Don’t worry eventually , When she is still single as years go by . she’s gonna be looking for that man and he’s going to have someone better than she is.
I know. Poor baby. Shallow is as shallow does!!! Women think being pretty is enough to get what they need just let me think money is enough. What we want and what we need are often two different things!!!
These were not the most viral people. They chose the safest people to come on here that are suitable for tv. Everyone else that went viral were too controversial. I barely remember these women
The truck driver was the one being insulted on tv. Now, y'all made it worse by inviting the person who insulted him to continue the insult and still showing him getting insulted on national TV. Wtf.... He needs an apology. He was supposed to be the one there , not her with a nasty, unpleasant attitude. Men deserve more RESPECT.
Exactly! Women don't want to be held accountable good for him for calling her out. Tamron, as much as I like her, I disagree with her for supporting this entitled feminist females and not holding women accountable but, we know she needs the ratings!
@@Replenishyourheart what you call toxic are his standards, standards he announced when he first came out. It’s a show she chose to bring herself to. It’s a show where contestants are asked to explain their preferences aka get judged. He asked her to explain, she didn’t like it so she declined to. How’s he a bad guy for asking when she’s not for declining to answer? Bottomline: They’re clearly not a match. The end.
Yeah I think it’s unfair to literally have the woman before her say she judged the man off of his truck driving job (even though it’s a great career) and popped based on that and then say the man the next woman shouldn’t have been judged for being a bm with two kids. I sure wouldn’t date a man with two kids so that’s me making a judgment. It’s completely fair to judge someone you’re considering dating 🤷🏾♀️
Bryan is correct. I am a female, and no, you can't keep having babies with everyone you date. The first baby could be a mistake, but a second one without marriage commitment is on you sweetie. Maybe it was the way he delivered the messages to each one of them and came up a little aggressive and passionate, but he still said what needed to be said 🔊 . Honestly, he brought awareness to lots of chicken heads sleeping around and having babies with everyone.
What he said is how my momma put it to me. It is difficult for a relationship to have navigate 2 or 3 baby daddies. You have to have understanding partner to deal with bs of crazy baby daddy. lol!
These women aren't getting pregnant by themselves so quit putting it all on them. A lot of adult men manipulate a lot of underage girls and then abandon them when they get pregnant. Not everyone wants to get married to the person they sleep with. And don't forget Roe v. Wade was taken away so this is going to happen a lot more often.
OMG.. why do people keep making this about the job..it wasn't about the job..it's about the man..And yes he answered the question which is fine..but there was a selection for her to choose from and the other people also had boring jobs..most of us do..lol..but they also elaborated about themselves..So why would she pick the one person who had a one word answer..lol..but let's just say even if it was the job..If she doesn't want to date and possibly marry a truck driver she should be able to choose either way..To be honest, personally I would be fine if my husband were a truck driver but some people might not like those long hours and even days away from her husband..ijs
@@QueenOS76 I understand but she said it was boring! He even clarified: what was boring ? She could have say I like the other answers better. That’s it ! The question was simple and he gave her a simple question. He could had elaborate more…ok but she chose the wrong sentence at the wrong time.
@@Ndayakabuya I hear you but can we be serious for a moment... First off she tried to explain several times that it's not about the job being boring it's about him and his energy being boring according to her..But also even if she thinks his job is boring I think that's normal for a 23 year old.. I've never known 23 year old young ladies to be impressed by truck drivers.. Again I'm older than her so it wouldn't be an issue for me..but I understood her..and if she thinks the man and or his job is boring then she has the right to voice that and not waste his or her time..everybody acts like she didn't have other options..And in real life every one has popped the balloon on great people that have come into our lives that we didn't like but may have had great qualities..Thankfully I'm happily married..but if I wasn't there is no way in hell that I would be with someone that I didn't want to be with..for whatever the reason..But I understand we all see situations differently..Most people see it as her being mean and shallow..I seen it as a dating show where you choose who YOU feel is most compatible with YOU..and every one else has to go..So rather your hairline is back to far, your pants are too tight, or you and your job is boring then it is what it is..lol
@ftngie hers. Truck drivers are very important. If the genders were flipped and a man said what she said about a woman truck driver, the sisterhood would be outraged. You girls use these balloon shows to justify saying things about men that are not kind. Grow up.
@@Ladeedi73 she's 23 with two children and can't articulate values and attributes she wants in a man other than "creative" and when asked to expound on what that means, she literally can't. That's why I think the show should be late 20s and up
If you want creative answers, ask creative questions. You can’t ask a boring question and expect the men to magically come up with a creative answer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I like what Brian said. Yes the delivery was strong. Where is the lie though? My daughter was two when I miscarried by son at 17 weeks pregnant. Both babies were by two different men. I vowed to myself that I wasn't having any more children without being married. I fully understand that stuff happen, but we have to take accountability for the way we bring these child into this world. I told my daughter's father BEFORE we had sex that I didn't want to just have children without being married. He told me he was fixed! Lies!! I know how it felt to be raised without my biological father. I didn't want that for my children. Now my daughter is healing from the pain of not having her biological father. I am honest enough with her for her to not make the same mistakes her great grandma, grandma, and mother made.
