His Hair Must Go!

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  • Uriah hates getting his hair done, and I don't blame the kid. Maintaining locs is a process that requires patience, consistency, and sometimes pain, all of which this seven year old does not by any means enjoy. When it came time this month for Riah to get his hair done, I knew it was the beginning of the end. Yvette, on the other hand, may have been projecting a fear of change and we ended up in a disagreement about whether or not allowing Riah to cut his hair was enabling him. So which one of us gets the hard pill to swallow? Watch and find out...#BELEAFINFATHERHOOD
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  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1672

    Yvette is funny for her disclaimer. She is beautiful in all ways.

    • @mswarren112
      @mswarren112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes indeed!!

    • @nancyismyname
      @nancyismyname 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      SO BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE!!! Every time I watch her, I think “man, I’d love to be best friends with her” 🥺❤️

    • @dl2310
      @dl2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed! Twinning with Niyah

    • @leenm.7677
      @leenm.7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So soooo beautiful! 🙌♥️

    • @deerheart87
      @deerheart87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She looked soooo perfect natural xxx

  • @tksimpson5735
    @tksimpson5735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    Poor Yvette! Her babies are just growing up and changing right before her eyes. It certainly doesn’t help that Uncle Baby been 35! 😩🤣🤣

    • @tdgreer
      @tdgreer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😭🤣

    • @ryaa24
      @ryaa24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @GetHers979
      @GetHers979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      🤦🏾😜😂😂😂that child is 'ol...not even old

    • @yootoob2
      @yootoob2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Uncle baby was born 35, he atleast 42 now 🤣🤣

    • @kianaterry8837
      @kianaterry8837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @NdubisiOkoye
    @NdubisiOkoye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    "That sandwich hard as hell aint it," had me dying yo.

  • @helenagrey6317
    @helenagrey6317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    There is something really cool about being let in to be a fly on the wall during a discussion like this, it isn't edited only for the 'good' parts and shows two parents having a back and forth. I like it, thank you for letting people in :)

    • @reginaelizabethbrown1963
      @reginaelizabethbrown1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Helena Grey, I so agree with you. The video was so naturally organic, and we were given the privilege to observe this exchange. It was fun and wholesome. SHALOM

    • @sw2839
      @sw2839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I third this! Its actually refreshing to see how a debate of theirs plays out. They're both incredible parents & I hope my future family is comparable to theirs.

  • @jayaitch88
    @jayaitch88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1379

    We need to give children more credit than we do. They can make decisions about how they look. And if they regret it, well, that’s the natural consequence. That’s an important lesson.

    • @DJWOLFLIVE
      @DJWOLFLIVE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Facts as parents need to understand

    • @adirayasharahla984
      @adirayasharahla984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So true!

    • @Braedenfish
      @Braedenfish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      They have so little control because they are little. We must give choices so they can become RESPONSE ABLE. (responsible)
      When our boyz were young my co workers gave me so much shizzzz about letting my boys wear curls, tall boxes, initials .... whatever.... but they sat in church n said yes ma'am n no sir....did chores n homework and hopped in bed laughing at bed time. If we had to sit with an old person they helped out. And now in their forties they are known as cool happy helpful dudes. I let them choose whenever possible as it easier to accept rules and schedules that are unbendable when u teach it that way.

    • @AvecPoesie
      @AvecPoesie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      So true! My sweet little nephew (Black and Indian), had the most glorious curls that formed a voluminous afro everyone in the family adored. We couldn't imagine his hair any other way. Then, one day he announced he wanted to cut ✂️ his hair short "like Daddy's hair." When my mother saw him without those beautiful curls she damn near had a coronary. My nephew felt good and has remained with his short hair for years now. Some family members ask if he'll ever let his curly hair grow high again. He is content with it short. Sometimes, the emotional attachment to hair is the adults' problem.

    • @Nominaze
      @Nominaze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It depends

  • @aletalecia1059
    @aletalecia1059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    Y'all remember when Theo cut his hair and Riah was like, "I'm never cutting my hair!" Fast forward to now and he's like, "Cut it. Cut it. Cut it."

