He did the right thing… stayed till she got better (great human), then once she survived and was out of harms way left her (great man). Know your worth…
Because she was bitten by a fly? Because that is how you get human african trypanosomiasis. For some reason this show keeps taking diseases that are absolutely not transmittable through intercourse as proof of people cheating, it's bizarre.
Only makes it worse, Now the guy has lost both is wife and his best friend. But in reality he had neither to begin with. The shattering of illusions is always painful.
@@tinasherbert Can confirm. Except the whole dying thing. Had one I thought was my best friend. I was wrong. We had a lot in common. Especially our taste in women.
I actually appreciate the husband for not once insulting house or questioning his diagnosis or trying to bullshit him, he just listens, answers to the best of his ability, and let's him do his job. Breath of fresh air, honestly
this was season 1 House where things were much more grounded. season 3+ House wouldn't have even tried to get the husband's permission and would've done the treatment anyways. the answer eventually outweighs the patient themselves in House's eyes.
It pissed me off so much when cameron tried to convince the husband that the wife loved her and it was a mistake, thankfully the guy is rational and have self-respect to leave someone who betrayed him
I fail to see the mistake. Did she trip, her clothes fell off and she landed on his dick? Then pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off and slipped on it again? Cheating/consensual sex is coordinated and done on purpose, not mistakenly.
I mean,yeah,but if you watched the show you know damn well how much efforts he put into hiding cheating when women do it Take the fat woman with a tumour,he never told the latin husband she was cheating and that maybe half his kids aren't his
Unlessssd, he was sterile, he wanted kids and there was no money for adoption, IVF, surrogate AND she truly disliked his friend, BUT they looked very similar. Highly improbable, for sure, but possible. Sooo maybe she wasn't so much betraying him as helping their marriage without letting him know who it was. About 1 in 6 billion odds.
And not just for the people in the relationship. I don't keep people in my life if I know they cheat on their SOs. Better to be alone than in bad company.
oh please people do stupide shit I did a dumb ass. my wife wasn't putting out my dad had just died so I got low and yep I tried to cheat I got a limp dick bj and yes I went to do the deed and couldn't but I still cheated but I kept it for 3 or 4 years started going back to church and got saved and like a dumb ass told my wife should have gave ti to god but I though Id came clean she had a hunch but it's been downhill to the point we don't sleep in the same bed and I haven't had sex with her in over a year so if you got an itch us your hand and don't think with the wrong head but yep I'm a dumb ass doesn't mean I got to go do it again don't do it it's just not worth the price
@@williamfleming285 In a matter of marriage, forgiveness is the secret to staying strong. No doubt that many of the longest strongest relationships were imperfect and kept intact by discretion.
@@lauroandrea3241 spare me your cheap morality. You dare, demand the virtue of forgiveness when you couldn't even uphold the simple virtue of loyalty? Its not about the sex. Its about the betrayal. You can forgive a lot of things, trechery isn't one of them.
It's because he's made mistakes. He's showing some rare comfort. But it's not cuddly comfort. It's, "You fucked up, pick yourself up, and deal with the fallout" That's the best you'll get with House.
Its shocking actually because i have never seen an episode where any condition did not inspire sarcastic, dagger humor no matter a persons sex, age, color or race. Unrelenting nastiness. Never understood the appeal of the character, though Hugh Laurie is a great actor. Just wish his character wasnt so unrelentingly unkind.
Yikes, Cameron is actually an awful person. Guilting a man who stayed by his wife’s side until she was saved, and only then leaving because she cheated.
If I remember correctly, she is clearly the worst of the 3 between herself, Foreman and Chase as a human being. They just drip feed it to the audience over a long, long time, so it goes under a lot of people's radar. I may be misremembering, though.
This is generally true, many people who cheat do so because they've fallen out of love. But i do believe there *are* mistakes. Mistakes that are enabled by the individual, yes, so still their responsibility, but i don't think it's black or white
@@bbrucet3 you can say you love someone all you want, actions depict what you actually believe. If you have sex with another person you don’t love your partner
It's annoying how Dr. Cameron kept telling the husband that his wife loves him as if she wants him to forgive her. Sorry, but she cheated & the husband has every right to be pissed. He was happy she lived but that doesn't mean he has to forgive her infidelity. If she loved him so much she wouldn't have cheated on him.
And there's the female doctor trailing after him trying to get him to stay with the cheating woman and asking him if he'd always been honest with her. What utter gasslighting in trying to shove his wifes cheating back on him. The nerve of her!
I mean the wife was willing to literally die to protect their marriage after her mistake. I think I would want a reminder of this as well at that moment.
@@Nenernener123it's much easier to not cheat, if you really want to protect the marriage. What was she expecting from him, trophies? How does it become a mistake when she consciously chose another person when she was already in a marriage? She's just selfish.
