Sergio’s emotional intelligence and take on the world is so similar to mine & my partners. Agree with his perspective constantly, protect Sergio at all costs 😊❤
Every women needs a Sergio in their life honestly. The mentality this man has its so insane. Men now and days are just childish and not really mature or have this mindset.
I have Matt’s perception as well on fathers being absent from kids’ lives, even if dads are there physically, they are not great father figures, they rarely have a relationship with the kids, are a bad examples and kids see that dynamic and tend to repeat when adults. Love your discussions btw 💕
Came across this podcast on Facebook. Im from Australia and ive watched the whole channel in a matter of days. As comments above has said sergio your emotional intelligence is refreshing for someone so young in 2023. Keep on staying true to yourself. You all bring something different to the podcast, and theyre fantastic topics..congrats, i wish you all continued success in future.
I couldn’t have related anymore to this episode!! My ex left me a year in after having our daughter because he couldn’t handle it. Sergio is so wise and what ever woman has his child is one lucky woman!! Sergio must be protected at all cost!!
I’m like 9 months later, but i’ve been binging y’alls videos and I really loved y’all way of thinking about the baby/pregnant topic. A lot of man can learn from you guys. Young and old. And I want to say thank you especially for that part.
I just discovered you guys on tik tok and i have binged watch all your videos and this one by far is my fav. Sergio; your mentality is up there for real 👌🏼
Congrats on reaching 10k! I believe there is so much more to a women giving birth. Its a literal life changing experience and the best thing is to a have partner with you thats on the same page. Wither or not your together. Just simply being there for each other is important.
From what Khal said having a friend and a lover in one person is refreshing and amazing a person that will match all your craziness and also hold you down in good and bad ❤.... Gosh Sergio spoke about empty and i believe it's one of the most underrated form of love it breeds kindness gentleness, selflessness, softness care and respect... I love this podcast all three of you are amazing❤
As a single mama since being single whole pragnancy and after birth till that day. I want all men to have this intelligence as you guys and all mamas have a baby daddy like you. Husband materials❤
PPD is a very real thing and like Sergio said lots of women take their lives. I had PPD after having my son, it was the hardest thing I went through, a single mom at that. Having to go through something like that alone was the hardest and most lonely feeling. I had support from close friends and family who knew about it. It’s a very scary thing, it even gets to a point where women are judged and talked down on for feeling that way and they don’t seek help. Please take care of yourselves those who are having a baby or planning, you’re beautiful and you’re worth it! 🩷
@@sergiotalks.podcast thank YOU for discussing it! It’s not talked about a lot and for the 3 of you to talk about it just brings more light to it for men who aren’t aware of it or don’t understand it.
I never moved countries while going to school, but I moved multiple times throughout my little person years … I feel like it was one of the best things my parents did for me. I realized what I wanted in friends, I spent less time with humdrum humans, learned to step outside of my comfort zone, gained perspective in a while. We way … it can be devastating, but simultaneously so incredibly healthy. Clapping for Matt on that one.
🤩,so much content, brought me back to my reality,knowing you share such wisdom, comforts me for your generation! Bravo guys! Also ego check , Richard Moss my guru, author of many books, helping to separate your ego. Happy I listened till the end!
I am a married for 18 years and being with my husband for 23 years together in total and I believe to find your match will come on its own. You can dream on how you want your wife to be but I don’t think that is how it works. You guys will have the connection and find that the person you might not think is for you will be. It all works with time. And with the kids topic I agree I have three kids. I am a new follower here but I follow you on instagram and you guys are the best and make me laugh most of the time ❤❤ keep it up 👍
Great episode! I can’t speak for Canada but a lot of women in the states are choosing now to be child-free; whether it be because of her career, financial instability, medical reasons, or simply just don’t have an adequate enough partner. And the red pill community continues to bash them. I’m interested in hearing your guys opinions from the purple pill perspective! Would y’all still consider a woman “high value” if she doesn’t want to or can’t bring children to the table?