    • @thecrystallockett
      @thecrystallockett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      🎶That part'ns way to hard you need to cut it🎶 🤣🤣

    • @aletalecia1059
      @aletalecia1059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thecrystallockett 😭😭🤣🤣

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      His scalp hurts way too bad you need to cut it. Lol

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thecrystallockett aye 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

    • @Dollieglitz
      @Dollieglitz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rubysbaby822 The weight of the hair must have made his scalp tender

  • @IsabelleRae00
    @IsabelleRae00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    This was a great example of healthy disagreements in a relationship. I love how raw and honest you guys are. Thank you.

    • @likeolikeh5807
      @likeolikeh5807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Idk her husband saying that her insecurities/problems are seeping out infront of the kids isn't really great. Especially when both were trying really hard to make their kid favor themselves... Kids will usually seek the validation of fathers even if it means undermining moms, this is especially common in nuclear families.
      Kids can hold on to hearing their father telling their mother that she's reactions are due to insecurities/personal problems/trauma and weaponize it against their mom in the future when they're older.
      This whole situation was akward and I felt the kid's discomfort with being stuck trying to please both mom and dad ....

    • @eveningglow9023
      @eveningglow9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@likeolikeh5807 you may have some points in this short story but omg

  • @izzye7307
    @izzye7307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Not Glen poppin’ his head out the shower to say “I told you so!”
    I am SCREAMING 😂😂😂😂

  • @TheSvmurai
    @TheSvmurai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    I felt that sandwich cut the roof of MY mouth lol

  • @NastasiaGray
    @NastasiaGray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    Lmbo Yvette tryna convince the baby he dont wanna cut his hair. “Thats not you” 🤣
    Glen doing deliverance 🤣

    • @amaram7169
      @amaram7169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was the deliverance session for me lol

    • @byancapierre273
      @byancapierre273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s the speaking in tongues for me😭😭

    • @believerintruth2342
      @believerintruth2342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup the speaking in tongues, deliverance had me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @deebobbitt5562
      @deebobbitt5562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣

  • @kvw8623
    @kvw8623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    It's so interesting seeing Glen ready to let go of Uriah's hair in comparison to Theo.
    Also very funny because Yvette initially didn't care for the locs

  • @TrustNotMyHeart
    @TrustNotMyHeart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Yvette you have no idea how much freedom you've given so many women including me about showing up in all our glory. I remember how years ago I would see you on TH-cam in your bonnet and house robe and just doing the stuff we normally do at home. It was so affirming to the beauty we carry always. So thanks for letting this video come out.

  • @tfny7079
    @tfny7079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    “Your issues are leaking” LOL

  • @envisionss
    @envisionss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    This episode is tooo funny 😂😂😂 Yvette comparing this to child birth, Glenn getting his point across in the shower, Anaya’s face looking at Riah 🤣🤣

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss!!! As a mom of 4 offspring I was NOT offended!😂🤣😅😆😅🤣🤣😂😛😛😛

    • @iamebonylaquise
      @iamebonylaquise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂 when all is lost, remind them of the labor pains.

    • @myhubbyislouisvuitton4218
      @myhubbyislouisvuitton4218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This episode was absolutely amazing🙏🏾

  • @altovise14
    @altovise14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    The whole family is gorgeous, the skin is poppin', the hair is full, kinky,and thick, and the teeth are white and beautiful. Chocolate on Chocolate love. #goodgenes Jealous !😊

  • @taraestelleadelizzi9975
    @taraestelleadelizzi9975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This is more entertaining than watching anything on a streaming service. I am on the edge with the plot conflict and the characters. You guys are awesome

    • @Silvergirl2323
      @Silvergirl2323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love watching you guys! Great couple and great parenting. Sending lots of love from Brazil!

