I stutter and I’m 13. I’ve been stuttering since I was 4 so I barely remember talking fluently. Your videos help me so much and I feel like I’m not alone now.
dont worry I had the same problem, as far as I can see our dear paige has no problem when she is not aware that somebody looks at her , also she should not do so much effort to speak, if some W or V or P etc does not come out , scip the W etc at the start of the word , also look for a better and bigger vocabulary so You can forget about the words who are not coming out easily, kisses from mexico
I’m almost 12 and I stutter and I’ve been stuttering I think since I got pushed on the ground and hit my head really bad the and the concussion lasted like I think a year or that’s the numb I had on my head and yeah it made me stutter ig idrk what happened
It is key for any young stutterer to find one person who has the patience to wait for you to speak. Someone who won't judge, or laugh, or roll their eyes, or laugh at you behind your back. In my experience, such people are rare. 🙂
Its hard because many times you can pick up what they are meant to say before the person that stutters finish it so you have to stay "interested" and wait for the rest of the sentence even if its not necessary and costs some time. Regardless that, I never make fun, roll my eyes, complete, etc...
@@rustcohle9267 We understand that we're difficult to listen to--the awareness of which only adds to our frustration and anxiety. All we ask for is a little extra patience...which you seem to have. And for that, I thank you. 🙂
@@roy1701d Yea, I do have a childhood friend who stutters and sometimes i feel disappointed and upset that people dont want to know her better or just ignores what she has to say/offer. She is so kind, caring, smart, beautiful and empathetic, an incredible person, that the "stutters thing" doesnt bother me at all. She seems to care about more than I do. I often demonstrate or tell her that she doesnt need to act like someday I'll listen to the stutter, get bored and suddenly get out of her life or something like that. I can understand why and I think you can relate to. She shouldnt be afraid of people leaving her.
@@rustcohle9267 Thing is, stutterers are the most empathetic, understanding and loyal people you'll ever meet. Something about growing up with the condition brings that out, it seems. 🙂
I wish I had such a positive friend before depression completely takes over. I have so much to share (love, sadness, anger ) all traped in me for many years. the only friend I have is the image of my self in the mirror. outside the call me a good listener but deep down am not, its how fluent people talk that amazes me. I stutter too and you are such an amazing person
I have a stutter too and now, you made me cry. such a wonderful relationship. I wish I had a friendship like yours. You two are perfect for each other. Love this video. From Japan 🇯🇵
Your tattoo "I speak freely not fluently" is f*cking briljant. I might even have to steal that idea from you. It's noticeable that you stutter less the moment you look at your phone, disengaging conversation. I do the exact same thing.
Hey Paige. I stutter a lot, mostly with my family which is very odd to me, I also hate, hatee talking on the phone. What helped me gain confidence is to stop vocally stutter. I just stop, and breathe. If i’m with friends, sometimes I start laughing 😅 I also constantly look for synonyms of the words I’m trying to say (some might come easy) It’s a huge mental drain but we’re in this together. ✌️ keep posting! Love from Romania
I feel very bad for Paige she is a very beatiful girl, but I never seen someone stutter this bad, I stutter my self, but I can control it, and it's not so frequent, and when I'm happy and have confidence then I don't stutter at all, a lot of people in my life don't even know i'm a stutterer. I would like to hug Paige and say everything will be fine, and give her a few tips how to make it easier, what to do what not. I can see the pain in her eyes. :( Much love.
there are plenty of people who dont stutter that are terrible speakers...Listen to Mr Trump...lol. I'd rather listen to Paige than many of the people I hear. For Real!!!!
She speaks fleuntly when she speaks with herself or when she is not concentrating that much because if you're always self conscious about how you're gonna sound and people's reactions,than when you talk try to breath as much as you can it will get better. I love you ❤️ now I know that most people suffers from this too and you gave me my confidence back.
You’re seriously so inspirational. I had a stutter that started in high school and has gotten a lot better over time. The best thing for me was getting over anxiety and upping my confidence. Glad to see more videos from you! Keep up the great content!
When you feel ostracized for who you are, it's so incredible to meet people that become your friends. It's fantastic that you found that with your friend. Looks as if you two are a dynamic duo...a pretty dynamic duo at that 🙂
if you're reading this I send you a lot of love and support Paige, you're such an inspiration for all of us who stutter 🌍🙌🏻🌟💯! Greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽!
Your friend is a real one for sure! I stutter to just like you in the aspect of when we are forced to talk it’s hard to speak unlike when we can freely speak it’s not as bad.
