KNOWS HE WAS WRONG!! His EGO & PRIDE are HUGE it’s such a MAJOR turnoff for ME!!🤢🤮OMG 😱 the ENERGY part, NO WONDER 💭 WHY I STILL FEEL HIS NEGATIVE ENERGY!! I WANT to get ‘RID’ of him, I need to STOP 🛑 thinking of him on and off!! EXACTLY.. he would rather just SIT IN HIS PAIN FOREVER, rather then ADMIT HIS MISTAKES!! HOW SICK OF A PERSON IS HE?!👿
    I’m SO GLAD that the Divine REMOVED him from my life!! Now, I JUST NEED to be able to NEVER ‘THINK’ of him again!?! I’m TRYING SO HARD... but some days HE will still ‘creep’ into my head!! I just WANT TO SCREAM!!🗣

  • @Mary-yx9pt
    @Mary-yx9pt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wow. Yes, after a short marriage, the therapist said I was empathetic and he was covert narcissist. He learned me quickly and had zero empathy for anyone. He got mean quickly and his mom said, "this is what he does". #3

    • @angeldotcrick3554
      @angeldotcrick3554 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My husband abused me and his mother tried to warn me that he was crazy

  • @sharon_rose724
    @sharon_rose724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I chose pile 3. My ex has been in survival mode his whole life. He uses people to get what he wants, says what he has to say and does what he has to do. I know he's used me at the same time as other women. He's very selfishly motivated. I had to pause after the first 30 seconds, this is him to a tee. After I unpaused you said they're very selfish. He's said he didn't understand how much his actions hurt people until I told him. I've been planting seeds. He admits his traumas and childhood have deeply damaged him. No empathy, ALWAYS watching his back. Hypervigilant. I wrote out an email about my lack of trust in him yesterday but didn't send it. He has a t shirt that says "Dead Inside". Absolutely a narcissist empath connection. He's been studying me for years.. he mirrors me and lies to me and I know it's all deception. This is his method with everyone. He believes his own delusion. He's all about money and material. Con artist.. yes, absolutely. He asked me the other day how can you reciprocate love when it was never shown to you as a child? He seems to have insightful moments but it never sticks. People are things to him. My jaw is on the floor. I can't believe how accurate this is..I definitely needed to hear this. It confirmed what I've been sensing. So painful... Thank you. The farewell..

    • @kathleennabordenten6271
      @kathleennabordenten6271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The fact that he said this... about being a child... he knows why he's this way and does nothing to heal.
      Narcissist. Sooner or later Karma will hit them just like she said!

    • @sharon_rose724
      @sharon_rose724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kathleennabordenten6271 That sums it up. He's completely consumed by his anger and resentment that I don't think he'll ever be able to let it go. I think he has frontal lobe damage as well.

    • @jennymowery79
      @jennymowery79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sharon_rose724 from what I've read their brains are physically different arrested emotional development ranging from basically a baby to toddler around 4yrs old from not

  • @Soulvibesspeak
    @Soulvibesspeak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I pick #3 and it was spot on. I have been disconnected for over a year. The funny part is they tried to come back, but I slammed the door. You’re reading was confirmation that my intuition was 100% correct. Healing is such a blessing. Thank you sweet soul 😁

  • @marthawhite8235
    @marthawhite8235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    number 2, SPOT ON. 💯✨ been saying for years "he's gotta hit rock bottom." at least I'm finally in a higher perspective about it all and the thought of never reuniting no longer hurts me, I'm at peace if that's what happens. idk what switched, but my obsession with a reunion just flipped a couple weeks ago and I’ve been just focusing on myself and other parts of my life and I feel so relieved and happier bc of it. thank you Dee. 🥰✨💪🏽💪🏽

  • @karenlenk1724
    @karenlenk1724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I picked no. 3. Although this is a general reading, every word you said, Dee, is 100% accurate in my case. You're amazing! Thank you!!

  • @luvgabriel
    @luvgabriel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I picked #2. I am stunned. You, Dee, are simply amazing. Downright uncanny. You've perfectly described and diagnosed my erstwhile control-freak friend. Your analysis has firmed my resolve to stay separate. Thank you.

  • @scorpiosol6234
    @scorpiosol6234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    #3 is the epitome of my life. My ex and family members are all narcissists. They are mostly non existent but still have to deal with them on some sort of level. I never could figure out how a person could behave that way. Guess I was a magnet for them. I’d rather be alone than deal with these characters.

