Tottywat - Letter 4 Her (Lyrics)

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  • @kduckett44
    @kduckett44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Emotional abuse is very hard to get over, but songs like this makes me feel not so alone, thank you keep up the great work 🥰

    • @SerenadeSiren221
      @SerenadeSiren221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree ☝🏽 I was in a abusive relationship for 2 years…. EMOTIONAL ABUSE is the absolute worst

    • @teasha7794
      @teasha7794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @teasha7794
      @teasha7794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SerenadeSiren221 im in one right now

    • @ScottBelew-xr1lk
      @ScottBelew-xr1lk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      QQaaaaa​@@teasha7794

    • @evelyngaines161
      @evelyngaines161 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oqiv

  • @luhcraig7230
    @luhcraig7230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Keeping making music like this because women need to realize that are Queens.

    • @yousramalek1028
      @yousramalek1028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Myl I I

    • @thesuusful
      @thesuusful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Scythe Inc. what are we then ?

    • @youwish5559
      @youwish5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Scythe Inc. glad it women is a queen ,but u sound like someone I no honnie but all women r queens until a basic azz f.boy crosses them out an throws the queen off her feet an on her azz..cause he was less of a man when he was suppose to be her king...simple an basic women r also queens with good intentions an good hearts an easily tooken advantage of...I'm simple basic with good intentions a a good loving heart....J's

    • @jeffrey586
      @jeffrey586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aa

    • @thesuusful
      @thesuusful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Scythe Inc. you guys are better then woman? Is that what you think?

  • @hannamalik7365
    @hannamalik7365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    12years four kids later I left my narcissistic husband...heard this song first time and in tears.to all my queens heal through it and love yourself and those who truly respect & love you ❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

    • @luckyc1553
      @luckyc1553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I left an abusive relationship after 13 and he was also narcissistic and we had 3 kids. Wow so similar

    • @DivineDesign-70x7
      @DivineDesign-70x7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      10 years with him, rapid bipolar manic depression 1 child. Never worked i took care of him, didnt help me enough. Lazy and video games everyday for half of the day while i worked cleaned and cooked. Now he's being the exact man I needed him to be, responsible working multiple jobs he works for a town counsil member helps him run his busineses. Hes gotten help for managing his mental health but now he's all of these things for someone else. I was the test dummy, I was the trial and error, I was the learning curb for all the mistakes that he won't make again. Now he knows how to treat a woman and now that woman is enjoying my blood sweat and tears I invested and gave my all. No one would have stayed with him through all of that. Now im chopped liver used and abused old and tired. I have nothing but painful memories and picture albums that haunt me. I saw them together today. He was driving her car to pick her up from work and they looked so happy to see eachother and then they kissed. I feel like I died inside and 10 years with it. This is a part of life I could do without. I rather not know love at all then know that love really hurts.

  • @chelseaallicock2800
    @chelseaallicock2800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I was in a abusive relationship for 4 years. Thank you. This made me cry but i know its going to be okay

    • @cuteemojis9071
      @cuteemojis9071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I get u get im there now its hard and this song hits home

    • @sarahtarver9048
      @sarahtarver9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was married to my abuser. I caught him with another woman in my bed I left. It hurts so bad

    • @joanieadkins1091
      @joanieadkins1091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This song holds a part of my heart I love them family 🌟🌜

    • @teasha7794
      @teasha7794 ปีที่แล้ว

      This song make mw cry all the time

    • @trulyboygio2260
      @trulyboygio2260 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why u ain’t just fight back

  • @tqueen7131
    @tqueen7131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When you click on a song your son sends you..it brought tears. I love your music, been a fan since. Thank you for such an uplifting song it helped me get through a lot.