@@Nenernener123 Or she was willing to die to hide the choice she made. Not mentioned that you cheated on a spouse to avoid hurting them isn't a morally good decision. Ignorance is bless is a horrible saying. Trust is the foundation of a relationship to trap the other person with. False expectation of who you are is scumbag behavior
That's why I don't do relationships anymore. I get rid of them after 3 months just to keep my sanity and they never move in with me nor do I move in with them. And you can forget marriage
Cheating is a choice nobody falls on another person's vagina or dick accidently and its not rape. And you cant even trust your guy bestfriend what the hell
i was accused of R, I am still not certain of it but I believe that she was in fact in a relationship and in that case it's just easier to claim R than admit you cheated. I shouldn't have gotten drunk, I shouldn't have gone with her and the universe was seemingly telling me to stay home that night in various ways, still i went and i lost ten months of my life due to it, I was allready socially awkward due to asd and add but i've seemingly regressed to a defacto hermit.
@istoppedcaring6209 i am sorry that happened to you bro and obviously what happened to you is not cheating and rape (cause you didnt consented to) but most cheating spouses (both genders) act as if it was rape. Which obviously its not and hence its digusting to protray the same.
I hated when Dr. Cameron tried to get him to be sympathetic to his Adulterous wife... after she cheated...😡🤬 but if it was vice versa... Girl code is Nasty Work eeew🤢🤮
Actually yes! Cameroon is a hypocrite. similar thing happened in another episode but reversed role and her behaviour was completely changed. she is awful
I second that. You may put salt in your coffee instead of sugar by mistake if you're busy with important stuff. You don't fuck someone "by mistake" after you swore oaths with another person to be with them.
For a man cheating is a mistake are you sitting there eating a cheeseburger and some cute girl comes hey do you want two and he said sure cuz the man would would screw a knot in a pine tree probably the women it is a series of flirting and mistakes a mind game until they
@@codesm96 I saw this In a random social media The only promise of love Is *heartbreak* (whether It ended badly like divorce or death by natural causes)
Maybe Cameron is a cheater too and therefore she don't want that man to leave his wife because she don't want to lose a good relationship because of her cheating😮
Not always. Your mum did and it really hurt you. Why she did it? You should ask her, though you might not get the true answer because nowadays people find it so difficult to be honest with themselves and therefore to others. Women are very compassionate in their core, so your mum could have felt that your wife deserved to be forgiven. Perhaps she was scared of you being without her. Maybe she felt valuable being a mother in-law... So many possibilities? But what bothers you here is the pain you felt when you mum asked you to forgive her. That's what troubling you and why you have no peace. The question would be why did it hurt you? Why do you feel that every single woman in the world support others? As that's not true... and why do you think the pain you feel is their fault.
@@GodMother13 This is such a manipulative and malicious attempt at gaslighting someone expressing their frustration with their own mother siding with the cheater. Saying "Women are compassionate to their core" to excuse his mother siding with the cheater over her own son is insane. Not all women excuse female cheaters but all women are compassionate? Ok sure. Why, why can't women just face accountability for their actions and ADMIT when they're wrong????
Been there, done that, except for the disease part. Yes, it was my best friend...I almost decided, and started plans to get away with ending him! The Moral of the story is: You don't act until the emotions are under control. Then you can process the betrayal and act accordingly...
For them to drop this on us in the FIRST SEASON was wild. Fantastic writing and as always the best part is how the main characters react, from Cameron to House to Wilson.
I should have left my wife years ago, a narcissist is a very dangerous person to be in love with. For years my son and I have been survivors of her bad behavior!
I'm happy that you left your wife and don't need to live with her anymore, narcissists can be extremely toxic and mentally draining. Best of luck with your new life. For you and your son ❤️
Betrayal, lies, death she chose all three to cover up her sins, and when found out he walked away I believe that hurt him the most, even though she had him she chose those three over him, and that's why he walked out. Wisely done.
The fact that she cheated AND lied shows that she doesn't have respect for him or their relationship. It shows she is a coward who can not admit her own fault because she doesn't want to face the consequences.
But MOST TIME 1X sex is a moment of PASSION, definitely NOT thinking of choosing SENSIBLE, smart choice, especially if the temptation is constantly THERE😢😮
@jongmod9440 i dont know u I dont owe you anything I shouldnt be forced to do anything to you Also its not my decision its her husband's so even she dont have the right morally
@@jongmod9440 Remember Cheating no matter the partner was a DEATH PENALTY. This was shared across ALL of humanity from the start of time. Before Religion and before society itself.
@@marshapple Its one of the worst betrayals you can do to someone. People wish death upon those who betray causes, nations, etc, why is this any different? Especially when its much MUCH more personal and specific. Anyone without any shred of simple loyalty to not betray people they're supposed/claim to love in any way is scum. This just makes you look like someone who would cheat or has cheated.
But she does. She just made a mistake, and she regrets it terribly. There's actually many women who don't mind their husbands going to the brothel and have fun, as long as it's just for sex and fun (oh hello Japan, I'm looking at you). However in this case....it's the woman who cheated on her husband. I know the guy is sad, but if he actually learns to forgive, good things might happen. But of course... everyone has their own red line. Once one crosses that, it's just over. This episode is quite sad. I guess that's what you get if you toy with your partner's feelings and trust.
there is no argument for him staying with someone who slept with his best friend, when you cheat there is no longer trust, and without that there can be no meaningful relationship. she basically multiplied the already unforgiveable act by ten because it was his best friend, that man will never trust not only romantic partners, but now even his closest friends because of this, he is now scared for life because he was betrayed by probably both of the closest and most trusted people in his life.