A lot of us in life complain about the things we can't do or our witness or how shitty our situation is;but forget that there are others out there going through worse and for those going through worse, there are also others and the chain continues. What ever you can or can't do;just be greatful.for happy with who you are . Thanks so much for this video.Your life really inspires me✋🏿✋🏿
As a mild to moderate stutterer since I was a young child, I have hid from social interactions and from certain words. I mostly experience blocks but also the occasional repetitions and prolongations. Thank you for being brave and putting yourself out there by saying what you want to say, when you want to say it. You've inspired me today to practice my speech not in the pursuit of fluency but of acceptance of myself.
A lot of respect for doing this. So inspiring to see. I myself struggled with stuttering all my life til only a few years ago. And I can appreciate the frustration and I know how hard it is to speak in front of the camera
Hey after seeing all these beautiful people speak on stuttering I've finally gathered enough courage to come out and speak on it myself th-cam.com/play/PLNqbOqYFkL1BLbVqk9TH6sJFI9GSZb0fq.html Please let me know what you thought of it
What a great caring friend you have who truly cares about you. She is supportive of you and helps you. I stuttered for 25 years. I stuttered Even when I joined the Army. A lot of my fellow soldiers were patient with me. I felt more relaxed when I spoke to the drill sergeants who were loud and in my face. Your videos inspire me to speak better without a stutter when I am in the public eye or when I get anxious. Thank you for the video.
I think another good question is, How does your stutter affect your dating life? However, I know it can be personal and touchy for some. My general assumption and being a stutterer myself, females that stutter have it easier dating, compared to males that stutter. Why? Because by social/society standards, its still expected of guys to engage in conversation first, lead, and etc. The extra effort we men that stutter have to put in. Statistics also shows that females that stutter are more then likely to marry still, and or be in relationships, vurses a male that stutters. I myself can attest. 27 years and only been in 1 relationship ever. Twas with a great friend, we went in to it, which was her idea in the first place, we gave it some time, she was patient with me, but eventually she apologized and told me that she couldn't be with me because of my stutter. She hoped that we could remain friends, but I couldn't, so I basically up and left. I became a ghost because I thought that I didint have the right to be anything or anyone anymore because of my stutter. When I began my first semester at college, and at age 21, we ran into each other, and she noticed me first. She was married, had two kids of her own already, and it was her final college year as well. We did some catching up, and that was it. Didn't exchange numbers or anything afterwards, and that was it. Our biggest curses are those that are self imposed. My emotions got the best of me, and I threw away our friendship. It was a beautiful friendship then, and to this day I still believe that we could have been beautiful again. 4 years as friends, and almost a year as a couple. Plus, she was my first friend at the school then because I had just moved from Michigan. However, I understand others may see my situation differently. To this day I still get dreams about her loving me, being in a school environment with her, missing the bus, school stairs missing the stairs, and etc. As always, salute to my fellow stutterers.
Paige you are so beautiful and lovely. 💟 I love your cuteness. You are a good speaker and beautiful minded person. I wish I could have a friend like you. #stutterfromBangladesh.
I think stuttering is caused by a traumatic event between the ages of 2-7. As a Clinical Hypnotherapist I have found the cause of 100% of my clients. anything from a dog barking in a child's face, to a child seeing some one get shot. This is the spectrum that I have worked with. If any one has any questions about finding the cause of your stutter, please let me know. I think if you can find the cause, you can get to the cure. Thank you for your time.
I began to have a stutter when I was in the 7th grade and I was with several friends and was excited to say something but I couldn’t get the words out. I quit most speaking because it was embarrassing. My parents never talked about it with me. People thought I was shy. High school was terrible. I couldn’t express myself and felt like I was missing out on life. I finally got a job where I had to talk more and had to knock on people’s doors to tell them I was going to shut their electricity off if they didn’t pay their power bill. It wasn’t a lot of talking but I gradually improved and kept gaining confidence. At about 28 years old I had improved a lot. Now I enjoy speaking and people can’t believe that I had a time in my life where I didn’t talk or wasn’t outgoing. I feel much better now and am very happy. I wish someone had helped me but most probably thought I was just shy. Now I’m 58 and have a 22 year old son that stutters. He gets angry when I try to talk with him about it. I’m going to keep trying to help him.
More power to you! :) just a tip, I try to use it but it’s difficult for me to include in this in my daily speech - it’s to slow down and speak on an exhale and find an own rhythm, slowly I can see all the strength and power in your eyes, 💪 your videos make me feel very much better about myself so thank you so much. :)
I'm a stutter too, but there is a technique that can help you. First of all, keep in mind that it is okay if you stutter, it is only a matter of time to convey your message to the listener, secondly, when speaking, try to focus on the first sound of the sentence, do not think about how you pronounce the all sentence In one go, practice pronouncing the sentence in one breath without interrupting the breath in the middle of it, and try to relax your body when speaking like you are a little bit lazy. my best wishes for you, you are so beautiful :)
Your anxiety is high. As a stutter myself I recognize the symptoms. You're getting ahead of yourself in your head. When you are relax you're much more fluent like when you told your friend you loved her.
