Thank you for sharing this. I've been feeling like it's deception also. I noticed a lot of people believing for people to return who had obviously been harmful to them and not treated them like they were the highly valued children of God. It seems like most of the people who fall for this have childhood trauma and have been raised to expect and adapt to mistreatment so they won't be alone. Those are signs of abandonment and neglect in childhood. I pray that everyone gets the help and healing they need and remembers that when God gives a gift, with it he adds no sorrow.
Amen. This is good. A lot of unhealed codependency and trauma. I fully agree. It is deception. Prayer assignments are not prodigal spouses **singles** returning. God does not want us with abusive men. Amen.
None if these women are married. They have been waiting for about 3 years now. I noticed these channels started popping up around 2021... I too was under deception and had no idea. It doesn't take God 3 years to "open a man's eyes". I thought for 3 1/2 years a man was my husband l was watching a lot of these KS videos. God pulled me out and im so thankful. Ladies if he doesn’t talk to you, doesn't see you, doesn't know you... LET IT GO!!! It's not God. These men will go marry another woman before they even talk to you. Let it go in Jesus name.
And that’s exactly what happened to me. This man I waited two years for literally got married during that time. You said a whole word! It doesn’t take that long to open a man’s eyes!!
Girl same !! And crazy thig is God had already showed me in a dream he was going to propose to another woman, but I was still holding on to these videos where people manipulate the story of Esther saying this man will leave his wife and Vashti will be dethroned lol I'm so glad you made this channel. I'm going to share your videos.
@@lovableDoLL1 omg that was so me with the story of Esther😩. I even used Ezra 9 or 10 when God told the men of Israel to put away their wives. Whew, it runs deep.
@@girlmeetskingdomI am so glad the misuse of the story of Esther is being addressed. It is one of the most dangerous teachings out there. If the story is studied and especially looking at it in Hebrew, it is very clear that no Christian woman should ever want to be Esther. Esther might be a model for a woman who was not a believer, clawed her way to get a powerful and rich but despicable man, but then God started working in her life and she had to navigate the mess she was in because of an emergency situation. She did not even want to at first, she just cared about herself and her uncle was disgusted with her until he convinced her to act. Vashti was the rightful queen and it was Esther who was the counterfeit. Vashti had been right to disobey the king who wanted to parade her near naked in front of his drunken court. He then realized he was wrong and wanted to reconcile with Vashti but was badly advised not to. Esther clawed her way (the Hebrew makes it clear she was not fated or blessed to rise to the top) into a marriage with a murderous pagan who was sleeping with other women in his harem, and of whom she was so scared of that she believed he would kill her. That doesn't sound like a godly Christian man who loves his wife like Christ loves the church. Everyone wants the fairytale princess story, though. Meanwhile no one talks about Priscilla and Aquila, the actual husband and wife power duo that stands out in the New Testament and whom Paul so admired as a couple, with a deep respect for Priscilla specifically.
What God revealed to me is that it was a familiar spirit speaking to me as God and because I had not developed a relationship with the Lord at that time, I had no way to tell difference
That’s what happened to a lot of us. It sounded like God, but we had so many influences that our discernment was so off. I’m glad God revealed that to you. 💕
The lady from "Beam Your Light " put out a video that she was under the kingdom spouse deception. She apologized to her followers, met someone else and married him.
This happens when people speak out of season on things that should be privately walked through with the Lord. I went through a similar experience, encountering and marrying a counterfeit, but God revealed to me while we were separated that He had a God ordained husband for me. I actually was going to post a video while married to the counterfeit, before separating, about God ordained marriage but Holy Spirit wouldn’t allow me to post it because I would’ve been deceiving people and deep down I KNEW THIS! This was before the whole “movement” that’s going on. When we speak out of season we are acting as false prophets and it’s hard to come back from that even when genuinely not understanding what you’re experiencing in a moment!
Yep I remember after coming out the delusion going back to these pages and they still not married and I kindly asked where the testimonies are posted. I mean 2-3 years ain’t no way.
I asked the same question. All these women claiming God told them who their spouse is and they’re waiting for the man to also figure it out. Yet I almost never see a story of them actually coming together with said man.
@@pocahontas4583 and it’s a painful experience because we think we are obeying God and doing everything to be in right standing. I mean I used to cry and ask God to take the desire and feelings away. Finally I God broke that off of me and opened my eyes while doing YOTB fast and I’ve never looked back. I pray that every woman comes out of this delusion is restored immediately to the place they’re supposed to be 🫶🏽
This is such a much needed message Crystal! Excellent. & so true! I was wondering the same thing! Why aren't those women who have these channels married yet? Where is their testimony that this is all true? Hmmmmm. I feel completely free & different since I let go of all of this. No more dreams, no more constant thoughts, just free, with clear thinking. I am so thankful to be out of all that deception. I look forward to your future videos Crystal, I totally identify with everything you speak about, it is truth! I have experienced all this, to a tee! I am so glad you are making g new videos, I have learned so much from your story, mine is so similar & have been so glad God led me to your channel. I know that I know, God has led me here. God bless you my Sister! 😊🕊️🙌💖
I feel like it is just reinforcing low self esteem for us to wait and stand for a man. I dont know though i have no idea. But something isnt right. Im open for the truth
That could be true. There are so many reasons. For me, I didn’t want to hear “I told you so.” I was so loud and bold thinking this man was my husband. I didn’t want to look like a dummy. So I kept standing thinking it would turn out in my favor.
Thanks a lot for this video. I’ve been in pain trying to move on from someone and then started getting these kingdom spouse videos bombarded to my face the past 2 weeks. At first I got a bit excited but because there were so many being recommended at once so I got very skeptical. I started to restrict those channels by setting it to ‘not recommend’ so now I see them rarely. I started to pray and question God about it coz God does speak to me through social media and mostly through youtube videos BUT when he does it’s more subtle , 1-2 videos or posts that speak directly for my situation but these kingdom spouse videos were all over my youtube and that made me question if this is a deception. 2 days back God spoke to me in prayer telling me that I haven’t come across these kingdom spouse testimonies like I have for other genuine christian marriage testimonies so then I got a bit convinced and stopped thinking about these kingdom spouse stuff or the person I was missing. Now you posted this video and it’s very timely and more confirmation from God that my intuition was right about the deception and God helped me and protected me so I didn’t waste any time on it. Thank you .
The other thing is ...if this man is not actively trying to court me, then what am I to do with all these KS "prophecies?" Absolutely nothing. How is it edifying me? It is just tickling our ears, making us hold onto promises that God never made.
I'm glad this video popped up in my feed. I have been watching "kingdom spouse" videos for maybe almost a month now. Oddly, a video came on my feed with "kingdom spouse" in the title. I was curious and clicked on it. Not only outta curiosity, but I had started wondering about a male friend and if he could be the one. Too many weird occurrences and coincidences has happened throughout our friendship that made me question it. Anywho, the 1st video really touched on a lot things he and I is going through individually. I said this woman is on to something. Next thing you know more and more started popping up. I recently started questioned it, when I heard the lady from the 1st video say she is waiting on her spouse too. After hearing a couple more ladies say they're waiting for their spouse to, I started wanting to find videos where the creator is married. Not trying to take anything from these ladies. But in the short time I been watching, I've noticed this about them. I mostly watch for entertainment purposes now.
I help married woman and God ordained relationships. In our community There are several God ordained relationships that God has restored HOWEVER I preach ALL THE TIME. Know the WILL OF GOD and not your desires, I thought three different men was my husband from God before I met my NOW husband, the deception is truly real! But it’s possible for God to choose your mate
Sister, when did I say it’s not possible for God to choose your spouse? I’m literally married to who I believe God CHOSE.These videos are for women that were in kingdom spouse deception due to the TH-cam false prophets. That’s what I’m targeting. That’s what I’m exposing. I didn’t say one time that God can’t choose your spouse. I’m saying a lot is women were under deception due to that TH-cam videos.