It is sometimes called sleeping sickness. Spread through the bite of tsetse fly transmitting the parasite from an infected person to another. It is found in SubSaharan Africa.
Emotions are not like an appliance we can turn on and off at will. If we could there would be no heartache. I know this is a television show but in real life a person with this kind of love for his wife probably would have left the hospital physically due to the pain brought on by betrayal but you can bet he didn't take his emotions with him.
When a woman cheats = "It was a mistake, I'm bored, ure not here like u used to be, I felt us drifting " when a man cheats = ure scum, loser, dirtbag. We're gonna take all u got. Hmmmmm not equity
Both sides say different things when they cheat, it's not just "women say this men say that". I feel like you either haven't been on either side of the story, or you've been cheated on recently and you're projecting, and saying things that aren't necessarily true.
She said ,"she loves you !", that was the funniest line Ive ever heard a woman say after she cheated or the one she sticks up for does!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay. I'm confused. How does Human African Trypanosomiasis (HAT), also known as sleeping sickness, have anything to do with cheating on your spouse? HAT is transferred by the bite of an infected tsetse fly. HAT is not an STD/STI. No, I don't claim to be smarter than the writers of this fine Drama series. I'm just simply asking a question.
It can spread from sexual contact. See "Rocha G, Martins A, Gama G, Brandão F, Atouguia J. Possible cases of sexual and congenital transmission of sleeping sickness. Lancet. 2004 Jan 17;363(9404):247. doi: 10.1016/S0140-6736(03)15345-7. PMID: 14738812."
Hope you are doing well now. That's a terrible thing to endure. I had a girlfriend go through that. She was a different person after. It destroyed the person I knew.
@@dustyradcliff1009 all girls I know went through this, all in Europe, this is actually just annoying how there are criminals even in the safest places of Earth. Now one of them is dying from cancer which is partially related to that case, the other I haven't seen for 2 years, who knows what happened... But nonetheless they are/were still great people
Of course it's the female doctor who tries to guilt trip the guy for leaving his cheating wife. Women...I tell ya. Never taking accountability for their actions and blaming others for them.
Trust is more important than love. You cannot love someone and betray them and profess to still love them. Cheating is a series of selfish decisions knowingly made with the implicit knowledge that it will destroy the other person. Each decision made is an opportunity to say no! this isn't right, I shouldn't do this! And with each one, the betrayer chooses themselves over you. You can't place your trust and your soul in the hands of one for which it has no value. Don't.
cameron is just the most unbearable character on this show. always with the moral posturing. i imagine she'd be such a frustrating person to be around.
The man was so caring throughout his wife’s treatment.. that episode was heartbreaking
Which one is it?
@@Braedcrumbs judging by the fact that Cameron was there and still a brunette, it was before season 4
@@pho4078season 1. Somewhere Before ep. 20
@@pho4078season one, before episode 14 (that's where i am and i saw this episode lol)
@@pho4078it's on season one I think on the first half
He did the right thing… stayed till she got better (great human), then once she survived and was out of harms way left her (great man). Know your worth…
Sigma lesson: know your worth.
@@carldalordsugma lesson: go outside
Because she was bitten by a fly? Because that is how you get human african trypanosomiasis.
For some reason this show keeps taking diseases that are absolutely not transmittable through intercourse as proof of people cheating, it's bizarre.
@@n3wp0rtzsugma bALLS
@@carldalordSo you would stay with a cheater?
To whoever wonders why she prefered to die over accepting her being unfaithful is becase the person she cheated with was that guy's best friend.
Only makes it worse, Now the guy has lost both is wife and his best friend. But in reality he had neither to begin with. The shattering of illusions is always painful.
@@phantomdanceyou should write greeting cards
Not it was not. No friend, let alone best friend, fucks your wife.
why is that such a common trope, does it really happen that often?? 😂
@@tinasherbert Can confirm. Except the whole dying thing. Had one I thought was my best friend. I was wrong. We had a lot in common. Especially our taste in women.
I actually appreciate the husband for not once insulting house or questioning his diagnosis or trying to bullshit him, he just listens, answers to the best of his ability, and let's him do his job. Breath of fresh air, honestly
this was season 1 House where things were much more grounded. season 3+ House wouldn't have even tried to get the husband's permission and would've done the treatment anyways. the answer eventually outweighs the patient themselves in House's eyes.
But then he ended up in Prison and his brother had to literally go in as an inmate and break him out wild shiii
@@thokucheetahwas looking for this.😂
He's been hit on by engaged and or married women, he knows it's possible she cheated.
Marriage is not based on just "love", the foundation of marriage is trust. You don't have that, you don't have a marriage.
Amen that's the key. Few of these commenters get that.
Jackpot
my marriage certificate proves otherwise
@@XazuyaHayato cute. You must thrill at parties...
love is fleeting, it can come and go in a heartbeat, but trust... takes time to create and repair if broken. IF you are given the chance.
