As a child of a hoarder, I commend you for your courage. I also appreciate your candidness about what is happening for you mentally and emotionally and physically as you go through the process of passing on the joy. My mother has been working towards clean out/making her home manageable. When she asks for help I always go and help in any capacity. Watching your videos has given me an insight into how her mind works and is helping me be more gentle in my approach. I can honestly say, it seems like when a hoarder is REALLY ready for help they are definitely more open to help. There have been times when I went in to her home in the past and literally tossed everything, which was a disservice to my mother and I didn't understand that at the time. I look forward to a future video of your famies reactions to your progress! I also hope you are doing well with your no spend challenges! Those no spend challenges have made me analyze where I am spending and have been very helpful for me too!
Your message has fill my heart with so much joy ♥️ This is the exact intention of creating this channel and putting it all out there!! To help hoarders & non-hoarders understand the mentality behind it so they can heal together!!! Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️
Thank you so much for being honest! So refreshing to see an organization video where the place isn’t already what I’d consider perfect. I relate to this so much!
I am planning to take a tote or two that I have stuff to the brim with papers, to my sister's house this weekend while I dog sit. I started watching paper clutter videos tonight to help me prime my mind. They weren't doing the trick. So I decided to search using the word hoarder (my sister's word) and papers. I came across your video. I'm about halfway through. You're going through the Ikea catalogs and I start getting anxious and almost hyperventilating. I get it it's all what I intend to "sometime" ... Thank you. I'll keep watching.
I found this series while randomly flipping through cleaning videos (I like to watch them while doing my own cleaning!) and just wanted to say I'm really impressed with your commitment, and your positive attitude. From the outside, hoarding can sometimes seem mystifying, but I think we all experience a lot of these drives to different degrees. Thank you for sharing your experience, and helping me be a little more empathetic in the process. :)
Paper is one of the biggest sections of what I have. About three years ago, I got a sudden urge to work through old magazines and papers. I've noticed the process I used then is similar to yours - small sections and taking breaks whenever I started feeling anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, etc. This process really worked for me and I've been thinking of trying to implement it in other areas, such as clothes. Slowly I've been letting go of some clothes - I have a recycle and donate bag, and a bag I want to sell. But I've only added things once I'm ready. Still very difficult! Regarding my paper hoard, I managed to fit what once was stashed in a large box into a somewhat smaller one and let go of papers and magazines I had held on to for YEARS, since my teens. I think I had two to three recycle bags at the end of the day. I paged through all my magazines to see why I kept it. What I noticed is that I kept many magazines for a handful of articles or crosswords. So I just tore those out and fit them in one binder - I felt so proud. I haven't brought much in since then, I still have a lot of magazines I still want to read (but haven't, but I shall some day 😶).
This is amaaaaaaazing! You did so well and SO much. It’s alright you held onto everything you did. With my more sentimental paperwork I find that every time I go through it I am able to part with more. I just can’t do it in one go. And that’s OK :)
I've watched all your videos from day one. You are doing an awesome job and should be very proud of yourself))) And thank you for recycling and not just tossing all the paper.
Awe, thank you so so much for your encouragement & support!!! It really keeps me motivated!!! And yes, it would hurt my heart if I put all that in a landfill!!
After my declutter game month I have been more understanding of my mother and she let me see her storage unit and I offered my support and I was an extra pair of hands for her and we can have coffee and breakfast together and we cab plan.
You got so much done! You're doing so amazing! When you were going through your house pointing out all the boxes of paper nestled in the corners it reminded me exactly of when I did that! And what a beautiful recycle pile you had at the end!! (Oh dear. The following is an insanely long comment... fair warning. No need to read it if you've already found a good organizing system that works for you.) So you asked about systems people use for keeping paper.. here's mine. This is a paper organizing system that works for a hoarding mind. Ultra organized minimalist folks who aren't easily distracted by pretty things will likely give you all kinds of advice that will look very pretty in the short term, but just won't work, for you (or me). Been there, done that. So here's my rough and ready paper filing system. (And most of this I got from a great book I love.) 1. Sentimental box: Kids drawings, old journals, misc that you will absolutely never be willing to get rid of but there is no practical purpose whatsoever for keeping. If you never took it out of the box it would not cause any problems in your life. I keep mine in the living room because I put things in here randomly as they come up. Like movie ticket stubs. But tucked away in my keeper trunk, I always I know exactly where they are, and I can pull them out if I get the blinding urge to stare at a bunch of old sentimental stuff. 2. The 'now' tray: Stuff you must absolutely deal with within the next month. Put it somewhere where you can easily get to it and where you see it everyday, likewherever you sort mail. 3. The 'maybe' box: so many 'maybes', so little time. This sits under my dining room table because that's where I sort mail. This is a 'six month' trash can. That means every 6 months I pick up the top quarter of it, put it on the table, and put the restin the recycling bin, then I put the top quarter back in the Box. 90% of my keep items go in this box. Electric bills, credit card bills, ads for Stuff, receipts... Storage systems just don't work for hoarders because we keep everything if we're given half a chance. So don't give yourself a chance. This is the most important box. This is the box that changed my life. Now the stuff that used to be piled on all my tables and stuffed and millions of boxes around my house has a place to go. (Oh, and if you're worried about putting credit card statements or ads for credit cards in this box, don't. Easy fix: put kitchen scraps and a tall glass of water into the bag with it when you throw it out... in the regular trash. Nobody's digging through that moldy disgusting mess. Plus, you're helping it biodegrade.) 4. Vital records files: Employment history, birth certificates, important dates, recipes, medical file, Insurance & property records. Also a folder for with details on each utility, credit, and bank account. Do not put the statements in these folders because you will never clear them out. Been there, done that. This is the stuff you might actually need in the long term future. 5. The Generously Sized 'To Be Filed' box (think double shoe box size): I have to be realistic about myself. When I have any piece of paper in my hand if it doesn't take me less than 5 seconds to put it away then I wont. that's why I keep this box in my living room. Also, my filing cabinet is not in my living room or by my desk. Optimally it would be, but even then I think I'd still need the 'to be filed' box. It's terribly easy to get distracted by more important things than filing a piece of paper. Put the to be filed box in your living room or wherever you do paperwork tasks, then carry it to your filing cabinet when it's time to file. By using this system you'll know that everything in your to be filed box must be something you want to keep in your Vital Records files, so even if it takes you a month or two to get to filing it, it shouldn't fill up too quickly. (Um.. I may have let mine sit there for a year before. But no biggie, that's how long it took to fill it up.) And that's it! Easy! 6. Ooh! Wait! Magazines!: Put the magazines you want to read but not keep forever in your magazine bin, but upright, so you can see the spines. Then every time you take one out to flip through it put it back in your side of the bin when you're done with it. Gradually the ones farthest from you will become the ones you're not interested in anymore. Every month pull out a handful of them from the back and flip through to see if there's any of them you want to read now and put those back in the front, then recycle the rest of the handful. Tell yourself you're making room for new wonderful magazines and that you're only allowed to have as many magazines as will fit in your bin at one time, so if you want to buy a magazine you have to think which magazine am I willing to give up. It's been about five years since I implemented this system - and I'm not buried under new boxes of paper and magazines, so it must work - at least for me. :) Sorry about the long comment! Good luck!
