How To Make Friends In a New City (From An Introvert)

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  • @dash8465
    @dash8465 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Pretty on a whole different scale, greatly complimented by funny personality.

  • @stemdar
    @stemdar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You're one of those magical people who steal hearts without even trying. ❤

  • @wafflehat7369
    @wafflehat7369 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    "I'm an adult" This simple sentence can have vastly different interpretations depending on the intonation. It's awesome!

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      omg so true!! lol love it

    • @vampfashions
      @vampfashions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samicamuse "I am an adult!" confident Samica; "I am an adult?" less confident Samica; "I am.... an... adult?!? disbelieving, but taking over the world, fears and all, anyway Samica. All are lovely Samicas and we all love the whole package and her amazing talent and personality.

    • @wafflehat7369
      @wafflehat7369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @USER-RealSamica as cool as it would be, I know this is a fake account :p plus it's April 1st :p :p

  • @5startech1
    @5startech1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As someone who has lived in many regions of the U.S. , you are definately in a region where people are known for being friendly and helpful. When I moved to Tennessee people there went out of their way to help me. Much different than when I moved out West where my neighbors didn't want to get to know you. Can't beat Southern hospitality.

  • @bobashmore6442
    @bobashmore6442 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You always make me laugh. You seem so happy and full of life. I am getting old and have some pretty severe health issues right now but when I watch you ! get to remember how it feels to be happy for a little while. Thanks for taking us along for the ride.

  • @globalfountain
    @globalfountain 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so joyous watching you grow the thousands will become Millions soon. But what you've learned is going to be more valuable trust a few people the long-term ones

  • @JamieHitt
    @JamieHitt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In all fairness, it helps to be breathtakingly gorgeous. Or so I hear.😢

  • @jankware
    @jankware 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's interesting to hear this persepective from an attractive person with a beatiful smile and outlook. All I can say is from my perspective people are naturally drawn to attractive people. I'm not unattractive but I've been flat out told I'm ugly and put down by many just for existing. This makes it much harder to be outgoing. Also why is it always us introverts that need to be outgoing to make friends, rarely do I have people reaching out to me to hangout.

    • @JuCo2010
      @JuCo2010 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm about as average looking as it gets and not outgoing around strangers. Lived in nashville for 10 years and I've got 2 couples who i hang out with. Being sober also makes it harder to make friends

  • @mark8337
    @mark8337 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate. You’ll be ok. Better than ok. And happy.

  • @Nathan-gu6uq
    @Nathan-gu6uq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My New Year resolution was to say "yes" more. Awesome to hear someone else have a similar idea

  • @Arthur-eo5fg
    @Arthur-eo5fg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, i enjoy listening to what you have to say! Enjoy!

  • @richardfehr1838
    @richardfehr1838 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    'Happy people don't shoot their husband." Quote of the day, for sure! Another thing you can do is to volunteer to read to people in hospitals or nursing homes. The more connections you make, the more likely you are to run into something really good or beneficial to your career. I also think that Nashville and Tennessee in general are hospitable places.

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      they just dont!

  • @TheNutmegStitcher
    @TheNutmegStitcher 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Welcome to Tennessee. ❤ Hikers are also generally happy people. Go for a hike at Radnor Lake.

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you!!! oh ive been meaning to go check out radnor lake! thank you for the recc!!

  • @jerseyshoredroneservices225
    @jerseyshoredroneservices225 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never heard of Samica until an hour ago. TH-cam showed me one of her videos for some reason and I've been watching them now for about an hour.
    Something about her is very captivating 🤔

  • @bertellijustin6376
    @bertellijustin6376 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a beautiful introvert my self…….ahem, as an introvert myself, this hits home lol. It’s easy for me to talk to people at work or in a class, but once the bell rings I’m going home to my dog and my happy place until I have another obligation that forces me to go back into the world.

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is my problem!!! its fun to talk in class but then if we do anything else after.. im out :o

  • @peterjacobs6290
    @peterjacobs6290 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Step one: Be pretty.

    • @Nobody-dc8dp
      @Nobody-dc8dp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Step two: Be a girl.

    • @NailFactoryProds
      @NailFactoryProds 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She got step one down

    • @smoll.miniatures
      @smoll.miniatures 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Pretty much helps in life… If you aren’t, you need to be charismatic…

    • @jerrychetty2524
      @jerrychetty2524 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes she's got it for sure, the cuteness ❤

  • @curtisdavis8594
    @curtisdavis8594 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for sharing your journey.... Moving from California to Tennessee...