@@girlmeetskingdom lol girl you took my comment the wrong way lol 😂 I was agreeing with you 🤦🏽♀️😂😂 I understand what’s it’s like to get attacked and stay on guard lol but calm down I was agreeing with you
@@SheFoughtBackRestoration well my bad if I misread your comment or perceived it wrong. I constantly get comments that misinterpret what I’m saying in my videos. Thought you were saying that I didn’t believe God chooses spouses.
Wog, if God promised you a God-Odained Spouse, you never give up! You can't put no time on God... I started this journey in 2020 when God showed me my God-Odained. And from there, I've seen God do some amazing things all throughout my journey! I crossed over into my promised land April 1 Im even the more in awe of His goodness. Ive been given a season of rest because ive done the work! It's a process. it's nothing quick! I want all that God has for me, I don't want an unsaved, unhealed spouse... I don't want a spouse who doesn’t support me! Are communication sucks 😅...I want the husband thats the same image of my Father! His mind, how he speaks, how he walks. And Last: My God-Odained and I met in 2020 God seperated us in 2022. I use to reach out to him, but he would be sort of short with his words back to me. I must admit it hurt my feelings, but I know what God said right! God told me to fall back and that He will be reaching out to me. So, I stopped reaching out...then this year my God-Odained reached out to me. Hallelujah!! ...It still a process , but HolySpirit was faithful to His word to me. But you learn as you journey how to wait well, it doesn't bother you anymore how ppl laughs at you because you believe God....And then theres those lookers!👀 When(not if) God do it! He gone make sure the audience are the nay sayers and the watchers...So they will know "He Is The King Of King" and that! ...His word will NOT return BACK to Him VOID!!! 🥰💍✝️❤️🫶🏾🙌🏾
If the message came from God, then stand on it. But make sure the message came from God and not flesh or a feeling or a video or a person. Test it. Read the Word and see if that’s the character of God. 💜
@@jairusbryant3229 Yes! I stated that in one of the comments… God is looking 👀 like a liar! All because some thought they heard, tired of waiting and other excuses they have for stepping from Gods will. Even if your spouse get married, Gods word doesn’t change “that’s still your Ordained Husband/Wife” by God… This is where ppl start messing up! They don’t want the marriage no more because that person chose someone else! Trust me I understand, that’s a hard one! Or him/her doesn’t want to wait till they leave the counterfeit! I get that too! But that still don’t change God word! That just put us with a counterfeit! 😀Until we are joined with who He chose for us to be with. I’m understanding tho, if you never heard God say this is your “Ordained Spouse” then I understand why others are calling it “kingdom spouse” because they never really heard from God… Yes, they were deceived, but by satan, not God! God never said anything. And last…this walk was never meant to be easy, the struggle, the afflictions are part of the journey… God doesn’t change His mind because you having a tantrum or you telling Him you can’t hold on no more! He will just give you strength to go farther! These are God loves stories, these stories has already been ridden and that’s why it’s called “Ordained” … but Lords Will …I will come back! Matter of fact, Holy Spirit wants me to get a channel on TH-cam and tell my testimony..,Stay tuned🤗
@@TheMessenger51thank you, everything ive been shown has been through God's word and stuff he has shown me. I'm grateful God has done that for me and domt get me wrong, sometimes the devil made me feel I was crazy. As far as, if our spouse married someone else, you're correct. It doesn't change God or what he said. I've known a few people that married counterfeits, including me and I lost everything cause of it.
You are talking right WOG! Keep speaking the Father’s truth. So many women are deceived and must come out of agreement with that idol and false word spoken over their life. In God’s perfect timing He will bring the 2 to become 1. Continue working on yourself ladies and stay busy about your Father’s business and in His word.
Ever since I let go and stopped watching those vids I felt like a weight had been lifted off me! These KS videos can be REALLY harmful especially to those desiring love! I had to pray to not desire love so much!
This makes me wonder why I thought the one I was liking off and on for 13 years was my God-ordained husband. What was I thinking ????? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 But I don't have to worry about this anymore...
God told me to stop listening to those kingdom spouse stories because he had promised me a “husband”! Even them prophesying on secular songs! I grew up listening to those same songs and now those songs are “biblical”?!?!🤔🤔🤔
Omg that would bother me when they'd say a secular song with non-kosher lyrics ministered to them and would produce a whole prophetic word on the song's lyrics 🙄 Like I know God can use anything to minister and speak to us but certain songs are a definite no.
Yikes😮. There are plenty of testimonies from people all over the world speaking on their kingdom marriages and how God genuinely brought them together. I believe that’s the better algorithm to be on. This video is quite vague. 10 minutes in to hear that we are the “they”. This popped up on my feed so I tried to listen, but honestly the best thing to do when seeking God about anything is read your BIBLE and pray for wisdom and discernment. Before signing up with anyone. What are their credentials? Don’t just listen to their words, look at their fruit. Be careful what you open your heart to. Pray that God will open your eyes to any deception. God bless.
If this is the only video you have watched on my page, that’s on you. If you feel that I’m not qualified to speak on this, that’s you. God gave me the okay. I have a published book about my journey, many videos about my journey, and I’m married. If you look at the comments, you will understand that many of my sisters have been deceived due to these TH-cam kingdom spouse videos and they are overcoming it like I did. That’s the audience I’m talking to. If that doesn’t apply to you and you can’t relate, keep scrolling. The only people mad are the ones deceived or the ones doing the deceiving.
Where in the bible does it say to only look for teachers who say what you want to hear? What does that benefit you to seek out people to tickle your ears?
I legit just unfollowed Crystal Nicole Lyle a few days ago. I really liked her too but I think asking for money to support her just really didn't sit well with me. I don't ever recall any of the biblical prophets asking people for money as if the role of prophet was a full time job that required financial assistance from the Israelites. I've unfollowed many and will occasionally check to see if any of them have gotten married. None have. And I followed quite a few. Everytime I see a video pop up in my timeline, I make sure to hit 'do not recommend this channel'. They had me for years, but not anymore!
Hi there! I’ve toiled for free with no charge for years, and I’m still not charging anybody for anything. To ask for help from people who I’ve been of assistance to for years in a time of transition is not anti biblical at all. In fact, Paul preached on the principle of assisting those who do full time ministry in 1 Corinthians 9:3-15. I don’t see where the Bible preaches to abandon our brothers and sisters when they’re in need either. Please enlighten me on the Christ-like nature in that. ❤ And I’m happy that you chose to prioritize your intimacy with the Lord first and foremost. We’re not called to sit at everybody’s table, and we’re not all going in the same direction and it takes maturity to know who you’re meant to be walking in agreement with. It takes even more maturity to not demonize others for our own shortcomings and inability to hear and *listen* to God’s still small voice regarding *our own* personal lives in the secret place … That’s where everybody should’ve been before they idolized a man, a woman, a promise, or any prophetic voice.
