Leaving A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP Isn’t EASY

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  • @Ghostheque
    @Ghostheque ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It isn’t until we address the trauma we’ve faced as children and learn to love ourselves that we will be stuck in a trauma bond and continue to get into these types of relationships. Thank you for sharing this. It is tough but can be done.

  • @Saylerk9
    @Saylerk9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It can be done though...I said goodbye in a text and then went no contact - immediately. Two months on, it's getting better slowly. There were days I could not get off the floor from crying. I have stopped crying. It's a start!!! It's better than continuing to take the BS from them. At least by getting out of it, there is light at the end of the tunnel! If you stay...nothing changes. Stay strong and know you are NOT alone.

  • @stacy7990
    @stacy7990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's definitely like an addiction. I did not tell my family or friends because I did not want them to not like him. They all know the truth now.

  • @CharleeSpiller
    @CharleeSpiller ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The timing of this videos is nothing but God. I saw things I knew weren’t right with my ex. He would push my buttons then get mad at me for reacting and said we weren’t compatible and that we should just be friends. He wanted to do to me what he ex let him do to her. Stay on the bench while he went out to play and wait for him to figure out what he wanted. I beat myself up for weeks. I didn’t cuss at him or yell or call him out of his name. I simply let him know I would not tolerate how he was treating me. He turned to whole thing around on me and told me I needed to go to therapy for emotional self regulation; which I did. And I’m glad I did! :) now I see it was all him and I’m not chasing him like he’s use to from with other females. Now I truly see him for what he truly is. I wish him all the best and I hope he sees error in his ways and grows but he caught me when I was coming out of a relationship that wasted years of my life so I knew what to look out for. Because I chose to set a boundary with how I will be treated by those who want to be apart of my life he tried to friendzone me. Then when I told him I didn’t want that and gave him a fond farewell he told me that I needed to focus more on being a proverbs 31 woman. 😂 I already am one. Now I’m alone and healing which is crucial and he went back to his ex who would NEVER demand respect! That’s cool. Pain is the best teacher. That’s how I learned and knew what to watch out for what I met him. She’ll learn too. He’s been running in and out of her life for three years and she’s been welcoming him back with open arms each time he wanted to. He tried that with me and I SHUT IT DOWN SON! We don’t do that over here! Come correct or not at all! He use to dog her out so bad when he was with me too. :( I feel so bad. She’s hooked y’all.
    Ladies, demand respect from these men! If they can’t give it, then let them leave. It’ll hurt for awhile but God has better for you I PROMISE! Don’t go on to the next either. Take the alone time to heal and come up. After my disastrous heartbreak I’ve developed to ability to completely reinvent myself mentally, emotionally, intellectually, and physically. Someone the people who’ve removed themselves have never and will never meet. :) Its so exhilarating! And wen they come back (and girl, they ALWAYS come back) they are BIG MAD you’re not where you left them and they get no access to the new you! Self development is the best revenge. Cut them off and level up. Write down the person you want to marry then become that! We don’t attract who we want; we attract who we are.

  • @yishihara55527
    @yishihara55527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow...this timing. I did it but it's not easy. All I can say is this...take it one day at a time. You are not alone.

  • @crazycrashgirlrx7423
    @crazycrashgirlrx7423 ปีที่แล้ว

    Isolation while that relationship is mostly an influence of it. Feeling insecure, ashamed, ..

  • @cjk7063
    @cjk7063 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for doing this!!

  • @sandrasigala1378
    @sandrasigala1378 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen thank you i needed to hear this

  • @jasminephonTejas_
    @jasminephonTejas_ ปีที่แล้ว

    IM STILL IN A NARASSTIC MARRIAGE AND I NEED HELP IM SUCH IN A DARK PLACE 💔

  • @Tony-cv4of
    @Tony-cv4of ปีที่แล้ว

    I did in 2020 and it was the friendship haven't said a word to her since yet she still triangulating me and hovering me also still to this day she's smearing my name then try to act like a Saint like I wouldn't find out I forgive her though I put her in the Lord's hands and I just keep it pushing not say one word 🪨🤐🧘‍♂️❤

  • @JoyLady-1966
    @JoyLady-1966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s like coming off drug😮