That guy was out of order and insulting. He was abusing her with words in front of the world. How are those words to help her to rise from the past?That was not the time and place for those words... and he ended up looking bad.
@@bijoux3867he’s not there to uplift her, he’s there to find a match and explain the reason she wasn’t a match, that’s the premise of the show. Which ur fine with when the women do it, but because he said what most men and women believe to be true, you think he’s attacking her. Ur bias is in full display. Not everyone is here to save you, hold your hand, and tell you everything is gonna be okay. Welcome to the real world. He was being real, and that in itself should be respected.
The fact the crowd was cheering for her after she said the truck driver is boring is very disturbing... yet she's a government contractor 😂😂😂 u can't me this ish up
@@MorningsWithMariait was a cheer after watching the rest of this clip and the audience wants so bad to be supportive of these women that literally showed their true colors which are not outstanding qualities but hey, whatever LOL They will get what they get!
@@meneedmoney women love being infantilized, treated like children with no accountability or agency when it suits you, and only get treated equaly where it benefits you, then call it empowerment when you put accountability and responsibility for everything on the men around you
I agree with Brian 100%. We as women have a choice in life how we procreate. If you're a young woman who made a "mistake," you learn from that, but if you have a 2nd one and then more, that's on you! Stop having sex out of wedlock and stop making excuses!!
Brian Keith is correct, we have to be discerning and not feel it necessary to give all men we date a baby. I can relate because my father taught me those exact principles. Right on Brian Keith.
She rolled her eyes after the apology and said, "Well Bryan, the audience isn't buying your apology". And THAT is the definition of discounting his apology. It's similar to saying "no offense", then proceeding to offend someone.
For anyone who missed the episode with Bryan, when he first came out Arlette asked him if he had any dealbreakers and he said no. He then proceeded to grill each woman with kids which was most of the women in the lineup as this episode had participants in their 30s and 40s (or near 40). Most of the women in the lineup were divorced. If you’re dating in your 30s and 40s most singles are likely to have kids or previously married.
The majority in the community never get married and the vast majority of children are born out of wedlock. Multiple children with multiple men is not most mens first choice
Being divorced with kids from a previous husband is a hell of a lot different than never being married and having multiple baby daddies. Why is it that some of you women can have standards but we can't? If you said you don't want a guy with kids, we wouldn't be complaining.
In the community when it is multiple babies with multiple baby daddies you know you are going to find one of ‘‘em is street dude with multiple baby mamas, no job, living with his mama and a criminal record
Her government job is more boring than trucking. And Truckers out there seeing the world and able to do what they want on there free times. She just didn't like him.
WHO decided THESE two from the show as opposed to some of the other ones that would've been better? Those of us who have watched every one of these episodes know damn well these 2 were not the best choices among previous guests.
There's nothing wrong with his job, some ppl will never be business owners and whatnot but they love what they do and have great character. I'm surprised she didn't take it back and apologize. She might be single for a while at this rate..
Nope more like single for life. No man on his right mind will marry her or take her seriously. Too many kids to support and two baby daddies. The future does not look promising for her as far as marriage is concerned . This is why we as women must align ourselves to the right man and marry before we carry if it ends in divorce that is something you can't control but, we can control who we give our bodies and produce a child with. No one is perfect but we havd to take accountability and stop blaming others for our mistakes period!
Exactly. I didn't even remember her until they showed the clip. The girl standing next to her in the orange dress with 3 kids moment went more viral than hers lol
Dear Tamron. Great show. Majority of black American women with children are single moms. This is terrible and unacceptable. Things cannot continue like this. Sisters - please take your time to choose your men. Internal beauty is always by far much greater than status, material and physical appearance. I can guarantee it you that Arlette was never going to choose BM if she had not established that BM had internal beauty.
As a 38 year old woman. These 2 irked my soul. 😢. No wonder men are tired of us. We are being difficult for no reason because we want this image of marriage that is tailored to a social media post. Just do like Khe and humbly and gracefully get the info you need.
Accountability to whom though? He was rejected by THEM, then decided to try to go in at each one of them out of spite. Its not like he rejected them first, gave his reason, then she argued with him over it. She didn't even want him
The lady named Venician I think you learned something. It wasn’t about the judging, which you and everyone did as well. It is Facts that this world had failed all you ladies who had babies out of wedlock and by choice! Truth Hurts! The bottom line and at the end of the day is that you made your bed and laid in it!
75 % of babies in the community are born out of wedlock because the women want pookie and street dudes. Then act surprised the brother with criminal record, no job living with his mama isn’t a responsible parent. While Becky and Mailing think the college educated brothers are panty droppers. These men are off the market by the time they are polices baby mama
First of all, there were so many viral moments from the show. Why these 2? Then they’re both wrong and just came on this show to get validation from the audience clapping👎 Bryan was right & the 24 yr old will stay single
Women are free to say what they want, but once men say what they want, they are bash. The women answered are oftetime brutal. I hope men continue to be honest
What about Mike’s cousin Priest that was on Episode 12…. Seems like people may have forgotten that priest popped his balloon so she could be with his cousin. Priest played a MAJOR factor in that and it shouldn’t be ignored
@@candyade1 But I mean what was she looking for? International Banking? Professional concert violinist? Truck drivers in the us make 100k a year I mean is that enough for these women? Probably not, all these women seem to have an Instagram inspired idea of what their life should be and having a man that drives trucks doesn’t fit within that image.