@crystalnicolelyle Morning sis 🌞 Let me start by saying I actually struggled with unfollowing your channel. I genuinely like you and hope you didn't see my comment as an attack. For the most part, I've been actively distancing myself from Ministries that only or primarily preach about kingdom spouses/kingdom marriages. I've been following you for some years now and know well you also touch on other subjects pertaining to biblical truths which I LOVED. But as for me, I got to a point where I was relying on words from people. Now, I'm more focused on hearing from God myself. I love that you referenced 1 Corinthians 9 and Apostle Paul. He does affirm supporting those in ministry as does Jesus. We even see support for this concept in the OT. But when I read this passage of scripture, I find it interesting that he clarifies that he and Barnabas decided to work. Not sure Barnabas' occupation, but you and I both know Paul was a tent maker. He states in verse 15 he did not ask the people he ministered to for money nor was writing with the intent of asking or hinting at a need. He preached the gospel free of charge (v. 18). That's not to say you ever demanded payment in the past. As someone who is coming out of the whole kingdom spouse movement, I will just say how it comes off to me personally but I'm sure some others. It seems almost used as a tool of manipulation. I've seen this with one too many Ministries that target singles and their desire for marriage. Like a bait and switch. People frequently take the opportunity to make a business out of it. I genuinely wasn't sure if that was you, but again just decided to walk away from it all period. Tune my own ear to God's voice. Honestly got to a point where it felt like I was getting tarot readings you know? Also, I think the people that financially supported those that ministered to them were face to face. So they could actually see quite a bit of their ministry. They traveled great distances and planted churches all over. It's just more difficult for anyone to see all that anyone is doing behind the scenes on TH-cam. I do support those in my physical community, especially those that are on the mission field or I can see are in need. I just want to be more cautious and discerning of where I'm sowing. I want to thank you for your encouraging words throughout the years and I really and truly hope that you heard/hear correctly from the Most High on everything. But especially the particular young man you have been praying and interceding for for some time. It's all in love ❤️
@@ofoliveoilandhoney Yup! And I can totally respect that. For example, for me, I’m personally EXCELLENT at cutting people off (sometimes, even to a fault), and guess what? There are ministries out there whose focus is aiding people towards learning how to cut people off, being delivered from soul-ties, and toxic family members, bosses, jobs, etc. And there are people out there who NEED that ministry. However, for someone like me who can be an avoidant at times, that is a ministry that would be harmful to me as I would misapply their messages to affirm my shortcomings and my comfort in isolating myself from people. I need to go where there are discussions of fellowship, forgiveness, commitment, and community. I say that to say that not everybody’s function in the body is for every single individual, we all have our roles to play and a personal relationship with God that WE must cultivate in order to know where WE belong. I just don’t agree with demonizing the people that WE weren’t assigned to just because of our own lack of maturity and discernment in seasons past. I wonder, *“Where is the accountability?”* often times. Secondly, all of the disciples were called into full time ministry (I’m pretty sure). To my understanding, considering the Pharisee-like/murderous past that Paul had and the major role that he had to play in writing a good chunk of the literal New Testament, it was crucial that his name was clear and that his accusers and “kin” from his past wouldn’t have any grounds to even POSSIBLY frame him. I believe it was also an example for some that they can/should have a trade if GOD called them to that. And then there was the example of Jesus, Himself, who received support in order to fund his travels & assignments amongst the disciples *(📌 Luke 8:1-3).* They had something called a “money box” or “money bag”. Full time ministry *is indeed* biblical and part time ministry is biblical as well. It all boils down to which calling God has assigned to *us.* It just takes discernment to know who to give to. But scripture tells us to give to the poor and to be willing to materialistically give to those who pour into us *spiritually. (1 Corinthians 9:11).* Idk, for me, it just comes naturally to want to bless people who’ve been a blessing to my soul, but I guess everybody is different and has been indoctrinated differently. I’ll share a link with you that breaks it down: eliyah.com/is-full-time-ministry-scriptural/ I apologize for my novel as well! I’m a writer and reader so I don’t mind your lengths, all is well! And thank you for your pure desires concerning my life! It’s appreciated! ❤️ *Also … Acts 6:2-7* ❤️
Wow. Thanks. I was looking for information about this. Saw a ladies video. I said oh she is anointed. She shared a dream and said her kingdom spouse was there. I was like WAIT. What is a kingdom spouse? It sounds weird. And in my experience with spiritual warfare. Weird usually means demonic. So I looked up what a Kingdom spouse is. Thanks!
There is a couple women that have channels speaking on KS and now they are married 1. Prophetic Marriage Ministry and the other woman is Ellavate Ministry.
I’m not familiar with those pages. I’m referring to the kingdom spouse prophetic word pages. The ones that decreed and declare that God said… The ones that uploaded a message “from God” every day. Constantly regurgitating the same message.
@girlmeetskingdom yes the ones you are referring to were absolutely deceived. But the ones I referenced to are prophetic kingdom spouse video ministries and they did married. God bless you. I like your videos very informative
@girlmeetskingdom I agree with you 100% there are a lot of false prophets claiming they have heard from God and they are agents of Satan. I’m happy you are speaking on this.
I want to speak on this so badly and I think your message is just the confirmation I need. There are non black people that got caught up in this. But this attack was made specifically for BLACK WOMEN AND I KNOW WHY. I don’t believe this platform is ready to discuss this. I tried to discuss this in the past and people attacked me. So I have to be careful with how I present it. If you want to know more about this. Book on my site and we can discuss. But it’s a reason why the target audience is black women.
Also, I clicked on your name and couldn’t help but see you are subscribed to one of the biggest deceivers in this kingdom spouse deception. I guess she changed her name to fuel your soul. Maybe that has been her name. Please unfollow her. She’s doing exactly what all the other channels are doing. She’s one of the main ones. Actually you need to unfollow more than her. DanaRay… sis, do you not see what they are doing? Their pages are all the same. They talk about the exact same thing. They try to make their page pretty to attract ppl.
@@girlmeetskingdom sisss!! I know. I was in the deception deep for 4+ years .. I just escape officially about 2 weeks ago! My discernment always felt uneasy with these voices but the false signs were so real and the deceiver made out to be my husband played his role well. Sad. I subscribed to probably the top voices in this haha. Danaray is what got me hooked after I initially walked away from the dude. But I always had a skeptical view on this and my discernment was going off like an alarm.. this situation gaslight me into continuing being deceived. One thing that always stuck out to me was it was mostly black voices/women all up in this. I’ll book now would love to talk more on all of this! And trust I don’t watch the vids anymore! I see so clearly now and I feel so free. Up from here!
I understand where you are coming from, but the times are a lot different than they were back then, look at the state of the world we are in, the devil is reigning and God stepping in and changing them will take time, there are very few men who are actually walking with the Lord...what, are all these women that are meant to be married supposed to stay single ? No? There are sooo many good women who are supposed to be married, single, and it's because these men are being attacked.
Times might be different,but God is the same yesterday, today, and ever more. Hebrews 13:8 “Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. This is SCRIPTURE! Ma’am, God does not need your help. You are doing exactly what the pages I talked about are doing. So yes, either you are a witch intentionally deceiving God’s daughters or you are under deception as well. I encourage you to turn away from it. If God wants them married, guess what, He has the authority to do it. Allow these women to walk their own journey and hear from God, not hear from you acting like you speaking for God. Have a blessed day.
@@girlmeetskingdom I appreciate your feedback...I have no desire to be a witch and would be very ashamed of myself if I was...I am just trying to live a holy life and share my experience, I was caught in a lot of deception in my life too and just got to my Promise Land ! God is leading me to the scriptures in the Bible and walking me through my journey as well... I am learning just like you and everyone else, I do believe a lot of these people are deceived but I will still believe in healthy Godly marriages sent from God and I try to not put my God in a box, I remain open minded...please don't falsely accuse me of being a witch, that's not fair, I never said that about you or anyone
Preachers would preach that the men are coming to the church. King spouse has taken it to another level. Sometimes those videos are like reading a romance book.
I don't know if you are familiar with Righteous Wives. There was an indication that she was either dating someone or had married someone/was about to marry someone and had posted vlogs on their trip to San Antonio, TX. Sometime after that, the videos were taken down and the channel obviously went on a hiatus. She then revived the channel back and started talking about kingdom marriage again, without indication about her with a man. Her name is Shakara Rivera.