    • @Jules90512
      @Jules90512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissist come from abusive family so that's why.:)

  • @diallomays7325
    @diallomays7325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    i’m shook on how accurate card 3 was... literally described my whole situation with my recent ex man

  • @GaaraFan01
    @GaaraFan01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yikes. Pile #3. Eerily accurate and honestly I just needed a reminder and confirmation that they are not worth my energy and I don’t expect an apology anymore. Hopefully they can evolve because at this point I pity this lost soul. I don’t even understand how a soul is born like that.

  • @meganhoward8820
    @meganhoward8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Pile 2. That is what i thought Dee thank you for that confirmation. I am thankful for the growth from this past relationship but i am ready to move on. Alone. I wish for an easier life for him, not for us to work but for life to be easier for him. Good luck out there stay safe.
    Bless you Dee. Light and love

    • @tantrika.exotica
      @tantrika.exotica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Sending Healing and Clarity to Our Adversaries, as Their Impact is Divine regardless of the Low Vibration and Pain. Dark is Divine and They, too, must Do Their Job 🙏🏼 Asé😇

    • @brandy1079
      @brandy1079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also pile 2, and I'm feeling exactly the same; I could not have word it better than you did. Bless you also 💗

    • @meganhoward8820
      @meganhoward8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tantrika.exotica agree there has to be negative energies out there that are not actually bad at heart. His negativity is stopping him from growing but the negativity also allowed me to grow and become so much more from having experienced that in my life.
      His life is full pf chaos due to pain that wont be acknowledged. I wish only for the pain to ease so life can seem easier and not so dark every day. The pain was not for me to remove. It was his lesson and it would have been wrong of me to rob him of the learning within the pain. There is growth in it if he so chooses to sift through the ash and rise again. He has a beautiful soul hidden away waiting for its time to shine. I know it wont shine with me but someday i hope he can find his light for himself.

    • @tantrika.exotica
      @tantrika.exotica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@meganhoward8820 🥺 Amen! So beautifully put! Happy Mother's Day Sis💜

    • @meganhoward8820
      @meganhoward8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tantrika.exotica thank you love. You as well in whichever capacity you celebrate ❤ My daughter is at a sleep over likely forgot lol shes 13 i dont expect her to remember at this age.

  • @Ariel-od3wb
    @Ariel-od3wb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Pile 2: My mom apologized for gaslighting me and then asked me to forgive my abuser. I wish I could have just stayed pretending I didn’t know he was still in her life instead of her bringing back this trauma with insincere apologies and half truths

    • @crunchie2851
      @crunchie2851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omgosh walk tall in the other direction. You got your lesson first hand and you’re right - leave that mess right where your first instinct told you to leave it. Bless you. Bless you.

    • @margaret4807
      @margaret4807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God Bless 🙏

    • @MariaRodriguez-me8db
      @MariaRodriguez-me8db 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏

    • @Ariel-od3wb
      @Ariel-od3wb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@crunchie2851 Thank you luckily I’m moving out two months since I finished my college classes I finally can make that step❤️🥳

    • @crunchie2851
      @crunchie2851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ariel 777 Good For You! Be my superhero. Turn that Pain into Power and Fight for your Life! Take a job or two and turn it into fun - before you know it; you’ll be on top of your world.

  • @nicolekhalil20
    @nicolekhalil20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Pile 3 resonated so deeply. 4 years later. Praying I heal from the trauma they’ve cause me one day..
    I just want to add that this person owns his own business. And, I’ve been having a feeling that something negative in regards to that would eventually come to light. As of right now, he receives much positive attention for what he does. But, I always wonder “if people only knew the real him”.. 🤔

    • @vanessasworder
      @vanessasworder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You will have peace eventually....I know the pain and confusion they bring is very very traumatic ....you will be fine ...it just takes time 💗🙏

    • @nicolekhalil20
      @nicolekhalil20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vanessasworder thank you so much, love. ❤️❤️

  • @DeepSigh11
    @DeepSigh11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Heart 4: I focused on the person whom turned out to be a true blue narcissist. He hurts so many and did have a rough start but he demonstrates horrid lack of empathy. Like he is broken. I told him he will die alone and be lonely. Ten years later this is happening. He HAS to be a victim. Tragically. He helps me today with managing my vulnerability, my energy being an empath. I loved him fierce and thought I could heal him What a lesson he was!