I'm a woman and I don't think Bryan was wrong. He even said men need to hold themselves accountable. I'm not having sex with anyone without protection or getting tested. I'm sorry but multiple baby daddies and mommies is not attractive...to me. And you're not going to marry me or not worth being married too? We have to think of ourselves as better and hold ourselves to a higher standard
So humiliate the truck driver on national tv with judgement and then have a woman on with 2 kids with 2 Fathers,, who will not accept Judgment . What are we doing here , and what is the narrative being pushed inquiring minds wanna know.. The nerve of the producers , I swear theirs a agenda against us , what ya'll think?
The young girl is looking for someone with big title and makes lots of money , but she just couldn’t say it. My neighbor is in her 50s, single, never been married but engaged 3 times, and no kids. She said she won’t date a guy who makes less than her or date a guy with children ( even if they grown adults) 😂. She might as well stay single for the rest of her life. I cant imagine being that age and still picky.
They need to be held accountable. Stop pandering them and only attacking the men. Things will continue to get worse if other influential women don’t hold women accountable.
This girl Trinity, has a lot of growing up to do, because I'm sure he wouldn't be boring if he put food on the table and a roof over your head etc., what you doesn't realize is that her window of opportunity if she doesn't change her way of thinking is going to leave her single for many years to come, because guys are going will be looking for that younger Trinity who's respectful. I'm a big fan of the show and a lot of the women that come on this show are raw and very disrespectful, I saw an episode last week were a couple of girls had the nerve to talk about a guys face and trust me I get if that person is not you they are not you, but just to come out and blatantly, say his face how much rude can someone be, one girl even say that his face looks like one of those Egyptian statutes, totally rude and uncalled for, but they want a man to except them with all that makeup, fake hair, eyelashes etc., what do you really look like under all of that. That's why when yo find a good on both men and women, if everything is working you better try and lock them down to avoid today's dating scene.
I agree with him however it was not the place to say it. Just speak to her and move on. Really, who wants a ready made family and drama from two baby daddies.
I agree to an extent. Yes, there are some women who are not discerning when it comes to who they lay with. But some women are, and it still doesn't work out, and they end up with children. He doesn't know what her situation is. He made assumptions, and he should not have.Not all women have drama with the fathers of their children.
@@4daluvofnikkihard to accept considering the reasons most women have for leaving a man after having his baby out of wedlock. None of those things sound discerning at all. I'm just saying if you're going to excuse all female mistakes, then keep that same energy for male mistakes. Or just let people judge because it's a natural thing to do
This is so embarrassing & low-key ghetto. Were there no other successful couples from the show that they could’ve interviewed? This isn’t good promotion for the show. If anything it makes a person not want to go on
There were successful couples. One couple is engaged already, and an update from yesterday announced that they are exclusive. I think these contestants were chosen because internet audiences respond and engage more to negativity than positivity.
The young lady that said the way he described his job was”boring” told on herself when she couldn’t expand on what she meant by calling him boring. She didn’t like him or that he had a job as a truck driver. She could have easily said she wanted him to say I am a truck driver right now, but within 5 years or less, I intend to start my own truck driving company with nationwide contracts etc… people need to stop being so scared of the truth.
I understand what he was saying. We have one child unmarried thats on us but two and more?! NO MAAM!! I agree with Brian. We as women don’t want a man with two kids by two women. Or whatever the case may be! I feel like the shoe fit for a lot of women in the audience that’s why they all dang near boo at his response.
I helped raise 2 stepchildren and put them through College. It's not easy because you have no rights and to be honest it's not for everyone. If it's one thing the mother should do is make sure the children are ready. It took a several years of patience on my part to get them completely on board.
Once you decide to live with someone and have kids (whether you go through the European ceremony or not) Biblically, that is marriage. To go forward from there and have other men/boyfriends/husbands, that is adultery. It isn't just adultery for the run-away woman who should be playing her part as a wife, it's adultery for the man if he let her leave without putting up a fight, no DV. That woman was shamed and it touches her heart because HE'S RIGHT
Regarding the lady who was lectured about having babies for men, it was distastefully done. People come on the show because obviously their last relationship did not work out. Everyone’s story is NOT the same. If someone or their situation is not for you, keep it moving! While the guy did make an understandable point, it doesn’t mean that her experience fit that scenario verbatim, nor was it the platform for it. Additionally, it came across as though he was taking out his rejection of the previous ladies, on her. It was simply not fair!Lastly, the way she responded to that abuse, spoke volumes!! Again everyone has their story and there is a time and place for everything.
Viral for all the wrong reasons. Sadly, this type of behavior drive the clicks, but it is a great show. BTW, the woman in green said she has two children as well…..🤷🏾♂️
That comment was right on point. This generation wouldn't know a good man if jesus walked in because they literally don't even accept Jesus. llmbo. Spot on comment. Graduated from religion? Ninja please.
I don't think Brian was trying to go viral. I have observed him on many shows. The woman with the two children seems like a very lovely person. We can't ignore what most men will feel about a woman with two children by two men.