  • @asphaltcowboy9833
    @asphaltcowboy9833 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love everything of how you are Samica!!! Your music, voice, personality, etc. Beauty defined...muahh ❤

  • @jayrovers
    @jayrovers 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love all your videos.... you have such a wonderful heart..... we can hear it in your voice.... you speak so honestly 💕

  • @drizzo4669
    @drizzo4669 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How to make friends as an introvert?
    Being gorgeous is both a blessing and a curse I imagine.

    • @Mo4Honesty
      @Mo4Honesty 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But being ugly is just a curse.

  • @ChristopherCurtis
    @ChristopherCurtis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great advice. Stay strong. Keep learning.

  • @scotttaylor9481
    @scotttaylor9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm English and live in England but so wish I had a best friend like this woman, she is brave and strong from the look of it and has the heart of a lioness that just fakes her weakness

    • @scotttaylor9481
      @scotttaylor9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've subbed to Telegram channel

  • @NashvillePastaman
    @NashvillePastaman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome to the ever evolving nashville winter…… 75 degrees on wed….. 25 degrees on Friday…… you will love it !!!

    • @NashvillePastaman
      @NashvillePastaman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Take yourself over to The Herban Cafe- if you miss LA at all….. make lots of Friends!!

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i have started to notice this!!!! v odd behavior! lol kind of love it tho.. never know what youre gonna get :D

    • @NashvillePastaman
      @NashvillePastaman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samicamuse Herban Market - ask for Matt hes the owner- get the breakfast pizza you will love it - and you and your boyfriend can split it and still have leftovers!!

  • @SopranoPizzaJMFNJ
    @SopranoPizzaJMFNJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have amazing eyes, a friendly smile and a wonderful sense of humor. You are also an interesting human. Making friends should not be a challenge for you ❤

  • @obs_girl94
    @obs_girl94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    tennessean here! good luck and make sure you keep your head up high!

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!!!! :)

  • @PeterCombs
    @PeterCombs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you're in a new town or city, I've found the best way to meet folks who then can become friends is by checking the community out for groups and organizations who gather regularly to talk about and do things of mutual interest. It's not easy always, but friendships have a multiplier effect, once you have a couple, it can quickly turn into many.. Good luck.

  • @glenhar1225
    @glenhar1225 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How lovely that you share

  • @garyneedham9674
    @garyneedham9674 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am great! Glad you’re well!❤

  • @patrickmcenery5812
    @patrickmcenery5812 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice thing. Thanks kid. No disrespect. Appreciate this one

  • @rrbhugra
    @rrbhugra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Samica, my daughter is a big fan of yours.

  • @melissam1636
    @melissam1636 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my friends are the band....church band...my cats.... have to deal with my loss... I call what your doing stuck....doing it myself... I should be evicting some fish and taking down the little aquarium....watching you.....oh yeah just be happy you...... dont be stuck!

  • @RichardPeterShon
    @RichardPeterShon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hey samica, if you live alone, getting a pet is one of the best for introverts.
    hope you are enjoying Nashville.
    cool to find someone I can understand and relate to even you are on the other side of the earth from where I live

  • @bensuede3862
    @bensuede3862 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're an entertainer. Acting and comedic productions suit you.

  • @damons4084
    @damons4084 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fellow left handed introvert…well done. The bit where you took a moment to tidy of up the couch was as close to an out of body experience I’ve had in a long time. 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @jamesbeckham7046
    @jamesbeckham7046 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She does not sound like an introvert. Cat wants her attention! Good luck cat!😊

  • @raviamodernepic
    @raviamodernepic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol making friends as an adult feels like such an uphill battle. One unsolicited tip I'll throw in is checking out bar trivia in a new town. You get to grab fries and beer, play a game, and possibly join another group if it's a friendly place!

  • @kevinstogner9477
    @kevinstogner9477 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Woo Hoo ! 1st in. Love ya from Texas Little Missy. :)

    • @p2tu
      @p2tu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope, far from 1st...

  • @tropictom5996
    @tropictom5996 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “I don’t know if my cat loves me that much…”
    Don’t feel bad, every cat owner has to come to grips with this.

  • @codyrobinson2368
    @codyrobinson2368 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You seem so down to earth 😊

    • @codyrobinson2368
      @codyrobinson2368 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @USER-RealSamica just give me your phone number

  • @gregoryroberts3583
    @gregoryroberts3583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just moved to Nashville so I could be friends with Samica!

  • @JJ-fe1mx
    @JJ-fe1mx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My anxiety chooses to ignore the actual helpful tips, so my brain will only hold onto “happy people don’t shoot their husbands “.