  • @shonaharris9328
    @shonaharris9328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heart #1 Yep! Lots of ego and a lot of projecting. He admitted to me on once that he’s projected a lot and hurt people. There’s been a history of lack of accountability, gaslighting, projecting, hurting others and not seeing their part and saying he’s sorry. I seriously put my foot down, and I think I was part of a karmic lesson for him.

  • @source5729
    @source5729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    #1: Makes sense...Very strict parents; couldn’t admit wrongdoings

    • @sabineruter9407
      @sabineruter9407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same for me and its nearly impossibile to cut relationship definitely with my mom.

  • @debbiefish5688
    @debbiefish5688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wow 3 very accurate 20 year relationship counsellor said he is a sociopath narcissist. No Feelings whatsoever. I finally left last June and he filed for divorce immediately. I am a pisces Empath is Is a Capricorn. It has been quite the lesson for me. He is 70 years old I am 60.

    • @jennymowery79
      @jennymowery79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Capricorn narcs are so brutal they're the worst they're the devil card in the tarot for a reason 🤦💔

    • @petalparker5
      @petalparker5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jennymowery79 so true. Am dealing with a capricorn narc myself he's diabolocal!

  • @amvillarreal1980
    @amvillarreal1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Pile 3
    This totally makes sense A BILLION PERCENT!!!!

  • @natalie_jay_tey
    @natalie_jay_tey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Pile 3 - Pretty much confirms my dream last night, that I am just one of many people he keeps around for attention and validation. I have called him on his behaviour but after the dream and now the reading, I now believe that he isn't changing, he is just learning to be more secretive about it. I have always been super sensitive, so its hard to comprehend that people can be so cold. Thank goodness for the spiritual guides protecting me 😔🙏

    • @janellely8009
      @janellely8009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did have a dream about my person in Pile 3. I forgave her and felt such a weight lifted from my shoulders. We still are no contact and will remain that way. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. The forgiveness was to her for myself, so I do not hold in the bitterness and have that bitterness turn me sour as well.

  • @susanc.2207
    @susanc.2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Heart one: If he admits he's wrong, he's not a victim.

  • @esmet6363
    @esmet6363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pile #2 1000% correct. He NEVER said sorry for anything. Loved to hurt and blamed things on me. This reading was spot on with everything! He lost a good women.

  • @veroniquetrimble5352
    @veroniquetrimble5352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pile 4 the pain of this connection has changed me I am not sure if I can ever trust anyone again because of it there was a misunderstanding and we both didn’t handle it well but he is so cold that I had no choice but to emotionally disconnect

  • @godisgood0998
    @godisgood0998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    #3 OMG!! I FEEL LIKE I HAD A PERSONAL READING, UNBELIEVABLE!!! THANK YOU!!!

  • @AprilLashon
    @AprilLashon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was drawn to heart 3! It makes sense...I’ve been beating myself up forever!

  • @OneWithTheUniverse55
    @OneWithTheUniverse55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    #3, thank you so much. This reading helped me understand it was not just me. It's been a long time but I've always felt it was because I allowed it. Knowing he is a user w everyone truly helps me heal.
    The affiemation is exactly what I needed.
    Thank you so much.
    Blessings n love.

  • @غالية-ث4ش
    @غالية-ث4ش 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Reading 4, I've been in a painful relationship with a pervert narcissistic person.
    He is definitely a hopeless case!

    • @nica7747
      @nica7747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed!

  • @Libran1717-us8qp
    @Libran1717-us8qp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Picked #2. Is pretty accurate. I will not be contacting him. In fact I've moved on from this person. I thought I would never get over him but with the help of the Holy Spirit, I've found love with another. I forgave him long ago for his ghosting me. If my person come forth it will probably be a little too late, however.

  • @mariaaldrete1347
    @mariaaldrete1347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Heart #3. Yep extremely accurate!!!! He was so manipulative. 16yrs with him dissolved my joy and happiness.
    Then I found out he molested our daughters.
    He is now in jail waiting for trial.
    He is facing 25 to life.
    I told him my Angels were watching over us and he did not believe me!!
    My children and I are safe and in counseling. We are getting the help we deserve.
    Thank you Jesus!!!!

  • @claireleavitt6077
    @claireleavitt6077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pile 4 - totally accurate reading. Abandoned when he was 5 years old...spent time in prison but is a truly and genuinely beautiful person. Just has major emotional blocks. I am hopeful for him on his own Journey and I have let him go. Thank you, Dee.