"BORING" thank you Tamron. This girl is still being rude, hasn't evolved.
Don’t worry eventually , When she is still single as years go by . she’s gonna be looking for that man and he’s going to have someone better than she is.
I know. Poor baby. Shallow is as shallow does!!!
Women think being pretty is enough to get what they need just let me think money is enough. What we want and what we need are often two different things!!!
@@BearingMySeoulshe is not even pretty, she is average at best 😂
And they won’t ever change because putting them on TV is rewarding them for nasty ass attitudes
These were not the most viral people. They chose the safest people to come on here that are suitable for tv. Everyone else that went viral were too controversial. I barely remember these women
Right
I was thinking the same thing. Another reason Pop the Balloon wouldn't have worked on network tv. They always trying to play it safe.
like the ninja turtle 😂😂 but also keep in mind everyone does not agree to come on follow up shows
I thought it was just me. But then I thought about the dr dentist dude and was like nah!!! He woulda talked the whole time. So I get it. 😂
Exactly!! LOL!! Ninja Turtle And Dr. Elom would definitely be the top two hahaha
The 24 year old is not a good catch. She's single for a reason
Her job is boring….
You still missed it. It was HOW he answered the question and his overall presence…no charisma behind it. Bland dude
@@meneedmoneyhe was right
@@meneedmoney sure 🫤
@@usmanvcx look it’s not the job she didn’t like the dude regardless…how you made she didn’t find him or what he said interesting
The truck driver was the one being insulted on tv. Now, y'all made it worse by inviting the person who insulted him to continue the insult and still showing him getting insulted on national TV. Wtf....
He needs an apology. He was supposed to be the one there , not her with a nasty, unpleasant attitude.
Men deserve more RESPECT.
Fully agree, but these tv shows are for views not upholding good morals.
Exactly!
Right it’s crazy we never got to hear HIS perspective
Good point...agreed
Oh I 100% agree. I always say he deserved better.
I'm surprised Dr Elom and Aaron the plumber didn't get chosen by Tamron Hall as the most viral moments.
Elom would have clowned Tam on her own show 😂
The sisterhood doesn't realize that the girls talk down on the guys far more on these balloon shows than reverse.
Because they were rude....
Aaron is an abuser
@@DeeDiamond2981 yet you support chrisean rock. You are 1-sided.
The whole crowd is delusional
lol exactly ok
clapping for everything🤣🤣
Very lol
5:23 Women judge men for every little thing they do. Yet, they can't be judged for anything even when they're on a show setup to be judged.
Preach
Exactly! Women don't want to be held accountable good for him for calling her out. Tamron, as much as I like her, I disagree with her for supporting this entitled feminist females and not holding women accountable but, we know she needs the ratings!
@@Replenishyourheart what you call toxic are his standards, standards he announced when he first came out. It’s a show she chose to bring herself to. It’s a show where contestants are asked to explain their preferences aka get judged. He asked her to explain, she didn’t like it so she declined to. How’s he a bad guy for asking when she’s not for declining to answer? Bottomline: They’re clearly not a match. The end.
Yeah I think it’s unfair to literally have the woman before her say she judged the man off of his truck driving job (even though it’s a great career) and popped based on that and then say the man the next woman shouldn’t have been judged for being a bm with two kids. I sure wouldn’t date a man with two kids so that’s me making a judgment. It’s completely fair to judge someone you’re considering dating 🤷🏾♀️
@@Replenishyourheart
He said something that needed to be said. Your speculation on why he said what he said…is not relevant.
Bryan is correct. I am a female, and no, you can't keep having babies with everyone you date. The first baby could be a mistake, but a second one without marriage commitment is on you sweetie. Maybe it was the way he delivered the messages to each one of them and came up a little aggressive and passionate, but he still said what needed to be said 🔊 .
Honestly, he brought awareness to lots of chicken heads sleeping around and having babies with everyone.
They don't understand that men consider them 'damaged goods' when they have multiple children/baby daddies outside of marriage.
What he said is how my momma put it to me. It is difficult for a relationship to have navigate 2 or 3 baby daddies. You have to have understanding partner to deal with bs of crazy baby daddy. lol!
Amen‼️‼️‼️
These women aren't getting pregnant by themselves so quit putting it all on them. A lot of adult men manipulate a lot of underage girls and then abandon them when they get pregnant. Not everyone wants to get married to the person they sleep with. And don't forget Roe v. Wade was taken away so this is going to happen a lot more often.
@@dameoftruth4022 And who do you think are the ones getting these girls pregnant? It ain't the toilet seat!
The 24 year old was daydreaming about people jobs and she is still daydreaming…
Facts and it's hard to listen to her mindset she will be single for a long time if she doesn't change her perspective.
OMG.. why do people keep making this about the job..it wasn't about the job..it's about the man..And yes he answered the question which is fine..but there was a selection for her to choose from and the other people also had boring jobs..most of us do..lol..but they also elaborated about themselves..So why would she pick the one person who had a one word answer..lol..but let's just say even if it was the job..If she doesn't want to date and possibly marry a truck driver she should be able to choose either way..To be honest, personally I would be fine if my husband were a truck driver but some people might not like those long hours and even days away from her husband..ijs
@@QueenOS76 I understand but she said it was boring! He even clarified: what was boring ? She could have say I like the other answers better. That’s it ! The question was simple and he gave her a simple question. He could had elaborate more…ok but she chose the wrong sentence at the wrong time.