Hello Paige, fellow stutterer here. Nice to see more people who stutter are doing vlogs. I wanted to DM you about something I noticed watching your videos but I decided to post it here in case it might help others. One of the few techniques I took from speech therapy was stopping when I have a block. I don't remember the correct terminology. I noticed you force yourself to produce a sound when you have a block. Instead, stop and start over whenever you have a block. That way, you can take a breathe and don't exhaust yourself. It might feel uncomfortable initially but when you get used it, you will notice a big difference. Continue doing these vlogs. In addition to it being an outlet for you, it will help so many people. Am so proud of you. Much love!
Thank you for the advice! ❤️ my blocks are sadly different than most. When I block and get stuck on a sound I simply cannot stop the sound I am making. My stomach (my diaphragm) and my throat lock up and I have no choice but to ride the block out.
@@paigewhite648 Thank you for letting me know your block is different. That's what makes stuttering so interesting. We all have something unique about our stuttering journey. Much love
From a fellow stutterer/stammerer here in England, this is aimed specifically at the people that are saying they feel alone and don’t have any friends like this that understand what it’s like to have a stammer. You are not alone and you do have friends that understand because we are your friends and here to support. I’m a 37 year old with a stammer for about 30 years. I’m not a speech therapist but I’d love to share some of my ‘techniques’. I’m sure it’s all stuff you have heard before but I’d love to share advice and take advice also.
I really appriciate your effort and ur courage that u r making video on it...because so many people has this problem but they dont want to talk about this...they hide this problem from everyone and because of this problem the get alone and very lonely....
You are both very brave to make this. First time i’ve seen your videos and this was amazing to watch. As a fellow stutterer visibility of others who go through the same thing can be so powerful. Thanks for sharing and great to hear from your friend who understands so well.
I am also stuttering since my childhood and for this I face many problems in my school and public. I really love your videos and I get more confidence . But this is true that if you make vlogs and post on TH-cam and social media stammering can overcome easil . Keep it up 😊😊
I stutter for about 30 years. In my experience more/less stuttering has to do with youre mood and the speed you talk. If i talk slow (almost same as singing a song) then i stutter way less, because youre not forcing the words out. Mood for me has to do with the person i talk to. If i know or trust this person my mood is better and i stutter less. Hope this helps a bit :)
congratulations beautiful for being so authentic and do not be intimidated to show a little of your life! I am also a stutterer and whenever I can I try to improve with reading aloud repiration and p.n.l or neuroliguistic programming. you are an example for those who want to improve. kisses
U R amazing 🤩 you are so beautiful and confident, advise from a person who stutter you should take breath before you speak do not push the word try to speak slowly it’s helps A LOT !👍🏼 try not to say all the sentence in one breath . Break it . Have a good day you’re so brave 🥰💗the video was so fun to hear
I am also ex stammer so I understand all things . You have a confident and you accept yourself this is good. Now you try to focus and control your breath because breath is very important .. god bless you.
You dont have to try hard to say the word that you can't say...just relax...take a deep breath first... and find another word with same worth...when you get nervous or exciting you will getting hard to say somethin' right...when you get so exciting try to calm...relax...take a few seconds...and say it again with low tone...it will help you...okeyyy... Keep spirit...you awesome...you know that...if you dont have a boyfriend...i'll marry you...surrreeee...you so georgious...kin...and...i love your eyes
I don't stutter myself but my ex-boyfriend did. He didn't particularly stutter but he had these "locks" when he was trying to say some word but it didn't came out. I never think anything about it because we all are different. Some are deaf, some of us blind etc.. And I never care about how someone says things and speaks, but I care what kind of person you are, I mean in general. If you are a great person, like these awesome ladies seems to be, then I would love to talk to you. ♥️😊 Don't care about ignorant ppl who must be so "perfect" themself. 🙄 Just be yourself and be proud of it! It doesn't matter how you say it, it matters what you say. 🙂
I stuttered (we call it "Stammering" in India) a lot since my childhood days. According to my parents, I talked well initially but after suffering twice from typhoid at the age of 4 years, this stammering developed. Initially, I struggled a lot during my childhood days in school and then in colleges. However, most of my friends were very cooperative and understood my difficulty and helped me wherever they could. Those were the days when there was no internet, no mobiles and no youtube. So I was just alone in my world. I passed many years from there on (now I am 60) and overcame many negative situations in my life. I still stutter but a lot lot lot less compared to my childhood days. According to latest researches, this is perhaps a genetic disorder and in my case it seems to have come from my maternal side. Although my mother doesn't stammer, two of her brothers stammer a lot. What I observe from the video, you stutter on Cs, Ss, Is, etc whereas I never stuttered on these but I stuttered on Ts, Ds etc. So it varies from person to person. It seems that you are a girl of very strong confidence and I wish all the best in your life and may God bless you to become a successful woman in your future life. Thanks to your friend, who is so cooperative. Subscribed your channel.