I think you did a great job! And I love this last comment on a method of filing and storing! I love decluttering done from a hoarders POV, not a minimalists!
November 2023. I like to make paper crafts. I make jewelry, cards, boxes, and flowers with paper. I have to limit the paper I keep. I made spiderwebs from old books for Halloween this year. I've made flowers and baskets from old newspapers. Just recycle most of the paper that comes into your home. Tina, Al's wife
Thank-you for sharing . It took me two or three tries to watch this because my anxiety got so high. So proud of you! I like your receipt filing system . I might try that if I find an accordion folder in my hoard! Lol
Very impressive! My way to deal with paperwork is quite different. Even though I touch everything, I try to get rid off it as soon as possible. It was important to create a space for it for me as well!
I hate paperwork and we get new papers in the mail every day. I try to immediately trash/recycle daily junk mail. Bills to be paid I like to put in my purse with my check register so I won't lose them or forget. Sometimes filing is a pain but it really only takes a minute so I try very hard to file the same day so papers aren't lost. You did a great job and now that you have a system in place it should hopefully be a lot easier to handle.
Binge watching day #3. I always tell my organizing clients. If you do not have itemized deductions or a business, the irs recommends keeping only the last 3 years. If itemized it’s 7 years. If it’s a business, forever!!!
Paper is the worst. REALLY Well done! for tackling it. I love every time that you post a new video. You have such a good attitude. I go through my paper stuff once a blue moon and I have way too much. It's exhausting and overwhelming. I'm finding everything hard at the moment. I have chronic pain and I get overwhelmed with the continuous home upkeep, finances are a big struggle too. I'm just feeling very ugh. It's So hard to keep up with everything but I do a bit at a time. It's still too much. Anyway thank you for sharing your video and for giving us all inspiration to keep on at it.
Anytime my friend 🙏🏻♥️ I pray for healing in your back. Just do what you can handle at each time! Baby steps still move us forward! I wish I lived closer so I could help you!
Also. You can keep the old school system with the paper bills but instead of writing the check and mail. Pull the bill, pay it online then file. You are just saving the step of check, envelope and stamp. That’s how I have my system set up. And I was able to stop buying so many checks. ❤️ also,GREAT JOB on the paper!! I will also recommend to revisit The kids school work save piles periodically. I also saved EVERYTHING with my first kiddo and when we had to move from Japan back to the states, there was soooo much and it was a Japanese school and their work was so different. Especially these incredible craft projects. That took up a HUGE tub. We kept 3 of our favorite took pics of the rest and had to recycle the rest. It was sad but there was literally no room on our pack out for it. After that I started sorting through his papers and picked truly the BEST artwork and some of his Japanese calligraphy work. That was sooo hard. Now when unpacking their backpacks I now can only keep “the best” and recycle the rest. Your progression in this is ASTONISHING! I literally have clients who have seen counselors for years and haven’t made this much progress! So proud of you!!
I need the most inspiration to tackle the paper...I run a home business and the paper is everywhere, boxes in the basement, boxes in my office, a wall of filing cabinets...it all needs to be gone through, old bills recycled, the important ones organized. It's much more than what you had...the largest category in my house. I foundered in paper when I did Konmarie myself...still in progress. Thank you for showing a large project in progress!
What a marathon effort. You did so well! Great job. I guess the biggest challenge is to keep on top of it from now on and not let it get to be such a huge task again. Good luck.
I love your rainbow 🌈 shirt. Great job! Paper use to be the bane of my existence. I use the touch once method and for me, this works great. When the mail comes in, I go through it right away and recycle ♻️ all envelopes and junk mail. Bills get paid and filed, not lost. When I got a PO Box it became even easier because they have a recycling bin and half the paper isn’t even brought into the house.
I think you did amazing! Papers have been the most difficult to sort and go thru for me by far! I had 12 banker boxes of papers to sort its taken me 3 months i have 3 left. You did almost half that in a single day! I hope hubby has been supportive and encouraging on your Kon Mari journey as well!
Awe, thank you so much!!! It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through it 🤗😅 I would say the encouragement & love I get from my subscribers has been the most healing & keeping me motivated!!! I’m so grateful for your comments!! My hubby is supportive but very quiet as well! Lol
I am so completely inspired by your videos! The other day I binge watched your channel while I tackled a few areas myself. I'm avoiding the paper, but will get there soon. Keep up the great work, you got this!
I'm late to your vlog. For the children's things.take the backpack from their school year and put all the sentimental for the year in the backpack and then store the backpack. If your children like to shred and you're comfortable with it, let them have some fun shredding. Definitely need to let them sort their own things. If you're attached to certain things keep them until you feel you can discard them. You've really done great and I think a lot of people have hoarder tendencies but they don't have the anxiety about discarding. Keep up the good work.
What Ive started doing is after one week of bills/flyers/paper. I will go online and request for junk mail to be stopped coming to my house and bills to be sent online. It has helped cut down on paper waste and just keeps me more organized as well.
I bought a scanner and uploaded my paperwork to files on my computer. You can't do that with receipts, but payment records, tax records, etc. you can do. Just a suggestion for later on when you are the Queen of Organization!!! You are getting there! You are doing awesome!
I just stumbled upon your videos today...... I have watched at least six! Lol!! I have finally just admitted to myself that i am a hoarder...... i started on my decluttering journey about a month ago. I have to say, this one actually made me cry, because seeing all that paper really hits close to home for me! Paper is my biggest hoard by far! It is so hard, but I'm taking it day by day. Your videos are awesome! You are awesome! And, I hit subscribe after the first video I watched!!
I'm a paper hoarder I hate how this depletes me when I try to tackle the situation. I have old newspapers, magazines and letters, and note books. I understand. Others can say just throw it away. To a hoarder they have to touch every single paper. This sucks.
I find it amazing how you show how this is for you. How you think, how you feel, etc. I am not a real hoarder but i can relate in some ways to you. Keep going I love to watch this and I am very proud of how you are doing this.
Great job, you are improving so much, congrats! Regarding the long-term files: We use the same kind of folder storage you use and decluttered with other kind of papers in it. It is easy accessible but also neatly stored away.
I LOVE THIS!!! 😍 I am a visual person as well, and if I can't see it - I forget all about it. (Not a good thing - too many projects going on that I want to refer back to...) I have old magazines from the 1990's (Traditional Home - and I still like a certain classic style that I try to aim for) - old Coldwater Creek catalogs (before they reopened) because I like to look through them - I have vision boards for things - and have them all yet because they are vintage, I suppose. I see sets of back issues of old magazines and catalogs I have on Ebay for $$$. I have sold items online through an Etsy shop and on Ebay - but the fees and paperwork are kind of a pain. (Craigslist can be hit or miss for me.) - Sheesh... am I a hoarder?! 😥 I don't think so... I just need to keep it all more organized.... and edit 5-10 things into a black plastic trash bag once a week or so... ( baby steps!) Dropping stuff off to a donation place is doable... but I kinda fear getting rid of something that I might need. ( A room to try and copy as we remodel our house...) It is nearly impossible to find photos online of certain interior designers whose classic work and style I love. Some have written books, thankfully... but most live on only in back issues of magazines. ~ Thanks for the upload... and the laugh... (someone with actual STUFF) and I'm just letting you know that I am SO with you!!! 😎
Huge well done. You must be exhausted after that! I couldn't have managed that in one day. I break it down into smaller chunks. An alternative to shredding is to have a small bonfire for the personal papers going out. We have a metal bucket we use if I have a lot to go out at once. Paper is a nemesis of mine. As I've been in debt before, even if its been paid off for a decade, have kept stuff to show I've paid it off but I'm managing that a lot better now.