    • @soniyachopra4458
      @soniyachopra4458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah pile 4 totally agree with

    • @skymeadow7762
      @skymeadow7762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like my Divine🙏 Love Heals

  • @grilledcheeseandsoup1652
    @grilledcheeseandsoup1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for reading#2. This was the healing I've been needing. My true love and I broke up suddenly many years ago, after he ghosted me with no explanation. He sent his friend once to come and get me to come back to him. I said no, he must come to me. It took everything I had not to run to him even after all he did, because there was also the amazing loving side he only showed to me.
    I've been feeling so guilty because he committed suicide last year. Right before he committed suicide I really wanted to reach out to him. But I kept feeling to absolutely not do it. I've been feeling so guilty thinking maybe I could have saved him. After this reading I realize I did the right thing. He needed to go through what he was going through on his own. My heart will always ache for him. But at least I now have peace.

  • @gigiwitte2081
    @gigiwitte2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dee, you are amazing, magical!!!
    You are always so spot on!!
    I chose 2 ..... it describes my ex husband down to a T! He has a massive fear of abandonmemt, rejection and in The end created the end of our story! He will NEVER ever admit to his mistake, the hurt he has caused..... very very stubborn! 🙈
    Thank you Dee ..... I am done with him indeed.

  • @beckyboo5097
    @beckyboo5097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    #3 I knew he was toxic, he drained my energy everytime I was with him, I have nightmares still 3 years on. I told my friend I think I'm now suffering trauma from the situation 🥺 makes me scared to trust a man with my heart ever again. Thank you for the reading xx

    • @vanessasworder
      @vanessasworder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You will heal eventually ... be kind to yourself and delve a little deeper into your own being and maybe discover why you resonated with this type of person... it always goes back to ones child hood and feeling unworthy of love ...you will heal and find the love you deserve but you must learn to Cherish your self first ... 💗🧚‍♀️ find a therapist or counselor who you feel comfortable with to help you on your journey of healing... it took me several years but you will have true love and peace one day soon🙏🕊

  • @DrNancyLivingCoCreatively
    @DrNancyLivingCoCreatively 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2 feels spot on. He faces serious cancer and blames me. We are not together. I have forgiven and helped him. Letting go. I pray to not be blamed again and foriracle healing. He refuses the spiritual. I have suggested humility may serve him. Trying not to internalize. Many thanks Dee.

  • @SkyHigh098
    @SkyHigh098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Picked pile 2. I don't care whether she want to admit that she is wrong. I just wanted to see her view point on this situation, because I am not waiting for her. I have moved on and ready to have new relationship where I am respected, loved and not to play fucking ego games. I don't expect that she's going to come back. If she does, I am going to straight away reject them. Nobody's gonna abuse me, period.

  • @marimiranda999
    @marimiranda999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I chose#4 and yes I also said hurtful things, both in the wrong. Thank you for this. You described my person with the defense mechanism and going from emotions to cold

  • @freeme3853
    @freeme3853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    3 was spot on
    It’s about time I got a reading that told exactly how my person is and not sugar coat that he loves me and is coming back to reconcile. He’s obviously a pos and I can move forward now where I have been stuck for 4 months. Thank you Dee

  • @purnimakar9057
    @purnimakar9057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Heart 2: each and every word resonated so much that I was crying the whole time...

    • @kathysemrau2301
      @kathysemrau2301 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a scammer! Don't call or contact this person.

    • @purnimakar9057
      @purnimakar9057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathysemrau2301 yes, thank you so much...even I was also wondering about this....thank you so much for confirming my doubts!!

  • @MojaveMedicine
    @MojaveMedicine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Pile 2. Feeling stronger... it’s been really hard.

  • @kathrynx1930
    @kathrynx1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sadly, #2. Thank you Dee for your gift of love and honesty 💔

  • @charlottepenberthy1809
    @charlottepenberthy1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pile 1: so spot on. Love that you share your gift with the world. You make the world a better place, sending you so much light and love.

  • @TabTubee
    @TabTubee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I absolutely love your beautiful empathic soul D!! I thought I was the only one of my kind in this world until I found your channel a few years ago!! I absolutely feel you and see your beautiful soul!! Unconditional Love and Light to u and all!! My hero! My role model! My unconditional Love Sister!!

    • @trishhill7563
      @trishhill7563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's precious isn't she! You can just tell! I love her voice & it's just so kind & gentle.

