As a child of a hoarder, I commend you for your courage. I also appreciate your candidness about what is happening for you mentally and emotionally and physically as you go through the process of passing on the joy. My mother has been working towards clean out/making her home manageable. When she asks for help I always go and help in any capacity. Watching your videos has given me an insight into how her mind works and is helping me be more gentle in my approach. I can honestly say, it seems like when a hoarder is REALLY ready for help they are definitely more open to help. There have been times when I went in to her home in the past and literally tossed everything, which was a disservice to my mother and I didn't understand that at the time. I look forward to a future video of your famies reactions to your progress! I also hope you are doing well with your no spend challenges! Those no spend challenges have made me analyze where I am spending and have been very helpful for me too!
Your message has fill my heart with so much joy ♥️ This is the exact intention of creating this channel and putting it all out there!! To help hoarders & non-hoarders understand the mentality behind it so they can heal together!!! Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️
I am planning to take a tote or two that I have stuff to the brim with papers, to my sister's house this weekend while I dog sit. I started watching paper clutter videos tonight to help me prime my mind. They weren't doing the trick. So I decided to search using the word hoarder (my sister's word) and papers. I came across your video. I'm about halfway through. You're going through the Ikea catalogs and I start getting anxious and almost hyperventilating. I get it it's all what I intend to "sometime" ... Thank you. I'll keep watching.
Paper is one of the biggest sections of what I have. About three years ago, I got a sudden urge to work through old magazines and papers. I've noticed the process I used then is similar to yours - small sections and taking breaks whenever I started feeling anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, etc. This process really worked for me and I've been thinking of trying to implement it in other areas, such as clothes. Slowly I've been letting go of some clothes - I have a recycle and donate bag, and a bag I want to sell. But I've only added things once I'm ready. Still very difficult! Regarding my paper hoard, I managed to fit what once was stashed in a large box into a somewhat smaller one and let go of papers and magazines I had held on to for YEARS, since my teens. I think I had two to three recycle bags at the end of the day. I paged through all my magazines to see why I kept it. What I noticed is that I kept many magazines for a handful of articles or crosswords. So I just tore those out and fit them in one binder - I felt so proud. I haven't brought much in since then, I still have a lot of magazines I still want to read (but haven't, but I shall some day 😶).
I'm a paper hoarder I hate how this depletes me when I try to tackle the situation. I have old newspapers, magazines and letters, and note books. I understand. Others can say just throw it away. To a hoarder they have to touch every single paper. This sucks.
Thank you so much for being honest! So refreshing to see an organization video where the place isn’t already what I’d consider perfect. I relate to this so much!
I found this series while randomly flipping through cleaning videos (I like to watch them while doing my own cleaning!) and just wanted to say I'm really impressed with your commitment, and your positive attitude. From the outside, hoarding can sometimes seem mystifying, but I think we all experience a lot of these drives to different degrees. Thank you for sharing your experience, and helping me be a little more empathetic in the process. :)
I hate paperwork and we get new papers in the mail every day. I try to immediately trash/recycle daily junk mail. Bills to be paid I like to put in my purse with my check register so I won't lose them or forget. Sometimes filing is a pain but it really only takes a minute so I try very hard to file the same day so papers aren't lost. You did a great job and now that you have a system in place it should hopefully be a lot easier to handle.
You got so much done! You're doing so amazing! When you were going through your house pointing out all the boxes of paper nestled in the corners it reminded me exactly of when I did that! And what a beautiful recycle pile you had at the end!! (Oh dear. The following is an insanely long comment... fair warning. No need to read it if you've already found a good organizing system that works for you.) So you asked about systems people use for keeping paper.. here's mine. This is a paper organizing system that works for a hoarding mind. Ultra organized minimalist folks who aren't easily distracted by pretty things will likely give you all kinds of advice that will look very pretty in the short term, but just won't work, for you (or me). Been there, done that. So here's my rough and ready paper filing system. (And most of this I got from a great book I love.) 1. Sentimental box: Kids drawings, old journals, misc that you will absolutely never be willing to get rid of but there is no practical purpose whatsoever for keeping. If you never took it out of the box it would not cause any problems in your life. I keep mine in the living room because I put things in here randomly as they come up. Like movie ticket stubs. But tucked away in my keeper trunk, I always I know exactly where they are, and I can pull them out if I get the blinding urge to stare at a bunch of old sentimental stuff. 2. The 'now' tray: Stuff you must absolutely deal with within the next month. Put it somewhere where you can easily get to it and where you see it everyday, likewherever you sort mail. 3. The 'maybe' box: so many 'maybes', so little time. This sits under my dining room table because that's where I sort mail. This is a 'six month' trash can. That means every 6 months I pick up the top quarter of it, put it on the table, and put the restin the recycling bin, then I put the top quarter back in the Box. 90% of my keep items go in this box. Electric bills, credit card bills, ads for Stuff, receipts... Storage systems just don't work for hoarders because we keep everything if we're given half a chance. So don't give yourself a chance. This is the most important box. This is the box that changed my life. Now the stuff that used to be piled on all my tables and stuffed and millions of boxes around my house has a place to go. (Oh, and if you're worried about putting credit card statements or ads for credit cards in this box, don't. Easy fix: put kitchen scraps and a tall glass of water into the bag with it when you throw it out... in the regular trash. Nobody's digging through that moldy disgusting mess. Plus, you're helping it biodegrade.) 4. Vital records files: Employment history, birth certificates, important dates, recipes, medical file, Insurance & property records. Also a folder for with details on each utility, credit, and bank account. Do not put the statements in these folders because you will never clear them out. Been there, done that. This is the stuff you might actually need in the long term future. 5. The Generously Sized 'To Be Filed' box (think double shoe box size): I have to be realistic about myself. When I have any piece of paper in my hand if it doesn't take me less than 5 seconds to put it away then I wont. that's why I keep this box in my living room. Also, my filing cabinet is not in my living room or by my desk. Optimally it would be, but even then I think I'd still need the 'to be filed' box. It's terribly easy to get distracted by more important things than filing a piece of paper. Put the to be filed box in your living room or wherever you do paperwork tasks, then carry it to your filing cabinet when it's time to file. By using this system you'll know that everything in your to be filed box must be something you want to keep in your Vital Records files, so even if it takes you a month or two to get to filing it, it shouldn't fill up too quickly. (Um.. I may have let mine sit there for a year before. But no biggie, that's how long it took to fill it up.) And that's it! Easy! 6. Ooh! Wait! Magazines!: Put the magazines you want to read but not keep forever in your magazine bin, but upright, so you can see the spines. Then every time you take one out to flip through it put it back in your side of the bin when you're done with it. Gradually the ones farthest from you will become the ones you're not interested in anymore. Every month pull out a handful of them from the back and flip through to see if there's any of them you want to read now and put those back in the front, then recycle the rest of the handful. Tell yourself you're making room for new wonderful magazines and that you're only allowed to have as many magazines as will fit in your bin at one time, so if you want to buy a magazine you have to think which magazine am I willing to give up. It's been about five years since I implemented this system - and I'm not buried under new boxes of paper and magazines, so it must work - at least for me. :) Sorry about the long comment! Good luck!