Honestly, the way the guy walked out the door made me respect him even more.
Are you usually dishonest?
He had to go break out of a prison.
That's Lincoln Burrow from Prison Break
@@otaimaksimaify No. Dracula.
Especially because the storyline always has the betrayed person being forgiving
It pissed me off so much when cameron tried to convince the husband that the wife loved her and it was a mistake, thankfully the guy is rational and have self-respect to leave someone who betrayed him
Shane on betrayal
Would Cameron stay?
The wife loved... "HER" ? 😕
@@erselo2477 cameron would be the one cheating. that's why she is bothered by him leaving
this is why house wanted nothing to do with her
I cant believe Cameron tried to make him feel bad for leaving his wife after she cheated.
😂 yeah, bud, we get it. You're in disbelief. Three times?
@jackopdenhoff5872 my bad I posted it but it didn't show up so I thought I hit the wrong button so I tried it again.
She needs to stick to her day job - doctor instead of a relationship coach!
@walkended83jcr88 nah bud, I've done it, too. That's why I thought it was funny
RIGHT??
"We all make mistakes, and we all pay a price". So many people think a simple "sorry" is enough when you destroy trust that took years to build
Sometimes it takes 40 years to come back and bite you on the bum😢
So true .... Many dont even have the audacity to admit mistakes or say sorry ... Instead they go on offensive and then they get royally fcked 🎉
I forgave my husbands infidelity until he said he couldn't live without being a cheater. He did me a favor and left when I didn't accept that.
People need to stop referring to cheating as a mistake.
It was a conscious decision.
I don't think you know what the word mistake means.
@@JayTheDodo whoops. I dropped my pussy on his dick. total mistake.
@@JayTheDodo I think he does.
@@Frank_in_Iowa From his comment, it doesn't sound like it.
Yea, like oops, sorry my wiener slipped into your va jay jay. just a simple mistake.
House is dam right, we all have to pay the price for our own stupid mistakes.
There should be a price to pay
I fail to see the mistake. Did she trip, her clothes fell off and she landed on his dick? Then pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off, slipped on it again, pulled off and slipped on it again?
Cheating/consensual sex is coordinated and done on purpose, not mistakenly.
I mean,yeah,but if you watched the show you know damn well how much efforts he put into hiding cheating when women do it
Take the fat woman with a tumour,he never told the latin husband she was cheating and that maybe half his kids aren't his
@LonelyStardefender I've seen it.. but eventho he is indeed a cheater that doesn't necessarily mean that he can't spit some wisdom.
More like stupid choices. Wasn't a mistake at all
She loves him so much that she even cheated on him. True unconditional love
🤣🤣🤣
Woman logic.
She loved him so much that her love spilled over to other men. Powerful
Unlessssd, he was sterile, he wanted kids and there was no money for adoption, IVF, surrogate AND she truly disliked his friend, BUT they looked very similar.
Highly improbable, for sure, but possible.
Sooo maybe she wasn't so much betraying him as helping their marriage without letting him know who it was. About 1 in 6 billion odds.
@@karolsorrell827 Oh stop trying to make excuses for cheating, cheating is the ULTIMATE betrayal.
The fact that he stayed till he was shure that she would survive shows that he cared and was heartbroken 😢
sure* not shure
had to make sure she was able realize that their relationship was over.
@@CL-bm7bs Without your kindly correcting that simple typo, no one makes no sense.
Showed he was a much better person.....
@@CL-bm7bs Shure pal watever ya say
Cheating is a deal breaker, period.
And not just for the people in the relationship. I don't keep people in my life if I know they cheat on their SOs. Better to be alone than in bad company.
I tried to forgive my cheating 304 ex-wife, couldn't do it. most people cheat will do it again, no one should live with a cheater.
@@rickyhawkins3742 this. once a cheater, always a cheater
oh please people do stupide shit I did a dumb ass. my wife wasn't putting out my dad had just died so I got low and yep I tried to cheat I got a limp dick bj and yes I went to do the deed and couldn't but I still cheated but I kept it for 3 or 4 years started going back to church and got saved and like a dumb ass told my wife should have gave ti to god but I though Id came clean she had a hunch but it's been downhill to the point we don't sleep in the same bed and I haven't had sex with her in over a year so if you got an itch us your hand and don't think with the wrong head but yep I'm a dumb ass doesn't mean I got to go do it again don't do it it's just not worth the price
@@rickyhawkins3742 they do it again because they now know they can get away with it.
Dude is a HERO!! Keep walking brother! Love yourself enough to walk away from a cheater!
“ Forgiveness “ Is the greatest secret of happiness 💐🙏
@@williamfleming285 Once a cheater... always a cheater. At least in my opinion. Forgive, then move on and let them go.
@@williamfleming285 In a matter of marriage, forgiveness is the secret to staying strong. No doubt that many of the longest strongest relationships were imperfect and kept intact by discretion.
@@LordBLB Yeah because life is all about sex, right?
@@lauroandrea3241 spare me your cheap morality. You dare, demand the virtue of forgiveness when you couldn't even uphold the simple virtue of loyalty? Its not about the sex. Its about the betrayal. You can forgive a lot of things, trechery isn't one of them.