I just realized that I’m a hoarder 😂 I do also have to touch every piece of paper before I can decide to throw it away or not. * * It is so satisfying and inspiring to see all decluttering, YOU ARE AMAZING! 😍
Paper clutter was a thorn in my side!!! I just went through what I thought was all my paper and I ended up with 6 file boxes of stuff that needed to be shredded ( I currently have 2 left) but while going through my house I have found more! I found a bin of paper and mail from 2015 in my linen closet...what the heck...how did it end up in there? What was I thinking. I have decided to put paper clutter on my schedule for Weds ( my anti-procrastination day) . I don't get any more magazines. I go through the mail every day now and shred as it comes in. Make your vision board on pinterest! Long term , find a place in your file cabinet.
Paperwork is an area that is difficult for most people even without hoarding problems. I found my paper the worst to sort through...yet the most satisfying once it was done. I went through it a second time and parted with even more of it. I listen to the Clutter Fairy on TH-cam and that helped clarify which bits are important and which bits aren't. I shouldn't find this area difficult at all as I work in a busy finance department and I organize everyone else there, but at home I had piles of paper building up. Once I got rid of the piles...they have not returned. If I open something...I won't leave it on the side. It goes in my handbag rather than it being on the kitchen side lol. That way, when I take 5 mins at work to sort my handbag, it goes straight in the recycling or shredding. There are only a few bits that need to be filed at home or actioned. 90 percent of paper clutter is just clutter and can go. Great work! That was one mammoth task!
OMGoodness! This is one of my craziest problems. I'm just starting the video. I understand the frustration and anxiety that comes with going through paperwork. I also have boxes of the hidden paperwork that's hidden from company. UGH Can't wait to see your way of doing this. You inspire me! Video is over and you did an amazing job!! I'm so ready to get started on paperwork. Thank you for sharing.
I’m pretty organised and fairly decluttered but need to declutter the papers too. And it’s causing me anxiety. So it’s only natural that you were extremely anxious over this because it’s a far bigger thing! Well done! You are eating the elephant one bite at a time.
Consider the "Freedom Filer" System although you do not need to buy their full product line; you can do the same system with your own two file drawers and hanging files [and manila folders, optional]. No need for your husband to build you any more furniture.
I did this with the kids’ schoolwork over the winter! It was so satisfying to see how much I recycled. I had saved almost every paper and then we never looked at them. Now we have a small art stack for each kid and I can find them!!! It’s overwhelming, but you reclaimed so much space!
An Idea 💡...Right before I leave to go get my grandson from school and wait in that long pick up line, I take any mail 📨📬📧 that hasn't been opened 📧💌 for the week. I sort it out, tear up unnecessary mail, put into a bag and throw it in the recycle trash bin♻️🗑 when I get home. I have recently started throwing water 🚰💦into these papers and watch the ink wash out any important info identifying my families personal info. I've seen my paper stashes disappear and makes me feel really great that progress was made & my time was not wasted just being idle in my vehicle. Try this! I even do it as I wait in my vehicle for my husbands drs. appointments. 📝📰📃🗞♻️🚮🗑
I like how you explain the feelings behind why you keep things. I am similar, not necessarily hoarder but i have a LOT of collections i am moving thru. Youre doing great! 💕
You're doing great! So proud of you! You've motivated me(didn't think I was a hoarder, but after seeing your videos I'm rethinking that) to declutter so much! Thank you for sharing with us!
I am so bad at throwing out paper things, you did great with all of this stuff to get rid of. I love that bill organiser thing, so useful and clear when things are due. We did a massive sort out recently and I’ve kept a box of some longer term things related to health and stuff that probably won’t be needed to be accessed in a box in the corner of my wardrobe. Most of the long term stuff we tend to keep in a filing cabinet with a lock on the front that’s part of our desk, it’s one with a filing cabinet on either side and a surface on top of them so they’d only be empty otherwise anyway. We have had to reference some longer term things recently and it saved a lot of time. I always get paranoid about putting papers away and not being able to find them so it helps in that way too.
Well done, that was epic. I organized my fiancé's paperwork during the xmas hols. He's on top of most other things but there was paperwork stuffed randomly around his house. I truly understand your delight at seeing so much go, it's like a weight has been lifted. Now you know what you have and where everything is. Unfortunately we killed his shredder and I had to bring the rest to mine to shred. If you have a suitable outdoor container to burn it in that is definitely the quickest and easiest way.
I am amazed at the job you just did! Fabulous! I was actually working on paper today too! I have 3 children who are adults now. I have kept a couple of projects each of them did. I had all their report cards and school pictures. I created a box for each of them and gave it to them. I love your files where you keep track of your receipts. I have all mine , but just in a pile! Most of my bills are automatic payments and paperless online statements. It does reduce the amount of paper coming in. We are renovating our home , with the plan to sell and move back to my hometown where my family still lives I keep the receipts for materials in a plastic zip bag ( from Ikea)! I think you are doing an unbelievable job! You are inspiring me!💕💕
Your anxiety mirrors mine when it comes to paper clutter. I have to go through my paper hoard and junk boxes soon. I'm not looking forward to it. Bless you!
A Hoarder's Heart Look into Adult Female Aspergers, now that I think of it I noticed you had an Aspergers child book in your collection...Aspergers is hereditary.
I love that bill organiser, another great video, well done you did great💗i think you should leave basement last and only concentrate on your house just like you said😃😘😘
Sorting through paper is definitely one of the most difficult things. It's dangerous to throw something important away, only things like magazines, newspapers etc are easy! Wow and you did GREAT!!!
HUGE success 🎉 You've got some serious stamina! Going through papers wears me out quickly 😵 Sometimes I can only manage letting go of a few sheets at a time. I put them in a bag in the garage, and when the bag's full I get the satisfaction of dropping that heavy thing into the recycling bin & hearing a beautiful THUD 💥 Agree with you on the sensory thing. For Bed Bath & Beyond coupons, the minute one arrives I put it in an envelope I keep in my car seat pocket. That way they're all in one place & available whenever I go to BB&B. Thank you for always being an inspiration ✨
Oh wow, you did beautifully! paperwork always grows but never put them in a pile to look at later, if you're like me, later can be ages from now. LOL I love how you do you receipts and stuff, I might just try that as well!
Look into the Freedom Filer. I use it. I’m also a paper hoarder. When I do actually sort it, it’s super easy. Everything has a place and it self purges over time, kind of like your coupon booklet but way better. All you need to buy is the files and tabs to go with the Freedom Filer labels in your new filing cabinet that hubs is building you.
