I think it s the woman job to keep the relationship interesting. That's why no staying in relationships today. The man job is to provide and protect. Plain and simple.
Women can provide too. But things have to be right on both sides meaning both sides show attentiveness to each other. That is twisted to think that women only job in a relationship should be to give interest. When you're not even paying attention to her real worth or even showing your full attention as it could be common for you to say "you're too busy working" while you're tryna put all your time and energy into tryna provide and protect. That mindset can drain women which is really one of the reasons why they end up leaving.
These women tell on themselves. Her list is based on all the men from her past that she was attracted to: they were bad in bed, didn't have money, had nothing going for them, and she still picked them over the good guys who did all those things. She even admits this when she said "I get compliments all day, and go home and you don't compliment me," acknowledging that she literally picked the man who did not do these things on her list. So men, if you really want the truth about what women find attractive, do the opposite of everything she suggested. Most important, men don't want a woman who is masculine: has arm-sleeve tattoos, swears, waves her hand with a disrespectful attitude, is loud and demanding, and you expect him to check your bad attitude like he's your baby-sitter because you constantly start drama (and you admitted that you knew you're acting crazy, but you wanted to see if you would "get away with it"). Ridiculous. Why should a man do anything for you when you're not even a feminine woman, you have nothing that a man wants. To a self-respecting man, you're a headache and a liability.
Melli the courtship goes both ways. Men loose interest in a woman if she's lazy and doesn't put in any effort or she's boring with no hobbies. Having standards leads to attracting high quality people😎
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If you marry today's modern woman in the west she will eventually lose interest in you no matter what you do or have... look at Tom Brady going through the ringer now .. Leonardo DiCaprio knows what he is doing..
Ladies this is the guide to being single. What Men want is peace, loyalty, submission, let him lead, don't be a ho, beauty, work with him and lastly don't embarrasse him. We aren't that hard to figure out.
I have a question. I posted a selfie and a girl complimented it and I said "Thank you sis." She responded back and told me not to call her "sis." Why would she say this? We're both black so I'm so confused.
6:30 Yeah right. You mean a superficial problem, not a real problem. The minute you let on you're really vulnerable or have a real issue you're fked. If you tell her you've got some insignificant problem and you fix it yourself then maybe you're on to something otherwise keep quiet.
She always be looking for someone with more money, better looking, higher value. You will never be enough and she will bail. There never is any real interest in the man. It's called buying time to find a better man. When they accomplish that they then move on.
I'm a French Canadian Quebec, Gaspe Canada. Mc Mac Indian Iroquois confederacy nation also both sides of my family... NY Adrondack Mts... 50 miles from the St. Lawrence River... Melone NY...
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I've been watching a lot of videos of what "Men" need to do for women, but ironically enough there's hardly any video of what the woman needs to do to keep her man happy :/ instead of going through men like a grocery list how about women stop making excuses and own up to their failings
We people are out going... We know how to survive the game 🎯... Taught me how to real young... Skied at 4 years old... My whole family has been skier's for hundreds of years... Good work out... Later Mel ..
1. So bad in bed, its interesting that you dont want to teach him your sexual rhythm it might help and figure out positions 2. go out with a man that saves his money at least in any form of job or income thats legal. 3. commitment is a test for both of us if we are dating over 6 months that is a commitment, 4. i would check you and tell u to calm down because your not getting me into mess and i would need to calm down and you would check me on certain occasions and situations. 5. u might want to spell check that in your next edit, dont worry i know how to take care of myself. 6. yeah, i do say thank you, notice things about woman physical or mental. 7. as a woman you to communicate that with me if something emotionally is bothering you, tell me. 8 that depends on what your level of boring is. 9. okay, if my ability is in question and i see it then i'll do something about it. 10. trust, i agree it is important but it does go both ways 11. drinking and smoking too much you dont have to worry about that because i dont even do it, lol.
So basically, women are high maintenance. Compare what men want in women vs what women want in men. And truly ask yourself. Is a a relationship worth it? If your answer is yes, good luck my dude. I solute you 🫡. Tell us other men the stories of your journey. I’ll get the camp fire ready for when that time comes.