I think you did a great job! And I love this last comment on a method of filing and storing! I love decluttering done from a hoarders POV, not a minimalists!
I've watched all your videos from day one. You are doing an awesome job and should be very proud of yourself))) And thank you for recycling and not just tossing all the paper.
Awe, thank you so so much for your encouragement & support!!! It really keeps me motivated!!! And yes, it would hurt my heart if I put all that in a landfill!!
Binge watching day #3. I always tell my organizing clients. If you do not have itemized deductions or a business, the irs recommends keeping only the last 3 years. If itemized it’s 7 years. If it’s a business, forever!!!
What a marathon effort. You did so well! Great job. I guess the biggest challenge is to keep on top of it from now on and not let it get to be such a huge task again. Good luck.
After my declutter game month I have been more understanding of my mother and she let me see her storage unit and I offered my support and I was an extra pair of hands for her and we can have coffee and breakfast together and we cab plan.
A Hoarder's Heart Look into Adult Female Aspergers, now that I think of it I noticed you had an Aspergers child book in your collection...Aspergers is hereditary.
Very impressive! My way to deal with paperwork is quite different. Even though I touch everything, I try to get rid off it as soon as possible. It was important to create a space for it for me as well!
I LOVE THIS!!! 😍 I am a visual person as well, and if I can't see it - I forget all about it. (Not a good thing - too many projects going on that I want to refer back to...) I have old magazines from the 1990's (Traditional Home - and I still like a certain classic style that I try to aim for) - old Coldwater Creek catalogs (before they reopened) because I like to look through them - I have vision boards for things - and have them all yet because they are vintage, I suppose. I see sets of back issues of old magazines and catalogs I have on Ebay for $$$. I have sold items online through an Etsy shop and on Ebay - but the fees and paperwork are kind of a pain. (Craigslist can be hit or miss for me.) - Sheesh... am I a hoarder?! 😥 I don't think so... I just need to keep it all more organized.... and edit 5-10 things into a black plastic trash bag once a week or so... ( baby steps!) Dropping stuff off to a donation place is doable... but I kinda fear getting rid of something that I might need. ( A room to try and copy as we remodel our house...) It is nearly impossible to find photos online of certain interior designers whose classic work and style I love. Some have written books, thankfully... but most live on only in back issues of magazines. ~ Thanks for the upload... and the laugh... (someone with actual STUFF) and I'm just letting you know that I am SO with you!!! 😎
Paper is the worst. REALLY Well done! for tackling it. I love every time that you post a new video. You have such a good attitude. I go through my paper stuff once a blue moon and I have way too much. It's exhausting and overwhelming. I'm finding everything hard at the moment. I have chronic pain and I get overwhelmed with the continuous home upkeep, finances are a big struggle too. I'm just feeling very ugh. It's So hard to keep up with everything but I do a bit at a time. It's still too much. Anyway thank you for sharing your video and for giving us all inspiration to keep on at it.
Anytime my friend 🙏🏻♥️ I pray for healing in your back. Just do what you can handle at each time! Baby steps still move us forward! I wish I lived closer so I could help you!
I love that bill organiser, another great video, well done you did great💗i think you should leave basement last and only concentrate on your house just like you said😃😘😘
In previous vids, you showed that you have essential oils. EO's are amazing for anxiety. These are just a few that I can think of off the top of my head. You can apply them topically if you wish, or just keep a diffuser going while you work. Lavender , Roman Chamomile, Peppermint, Clary Sage, Ylang Ylang, Patchouli Oil, Geranium, Lemon, Rose Oil, Sandalwood, Valerian Root.....I am not a hoarder by any means so I do not understand the need to keep paper. The only papers that are NEEDED are receipts you used as deductions on your taxes (only need to keep 5 yrs at most of those too) vital statistics (SS cards, birth certs, marriage license etc) and only ONE MONTH of paid bills. All bills show your balance each and every month on the new statement. Everything can be found on line now, so no need to keep manuals etc. We have all our paper (family of 9) in one small (12"x12"x8") strong box. I also only kept "treasures" of my children that could be used or displayed.
Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️ Yes, I love my EO!! I just used up the rest of my “Peace & Calming!” I want to try Ylang Ylang and Patchouli too!!
November 2023. I like to make paper crafts. I make jewelry, cards, boxes, and flowers with paper. I have to limit the paper I keep. I made spiderwebs from old books for Halloween this year. I've made flowers and baskets from old newspapers. Just recycle most of the paper that comes into your home. Tina, Al's wife
Thank-you for sharing . It took me two or three tries to watch this because my anxiety got so high. So proud of you! I like your receipt filing system . I might try that if I find an accordion folder in my hoard! Lol
This is amaaaaaaazing! You did so well and SO much. It’s alright you held onto everything you did. With my more sentimental paperwork I find that every time I go through it I am able to part with more. I just can’t do it in one go. And that’s OK :)
Also. You can keep the old school system with the paper bills but instead of writing the check and mail. Pull the bill, pay it online then file. You are just saving the step of check, envelope and stamp. That’s how I have my system set up. And I was able to stop buying so many checks. ❤️ also,GREAT JOB on the paper!! I will also recommend to revisit The kids school work save piles periodically. I also saved EVERYTHING with my first kiddo and when we had to move from Japan back to the states, there was soooo much and it was a Japanese school and their work was so different. Especially these incredible craft projects. That took up a HUGE tub. We kept 3 of our favorite took pics of the rest and had to recycle the rest. It was sad but there was literally no room on our pack out for it. After that I started sorting through his papers and picked truly the BEST artwork and some of his Japanese calligraphy work. That was sooo hard. Now when unpacking their backpacks I now can only keep “the best” and recycle the rest. Your progression in this is ASTONISHING! I literally have clients who have seen counselors for years and haven’t made this much progress! So proud of you!!
An Idea 💡...Right before I leave to go get my grandson from school and wait in that long pick up line, I take any mail 📨📬📧 that hasn't been opened 📧💌 for the week. I sort it out, tear up unnecessary mail, put into a bag and throw it in the recycle trash bin♻️🗑 when I get home. I have recently started throwing water 🚰💦into these papers and watch the ink wash out any important info identifying my families personal info. I've seen my paper stashes disappear and makes me feel really great that progress was made & my time was not wasted just being idle in my vehicle. Try this! I even do it as I wait in my vehicle for my husbands drs. appointments. 📝📰📃🗞♻️🚮🗑
What Ive started doing is after one week of bills/flyers/paper. I will go online and request for junk mail to be stopped coming to my house and bills to be sent online. It has helped cut down on paper waste and just keeps me more organized as well.
I will say this and it applies to me, I need to go through books, old greeting cards, etc because I have found money I stashed away and forgot about it.
Paper Hoarder as well trying to get important information on the computer, either scan it or create an Excel Worksheet, it has to go. It has become so overwhelming, transferring it from room to room, or hiding the hoard in the basement is a disease. No one needs old pay stubs, old coupon books, old Bills or Newspapers and Magazine from decades ago.