I’m Japanese stuttering. I have seen first foreigner stuttering. That makes me think about various things. Anyway, thank you for up your video! From Japan, I hope for your success!!
I noticed that you struggle with words beginning with A and H even D especially if it’s at the beginning of a sentence.. same here girl. It feels like the words get stuck n you’re all tensed up . I feel you . A small advise from me, u could try this For eg it’s Alex Say aaaaaalex instead of saying the whole word with one shot Let that A drag for a while and then complete your word Helps me too
I don't know how stutter therapies in US look like, (or if there are any) but I'm preety sure if you were to undergo therapy in my Country (which is Poland) where I had my therapy, I guarantee that your problem would ceased. You very brave putting the videos on YT. But also you need a help with that, it just won't go by itself Paige. Greetings from Poland ✌️
@@tori5468 W Mikołowie. Już dobre kilka lat temu - Nowa Mowa Poznałem też wiele osób której pomogła ta terapia więc działa, chodź pamiętam że sporo kasy w to władowałem i jeszcze więcej czasu i zaangażowania
I want to congratulate you for your videos. I think you are brave and that is very important. I am stutter too and I am not that brave. For me is difficult to overcome the shame. God bless you.
Okay first of all this video makes me feel way better since I stutter but the thing I didn’t like was when the other girl nod her head when Paige said “Awww, you do love me” and the girl nod her head and said with her mouth but not aloud “No I don’t”.
Hi, really, really great video. I have a question. You guys mention the emotional part of stuttering in addition to the physical. And, Paige, you clarify that that's in reference to you. I am wondering if you are talking about the emotional *effects* of growing up with and living with a stutter, or an emotional *cause.* I know that researchers, for a pretty long time now, believe that stuttering is a neurological disorder, not primarily psychological, the way they used to think. But some people believe that their stutter started with a traumatic event. That doesn't rule out that there's a physical underlying element, of course, but it adds a possible other layer. OR you may have been talking about the usually massive emotional and effects of having a stutter. Hoping you can clear this up for me. Thanks very much.
I know the challenge it can be very frustrating to me, it is hard to meet people for me especially those who don't have like any understanding. Next year this 17 yo male will like enter legal adulthood as I suppose I shall like carry this with me at the end of the day. Stay safe and be well during this pandemic. Thank you.
It's great that you have such a nice friend who understands your stuttering and is totally cool with it.
I stutter and I’m 13. I’ve been stuttering since I was 4 so I barely remember talking fluently. Your videos help me so much and I feel like I’m not alone now.
Areej oh my gosh same, my stuttering has been pretty bad lately
CORONA exacerbates stuttering, no ? damn
dont worry I had the same problem, as far as I can see our dear paige has no problem when she is not aware that somebody looks at her , also she should not do so much effort to speak, if some W or V or P etc does not come out , scip the W etc at the start of the word , also look for a better and bigger vocabulary so You can forget about the words who are not coming out easily, kisses from mexico
Samee.
I’m almost 12 and I stutter and I’ve been stuttering I think since I got pushed on the ground and hit my head really bad the and the concussion lasted like I think a year or that’s the numb I had on my head and yeah it made me stutter ig idrk what happened
It is key for any young stutterer to find one person who has the patience to wait for you to speak. Someone who won't judge, or laugh, or roll their eyes, or laugh at you behind your back. In my experience, such people are rare. 🙂
maybe very nice to speak with another person who has the same problem , I believe that in that way both can help eachother.
Its hard because many times you can pick up what they are meant to say before the person that stutters finish it so you have to stay "interested" and wait for the rest of the sentence even if its not necessary and costs some time. Regardless that, I never make fun, roll my eyes, complete, etc...
@@rustcohle9267 We understand that we're difficult to listen to--the awareness of which only adds to our frustration and anxiety. All we ask for is a little extra patience...which you seem to have. And for that, I thank you. 🙂
@@roy1701d Yea, I do have a childhood friend who stutters and sometimes i feel disappointed and upset that people dont want to know her better or just ignores what she has to say/offer. She is so kind, caring, smart, beautiful and empathetic, an incredible person, that the "stutters thing" doesnt bother me at all. She seems to care about more than I do.
I often demonstrate or tell her that she doesnt need to act like someday I'll listen to the stutter, get bored and suddenly get out of her life or something like that. I can understand why and I think you can relate to. She shouldnt be afraid of people leaving her.
@@rustcohle9267 Thing is, stutterers are the most empathetic, understanding and loyal people you'll ever meet. Something about growing up with the condition brings that out, it seems. 🙂
I wish I had such a positive friend before depression completely takes over.