It’s interesting to see Dr House caring that much speaking to the woman with sincerity
Why
@ I don’t know..we rarely see him showing himself feeling for others
It's because he knows she's easy.
It's because he's made mistakes. He's showing some rare comfort. But it's not cuddly comfort. It's, "You fucked up, pick yourself up, and deal with the fallout" That's the best you'll get with House.
Its shocking actually because i have never seen an episode where any condition did not inspire sarcastic, dagger humor no matter a persons sex, age, color or race. Unrelenting nastiness. Never understood the appeal of the character, though Hugh Laurie is a great actor. Just wish his character wasnt so unrelentingly unkind.
Yikes, Cameron is actually an awful person.
Guilting a man who stayed by his wife’s side until she was saved, and only then leaving because she cheated.
Maybe
@@matthewamy21Tf you mean maybe? It's obvious as the sun shines.
If I remember correctly, she is clearly the worst of the 3 between herself, Foreman and Chase as a human being. They just drip feed it to the audience over a long, long time, so it goes under a lot of people's radar. I may be misremembering, though.
Women will do this all the time 😂 Internet is full of stories of men having to deal with women in their own family defending a cheating SO
@@franciscohidalgo6042you mean you were forgetting; not "misremembering".
“She loves you”
If you cheat on someone you don’t love them
You've never been a therapist. It's w front row seat to a wild show.
@@bbrucet3”you’ve never been a therapist” Mf you’re 10 years old, You perform therapy on your GI joes. Stfu already.
This is generally true, many people who cheat do so because they've fallen out of love. But i do believe there *are* mistakes. Mistakes that are enabled by the individual, yes, so still their responsibility, but i don't think it's black or white
@ no it absolutely is if you cheat on someone that’s hard proof you don’t love them imo
@@bbrucet3 you can say you love someone all you want, actions depict what you actually believe. If you have sex with another person you don’t love your partner
no one deserves to be cheated on. love yourself enough to leave the person that didnt love you enough to be faithful. there is no excuse.
He was loyal... He was a good husband... He was a good men, she didn't deserve him.... Loyalty is a grate value.
Dr. Cameron was out of line
She always sucked
she is even like: "she loves you" PATHETIC!
Be accountable for your mistakes, and pay the price.
This is not a mistake, it was a choice
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
@@edwardference3979 What prevents it in the English language from being both?
@@shesakillerqueeeen What prevents it in the English language from being both? Nobody can answer tbh.
@@CatGamer-wc2ij cheating is a choice. You don't mistakenly fuck someone else
It's annoying how Dr. Cameron kept telling the husband that his wife loves him as if she wants him to forgive her. Sorry, but she cheated & the husband has every right to be pissed. He was happy she lived but that doesn't mean he has to forgive her infidelity. If she loved him so much she wouldn't have cheated on him.
Cause he is a feminist. Fking disgusting how much they protect women cheaters and hides it for them 😅
If you truly love someone , you don’t cheat
I think most doctors realize that the
y are not marriage counselors. Drama does not always reflect real life.
And there's the female doctor trailing after him trying to get him to stay with the cheating woman and asking him if he'd always been honest with her. What utter gasslighting in trying to shove his wifes cheating back on him. The nerve of her!
I mean the wife was willing to literally die to protect their marriage after her mistake. I think I would want a reminder of this as well at that moment.
That is not what gaslighting means. I wish people would learn the real meaning and background of this word.
@@Nenernener123it's much easier to not cheat, if you really want to protect the marriage. What was she expecting from him, trophies?
How does it become a mistake when she consciously chose another person when she was already in a marriage?
She's just selfish.
@@Nenernener123 Or she was willing to die to hide the choice she made. Not mentioned that you cheated on a spouse to avoid hurting them isn't a morally good decision. Ignorance is bless is a horrible saying. Trust is the foundation of a relationship to trap the other person with. False expectation of who you are is scumbag behavior
"I just assume they all do." Truthful words to live by.
That's why I don't do relationships anymore. I get rid of them after 3 months just to keep my sanity and they never move in with me nor do I move in with them. And you can forget marriage
@@David-m2d3u You both sound like "woman bad" 13 year old boys, or chronically lonely and paranoid grown men. You both need professional help
@David-m2d3u , I'm right there with you! I have enough friends to fill in the gaps. I've been celibate for almost 20 years. No regrets there either.
I'm getting a dog.
@@moustachmallow559 I'm getting a doll
Goodbye to her. Forever.
That is the right thing to do as a man.
but she is alive he just broke up with him
You’re right 👍
@@navyycatnobody said she died. just that she is dead to him after she cheated.
Cheating is a choice nobody falls on another person's vagina or dick accidently and its not rape. And you cant even trust your guy bestfriend what the hell
If I were worth seducing, it would be constantly a concern of mine that I could easily be seduced.
i was accused of R, I am still not certain of it but I believe that she was in fact in a relationship and in that case it's just easier to claim R than admit you cheated. I shouldn't have gotten drunk, I shouldn't have gone with her and the universe was seemingly telling me to stay home that night in various ways, still i went and i lost ten months of my life due to it,
I was allready socially awkward due to asd and add but i've seemingly regressed to a defacto hermit.