I'm late to your vlog. For the children's things.take the backpack from their school year and put all the sentimental for the year in the backpack and then store the backpack. If your children like to shred and you're comfortable with it, let them have some fun shredding. Definitely need to let them sort their own things. If you're attached to certain things keep them until you feel you can discard them. You've really done great and I think a lot of people have hoarder tendencies but they don't have the anxiety about discarding. Keep up the good work.
Consider the "Freedom Filer" System although you do not need to buy their full product line; you can do the same system with your own two file drawers and hanging files [and manila folders, optional]. No need for your husband to build you any more furniture.
I am so completely inspired by your videos! The other day I binge watched your channel while I tackled a few areas myself. I'm avoiding the paper, but will get there soon. Keep up the great work, you got this!
Great job, you are improving so much, congrats! Regarding the long-term files: We use the same kind of folder storage you use and decluttered with other kind of papers in it. It is easy accessible but also neatly stored away.
Paper clutter was a thorn in my side!!! I just went through what I thought was all my paper and I ended up with 6 file boxes of stuff that needed to be shredded ( I currently have 2 left) but while going through my house I have found more! I found a bin of paper and mail from 2015 in my linen closet...what the heck...how did it end up in there? What was I thinking. I have decided to put paper clutter on my schedule for Weds ( my anti-procrastination day) . I don't get any more magazines. I go through the mail every day now and shred as it comes in. Make your vision board on pinterest! Long term , find a place in your file cabinet.
I just realized that I’m a hoarder 😂 I do also have to touch every piece of paper before I can decide to throw it away or not. * * It is so satisfying and inspiring to see all decluttering, YOU ARE AMAZING! 😍
I need the most inspiration to tackle the paper...I run a home business and the paper is everywhere, boxes in the basement, boxes in my office, a wall of filing cabinets...it all needs to be gone through, old bills recycled, the important ones organized. It's much more than what you had...the largest category in my house. I foundered in paper when I did Konmarie myself...still in progress. Thank you for showing a large project in progress!
Huge well done. You must be exhausted after that! I couldn't have managed that in one day. I break it down into smaller chunks. An alternative to shredding is to have a small bonfire for the personal papers going out. We have a metal bucket we use if I have a lot to go out at once. Paper is a nemesis of mine. As I've been in debt before, even if its been paid off for a decade, have kept stuff to show I've paid it off but I'm managing that a lot better now.
I love your rainbow 🌈 shirt. Great job! Paper use to be the bane of my existence. I use the touch once method and for me, this works great. When the mail comes in, I go through it right away and recycle ♻️ all envelopes and junk mail. Bills get paid and filed, not lost. When I got a PO Box it became even easier because they have a recycling bin and half the paper isn’t even brought into the house.
I bought a scanner and uploaded my paperwork to files on my computer. You can't do that with receipts, but payment records, tax records, etc. you can do. Just a suggestion for later on when you are the Queen of Organization!!! You are getting there! You are doing awesome!
Paperwork is an area that is difficult for most people even without hoarding problems. I found my paper the worst to sort through...yet the most satisfying once it was done. I went through it a second time and parted with even more of it. I listen to the Clutter Fairy on TH-cam and that helped clarify which bits are important and which bits aren't. I shouldn't find this area difficult at all as I work in a busy finance department and I organize everyone else there, but at home I had piles of paper building up. Once I got rid of the piles...they have not returned. If I open something...I won't leave it on the side. It goes in my handbag rather than it being on the kitchen side lol. That way, when I take 5 mins at work to sort my handbag, it goes straight in the recycling or shredding. There are only a few bits that need to be filed at home or actioned. 90 percent of paper clutter is just clutter and can go. Great work! That was one mammoth task!
Your anxiety mirrors mine when it comes to paper clutter. I have to go through my paper hoard and junk boxes soon. I'm not looking forward to it. Bless you!
I think you did amazing! Papers have been the most difficult to sort and go thru for me by far! I had 12 banker boxes of papers to sort its taken me 3 months i have 3 left. You did almost half that in a single day! I hope hubby has been supportive and encouraging on your Kon Mari journey as well!
Awe, thank you so much!!! It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through it 🤗😅 I would say the encouragement & love I get from my subscribers has been the most healing & keeping me motivated!!! I’m so grateful for your comments!! My hubby is supportive but very quiet as well! Lol
How are you defining a hoarder? I am just curious because I look at your videos and I just think anything but a hoarder. But we all know ourselves best. :) I am going to be filming me doing KonMari from start to finished...very nervous about it for sure! I have done clothes, books and papers and I always stop and move on to something else not wanting to do that again so I will be filming start to finish this month...so far I have only managed to film cleaning! haha stalling.
Actually, I should say “recovering hoarder!” Lol I was not this good at letting go a year ago. If I gave my stuff away, it would trigger panic attacks in me. Sometimes I still feel one coming on and I need to stop and do my “calm down” exercises for anxiety. (My hoarding stems from my anxiety). Now that I look back...it goes up and down. During bad times: I hoard more to keep myself “safe.” In good times (like now) it’s easier to let go! Best of luck in your decluttering!! I am fully cheering you on ♥️♥️♥️
@@ahoardersheart are you seeking therpy for the process of coping without needing stuff to feel safe? No judgment at all. I am so proud of you (and anyone) facing the struggles like this.
Yes! Inside house first and then garage!! I actually don’t think I’ve shown my garage yet 🤔 It’s just as bad as the basement!!! But I have full faith we can do this ♥️ Just little bit at a time!! I will be cheering you on!!
I’m pretty organised and fairly decluttered but need to declutter the papers too. And it’s causing me anxiety. So it’s only natural that you were extremely anxious over this because it’s a far bigger thing! Well done! You are eating the elephant one bite at a time.
I just stumbled upon your videos today...... I have watched at least six! Lol!! I have finally just admitted to myself that i am a hoarder...... i started on my decluttering journey about a month ago. I have to say, this one actually made me cry, because seeing all that paper really hits close to home for me! Paper is my biggest hoard by far! It is so hard, but I'm taking it day by day. Your videos are awesome! You are awesome! And, I hit subscribe after the first video I watched!!
I am both like I do better with paper vs the online. I do love writing my little checks. But I have been transitioning to the free bill pay, their stamp, their check and envelope.
Do you think if you sorted by year and then if called for may find it easier? I love the bill organiser it’s brilliant I’d love to get something like that.
I had this thought when you were talking about vision boards: what about a vision ROOM? you've been doing so well with these videos, and I wondered if there were spaces in your house that you felt represent your vision already, or that are pretty close? Maybe your house itself could be the "vision canvas" instead of creating another object or keeping other objects around to be a stand-in for that vision. Or maybe it could be a helpful thought exercise as you go through your things: does this item fit into the vision? Anyway, you're doing great and I'm very impressed by your paper progress! I think paper is really hard to get rid of, too. I'm so anti-paper I don't even use notebooks because I don't want to have to struggle to get rid of them later! I write down quotes and thoughts on my computer instead haha.
I love making vision boards on Pinterest! It stops me from keeping magazines, and it’s really easy to edit if my style changes. But I get the sensory aspect of touching the paper. I love scrapbooking so I keep a lot of paper, but Pinterest still helps. Of course, this tip doesn’t tackle documents or bills, but maybe Pinterest could be a creative outlet for you?