  • @kmills3539
    @kmills3539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    First of all, I just wanna say, Yvette you are very beautiful! Whether you're dressed or just lounging at home. Beleaf, it was very nice of you to honor her wishes and show pictures that she asked you too. Secondly, you guys are awesome. I love the dialogue between Yvette and Beleaf, so cute. Black love at its finest 🖤

    • @thisiszaudi
      @thisiszaudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I couldn't agree more 😇🥰 she's so beautiful.

    • @jessiemac4970
      @jessiemac4970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes😌

    • @tessawilliams261
      @tessawilliams261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s the same thing I am saying she look good.

    • @GETFITJADA
      @GETFITJADA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes she is naturally gorgeous.

    • @bailaescanito
      @bailaescanito 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She doesn't even have to try, some people are blessed with natural beauty.

  • @denicewms
    @denicewms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    "You have the right to be offended Sis...Queen." "Why do you have your phone in the shower?" Ya'll crack me up.

  • @michellemullins6741
    @michellemullins6741 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    8:17 when Yvette breaks into laughter while stating her case... love her!

  • @HandpickedOnPurpose
    @HandpickedOnPurpose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I like how you two freely express your 'debative' views w/out anyone's fuse coming off. And when you were explaining the 'we-got-issues' and Yvette came over to ask for her monologue, I said, yeah, they're friends, true friends.

    • @mrksbrnd91
      @mrksbrnd91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Straight goals. I’m trying to get on this level of communication.

  • @nindyrafitricia5177
    @nindyrafitricia5177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    Riah definitely deserves more spotlight! Kid is effortlessly funny

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You can say that again. He is awesome.

    • @walkwithglo2192
      @walkwithglo2192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Although I love them all, he’s my favourite of the bunch 😍🥰

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Baby Riah and baby Theo were an epic duo. The perfect pair of cuteness and comedy.

  • @nyanya-ray7235
    @nyanya-ray7235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I love Riah but that "3 minutes into the parting process" had me rolling😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 poor chocolate baby!

  • @joysgirl
    @joysgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love Yvette and, yes, you need to teach your children how to overcome challenges, but you also need to acknowledge when something doesn't work for you anymore. It's difficult, but one needs to learn how to let go and that always trying to please others can hold one back.

  • @noxible
    @noxible 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "You're wrong and you know it"
    "Yvette has issues"
    "When do I get my monologue?"🤣🤣🤣

  • @KayJay79
    @KayJay79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It was the "you have a right to be offended Sis --- Queen" for me!!! 😂😂😂

  • @iusedtolovecheesecake2205
    @iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I know im being greedy, but can we get longer videos. I've been binge watching and I just adore your family! Thanks for letting us into your lives.

    • @BeleafInFatherhood
      @BeleafInFatherhood  2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      TH-cam video average retention is about 5 minutes, so we try to make our videos around 10 but people don’t watch that long so we put our Longer videos are on patreon.com/bif

    • @xixi5381
      @xixi5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BeleafInFatherhood so best u can do is 14Mins!???

  • @ndanacarter3270
    @ndanacarter3270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yvette is protective and that is a huge part of her role and both parents ensure that
    their children's internal sense of safety remains intact.

  • @thetruepatriot7733
    @thetruepatriot7733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm in love with this family! I've never had a family, I didn't have parents or siblings... but if I did, this is the family I would of wanted!

  • @ajarodriguez3618
    @ajarodriguez3618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Firstly: Yvette is BEYOND beautiful (plus how we look at home doesn’t count in real life)
    Secondly: Anaya’s face at the end of the video when she was looking at Riah getting his hair cut took me out

    • @thesinfulyogini2073
      @thesinfulyogini2073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I like that! “How we look at home doesn’t count in real life” hahaha

    • @shariffbrown04
      @shariffbrown04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!! Anaya is my favorite baby...of course she is funny...she is a whole mood..lol

  • @ayewood7969
    @ayewood7969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    When Theo said "Who cares what mom thinks " I bawled out. Look bacchanal! 😜

    • @natashaj4078
      @natashaj4078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      🇹🇹?... Because that's all I heard when you said look bacchanal!!