I have so much to share (love, sadness, anger ) all traped in me for many years.
the only friend I have is the image of my self in the mirror.
outside the call me a good listener but deep down am not, its how fluent people talk that amazes me.
I stutter too and you are such an amazing person
I have a stutter too and now, you made me cry. such a wonderful relationship. I wish I had a friendship like yours. You two are perfect for each other. Love this video. From Japan 🇯🇵
Can we talk? Just stutter to stutter
Love seeing the support ❤️ sending love ! I’m also a person who stutters.
Hi do you have facebook so i can add you? I also stutter
@@andreibe1926 i also stutter.
@@Lilja2022 Same it's horrible
Awesome to see you again, plus your friend is a badass.
I enjoy watching all your videos Paige. As a person who stutters, your videos give others strength, solidarity and hope
Your tattoo "I speak freely not fluently" is f*cking briljant. I might even have to steal that idea from you. It's noticeable that you stutter less the moment you look at your phone, disengaging conversation. I do the exact same thing.
Hey Paige. I stutter a lot, mostly with my family which is very odd to me, I also hate, hatee talking on the phone.
What helped me gain confidence is to stop vocally stutter. I just stop, and breathe. If i’m with friends, sometimes I start laughing 😅 I also constantly look for synonyms of the words I’m trying to say (some might come easy)
It’s a huge mental drain but we’re in this together. ✌️ keep posting! Love from Romania
I feel very bad for Paige she is a very beatiful girl, but I never seen someone stutter this bad, I stutter my self, but I can control it, and it's not so frequent, and when I'm happy and have confidence then I don't stutter at all, a lot of people in my life don't even know i'm a stutterer. I would like to hug Paige and say everything will be fine, and give her a few tips how to make it easier, what to do what not. I can see the pain in her eyes. :( Much love.
Speaking is not a big deal at all for the people who don't stutter. It's only us who are so concerned about it!!
there are plenty of people who dont stutter that are terrible speakers...Listen to Mr Trump...lol. I'd rather listen to Paige than many of the people I hear. For Real!!!!
I stutter and i absolutely admire your confidence ❤💯😊
She speaks fleuntly when she speaks with herself or when she is not concentrating that much because if you're always self conscious about how you're gonna sound and people's reactions,than when you talk try to breath as much as you can it will get better. I love you ❤️ now I know that most people suffers from this too and you gave me my confidence back.
You’re seriously so inspirational. I had a stutter that started in high school and has gotten a lot better over time. The best thing for me was getting over anxiety and upping my confidence. Glad to see more videos from you! Keep up the great content!
You two are such sweet friends! This is a wonderful learning experience for all of us.
When you feel ostracized for who you are, it's so incredible to meet people that become your friends. It's fantastic that you found that with your friend. Looks as if you two are a dynamic duo...a pretty dynamic duo at that 🙂
if you're reading this I send you a lot of love and support Paige, you're such an inspiration for all of us who stutter 🌍🙌🏻🌟💯! Greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽!
Your friend is a real one for sure! I stutter to just like you in the aspect of when we are forced to talk it’s hard to speak unlike when we can freely speak it’s not as bad.
Paige is so beautiful and brave. I love her courage. Why did she stop making videos though? God bless her heart.
A lot of us in life complain about the things we can't do or our witness or how shitty our situation is;but forget that there are others out there going through worse and for those going through worse, there are also others and the chain continues.
What ever you can or can't do;just be greatful.for happy with who you are .
Thanks so much for this video.Your life really inspires me✋🏿✋🏿
As a mild to moderate stutterer since I was a young child, I have hid from social interactions and from certain words. I mostly experience blocks but also the occasional repetitions and prolongations. Thank you for being brave and putting yourself out there by saying what you want to say, when you want to say it. You've inspired me today to practice my speech not in the pursuit of fluency but of acceptance of myself.
A lot of respect for doing this. So inspiring to see. I myself struggled with stuttering all my life til only a few years ago. And I can appreciate the frustration and I know how hard it is to speak in front of the camera
Hey after seeing all these beautiful people speak on stuttering I've finally gathered enough courage to come out and speak on it myself
th-cam.com/play/PLNqbOqYFkL1BLbVqk9TH6sJFI9GSZb0fq.html
Please let me know what you thought of it
Two beautiful human being, the world needs more people like you, love every moment of this video, I myself have stutter all my life 👍👍😻
That intro takes me back to my High school days. Having to say my name or how old i was. The struggle is real.
What a great caring friend you have who truly cares about you. She is supportive of you and helps you. I stuttered for 25 years. I stuttered Even when I joined the Army. A lot of my fellow soldiers were patient with me. I felt more relaxed when I spoke to the drill sergeants who were loud and in my face. Your videos inspire me to speak better without a stutter when I am in the public eye or when I get anxious. Thank you for the video.