I find it amazing how you show how this is for you. How you think, how you feel, etc. I am not a real hoarder but i can relate in some ways to you. Keep going I love to watch this and I am very proud of how you are doing this.
OMGoodness! This is one of my craziest problems. I'm just starting the video. I understand the frustration and anxiety that comes with going through paperwork. I also have boxes of the hidden paperwork that's hidden from company. UGH Can't wait to see your way of doing this. You inspire me! Video is over and you did an amazing job!! I'm so ready to get started on paperwork. Thank you for sharing.
Hello lovely unicorn heart! 💜🦄 what a pretty rainbow today! in the process of watching...yes paper does give anxiety because the volume of it compared to the number of items..uggh..and I guess the problem as a hoarder is that there could really potentially be something important in the mix! I have the same humorous thought about security and my own mess! ha ha! and I do the same thing with magazines I keep them for vision boards which I start and perfectionism does not let me finish...Also the ikea catalogs for me are organisational inspirations, and the internet is not the same, as you said there must definitely be a sensory thing to this...I will also research it on my side...back to watching...by the way I think you did well to wait for the papers in the basement...they are very probably not as urgent/important/recent as the others, so they can wait right? I am also old school, I need to read things on paper rather than on screen and I use a paper agenda for my work appointments rather than my smartphone...WOW!!! You did absolutely great!!! and that was A LOT of stuff to go through!!! kudos!! HIP HIP HURRAY!!! 🎉🍾🎉
Your room is going to be a breeze when you get to it. I get so excited watching your progress. Do you have a goal for which you'd like to have a completely kon maried house? in regards to the pictures you like to keep for pictures is decorating and home ideas maybe you can pinterest or all. Its paperless, you can save ideas to certain categories which are kind of like creative boards. You can thumb through it to your hearts content and never have a sheet of paper that goes with it
Oh yes!!!! I do have a Pinterest account!!! Thank you, I’ll keep just that as Vision Board!!! I always joked and said “I can be a hoarder and pinned as much Happy pics as I like!!!” 😅🤗
@@ahoardersheart as you go through each room try setting aside other categories in piles. For example if you're working on makeup but have pull art supplies out of the way to get to it. Just put art supplies in a pile in that room so when that day comes art supplies will be in a place ready to find and tackle.
we keep everything from our mortgage. tax papers 7 years. the rest a year and then it goes away. mortgage stuff and long therm things we keep it in a binder or in our archive closet .. you've done it so well. if you find drawings and schoolpapers of the children difficult. You will go through that later with sentimentals. So do not worry about that. You are well on your way. be proud and take on the next stacks with confidence. you can do it, you have proven yourself. lots of love Ellen
Look into the Freedom Filer. I use it. I’m also a paper hoarder. When I do actually sort it, it’s super easy. Everything has a place and it self purges over time, kind of like your coupon booklet but way better. All you need to buy is the files and tabs to go with the Freedom Filer labels in your new filing cabinet that hubs is building you.
That’s a *really* good dent in paper! I know I’m still months behind in videos, but I wonder if konmarie is the best choice for you. I noticed you had a Fly Lady book. If you do the process correctly, first you go through your home decluttering. I believe she also talks about keeping one bin for sentimental for each family member. All that process can take a while and that’s okay, progress not perfection. Then you establish quick and easy cleaning routines, which include continual mini declutters. Also you could check out Pinterest for lots of organizing ideas (like cords, electronics etc) .
For long term papers I would recommend getting a small filing cabinet for the basement and sorting and storing it there. That way you can also sort and store papers at the end of the year you have to keep for a while bur will probably not need to look at anymore.
That’s a wonderful idea!!! Bonus once my hubby builds my new little “office desk” I’ll have that filing cabinet emptied out!! I’ll put it in there in the basement!!! Thank you!!
I organize taxpapers and similar in big envelopes. One years paper go into one envelope. And envelopes are in a drawer. As tax issies go old in 7 years, I can just burn the whole envelope at once. Contracts, work sertificates and such that needs to be saved forever have a folder in that same drawer.
As a child of a hoarder, I commend you for your courage. I also appreciate your candidness about what is happening for you mentally and emotionally and physically as you go through the process of passing on the joy. My mother has been working towards clean out/making her home manageable. When she asks for help I always go and help in any capacity. Watching your videos has given me an insight into how her mind works and is helping me be more gentle in my approach. I can honestly say, it seems like when a hoarder is REALLY ready for help they are definitely more open to help. There have been times when I went in to her home in the past and literally tossed everything, which was a disservice to my mother and I didn't understand that at the time. I look forward to a future video of your famies reactions to your progress! I also hope you are doing well with your no spend challenges! Those no spend challenges have made me analyze where I am spending and have been very helpful for me too!
Your message has fill my heart with so much joy ♥️ This is the exact intention of creating this channel and putting it all out there!! To help hoarders & non-hoarders understand the mentality behind it so they can heal together!!! Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️
This is definitely a win! Seeing all that paper to be recycled or shredded was so satisfying. Goodbye clutter :D
Whoo Hoo!!! Bye bye paper!!!
I am planning to take a tote or two that I have stuff to the brim with papers, to my sister's house this weekend while I dog sit. I started watching paper clutter videos tonight to help me prime my mind. They weren't doing the trick. So I decided to search using the word hoarder (my sister's word) and papers. I came across your video. I'm about halfway through. You're going through the Ikea catalogs and I start getting anxious and almost hyperventilating. I get it it's all what I intend to "sometime" ... Thank you. I'll keep watching.
Paper is one of the biggest sections of what I have. About three years ago, I got a sudden urge to work through old magazines and papers. I've noticed the process I used then is similar to yours - small sections and taking breaks whenever I started feeling anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, etc.
This process really worked for me and I've been thinking of trying to implement it in other areas, such as clothes. Slowly I've been letting go of some clothes - I have a recycle and donate bag, and a bag I want to sell. But I've only added things once I'm ready. Still very difficult!
Regarding my paper hoard, I managed to fit what once was stashed in a large box into a somewhat smaller one and let go of papers and magazines I had held on to for YEARS, since my teens. I think I had two to three recycle bags at the end of the day. I paged through all my magazines to see why I kept it. What I noticed is that I kept many magazines for a handful of articles or crosswords. So I just tore those out and fit them in one binder - I felt so proud. I haven't brought much in since then, I still have a lot of magazines I still want to read (but haven't, but I shall some day 😶).
I'm a paper hoarder I hate how this depletes me when I try to tackle the situation. I have old newspapers, magazines and letters, and note books. I understand. Others can say just throw it away. To a hoarder they have to touch every single paper. This sucks.
Thank you so much for being honest! So refreshing to see an organization video where the place isn’t already what I’d consider perfect. I relate to this so much!
I found this series while randomly flipping through cleaning videos (I like to watch them while doing my own cleaning!) and just wanted to say I'm really impressed with your commitment, and your positive attitude. From the outside, hoarding can sometimes seem mystifying, but I think we all experience a lot of these drives to different degrees. Thank you for sharing your experience, and helping me be a little more empathetic in the process. :)
I'm so proud of you facing your anxiety! It is not an easy thing to deal with. Your idea of taking small chunks at a time is awesome!