@@QueenOS76 "the person wasn't as creative with his response" -- are you serious? How is this not shallow and confusing smh
@@Ndayakabuya I hear you but can we be serious for a moment... First off she tried to explain several times that it's not about the job being boring it's about him and his energy being boring according to her..But also even if she thinks his job is boring I think that's normal for a 23 year old.. I've never known 23 year old young ladies to be impressed by truck drivers.. Again I'm older than her so it wouldn't be an issue for me..but I understood her..and if she thinks the man and or his job is boring then she has the right to voice that and not waste his or her time..everybody acts like she didn't have other options..And in real life every one has popped the balloon on great people that have come into our lives that we didn't like but may have had great qualities..Thankfully I'm happily married..but if I wasn't there is no way in hell that I would be with someone that I didn't want to be with..for whatever the reason..But I understand we all see situations differently..Most people see it as her being mean and shallow..I seen it as a dating show where you choose who YOU feel is most compatible with YOU..and every one else has to go..So rather your hairline is back to far, your pants are too tight, or you and your job is boring then it is what it is..lol
Still dislike her attitude but Arlette and BM are a power couple looking forward for more positive connections
Attitude? I think she’s ( Arlette) sweet 🤷🏾♀️
Who's attitude??
@Ladeedi73 stop with the sisterhood thing already. She disrespected truck drivers.
@ftngie hers. Truck drivers are very important. If the genders were flipped and a man said what she said about a woman truck driver, the sisterhood would be outraged. You girls use these balloon shows to justify saying things about men that are not kind. Grow up.
@@Ladeedi73 she's 23 with two children and can't articulate values and attributes she wants in a man other than "creative" and when asked to expound on what that means, she literally can't. That's why I think the show should be late 20s and up
They should have brought at least one Man on the stage. They be dogging some of them brothas out. Especially about their clothes.
Yep, one man, one woman would've at least give away an image of neutrality by Tamron.
The girl insulting the truck driver looks entirely different in this interview lol
If you want creative answers, ask creative questions. You can’t ask a boring question and expect the men to magically come up with a creative answer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Exactly!!
@@queenita amen to that!
Well, said.
Exactly
I think a second baby without marriage for a Man or Woman is crazy work smh so Brian is right.
I understand! I always wanted to be a wife and mom, which is why I've waited.
💯 agree
Yup yup
These ladies are like Ostriches who hide from the truth. That's what I calll delusional . Brian was ABSOLUTELY right. take that to bank
agree
I like what Brian said. Yes the delivery was strong. Where is the lie though? My daughter was two when I miscarried by son at 17 weeks pregnant. Both babies were by two different men. I vowed to myself that I wasn't having any more children without being married. I fully understand that stuff happen, but we have to take accountability for the way we bring these child into this world.
I told my daughter's father BEFORE we had sex that I didn't want to just have children without being married. He told me he was fixed! Lies!! I know how it felt to be raised without my biological father. I didn't want that for my children. Now my daughter is healing from the pain of not having her biological father. I am honest enough with her for her to not make the same mistakes her great grandma, grandma, and mother made.
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing.
@@karimaabdul-salaam7343 Thank you
That guy was out of order and insulting. He was abusing her with words in front of the world. How are those words to help her to rise from the past?That was not the time and place for those words... and he ended up looking bad.
@@bijoux3867 I respect your stance, but I disagree.
@@bijoux3867he’s not there to uplift her, he’s there to find a match and explain the reason she wasn’t a match, that’s the premise of the show. Which ur fine with when the women do it, but because he said what most men and women believe to be true, you think he’s attacking her. Ur bias is in full display. Not everyone is here to save you, hold your hand, and tell you everything is gonna be okay. Welcome to the real world. He was being real, and that in itself should be respected.
The fact the crowd was cheering for her after she said the truck driver is boring is very disturbing... yet she's a government contractor 😂😂😂 u can't me this ish up
She sounds, never mind...
I think it was more of a laugh than applause lol
@@D_A_Marv finish the sentence bruv
@@MorningsWithMaria stop the excuses
@@MorningsWithMariait was a cheer after watching the rest of this clip and the audience wants so bad to be supportive of these women that literally showed their true colors which are not outstanding qualities but hey, whatever LOL They will get what they get!
Women's Kryptonite = Accountability
Y’all new internet dudes love the word “accountability” call it down…touch some grass
Yup. In the case of the truck driver hating chick - 100% ducking accountability. What an insufferable young lady.
Facts 😂
Dem hyenas got work to do 😉
@@meneedmoney women love being infantilized, treated like children with no accountability or agency when it suits you, and only get treated equaly where it benefits you, then call it empowerment when you put accountability and responsibility for everything on the men around you
I agree with Brian 100%. We as women have a choice in life how we procreate. If you're a young woman who made a "mistake," you learn from that, but if you have a 2nd one and then more, that's on you! Stop having sex out of wedlock and stop making excuses!!