In my opinion all I need 2 know about a lady 2 better handle the relationship is.... Is who raised her, how was she treated... From their I can handle it... like a Man.. If a lady was treated like badly you have 2 handle it a certain way... If she was pampered that's another way.. if she was raised normal with loving discipline that's another..and so on... But you are telling some hard truth's.. let me see if I can read you... Your the type of woman that's hard 2 hold on 2. Cause at some point you where not as strong as you are now.. and hurt several times emotionally.... so you demand perfection that men demanded from you.. only difference is you are not mean when you cut one of your men loose... You know what its like 2 be hurt.. im not saying your weak.. your blunt but in a classy way..... Keep helping these boys become Men...
The hilarious is that those were the same reasons why she dumped her ex and choosed me over him.. if i get a lottery win of 800 billions of dollars tomorrow, love and desire would re-bloom mysteriously and id become interesting suddenly.. with money, there is no ugly man for women.. PS: 1-Women who have been with me dont know me as bad fuck.. 2- THATS the REAL issue now, specially in my situation here 3- She has rejected 3 re-marry proposals 4- the irony when she always was complaining about being used as toy and ignored by her ex 5- if didnt, id be dead because nobody does it for me 6- same as 4th one so its illogical 7- you cant connect with someone who doesnt want to talk you or spend time with you 8-im not in health or financial conditions to escalate everest or to dive niagara falls, 9- its impossible to be fat, i workout almost 6 days week since 8yrs old and have 5% bodyfat and have hypertyrodism 10- you cant trust what you dont know or try to know 11-I dont do drugs, drinks or smoke.. NEEVR everybody knows that
I disagree with you on number 9. When you are in love with a woman, the physical don't matter any more because you will see her with and without makeup. And if I have a baby with her, she is going to get fat anyway.
You gotta show out in bedroom that’s your throne as a man, you gotta have something financially going on for yourself I mean you don’t have to make $100,000 a year but at least $50,000 a year cause you gotta take her out, you don’t have to commit but you gotta have her interest, have a connection or make things fun and don’t let her lead 😎you gotta take the Lead, keep yourself and your place clean, acknowledge her and make her feel good especially if she’s giving you her all, everyone can’t always stay physically in shape cause as we age we may gain weight and it depends on the genes 🧬 as well, a lot of women don’t like a guy who drinks a lot and can’t handle it by getting sloppy drunk, calling her names, can’t get it up from drinking so much and etc, show that woman some love especially if she’s interested in you and giving you her love
If she lost interest, she never really liked you in the first place like that
Men- Go work on yourselves, goals, ambitions, dreams. Stop worrying about women especially in this era.
Shitting me if your a guy and u got hormones your straight it’s gonna be in your mind
@@fabiansmith5860 fr tho
Your consistency in making us get women is outrageous!! Respect ✊🏾
Your a girl tho
And ?
When money is finished women lose interest
CORRECT
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Yurp💯😵💫
Not if the sex is good and you don’t kiss her ass
Correct
I lost interest in entitled American women years ago. American women have high standards for men but very few American women are high value to men.
It's about how you are and what you allow. Set boundaries know what you want and need and just let things happen naturally.
Most of what you saying Melli goes both ways🌹
like you
'Take a bow'🙌...She is not women..She is an angel😻
doh she’s attractive,but touch grass cmon
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Everyone is important. Excellent vid💯
I think it s the woman job to keep the relationship interesting. That's why no staying in relationships today. The man job is to provide and protect. Plain and simple.
Women can provide too. But things have to be right on both sides meaning both sides show attentiveness to each other. That is twisted to think that women only job in a relationship should be to give interest. When you're not even paying attention to her real worth or even showing your full attention as it could be common for you to say "you're too busy working" while you're tryna put all your time and energy into tryna provide and protect. That mindset can drain women which is really one of the reasons why they end up leaving.
Absolutely!