You should be so proud of yourself, I’m not a hoarder but I have a huge box in my loft fully to the brim with my children’s art work and school work so don’t be hard on yourself for keeping your it. I think you done really well and I can’t wait for your next vlog xx❤️❤️
Great job!! So proud of you working through it and doing it yourself. It is very interesting to see how your brain works. I am a fan of the hoarder show and may have some hoarder tendencies. But usually, come back around eventually and say, I haven't used this in how long...it has to be sold/donated. :) Keep up the great work.
That’s a *really* good dent in paper! I know I’m still months behind in videos, but I wonder if konmarie is the best choice for you. I noticed you had a Fly Lady book. If you do the process correctly, first you go through your home decluttering. I believe she also talks about keeping one bin for sentimental for each family member. All that process can take a while and that’s okay, progress not perfection. Then you establish quick and easy cleaning routines, which include continual mini declutters. Also you could check out Pinterest for lots of organizing ideas (like cords, electronics etc) .
You are doing great! Here are a few suggestions for the sentimental pile of papers. Scan the papers into the computer, discard the paper form, and organize the files on the computer, no physical space needed. Another way is use some empty photo albums or 3 ring binders with document protectors (you can also just hole punch them as well), Drop the pages in so when you do have time/space to organize/scrapbook they are all together. Hope this helps. Also would great for the schoolwork paper, create a binder for say 2nd grade and have the kids help you put it in the binder. Can be done immediately after school so to stay on top of it. :)
For long term papers I would recommend getting a small filing cabinet for the basement and sorting and storing it there. That way you can also sort and store papers at the end of the year you have to keep for a while bur will probably not need to look at anymore.
That’s a wonderful idea!!! Bonus once my hubby builds my new little “office desk” I’ll have that filing cabinet emptied out!! I’ll put it in there in the basement!!! Thank you!!
I organize taxpapers and similar in big envelopes. One years paper go into one envelope. And envelopes are in a drawer. As tax issies go old in 7 years, I can just burn the whole envelope at once. Contracts, work sertificates and such that needs to be saved forever have a folder in that same drawer.
Paper Hoarder as well trying to get important information on the computer, either scan it or create an Excel Worksheet, it has to go. It has become so overwhelming, transferring it from room to room, or hiding the hoard in the basement is a disease. No one needs old pay stubs, old coupon books, old Bills or Newspapers and Magazine from decades ago.
Won't have time to watch to whole vid until tomorrow, but Paper Sorting is, like, the WORST thing to sort. Even for those of us without anxiety or hording issues. It is slow and feels overwhelming, and you feel like you are making very little progress because the amount of time needed to read/skim each sheet compared to how much space is excavated by moving that one sheet is wildly disproportionate. You can do it!! Even if it means more paper sorting later in small batches. Excited to watch the vid later!
Interesting to know that paper is across the board the worst!! Lol It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through this one! And thank you so much for your kind encouragement!!! It really helps keep me motivated!!!
Do you think if you sorted by year and then if called for may find it easier? I love the bill organiser it’s brilliant I’d love to get something like that.
I will say this and it applies to me, I need to go through books, old greeting cards, etc because I have found money I stashed away and forgot about it.
Hello lovely unicorn heart! 💜🦄 what a pretty rainbow today! in the process of watching...yes paper does give anxiety because the volume of it compared to the number of items..uggh..and I guess the problem as a hoarder is that there could really potentially be something important in the mix! I have the same humorous thought about security and my own mess! ha ha! and I do the same thing with magazines I keep them for vision boards which I start and perfectionism does not let me finish...Also the ikea catalogs for me are organisational inspirations, and the internet is not the same, as you said there must definitely be a sensory thing to this...I will also research it on my side...back to watching...by the way I think you did well to wait for the papers in the basement...they are very probably not as urgent/important/recent as the others, so they can wait right? I am also old school, I need to read things on paper rather than on screen and I use a paper agenda for my work appointments rather than my smartphone...WOW!!! You did absolutely great!!! and that was A LOT of stuff to go through!!! kudos!! HIP HIP HURRAY!!! 🎉🍾🎉
As a child of a hoarder, I commend you for your courage. I also appreciate your candidness about what is happening for you mentally and emotionally and physically as you go through the process of passing on the joy. My mother has been working towards clean out/making her home manageable. When she asks for help I always go and help in any capacity. Watching your videos has given me an insight into how her mind works and is helping me be more gentle in my approach. I can honestly say, it seems like when a hoarder is REALLY ready for help they are definitely more open to help. There have been times when I went in to her home in the past and literally tossed everything, which was a disservice to my mother and I didn't understand that at the time. I look forward to a future video of your famies reactions to your progress! I also hope you are doing well with your no spend challenges! Those no spend challenges have made me analyze where I am spending and have been very helpful for me too!
Your message has fill my heart with so much joy ♥️ This is the exact intention of creating this channel and putting it all out there!! To help hoarders & non-hoarders understand the mentality behind it so they can heal together!!! Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️
Thank you so much! I know this is an older video, but as a child of hoarders, and struggling myself I appreciate this!
This is definitely a win! Seeing all that paper to be recycled or shredded was so satisfying. Goodbye clutter :D
Whoo Hoo!!! Bye bye paper!!!
I'm so proud of you facing your anxiety! It is not an easy thing to deal with. Your idea of taking small chunks at a time is awesome!
Thank you so much for being honest! So refreshing to see an organization video where the place isn’t already what I’d consider perfect. I relate to this so much!
I am planning to take a tote or two that I have stuff to the brim with papers, to my sister's house this weekend while I dog sit. I started watching paper clutter videos tonight to help me prime my mind. They weren't doing the trick. So I decided to search using the word hoarder (my sister's word) and papers. I came across your video. I'm about halfway through. You're going through the Ikea catalogs and I start getting anxious and almost hyperventilating. I get it it's all what I intend to "sometime" ... Thank you. I'll keep watching.
I so needed this video. No one quite has enough paper to resignate with me.
I found this series while randomly flipping through cleaning videos (I like to watch them while doing my own cleaning!) and just wanted to say I'm really impressed with your commitment, and your positive attitude. From the outside, hoarding can sometimes seem mystifying, but I think we all experience a lot of these drives to different degrees. Thank you for sharing your experience, and helping me be a little more empathetic in the process. :)
Paper is one of the biggest sections of what I have. About three years ago, I got a sudden urge to work through old magazines and papers. I've noticed the process I used then is similar to yours - small sections and taking breaks whenever I started feeling anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, etc.
This process really worked for me and I've been thinking of trying to implement it in other areas, such as clothes. Slowly I've been letting go of some clothes - I have a recycle and donate bag, and a bag I want to sell. But I've only added things once I'm ready. Still very difficult!
Regarding my paper hoard, I managed to fit what once was stashed in a large box into a somewhat smaller one and let go of papers and magazines I had held on to for YEARS, since my teens. I think I had two to three recycle bags at the end of the day. I paged through all my magazines to see why I kept it. What I noticed is that I kept many magazines for a handful of articles or crosswords. So I just tore those out and fit them in one binder - I felt so proud. I haven't brought much in since then, I still have a lot of magazines I still want to read (but haven't, but I shall some day 😶).
This is amaaaaaaazing! You did so well and SO much. It’s alright you held onto everything you did. With my more sentimental paperwork I find that every time I go through it I am able to part with more. I just can’t do it in one go. And that’s OK :)
I've watched all your videos from day one. You are doing an awesome job and should be very proud of yourself))) And thank you for recycling and not just tossing all the paper.