  • @kailydavis4312
    @kailydavis4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This song makes me feel less alone . Females need to know they don’t need no one but themselves . Who cares ab what people got to say ab you when they don’t know u only u knows u . Stay strong everyone 💕

    • @JoshLafredo
      @JoshLafredo ปีที่แล้ว

      what about men in abusive relationships? i should know been in quite a few there were nights where i couldnt sleep for days on end cuz i didnt know if i was gonna wake up or not

    • @Addisongrace12
      @Addisongrace12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I AGREE!!!!!💞

  • @brib2831
    @brib2831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    (im not crying...my eyes are sweating lol) Wow...I love this. Not only are you very talented but the words you sing are healing words...the world needs more of that. So many women needed/need to hear this.Thank you for sharing your talent with us.🖤

  • @QuadCityMusic
    @QuadCityMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My girl who’s been through a lot showed this to me and it’s left it’s mark on me forever. Hearing such a beautiful song from such a strong woman only made me love it and her even more. I don’t know if we will last forever but hearing this FROM her. Only made me realize how much better we all need to be towards woman. I try my best but I can always be better. I’m sorry to all the woman who feel this song deeper than they portray. I’m forever grateful to this artist and to her for showing me this

    • @hayliethomas4327
      @hayliethomas4327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We appreciate men like you !!! That meant a lot !! Thank you

  • @shaylynjohnson5266
    @shaylynjohnson5266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I absolutely love this song. It helps me every time I get hurt by anyone and it makes me realize you don't need anyone to make u happy.

  • @tyshineaharris4292
    @tyshineaharris4292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this song so much I cried reminiscing all the things I've been through in my relationships being abuse and damn near dying 💔 and it still hurts just thinking about it but I'm still healing and listen to this this song on repeat hit different... keep up the great music

  • @lindsyortiz1990
    @lindsyortiz1990 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Damn this on repeat till my heart heals ❤ thank you 🙏🏾

  • @luhcraig7230
    @luhcraig7230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I love this song and he speaking nothing but fax 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Ezra_savage
    @Ezra_savage ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really needed this because it wasn’t just one man that did this to me and I sent this to my friend who also needed this ❤ I did nothing but love unconditionally.. I know how it feels to feel unappreciated an unloved.. so I try to love others the way I wish to be loved because I know they need it..

  • @keniareveles2249
    @keniareveles2249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The beautiful thing about this song is that I actually know the artist in person and this song came to my ears in a moment that I had just left an abusive relationship and it hit my soul big S/O to ghost for creating this masterpiece ‼️

    • @sezzie1992
      @sezzie1992 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ghost 😢no 😊❤

  • @believeinyourself2261
    @believeinyourself2261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who ever you are it takes one of the realest as well as a damn good man for a man to recognize how much a man could destroy a women mentally but notice an feel her pain an push that women to keep going!!

  • @chloiestippel1416
    @chloiestippel1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Falling in love with it even more and more each time I play it

  • @caressacaprice
    @caressacaprice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6 years of so much pain and damage. I have a long road ahead of me of healing. Thank you for the song 🎧 💚

  • @believeinyourself2261
    @believeinyourself2261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Its such a surprise feeling from Within to hear there are men out here who can recognize another man doing wrong to women out here still I hold this song in my heart because it really helps me personally realize that not all can be the same with a man being the one who felt this within to sing about

  • @karena5641
    @karena5641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is a beautiful song. You are very talented. I heard this on a short and had to come find the whole song. Thank you! I didn't realize how much I needed to hear those words 🙏🏻❤

    • @deannas6950
      @deannas6950 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @deannas6950
      @deannas6950 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel like I just broke into a safe all off a short clip

  • @CHRISTINAFlores-xn5jk
    @CHRISTINAFlores-xn5jk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's truly hard to pick my pieces up right now but thank you this song is beautiful. I'm struggling bad right now I'm going through a very rough time. I'm a survivor of abuse but i feel weak right now but my children are my strength and i can make it through anything

  • @weeeebee6239
    @weeeebee6239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such an amazing song. Younger me is looking back at the abusive relationships I’ve been in. I pray you’re okay too! 1 in a million as well.