These women tell on themselves. Her list is based on all the men from her past that she was attracted to: they were bad in bed, didn't have money, had nothing going for them, and she still picked them over the good guys who did all those things. She even admits this when she said "I get compliments all day, and go home and you don't compliment me," acknowledging that she literally picked the man who did not do these things on her list. So men, if you really want the truth about what women find attractive, do the opposite of everything she suggested.
Most important, men don't want a woman who is masculine: has arm-sleeve tattoos, swears, waves her hand with a disrespectful attitude, is loud and demanding, and you expect him to check your bad attitude like he's your baby-sitter because you constantly start drama (and you admitted that you knew you're acting crazy, but you wanted to see if you would "get away with it"). Ridiculous. Why should a man do anything for you when you're not even a feminine woman, you have nothing that a man wants. To a self-respecting man, you're a headache and a liability.
Melli the courtship goes both ways. Men loose interest in a woman if she's lazy and doesn't put in any effort or she's boring with no hobbies. Having standards leads to attracting high quality people😎
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If you marry today's modern woman in the west she will eventually lose interest in you no matter what you do or have... look at Tom Brady going through the ringer now .. Leonardo DiCaprio knows what he is doing..
women are never ugly you all are wonderful in your own wayyyyyyyyyy
Ladies this is the guide to being single. What Men want is peace, loyalty, submission, let him lead, don't be a ho, beauty, work with him and lastly don't embarrasse him. We aren't that hard to figure out.
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I have a question. I posted a selfie and a girl complimented it and I said "Thank you sis." She responded back and told me not to call her "sis." Why would she say this? We're both black so I'm so confused.
It's the friendzone 😆 she doesn't want it
No no the sisterzone 😂
Appreciate you Princess👌
I love you Melli
6:30
Yeah right. You mean a superficial problem, not a real problem. The minute you let on you're really vulnerable or have a real issue you're fked. If you tell her you've got some insignificant problem and you fix it yourself then maybe you're on to something otherwise keep quiet.
Melli where are you from?? I love your accent!!
Thank you Melli
When your turn is over...she moves on to the next.
She's not ours...its just her turn
Melli for President 2024
Great feedback
You're so right I don't want to stop listening to you you make my life so much better
I will lose interest in her first 😎
😂 lol
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She always be looking for someone with more money, better looking, higher value. You will never be enough and she will bail. There never is any real interest in the man. It's called buying time to find a better man. When they accomplish that they then move on.
Love your video
I'm a French Canadian Quebec, Gaspe Canada. Mc Mac Indian Iroquois confederacy nation also both sides of my family... NY Adrondack Mts... 50 miles from the St. Lawrence River... Melone NY...
Reason 12...they need more Narcissistic Supply
The actual personality of a man come out when smoking weed...
If is a asshole, so, it si, but, if is a smart man so, you gonna enjoy a smart man...
I would love to meet you...
I'm from Dominican Republic...
Ur gay
It's all about the Cash Flow.
So true
Love your channel!!!!!! 💕 And your so dam beautiful!!!! 😎
I've been watching a lot of videos of what "Men" need to do for women, but ironically enough there's hardly any video of what the woman needs to do to keep her man happy :/ instead of going through men like a grocery list how about women stop making excuses and own up to their failings
We people are out going... We know how to survive the game 🎯... Taught me how to real young... Skied at 4 years old... My whole family has been skier's for hundreds of years... Good work out... Later Mel
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I am guilty number 5, I need a female to cook my meals, clean my room, wash my laundry etc...
I just lay around still got the best handz in the land (defense) n just 140 lbs
You keep it 💯 n I love it!!!!!
They look for disqualifies every day u my boi just need not give a fwak cause she doesn’t care what it takes for you to attain em
I'm guilty of no. 3
1. So bad in bed, its interesting that you dont want to teach him your sexual rhythm it might help and figure out positions 2. go out with a man that saves his money at least in any form of job or income thats legal. 3. commitment is a test for both of us if we are dating over 6 months that is a commitment, 4. i would check you and tell u to calm down because your not getting me into mess and i would need to calm down and you would check me on certain occasions and situations. 5. u might want to spell check that in your next edit, dont worry i know how to take care of myself. 6. yeah, i do say thank you, notice things about woman physical or mental. 7. as a woman you to communicate that with me if something emotionally is bothering you, tell me. 8 that depends on what your level of boring is. 9. okay, if my ability is in question and i see it then i'll do something about it. 10. trust, i agree it is important but it does go both ways 11. drinking and smoking too much you dont have to worry about that because i dont even do it, lol.