Brian Keith is correct, we have to be discerning and not feel it necessary to give all men we date a baby. I can relate because my father taught me those exact principles. Right on Brian Keith.
Bryan should've ended his response with saying, “I'm from the ghetto”. I would've lost it, lmao IYKYK.
😂😂😂😂😂
LmaoaoOooOo
LMFAOOOOOOOO yes 😭😭😭
Tamron sucks for discounting Bryan's apology. His accountability seemed genuine.
Shout out to Bryan. Tamron sucks. And, Arlette is the truth.
How did she discount his apology?
@josam4545 right... she said she appreciated his apology. 🤷🏾♀️ 🤷🏾♀️
@@holliejames9040 people just say anything these days. Perception is a hell of a thing
She rolled her eyes after the apology and said, "Well Bryan, the audience isn't buying your apology". And THAT is the definition of discounting his apology. It's similar to saying "no offense", then proceeding to offend someone.
girl in green is crazy that's why she single
lmfao
For anyone who missed the episode with Bryan, when he first came out Arlette asked him if he had any dealbreakers and he said no. He then proceeded to grill each woman with kids which was most of the women in the lineup as this episode had participants in their 30s and 40s (or near 40). Most of the women in the lineup were divorced. If you’re dating in your 30s and 40s most singles are likely to have kids or previously married.
The majority in the community never get married and the vast majority of children are born out of wedlock. Multiple children with multiple men is not most mens first choice
But not this woman, the keyword here is baby daddies, not husbands. Good try at spinning the situation though.
Accountability is a women krytonite.
Being divorced with kids from a previous husband is a hell of a lot different than never being married and having multiple baby daddies. Why is it that some of you women can have standards but we can't? If you said you don't want a guy with kids, we wouldn't be complaining.
In the community when it is multiple babies with multiple baby daddies you know you are going to find one of ‘‘em is street dude with multiple baby mamas, no job, living with his mama and a criminal record
Her government job is more boring than trucking. And Truckers out there seeing the world and able to do what they want on there free times. She just didn't like him.
Bryan is still right
No one said he was wrong, he was just rude
WHO decided THESE two from the show as opposed to some of the other ones that would've been better? Those of us who have watched every one of these episodes know damn well these 2 were not the best choices among previous guests.
The chic in the brown dress from season one should hv been invited on the show
FACTS!
There's nothing wrong with his job, some ppl will never be business owners and whatnot but they love what they do and have great character. I'm surprised she didn't take it back and apologize. She might be single for a while at this rate..
She has alot of pride.
Nope more like single for life. No man on his right mind will marry her or take her seriously. Too many kids to support and two baby daddies. The future does not look promising for her as far as marriage is concerned . This is why we as women must align ourselves to the right man and marry before we carry if it ends in divorce that is something you can't control but, we can control who we give our bodies and produce a child with. No one is perfect but we havd to take accountability and stop blaming others for our mistakes period!
Accountability is like a curse word to them. "But but but I had no choice in having children with him!" Maury has determined, that is a lie.
The audience is blinded by sympathy. Accountability is like kryptonite for modern day women. RIP Kevin Samuels
OMG!! I was looking for this comment! So true and she played it up even more for the audience
Of course they are! Look at who hosts the show! 🥹🥹🥹
For the other girl, the dude asking her the questions was the viral one. Not her
Exactly. I didn't even remember her until they showed the clip. The girl standing next to her in the orange dress with 3 kids moment went more viral than hers lol
Dear Tamron. Great show.
Majority of black American women with children are single moms. This is terrible and unacceptable. Things cannot continue like this.
Sisters - please take your time to choose your men. Internal beauty is always by far much greater than status, material and physical appearance.
I can guarantee it you that Arlette was never going to choose BM if she had not established that BM had internal beauty.
As a 38 year old woman. These 2 irked my soul. 😢. No wonder men are tired of us. We are being difficult for no reason because we want this image of marriage that is tailored to a social media post. Just do like Khe and humbly and gracefully get the info you need.
U gotta take accountability.. simple
Accountability to whom though? He was rejected by THEM, then decided to try to go in at each one of them out of spite. Its not like he rejected them first, gave his reason, then she argued with him over it. She didn't even want him
The world doesn't owe her compassion and understanding. She needs to be more selective. Men with standards don't date those type of women.
Period!
The lady named Venician I think you learned something. It wasn’t about the judging, which you and everyone did as well. It is Facts that this world had failed all you ladies who had babies out of wedlock and by choice! Truth Hurts! The bottom line and at the end of the day is that you made your bed and laid in it!
Brian ain't lying.. u don't have to have a kid with 2 baby daddies 😂😂 u gotta have respect for yourself and only have kids with your husband
💯 Someone needs to tell the truth
You better not have kids out of wedlock, sir!!
75 % of babies in the community are born out of wedlock because the women want pookie and street dudes. Then act surprised the brother with criminal record, no job living with his mama isn’t a responsible parent. While Becky and Mailing think the college educated brothers are panty droppers. These men are off the market by the time they are polices baby mama
Pooky’s baby mama
Exactly!