OMG GIRL! I thought I was tripping. I sooooo remember that. And what’s crazy is… I saw her at a church I go to in Plano probably in 2022 or early 2023. I thought of her a few months ago and tried to look her page up. I didn’t know what happened. I then came across a page with that new name and I said omg, they got her too!!! She’s talking about kingdom spouse this, kingdom spouse that. I didn’t know if she had married him yet, but she was definitely on cloud 9. It had gave me hope while I was waiting. Wow. Deception.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 what happens if your partner is god sent? Can attuning to these “kingdom spouse” videos cause confusion / spiritual attacks / problems in our relationship? Bc when I followed such videos, I felt a lot more warfare than usual.
God can absolutely pair people together for a purpose. But most of these kingdom spouse videos have women thinking a man is their husband that God had nothing to do with. These videos cause so much confusion and make it difficult to hear from God. I met my husband literally right after I came out of this deception. Me knowing he was my husband had nothing to do with watching a video or any of this foolishness.
Hello Dear, i sheduled a meeting but when time came i thought i will receive an email telling me on which platform we are going to have the meeting. But nothing. Please is there a way to know if it is a zoom or other platform we use and is it possible to have the link when we book ? Thank you My names is Karis
Hi Karis💕, I have your appointment. This initial call will be over phone. I have your phone number you left in the questionnaire. Any subsequent meetings will be via zoom or phone depending on your preference.
How do you feel about people who say the scripture “don’t be unequally yoked” isn’t talking about marriage? I’ve seen a few strong voices of God say this.. example: how Ester had to marry out for a greater purpose. Idk it sounds good but this seems to be a new word going around
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” II Corinthians 6:14 NKJV If yoked means to put together, joined, intertwined, attached, that can apply to relationships outside of marriage. But when you think of the word yoked, that literally means you are connected to a person as animals were when they had a yoke around them. Sure, that applies to friendships, business partnerships, etc… but marriage would be the closest you are to being connected to a person. So how can the two walk together unless they agree? If you are a believer, but you choose to marry an unbeliever and/or a person that does not follow Christ, you have to deal with the consequences of that. Paul warned you not to do that and have provided the reason why. So if there are teachings out there saying otherwise, then that’s a problem. I don’t understand the example of “Esther had to marry out for a greater purpose.” What’s do they mean she “married out?” She literally married a king that had power and authority to free her people. It wasn’t a religion, it was a bloodline. She helped save the Jews (tribe of Judah). Those are a people, not a religion.
@@girlmeetskingdom I agree. I have heard “supposed” people of God say this recently & it just does not resonate with my spirit but I am always learning so wanted to see more about their pov. I did take it to God in prayer but seems redundant to pray about when the answer is blatant in the word. Verbatim the example was “Ester married a pagan king & it was for purpose.” As people are so desperate for marriage I feel this is a very dangerous word to put out there & will add to the KS deception. Thank you for your input I appreciate it!
@@journeytojourdanoh my goodness. Look, God can most definitely pair unexpected people together i.e Hosea married Gomer the prostitute. But it was indeed for a purpose, a plan. But again, that was God’s doing, not us. So please make sure that if you are marrying someone that would not be considered equally yoked, that you are moving completely according to God. As for Esther & Xerxes, that was a plan of God. It doesn’t look right to us, but God knew what was in store. That’s why we need God to guide us when choosing a mate. I definitely didn’t think my husband was my husband until God had to open my eyes to the purpose. Hope that helps❤.
Please becareful. Just because one was decieved does not mean others will be decieved. Just because one made a mistake doesnt mean the other will make a mistake. If God told you and showed you without a doubt that man or women of God is your God ordained spouse you stand. Its for minsitry to saving souls the enemy will try everything in his power to destroy it. God can show someone their spouse but if the timing is NOT correct on both ends if it is not the correct SEASON and yall get married things WILL go south and will NOT work out!!! People dont understand how important it is to TRULY WAIT on Gods timing. So many dont even wait on God they get weary and end up taking matters into their own hands. Big mistake!!! Timing is everything!! Always take everything back to God. Im sorry but these titles can be decieving because someone can have a God ordained spouse and waiting and if they dont have a solid foundation with God fully the enemy will enter a person and may forfeit their spouse when God never said anything and because that person listened to another, did you know that person who said it is now accountable for that other person who was decieved on listening to something that was false? Just saying truth we must be extremely careful what content we put out. Blessings.
My title isn’t deceiving and I don’t need to be careful. I’m going to continue talking about the deception . If it doesn’t apply to you, then good. The only people mad are the ones that are deceived themselves or is doing the deceiving. If you watch my videos, I am an advocate for marriage when it is God led. The people these videos are for know who they are. When people leave these comments defending the deception, I click on their page and that tells me all I need to know. So I’m going to leave it at that. Carry on with your kingdom spouse videos.
@@Godskingdomcouncelorcrystal I do not know who you worship. Keep your prayers. You look no different from the rest. But I will pray that you come to repentance for whatever role you have played in this deception. Have a good day.
The devil will always shapeshift. This mass deception of innocent Christian comes from the same spirits behind Twin Flame of New Age. The one true God will not stand for it and we will have retribution through Jesus Christ
Ever since the pandemic when I listen to people who speak BS, it really hurts my ears like nails on a chalkboard. That kingdom spouse propaganda was a gateway to become a hospice wife. I didn’t want an old, sick man so that really removed me from watching it.
Read your Bible and look at what Saul did that was persecution then come back and delete your ignorant comment. If you want to stay in deception, then get off of my page and go to the false prophet pages. I’m going to call out sin, period. Now get off of my page with this non sense. The only people mad are the witches.
🙏🏽🕊️🤍🕊️🙏🏽✝️ yes , i can relate to seeing a lot of kingdom marriages on my timeline in the past. I wonder how did it all start. Im unmarried. Manu are still posting kingdom marriage .
I think it started from the same folks that do tarot card readings, witches, and psychics, etc. They slapped the label Kingdom on it. But what Kingdom exactly???? Because there’s a kingdom of darkness.
@@girlmeetskingdomyes, I agree it makes sense. Im happy to not be flooded with it anymore. I still see one or two channels still speaking on it. I believe we need to speak more about God and Jesus and the end times. I have wondered if the kingdom marriage was a deception. Im glad your video popped up on my feed im a new subscriber.
Thank you for sharing this. I've been feeling like it's deception also. I noticed a lot of people believing for people to return who had obviously been harmful to them and not treated them like they were the highly valued children of God.
It seems like most of the people who fall for this have childhood trauma and have been raised to expect and adapt to mistreatment so they won't be alone. Those are signs of abandonment and neglect in childhood.
I pray that everyone gets the help and healing they need and remembers that when God gives a gift, with it he adds no sorrow.
This is so true. The vulnerabilities definitely aided in this deception. I hope my sisters open their eyes and see what’s really going on.
“The blessing of the Lord brings [true] riches, And He adds no sorrow to it [for it comes as a blessing from God].”
Proverbs 10:22 AMP
Amen. This is good. A lot of unhealed codependency and trauma. I fully agree. It is deception. Prayer assignments are not prodigal spouses **singles** returning. God does not want us with abusive men. Amen.
None if these women are married. They have been waiting for about 3 years now. I noticed these channels started popping up around 2021... I too was under deception and had no idea. It doesn't take God 3 years to "open a man's eyes". I thought for 3 1/2 years a man was my husband l was watching a lot of these KS videos. God pulled me out and im so thankful. Ladies if he doesn’t talk to you, doesn't see you, doesn't know you... LET IT GO!!! It's not God. These men will go marry another woman before they even talk to you. Let it go in Jesus name.
And that’s exactly what happened to me. This man I waited two years for literally got married during that time. You said a whole word! It doesn’t take that long to open a man’s eyes!!
Girl same !! And crazy thig is God had already showed me in a dream he was going to propose to another woman, but I was still holding on to these videos where people manipulate the story of Esther saying this man will leave his wife and Vashti will be dethroned lol I'm so glad you made this channel. I'm going to share your videos.