  • @Ashleypigg-b3d
    @Ashleypigg-b3d ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just left my abuser a year and two months ago and it’s still hurts sometimes but I met someone who makes me feel like a one and a million ❤

  • @macctee3431
    @macctee3431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This song is on point I was in a bad toxic relationship once it’s over it’s over this type shit get me threw keep grinding 🤟

  • @mzwonderland17
    @mzwonderland17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    After a 6 yr abusive relationship I definitely needed a song long this so thank you!💜

  • @shelleybegay9082
    @shelleybegay9082 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @jessicadunn3829
    @jessicadunn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This song has me crying. I married this man twice thought it'd be different but it was so much worse than 2nd time..... love this song thank you

  • @babydollpollita9482
    @babydollpollita9482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Keep doing Music like this is females need to learn we are queens thank you so much love this song!

  • @only1Zsanellsmith
    @only1Zsanellsmith ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You sent me this song yesterday 🔥🔥🔥in the most miserable time in my life precisely I'm trying everyday to get my life back and get back on my feet to be happy again in every way possible I miss my kids father of 22 years and I didn't understand how life would be this horrible after he left me on this earth out of the blue just to meet demons and fall in love with the devil😢 the emotional verbal physical and financial abuse I've been through make me feel ashamed and sick of myself I'll listen to this everyday 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I'm praying for everyone who's unhappy with their significant other for peace and strength in their fight❤ I'll never forget these lyrics it this song as long as I live because I'd rather die alone than try again💯

  • @Raider.Ps99
    @Raider.Ps99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How does this song not have more likes? This song is 🔥 Sad that females go through stuff like that keep your head up queens

  • @kayleebarnes5380
    @kayleebarnes5380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Okay, now this made me ugly cry but I definitely needed to hear this. Keep making music like this please🥺

  • @zarajohanna1891
    @zarajohanna1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Saw it, saved it, replayed it, treasured it. ❤️

  • @juicyfruit491
    @juicyfruit491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Made me a new and reformed woman. It's all about forgiveness that mended my heart ♥

  • @Dalhence
    @Dalhence หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's really hard to find love in this world rn ,, but were working through it i'm soo glad i found love in a world where some people didn't know how to love correctly

  • @nessa5981
    @nessa5981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Your speaking facts and I just got my heart broken thank you I needed this 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥💙

  • @tiffleroy4558
    @tiffleroy4558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🔥🔥 love this. Hits home. You are great keep writing and singing. God bless

  • @shaylawhite8050
    @shaylawhite8050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heard this song tonight, while on Instagram. Definitely can relate, when you was a Amazing person to this person and they completely did you so wrong and dirty like nobody has ever did you before. It's hurts, yet in the end..you know you gonna be alright.

  • @myacalvillo371
    @myacalvillo371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your music is a inspiration I’m always listening to each an every song I love writing so I have your songs into my journal , Each time I feel lost or down I listen to them an sing them

  • @TrinityCastaneda-f4m
    @TrinityCastaneda-f4m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alot of shit was going on in my relationship with my 1yr old he has abuse and use and stuff, thank you for this song. 😢❤💔

  • @zaraedgar2022
    @zaraedgar2022 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hearing this helped me heal so much you don't understand how you have helped thank you so much. If I didn't hear I'm telling you now I would of had a meltdown. You're appreciated 💯♥️

  • @shibainu9020
    @shibainu9020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a survivor really thankful for this song

  • @whitneyduncan2550
    @whitneyduncan2550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this song. Definitely needed to hear this after my previous marriage.

  • @McKayla-2014
    @McKayla-2014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true this song has me in tears 😢😢

  • @mercedezpinski326
    @mercedezpinski326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years and it’s been 2 years since I left and almost a year since I sent him to prison. I just found this song yesterday but it’s already my favorite song it makes me cry every time but I know I’m going to be okay.