Awe, thank you so so much for your encouragement & support!!! It really keeps me motivated!!! And yes, it would hurt my heart if I put all that in a landfill!!
Your family must feel such relief from the declutter. I hope you get praise everyday for your hard work.
Awe, thank you 🙏🏻♥️
After my declutter game month I have been more understanding of my mother and she let me see her storage unit and I offered my support and I was an extra pair of hands for her and we can have coffee and breakfast together and we cab plan.
Wow good work!! And remember: even if you have more paper in your house, just know that the work you have already done is done!! And thats great!
That is so true!!! Thank you for that reminder ♥️
You got so much done! You're doing so amazing! When you were going through your house pointing out all the boxes of paper nestled in the corners it reminded me exactly of when I did that!
And what a beautiful recycle pile you had at the end!!
(Oh dear. The following is an insanely long comment... fair warning. No need to read it if you've already found a good organizing system that works for you.)
So you asked about systems people use for keeping paper.. here's mine. This is a paper organizing system that works for a hoarding mind. Ultra organized minimalist folks who aren't easily distracted by pretty things will likely give you all kinds of advice that will look very pretty in the short term, but just won't work, for you (or me). Been there, done that.
So here's my rough and ready paper filing system. (And most of this I got from a great book I love.)
1. Sentimental box: Kids drawings, old journals, misc that you will absolutely never be willing to get rid of but there is no practical purpose whatsoever for keeping. If you never took it out of the box it would not cause any problems in your life. I keep mine in the living room because I put things in here randomly as they come up. Like movie ticket stubs. But tucked away in my keeper trunk, I always I know exactly where they are, and I can pull them out if I get the blinding urge to stare at a bunch of old sentimental stuff.
2. The 'now' tray: Stuff you must absolutely deal with within the next month. Put it somewhere where you can easily get to it and where you see it everyday, likewherever you sort mail.
3. The 'maybe' box: so many 'maybes', so little time. This sits under my dining room table because that's where I sort mail.
This is a 'six month' trash can. That means every 6 months I pick up the top quarter of it, put it on the table, and put the restin the recycling bin, then I put the top quarter back in the Box. 90% of my keep items go in this box. Electric bills, credit card bills, ads for Stuff, receipts... Storage systems just don't work for hoarders because we keep everything if we're given half a chance. So don't give yourself a chance. This is the most important box. This is the box that changed my life. Now the stuff that used to be piled on all my tables and stuffed and millions of boxes around my house has a place to go.
(Oh, and if you're worried about putting credit card statements or ads for credit cards in this box, don't. Easy fix: put kitchen scraps and a tall glass of water into the bag with it when you throw it out... in the regular trash. Nobody's digging through that moldy disgusting mess. Plus, you're helping it biodegrade.)
4. Vital records files: Employment history, birth certificates, important dates, recipes, medical file, Insurance & property records. Also a folder for with details on each utility, credit, and bank account. Do not put the statements in these folders because you will never clear them out. Been there, done that. This is the stuff you might actually need in the long term future.
5. The Generously Sized 'To Be Filed' box (think double shoe box size): I have to be realistic about myself. When I have any piece of paper in my hand if it doesn't take me less than 5 seconds to put it away then I wont. that's why I keep this box in my living room. Also, my filing cabinet is not in my living room or by my desk. Optimally it would be, but even then I think I'd still need the 'to be filed' box. It's terribly easy to get distracted by more important things than filing a piece of paper. Put the to be filed box in your living room or wherever you do paperwork tasks, then carry it to your filing cabinet when it's time to file.
By using this system you'll know that everything in your to be filed box must be something you want to keep in your Vital Records files, so even if it takes you a month or two to get to filing it, it shouldn't fill up too quickly. (Um.. I may have let mine sit there for a year before. But no biggie, that's how long it took to fill it up.)
And that's it! Easy!
6. Ooh! Wait! Magazines!:
Put the magazines you want to read but not keep forever in your magazine bin, but upright, so you can see the spines. Then every time you take one out to flip through it put it back in your side of the bin when you're done with it. Gradually the ones farthest from you will become the ones you're not interested in anymore. Every month pull out a handful of them from the back and flip through to see if there's any of them you want to read now and put those back in the front, then recycle the rest of the handful. Tell yourself you're making room for new wonderful magazines and that you're only allowed to have as many magazines as will fit in your bin at one time, so if you want to buy a magazine you have to think which magazine am I willing to give up.
It's been about five years since I implemented this system - and I'm not buried under new boxes of paper and magazines, so it must work - at least for me. :)
Sorry about the long comment! Good luck!
I think you did a great job! And I love this last comment on a method of filing and storing! I love decluttering done from a hoarders POV, not a minimalists!
Thank you for making me feel normal. Well done on all the decluttering.
We are normal my beautiful friend ❤️❤️ Hoarding Disorder is no longer a disability, it’s a different ability 💜🌈 🌟
It’s okay to have anxiety and to do so well and not let your anxiety get the better of you.You are a strong woman.
Thank you so much my friend 🙏🏻♥️ Your sweet comments help keep my anxiety in check bc it fills my heart with happiness!
November 2023. I like to make paper crafts. I make jewelry, cards, boxes, and flowers with paper. I have to limit the paper I keep. I made spiderwebs from old
books for Halloween this year. I've made flowers and baskets from old newspapers. Just recycle most of the paper that comes into your home. Tina, Al's wife
I'm a little late watching this...but great video!! This has inspired me to declutter super old paperwork , thank youuu!
October 2021. My mother hoarded papers and trash. You are doing a great job. Tina
Awe, thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ That means so much to me 💞
Paper clutter is so overwhelming for me! This video is helping
Oh good!!!! This makes me so happy 💜💗💜
Thank-you for sharing . It took me two or three tries to watch this because my anxiety got so high. So proud of you! I like your receipt filing system . I might try that if I find an accordion folder in my hoard! Lol
Very impressive! My way to deal with paperwork is quite different. Even though I touch everything, I try to get rid off it as soon as possible. It was important to create a space for it for me as well!
I hate paperwork and we get new papers in the mail every day. I try to immediately trash/recycle daily junk mail. Bills to be paid I like to put in my purse with my check register so I won't lose them or forget. Sometimes filing is a pain but it really only takes a minute so I try very hard to file the same day so papers aren't lost. You did a great job and now that you have a system in place it should hopefully be a lot easier to handle.
Thank you!!! Yes, I just need to keep up with on daily basis! Thank you so much for sharing that with me 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Binge watching day #3. I always tell my organizing clients. If you do not have itemized deductions or a business, the irs recommends keeping only the last 3 years. If itemized it’s 7 years. If it’s a business, forever!!!
Paper is the worst. REALLY Well done! for tackling it.
I love every time that you post a new video. You have such a good attitude.
I go through my paper stuff once a blue moon and I have way too much. It's exhausting and overwhelming.
I'm finding everything hard at the moment. I have chronic pain and I get overwhelmed with the continuous home upkeep, finances are a big struggle too. I'm just feeling very ugh.
It's So hard to keep up with everything but I do a bit at a time. It's still too much.
Anyway thank you for sharing your video and for giving us all inspiration to keep on at it.