@@lovableDoLL1 omg that was so me with the story of Esther😩. I even used Ezra 9 or 10 when God told the men of Israel to put away their wives. Whew, it runs deep.
@@girlmeetskingdomI am so glad the misuse of the story of Esther is being addressed. It is one of the most dangerous teachings out there.
If the story is studied and especially looking at it in Hebrew, it is very clear that no Christian woman should ever want to be Esther.
Esther might be a model for a woman who was not a believer, clawed her way to get a powerful and rich but despicable man, but then God started working in her life and she had to navigate the mess she was in because of an emergency situation. She did not even want to at first, she just cared about herself and her uncle was disgusted with her until he convinced her to act.
Vashti was the rightful queen and it was Esther who was the counterfeit. Vashti had been right to disobey the king who wanted to parade her near naked in front of his drunken court. He then realized he was wrong and wanted to reconcile with Vashti but was badly advised not to.
Esther clawed her way (the Hebrew makes it clear she was not fated or blessed to rise to the top) into a marriage with a murderous pagan who was sleeping with other women in his harem, and of whom she was so scared of that she believed he would kill her.
That doesn't sound like a godly Christian man who loves his wife like Christ loves the church.
Everyone wants the fairytale princess story, though.
Meanwhile no one talks about Priscilla and Aquila, the actual husband and wife power duo that stands out in the New Testament and whom Paul so admired as a couple, with a deep respect for Priscilla specifically.
What God revealed to me is that it was a familiar spirit speaking to me as God and because I had not developed a relationship with the Lord at that time, I had no way to tell difference
That’s what happened to a lot of us. It sounded like God, but we had so many influences that our discernment was so off. I’m glad God revealed that to you. 💕
The lady from "Beam Your Light " put out a video that she was under the kingdom spouse deception. She apologized to her followers, met someone else and married him.
OMG really!? I’m going to go watch it! Thanks for letting me know!
She's not the only one. Also Lala's page... she apologized and another woman I follow "Prophetic Encouragement". God is freeing His daughters.
This happens when people speak out of season on things that should be privately walked through with the Lord. I went through a similar experience, encountering and marrying a counterfeit, but God revealed to me while we were separated that He had a God ordained husband for me. I actually was going to post a video while married to the counterfeit, before separating, about God ordained marriage but Holy Spirit wouldn’t allow me to post it because I would’ve been deceiving people and deep down I KNEW THIS! This was before the whole “movement” that’s going on. When we speak out of season we are acting as false prophets and it’s hard to come back from that even when genuinely not understanding what you’re experiencing in a moment!
@@lovableDoLL1 as they should. I apologized about some of my videos as well.
@@saethenamejesus321 this is so true. I learned this the hard way.
Yep I remember after coming out the delusion going back to these pages and they still not married and I kindly asked where the testimonies are posted. I mean 2-3 years ain’t no way.
Seriously, like come on. The math was not mathing!
Exactly
I asked the same question. All these women claiming God told them who their spouse is and they’re waiting for the man to also figure it out. Yet I almost never see a story of them actually coming together with said man.
@@pocahontas4583 and it’s a painful experience because we think we are obeying God and doing everything to be in right standing. I mean I used to cry and ask God to take the desire and feelings away. Finally I God broke that off of me and opened my eyes while doing YOTB fast and I’ve never looked back. I pray that every woman comes out of this delusion is restored immediately to the place they’re supposed to be 🫶🏽
If God told them that a man was for them, why didn’t they go up and talk to him? Why wait for 2-3 years for him to make the first move?
This is such a much needed message Crystal! Excellent. & so true! I was wondering the same thing! Why aren't those women who have these channels married yet? Where is their testimony that this is all true? Hmmmmm. I feel completely free & different since I let go of all of this. No more dreams, no more constant thoughts, just free, with clear thinking. I am so thankful to be out of all that deception. I look forward to your future videos Crystal, I totally identify with everything you speak about, it is truth! I have experienced all this, to a tee! I am so glad you are making g new videos, I have learned so much from your story, mine is so similar & have been so glad God led me to your channel. I know that I know, God has led me here. God bless you my Sister! 😊🕊️🙌💖
Awww, thank you Allison! I love to hear testimonies like this! I will try my best to be consistent with my postings. 💕
@@girlmeetskingdom 😊🕊️💖👍
I feel like it is just reinforcing low self esteem for us to wait and stand for a man. I dont know though i have no idea. But something isnt right. Im open for the truth
That could be true. There are so many reasons. For me, I didn’t want to hear “I told you so.” I was so loud and bold thinking this man was my husband. I didn’t want to look like a dummy. So I kept standing thinking it would turn out in my favor.
I’ve been saying this! The fact these women think that God thinks so little of them.
Thanks a lot for this video. I’ve been in pain trying to move on from someone and then started getting these kingdom spouse videos bombarded to my face the past 2 weeks. At first I got a bit excited but because there were so many being recommended at once so I got very skeptical. I started to restrict those channels by setting it to ‘not recommend’ so now I see them rarely. I started to pray and question God about it coz God does speak to me through social media and mostly through youtube videos BUT when he does it’s more subtle , 1-2 videos or posts that speak directly for my situation but these kingdom spouse videos were all over my youtube and that made me question if this is a deception. 2 days back God spoke to me in prayer telling me that I haven’t come across these kingdom spouse testimonies like I have for other genuine christian marriage testimonies so then I got a bit convinced and stopped thinking about these kingdom spouse stuff or the person I was missing. Now you posted this video and it’s very timely and more confirmation from God that my intuition was right about the deception and God helped me and protected me so I didn’t waste any time on it. Thank you .
Amen sister! So glad God revealed that to you!
The other thing is ...if this man is not actively trying to court me, then what am I to do with all these KS "prophecies?" Absolutely nothing. How is it edifying me? It is just tickling our ears, making us hold onto promises that God never made.
That’s exactly what it is. The enemy wants us to keep focus on that so we can lose focus on God and what He wants for us. The devil is clever.
The kingdom spouses is just another name for “twin flame.” It’s new age deception just given a different name to ensnare Christians.
I'm glad this video popped up in my feed. I have been watching "kingdom spouse" videos for maybe almost a month now. Oddly, a video came on my feed with "kingdom spouse" in the title. I was curious and clicked on it. Not only outta curiosity, but I had started wondering about a male friend and if he could be the one. Too many weird occurrences and coincidences has happened throughout our friendship that made me question it.
Anywho, the 1st video really touched on a lot things he and I is going through individually. I said this woman is on to something. Next thing you know more and more started popping up.
I recently started questioned it, when I heard the lady from the 1st video say she is waiting on her spouse too. After hearing a couple more ladies say they're waiting for their spouse to, I started wanting to find videos where the creator is married. Not trying to take anything from these ladies. But in the short time I been watching, I've noticed this about them. I mostly watch for entertainment purposes now.
Yes, I’m glad that you were able to discern something isn’t right and you moved forward with caution. God is covering you!
Congratulations on your launch sis! Blessings!❤
I appreciate it❤
Yup. I instantly click not interested when they pop up. It’s deceptive
Facts! Same
I help married woman and God ordained relationships. In our community There are several God ordained relationships that God has restored HOWEVER I preach ALL THE TIME. Know the WILL OF GOD and not your desires, I thought three different men was my husband from God before I met my NOW husband, the deception is truly real! But it’s possible for God to choose your mate
Sister, when did I say it’s not possible for God to choose your spouse? I’m literally married to who I believe God CHOSE.These videos are for women that were in kingdom spouse deception due to the TH-cam false prophets. That’s what I’m targeting. That’s what I’m exposing. I didn’t say one time that God can’t choose your spouse. I’m saying a lot is women were under deception due to that TH-cam videos.