I hate paperwork and we get new papers in the mail every day. I try to immediately trash/recycle daily junk mail. Bills to be paid I like to put in my purse with my check register so I won't lose them or forget. Sometimes filing is a pain but it really only takes a minute so I try very hard to file the same day so papers aren't lost. You did a great job and now that you have a system in place it should hopefully be a lot easier to handle.
Thank you!!! Yes, I just need to keep up with on daily basis! Thank you so much for sharing that with me 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You got so much done! You're doing so amazing! When you were going through your house pointing out all the boxes of paper nestled in the corners it reminded me exactly of when I did that!
And what a beautiful recycle pile you had at the end!!
(Oh dear. The following is an insanely long comment... fair warning. No need to read it if you've already found a good organizing system that works for you.)
So you asked about systems people use for keeping paper.. here's mine. This is a paper organizing system that works for a hoarding mind. Ultra organized minimalist folks who aren't easily distracted by pretty things will likely give you all kinds of advice that will look very pretty in the short term, but just won't work, for you (or me). Been there, done that.
So here's my rough and ready paper filing system. (And most of this I got from a great book I love.)
1. Sentimental box: Kids drawings, old journals, misc that you will absolutely never be willing to get rid of but there is no practical purpose whatsoever for keeping. If you never took it out of the box it would not cause any problems in your life. I keep mine in the living room because I put things in here randomly as they come up. Like movie ticket stubs. But tucked away in my keeper trunk, I always I know exactly where they are, and I can pull them out if I get the blinding urge to stare at a bunch of old sentimental stuff.
2. The 'now' tray: Stuff you must absolutely deal with within the next month. Put it somewhere where you can easily get to it and where you see it everyday, likewherever you sort mail.
3. The 'maybe' box: so many 'maybes', so little time. This sits under my dining room table because that's where I sort mail.
This is a 'six month' trash can. That means every 6 months I pick up the top quarter of it, put it on the table, and put the restin the recycling bin, then I put the top quarter back in the Box. 90% of my keep items go in this box. Electric bills, credit card bills, ads for Stuff, receipts... Storage systems just don't work for hoarders because we keep everything if we're given half a chance. So don't give yourself a chance. This is the most important box. This is the box that changed my life. Now the stuff that used to be piled on all my tables and stuffed and millions of boxes around my house has a place to go.
(Oh, and if you're worried about putting credit card statements or ads for credit cards in this box, don't. Easy fix: put kitchen scraps and a tall glass of water into the bag with it when you throw it out... in the regular trash. Nobody's digging through that moldy disgusting mess. Plus, you're helping it biodegrade.)
4. Vital records files: Employment history, birth certificates, important dates, recipes, medical file, Insurance & property records. Also a folder for with details on each utility, credit, and bank account. Do not put the statements in these folders because you will never clear them out. Been there, done that. This is the stuff you might actually need in the long term future.
5. The Generously Sized 'To Be Filed' box (think double shoe box size): I have to be realistic about myself. When I have any piece of paper in my hand if it doesn't take me less than 5 seconds to put it away then I wont. that's why I keep this box in my living room. Also, my filing cabinet is not in my living room or by my desk. Optimally it would be, but even then I think I'd still need the 'to be filed' box. It's terribly easy to get distracted by more important things than filing a piece of paper. Put the to be filed box in your living room or wherever you do paperwork tasks, then carry it to your filing cabinet when it's time to file.
By using this system you'll know that everything in your to be filed box must be something you want to keep in your Vital Records files, so even if it takes you a month or two to get to filing it, it shouldn't fill up too quickly. (Um.. I may have let mine sit there for a year before. But no biggie, that's how long it took to fill it up.)
And that's it! Easy!
6. Ooh! Wait! Magazines!:
Put the magazines you want to read but not keep forever in your magazine bin, but upright, so you can see the spines. Then every time you take one out to flip through it put it back in your side of the bin when you're done with it. Gradually the ones farthest from you will become the ones you're not interested in anymore. Every month pull out a handful of them from the back and flip through to see if there's any of them you want to read now and put those back in the front, then recycle the rest of the handful. Tell yourself you're making room for new wonderful magazines and that you're only allowed to have as many magazines as will fit in your bin at one time, so if you want to buy a magazine you have to think which magazine am I willing to give up.
It's been about five years since I implemented this system - and I'm not buried under new boxes of paper and magazines, so it must work - at least for me. :)
Sorry about the long comment! Good luck!
I think you did a great job! And I love this last comment on a method of filing and storing! I love decluttering done from a hoarders POV, not a minimalists!
I've watched all your videos from day one. You are doing an awesome job and should be very proud of yourself))) And thank you for recycling and not just tossing all the paper.
Awe, thank you so so much for your encouragement & support!!! It really keeps me motivated!!! And yes, it would hurt my heart if I put all that in a landfill!!
Wow good work!! And remember: even if you have more paper in your house, just know that the work you have already done is done!! And thats great!
That is so true!!! Thank you for that reminder ♥️
I'm a little late watching this...but great video!! This has inspired me to declutter super old paperwork , thank youuu!
Binge watching day #3. I always tell my organizing clients. If you do not have itemized deductions or a business, the irs recommends keeping only the last 3 years. If itemized it’s 7 years. If it’s a business, forever!!!
Thank you so much! I know this is an older video, but as a child of hoarders, and struggling myself I appreciate this!
What a marathon effort. You did so well! Great job. I guess the biggest challenge is to keep on top of it from now on and not let it get to be such a huge task again. Good luck.
Yessss!! When I saw the mail come in every day I was like “Noooooo!” Stop the mail 🤣🤣 Got to keep up with it daily!
After my declutter game month I have been more understanding of my mother and she let me see her storage unit and I offered my support and I was an extra pair of hands for her and we can have coffee and breakfast together and we cab plan.
So how does your family react? On your efforts? Just curious :) you should be very proud of yourself
They are happy to see this far! I usually start but never finish! Lol
A Hoarder's Heart Look into Adult Female Aspergers, now that I think of it I noticed you had an Aspergers child book in your collection...Aspergers is hereditary.
Very impressive! My way to deal with paperwork is quite different. Even though I touch everything, I try to get rid off it as soon as possible. It was important to create a space for it for me as well!
I always look forward to your decluttering videos. I like the way you made and labeled different piles. You did awesome! 😁 💖
Awe, thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️ Your encouragement keeps me going!!!
I LOVE THIS!!! 😍 I am a visual person as well, and if I can't see it - I forget all about it. (Not a good thing - too many projects going on that I want to refer back to...) I have old magazines from the 1990's (Traditional Home - and I still like a certain classic style that I try to aim for) - old Coldwater Creek catalogs (before they reopened) because I like to look through them - I have vision boards for things - and have them all yet because they are vintage, I suppose. I see sets of back issues of old magazines and catalogs I have on Ebay for $$$. I have sold items online through an Etsy shop and on Ebay - but the fees and paperwork are kind of a pain. (Craigslist can be hit or miss for me.)