    • @alvaronicholas3525
      @alvaronicholas3525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🇹🇹🇹🇹

    • @kristawilliams9043
      @kristawilliams9043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bacchanal indeed!

    • @sharjb2271
      @sharjb2271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trini to d bone 🇹🇹 …boom!

    • @JA-jg9ib
      @JA-jg9ib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁 Same here! Look bacchanal! 🇹🇹

  • @SheSoSleepy
    @SheSoSleepy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Paving the way for what family channels should be like- I wish more family channels were like this. A loving husband and wife who show us an appropriate amount of their lives and their children’s lives. All while teaching us something new in every video about parenting and a healthy family. I can’t speak for other people but for me personally it’s nice to see a caring family environment that I’ve never had in my own life.

  • @alexusreid1400
    @alexusreid1400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I remember what my mom told me when I was scared to cut my hair shorter than I’ve ever had it…….. she said “regardless of what you do to your hair you are still a beautiful girl”. I’ll never forget that. 💜

  • @jujununya9182
    @jujununya9182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    1) Yvette is naturally BEAUTIFUL 🖤👑
    2) Let Riah make his own decisions
    3) Save the locs. It can get attached back if he changes his mind and want them again.
    4) I love this family.
    5) Can't wait to see Riahs haircut I'm sure it brings out his beautiful features!

    • @rosalindsnyder3554
      @rosalindsnyder3554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How can you attach locs back? Like just tie it on the end and it grows together? Genuinely curious if you don’t mind thanks🙏

    • @jujununya9182
      @jujununya9182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rosalindsnyder3554 They use a special tool to put the loc back together with the natural hair. This link I posted is of my favorite loctician and her method for reattaching locs. th-cam.com/video/ouJ0UDY5w2E/w-d-xo.html

    • @yootoob2
      @yootoob2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everything you said 💯
      There are so many people that reattach locs!

    • @2EKgn16
      @2EKgn16 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never cut off mine. I combed them out one by one using aloe vera and a tail comb. I'm thinking of getting my second set one of these days.

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    It’s called starting over✨ his hair will grow back.

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m a girl and I cut my hair for the 1st time back in 2017 and now 2 inches is too long, can’t manage it🤣🤣🤣
      I cut my yesterday, I’m practically bald 🤣🤣🤣a shampoo bottle will last me 1 year

  • @stephaniesanderson7970
    @stephaniesanderson7970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Riah is a minimalist! That's awesome!

  • @loisthompson6930
    @loisthompson6930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Riah wants his hair cut but mom wants to convince him he doesn't. She's is teaching him not to trust his own feelings or his own voice. Dad and Theo are the best hypemen!!

    • @sarahr2925
      @sarahr2925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree with you. When I first heard them say something about enabling him, I was like, "yes! Enable him to make his own choices!! Yes!" And then realized they meant the opposite. It's important he go through with what he asked for in order to learn to accept his decisions, whether they end up good or not. It's how he learns discernment and to trust his own instincts.

    • @KahwahShutseh
      @KahwahShutseh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hmm.. I actually perceived it differently.
      I think in this instance neither communicated well and didn't express their view to each other efficiently.
      I think she saw that he was only wanting to be like his brother and that he really did not want his hair cut.
      The dad saw it this way as well but his approach was "it will grow back" he saw that there was the possibility that his child would not like the way he looked with cut hair but having to live with the consequences was a lesson as well.
      They should have continued talking privately so either side would not risk him echoing their desires rather than his own. He did in fact begin to echo his dad, until faced with the finality of what his own decision meant.

  • @shemab2639
    @shemab2639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Glenn was for Theo cutting his hair to an extent. He really really didn't want him to, and tried to talk him through (out of) it, but he came to accept that Theo was at that stage where he was allowed to decide what happened to his hair. He made peace with it then, so it's a lot easier for him to support Riah with ease.