Paige you are so lovely! Sending you a virtual hug from a fellow stutterer from Italy... all the best
I think another good question is, How does your stutter affect your dating life? However, I know it can be personal and touchy for some. My general assumption and being a stutterer myself, females that stutter have it easier dating, compared to males that stutter. Why? Because by social/society standards, its still expected of guys to engage in conversation first, lead, and etc. The extra effort we men that stutter have to put in. Statistics also shows that females that stutter are more then likely to marry still, and or be in relationships, vurses a male that stutters. I myself can attest. 27 years and only been in 1 relationship ever. Twas with a great friend, we went in to it, which was her idea in the first place, we gave it some time, she was patient with me, but eventually she apologized and told me that she couldn't be with me because of my stutter. She hoped that we could remain friends, but I couldn't, so I basically up and left. I became a ghost because I thought that I didint have the right to be anything or anyone anymore because of my stutter. When I began my first semester at college, and at age 21, we ran into each other, and she noticed me first. She was married, had two kids of her own already, and it was her final college year as well. We did some catching up, and that was it. Didn't exchange numbers or anything afterwards, and that was it. Our biggest curses are those that are self imposed. My emotions got the best of me, and I threw away our friendship. It was a beautiful friendship then, and to this day I still believe that we could have been beautiful again. 4 years as friends, and almost a year as a couple. Plus, she was my first friend at the school then because I had just moved from Michigan. However, I understand others may see my situation differently. To this day I still get dreams about her loving me, being in a school environment with her, missing the bus, school stairs missing the stairs, and etc. As always, salute to my fellow stutterers.
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Paige you are so beautiful and lovely. 💟 I love your cuteness. You are a good speaker and beautiful minded person. I wish I could have a friend like you.
#stutterfromBangladesh.
I think stuttering is caused by a traumatic event between the ages of 2-7. As a Clinical Hypnotherapist I have found the cause of 100% of my clients. anything from a dog barking in a child's face, to a child seeing some one get shot. This is the spectrum that I have worked with. If any one has any questions about finding the cause of your stutter, please let me know. I think if you can find the cause, you can get to the cure. Thank you for your time.
I began to have a stutter when I was in the 7th grade and I was with several friends and was excited to say something but I couldn’t get the words out. I quit most speaking because it was embarrassing. My parents never talked about it with me. People thought I was shy. High school was terrible. I couldn’t express myself and felt like I was missing out on life. I finally got a job where I had to talk more and had to knock on people’s doors to tell them I was going to shut their electricity off if they didn’t pay their power bill. It wasn’t a lot of talking but I gradually improved and kept gaining confidence. At about 28 years old I had improved a lot. Now I enjoy speaking and people can’t believe that I had a time in my life where I didn’t talk or wasn’t outgoing. I feel much better now and am very happy. I wish someone had helped me but most probably thought I was just shy. Now I’m 58 and have a 22 year old son that stutters. He gets angry when I try to talk with him about it. I’m going to keep trying to help him.
More power to you! :)
just a tip, I try to use it but it’s difficult for me to include in this in my daily speech - it’s to slow down and speak on an exhale and find an own rhythm, slowly
I can see all the strength and power in your eyes, 💪 your videos make me feel very much better about myself so thank you so much. :)
Very good video. I always love to see how ppl who love us see us with our stutter. It helps me a lot. I’ve learned they don’t care. Bc they love us.
there should be a stuttering support group, I would love that.
I'm a stutter too, but there is a technique that can help you. First of all, keep in mind that it is okay if you stutter, it is only a matter of time to convey your message to the listener, secondly, when speaking, try to focus on the first sound of the sentence, do not think about how you pronounce the all sentence In one go, practice pronouncing the sentence in one breath without interrupting the breath in the middle of it, and try to relax your body when speaking like you are a little bit lazy. my best wishes for you, you are so beautiful :)
Your anxiety is high. As a stutter myself I recognize the symptoms. You're getting ahead of yourself in your head. When you are relax you're much more fluent like when you told your friend you loved her.
This is the best video ever!! Like seriously, I love it! Also, your best friend seems super cool and patient. #fellowstutterer
You're amazing to stutteres like myself
Hello Paige, fellow stutterer here. Nice to see more people who stutter are doing vlogs. I wanted to DM you about something I noticed watching your videos but I decided to post it here in case it might help others. One of the few techniques I took from speech therapy was stopping when I have a block. I don't remember the correct terminology. I noticed you force yourself to produce a sound when you have a block. Instead, stop and start over whenever you have a block. That way, you can take a breathe and don't exhaust yourself. It might feel uncomfortable initially but when you get used it, you will notice a big difference.