@istoppedcaring6209 i am sorry that happened to you bro and obviously what happened to you is not cheating and rape (cause you didnt consented to) but most cheating spouses (both genders) act as if it was rape. Which obviously its not and hence its digusting to protray the same.
@@lawyerpanda1856 my comment didn’t even post why am I getting notifications XD
Betrayal on both sides. Leaving wife. Losing best friend.
I hated when Dr. Cameron tried to get him to be sympathetic to his Adulterous wife... after she cheated...😡🤬 but if it was vice versa... Girl code is Nasty Work eeew🤢🤮
Accountability is like kryptonite to women
@@roofdonkeybut Ur account isn't...
@@hjugrant9124 if only I lived in Ur of the Chaldees 😎
Did she know the patient cheated? Because there was another possibility if the patient never told anyone there. That she was ra*ed.
Actually yes! Cameroon is a hypocrite. similar thing happened in another episode but reversed role and her behaviour was completely changed. she is awful
For the record, cheating isn’t a mistake. It is a series of bad decisions that cheaters chose to make, I have no sympathy for them
I second that. You may put salt in your coffee instead of sugar by mistake if you're busy with important stuff. You don't fuck someone "by mistake" after you swore oaths with another person to be with them.
For a man cheating is a mistake are you sitting there eating a cheeseburger and some cute girl comes hey do you want two and he said sure cuz the man would would screw a knot in a pine tree probably the women it is a series of flirting and mistakes a mind game until they
It's betrayal.
@@simonl1135 Oaths...this is why marriage is so dumb. The fact that divorce is a sad, expensive and lengthy process proves that.
@@codesm96
I saw this In a random social media
The only promise of love Is *heartbreak* (whether It ended badly like divorce or death by natural causes)
He was a great husband, the female doctor had no right to say anything to him. U know how lucky u are.
yes to get away from this 304
@@rickyhawkins3742 Like all 304's she caught something nasty too to potentially pass onto her man.
What a gal that truly loves her man! /s 🤮
This is a TV show. It's not realistic. Most doctors don't have time to talk to the patient much less any significate other.
"Do you know how lucky you are? Your wife is alive"
"Were you always honest with her?"
She's asking as if he's the one who cheated. So biased
Maybe Cameron is a cheater too and therefore she don't want that man to leave his wife because she don't want to lose a good relationship because of her cheating😮
She could cheat on me any day and I'd still be loyal to her and love her...yeah, I said it
@@codesm96Pathetic.
@@codesm96bro’s down bad
@@bentwineham1986 What can I say? I have a crush on Dr. Cameron.
@@codesm96 indian simp, the worst kind
Why do women always defend women cheaters??? My ex cheated on me and my mom told me to give her another chance. 😡
Not always. Your mum did and it really hurt you. Why she did it? You should ask her, though you might not get the true answer because nowadays people find it so difficult to be honest with themselves and therefore to others. Women are very compassionate in their core, so your mum could have felt that your wife deserved to be forgiven. Perhaps she was scared of you being without her. Maybe she felt valuable being a mother in-law... So many possibilities? But what bothers you here is the pain you felt when you mum asked you to forgive her. That's what troubling you and why you have no peace. The question would be why did it hurt you? Why do you feel that every single woman in the world support others? As that's not true... and why do you think the pain you feel is their fault.
Short answer, women in general avoid responsibility at all costs. So much so to the point where they try to get other women off the hook.
@@GodMother13 I had a stroke trying to read this and fucking died.
@@GodMother13 This is such a manipulative and malicious attempt at gaslighting someone expressing their frustration with their own mother siding with the cheater.
Saying "Women are compassionate to their core" to excuse his mother siding with the cheater over her own son is insane. Not all women excuse female cheaters but all women are compassionate? Ok sure.
Why, why can't women just face accountability for their actions and ADMIT when they're wrong????
Because women will do anythig to shield themselves and each other from accountability.
No amount of love can top the smallest drop of betrayal.
Unless you're Jesus...or some obscure character I do not know
Been there, done that, except for the disease part. Yes, it was my best friend...I almost decided, and started plans to get away with ending him! The Moral of the story is: You don't act until the emotions are under control. Then you can process the betrayal and act accordingly...
"She loves you"
Yeah, right.... like he give a shit
For them to drop this on us in the FIRST SEASON was wild. Fantastic writing and as always the best part is how the main characters react, from Cameron to House to Wilson.
Not really that wild. It's just a damn show
I should have left my wife years ago, a narcissist is a very dangerous person to be in love with. For years my son and I have been survivors of her bad behavior!
...pretty sure she says the same about you.
@@SRR-SRR is it that hard to accept that women can be abusers too?
I'm happy that you left your wife and don't need to live with her anymore, narcissists can be extremely toxic and mentally draining. Best of luck with your new life. For you and your son ❤️
@@SRR-SRRsays the Narsasist
@@SRR-SRRyou the sort to blame abuse victims?
