Linked below is part 1-3. they are also in the cray cray playlist Part 1 th-cam.com/video/XiidPHTMGzA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=rtCuIsbVC2QG6UPT Part 2 th-cam.com/video/9_D6kuUsAQI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=LXLylwEQ49xJAC2b Part 3 th-cam.com/video/7YMHT7rAXqs/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VSXmwRH4IMlJrKed
Giiiiirrrl, 30:00 idk why this part have me so emotional… like real tears omg I’m so glad y’all were okay and that he feels safe with your mom. He’s so smart.
Wow what's crazy is Dylan was so young but at the same time if Cray Cray did really hurt you to the point where you couldn't get help for yourself, your baby already had help on the way. I'm so happy you made it out without it going that far but your baby real deal would have saved your life. S/n right after I made my comment you said the same thing lol
This was a heavy one, Shay. You went through alot with that dude. The gaslighting, manipulation, and mental abuse was cray cray. So glad you got out of that situation.
Wow Shayla I'm so sorry to learn this happened to you and your son. I can only imagine how afraid he must have been for both of you. Kudos to you for getting out of that situation.
Wow I'm so sorry you went through that this story is so triggering because I've been through a lot with these guys as well. I'm glad you made it out of that situation. No one should ever put their hands on anyone it's just not right and that's not love
I’m sorry you went through this, man ladies get it together and stop dealing with these men. Good respect men that love God and work. Call 911 anytime and have them locked up, especially when you have a kid it’s much traumatizing for the kid the see and hear everything. Always call the cops. They will get him out in seconds. You can’t be@t a man if the really mean it.
I absolutely love you …..your personality is everything I love your confidence and that check mid video pertaining to physical ish not being important was everything you are so true to self & Im here for it …. Nobody can ruffle your feathers and I see that and love that for you….you have a true supporter in me 🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️❤️
I’m glad you were comfortable enough to talk about DV. It happens to a lot of us but too many women I feel hide it so I’m happy you were in a good space where you can let people know what these men are doing, and how it’s not right, and how common it is. I support you, and everything you’re doing when I get some more money you know am going to join your membership. Other than that, keep doing what you’re doing, it’s a big inspiration to those who have been through the same thing, but who are not yet ready to comfort it head on.
He was a drug addict narcissist and he wasn’t for u. I actually ended a realationship with one 6 Mts ago found my husband. I wasted 8 years on a cheating drug addict narcissist. Accused me of so much shit through out the years. Turned out he was actually doing all the shit accused me of. Ugh ladies we really gotta believe these kinda men the first time they show us. SMH
Girl the way 911 would've been on speed dial that night😭😭 Cray would've hated me😂 I'm definitely the nosey neighbors just watching 😭😭 I love other peoples drama🫣
Be happy you went through this at the age u did. Cause I’m much older and I been through this and not worth it it’s not worth it! ! Boy move around! I’m glad u learned your worth
I think it’s prolly L at the door??? Or delulu 😭 the cliff hanger! I ain’t done watching the video but ooooooooooweeeee. I’m sorry you had to experience that. When I say your guardian angels and God were pulling shifts! It’s a blessing you’re still here and I’m glad you are 🤍 thank you for sharing Shala. Praying you have healed from all of this or on a journey.
Anyone who says anything disrespectful to you can choke because this has been happening for years no mother would expose her child to this on purpose and I’m proud that you raised him to the point where he knew 1. To stay in his room and 2. To get help
i love you shay thank you for dropping this & being sooooo transparent & so vulnerable with us. i’m such an empath & know how horrible the things you went through, are. wanna line all yo old niggas up not gonna yie.
No judgment here my brother just recently passed away last month and he was batting a substance abuse and I wish he could’ve gotten the help we tried to give him and not only that the drugs definitely changed him smh I still love him may in rest in paradise 🤎
People that wear glass will fight you bout them bifocals boa I done broke so many of my bd glasses and that was almost the end of us frl just cause of the glasses 😂
Linked below is part 1-3. they are also in the cray cray playlist
Part 1
th-cam.com/video/XiidPHTMGzA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=rtCuIsbVC2QG6UPT
Part 2
th-cam.com/video/9_D6kuUsAQI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=LXLylwEQ49xJAC2b
Part 3
th-cam.com/video/7YMHT7rAXqs/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VSXmwRH4IMlJrKed
L is at the door. Papa done called everybody 😂
Let me found out we watch the same stuff 😂 hey momma
LMAOOOO I swear the moment she said he had a phone I was like watch L pop up somewhere
@@asijahimani4710 hey daughter. ❤️😍Yesss Shayla is one of my favs.