Anytime my friend 🙏🏻♥️ I pray for healing in your back. Just do what you can handle at each time! Baby steps still move us forward! I wish I lived closer so I could help you!
Also. You can keep the old school system with the paper bills but instead of writing the check and mail. Pull the bill, pay it online then file. You are just saving the step of check, envelope and stamp. That’s how I have my system set up. And I was able to stop buying so many checks. ❤️
also,GREAT JOB on the paper!! I will also recommend to revisit
The kids school work save piles periodically. I also saved EVERYTHING with my first kiddo and when we had to move from Japan back to the states, there was soooo much and it was a Japanese school and their work was so different. Especially these incredible craft projects. That took up a HUGE tub. We kept 3 of our favorite took pics of the rest and had to recycle the rest. It was sad but there was literally no room on our pack out for it. After that I started sorting through his papers and picked truly the BEST artwork and some of his Japanese calligraphy work. That was sooo hard. Now when unpacking their backpacks I now can only keep “the best” and recycle the rest. Your progression in this is ASTONISHING! I literally have clients who have seen counselors for years and haven’t made this much progress! So proud of you!!
Congratulations on your progress, please be very proud of yourself. I love your sense of humour about the safe not being found in your hoarder house.
So good ☺️ thanks for sharing.
A lot of those things (like sentimental) , you can take photos of them and get rid of the actual paper.
You are doing a great job! I am getting motivated to tackle my own!
I need the most inspiration to tackle the paper...I run a home business and the paper is everywhere, boxes in the basement, boxes in my office, a wall of filing cabinets...it all needs to be gone through, old bills recycled, the important ones organized. It's much more than what you had...the largest category in my house. I foundered in paper when I did Konmarie myself...still in progress.
Thank you for showing a large project in progress!
Wow! If it’s worse than mine then maybe do small sections at a time? This video was the HARDEST one for me yet!! Best of luck, I am cheering you on!!
@@ahoardersheart Thank you! I'm cheering you on!
What a marathon effort. You did so well! Great job. I guess the biggest challenge is to keep on top of it from now on and not let it get to be such a huge task again. Good luck.
Yessss!! When I saw the mail come in every day I was like “Noooooo!” Stop the mail 🤣🤣 Got to keep up with it daily!
I love your rainbow 🌈 shirt. Great job! Paper use to be the bane of my existence. I use the touch once method and for me, this works great. When the mail comes in, I go through it right away and recycle ♻️ all envelopes and junk mail. Bills get paid and filed, not lost. When I got a PO Box it became even easier because they have a recycling bin and half the paper isn’t even brought into the house.
I wish I had the template for your "a few kind words" binder.
Brilliant!
I think you did amazing! Papers have been the most difficult to sort and go thru for me by far! I had 12 banker boxes of papers to sort its taken me 3 months i have 3 left. You did almost half that in a single day! I hope hubby has been supportive and encouraging on your Kon Mari journey as well!
Awe, thank you so much!!! It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through it 🤗😅 I would say the encouragement & love I get from my subscribers has been the most healing & keeping me motivated!!! I’m so grateful for your comments!! My hubby is supportive but very quiet as well! Lol
I am so glad you are doing this. Watching all that clutter stresses me out... good job!
I always look forward to your decluttering videos. I like the way you made and labeled different piles. You did awesome! 😁 💖
Awe, thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️ Your encouragement keeps me going!!!
I am so completely inspired by your videos! The other day I binge watched your channel while I tackled a few areas myself. I'm avoiding the paper, but will get there soon. Keep up the great work, you got this!
Your comment has filled my heart with so much happiness ♥️ Thank you!!! I am cheering you on!!!!
Just found your channel. Love your dedication! You are an inspiration!❤️
Oh my goodness! So much paper! Good on you for doing this
Thank you my sweet friend 🙏🏻♥️
I'm late to your vlog. For the children's things.take the backpack from their school year and put all the sentimental for the year in the backpack and then store the backpack. If your children like to shred and you're comfortable with it, let them have some fun shredding. Definitely need to let them sort their own things. If you're attached to certain things keep them until you feel you can discard them. You've really done great and I think a lot of people have hoarder tendencies but they don't have the anxiety about discarding. Keep up the good work.
Thank you for this video. I am hooked!
What Ive started doing is after one week of bills/flyers/paper. I will go online and request for junk mail to be stopped coming to my house and bills to be sent online. It has helped cut down on paper waste and just keeps me more organized as well.
Put a "No Flyers/Junk Mail" sign on your mailbox. Will help decrease decisions and the urge to purchase
Thank for sharing that!! I’m going to do that! The junk mail drives me crazy!! Lol
I bought a scanner and uploaded my paperwork to files on my computer. You can't do that with receipts, but payment records, tax records, etc. you can do. Just a suggestion for later on when you are the Queen of Organization!!! You are getting there! You are doing awesome!
I just stumbled upon your videos today...... I have watched at least six! Lol!! I have finally just admitted to myself that i am a hoarder...... i started on my decluttering journey about a month ago. I have to say, this one actually made me cry, because seeing all that paper really hits close to home for me! Paper is my biggest hoard by far! It is so hard, but I'm taking it day by day. Your videos are awesome! You are awesome! And, I hit subscribe after the first video I watched!!
Oh my goodness...you are so awesome!!! Lol Thank you so so much!!! Your message made my heart so happy 💜💗💜
I'm a paper hoarder I hate how this depletes me when I try to tackle the situation. I have old newspapers, magazines and letters, and note books. I understand. Others can say just throw it away. To a hoarder they have to touch every single paper. This sucks.
I find it amazing how you show how this is for you. How you think, how you feel, etc. I am not a real hoarder but i can relate in some ways to you. Keep going I love to watch this and I am very proud of how you are doing this.
Awe, thank you so so much 💜💗💜
Great job, you are improving so much, congrats! Regarding the long-term files: We use the same kind of folder storage you use and decluttered with other kind of papers in it. It is easy accessible but also neatly stored away.
I LOVE THIS!!! 😍 I am a visual person as well, and if I can't see it - I forget all about it. (Not a good thing - too many projects going on that I want to refer back to...) I have old magazines from the 1990's (Traditional Home - and I still like a certain classic style that I try to aim for) - old Coldwater Creek catalogs (before they reopened) because I like to look through them - I have vision boards for things - and have them all yet because they are vintage, I suppose. I see sets of back issues of old magazines and catalogs I have on Ebay for $$$. I have sold items online through an Etsy shop and on Ebay - but the fees and paperwork are kind of a pain. (Craigslist can be hit or miss for me.)
- Sheesh... am I a hoarder?! 😥 I don't think so... I just need to keep it all more organized.... and edit 5-10 things into a black plastic trash bag once a week or so... ( baby steps!) Dropping stuff off to a donation place is doable... but I kinda fear getting rid of something that I might need. ( A room to try and copy as we remodel our house...) It is nearly impossible to find photos online of certain interior designers whose classic work and style I love. Some have written books, thankfully... but most live on only in back issues of magazines. ~
Thanks for the upload... and the laugh... (someone with actual STUFF) and I'm just letting you know that I am SO with you!!! 😎
Awww, good to know I'm not alone with my paper anxiety. Thanks for sharing.