    • @zorba4166
      @zorba4166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true

    • @Phiwokuhleqha
      @Phiwokuhleqha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeeeeesssss, I was watching him not mentioning that about Theo’s hair and I was like but Glenn didn’t 💯 want to cut his hair to a point.

    • @christchild1711
      @christchild1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats What I was saying to myself too, Glenn was not for Theos cut, but only the Day 1's know that lol

  • @bridgetmoore4019
    @bridgetmoore4019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I'm with Dad on this one. His hair will grow back and it will be a lesson for him if he doesn't like him. If he wants he can grow it back. I enjoy watching this family.

  • @BarenakedplantsbyKerri
    @BarenakedplantsbyKerri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You guys are my favorite family to watch. It really shows the closeness and the nurturing you give your babies, and you show a positive masculine father/husband role 247. Keep it going 👏🏼

  • @mamasbotanicalsfarm7538
    @mamasbotanicalsfarm7538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's funny how before you gave the disclosure on behalf of Yvette I was looking at her and thinking how naturally beautiful she is. Love your show. As a mother of 6 majority who are grown now. I can relate to so much of your experiences as a young growing family. At the end of the day it's ALL Love 💚

  • @Ruthsdreamgarden
    @Ruthsdreamgarden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Mama was trying her best to keep that hair. All will be ok, he will grow from this experience. Good Change means growth.

  • @Jettiedoes
    @Jettiedoes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Ok Riah if u can have your hair any kind of way you’d want it
    Riah: cut 😁
    Mom: 😐

    • @BeleafInFatherhood
      @BeleafInFatherhood  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      😂

    • @Ophilly1
      @Ophilly1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I fell out of my chair at that moment.. 😂😂😆

    • @JazzellDope
      @JazzellDope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmfao “that is not you . That’s not who you are “ lol so cute I can’t

  • @TheRealFollower
    @TheRealFollower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is more about the mother being afraid of her baby boy growing up. If he cuts his hair it's a sign of him changing. She wants him to be that baby boy for as long as possible.

  • @AnnEvelyn7
    @AnnEvelyn7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I understand both sides. But, in the end, you have to teach your children not to be overly anxious about making a decision AND to learn to deal with the decision. He is young and his hair will grow back - if he wants it.

  • @blackgirlburntout
    @blackgirlburntout 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I agree riah needs a curly fro too! Maybe with the sides shaved! I agree he's needs a cool funky look. Theo is more serious and that's why the traditional cut works so well for him! Also remember even if he regrets cutting his hair, it's great way to teach regret because it grows back. 🥰 Love to the family!

  • @ToniChauntel
    @ToniChauntel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I lovvveeee Riah’s hair!!! It matches his personality too! Ugh. Don’t fade him all the way down 😭😭😭 leave him some curls!

    • @local.princessa
      @local.princessa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes

    • @countrymama555
      @countrymama555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mama knows cut my sons hair bc it was a pain and he said too. He cried for a month. 10 years later. Hair not going no where, he says🙂

    • @yootoob2
      @yootoob2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeeeesss! My friend and her husband skin their boys' heads. Lol. I'm always like let them wear their curls 😂

    • @georgeb.wolffsohn30
      @georgeb.wolffsohn30 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      At Uriah's age I had no opinion about how to do my hair. When my parents wanted it cut, it was cut.

  • @synesthesia.aesthetic
    @synesthesia.aesthetic ปีที่แล้ว

    Growing and maintaining your baby's hair is a labor of love, its hard to let go!

  • @barbarag.4490
    @barbarag.4490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I never laughed so hard on a Tuesday morning. 🤣🤣🤣 Yvette saying “why do you have your phone out in the shower”, had me cryin’. Lol

  • @user-ze2mw6nh4y
    @user-ze2mw6nh4y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Yes I believe when boys want to sever ties with their hair it should be their decision. Let them live with the outcome of it and the learning experience from it. It grows back

    • @alovehaircare
      @alovehaircare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I think you meant when boys, girls, and any child for that matter want to sever ties with their hair it should be their decision...and all the fantastic other things you shared after that💕💕 ☮️&🤎 #protectblackgirls

    • @toujouramour2008
      @toujouramour2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@alovehaircare Thank you for this! My daughter is 20 and has been natural since she was 10. She is very tender headed and has always dreaded wash day and getting her hair combed out and re-twisted. At 19, she decided she wanted to cut all her hair off because of the management process. As much as I wanted to talk her out of it, I had to stop myself and see things from her perspective. We talked through it and she arrived at the decision to get all of the back shaved, which made managing the rest of it much more doable for her!