@@asijahimani4710 omg this is too funny 😂 😂😂 and so awesome at the same time 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 love yall 😘
Giiiiirrrl, 30:00 idk why this part have me so emotional… like real tears omg I’m so glad y’all were okay and that he feels safe with your mom. He’s so smart.
nah this was really sad man🥺🥲🥲🥲 i’m really sorry u had to go through that, and even dylan too i pray you both heal from it❤️🙏🏾
@@skins6587 yea I was so emotional and physically drained from him. After me and Dillon got therapy cause that was to much
I’m thinking delusional was at the door 😂 and I love that speech about self worth that just did a lot for me ❤ ☺️
I been sayin dat same thing🤔
Same 😂
@@sippingteawithkey yes it’s so important because ppl pray so much in ppl they see who self worth is low
Yeah, you have to realize that everything you go through your kids go through it too. I know from experience as the kid.
Wow what's crazy is Dylan was so young but at the same time if Cray Cray did really hurt you to the point where you couldn't get help for yourself, your baby already had help on the way. I'm so happy you made it out without it going that far but your baby real deal would have saved your life.
S/n right after I made my comment you said the same thing lol
I bet it’s L at the door 😂. I am glad you know your worth sis and I love you
Girl I kept saying L or delusional I can’t wait to find out
This was a heavy one, Shay. You went through alot with that dude. The gaslighting, manipulation, and mental abuse was cray cray. So glad you got out of that situation.
@@humbled92_Mister yea I did I’m so glad I woke up and walk away cause I can just imagine how far things could have actually went if i stayed longer
Wow Shayla I'm so sorry to learn this happened to you and your son. I can only imagine how afraid he must have been for both of you. Kudos to you for getting out of that situation.
@@kolaspeaks1 yea fr and I don’t play when it comes to my kid being uncomfortable! I knew I for sure couldn’t deal with him anymore
Sounds like you talking about my ex . So glad you aren’t going through this anymore. God bless you and your son are safe ❤
Wow I'm so sorry you went through that this story is so triggering because I've been through a lot with these guys as well. I'm glad you made it out of that situation. No one should ever put their hands on anyone it's just not right and that's not love
I’m sorry you went through this, man ladies get it together and stop dealing with these men. Good respect men that love God and work. Call 911 anytime and have them locked up, especially when you have a kid it’s much traumatizing for the kid the see and hear everything. Always call the cops. They will get him out in seconds. You can’t be@t a man if the really mean it.
I absolutely love you …..your personality is everything I love your confidence and that check mid video pertaining to physical ish not being important was everything you are so true to self & Im here for it …. Nobody can ruffle your feathers and I see that and love that for you….you have a true supporter in me 🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️❤️
Hey Shala. This storytime had me on the edge of my seat. I felt like I was there. I also wanted to say you are beautiful with or without bags.
I’m glad you were comfortable enough to talk about DV. It happens to a lot of us but too many women I feel hide it so I’m happy you were in a good space where you can let people know what these men are doing, and how it’s not right, and how common it is. I support you, and everything you’re doing when I get some more money you know am going to join your membership. Other than that, keep doing what you’re doing, it’s a big inspiration to those who have been through the same thing, but who are not yet ready to comfort it head on.
Hearing how your son reacted was so chilling. I’m sorry yall had to experience that. I’m happy you made it out.