@@girlmeetskingdom lol girl you took my comment the wrong way lol 😂 I was agreeing with you 🤦🏽♀️😂😂 I understand what’s it’s like to get attacked and stay on guard lol but calm down I was agreeing with you
@@SheFoughtBackRestoration well my bad if I misread your comment or perceived it wrong. I constantly get comments that misinterpret what I’m saying in my videos. Thought you were saying that I didn’t believe God chooses spouses.
@@girlmeetskingdom lol no mam !!! And it’s all good
Wog, if God promised you a God-Odained Spouse, you never give up! You can't put no time on God...
I started this journey in 2020 when God showed me my God-Odained. And from there, I've seen God do some amazing things all throughout my journey! I crossed over into my promised land April 1
Im even the more in awe of His goodness. Ive been given a season of rest because ive done the work!
It's a process. it's nothing quick! I want all that God has for me, I don't want an unsaved, unhealed spouse... I don't want a spouse who doesn’t support me! Are communication sucks 😅...I want the husband thats the same image of my Father! His mind, how he speaks, how he walks.
And Last: My God-Odained and I met in 2020 God seperated us in 2022. I use to reach out to him, but he would be sort of short with his words back to me. I must admit it hurt my feelings, but I know what God said right! God told me to fall back and that He will be reaching out to me. So, I stopped reaching out...then this year my God-Odained reached out to me. Hallelujah!! ...It still a process , but HolySpirit was faithful to His word to me.
But you learn as you journey how to wait well, it doesn't bother you anymore how ppl laughs at you because you believe God....And then theres those lookers!👀
When(not if) God do it! He gone make sure the audience are the nay sayers and the watchers...So they will know "He Is The King Of King" and that! ...His word will NOT return BACK to Him VOID!!!
🥰💍✝️❤️🫶🏾🙌🏾
If the message came from God, then stand on it. But make sure the message came from God and not flesh or a feeling or a video or a person. Test it. Read the Word and see if that’s the character of God. 💜
@@girlmeetskingdom 🫶🏾
Give us an update when you get married….
@@jairusbryant3229
Yes! I stated that in one of the comments… God is looking 👀 like a liar! All because some thought they heard, tired of waiting and other excuses they have for stepping from Gods will. Even if your spouse get married, Gods word doesn’t change “that’s still your Ordained Husband/Wife” by God… This is where ppl start messing up! They don’t want the marriage no more because that person chose someone else! Trust me I understand, that’s a hard one! Or him/her doesn’t want to wait till they leave the counterfeit! I get that too! But that still don’t change God word! That just put us with a counterfeit! 😀Until we are joined with who He chose for us to be with. I’m understanding tho, if you never heard God say this is your “Ordained Spouse” then I understand why others are calling it “kingdom spouse” because they never really heard from God… Yes, they were deceived, but by satan, not God! God never said anything.
And last…this walk was never meant to be easy, the struggle, the afflictions are part of the journey… God doesn’t change His mind because you having a tantrum or you telling Him you can’t hold on no more! He will just give you strength to go farther! These are God loves stories, these stories has already been ridden and that’s why it’s called “Ordained” … but Lords Will …I will come back! Matter of fact, Holy Spirit wants me to get a channel on TH-cam and tell my testimony..,Stay tuned🤗
@@TheMessenger51thank you, everything ive been shown has been through God's word and stuff he has shown me. I'm grateful God has done that for me and domt get me wrong, sometimes the devil made me feel I was crazy. As far as, if our spouse married someone else, you're correct. It doesn't change God or what he said. I've known a few people that married counterfeits, including me and I lost everything cause of it.
This is sooo good! Amen. What is God saying! And what are we doing! Amen. Hallelujah ❤❤❤
@@cs4370 thank you 🩷
You are talking right WOG! Keep speaking the Father’s truth. So many women are deceived and must come out of agreement with that idol and false word spoken over their life.
In God’s perfect timing He will bring the 2 to become 1. Continue working on yourself ladies and stay busy about your Father’s business and in His word.
Amen sister. Trust God’s Word and His timing!
Ever since I let go and stopped watching those vids I felt like a weight had been lifted off me! These KS videos can be REALLY harmful especially to those desiring love! I had to pray to not desire love so much!
That was a lot of us sis. It feels so good to be free.
This makes me wonder why I thought the one I was liking off and on for 13 years was my God-ordained husband. What was I thinking ????? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
But I don't have to worry about this anymore...
Same sis. Thank God for opening my eyes.
One of them mainly speaks on their ex-husband! I couldn’t understand at first but I had to run 🏃🏽♀️
Run far away sis and don’t look back
God told me to stop listening to those kingdom spouse stories because he had promised me a “husband”! Even them prophesying on secular songs! I grew up listening to those same songs and now those songs are “biblical”?!?!🤔🤔🤔
Omg I know the exact pages you are referring to that used to do this! That’s when I stopped listening.
Omg that would bother me when they'd say a secular song with non-kosher lyrics ministered to them and would produce a whole prophetic word on the song's lyrics 🙄 Like I know God can use anything to minister and speak to us but certain songs are a definite no.
Yikes😮. There are plenty of testimonies from people all over the world speaking on their kingdom marriages and how God genuinely brought them together. I believe that’s the better algorithm to be on. This video is quite vague. 10 minutes in to hear that we are the “they”. This popped up on my feed so I tried to listen, but honestly the best thing to do when seeking God about anything is read your BIBLE and pray for wisdom and discernment. Before signing up with anyone. What are their credentials? Don’t just listen to their words, look at their fruit. Be careful what you open your heart to. Pray that God will open your eyes to any deception. God bless.
If this is the only video you have watched on my page, that’s on you. If you feel that I’m not qualified to speak on this, that’s you. God gave me the okay. I have a published book about my journey, many videos about my journey, and I’m married. If you look at the comments, you will understand that many of my sisters have been deceived due to these TH-cam kingdom spouse videos and they are overcoming it like I did. That’s the audience I’m talking to. If that doesn’t apply to you and you can’t relate, keep scrolling. The only people mad are the ones deceived or the ones doing the deceiving.
Where in the bible does it say to only look for teachers who say what you want to hear?
What does that benefit you to seek out people to tickle your ears?
I legit just unfollowed Crystal Nicole Lyle a few days ago. I really liked her too but I think asking for money to support her just really didn't sit well with me. I don't ever recall any of the biblical prophets asking people for money as if the role of prophet was a full time job that required financial assistance from the Israelites. I've unfollowed many and will occasionally check to see if any of them have gotten married. None have. And I followed quite a few. Everytime I see a video pop up in my timeline, I make sure to hit 'do not recommend this channel'. They had me for years, but not anymore!
Same. I click do not recommend so fast😩. I do not want anything to do with it again!
Hi there!
I’ve toiled for free with no charge for years, and I’m still not charging anybody for anything. To ask for help from people who I’ve been of assistance to for years in a time of transition is not anti biblical at all. In fact, Paul preached on the principle of assisting those who do full time ministry in 1 Corinthians 9:3-15. I don’t see where the Bible preaches to abandon our brothers and sisters when they’re in need either. Please enlighten me on the Christ-like nature in that. ❤ And I’m happy that you chose to prioritize your intimacy with the Lord first and foremost. We’re not called to sit at everybody’s table, and we’re not all going in the same direction and it takes maturity to know who you’re meant to be walking in agreement with. It takes even more maturity to not demonize others for our own shortcomings and inability to hear and *listen* to God’s still small voice regarding *our own* personal lives in the secret place … That’s where everybody should’ve been before they idolized a man, a woman, a promise, or any prophetic voice.