  • @gypsymoongem
    @gypsymoongem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pile 2. I was just talking about this with my friend how I couldn’t understand his approach with me and being so quiet. This felt like it resonated Thank you for this reading

  • @spiritualartist
    @spiritualartist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pile 3 💯 accurate! Describes my narcissistic mom to a tee!! I went no contact with her months ago, but got in touch with her recently re a death in the family. That brief conversation with her, and this reading just confirmed I need to stay no contact with her! Phew! Thank you Dee and spirit guides! Grateful! 🙏💖

  • @lorrih0828
    @lorrih0828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    #2 you couldn't be more spot on, dealing with scorpio and I'm virgo. He's so egotistical! Thank you Dee, love and light to you and yours! ❤

  • @Erehtolleh1
    @Erehtolleh1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    # 2 & # 3 that is my mother!!! I consider her a Narcisist , haven't talked to her in 3 years after I realized she was competing with me, using me and my achievements to her advantage, not behaving as a mother !!!!The moment I removed myself from her influence my life improved 100% I realized I do not need her!!

  • @TheScooby7890
    @TheScooby7890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pile 4: outstanding pick a card reading. Was thinking of a friend. They are so very broken and conflicted all the time, but very spiritual. The problem is I think though is that as long as they keep allowing negative people around them, they will always see any friend no matter how good to them as someone against them. They keep telling me so and so is terrible and has done atrocious things to them but then next day ends up talking to the same exact people again. Ultimately, that’s why we don’t speak anymore. It really isn’t her energy, but I just didn’t want that negative attachment because I know no one deserves that. And I feel like people always have a choice, to live in fear and resentment or to move forward and do greater things with that time and energy. Negative people and energy sometimes can be a form of substance abuse. Seen it so many times in my life. Breaking away takes such tremendous willpower and courage. I wished them best and that was that.

  • @ebazileyes1475
    @ebazileyes1475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always say it is ALWAYS BEST to leave past people in the past. Digging up old wounds always ask new infections. For me; I never go back to any past people. I don't care what happen. If time has past and we done we done.
    Next! New love readings I am only interested in.
    However; Great channel.

  • @CaraT1978
    @CaraT1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #2, accurate. He hides his emotions well. All inner child and previous relationship experiences ... he isn’t hot headed though. But he def can’t handle rejection. He tried to return but was inconsistent and emotionally unavailable - I deserve more and better. I deserve the best. :) I don’t and haven’t planned to reach out bc I always lean in- he needs to work on himself period and I have been guided to wait until when/if he reaches out. He needs to go from distorted to divine masculine... but also I’m not waiting for him. If the divine brings in someone better in the meantime, then so be it. ✌🏼✨

  • @rainbowsjournal1705
    @rainbowsjournal1705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Also, I told him if he hurt me God would be very angry and he would take care of it because God loves me.

    • @crunchie2851
      @crunchie2851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And so it is. Amen 🙏

  • @lizkeedy
    @lizkeedy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No. 3. Wow, so spot on. Four and a half years ago I ended my relationship with my narcissistic mother. Since then my life has turned around and I feel like a new person. Dee, your readings are so accurate. You truly inspire and help me. Thank you for sharing your gifts. Sending you lots of love and gratitude :)

  • @AngelDebstar316
    @AngelDebstar316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pile 2: hes a Narcissist which I didnt know at the time, this reading is so him.

  • @hoodpriestessphilosophy
    @hoodpriestessphilosophy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really excel in readings about people and who they are. You go deep with your readings, and it's easier to have sympathy for someone who has hurt you. 🧡

  • @Reiko1111
    @Reiko1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I picked #3 and you hit every nail 100% accurately! I was extremely taken aback every time you'd explain the person...wow!! This person hurt me (& many others) quite deeply & greatly, but I've moved on & it's been eons since this person was in my life. I've healed from it all (and I hope the others have too) but I wanted to hear what you came up with card 3. Thank you so very much for your readings!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @MariaRodriguez-me8db
    @MariaRodriguez-me8db 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pile 1-I was not sure who this person was but as the reading progressed, I realized it is my brother who ignored my request to respect my views. I also felt he let me down when I needed his help, that he was more focused on his own gains. He is a good person but he is judgemental. I drew a line in the sand because I got tired of him foisting his views on me. I will stay away until he backs off and truly respects my views.

  • @Deepa0309
    @Deepa0309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Card..2...
    Very true.🙏
    But he wants to use me...until he gives me equally.

  • @ella17734
    @ella17734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    #3 Sadly, very accurate and a confirmation. You are truly gifted Dee.