It’s tough but if she’s the love of my life. Then if there’s a will there’s a way. We can adopt, we can find a surrogate etc. Those who are willing to make it work, will make it work 😊
Speaking on raising a child, I suggests on reading different developmental stages by different psychologist/psychoanalyst (Freud, Piaget, Bandura, Erikson etc.) very eye opening. And I think some experiments from years ago are now resurfacing on youtube though might be viewed today as unethical. My take, children have different reactions to every situation you need to gauge them and be observant.
No, it’s exhausting for a woman to constantly have to “drive” and motivate the man, she wants someone who is motivated too. I love that Sergio sees that Matt wants a woman to be dependent on what he wants. Is Sergio a Cancer or Pisces?
I think I said this before, I wish more men would watch your podcast and learn something from here. I told myself I wont comment anymore but I just feel like Sergio is saying 99% the same things I m trying to explain to men around me , and 99% he speaks exactly how I picture my parent life if one day I will become a mum and the relationship I would like with the partner. But gosh to get to this healthy way of thinking as Sergio men need to workout their brain a lot and lower their ego. Society builds men to be boys these days and not the other way around, unfortunately.
I tell my ex that: he had a son I had a baby… it’s different. So during visitation I’m missing my baby not just my son. Until you have a baby it’s hard for many to understand
My ex was such a mamas boy and that’s the main reason why we broke up and his dad was involved in his life but the dad wasn’t able to raise his son the way he wanted too because the mom was super controlling.
Spontaneity. It’s quite difficult to find someone who’s able to match this personality trait or even accept their partner. Having traveled and worked abroad, I find this the top concern when considering settling down with anyone, but I cannot imagine my life without traveling. Solo traveling it is ❤
I kinda have a grey opinion when you spoke about schooling. I agreed when it came to trying to mold your kids mindset into critical thinkers, which is why you would rather they attend school less. But coming from personal experience, I too thought that as well. But then, I moved to online school back when I was in high school. And I was surrounded by really driven kids, kids that are set with careers ahead of them or already have a career. And, the teaching is a lot like that. It’s a lot of interpretation throughout current events inside and outside of the U.S. Opening their minds and introducing them to different cultures and different points of views on certain things. And there rarely was a given answer, unless it math. But it was all critical thinking based. Long story short. I think it’s more you would need to invest in putting your kids into not just private schools but more schools with high diversity. And I mean true diversity, like people who are from other parts of the world and live there or recently moved from there to the school… if that makes sense. I was tryna be careful with my words when I talked about diversity. I lived in Oman for my whole life (Next to U.A.E aka Dubai 😂) and you kinda have to attend a private school as a non-omani. So that’s my perspective from someone who sees the North american education and coming from living in the Middle East. You know?
As well to add on, you mention you want your kids to miss like 2 days outta the 5. And Matt says he wants to travel. I would say online school like DWIGHT Global and ICL ACADEMY. Is perfect, because you studying remotely, and you are still in the same school. And you’re gonna have the same classes. It’s just where you are taking your classes will not be the same. Plus those schools fit their class schedules to your kids schedule plus it’s only 4 days a week. Friday, Saturday, Sunday is off. I don’t wanna blab on. Because there’s sm to say about online school. I could on and on about the benefits off of it.
What if he says that’s your baby too why I should take care of you just because you’re taking care of OUR baby? And also how to answer to a guy if he says what you bring to a table in a respectful way
Sergio who raised you right? ❤❤❤❤ What happened in your life that gave you such great introspection and emotional maturity. ❤❤❤❤ Also most dad's are absent too wether physically or emotionally.
Every man should have sergio’s take on marriage,life itself and how partners should act with their soulmates in general. (Not to sound rude) but sergio is definitely my type 🫢🤗😉
Sergio’s emotional intelligence and take on the world is so similar to mine & my partners. Agree with his perspective constantly, protect Sergio at all costs 😊❤
Ayyy this comment made my day thank you 🙏🏼
Every women needs a Sergio in their life honestly. The mentality this man has its so insane. Men now and days are just childish and not really mature or have this mindset.