First of all, there were so many viral moments from the show. Why these 2? Then they’re both wrong and just came on this show to get validation from the audience clapping👎 Bryan was right & the 24 yr old will stay single
I was thinking that too. I didn't even remember Vaneshia, what did she do?
@@b294-r7qthey should have brought "James gourmet pies" and ninja turtle
Tamron got her when she said " boring" . Lol 😆
She got coddled on this show. 😆
Having multiple children by multiple men NONE of whom saw fit to marry you nor did the women see fit to marry
Should absolutely be shamed
Women are free to say what they want, but once men say what they want, they are bash. The women answered are oftetime brutal. I hope men continue to be honest
What about Mike’s cousin Priest that was on Episode 12…. Seems like people may have forgotten that priest popped his balloon so she could be with his cousin. Priest played a MAJOR factor in that and it shouldn’t be ignored
HTF can an occupation that you DO NOT HAVE TO DO be boring?
She's crazy😂😂
Other jobs can be boring to you. You don’t have to like every other jobs. 🤷🏾♀️😂
The fact that she is still riding this angle still today, even after she doubled down on a reunion show, is crazy.
Don't listen to her she gonna be single with 5 cats very soon
@@candyade1 But I mean what was she looking for? International Banking? Professional concert violinist? Truck drivers in the us make 100k a year I mean is that enough for these women? Probably not, all these women seem to have an Instagram inspired idea of what their life should be and having a man that drives trucks doesn’t fit within that image.
OMG Beautiful couple you guys are brilliant thank you for creating find love or pop the balloon🔥🔥🔥
When tamarin said boring I died, she meant that shit 🤣😂😂🤣
Dr.Elom
Ninja Turtle
Were ery very controversial...Bryan had a lil snippet but him as well
Trinity looks a lot prettier here on Tamron Hall. It don't even look like the same person.
Didn't recognize her at all
It’s the professional hair and makeup.
7:17 2 kids with 2 different men and looking for a 3 rd.
I'm a woman and I don't think Bryan was wrong. He even said men need to hold themselves accountable. I'm not having sex with anyone without protection or getting tested. I'm sorry but multiple baby daddies and mommies is not attractive...to me. And you're not going to marry me or not worth being married too? We have to think of ourselves as better and hold ourselves to a higher standard
Keep opening our eyes Women… we love it.
Blind eyes open
So humiliate the truck driver on national tv with judgement and then have a woman on with 2 kids with 2 Fathers,, who will not accept Judgment . What are we doing here , and what is the narrative being pushed inquiring minds wanna know.. The nerve of the producers , I swear theirs a agenda against us , what ya'll think?
I really like their show but they need to screen out some of these people more thoroughly.
Guys leave that girl alone the 24 year old. She's good to stay single
Why did he have to apologize for having a preference. He doesnt have to accept a woman with multiple baby daddies if that’s not what he wants
The top tier guy, Brian spoke the absolute truth 💯 to her!
Brian is literally my fav lmao
All those different dad's know days men's without kids want their own
24 years old and still single. Truck driver's keep the world going. Your clothes, car, make-up, groceries comes to you on a truck!!!
Legit my favorite show out right now
The young girl is looking for someone with big title and makes lots of money , but she just couldn’t say it. My neighbor is in her 50s, single, never been married but engaged 3 times, and no kids. She said she won’t date a guy who makes less than her or date a guy with children ( even if they grown adults) 😂. She might as well stay single for the rest of her life. I cant imagine being that age and still picky.
Lovely MS. Venusian. I hope all the best for you🙏🏾
The “most viral” would be Aaron the Plumber 😂
They need to be held accountable. Stop pandering them and only attacking the men. Things will continue to get worse if other influential women don’t hold women accountable.
This girl Trinity, has a lot of growing up to do, because I'm sure he wouldn't be boring if he put food on the table and a roof over your head etc., what you doesn't realize is that her window of opportunity if she doesn't change her way of thinking is going to leave her single for many years to come, because guys are going will be looking for that younger Trinity who's respectful. I'm a big fan of the show and a lot of the women that come on this show are raw and very disrespectful, I saw an episode last week were a couple of girls had the nerve to talk about a guys face and trust me I get if that person is not you they are not you, but just to come out and blatantly, say his face how much rude can someone be, one girl even say that his face looks like one of those Egyptian statutes, totally rude and uncalled for, but they want a man to except them with all that makeup, fake hair, eyelashes etc., what do you really look like under all of that. That's why when yo find a good on both men and women, if everything is working you better try and lock them down to avoid today's dating scene.
I agree with him however it was not the place to say it. Just speak to her and move on. Really, who wants a ready made family and drama from two baby daddies.
If somebody doesn’t say it the topic would keep being brushed over , he entitled to his opinion just as well as women are
I agree to an extent. Yes, there are some women who are not discerning when it comes to who they lay with. But some women are, and it still doesn't work out, and they end up with children. He doesn't know what her situation is. He made assumptions, and he should not have.Not all women have drama with the fathers of their children.
@@4daluvofnikkihard to accept considering the reasons most women have for leaving a man after having his baby out of wedlock. None of those things sound discerning at all. I'm just saying if you're going to excuse all female mistakes, then keep that same energy for male mistakes. Or just let people judge because it's a natural thing to do
@@4daluvofnikki 🤡
Truck girl reminds me of Kyla Pratt
She's really pretty
Accountability is the word !!🔥
Guest: I'm a government con...