He was a drug addict narcissist and he wasn’t for u. I actually ended a realationship with one 6 Mts ago found my husband. I wasted 8 years on a cheating drug addict narcissist. Accused me of so much shit through out the years. Turned out he was actually doing all the shit accused me of. Ugh ladies we really gotta believe these kinda men the first time they show us. SMH
Girl the way 911 would've been on speed dial that night😭😭 Cray would've hated me😂 I'm definitely the nosey neighbors just watching 😭😭 I love other peoples drama🫣
Exactly just call the cops because if a man means business one hit can ki!! You
@@ophniesimilien girl fr cause he was doing a lot! But i definitely know better now I do not play
@@slimshala luckily you made out it safely🙌🏾 a Lesson was definitely learned that night, hopefully🤞🏾💜
Be happy you went through this at the age u did. Cause I’m much older and I been through this and not worth it it’s not worth it! ! Boy move around! I’m glad u learned your worth
Been there done that,I’m definitely not judging! Shit happens,you live and you learn. But you definitely did what you had to.❤❤❤
You’re beautiful inside and out and I’m so happy you’re not dealing with him or anyone like him anymore keeping you in my prayers
Yo face explains how u felt 🤣15:33
37:38 I’m so sorry you went through that 😩. No one deserves that. He is definitely a textbook narcissist.
I think it’s prolly L at the door??? Or delulu 😭 the cliff hanger! I ain’t done watching the video but ooooooooooweeeee. I’m sorry you had to experience that. When I say your guardian angels and God were pulling shifts! It’s a blessing you’re still here and I’m glad you are 🤍 thank you for sharing Shala. Praying you have healed from all of this or on a journey.
When u said his face changed when u kicked him .. from evil to normal I automatically thought oh yeah that man got demons in him 😅
@@Catzvibing I’m telling you cause something was not right with him it’s was so eerie
You keep me on the edge of my seat. I gotta know who was at the door next!!!! Love all ur content!
omg girl i’m so happy you got out of tht situation with him alive! people like tht need serious help
Anyone who says anything disrespectful to you can choke because this has been happening for years no mother would expose her child to this on purpose and I’m proud that you raised him to the point where he knew 1. To stay in his room and 2. To get help
i love you shay thank you for dropping this & being sooooo transparent & so vulnerable with us. i’m such an empath & know how horrible the things you went through, are. wanna line all yo old niggas up not gonna yie.
I had my cousin tuned in she lovedddd it now I gotta run all your videos back for her
You deserve the world I’m sorry you had to go through stuff like this shala❤😢
Your mom coming through warmed my heart. “Where my grandson?!” 🥹
@@jrdn.mariee girl fr I was not expecting her to show up outta all ppl but I was so glad when I saw her at the door
Why TF you have to talk shit about my girls looks? SMH Just listen to the damn story. BTW you look really good in pink!
@@YvettePrincesaSandoval right like what does looks have to do with a story
@@YvettePrincesaSandoval and thanks love 💕 pink has me in choke hold right now
Omg y I thought it was L at the door 😂
Hold up u pretty asf and u be cute girl please nothing wrong with ur looks my girl
No judgment here my brother just recently passed away last month and he was batting a substance abuse and I wish he could’ve gotten the help we tried to give him and not only that the drugs definitely changed him smh I still love him may in rest in paradise 🤎
U sound like younger me! On point
Don’t address the trolls coming for your looks behind their screen
shayla, did cray cray ever get caught for scamming?
Good question !
This 🥷🏿 is soooo unhinged 😩 I’m so sorry girl
The mail lady has delivered once again 🙂↕️
I think either delusional was at the door or Cray Cray had that girl he put on his Instagram show up. But I don’t even know.
oh yess need this while i work this night shift 🫶🏾😅 and im bout to binge watch ole stories too!
Who tf called you ugly? How dare they come for you on your page!! 🤬
You far from ugly let them unknown factors hate n be miserable
U look so pretty❤️🔥
18:34 oh hell nah. He was tripping fr , I would have spazzed too.
rumbling is awesome
I suggest that you and your son kids. Some therapy session.
14:08 ah hell na as a blind person myself he would of been DEAD not my Dior glasses DAFUQ
People that wear glass will fight you bout them bifocals boa I done broke so many of my bd glasses and that was almost the end of us frl just cause of the glasses 😂
Yo momma don’t play about her grandson
Your house is your son house so don’t allow men to come over y’all space..not everyone energy need to enter yall house ❤️love your videos
@@Lifewithshalanaagirl yes I know better now I don’t play that
Omg lemme grab my snacks
46:00 🫂
Heyyy 💜
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Delusional!!
Wait not yo mama 😂😂
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Just when I needed it thanks shala 🫶🏾