Right?? Like can I find a man whose like the 3 of them combined?? 😂
I appreciate comments like these so much! Thank you 🙏🏼❤
I hope I'll meet a man with the same principle & mindset as Sergio’s approach to a woman & marriage.
You will 🙌🏼 trust the process
I have Matt’s perception as well on fathers being absent from kids’ lives, even if dads are there physically, they are not great father figures, they rarely have a relationship with the kids, are a bad examples and kids see that dynamic and tend to repeat when adults. Love your discussions btw 💕
Thank you so much 😊 love reading comments like these
Came across this podcast on Facebook. Im from Australia and ive watched the whole channel in a matter of days. As comments above has said sergio your emotional intelligence is refreshing for someone so young in 2023. Keep on staying true to yourself. You all bring something different to the podcast, and theyre fantastic topics..congrats, i wish you all continued success in future.
We all need a Sergio ❤
Trust the process ❤
I couldn’t have related anymore to this episode!! My ex left me a year in after having our daughter because he couldn’t handle it. Sergio is so wise and what ever woman has his child is one lucky woman!! Sergio must be protected at all cost!!
Listening to Sergio is so refreshing, so mature, so loving, so perfect. Where is my Sergio?.
Such a great conversation guys!! Also congrats on 10K 🥂🥳
Thank you so much ☺️
I’m like 9 months later, but i’ve been binging y’alls videos and I really loved y’all way of thinking about the baby/pregnant topic. A lot of man can learn from you guys. Young and old. And I want to say thank you especially for that part.
I just discovered you guys on tik tok and i have binged watch all your videos and this one by far is my fav. Sergio; your mentality is up there for real 👌🏼
Yes, fathers play an important role in character building. Not taking anything away from the strong single mothers ❤
Amen 🙏🏼
New subscriber here 🙋🏻♀️ love from NJ . I pray y’all continue to succeed 🙏🏼
Yayyy welcome to the family 🎉
Congrats on reaching 10k! I believe there is so much more to a women giving birth. Its a literal life changing experience and the best thing is to a have partner with you thats on the same page. Wither or not your together. Just simply being there for each other is important.
Thank you 🎉 and yes you’re absolutely right
I just want to thank you for existing Sergio🙏🏽 I can tell you have great parents because education starts at home
Wow! Sergio 👌🏼 real talk! Men take notes🙌🏼
Amen!
Sergio, you are an amazing human being!
Appreciate you 🫶🏼
The fact this conversation about depression after birth is brilliant not many men would have addressed this topic. ❤
Good insight as always gents!
Love 🙌🏼 thank you
I love this podcast. So healthy and so peaceful 🩷🥹
From what Khal said having a friend and a lover in one person is refreshing and amazing a person that will match all your craziness and also hold you down in good and bad ❤.... Gosh Sergio spoke about empty and i believe it's one of the most underrated form of love it breeds kindness gentleness, selflessness, softness care and respect... I love this podcast all three of you are amazing❤
I love y’all’s mentality, it’s so refreshing
Loved this❤
As a single mama since being single whole pragnancy and after birth till that day. I want all men to have this intelligence as you guys and all mamas have a baby daddy like you. Husband materials❤
PPD is a very real thing and like Sergio said lots of women take their lives. I had PPD after having my son, it was the hardest thing I went through, a single mom at that. Having to go through something like that alone was the hardest and most lonely feeling. I had support from close friends and family who knew about it. It’s a very scary thing, it even gets to a point where women are judged and talked down on for feeling that way and they don’t seek help. Please take care of yourselves those who are having a baby or planning, you’re beautiful and you’re worth it! 🩷
This was amazing thank you 🥲
@@sergiotalks.podcast thank YOU for discussing it! It’s not talked about a lot and for the 3 of you to talk about it just brings more light to it for men who aren’t aware of it or don’t understand it.
I never moved countries while going to school, but I moved multiple times throughout my little person years … I feel like it was one of the best things my parents did for me.
I realized what I wanted in friends, I spent less time with humdrum humans, learned to step outside of my comfort zone, gained perspective in a while. We way … it can be devastating, but simultaneously so incredibly healthy. Clapping for Matt on that one.