You are definitely not alone! A lot of people shared they feel the same way ♥️♥️
Love your jumper xx you’re doing so well xx
Huge well done. You must be exhausted after that! I couldn't have managed that in one day. I break it down into smaller chunks.
An alternative to shredding is to have a small bonfire for the personal papers going out. We have a metal bucket we use if I have a lot to go out at once.
Paper is a nemesis of mine. As I've been in debt before, even if its been paid off for a decade, have kept stuff to show I've paid it off but I'm managing that a lot better now.
I love the bonfire idea!!! Thank you!! I was soooo tired after I recorded this one 😴 I really pushed myself!
Good job! That was some serious sorting you had to go through... Love your videos :)
Awe, thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️ That means the world to me!!!
I LOVE that Bill organizer! That would help my ADHD challenges so much!
I just realized that I’m a hoarder 😂 I do also have to touch every piece of paper before I can decide to throw it away or not.
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It is so satisfying and inspiring to see all decluttering, YOU ARE AMAZING! 😍
Awe ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you so so much!!!
And yessss...why do we have to touch everything 🤣🤣
I agree do the house first then tackle the basement as a separate entity xx
Paper clutter was a thorn in my side!!! I just went through what I thought was all my paper and I ended up with 6 file boxes of stuff that needed to be shredded ( I currently have 2 left) but while going through my house I have found more! I found a bin of paper and mail from 2015 in my linen closet...what the heck...how did it end up in there? What was I thinking.
I have decided to put paper clutter on my schedule for Weds ( my anti-procrastination day) .
I don't get any more magazines. I go through the mail every day now and shred as it comes in.
Make your vision board on pinterest! Long term , find a place in your file cabinet.
Paperwork is an area that is difficult for most people even without hoarding problems. I found my paper the worst to sort through...yet the most satisfying once it was done. I went through it a second time and parted with even more of it. I listen to the Clutter Fairy on TH-cam and that helped clarify which bits are important and which bits aren't. I shouldn't find this area difficult at all as I work in a busy finance department and I organize everyone else there, but at home I had piles of paper building up. Once I got rid of the piles...they have not returned. If I open something...I won't leave it on the side. It goes in my handbag rather than it being on the kitchen side lol. That way, when I take 5 mins at work to sort my handbag, it goes straight in the recycling or shredding. There are only a few bits that need to be filed at home or actioned. 90 percent of paper clutter is just clutter and can go. Great work! That was one mammoth task!
OMGoodness! This is one of my craziest problems. I'm just starting the video. I understand the frustration and anxiety that comes with going through paperwork. I also have boxes of the hidden paperwork that's hidden from company. UGH Can't wait to see your way of doing this. You inspire me! Video is over and you did an amazing job!! I'm so ready to get started on paperwork. Thank you for sharing.
Yesssss!!! You got this 🌟🌟🌟
I’m pretty organised and fairly decluttered but need to declutter the papers too. And it’s causing me anxiety. So it’s only natural that you were extremely anxious over this because it’s a far bigger thing! Well done! You are eating the elephant one bite at a time.
Thank you so much my friend 🙏🏻♥️
Consider the "Freedom Filer" System although you do not need to buy their full product line; you can do the same system with your own two file drawers and hanging files [and manila folders, optional]. No need for your husband to build you any more furniture.
I did this with the kids’ schoolwork over the winter! It was so satisfying to see how much I recycled. I had saved almost every paper and then we never looked at them. Now we have a small art stack for each kid and I can find them!!! It’s overwhelming, but you reclaimed so much space!
That’s awesome!!! I’m so proud you did that!!! I know what a big job that is!!! Lol
😂 You do the EXACT same thing I do with the Ikea catalogues!!
Lol, two peas in a pod 🤗
@@ahoardersheart This pea wants to be FREE! 😄
Me too and Laura Ashley catalogues and home magazines
An Idea 💡...Right before I leave to go get my grandson from school and wait in that long pick up line, I take any mail 📨📬📧 that hasn't been opened 📧💌 for the week. I sort it out, tear up unnecessary mail, put into a bag and throw it in the recycle trash bin♻️🗑 when I get home.
I have recently started throwing water 🚰💦into these papers and watch the ink wash out any important info identifying my families personal info.
I've seen my paper stashes disappear and makes me feel really great that progress was made & my time was not wasted just being idle in my vehicle. Try this! I even do it as I wait in my vehicle for my husbands drs. appointments. 📝📰📃🗞♻️🚮🗑
I love your top! Where did you get it?. You are doing a great job sorting your house xx
Banker boxes for long term storage and scan the school work and can save on a thumb drive or something just a thought
I like how you explain the feelings behind why you keep things. I am similar, not necessarily hoarder but i have a LOT of collections i am moving thru. Youre doing great! 💕
You're doing great! So proud of you! You've motivated me(didn't think I was a hoarder, but after seeing your videos I'm rethinking that) to declutter so much! Thank you for sharing with us!
Lol!!! You can totally do it!!! I’ll be cheering you on!!!
I am so bad at throwing out paper things, you did great with all of this stuff to get rid of. I love that bill organiser thing, so useful and clear when things are due.
We did a massive sort out recently and I’ve kept a box of some longer term things related to health and stuff that probably won’t be needed to be accessed in a box in the corner of my wardrobe. Most of the long term stuff we tend to keep in a filing cabinet with a lock on the front that’s part of our desk, it’s one with a filing cabinet on either side and a surface on top of them so they’d only be empty otherwise anyway. We have had to reference some longer term things recently and it saved a lot of time. I always get paranoid about putting papers away and not being able to find them so it helps in that way too.
I’m so glad you did a big paper declutter too! I also worry about throwing out a paper that I need! But so far I’ve been good!! We can do this ♥️♥️
Well done, that was epic. I organized my fiancé's paperwork during the xmas hols. He's on top of most other things but there was paperwork stuffed randomly around his house. I truly understand your delight at seeing so much go, it's like a weight has been lifted. Now you know what you have and where everything is. Unfortunately we killed his shredder and I had to bring the rest to mine to shred. If you have a suitable outdoor container to burn it in that is definitely the quickest and easiest way.
Thank you!!! I wish I had a fire pit or big metal tin to burn it...that would be so much easier!!!
I am amazed at the job you just did! Fabulous! I was actually working on paper today too! I have 3 children who are adults now. I have kept a couple of projects each of them did. I had all their report cards and school pictures. I created a box for each of them and gave it to them. I love your files where you keep track of your receipts. I have all mine , but just in a pile!
Most of my bills are automatic payments and paperless online statements. It does reduce the amount of paper coming in. We are renovating our home , with the plan to sell and move back to my hometown where my family still lives I keep the receipts for materials in a plastic zip bag ( from Ikea)!
I think you are doing an unbelievable job! You are inspiring me!💕💕
Thank you so so much 🙏🏻♥️ Your sweet message keeps me motivated to keep going!! I’m so grateful for that 🌟
Thanks for adding in the time lapse! Glad to get to see you sort
Thank you!!! I’m learning how to edit videos better!!
Another great video! Can't wait for the next instalment of the series. Well done again you did so well xx
Thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️
Your anxiety mirrors mine when it comes to paper clutter. I have to go through my paper hoard and junk boxes soon. I'm not looking forward to it. Bless you!