  • @spiritualandsassy7165
    @spiritualandsassy7165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I picked #3. Wow. It makes so much sense.
    He destroyed me. He is a horrible person. I am an empath and he is a narcissist.

  • @lovelightshining4444
    @lovelightshining4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's #2 and it's spot on.
    Blessings eternally, grateful beyond measure!
    Infinant love and light~
    Happy Mother's Day!
    Namaste'
    🥰💖✨💫🙏☯️☮️🕉️🕊️🌟🌷🌹🏵️🌸💐💮🌺🌼🌻🌬️💨❤️🦋🤗😔

  • @ClearBrookRae
    @ClearBrookRae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pile 2 - Thank you for the confirmation. I don't feel good about him and this reading confirms my hunch. I guess everyone is having a battle to fight. May the righteousness & goodness wins.

  • @m.springs9519
    @m.springs9519 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spot on! #Pile 4 This clarified a lot! Someone I considered a sister betrayed me (and a few others) over something created in her mind that she refused to communicate about. Her lies and behavior negatively impacted my job and friendships. It has not been the first time that she had done this and she became upset when we respectfully set boundaries. She oscillated between apologizing, blaming, avoidance, aggressive behavior when confronted, and spread unmistakably and factually false rumors about me. It was chaotic. I maintained my genuine relationships but my reputation at my job was damaged. I miss the healthier version of her but I agree that healing is the best option and we have our own journeys for right now. Thanks for posting the reading!

  • @spensive1
    @spensive1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He texted me Happy Mother's day in the middle this reading....#2. I didn't even realize it was him at first because I deleted his contact info

  • @juanitaperales2542
    @juanitaperales2542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #3...You said what I had In my mind but couldn't say it. WOW! He is exactly what you said he was. A Narcissistic man. He is a Libra and has that personality that is smooth and easy. Good looking somewhat and has finesse when he communicates. A liar, full of empty promises ...he changed my life and my way of life. 20 years ago I met him. I wish I had never met him. You're awesome.. you have a Gift.
    Thank you for your advice.

  • @farrenrohana
    @farrenrohana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    #2 I decided this is for my daughter before I started the video but sadly for them it's my whole family. I've healed from them. It took 15 yrs of isolation but I did it. They are on their own journeys and we all agreed this is what it would be like before we incarnated and if it wasn't for them being who they are I wouldn't have been able to have grown the way I did and now I love who I am. I won't be the one approaching them ever again. I did it so many times only to have my heart stomped on over and over again. The ball is in their courts and I won't ever reach out to them again. If they can't reach out first there's no point, they wouldn't be able to maintain a true relationship anyways. You wouldn't believe what it was like growing up with them. Constant yelling screaming and fighting, backstabbing and cruelty. Incredibly selfish. It was horrible. And don't get me wrong I was no angel but I chose to change and become that person they accused me of not being, they didn't. The healing was rough but I'm so proud of what I accomplished. I go to them in their dreams and say I love you and thank you every so often.

    • @meeraraj0
      @meeraraj0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry. I experienced extreme crusty abandonement. Paramahansa Yogananda said sometimes We incarnate with our enemies. At the end we have to face our deepest karmas.

    • @aleishabitrsweetempathyhou9595
      @aleishabitrsweetempathyhou9595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im so sorry, i kinda understand what you mean.... i guess every thing happens for a reason.... but damn its painful as hell sometimes.

    • @farrenrohana
      @farrenrohana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meeraraj0 agreed and the whole world is experiencing this as a collective right now. The most amazing times are coming very, very soon.

  • @blujazz3362
    @blujazz3362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pile 2- unfortunately my person has borderline traits..this interpretation is for me..he is comfortable in his pain because he can control it..in tears..wow
    In addition, he really has lost it all but he is trying to fight through his fears with therapy. He also uses video games to disconnect.
    I am not coming around this time..he has to present himself with humility.
    I have moved on for the most part..

  • @somaliyanage5977
    @somaliyanage5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I picked pile 2 spot on for the person had in mind- My Mother ... she has never apologized for genuine things I deserved answers for- extreme Defensive.