Continue doing these vlogs. In addition to it being an outlet for you, it will help so many people. Am so proud of you. Much love!
Thank you for the advice! ❤️ my blocks are sadly different than most. When I block and get stuck on a sound I simply cannot stop the sound I am making. My stomach (my diaphragm) and my throat lock up and I have no choice but to ride the block out.
@@paigewhite648 Thank you for letting me know your block is different. That's what makes stuttering so interesting. We all have something unique about our stuttering journey. Much love
From a fellow stutterer/stammerer here in England, this is aimed specifically at the people that are saying they feel alone and don’t have any friends like this that understand what it’s like to have a stammer. You are not alone and you do have friends that understand because we are your friends and here to support. I’m a 37 year old with a stammer for about 30 years. I’m not a speech therapist but I’d love to share some of my ‘techniques’. I’m sure it’s all stuff you have heard before but I’d love to share advice and take advice also.
I really appriciate your effort and ur courage that u r making video on it...because so many people has this problem but they dont want to talk about this...they hide this problem from everyone and because of this problem the get alone and very lonely....
You are both very brave to make this. First time i’ve seen your videos and this was amazing to watch. As a fellow stutterer visibility of others who go through the same thing can be so powerful. Thanks for sharing and great to hear from your friend who understands so well.
No one:
Literally no one:
Me: I guess I'm not alone
You are not alone
This is a beautiful video and I love your hair 😍
Amazing girls, keep up the content!
Have your stutters ever made you mad
I am also stuttering since my childhood and for this I face many problems in my school and public. I really love your videos and I get more confidence . But this is true that if you make vlogs and post on TH-cam and social media stammering can overcome easil . Keep it up 😊😊
No need to be sorry, we feel you.
Happy to hear from you again ,, i stutter too and im proud of you my friend ❤
i think when she is comfortable , she stutters very less
anyways i love your personality, you are amazing
Love this video sooooo much, I love the heart of your friend this was amazing. Please keep making videos!!!!! So which sounds are the hardest for you
I stutter for about 30 years. In my experience more/less stuttering has to do with youre mood and the speed you talk. If i talk slow (almost same as singing a song) then i stutter way less, because youre not forcing the words out. Mood for me has to do with the person i talk to. If i know or trust this person my mood is better and i stutter less. Hope this helps a bit :)
Glad to see you're doing good! Keep up the good work.
congratulations beautiful for being so authentic and do not be intimidated to show a little of your life! I am also a stutterer and whenever I can I try to improve with reading aloud repiration and p.n.l or neuroliguistic programming. you are an example for those who want to improve. kisses
get into it yuhhhhh... dope as video. ❤️
Thank you love!!!
U R amazing 🤩 you are so beautiful and confident, advise from a person who stutter you should take breath before you speak do not push the word try to speak slowly it’s helps A LOT !👍🏼 try not to say all the sentence in one breath . Break it . Have a good day you’re so brave 🥰💗the video was so fun to hear
You’re in good spirit, love your videos ❤️
I'm glad that my Cutie pie has such a good friend who totally understands about my cutie pie's stuttering problems
i stutter but only with the letter a s l but other than that i can speak fluently
a dream friend...
I just wanted to be the 100th viewer. Cool to see a friends perspective!
If you start stuttering,just take a pause dont stress on yourself
I have self cured my Stammering by 95% by doing some breathing exercises
Plz advise if need some tips
As a lifelong stutterer your videos are very impactful
I am also ex stammer so I understand all things . You have a confident and you accept yourself this is good. Now you try to focus and control your breath because breath is very important .. god bless you.
Nice to met you again💙you are a strong girl💙
they both so cuteeeee! 💜💜💟💜💜
You dont have to try hard to say the word that you can't say...just relax...take a deep breath first... and find another word with same worth...when you get nervous or exciting you will getting hard to say somethin' right...when you get so exciting try to calm...relax...take a few seconds...and say it again with low tone...it will help you...okeyyy...
Keep spirit...you awesome...you know that...if you dont have a boyfriend...i'll marry you...surrreeee...you so georgious...kin...and...i love your eyes
you're pretty
I wish I had a good friend like that
Actully i have same problem .... i am also feeling very lonely and alone...i dont like to talk with anybody..so thats i have no friends ...
Awesome, your friend is a super cool sock! 😘
I don't stutter myself but my ex-boyfriend did. He didn't particularly stutter but he had these "locks" when he was trying to say some word but it didn't came out.
I never think anything about it because we all are different. Some are deaf, some of us blind etc.. And I never care about how someone says things and speaks, but I care what kind of person you are, I mean in general. If you are a great person, like these awesome ladies seems to be, then I would love to talk to you. ♥️😊
Don't care about ignorant ppl who must be so "perfect" themself. 🙄 Just be yourself and be proud of it!