So how does your family react? On your efforts? Just curious :) you should be very proud of yourself
They are happy to see this far! I usually start but never finish! Lol
A Hoarder's Heart Look into Adult Female Aspergers, now that I think of it I noticed you had an Aspergers child book in your collection...Aspergers is hereditary.
I love that bill organiser, another great video, well done you did great💗i think you should leave basement last and only concentrate on your house just like you said😃😘😘
You are so right my friend!! Basement is grand finale!! Lol
Sorting through paper is definitely one of the most difficult things. It's dangerous to throw something important away, only things like magazines, newspapers etc are easy! Wow and you did GREAT!!!
Thank you so much my friend ♥️♥️
HUGE success 🎉 You've got some serious stamina! Going through papers wears me out quickly 😵 Sometimes I can only manage letting go of a few sheets at a time. I put them in a bag in the garage, and when the bag's full I get the satisfaction of dropping that heavy thing into the recycling bin & hearing a beautiful THUD 💥 Agree with you on the sensory thing. For Bed Bath & Beyond coupons, the minute one arrives I put it in an envelope I keep in my car seat pocket. That way they're all in one place & available whenever I go to BB&B. Thank you for always being an inspiration ✨
Thank you my friend 🙏🏻♥️ This one was by far my HARDEST video!!!
You did such an incredible job! You should be really proud of yourself. I don't think I would've had the energy to go through all that in one day!
Awe, thank you so so much ♥️ There was a lot of coffee and prayers 🤗😅
Oh wow, you did beautifully! paperwork always grows but never put them in a pile to look at later, if you're like me, later can be ages from now. LOL I love how you do you receipts and stuff, I might just try that as well!
Oh yay! Yes, the accordion folder really helps me with receipts! Paperwork really is my enemy 😅 It sneaks up on me too!!!
Look into the Freedom Filer. I use it. I’m also a paper hoarder. When I do actually sort it, it’s super easy. Everything has a place and it self purges over time, kind of like your coupon booklet but way better. All you need to buy is the files and tabs to go with the Freedom Filer labels in your new filing cabinet that hubs is building you.
You should be so proud of yourself, I’m not a hoarder but I have a huge box in my loft fully to the brim with my children’s art work and school work so don’t be hard on yourself for keeping your it. I think you done really well and I can’t wait for your next vlog xx❤️❤️
Awe, thank you!!! Your message filled my heart with happiness ♥️🤗
Great job!! So proud of you working through it and doing it yourself. It is very interesting to see how your brain works. I am a fan of the hoarder show and may have some hoarder tendencies. But usually, come back around eventually and say, I haven't used this in how long...it has to be sold/donated. :) Keep up the great work.
Awe, thank you so much my friend 🙏🏻♥️
Those get rid of piles, put them in a box, and when you’re finished, throw them away.
Am watching this while going through my remaining paper pile....very inspirational
Oh yay!!! You got this too: Whoo Hoo!!!
Thank you, I feel less alone now. *hugs*
That’s a *really* good dent in paper!
I know I’m still months behind in videos, but I wonder if konmarie is the best choice for you. I noticed you had a Fly Lady book. If you do the process correctly, first you go through your home decluttering. I believe she also talks about keeping one bin for sentimental for each family member. All that process can take a while and that’s okay, progress not perfection. Then you establish quick and easy cleaning routines, which include continual mini declutters.
Also you could check out Pinterest for lots of organizing ideas (like cords, electronics etc) .
May 2023. My mom had over 200 cartons of papers. Every day, I toss all the junk mail. Tina, Al's wife
Awesome!! Fantastic!! Keep up the good work!! 😍😍
Thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️
You are doing great! Here are a few suggestions for the sentimental pile of papers. Scan the papers into the computer, discard the paper form, and organize the files on the computer, no physical space needed. Another way is use some empty photo albums or 3 ring binders with document protectors (you can also just hole punch them as well), Drop the pages in so when you do have time/space to organize/scrapbook they are all together. Hope this helps. Also would great for the schoolwork paper, create a binder for say 2nd grade and have the kids help you put it in the binder. Can be done immediately after school so to stay on top of it. :)
Thank you so so much!!! I absolutely love the binder idea for school work!!! Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️♥️
For long term papers I would recommend getting a small filing cabinet for the basement and sorting and storing it there. That way you can also sort and store papers at the end of the year you have to keep for a while bur will probably not need to look at anymore.
That’s a wonderful idea!!! Bonus once my hubby builds my new little “office desk” I’ll have that filing cabinet emptied out!! I’ll put it in there in the basement!!! Thank you!!
I organize taxpapers and similar in big envelopes. One years paper go into one envelope. And envelopes are in a drawer. As tax issies go old in 7 years, I can just burn the whole envelope at once.
Contracts, work sertificates and such that needs to be saved forever have a folder in that same drawer.
I look fwd to your videos. You seem like a very fun person. I have so much clutter in the house. This gives me ideas and hope.
Awe, thank you so much!!! I have full faith you can do it too...I am cheering you on!!!
Good job! I found paperwork one of the hardest categories.
Oh this was by far my HARDEST video!!!
Paper Hoarder as well trying to get important information on the computer, either scan it or create an Excel Worksheet, it has to go. It has become so overwhelming, transferring it from room to room, or hiding the hoard in the basement is a disease. No one needs old pay stubs, old coupon books, old Bills or Newspapers and Magazine from decades ago.
Won't have time to watch to whole vid until tomorrow, but Paper Sorting is, like, the WORST thing to sort. Even for those of us without anxiety or hording issues. It is slow and feels overwhelming, and you feel like you are making very little progress because the amount of time needed to read/skim each sheet compared to how much space is excavated by moving that one sheet is wildly disproportionate.
You can do it!! Even if it means more paper sorting later in small batches.
Excited to watch the vid later!
Interesting to know that paper is across the board the worst!! Lol It took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through this one! And thank you so much for your kind encouragement!!! It really helps keep me motivated!!!
Do you think if you sorted by year and then if called for may find it easier? I love the bill organiser it’s brilliant I’d love to get something like that.
I will say this and it applies to me, I need to go through books, old greeting cards, etc because I have found money I stashed away and forgot about it.
Hello lovely unicorn heart! 💜🦄 what a pretty rainbow today! in the process of watching...yes paper does give anxiety because the volume of it compared to the number of items..uggh..and I guess the problem as a hoarder is that there could really potentially be something important in the mix! I have the same humorous thought about security and my own mess! ha ha! and I do the same thing with magazines I keep them for vision boards which I start and perfectionism does not let me finish...Also the ikea catalogs for me are organisational inspirations, and the internet is not the same, as you said there must definitely be a sensory thing to this...I will also research it on my side...back to watching...by the way I think you did well to wait for the papers in the basement...they are very probably not as urgent/important/recent as the others, so they can wait right? I am also old school, I need to read things on paper rather than on screen and I use a paper agenda for my work appointments rather than my smartphone...WOW!!! You did absolutely great!!! and that was A LOT of stuff to go through!!! kudos!! HIP HIP HURRAY!!! 🎉🍾🎉
Love the paper organiser!!!
Thank you so much my songbird 💙💙 Paper took a lot of coffee and prayers to get through!!! We can definitely do this together!!!