- Sheesh... am I a hoarder?! 😥 I don't think so... I just need to keep it all more organized.... and edit 5-10 things into a black plastic trash bag once a week or so... ( baby steps!) Dropping stuff off to a donation place is doable... but I kinda fear getting rid of something that I might need. ( A room to try and copy as we remodel our house...) It is nearly impossible to find photos online of certain interior designers whose classic work and style I love. Some have written books, thankfully... but most live on only in back issues of magazines. ~
Thanks for the upload... and the laugh... (someone with actual STUFF) and I'm just letting you know that I am SO with you!!! 😎
It’s okay to have anxiety and to do so well and not let your anxiety get the better of you.You are a strong woman.
Thank you so much my friend 🙏🏻♥️ Your sweet comments help keep my anxiety in check bc it fills my heart with happiness!
Paper is the worst. REALLY Well done! for tackling it.
I love every time that you post a new video. You have such a good attitude.
I go through my paper stuff once a blue moon and I have way too much. It's exhausting and overwhelming.
I'm finding everything hard at the moment. I have chronic pain and I get overwhelmed with the continuous home upkeep, finances are a big struggle too. I'm just feeling very ugh.
It's So hard to keep up with everything but I do a bit at a time. It's still too much.
Anyway thank you for sharing your video and for giving us all inspiration to keep on at it.
Anytime my friend 🙏🏻♥️ I pray for healing in your back. Just do what you can handle at each time! Baby steps still move us forward! I wish I lived closer so I could help you!
Paper clutter is so overwhelming for me! This video is helping
Oh good!!!! This makes me so happy 💜💗💜
Your family must feel such relief from the declutter. I hope you get praise everyday for your hard work.
Awe, thank you 🙏🏻♥️
So good ☺️ thanks for sharing.
I love that bill organiser, another great video, well done you did great💗i think you should leave basement last and only concentrate on your house just like you said😃😘😘
You are so right my friend!! Basement is grand finale!! Lol
In previous vids, you showed that you have essential oils. EO's are amazing for anxiety. These are just a few that I can think of off the top of my head. You can apply them topically if you wish, or just keep a diffuser going while you work. Lavender
, Roman Chamomile, Peppermint, Clary Sage, Ylang Ylang, Patchouli Oil, Geranium, Lemon, Rose Oil, Sandalwood, Valerian Root.....I am not a hoarder by any means so I do not understand the need to keep paper. The only papers that are NEEDED are receipts you used as deductions on your taxes (only need to keep 5 yrs at most of those too) vital statistics (SS cards, birth certs, marriage license etc) and only ONE MONTH of paid bills. All bills show your balance each and every month on the new statement. Everything can be found on line now, so no need to keep manuals etc. We have all our paper (family of 9) in one small (12"x12"x8") strong box. I also only kept "treasures" of my children that could be used or displayed.
Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️ Yes, I love my EO!! I just used up the rest of my “Peace & Calming!” I want to try Ylang Ylang and Patchouli too!!
November 2023. I like to make paper crafts. I make jewelry, cards, boxes, and flowers with paper. I have to limit the paper I keep. I made spiderwebs from old
books for Halloween this year. I've made flowers and baskets from old newspapers. Just recycle most of the paper that comes into your home. Tina, Al's wife
Thank-you for sharing . It took me two or three tries to watch this because my anxiety got so high. So proud of you! I like your receipt filing system . I might try that if I find an accordion folder in my hoard! Lol
This is amaaaaaaazing! You did so well and SO much. It’s alright you held onto everything you did. With my more sentimental paperwork I find that every time I go through it I am able to part with more. I just can’t do it in one go. And that’s OK :)
May 2023. My mom had over 200 cartons of papers. Every day, I toss all the junk mail. Tina, Al's wife
Also. You can keep the old school system with the paper bills but instead of writing the check and mail. Pull the bill, pay it online then file. You are just saving the step of check, envelope and stamp. That’s how I have my system set up. And I was able to stop buying so many checks. ❤️
also,GREAT JOB on the paper!! I will also recommend to revisit
The kids school work save piles periodically. I also saved EVERYTHING with my first kiddo and when we had to move from Japan back to the states, there was soooo much and it was a Japanese school and their work was so different. Especially these incredible craft projects. That took up a HUGE tub. We kept 3 of our favorite took pics of the rest and had to recycle the rest. It was sad but there was literally no room on our pack out for it. After that I started sorting through his papers and picked truly the BEST artwork and some of his Japanese calligraphy work. That was sooo hard. Now when unpacking their backpacks I now can only keep “the best” and recycle the rest. Your progression in this is ASTONISHING! I literally have clients who have seen counselors for years and haven’t made this much progress! So proud of you!!
Just found your channel. Love your dedication! You are an inspiration!❤️
An Idea 💡...Right before I leave to go get my grandson from school and wait in that long pick up line, I take any mail 📨📬📧 that hasn't been opened 📧💌 for the week. I sort it out, tear up unnecessary mail, put into a bag and throw it in the recycle trash bin♻️🗑 when I get home.
I have recently started throwing water 🚰💦into these papers and watch the ink wash out any important info identifying my families personal info.
I've seen my paper stashes disappear and makes me feel really great that progress was made & my time was not wasted just being idle in my vehicle. Try this! I even do it as I wait in my vehicle for my husbands drs. appointments. 📝📰📃🗞♻️🚮🗑
Those get rid of piles, put them in a box, and when you’re finished, throw them away.
What Ive started doing is after one week of bills/flyers/paper. I will go online and request for junk mail to be stopped coming to my house and bills to be sent online. It has helped cut down on paper waste and just keeps me more organized as well.
Put a "No Flyers/Junk Mail" sign on your mailbox. Will help decrease decisions and the urge to purchase
Thank for sharing that!! I’m going to do that! The junk mail drives me crazy!! Lol
I will say this and it applies to me, I need to go through books, old greeting cards, etc because I have found money I stashed away and forgot about it.
Paper Hoarder as well trying to get important information on the computer, either scan it or create an Excel Worksheet, it has to go. It has become so overwhelming, transferring it from room to room, or hiding the hoard in the basement is a disease. No one needs old pay stubs, old coupon books, old Bills or Newspapers and Magazine from decades ago.
I'm late to your vlog. For the children's things.take the backpack from their school year and put all the sentimental for the year in the backpack and then store the backpack. If your children like to shred and you're comfortable with it, let them have some fun shredding. Definitely need to let them sort their own things. If you're attached to certain things keep them until you feel you can discard them. You've really done great and I think a lot of people have hoarder tendencies but they don't have the anxiety about discarding. Keep up the good work.
Consider the "Freedom Filer" System although you do not need to buy their full product line; you can do the same system with your own two file drawers and hanging files [and manila folders, optional]. No need for your husband to build you any more furniture.
I am so completely inspired by your videos! The other day I binge watched your channel while I tackled a few areas myself. I'm avoiding the paper, but will get there soon. Keep up the great work, you got this!
Your comment has filled my heart with so much happiness ♥️ Thank you!!! I am cheering you on!!!!
btw you did great!
Thank you my friend 🙏🏻♥️
A lot of those things (like sentimental) , you can take photos of them and get rid of the actual paper.
You are doing a great job! I am getting motivated to tackle my own!
I wish I had the template for your "a few kind words" binder.