🤩,so much content, brought me back to my reality,knowing you share such wisdom, comforts me for your generation! Bravo guys! Also ego check , Richard Moss my guru, author of many books, helping to separate your ego. Happy I listened till the end!
It’s the daddy-homie energies for me! Reaching a higher level of unbothered’s goals
tbh Sergio has like the “goals mentality” and it’s wow, love it.
Thank you so much 🥹
Yeiiiy sergio is getting married!!!!!! Please invite us 🎉🎉🎊🎊💃💃
You’re all invited 🎉
I am a married for 18 years and being with my husband for 23 years together in total and I believe to find your match will come on its own. You can dream on how you want your wife to be but I don’t think that is how it works. You guys will have the connection and find that the person you might not think is for you will be. It all works with time. And with the kids topic I agree I have three kids. I am a new follower here but I follow you on instagram and you guys are the best and make me laugh most of the time ❤❤ keep it up 👍
Great episode! I can’t speak for Canada but a lot of women in the states are choosing now to be child-free; whether it be because of her career, financial instability, medical reasons, or simply just don’t have an adequate enough partner. And the red pill community continues to bash them. I’m interested in hearing your guys opinions from the purple pill perspective! Would y’all still consider a woman “high value” if she doesn’t want to or can’t bring children to the table?
It’s tough but if she’s the love of my life. Then if there’s a will there’s a way. We can adopt, we can find a surrogate etc. Those who are willing to make it work, will make it work 😊
Sergio, I mean it. I’m ready for you. ❤
I want a Sergio 😂❤
Matt showing his hand to have the ring on it made me laugh 😂
Speaking on raising a child, I suggests on reading different developmental stages by different psychologist/psychoanalyst (Freud, Piaget, Bandura, Erikson etc.) very eye opening.
And I think some experiments from years ago are now resurfacing on youtube though might be viewed today as unethical.
My take, children have different reactions to every situation you need to gauge them and be observant.
Sergio 🥺❤️❤️
👋🏼
more podcasts please. Supporting all the way from Denmark ❤️🤗
Just fell in love with Sergio at 22:50 “let’s talk about post parting depression” need more woke mens
Karl🐿 it's a caca 😂😂😂
You guy's are so real , raw and funny. Keep up these amazing talks.
Kharl’s a wild one ahah but thank you we appreciate you 🙏🏼
Sergio's smile got me here, but he's softie and it's gonna kip me here
No, it’s exhausting for a woman to constantly have to “drive” and motivate the man, she wants someone who is motivated too. I love that Sergio sees that Matt wants a woman to be dependent on what he wants. Is Sergio a Cancer or Pisces?
Exactly! Self determination is a great value in a partner! 😍
Can you please talk about what you guys think about your girl having a guy best friend and feels "platonic love" towards him?
We got you 🙌🏼
I think I said this before, I wish more men would watch your podcast and learn something from here. I told myself I wont comment anymore but I just feel like Sergio is saying 99% the same things I m trying to explain to men around me , and 99% he speaks exactly how I picture my parent life if one day I will become a mum and the relationship I would like with the partner. But gosh to get to this healthy way of thinking as Sergio men need to workout their brain a lot and lower their ego. Society builds men to be boys these days and not the other way around, unfortunately.
You're a G Sergio🙌🏼
My friends and I also kinda joke around saying our group has daddy issues because we had absentee dads or unalived dads
Dios, cada vez mas amo a Sergio, tiene una capacidad mental y es una estimulación constante para mi morbo intelectual 🤤.
Muchas gracias 😊
I tell my ex that: he had a son
I had a baby… it’s different. So during visitation I’m missing my baby not just my son. Until you have a baby it’s hard for many to understand
My ex was such a mamas boy and that’s the main reason why we broke up and his dad was involved in his life but the dad wasn’t able to raise his son the way he wanted too because the mom was super controlling.
We need more guys like Sergio damn 😊
Epiphany is a word everyone should know… this worries me lmao
english is not their first language 😂
Multilingual kings 👑
Help them pls
42:13 Matt that’s facts experiences are everything
Hi there! What’s the name of the song at the end of the video? Love the video and your opinions ❤
Thank you
Every woman need a sergio ….