  • @therainbewavy
    @therainbewavy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pile 3 offered confirmation that I deeply, deeply needed. I needed things to be said straight about Pile 3. I have never, ever heard it straight from someone else spiritual and was beating myself up about thinking this way about them. I thought it was "un-spiritual" to think this way. It's was so incredibly validating, and yet painful to hear this. Also, Pile 2 was a person they manipulated into distrusting/hurting me. I'm just sittting back in my power for now and absorbing the truth and validation. 🙌🏽

  • @empresszari6365
    @empresszari6365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pile 3: WOW! This was spot on!!! Im in the process of divorcing this person. He was a terrible husband and father to my son. I'm still healing from the trauma that he caused. Thank you 😊💖

  • @KaseyLee7820
    @KaseyLee7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pile 2: Very much on point. He never admits any wrong doing. Even when he does apologize, his words are empty. Extremely manipulative and narcissistic behavior. Looking back at how much he hurt me and how everything played out, I'm glad he left.

    • @KaseyLee7820
      @KaseyLee7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He also had an extremely rough childhood after his parents divorced which I feel really plays into who he is today!! He's 21 years old but he does have a lot of growing up to do!!

    • @KaseyLee7820
      @KaseyLee7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally commented as I watch lol I have heard that he's been surrounding himself with not so good people and has been spending a lot of time in the local bars. He totally ghosted me after being together almost 3 years and I had 2 miscarriages to him in that time.

    • @KaseyLee7820
      @KaseyLee7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@behatiilife4408 I have also reported your account!!

  • @sunnygirl2104
    @sunnygirl2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow! Deck 2.. you nailed it!

  • @annettecaridad-healinginsi8567
    @annettecaridad-healinginsi8567 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh Dee, sooo needed this today! Mother's Day is rough for me... had a miscarriage with this man and some days, I'm grateful but today, always reminds me that I don't have my baby... His family was toxic. His mom always told him "The end justifies the means" and I said it out loud two seconds before you did!! Thank you for this healing, really really needed it today. 🙏💜💜💜 God bless you and Happy Mother's Day.

  • @tantrika.exotica
    @tantrika.exotica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    #2 is spot on, as per usual💯 damn, you're good🙏🏼 thanks for being such a classy lady when you tap his energy, as I sense your disgust🤣 what a Lady 🥰 muah

  • @socialbutterfly31369
    @socialbutterfly31369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, that reading was exactly what I have been dealing with. I chose pile #2. That is him all rolled into one tarot reading. Just, wow. Before I listened to this, I had already figured out that I was going to have to walk away, in order to get him to fight for us. And yes, he has been hurt in the past. And right now, he is battling with himself. Thank you so much. You have helped me so much with this reading. Oh, and yes, he does make me crazy. He is so stubborn and prideful and Ego driven. He wasn't like this in the beginning.

  • @lydellcortez8283
    @lydellcortez8283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pile #3 is on point. I'm releasing the residue left by my interactions with that person. Yes. We are quite opposite sides of the same coin I think. Here's to clarity, growth, freedom and love(joy).

  • @journeysmt4484
    @journeysmt4484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pile 1: About ten years ago I confronted my parents about the years of sexual abuse my father put me through. They never struck me as evil people, just deeply shattered and broken people who cannot face their own abuses in their own childhoods. I said I could not have them in my life until they could own the truth Almost everything you said in this reading, I relate to. Interestingly, I also saw some of your readings that keep pointing to the possiblity of one of them reaching out again. Just wanted to confirm how accurate you are and how important your readings are for people. Thank you.

    • @ellachallas
      @ellachallas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending comfort and love 🙏🏼💫🤍.

  • @FeliciaQueen17
    @FeliciaQueen17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3 is so on point. My ex exactly. He called me about 2 weeks ago and come to find out he lives about 20 blocks away from me. He says he's working on himself. He hasn't changed a bit, he simply put on his Sheep suit to try to hide his Wolf.

  • @evonne315
    @evonne315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pile #1 Exactly right on. I can't help but have hopes but did push back big time on the pettiness and emotional immaturity. In and out energy, but little regard for me. Its ended and I feel much lighter now.

  • @Child_of_the_HolyTrinity1732
    @Child_of_the_HolyTrinity1732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pendulum went with Heart 1 & this reading couldn't have been more spot on! TYSVM for this confirmation 💜🤍

  • @supersunshine22
    @supersunshine22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #3 Sounds like many of us have gone down the same path. Facing the reality of some people.
    I don't exactly understand how people become like this. I believe he was born into competition. Neglect. You'd think a person like that would think of their own soul. Of self. But compassionless. For all, even self. Emotional abusive for sure. I've never seen such convincing fakery in my life. He believes it.
    But karmically maybe it's for both. Building good karma for the victims & bad for the ones who take advantage. Creates a means & an end of the story of darkness. Impetus. So in a way healers still heal at their own cost. That's not good for the world.
    Why some of us go through it? Maybe to stand up for our own worth? Empaths see but the broken bits of them left. We go straight to pain & the good stuff trying to heal. But don't see everything else. We aren't geared that way. That's a good thing but can't sacrifice self.
    I wish everyone well who picked #3 too & great healing.