  • @TheFrightBox
    @TheFrightBox 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I saw the Last Witch Hunter for the 1st time yesterday. Apparently that was Inbar Lavi, and I'm frankly disappointed, you would have been better for that role. In fact, I look forward to seeing you in bigger roles, and meanwhile your YT channel is fun

  • @My_Alchemical_Romance
    @My_Alchemical_Romance 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wait; I thought you lived in your car??
    Kidding! 😉
    Love your videos!🫠

  • @Edward-zw9ld
    @Edward-zw9ld 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your voice and beauty🎉

  • @davidblanchette4108
    @davidblanchette4108 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m shocked you’re an introvert! You seem to have such a chill personality figured you socialized with ease. I can relate tho, introverted homebody myself. The good thing is my girl is a social butterfly so we balance each other out😂

  • @ravikonjeti6738
    @ravikonjeti6738 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Usually don't comment on videos, but found your video awfully relatable! As a fellow brown nashville resident who is an introverted "adult", here is to hoping we can make friends 😂

  • @chokloconqueso8446
    @chokloconqueso8446 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    work is a good place to meet ppl… i taught overseas for 2 years, i had more friends & a more active social life than i did back in the states & most of my friends were ppl from work or ppl i met thru coworkers. i was raised in Boston area & live in Florida- neither place known for friendly ppl.

  • @harrisiqbal3608
    @harrisiqbal3608 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just need to find people with similar interests , and no other agendas . ya learn a lot growing up and reading people and the motives .

  • @darktoadone5068
    @darktoadone5068 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know the feeling, I'm southern boy and yes with an accent, born and raised in Florida. Took a civilian job with the US Navy and moved up to Maine, Complete culture shock! My southern accent isn't bad at all but because a ton of people working there are from Boston and other New England areas, they noticed me because I didn't sound like them. Thick thick northern accents, so glad I don't sound like them! I bet they say the same of me.

  • @PatrickMcDade-p3m
    @PatrickMcDade-p3m 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in the Nashville area. If you want to go fishing this summer hit me up. You're always welcome. :)

  • @brucetalley3798
    @brucetalley3798 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Samica, perhaps you're already acquainted with Talia Scott. If not, she and her husband, Roger, live in the Nashville area, around Franklin, I think. She also sings, and they are content creators, too. Judging by their videos, she has a very energetic personality and is probably an extrovert, but you two may still get along well even though you may be opposite in that regard. Perhaps you both would enjoy getting together to collaborate on some music. Just thought I'd tell you about her since you're looking for new friends in that area.
    She has her own YT channel with some videos of her singing; just search her name. Their channel together is The Scott Family.

  • @jonathanblanchard6480
    @jonathanblanchard6480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The show survivor acts out of reality with a mirror held up to nature, and then a hero wins as a tragic comic.

  • @TheonlyViera
    @TheonlyViera 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Semi new here but been looking at all your vids

  • @KellyJK07
    @KellyJK07 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if you want to speed up the process...go to a busy street corner, with a bull horn, and yell out "I need friends" and "I'm single by the way"...that should work...

  • @questof1able
    @questof1able 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Samica! Love the hair! Come to Denver this summer!

  • @patchup
    @patchup 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am happy for you ; finding friends at the improve class. I do wonder how your conversations go? I suspect they are filled with tangents and almost never ending. Yes, and...

  • @kenheady5946
    @kenheady5946 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also did the acting I was in two TV drama and two movies but not done anything in a long time

  • @thehomelessteddycomics3346
    @thehomelessteddycomics3346 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry to hear that you lost your dog. 😢

  • @rickgreene9820
    @rickgreene9820 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You might cause me to lose my job. All I want to do is watch your videos …all day …lol.

  • @DoingitWrong
    @DoingitWrong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A few deep friends beats many shallow friends. Especially for an introvert.

  • @kenheady5946
    @kenheady5946 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm not far away from Nashville

  • @Redneckthinker
    @Redneckthinker 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Unless Nashville has drastically changed, there are many people who are friendly and helpful. At least that was the case when I had to spend time there. I grew up in East Tennessee and we wave at people driving by who we don't know. You do sound like someone who would fit in, plus music is loved by most people, even if they don't like the genre.

  • @Zoxuul
    @Zoxuul 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Say yes". Instructions unclear, I am now halfway across the Pacific on a cargo ship with a single sock. I don't feel safe anymore guys! I miss my 2nd Sock :(

    • @samicamuse
      @samicamuse  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      HAHAH oops enjoy the adventure!!!

  • @BdeSimon
    @BdeSimon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow.... we pretty muched moved next door to eachother around the same time 😳 but your winning in branching out and meeting people. And yes, my cats put their butts in my face all the time or follow me around and thats their way of showing affection 😅😅

  • @user-qh1dk3fh5q
    @user-qh1dk3fh5q 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely lady!!

  • @claybass3631
    @claybass3631 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like your hair, ...you have really nice hair.

  • @ericpoirier2807
    @ericpoirier2807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The best part is your mind

  • @pantloadd
    @pantloadd หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m an old white guy.
    I am not your top demographic
    You are so lovely.
    I, too am introverted.
    You give good advice.
    Go, you!!!