    • @joanieadkins1091
      @joanieadkins1091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      7 years abused this is a new chapter for u leave pick up everything and move one I have a page to look at holler at my fb any time Joanie Adkins leave no pain leave up to the moon if u don't they can kill u without knowing

    • @myagibson7144
      @myagibson7144 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same girl

  • @AprilCastro-w3x
    @AprilCastro-w3x ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a survivor ❤ thank you I love it may you get your blessings 🙏😇🥰❤️🌹 let God be your peace and strength amen 🙏😇

  • @DesToner25
    @DesToner25 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wanted to come on here and say thank you, I listened to this song when it first came out and I was in a very toxic relationship and this song and love lost helped me gain the confidence to leave and now I’m married and have a kid. You helped me choose a better path in life so thank you and please never quit making music I’ll forever support you🫶

  • @eternalinsanity6798
    @eternalinsanity6798 ปีที่แล้ว

    This new guy I’m talking to , showed me this and I can’t stop listening or crying to it ! Such an emotional release knowing people can relate 😢

  • @lorenaaguilar2524
    @lorenaaguilar2524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song is everything and so true. My favorite song thank you for making music like this.

  • @Neishaa_xoxo
    @Neishaa_xoxo ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much who ever you are for creating this song..I needed this so bad

  • @MohamudShine
    @MohamudShine ปีที่แล้ว

    😢Its help me with my break up and thanks for reminding us that we are queens and deserve better ❤ love your song it's sick and true bless your heart

  • @bethanygilbert2835
    @bethanygilbert2835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate this song so much my abuser is in jail and I been away 3 months god saved me and this song is amazing thank you for acknowledging us

  • @charlottebales1831
    @charlottebales1831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I listen to this every morning to keep me reminded to keep my head up! thank you for this! it was something i didnt know i needed ❤️

    • @tqueen7131
      @tqueen7131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same but switch it before bed

  • @JaneDoe-do5ur
    @JaneDoe-do5ur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your music! You got me on tic tok like ooohhh! ❤️

  • @yvonnedavis7391
    @yvonnedavis7391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this song. Makes me cry

  • @ronnielangley6364
    @ronnielangley6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man bro same here this shit hits me where I need it its like me nd you been thru some similar things and im a rapper myself nd your music has made me able to express emotions in my songs much love fm till the end brofm

  • @Holly-ns5lq
    @Holly-ns5lq ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you I know I'm one the Queen of Reno♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️I appreciate hear it!

  • @shannonmanning6485
    @shannonmanning6485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love all his songs my new favorite artist

  • @flam3339
    @flam3339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro I was here when you had like 60 views, It's been a while an Im still vibin 😭😭❤️ Much love bro I'm proud of you 💯

  • @soleilgardemal4359
    @soleilgardemal4359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alright I'ma listen to this song on repeat now

  • @lauren.b7546
    @lauren.b7546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Keep making songs like it for use queens your songs are amazing I love them thank you 😊 🥺

  • @kaleighaspahn-kd8dm
    @kaleighaspahn-kd8dm ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro took hella positive quotes and turned them into a song. I love it.

  • @nataliejones6431
    @nataliejones6431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please keep making songs like this im going through a heartbreak right now

  • @angieholbert4531
    @angieholbert4531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Touched me in a place that I didn't realize I still had 💓💓💓

  • @shirley_800
    @shirley_800 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This hits hard when you love someone so much you can’t let go or overthink😭🥹

  • @leannefischer451
    @leannefischer451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Came from TikTok. I felt this as soon as the first line dropped. Much love and thank you for this! 🙏

  • @rachelchadwick1105
    @rachelchadwick1105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really needed to hear this been going threw a really hard breakup

  • @qweenofheartz19
    @qweenofheartz19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Feeling this right now 🥺🥺💪🏼💪🏼

  • @roxshells354
    @roxshells354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been out of a 5 yr relationship with a narcissist for exactly a year. This song right here is ripping my heart all over again. This is just a reminder of my worth and how he didn’t deserve me ❤️‍🩹I’ve been healing and stronger then ever. Thank you God I am no Longer in that situation 🙏❤️grateful for this song

  • @valerielopez5051
    @valerielopez5051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this songgg😩

  • @babekamila2412
    @babekamila2412 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorite song ❤ i listen to this everyday and night even wen I’m going to sleep at night omg lord knows I been heartbroken so many times

  • @zoeyybarra3765
    @zoeyybarra3765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm proud of you, keep up the good work❤👍

  • @lacyshope3231
    @lacyshope3231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    heard this song for the first time last night and i really needed this

  • @thetwins5644
    @thetwins5644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song is so fire thx so much fo this at least you know what we go through sometimes 😭❤️🎊🥹🥹🥹

  • @judymontes6711
    @judymontes6711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yes i love this song!!