12. Commit too soon. Thats one I was guilty of in the past
So basically, women are high maintenance. Compare what men want in women vs what women want in men. And truly ask yourself. Is a a relationship worth it? If your answer is yes, good luck my dude. I solute you 🫡.
Tell us other men the stories of your journey. I’ll get the camp fire ready for when that time comes.
So wait.... Women send Representatives but Men aren't allowed to send representatives...🤔
Romance with no finance,,🤣
Most females have Trust issues no matter what.
Yes Lord lol
In my opinion all I need 2 know about a lady 2 better handle the relationship is.... Is who raised her, how was she treated... From their I can handle it... like a Man.. If a lady was treated like badly you have 2 handle it a certain way... If she was pampered that's another way.. if she was raised normal with loving discipline that's another..and so on... But you are telling some hard truth's.. let me see if I can read you...
Your the type of woman that's hard 2 hold on 2. Cause at some point you where not as strong as you are now.. and hurt several times emotionally.... so you demand perfection that men demanded from you.. only difference is you are not mean when you cut one of your men loose... You know what its like 2 be hurt.. im not saying your weak.. your blunt but in a classy way..... Keep helping these boys become Men...
The hilarious is that those were the same reasons why she dumped her ex and choosed me over him.. if i get a lottery win of 800 billions of dollars tomorrow, love and desire would re-bloom mysteriously and id become interesting suddenly.. with money, there is no ugly man for women.. PS: 1-Women who have been with me dont know me as bad fuck.. 2- THATS the REAL issue now, specially in my situation here 3- She has rejected 3 re-marry proposals 4- the irony when she always was complaining about being used as toy and ignored by her ex 5- if didnt, id be dead because nobody does it for me 6- same as 4th one so its illogical 7- you cant connect with someone who doesnt want to talk you or spend time with you 8-im not in health or financial conditions to escalate everest or to dive niagara falls, 9- its impossible to be fat, i workout almost 6 days week since 8yrs old and have 5% bodyfat and have hypertyrodism 10- you cant trust what you dont know or try to know 11-I dont do drugs, drinks or smoke.. NEEVR everybody knows that
Damn stoners need love too Melli 😂 😢😶🌫️😵💫🫠😑
A lot of this seems to be obvious. Maybe it comes naturally?
Exactly! More than half the shit these hoes do out here that these dudes accept ill never accept!
Your points contradict themselves
We lose interest because we get bored sexually.
MEN ONLY TRUE HAPPENIESS COME FROM GOD!!! IT'S in the BIBLE !!! I M working on that everyday myself. LOL LOL
I disagree with you on number 9. When you are in love with a woman, the physical don't matter any more because you will see her with and without makeup. And if I have a baby with her, she is going to get fat anyway.
This is a lot, for a little
Melli are you wearing clothes underneath
I like you 💓💓💓💓👍
😎🍒
You gotta show out in bedroom that’s your throne as a man, you gotta have something financially going on for yourself I mean you don’t have to make $100,000 a year but at least $50,000 a year cause you gotta take her out, you don’t have to commit but you gotta have her interest, have a connection or make things fun and don’t let her lead 😎you gotta take the Lead, keep yourself and your place clean, acknowledge her and make her feel good especially if she’s giving you her all, everyone can’t always stay physically in shape cause as we age we may gain weight and it depends on the genes 🧬 as well, a lot of women don’t like a guy who drinks a lot and can’t handle it by getting sloppy drunk, calling her names, can’t get it up from drinking so much and etc, show that woman some love especially if she’s interested in you and giving you her love
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It all depends on the dude how a female going ack