  • @quantumsoulsjourney888
    @quantumsoulsjourney888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pile 2: thank you very much, I had a hard time to let go of who I thought was my twin flame but I know he still watches me somehow

  • @sarahgiles3295
    @sarahgiles3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is SO accurate! Thank you-just walked away from my boyfriend-hardest thing ever-but it was time ...and it broke my heart. but listening to this was exactly what i was feeling ..and now I feel like im not totally crazy for what is going on. Thank you. xo-stay safe

    • @sarahgiles3295
      @sarahgiles3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dee i dont download apps-sorry. would love to..but i just dont do it

  • @laurataylor3159
    @laurataylor3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #2 was exactly what is going on. I'm drawn to 3 too. It made a lot of sense too. We are in separation I care but I will not go back. I've been working on my healing and doing a lot of self love . Thank you beautiful Dee xo 💗🙏

  • @hanquokkasan
    @hanquokkasan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pile 2: The person I thought of is my dad. I’ve had a very good idea that my father has been living in fear and control. He has hurt my a lot, he rarely if ever owns up to the shitty things he’s said or done. He always rationalizes or manipulates me into thinking that I remembered it wrong because “he never did or said that”. He hurt me very deeply in the past, and a more specific event happened 5 years ago, and I still carry the wounds on my heart and I’m in therapy trying to heal from it. Our relationship has not been the same ever since, I’ve given up on trying to make things better and I don’t ever bring anything up that I know will upset him because I don’t want to have anything to do with that energy anymore. I’ve fought it enough when I was a kid and I don’t want to suffer from anymore abuse. My dad still tries to assert his power and control me in any way that he can. I honestly feel really bad for him. He must feel so small and afraid on the inside. I wish for him to one day be able to be vulnerable and admit to his wrongdoings.

  • @laurenwhite5100
    @laurenwhite5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's extraordinary how many of us were drawn to #3, and #3 reading was spot on, and as an empath, even now I feel such sympathy for the hopeless lonely narc ... I'd rather be me than him! Typical knight of wands, devil, emperor and king of wands in reverse preying on the empress, Q of Cups and Hermit...
    Imagine, my wealthy ex preyed upon us, a single full-time working mama with kids... Please be awake loves . Keep the Light and Love! Pure heart and strength

  • @michellestevenson5728
    @michellestevenson5728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pile 2. My mom to a T. Shes a libra sun libra moon cancer rising and I'm an aries sun, capricorn moon, cancer rising. She was raised by a narcissist and then married a tyrannical narcissist and she chose him over me and my wellbeing and also blamed me for their divorce. It's been a long road to self recovery and self love for me. Thank you for this clarity.

    • @michellestevenson5728
      @michellestevenson5728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaand pile 3 is my biological dad. He comes from an abusive family who literally cons people. Hes a gemini, very charming and convincing but his actions now speak way louder than words. He has seriously harmed people in his life. My step brother committed suicide because of him. Dee these readings were invaluable to me. Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @kalyaanwatiechigharoe5509
    @kalyaanwatiechigharoe5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nr.2 Its so treu he is so proud and so manipulated thank you your reading is amazing🙏

  • @autumninthewoods4522
    @autumninthewoods4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not convinced that anyone who's ever hurt me (and there have been many) has felt the least bit sorry for it! At best, some may have felt remorse and then tried to be extra nice to soothe their own guilt and make THEMSELVES feel better. As a result, I trust no one, do not forgive or forget, and do my best to take revenge on those who have wronged me. I watch out for myself now and help no one, nor do I care about anyone, because no one has ever cared about me.

  • @freedatawha4710
    @freedatawha4710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    pile 3 I resonate with this. I'm still healing 4yrs later so grateful to spirit for the separation.
    Thank you

  • @Allwin.28
    @Allwin.28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pile 1 & 3. Resonated. He played the Blame game card so I am no longer needed in his life. I left him for good. Wow! Pile 3 is spot on! He said he is walking dead heartless. Untrustworthy. Unstable. He is full of negative. He had a PTSD from the 1992 Bosnian war when he was young. Thanks so much.