  • @angelbabi4419
    @angelbabi4419 ปีที่แล้ว

    tears.. just tears.. love it man...

  • @lesasolomon930
    @lesasolomon930 ปีที่แล้ว

    This 😢is so many women that needs to hear this ❤

  • @kaitlynrobinson9353
    @kaitlynrobinson9353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was abused in a 2 month relationship thank you for making this it made me cry and I know I’m gonna be ok now

  • @thesuusful
    @thesuusful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abused for 3 years, needed this thankyou ❤️

  • @constanceglennmeansdeloney7548
    @constanceglennmeansdeloney7548 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feel like you watched my last relationship 😭 loved this song 🤩

  • @KarenJohnson-pb1eu
    @KarenJohnson-pb1eu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song hit hard thank youu 💙💙

  • @saydiecorbiere3865
    @saydiecorbiere3865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just got outta a abusive raletionship this song helps me gave me chill first time listening to it

  • @sparkles_1995
    @sparkles_1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I Love this song 😔😥 makes me feel that I’m so much worth

  • @kristysmith6458
    @kristysmith6458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your doing awesome have been following since very first song on TikTok keep it up ur doing awesome boo

  • @Shahid_khan762
    @Shahid_khan762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We need the instrumental too man I love this song like damn 🔥

  • @rsngashanmung872
    @rsngashanmung872 ปีที่แล้ว

    this base bursting make me feel highhhhhhhhh ☄☄☄🔥

  • @alexiswhite1323
    @alexiswhite1323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got me crying I needed this

  • @alexandrahinton3921
    @alexandrahinton3921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song really hit home for me

  • @DabbaDoya
    @DabbaDoya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SILL LISTENIN WHEN I NEED HELP BACK UP!! Soooo powerful!!❤❤❤❤

  • @JamaalAndNikki
    @JamaalAndNikki ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this I just got out of a four year relationship and I feel so much better this song means a lot to me it really what I was going thru thank god I got out of that Situation I hope my new relationship bring me nothing but peace and happiness that I deserve

  • @Kenzie84
    @Kenzie84 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This song is everything 😢😢😢😢

  • @glendawelcome2731
    @glendawelcome2731 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this song ❤❤❤❤. Thank you.

  • @MariahKallely-hs7by
    @MariahKallely-hs7by ปีที่แล้ว

    I felt every lyric, u made it for me ❤ I’ll have this song on replay.

  • @nakreshamadison308
    @nakreshamadison308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I finally found this song .... I love it 🤩🤩

  • @isabellaleavines5918
    @isabellaleavines5918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song was needed

  • @staceykuykendall3752
    @staceykuykendall3752 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this song. I needed to hear this. 😢

  • @nicolena96
    @nicolena96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your music is so cool like good shit keep it up man

  • @tiffaniwolbert
    @tiffaniwolbert 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    THIS IS THE SONG RIGHT HERE 😢❤❤

  • @sarahcortez8994
    @sarahcortez8994 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just finding this song im normally alternative but r&b has been hitting my emotions that explain so much. Im over the bs from anyone im stronger than that cuz i can walk away. Im stronger than b4.

  • @CJKMTPA24
    @CJKMTPA24 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this ❤❤❤ from london uk!!

  • @gabriellakatherinenorris3090
    @gabriellakatherinenorris3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song hit home 💯🔥

  • @cyleikill221
    @cyleikill221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song hits hard I’m definitely going thru shit and this song is so tru.