Cam is an example of what is wrong with society today. Those people exist
And some get elected president too.
@@practicalone2 Biden is a prime example same with Clinton.
@@snintendog
Both traitorous parasites...
Betrayal, lies, death she chose all three to cover up her sins, and when found out he walked away I believe that hurt him the most, even though she had him she chose those three over him, and that's why he walked out. Wisely done.
Holy shit he escaped prison.
Lol yea you get past season one? It’s the best season of prison break, but he is out by season two
She was his wife but wasn't his woman. It was just his turn. Fortunately, when he figured that out, he moved on.
Better to leave
Lincoln burrows be looking different
I was searching for this comment
Glad to know I wasn't the only one
@@Unknown_man7same
Thought I was the only one😂
Lincoln broke out again
The fact that she cheated AND lied shows that she doesn't have respect for him or their relationship. It shows she is a coward who can not admit her own fault because she doesn't want to face the consequences.
"Don't you know how lucky you are?" Doc, for your sake and that of your future patients, never try to console the loved ones again.
"we all make mistakes, we all pay a price" I live by this.
The prison break guy was absolutely right
But MOST TIME 1X sex is a moment of PASSION, definitely NOT thinking of choosing SENSIBLE, smart choice, especially if the temptation is constantly THERE😢😮
@jongmod9440 i dont know u
I dont owe you anything
I shouldnt be forced to do anything to you
Also its not my decision its her husband's so even she dont have the right morally
@@jongmod9440cheating is intentional.
@@jongmod9440 Remember Cheating no matter the partner was a DEATH PENALTY. This was shared across ALL of humanity from the start of time. Before Religion and before society itself.
“I’m I a jerk for hoping she won’t make it out of this alive?”
Sadly she lives
Yes, you are.
Yes. Wishing death on a person because they cheated on their spouse is abnormal
@@marshapple Found the cheater
@@marshapple Its one of the worst betrayals you can do to someone. People wish death upon those who betray causes, nations, etc, why is this any different? Especially when its much MUCH more personal and specific. Anyone without any shred of simple loyalty to not betray people they're supposed/claim to love in any way is scum. This just makes you look like someone who would cheat or has cheated.
This cinematic representation of betrayal does nothing to simulate the physical hell your body goes through with revelation...
💔💔💔
The pain......
Men, women, anyone reading this: If they do this to you they don’t love you, and if they don’t love you then you walk away.
Exactly. It goes both ways. No one that chooses to hurt you deserves your love and attention.
She loves you 😂😂😂 ,I like when they try to justify betrayal just by saying, but she still loves you 😂
Fr it’s the biggest load of BS
But she does. She just made a mistake, and she regrets it terribly. There's actually many women who don't mind their husbands going to the brothel and have fun, as long as it's just for sex and fun (oh hello Japan, I'm looking at you). However in this case....it's the woman who cheated on her husband. I know the guy is sad, but if he actually learns to forgive, good things might happen. But of course... everyone has their own red line. Once one crosses that, it's just over. This episode is quite sad. I guess that's what you get if you toy with your partner's feelings and trust.
@@mubaraksenju7521she cheated on him with his best friend. Homie can't bring anyone over without getting cucked by his wife
@@mubaraksenju7521japan have one of the lowest rate of relationships soo🤷🏽♂️
@@mubaraksenju7521honestly the main issue is shattering their mutual trust and that cheating can’t be called a mistake
“She loves you”. You can love many people but you can only be true to one. Most men rate respect over love.
Right, but cheating isn't a mistake. You make a conscious decision to cheat. It doesn't accidentally happen
there is no argument for him staying with someone who slept with his best friend, when you cheat there is no longer trust, and without that there can be no meaningful relationship. she basically multiplied the already unforgiveable act by ten because it was his best friend, that man will never trust not only romantic partners, but now even his closest friends because of this, he is now scared for life because he was betrayed by probably both of the closest and most trusted people in his life.
Her love for him overflowed that some of it fell onto the other guy.
Dracula from Blade 3!!
😂😂
"you can't love a person, and do that to them." 😢
African human trypanosomiasis can also spread to humans if they are bitten by a type of fly. So it is not necessarily indicative of intercourse.
Right, I was hoping someone could explain this. Still confused.
It is sometimes called sleeping sickness. Spread through the bite of tsetse fly transmitting the parasite from an infected person to another. It is found in SubSaharan Africa.
I agree with u all.. its a vector borne
@@junehitchcock170 But you can't get it through sexual contact. Or did I miss something?
It is when that fly isn’t even on the same continent you live, and there’s no other possible explanation to the sickness affecting them
Love how Cameron tries to shift the blame on him. Typical, classical, comical.
As someone who has been cheated on multiple times, I say even her asking whether he is coming back is selfish.
Emotions are not like an appliance we can turn on and off at will. If we could there would be no heartache. I know this is a television show but in real life a person with this kind of love for his wife probably would have left the hospital physically due to the pain brought on by betrayal but you can bet he didn't take his emotions with him.
When a woman cheats = "It was a mistake, I'm bored, ure not here like u used to be, I felt us drifting " when a man cheats = ure scum, loser, dirtbag. We're gonna take all u got. Hmmmmm not equity
It’s not *equality. Equity is something entirely different.