@crystalnicolelyle Morning sis 🌞 Let me start by saying I actually struggled with unfollowing your channel. I genuinely like you and hope you didn't see my comment as an attack. For the most part, I've been actively distancing myself from Ministries that only or primarily preach about kingdom spouses/kingdom marriages. I've been following you for some years now and know well you also touch on other subjects pertaining to biblical truths which I LOVED. But as for me, I got to a point where I was relying on words from people. Now, I'm more focused on hearing from God myself. I love that you referenced 1 Corinthians 9 and Apostle Paul. He does affirm supporting those in ministry as does Jesus. We even see support for this concept in the OT. But when I read this passage of scripture, I find it interesting that he clarifies that he and Barnabas decided to work. Not sure Barnabas' occupation, but you and I both know Paul was a tent maker. He states in verse 15 he did not ask the people he ministered to for money nor was writing with the intent of asking or hinting at a need. He preached the gospel free of charge (v. 18). That's not to say you ever demanded payment in the past. As someone who is coming out of the whole kingdom spouse movement, I will just say how it comes off to me personally but I'm sure some others. It seems almost used as a tool of manipulation. I've seen this with one too many Ministries that target singles and their desire for marriage. Like a bait and switch. People frequently take the opportunity to make a business out of it. I genuinely wasn't sure if that was you, but again just decided to walk away from it all period. Tune my own ear to God's voice. Honestly got to a point where it felt like I was getting tarot readings you know? Also, I think the people that financially supported those that ministered to them were face to face. So they could actually see quite a bit of their ministry. They traveled great distances and planted churches all over. It's just more difficult for anyone to see all that anyone is doing behind the scenes on TH-cam. I do support those in my physical community, especially those that are on the mission field or I can see are in need. I just want to be more cautious and discerning of where I'm sowing. I want to thank you for your encouraging words throughout the years and I really and truly hope that you heard/hear correctly from the Most High on everything. But especially the particular young man you have been praying and interceding for for some time. It's all in love ❤️
Sorry for the whole novel of a response 😅
@@ofoliveoilandhoney Yup! And I can totally respect that. For example, for me, I’m personally EXCELLENT at cutting people off (sometimes, even to a fault), and guess what? There are ministries out there whose focus is aiding people towards learning how to cut people off, being delivered from soul-ties, and toxic family members, bosses, jobs, etc. And there are people out there who NEED that ministry. However, for someone like me who can be an avoidant at times, that is a ministry that would be harmful to me as I would misapply their messages to affirm my shortcomings and my comfort in isolating myself from people. I need to go where there are discussions of fellowship, forgiveness, commitment, and community. I say that to say that not everybody’s function in the body is for every single individual, we all have our roles to play and a personal relationship with God that WE must cultivate in order to know where WE belong. I just don’t agree with demonizing the people that WE weren’t assigned to just because of our own lack of maturity and discernment in seasons past. I wonder, *“Where is the accountability?”* often times.
Secondly, all of the disciples were called into full time ministry (I’m pretty sure). To my understanding, considering the Pharisee-like/murderous past that Paul had and the major role that he had to play in writing a good chunk of the literal New Testament, it was crucial that his name was clear and that his accusers and “kin” from his past wouldn’t have any grounds to even POSSIBLY frame him. I believe it was also an example for some that they can/should have a trade if GOD called them to that. And then there was the example of Jesus, Himself, who received support in order to fund his travels & assignments amongst the disciples *(📌 Luke 8:1-3).* They had something called a “money box” or “money bag”. Full time ministry *is indeed* biblical and part time ministry is biblical as well. It all boils down to which calling God has assigned to *us.*
It just takes discernment to know who to give to. But scripture tells us to give to the poor and to be willing to materialistically give to those who pour into us *spiritually. (1 Corinthians 9:11).* Idk, for me, it just comes naturally to want to bless people who’ve been a blessing to my soul, but I guess everybody is different and has been indoctrinated differently. I’ll share a link with you that breaks it down: eliyah.com/is-full-time-ministry-scriptural/
I apologize for my novel as well! I’m a writer and reader so I don’t mind your lengths, all is well! And thank you for your pure desires concerning my life! It’s appreciated! ❤️
*Also … Acts 6:2-7* ❤️
The second video in this series should be uploaded by tomorrow morning.
Wow. Thanks. I was looking for information about this. Saw a ladies video. I said oh she is anointed. She shared a dream and said her kingdom spouse was there. I was like WAIT. What is a kingdom spouse? It sounds weird. And in my experience with spiritual warfare. Weird usually means demonic. So I looked up what a Kingdom spouse is. Thanks!
@@iamcedricpowell8051 you’re welcome ☺️
There is a couple women that have channels speaking on KS and now they are married 1. Prophetic Marriage Ministry and the other woman is Ellavate Ministry.
I’m not familiar with those pages. I’m referring to the kingdom spouse prophetic word pages. The ones that decreed and declare that God said… The ones that uploaded a message “from God” every day. Constantly regurgitating the same message.
I just looked them up. They look no different from the other kingdom spouse channels. Ask God for discernment. That’s all I can say.
@girlmeetskingdom yes the ones you are referring to were absolutely deceived. But the ones I referenced to are prophetic kingdom spouse video ministries and they did married. God bless you. I like your videos very informative
@girlmeetskingdom I agree with you 100% there are a lot of false prophets claiming they have heard from God and they are agents of Satan. I’m happy you are speaking on this.
Another strange observation I made is most of the women involved in this “kingdom spouse journey” are black 🤔🤔🤔
I want to speak on this so badly and I think your message is just the confirmation I need. There are non black people that got caught up in this. But this attack was made specifically for BLACK WOMEN AND I KNOW WHY. I don’t believe this platform is ready to discuss this. I tried to discuss this in the past and people attacked me. So I have to be careful with how I present it. If you want to know more about this. Book on my site and we can discuss. But it’s a reason why the target audience is black women.
Also, I clicked on your name and couldn’t help but see you are subscribed to one of the biggest deceivers in this kingdom spouse deception. I guess she changed her name to fuel your soul. Maybe that has been her name. Please unfollow her. She’s doing exactly what all the other channels are doing. She’s one of the main ones.
Actually you need to unfollow more than her. DanaRay… sis, do you not see what they are doing? Their pages are all the same. They talk about the exact same thing. They try to make their page pretty to attract ppl.
@@girlmeetskingdom sisss!! I know. I was in the deception deep for 4+ years .. I just escape officially about 2 weeks ago! My discernment always felt uneasy with these voices but the false signs were so real and the deceiver made out to be my husband played his role well. Sad. I subscribed to probably the top voices in this haha. Danaray is what got me hooked after I initially walked away from the dude. But I always had a skeptical view on this and my discernment was going off like an alarm.. this situation gaslight me into continuing being deceived. One thing that always stuck out to me was it was mostly black voices/women all up in this. I’ll book now would love to talk more on all of this! And trust I don’t watch the vids anymore! I see so clearly now and I feel so free. Up from here!
I understand where you are coming from, but the times are a lot different than they were back then, look at the state of the world we are in, the devil is reigning and God stepping in and changing them will take time, there are very few men who are actually walking with the Lord...what, are all these women that are meant to be married supposed to stay single ? No? There are sooo many good women who are supposed to be married, single, and it's because these men are being attacked.
Times might be different,but God is the same yesterday, today, and ever more. Hebrews 13:8
“Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines.
This is SCRIPTURE!
Ma’am, God does not need your help. You are doing exactly what the pages I talked about are doing. So yes, either you are a witch intentionally deceiving God’s daughters or you are under deception as well. I encourage you to turn away from it. If God wants them married, guess what, He has the authority to do it. Allow these women to walk their own journey and hear from God, not hear from you acting like you speaking for God. Have a blessed day.
@@girlmeetskingdom I appreciate your feedback...I have no desire to be a witch and would be very ashamed of myself if I was...I am just trying to live a holy life and share my experience, I was caught in a lot of deception in my life too and just got to my Promise Land ! God is leading me to the scriptures in the Bible and walking me through my journey as well... I am learning just like you and everyone else, I do believe a lot of these people are deceived but I will still believe in healthy Godly marriages sent from God and I try to not put my God in a box, I remain open minded...please don't falsely accuse me of being a witch, that's not fair, I never said that about you or anyone
Preachers would preach that the men are coming to the church. King spouse has taken it to another level. Sometimes those videos are like reading a romance book.