  • @JD-4639
    @JD-4639 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do not make friends with the Hornet! That weird little bug will hurt you, A LOT!

  • @bobbyjames8323
    @bobbyjames8323 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Literally the easiest thing to do is to looks someone in the eye and say “hello, I’m ---“
    Natural conversation will do the rest

  • @hamsterSNAKE
    @hamsterSNAKE 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can be my friend. There is a no wait line-up in my future friends queue.

  • @jimmurphy7296
    @jimmurphy7296 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lefties! 🤚

  • @bobwatson957
    @bobwatson957 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd like to see you do the improv. That would be a laugh.

  • @donnielama6459
    @donnielama6459 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I find it veeeeery hard to understand how you would have any problem making friends. You have waaaay to great of a personality to struggle with that. It's really hard for me to leave me house too, but it's because all I do is work and do chores... work and do chores... week after week... after week... :) Anywho. let me know if you are ever walking your cat in Charleston, SC and I will try to find you. I'll be the dork walking my 2 king charles spaniels. You can't miss me. I music too in my spare time!! :) Let me know if you need a drummer!! I don't know how you are going to let me know all these different things I ask?? That's a problem lol. Have a great night and GL with your music.

  • @vampfashions
    @vampfashions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How To Make Friends: 1st, be born amazing, check; 2nd, grow amazing talent, check; 3rd, create wonderful music, check; 4th, win 11 Grammys, pending (lol), 5th, meet a couple of cool humans while getting takeout Pani Puri after Grammys, check; 6th, have "auntie" of those cool humans introduce you to half the world, check; 7th, choose which of all humanity to keep as new "friend pets." Live life as before, with more people coming and going. There, simple.

  • @vengeful8gaming776
    @vengeful8gaming776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a introvert its a battle in public every day!

  • @bobwatson957
    @bobwatson957 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just saw some of thr improv, the New York housewife. Class.

  • @teinspringz
    @teinspringz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Samica is more than a singer, she's an entertainer, cook, comedian, fashion guru, add yours to my comment below

  • @Kevin-zk9tt
    @Kevin-zk9tt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Look up the word Ambivert?? I always thought something wrong with me until I stumbled up this an now it explains everything to me,,‼️⁉️🇺🇸

  • @docdew50
    @docdew50 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Their is no one that wouldn't be your best friend. Take your pick. Baby.

  • @ganeshsivarajah3132
    @ganeshsivarajah3132 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @BrianHickmanMilitaryBrat
    @BrianHickmanMilitaryBrat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel you on this. As an introvert it is hard for many many things as well as making friends

  • @gregkeener911
    @gregkeener911 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I also question my own adulthood. And I’m 43!!!!! Mentally I’m still 24.

  • @lnbb21
    @lnbb21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are gorgeous ❤

  • @pantloadd
    @pantloadd หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m an old man.
    You are charming, gorgeous and smart. Go, you!!!

  • @Cassidy...
    @Cassidy... 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Samica, Your a good egg 😀

  • @girthbrooks-lk9cq
    @girthbrooks-lk9cq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Better to just be alone

  • @russdiggity3060
    @russdiggity3060 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your laugh

  • @miguelmatallanes5953
    @miguelmatallanes5953 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    More "lazy girl" recipes!! 😂
    Maybe grilled cheese or something??

  • @lodrezzon
    @lodrezzon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Actually, when they put their butt in your face, it means they trust you, and yes, love you.
    And, you are such a natural performer / actor, I find your self doubt so odd. Just keep meeting people. You'll find your way to where you need to be. I have no doubt in that.

  • @armyofchefs
    @armyofchefs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow ..

  • @kenheady5946
    @kenheady5946 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a invert to so I know what you are saying

  • @jamesbeckham7046
    @jamesbeckham7046 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Charlie says Jake is better than a dog!😅😊

  • @gregkeener911
    @gregkeener911 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “ you all stink”🤣🤣

  • @chronalexander8893
    @chronalexander8893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice reference to Legally Blonde 😂 great tips, thx 👍

  • @999iiiimejjackmeiheyounodo
    @999iiiimejjackmeiheyounodo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're a sweetheart

  • @kellyrsmith9011
    @kellyrsmith9011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just be yourself, your tribe will find you. 😁

  • @m.webber5118
    @m.webber5118 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Agree, I don’t have a dog! But … I have cows! The same thing goes for “cow people”! Plus, I’m having calves now, nothing better than a newborn!

  • @BravosReviews
    @BravosReviews 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you should try to get someone to do a reality show with you.

  • @akmaldawson5187
    @akmaldawson5187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤M.I.A - Bad Girls