It’s not *equality. Equity is something different.
Whenever anyone cheats its a huge mistake, but at the same time, they shouldn't be demonized for it.
@@3_eyed_magicianhow hard is it not to cheat?
Both sides say different things when they cheat, it's not just "women say this men say that". I feel like you either haven't been on either side of the story, or you've been cheated on recently and you're projecting, and saying things that aren't necessarily true.
Adios Cheater! 👋
Imagine if a man cheated on his wife and the doctor said "do you know how lucky you are? He loves you..."
Wild thing to say.
Another men's bane
Think before you do stupid things because you may have to pay more than the guilt you carry around.
She said ,"she loves you !", that was the funniest line Ive ever heard a woman say after she cheated or the one she sticks up for does!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This illness is from a big bite, but rarely can be from sex with an effected person. This show was so cazy
Man is legit, don't simp for people who give you 0 respect and ruins trust.
Okay. I'm confused. How does Human African Trypanosomiasis (HAT), also known as sleeping sickness, have anything to do with cheating on your spouse? HAT is transferred by the bite of an infected tsetse fly. HAT is not an STD/STI. No, I don't claim to be smarter than the writers of this fine Drama series. I'm just simply asking a question.
It can spread from sexual contact.
See "Rocha G, Martins A, Gama G, Brandão F, Atouguia J. Possible cases of sexual and congenital transmission of sleeping sickness. Lancet. 2004 Jan 17;363(9404):247. doi: 10.1016/S0140-6736(03)15345-7. PMID: 14738812."
Lincoln Burrows
Before he went inside.
We all make mistakes and we all pay a price... that line..
I was raped by an Rhiopian in Rthiopia. I had got an infection from it. The Seventh Day Adventists hospital treated me for free.
I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I'm glad you're okay now.
Hope you are doing well now. That's a terrible thing to endure. I had a girlfriend go through that. She was a different person after. It destroyed the person I knew.
@@dustyradcliff1009 all girls I know went through this, all in Europe, this is actually just annoying how there are criminals even in the safest places of Earth. Now one of them is dying from cancer which is partially related to that case, the other I haven't seen for 2 years, who knows what happened... But nonetheless they are/were still great people
Everyone saying cheating is a mistake is delusional
Cameron as always with her moral BS, she was the most broken character in the series.
Of course, another woman is trying to get him to stay.
He's 100% right.
I’d walk away, too.
Cheating is never a mistake, it is always a choice.
Yes - perfect. A mistake is inadvertent. How many deliberate motions does one need to do to cheat.
I bet the person who wrote the line "she loves you (even when she cheats you)" was an unfaithful woman.
Yep
Leave the cheater!
Scofield shouldn't be in prison that much😅
Not gonna lie, the female doctor pissed me off so much saying that she still loved him..
An affair is a funny way of showing a person you love them.
She( the female doctor)was gaslighting the shit outta him.
Cheating is the worst.
Leave if you want, just don't cheat.
The man was caring, but knew his wife was for “the streets.”
This episode was heavy
She slept with his best friend
Is it? We women do things like these all the time. You'll get used to it
@shanineedwards6894 Holy shit missy, you Just called all women out
@@shanineedwards6894 wanna sleep with me
What is the movie
@@ahmadodaib8120 TV series, not a movie.
Now you will pay that price. The truth always comes out
Of course it's the female doctor who tries to guilt trip the guy for leaving his cheating wife. Women...I tell ya. Never taking accountability for their actions and blaming others for them.
Did that woman guilt trip the man for leaving a cheater?
So women bawl their eyes out and they're the victim!
They got all the angles covered.......
If you cheat on someone you say that you "Love" then you are a liar on top of a cheater.
that's the trope. Years of research on the psychology of cheaters says otherwise. It's always deeper than that superficial assumption.
@@dod2304 Always cheaters and simps who say that junk. It's really that damn simple.
@@dod2304"I love you " if you truly love someone to the point you say it like that then you wouldn't cheat on them , simple as that
That man is a good one! He didn’t bother to stay with her and play the guessing game of “will she cheat again” but he still made sure she was okay
God how i hated Cameron in this scene,it showed her hypocrisy and true colors.
she is for the streets and cameron defended her thats why cameron is also for the streets
Know your worth kings
Trust is more important than love. You cannot love someone and betray them and profess to still love them. Cheating is a series of selfish decisions knowingly made with the implicit knowledge that it will destroy the other person. Each decision made is an opportunity to say no! this isn't right, I shouldn't do this! And with each one, the betrayer chooses themselves over you. You can't place your trust and your soul in the hands of one for which it has no value. Don't.
Thank you - this comment should be pinned.
Cheating is the opposite of loving someone 😭
cameron is just the most unbearable character on this show.
always with the moral posturing. i imagine she'd be such a frustrating person to be around.
Cameron was wrong.
The husband wasn't a bad person.
His wife may have loved her husband, but not enough.
same woman who scream, leave him , cry it's not her fault when women do the same! What a load of hypocrisy!