It doesn't matter how you say it, it matters what you say. 🙂
I had one when I was at school when I left at 16 it disappeared over the years I'm 36 now
I love you so much ... and keep downloading clips with your girlfriend, cute🥺💞.
SaudAribya her 🇸🇦💜.
@Rana اهلين😂😂.
Rana malik2017 my snap
@Rana مدريي😂
I stuttered (we call it "Stammering" in India) a lot since my childhood days. According to my parents, I talked well initially but after suffering twice from typhoid at the age of 4 years, this stammering developed.
Initially, I struggled a lot during my childhood days in school and then in colleges. However, most of my friends were very cooperative and understood my difficulty and helped me wherever they could. Those were the days when there was no internet, no mobiles and no youtube. So I was just alone in my world.
I passed many years from there on (now I am 60) and overcame many negative situations in my life. I still stutter but a lot lot lot less compared to my childhood days. According to latest researches, this is perhaps a genetic disorder and in my case it seems to have come from my maternal side. Although my mother doesn't stammer, two of her brothers stammer a lot.
What I observe from the video, you stutter on Cs, Ss, Is, etc whereas I never stuttered on these but I stuttered on Ts, Ds etc. So it varies from person to person. It seems that you are a girl of very strong confidence and I wish all the best in your life and may God bless you to become a successful woman in your future life. Thanks to your friend, who is so cooperative.
Subscribed your channel.
Y’all are so pretty omg
I’m Japanese stuttering. I have seen first foreigner stuttering. That makes me think about various things. Anyway, thank you for up your video! From Japan, I hope for your success!!
I'm stammer too you're videos keeps me motivated. Keep it up Paige love and support from India 👍
Life leaves us blind,
Love keep us kind.
I'm also a person who stutters
I noticed that you struggle with words beginning with A and H even D especially if it’s at the beginning of a sentence.. same here girl. It feels like the words get stuck n you’re all tensed up . I feel you . A small advise from me, u could try this
For eg it’s Alex
Say aaaaaalex instead of saying the whole word with one shot
Let that A drag for a while and then complete your word
Helps me too
You are amazing,i love this video
Do you also stutter when talking only to yourself or pets?
I don't know how stutter therapies in US look like, (or if there are any) but I'm preety sure if you were to undergo therapy in my Country (which is Poland) where I had my therapy, I guarantee that your problem would ceased. You very brave putting the videos on YT. But also you need a help with that, it just won't go by itself Paige.
Greetings from Poland ✌️
Cześć . Możesz więcej powiedzieć na ten temat ? Gdzie i jak udało Cię pozbyć jąkania ?
@@tori5468 W Mikołowie. Już dobre kilka lat temu - Nowa Mowa Poznałem też wiele osób której pomogła ta terapia więc działa, chodź pamiętam że sporo kasy w to władowałem i jeszcze więcej czasu i zaangażowania
I LITERALLY have no friend that understands me.
I guess you're a LUCKY girl....PAIGE
Your awsome paige!!! Love your channel
I want to congratulate you for your videos. I think you are brave and that is very important. I am stutter too and I am not that brave. For me is difficult to overcome the shame.
God bless you.
You are a very good lady, I wish you the best 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Great video! So interesting
Sometime I laugh on my stutter. Btw, do you get headache after talk a lot?
Okay first of all this video makes me feel way better since I stutter but the thing I didn’t like was when the other girl nod her head when Paige said “Awww, you do love me” and the girl nod her head and said with her mouth but not aloud “No I don’t”.
How beautiful you are Paigee😮😮❤
you're super cute!
she is so cute ^^
Hi, really, really great video. I have a question. You guys mention the emotional part of stuttering in addition to the physical. And, Paige, you clarify that that's in reference to you. I am wondering if you are talking about the emotional *effects* of growing up with and living with a stutter, or an emotional *cause.* I know that researchers, for a pretty long time now, believe that stuttering is a neurological disorder, not primarily psychological, the way they used to think. But some people believe that their stutter started with a traumatic event. That doesn't rule out that there's a physical underlying element, of course, but it adds a possible other layer. OR you may have been talking about the usually massive emotional and effects of having a stutter. Hoping you can clear this up for me. Thanks very much.
you're both so beautiful and nice people i hope the best for you and your amazing friendship
You are so beautiful Paige! ❤️
D-d-d-d-danci-i-ing
I know the challenge it can be very frustrating to me, it is hard to meet people for me especially those who don't have like any understanding. Next year this 17 yo male will like enter legal adulthood as I suppose I shall like carry this with me at the end of the day. Stay safe and be well during this pandemic. Thank you.
hello I have a question for you!! is it okay to think that stutters are cute? and is it okay to headcanon characters to have a stutter?