They definitely sound like a bomb fiction relationship novel 😩. I didn’t even think about that.
@danaray is another one
I don't know if you are familiar with Righteous Wives. There was an indication that she was either dating someone or had married someone/was about to marry someone and had posted vlogs on their trip to San Antonio, TX. Sometime after that, the videos were taken down and the channel obviously went on a hiatus. She then revived the channel back and started talking about kingdom marriage again, without indication about her with a man. Her name is Shakara Rivera.
OMG GIRL! I thought I was tripping. I sooooo remember that. And what’s crazy is… I saw her at a church I go to in Plano probably in 2022 or early 2023. I thought of her a few months ago and tried to look her page up. I didn’t know what happened. I then came across a page with that new name and I said omg, they got her too!!! She’s talking about kingdom spouse this, kingdom spouse that. I didn’t know if she had married him yet, but she was definitely on cloud 9. It had gave me hope while I was waiting. Wow. Deception.
What about Fuel Your Soul?
Look at her page, use discernment, you will get the answer. Can’t believe she’s still at it 😐.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 what happens if your partner is god sent? Can attuning to these “kingdom spouse” videos cause confusion / spiritual attacks / problems in our relationship? Bc when I followed such videos, I felt a lot more warfare than usual.
God can absolutely pair people together for a purpose. But most of these kingdom spouse videos have women thinking a man is their husband that God had nothing to do with. These videos cause so much confusion and make it difficult to hear from God. I met my husband literally right after I came out of this deception. Me knowing he was my husband had nothing to do with watching a video or any of this foolishness.
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thank you, God bless you ...💕
Just focus on seeking God Matthew 6:33. Less focus on who it is. Allow God to move according toto His Will. 💕
Hello Dear, i sheduled a meeting but when time came i thought i will receive an email telling me on which platform we are going to have the meeting. But nothing. Please is there a way to know if it is a zoom or other platform we use and is it possible to have the link when we book ? Thank you My names is Karis
Hi Karis💕,
I have your appointment. This initial call will be over phone. I have your phone number you left in the questionnaire. Any subsequent meetings will be via zoom or phone depending on your preference.
And I will update the appointment description to make that clearer. Thank you.
How do you feel about people who say the scripture “don’t be unequally yoked” isn’t talking about marriage? I’ve seen a few strong voices of God say this.. example: how Ester had to marry out for a greater purpose. Idk it sounds good but this seems to be a new word going around
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?”
II Corinthians 6:14 NKJV
If yoked means to put together, joined, intertwined, attached, that can apply to relationships outside of marriage. But when you think of the word yoked, that literally means you are connected to a person as animals were when they had a yoke around them. Sure, that applies to friendships, business partnerships, etc… but marriage would be the closest you are to being connected to a person. So how can the two walk together unless they agree? If you are a believer, but you choose to marry an unbeliever and/or a person that does not follow Christ, you have to deal with the consequences of that. Paul warned you not to do that and have provided the reason why. So if there are teachings out there saying otherwise, then that’s a problem. I don’t understand the example of “Esther had to marry out for a greater purpose.” What’s do they mean she “married out?” She literally married a king that had power and authority to free her people. It wasn’t a religion, it was a bloodline. She helped save the Jews (tribe of Judah). Those are a people, not a religion.
@@girlmeetskingdom I agree. I have heard “supposed” people of God say this recently & it just does not resonate with my spirit but I am always learning so wanted to see more about their pov. I did take it to God in prayer but seems redundant to pray about when the answer is blatant in the word. Verbatim the example was “Ester married a pagan king & it was for purpose.” As people are so desperate for marriage I feel this is a very dangerous word to put out there & will add to the KS deception. Thank you for your input I appreciate it!
@@journeytojourdanoh my goodness. Look, God can most definitely pair unexpected people together i.e Hosea married Gomer the prostitute. But it was indeed for a purpose, a plan. But again, that was God’s doing, not us. So please make sure that if you are marrying someone that would not be considered equally yoked, that you are moving completely according to God. As for Esther & Xerxes, that was a plan of God. It doesn’t look right to us, but God knew what was in store. That’s why we need God to guide us when choosing a mate. I definitely didn’t think my husband was my husband until God had to open my eyes to the purpose. Hope that helps❤.
@@girlmeetskingdom that does help! Thank you so much 😊
Please becareful. Just because one was decieved does not mean others will be decieved. Just because one made a mistake doesnt mean the other will make a mistake. If God told you and showed you without a doubt that man or women of God is your God ordained spouse you stand. Its for minsitry to saving souls the enemy will try everything in his power to destroy it.
God can show someone their spouse but if the timing is NOT correct on both ends if it is not the correct SEASON and yall get married things WILL go south and will NOT work out!!! People dont understand how important it is to TRULY WAIT on Gods timing. So many dont even wait on God they get weary and end up taking matters into their own hands. Big mistake!!!
Timing is everything!! Always take everything back to God.
Im sorry but these titles can be decieving because someone can have a God ordained spouse and waiting and if they dont have a solid foundation with God fully the enemy will enter a person and may forfeit their spouse when God never said anything and because that person listened to another, did you know that person who said it is now accountable for that other person who was decieved on listening to something that was false? Just saying truth we must be extremely careful what content we put out.
Blessings.
My title isn’t deceiving and I don’t need to be careful. I’m going to continue talking about the deception . If it doesn’t apply to you, then good. The only people mad are the ones that are deceived themselves or is doing the deceiving. If you watch my videos, I am an advocate for marriage when it is God led. The people these videos are for know who they are. When people leave these comments defending the deception, I click on their page and that tells me all I need to know. So I’m going to leave it at that. Carry on with your kingdom spouse videos.
@@girlmeetskingdom wow!! Father I put her in your hands 🙏😔 you know everything.
@@Godskingdomcouncelorcrystal I do not know who you worship. Keep your prayers. You look no different from the rest. But I will pray that you come to repentance for whatever role you have played in this deception. Have a good day.
@@girlmeetskingdom wow!
The devil will always shapeshift. This mass deception of innocent Christian comes from the same spirits behind Twin Flame of New Age. The one true God will not stand for it and we will have retribution through Jesus Christ
Yes! I was totally deceived by the twinflame journey and I also fell in the kingdom spouse deception for a few months..
This is so true. Same exact concept just smacked the Christian label on it.
@@Walking_w_Jesus so many of us did.
Ever since the pandemic when I listen to people who speak BS, it really hurts my ears like nails on a chalkboard. That kingdom spouse propaganda was a gateway to become a hospice wife. I didn’t want an old, sick man so that really removed me from watching it.
I’m so sorry sister. That’s exactly when most started watching it.
hopefully you're not a Saul, persecuting others.
Read your Bible and look at what Saul did that was persecution then come back and delete your ignorant comment. If you want to stay in deception, then get off of my page and go to the false prophet pages. I’m going to call out sin, period. Now get off of my page with this non sense. The only people mad are the witches.
🙏🏽🕊️🤍🕊️🙏🏽✝️ yes , i can relate to seeing a lot of kingdom marriages on my timeline in the past. I wonder how did it all start. Im unmarried. Manu are still posting kingdom marriage .
I think it started from the same folks that do tarot card readings, witches, and psychics, etc. They slapped the label Kingdom on it. But what Kingdom exactly???? Because there’s a kingdom of darkness.
@@girlmeetskingdomyes, I agree it makes sense. Im happy to not be flooded with it anymore. I still see one or two channels still speaking on it. I believe we need to speak more about God and Jesus and the end times. I have wondered if the kingdom marriage was a deception. Im glad your video popped up on my feed im a new subscriber.