Host: BORING!
haha
I would have not apologized..women don't not like to be held accountable
Her green outfit boring 🥱
Ok fashionista! 💅🏾 🤣 men out here are willllllllddddddd
@@paintitblack9712 😂
3:47 period Tamron🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why they ain’t bring the “the hair on to arms on there 🤣😂😝”
This is so embarrassing & low-key ghetto. Were there no other successful couples from the show that they could’ve interviewed? This isn’t good promotion for the show. If anything it makes a person not want to go on
overused word. People who overuse words and dont use them in their proper context are lowkey ghetto.
There were successful couples. One couple is engaged already, and an update from yesterday announced that they are exclusive. I think these contestants were chosen because internet audiences respond and engage more to negativity than positivity.
I would definitely date Brian, and I’m from the Ghetto areas of New Orleans too. 😅
The world celebrates cheap people with zero moral standards. I am not surprised.
The young lady that said the way he described his job was”boring” told on herself when she couldn’t expand on what she meant by calling him boring. She didn’t like him or that he had a job as a truck driver. She could have easily said she wanted him to say I am a truck driver right now, but within 5 years or less, I intend to start my own truck driving company with nationwide contracts etc… people need to stop being so scared of the truth.
We've a match yaaaay , that's Arlette 😂😂😂😂
This show is exposing why so many blk women are single. Bringing very little but having huge expectations
Where can I watch the full episode? & not these short clips
No I mean Tamron Halls show I always watch Arlette’s pop the balloon on TH-cam every Wednesday 🥰
@Sororoh95 she didn't drop today tho 😢
@@stephenwa7417 I know 😢. Because of the Tamron hall show lol
@Sororoh95 hopefully she does today 😭😭 I've been waiting.. also is there a full version of the episode.. I could only see the 3 clips
Pop the baloon or find love with Arlette Amuli… not sure which episode but you’ll find it there
***sigh** I want the truck driver girl to HUMBLE herself and grow up
So Brain gotta apologize but truck driver girl don’t have to say nothing
They just gonna gloss over that smh
Keep on waiting🤣🤣🤣
I understand what he was saying. We have one child unmarried thats on us but two and more?! NO MAAM!! I agree with Brian. We as women don’t want a man with two kids by two women. Or whatever the case may be! I feel like the shoe fit for a lot of women in the audience that’s why they all dang near boo at his response.
I'm so disappointed in the guy that apologized. He shouldn't have apologized. Smh. How pathetic.
Healing is never complete. There depths to it
I helped raise 2 stepchildren and put them through College. It's not easy because you have no rights and to be honest it's not for everyone. If it's one thing the mother should do is make sure the children are ready. It took a several years of patience on my part to get them completely on board.
Once you decide to live with someone and have kids (whether you go through the European ceremony or not)
Biblically, that is marriage. To go forward from there and have other men/boyfriends/husbands, that is adultery.
It isn't just adultery for the run-away woman who should be playing her part as a wife, it's adultery for the man if he let her leave without putting up a fight, no DV. That woman was shamed and it touches her heart because HE'S RIGHT
Bryan is cocky and has the short man complex! He was definitely reaching to go viral❤
Any check that comes in is ok by me 🎉 power point
Let face it. Many people were thinking what the guy say about not catching any of the daddy
Tamron and the audience was hating on Trinity so bad 😂
Regarding the lady who was lectured about having babies for men,
it was distastefully done.
People come on the show because obviously their last relationship did not work out.
Everyone’s story is NOT the same. If someone or their situation is not for you, keep it moving!
While the guy did make an understandable point, it doesn’t mean that her experience fit that scenario verbatim, nor was it the platform for it. Additionally, it came across as though he was taking out his rejection of the previous ladies, on her. It was simply not fair!Lastly, the way she responded to that abuse, spoke volumes!!
Again everyone has their story and there is a time and place for everything.
Why is he apologising??? He's right!!!!
Despite everything, I have to say that Trinity girl is gorgeous. 10/10 stunning and dressed nice too
#accountability Yes on both ends
But how you say it matters especially when you’re in this situation you can bring this woman to shame beyond repair.
He said what many people say, just not out loud.
Viral for all the wrong reasons. Sadly, this type of behavior drive the clicks, but it is a great show.
BTW, the woman in green said she has two children as well…..🤷🏾♂️
She delulu😂😂
That comment was right on point. This generation wouldn't know a good man if jesus walked in because they literally don't even accept Jesus. llmbo. Spot on comment. Graduated from religion? Ninja please.
I don't think Brian was trying to go viral. I have observed him on many shows. The woman with the two children seems like a very lovely person. We can't ignore what most men will feel about a woman with two children by two men.
This girl matched with a guy and I want to know what happened.
Nothing. She’s high maintenance with multiple kids.
@@TSidez Still. I wondered if the guy came to his senses or if she realized that his 9-5 job doesn’t pay as much as she thought it would.
So did Tamron not ask the brother anything in the clip or do I need to go watch the whole show?