I want someone that thinks and acta like Sergio. Plus if looks as good as HIM.
je trouve très intéressant vos façons de penser et votre philosophie de vie, bonne continuation
Me in Jamaica and Sergio in Canada TAKEN. GOD WHYYYYYYYY😭😭😭😭😭😭
We need more guys like Sergio these American men are not the same 😅
37:23 You know the scary thing is, is sometimes you won’t find out how a man will support you until after a child is born.
Spontaneity. It’s quite difficult to find someone who’s able to match this personality trait or even accept their partner. Having traveled and worked abroad, I find this the top concern when considering settling down with anyone, but I cannot imagine my life without traveling. Solo traveling it is ❤
Oh Sergio. You give Taurus vibes 😍
No bc this episode made me fall in love with Sergio 😍😍
Kharl i’m here!!! 👀 LOL 5:32
Epiphanized is actually a verb Segrio so Kahl was right by “adding ed” on this one haha
❤ love from Nagaland.....
Welcome 🙌🏼 from Canada 🇨🇦
Why is Sergio a healed king? HELP!! 😍🥵🤤
I kinda have a grey opinion when you spoke about schooling.
I agreed when it came to trying to mold your kids mindset into critical thinkers, which is why you would rather they attend school less.
But coming from personal experience, I too thought that as well. But then, I moved to online school back when I was in high school. And I was surrounded by really driven kids, kids that are set with careers ahead of them or already have a career. And, the teaching is a lot like that. It’s a lot of interpretation throughout current events inside and outside of the U.S. Opening their minds and introducing them to different cultures and different points of views on certain things. And there rarely was a given answer, unless it math. But it was all critical thinking based.
Long story short. I think it’s more you would need to invest in putting your kids into not just private schools but more schools with high diversity. And I mean true diversity, like people who are from other parts of the world and live there or recently moved from there to the school… if that makes sense. I was tryna be careful with my words when I talked about diversity.
I lived in Oman for my whole life (Next to U.A.E aka Dubai 😂) and you kinda have to attend a private school as a non-omani. So that’s my perspective from someone who sees the North american education and coming from living in the Middle East. You know?
As well to add on, you mention you want your kids to miss like 2 days outta the 5. And Matt says he wants to travel. I would say online school like DWIGHT Global and ICL ACADEMY. Is perfect, because you studying remotely, and you are still in the same school. And you’re gonna have the same classes. It’s just where you are taking your classes will not be the same. Plus those schools fit their class schedules to your kids schedule plus it’s only 4 days a week. Friday, Saturday, Sunday is off.
I don’t wanna blab on. Because there’s sm to say about online school. I could on and on about the benefits off of it.
Sergio ❤❤❤❤
Wow those father statistics.. come on men, step it up!
What's the soundtrack of your podcast?
What if he says that’s your baby too why I should take care of you just because you’re taking care of OUR baby? And also how to answer to a guy if he says what you bring to a table in a respectful way
Sergio who raised you right? ❤❤❤❤
What happened in your life that gave you such great introspection and emotional maturity. ❤❤❤❤
Also most dad's are absent too wether physically or emotionally.
The baby is more hers because she grew it inside of her body. Gave it food, water, nutrition. The baby hears her heart beat before anything else.
Im with you Matt with the drive but a lot of guys doesn’t value drive. Were the process girls here left on the streetssssss!
He wants a “yes” woman. Lol
It’s normal that I dated this type of man 😭🤧
What if your womans job is a 9 to 5 how will she equate to the adventurous life you guys want to have😅
But Sergio, what if I want to cook you a gorgeous breakfast in front of the pretty view - some of our love languages is providing you meals 👩🏼🍳
Sergio is so sexy 😍
Every man should have sergio’s take on marriage,life itself and how partners should act with their soulmates in general.
(Not to sound rude) but sergio is definitely my type 🫢🤗😉
Hi guys ❤️
Hey Suz 🙌🏼