Banker boxes for long term storage and scan the school work and can save on a thumb drive or something just a thought
Good job! That was some serious sorting you had to go through... Love your videos :)
Awe, thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️ That means the world to me!!!
I love your top! Where did you get it?. You are doing a great job sorting your house xx
There is an APP called FLIPP that has all the flyers for your area online!
Great job, you are improving so much, congrats! Regarding the long-term files: We use the same kind of folder storage you use and decluttered with other kind of papers in it. It is easy accessible but also neatly stored away.
Brilliant!
I so needed this video. No one quite has enough paper to resignate with me.
Paper clutter was a thorn in my side!!! I just went through what I thought was all my paper and I ended up with 6 file boxes of stuff that needed to be shredded ( I currently have 2 left) but while going through my house I have found more! I found a bin of paper and mail from 2015 in my linen closet...what the heck...how did it end up in there? What was I thinking.
I have decided to put paper clutter on my schedule for Weds ( my anti-procrastination day) .
I don't get any more magazines. I go through the mail every day now and shred as it comes in.
Make your vision board on pinterest! Long term , find a place in your file cabinet.
I just realized that I’m a hoarder 😂 I do also have to touch every piece of paper before I can decide to throw it away or not.
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It is so satisfying and inspiring to see all decluttering, YOU ARE AMAZING! 😍
Awe ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you so so much!!!
And yessss...why do we have to touch everything 🤣🤣
Thank you for making me feel normal. Well done on all the decluttering.
We are normal my beautiful friend ❤️❤️ Hoarding Disorder is no longer a disability, it’s a different ability 💜🌈 🌟
I need the most inspiration to tackle the paper...I run a home business and the paper is everywhere, boxes in the basement, boxes in my office, a wall of filing cabinets...it all needs to be gone through, old bills recycled, the important ones organized. It's much more than what you had...the largest category in my house. I foundered in paper when I did Konmarie myself...still in progress.
Thank you for showing a large project in progress!
Wow! If it’s worse than mine then maybe do small sections at a time? This video was the HARDEST one for me yet!! Best of luck, I am cheering you on!!
@@ahoardersheart Thank you! I'm cheering you on!
Huge well done. You must be exhausted after that! I couldn't have managed that in one day. I break it down into smaller chunks.
An alternative to shredding is to have a small bonfire for the personal papers going out. We have a metal bucket we use if I have a lot to go out at once.
Paper is a nemesis of mine. As I've been in debt before, even if its been paid off for a decade, have kept stuff to show I've paid it off but I'm managing that a lot better now.
I love the bonfire idea!!! Thank you!! I was soooo tired after I recorded this one 😴 I really pushed myself!
I love your rainbow 🌈 shirt. Great job! Paper use to be the bane of my existence. I use the touch once method and for me, this works great. When the mail comes in, I go through it right away and recycle ♻️ all envelopes and junk mail. Bills get paid and filed, not lost. When I got a PO Box it became even easier because they have a recycling bin and half the paper isn’t even brought into the house.
I bought a scanner and uploaded my paperwork to files on my computer. You can't do that with receipts, but payment records, tax records, etc. you can do. Just a suggestion for later on when you are the Queen of Organization!!! You are getting there! You are doing awesome!
Oh my goodness! So much paper! Good on you for doing this
Thank you my sweet friend 🙏🏻♥️
Paperwork is an area that is difficult for most people even without hoarding problems. I found my paper the worst to sort through...yet the most satisfying once it was done. I went through it a second time and parted with even more of it. I listen to the Clutter Fairy on TH-cam and that helped clarify which bits are important and which bits aren't. I shouldn't find this area difficult at all as I work in a busy finance department and I organize everyone else there, but at home I had piles of paper building up. Once I got rid of the piles...they have not returned. If I open something...I won't leave it on the side. It goes in my handbag rather than it being on the kitchen side lol. That way, when I take 5 mins at work to sort my handbag, it goes straight in the recycling or shredding. There are only a few bits that need to be filed at home or actioned. 90 percent of paper clutter is just clutter and can go. Great work! That was one mammoth task!
I agree do the house first then tackle the basement as a separate entity xx
October 2021. My mother hoarded papers and trash. You are doing a great job. Tina
Awe, thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ That means so much to me 💞
Thank you for this video. I am hooked!
Your anxiety mirrors mine when it comes to paper clutter. I have to go through my paper hoard and junk boxes soon. I'm not looking forward to it. Bless you!
I think you did amazing! Papers have been the most difficult to sort and go thru for me by far! I had 12 banker boxes of papers to sort its taken me 3 months i have 3 left. You did almost half that in a single day! I hope hubby has been supportive and encouraging on your Kon Mari journey as well!
Awe, thank you so much!!! It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through it 🤗😅 I would say the encouragement & love I get from my subscribers has been the most healing & keeping me motivated!!! I’m so grateful for your comments!! My hubby is supportive but very quiet as well! Lol
How are you defining a hoarder? I am just curious because I look at your videos and I just think anything but a hoarder. But we all know ourselves best. :) I am going to be filming me doing KonMari from start to finished...very nervous about it for sure! I have done clothes, books and papers and I always stop and move on to something else not wanting to do that again so I will be filming start to finish this month...so far I have only managed to film cleaning! haha stalling.
Actually, I should say “recovering hoarder!” Lol I was not this good at letting go a year ago. If I gave my stuff away, it would trigger panic attacks in me. Sometimes I still feel one coming on and I need to stop and do my “calm down” exercises for anxiety. (My hoarding stems from my anxiety). Now that I look back...it goes up and down. During bad times: I hoard more to keep myself “safe.” In good times (like now) it’s easier to let go! Best of luck in your decluttering!! I am fully cheering you on ♥️♥️♥️
@@ahoardersheart are you seeking therpy for the process of coping without needing stuff to feel safe? No judgment at all. I am so proud of you (and anyone) facing the struggles like this.
Forget the basement until you have finished upstairs
I've thought that too. If I had a multi floor home I believe I would do a floor at a time. I can barely handle my little old home.
Your vision board: pinterest
I LOVE that Bill organizer! That would help my ADHD challenges so much!
Congratulations on your progress, please be very proud of yourself. I love your sense of humour about the safe not being found in your hoarder house.
I am so glad you are doing this. Watching all that clutter stresses me out... good job!
Everytime I see your basement, I automatically think of my garage. 😫😭 I'm starting with inside the house and then I'll clean out the garage. I'll try!
Yes! Inside house first and then garage!! I actually don’t think I’ve shown my garage yet 🤔 It’s just as bad as the basement!!! But I have full faith we can do this ♥️ Just little bit at a time!! I will be cheering you on!!
paper is definitely one of the hardest things to go through because you just collect bits and pieces without even realizing it
Yessssss!!! Paper was definitely the hardest!!
Great Job!
I’m pretty organised and fairly decluttered but need to declutter the papers too. And it’s causing me anxiety. So it’s only natural that you were extremely anxious over this because it’s a far bigger thing! Well done! You are eating the elephant one bite at a time.
Thank you so much my friend 🙏🏻♥️
I just stumbled upon your videos today...... I have watched at least six! Lol!! I have finally just admitted to myself that i am a hoarder...... i started on my decluttering journey about a month ago. I have to say, this one actually made me cry, because seeing all that paper really hits close to home for me! Paper is my biggest hoard by far! It is so hard, but I'm taking it day by day. Your videos are awesome! You are awesome! And, I hit subscribe after the first video I watched!!
Oh my goodness...you are so awesome!!! Lol Thank you so so much!!! Your message made my heart so happy 💜💗💜
Awww, good to know I'm not alone with my paper anxiety. Thanks for sharing.
You are definitely not alone! A lot of people shared they feel the same way ♥️♥️
I am both like I do better with paper vs the online. I do love writing my little checks. But I have been transitioning to the free bill pay, their stamp, their check and envelope.
I think the bed bath and beyond coupons never expire someone said. Not sure if that's still true.
Love your jumper xx you’re doing so well xx
Do you think if you sorted by year and then if called for may find it easier? I love the bill organiser it’s brilliant I’d love to get something like that.
I had this thought when you were talking about vision boards: what about a vision ROOM? you've been doing so well with these videos, and I wondered if there were spaces in your house that you felt represent your vision already, or that are pretty close? Maybe your house itself could be the "vision canvas" instead of creating another object or keeping other objects around to be a stand-in for that vision. Or maybe it could be a helpful thought exercise as you go through your things: does this item fit into the vision? Anyway, you're doing great and I'm very impressed by your paper progress! I think paper is really hard to get rid of, too. I'm so anti-paper I don't even use notebooks because I don't want to have to struggle to get rid of them later! I write down quotes and thoughts on my computer instead haha.
Ohhhhh...I LOVE that idea!!! A vision ROOM ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you so much for sharing this with me!!!! I’m going to decide which room now!!
I love making vision boards on Pinterest! It stops me from keeping magazines, and it’s really easy to edit if my style changes. But I get the sensory aspect of touching the paper. I love scrapbooking so I keep a lot of paper, but Pinterest still helps. Of course, this tip doesn’t tackle documents or bills, but maybe Pinterest could be a creative outlet for you?
Yes!!! I have a Pinterest too ♥️ I always joked that I could hoard as many pins as I like 🤣
I find it amazing how you show how this is for you. How you think, how you feel, etc. I am not a real hoarder but i can relate in some ways to you. Keep going I love to watch this and I am very proud of how you are doing this.
Awe, thank you so so much 💜💗💜
Thank you, I feel less alone now. *hugs*
Great job!!!
Please do not light a candle
Island Chick 🤣🤣🤣 we survived!
OMGoodness! This is one of my craziest problems. I'm just starting the video. I understand the frustration and anxiety that comes with going through paperwork. I also have boxes of the hidden paperwork that's hidden from company. UGH Can't wait to see your way of doing this. You inspire me! Video is over and you did an amazing job!! I'm so ready to get started on paperwork. Thank you for sharing.
Yesssss!!! You got this 🌟🌟🌟
Hello lovely unicorn heart! 💜🦄 what a pretty rainbow today! in the process of watching...yes paper does give anxiety because the volume of it compared to the number of items..uggh..and I guess the problem as a hoarder is that there could really potentially be something important in the mix! I have the same humorous thought about security and my own mess! ha ha! and I do the same thing with magazines I keep them for vision boards which I start and perfectionism does not let me finish...Also the ikea catalogs for me are organisational inspirations, and the internet is not the same, as you said there must definitely be a sensory thing to this...I will also research it on my side...back to watching...by the way I think you did well to wait for the papers in the basement...they are very probably not as urgent/important/recent as the others, so they can wait right? I am also old school, I need to read things on paper rather than on screen and I use a paper agenda for my work appointments rather than my smartphone...WOW!!! You did absolutely great!!! and that was A LOT of stuff to go through!!! kudos!! HIP HIP HURRAY!!! 🎉🍾🎉
Love the paper organiser!!!
Thank you so much my songbird 💙💙 Paper took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through!!! We can definitely do this together!!!
Hello darling. Too much touching. I’ll just look and toss. Well maybe I’ll touch and hold and keep. Lol Anxiety at its worst.
Yes, anxiety can be very hard, but encouraging each other sure does help ♥️♥️♥️
😂 You do the EXACT same thing I do with the Ikea catalogues!!
Lol, two peas in a pod 🤗
@@ahoardersheart This pea wants to be FREE! 😄
Me too and Laura Ashley catalogues and home magazines
Your room is going to be a breeze when you get to it. I get so excited watching your progress. Do you have a goal for which you'd like to have a completely kon maried house? in regards to the pictures you like to keep for pictures is decorating and home ideas maybe you can pinterest or all. Its paperless, you can save ideas to certain categories which are kind of like creative boards. You can thumb through it to your hearts content and never have a sheet of paper that goes with it
Oh yes!!!! I do have a Pinterest account!!! Thank you, I’ll keep just that as Vision Board!!! I always joked and said “I can be a hoarder and pinned as much Happy pics as I like!!!” 😅🤗
@@ahoardersheart as you go through each room try setting aside other categories in piles. For example if you're working on makeup but have pull art supplies out of the way to get to it. Just put art supplies in a pile in that room so when that day comes art supplies will be in a place ready to find and tackle.
Paper is the worst...I went through bins of it last year. It just takes so long!
Yesssss, Paper is my new nemesis!!! Lol
we keep everything from our mortgage. tax papers 7 years. the rest a year and then it goes away. mortgage stuff and long therm things we keep it in a binder or in our archive closet .. you've done it so well. if you find drawings and schoolpapers of the children difficult. You will go through that later with sentimentals. So do not worry about that. You are well on your way. be proud and take on the next stacks with confidence. you can do it, you have proven yourself. lots of love Ellen
Thank you so much for your love and support 🙏🏻♥️ It truly helps me during my journey!
@@ahoardersheart you're welcome, lots off love Ellen
Look into the Freedom Filer. I use it. I’m also a paper hoarder. When I do actually sort it, it’s super easy. Everything has a place and it self purges over time, kind of like your coupon booklet but way better. All you need to buy is the files and tabs to go with the Freedom Filer labels in your new filing cabinet that hubs is building you.
That’s a *really* good dent in paper!
I know I’m still months behind in videos, but I wonder if konmarie is the best choice for you. I noticed you had a Fly Lady book. If you do the process correctly, first you go through your home decluttering. I believe she also talks about keeping one bin for sentimental for each family member. All that process can take a while and that’s okay, progress not perfection. Then you establish quick and easy cleaning routines, which include continual mini declutters.
Also you could check out Pinterest for lots of organizing ideas (like cords, electronics etc) .
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For long term papers I would recommend getting a small filing cabinet for the basement and sorting and storing it there. That way you can also sort and store papers at the end of the year you have to keep for a while bur will probably not need to look at anymore.
That’s a wonderful idea!!! Bonus once my hubby builds my new little “office desk” I’ll have that filing cabinet emptied out!! I’ll put it in there in the basement!!! Thank you!!
I organize taxpapers and similar in big envelopes. One years paper go into one envelope. And envelopes are in a drawer. As tax issies go old in 7 years, I can just burn the whole envelope at once.
Contracts, work sertificates and such that needs to be saved forever have a folder in that same drawer.