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! My 7 yr old son has more hair than his twin sister. He doesn't want his long naturally curly hair cut and that's fine with us. The day he changes his mind..I'll cry but I'll oblige him. He is more than his hair.💙

    • @litebright1720
      @litebright1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed! Kids have their own sense of self for themselves. Hair always grows back.

  • @FG-ej1xd
    @FG-ej1xd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Both of yall was trying to teach him the same lesson in different ways. Making decisions impulsively bring permanent change to avoid temporary inconvenience.
    Yvette didn't want him to cut his hair because she knows he won't like his decision.
    Glen wants him to make his own decisions because good or bad he needs to accept the consequences of those decisions.

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This!!

    • @valarmorghulis4801
      @valarmorghulis4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯🎯

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Riah did not make an impulsive decision. He's already been asking for a cut for more than a week! Honestly the dreads were unkempt and don't reflect him so it's good that he's decided to let them go.

    • @FG-ej1xd
      @FG-ej1xd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Gwaycee
      You're more than welcome to your opinion. To me a week is not a ton of time and I'd say it's impulsive.
      You can tell by his uncertainty. He was more concerned about the process of getting his hair done, which he doesn't like, than his actual hair style. Yvette was saying he likes his hair he just hates the process.
      But again regardless he'll have to deal with the consequences whether he loves it or not. I'm hoping he loves it. 🙂

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@FG-ej1xd I feel like a week is a looong time to a child. He looked certain that he wanted it cut until his mother tried to force him not to. But thankfully his wishes were finally respected. Many comments are talking about 'consequences' as if he's about to get a disease or sth. There are no consequences for Riah having his unkempt hair shaved off. He's a fine young man who was just going along with his parents' wishes for his hair but now has come of age to be able to express his own opinions about himself. Good thing his father heard him out. Anyway, it's done shaved off now, thank goodness.

  • @bgdck1
    @bgdck1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Like most mothers, she projects her issues onto her son. The boy states clearly several times he wants to cut his hair. She keeps telling him what he doesn't want. She says it's not who he is. She tries to force her perception of him to become his identity.

    • @loppop185
      @loppop185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed! My father does that to my baby brother (who is now 14). He has little to no say so, in how HE looks! I'm not a huge fan of this behavior, it's very controlling. (Not saying the mother is! But still.. didn't really favor this video compared to their other videos 🤷🏾‍♀️) btw: Also, not saying she's isn't a good mother or anything/ because ppl like to twist words alot...

  • @47alice91
    @47alice91 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beauty never has to be explained, it comes from the person in different ways, but it is easily recognized by
    others. You are a beautiful woman, wife, and mother.

  • @cartoonhigh9990
    @cartoonhigh9990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    No offense to Yvette, but we already went through this argument with Theo😭If Riah wants to cut his hair then it’s gonna happen.

    • @MA-zg2pz
      @MA-zg2pz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      👏

    • @NoNo-jm7gx
      @NoNo-jm7gx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! As Glen said - he is more than his hair. It’s not a permanent change. It will grow back.

    • @mamaahu
      @mamaahu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But does he? Does it matter?

    • @shariffbrown04
      @shariffbrown04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think Yvette is right....she is trying not to support the enabling...the baby really wants his hair..not the work. In life we have to do the work to get the end results! Lol.. I know I am outnumbered....lol

    • @Chin715
      @Chin715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shariffbrown04 Agree!

  • @KC-YouTubeName
    @KC-YouTubeName 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Beleaf tryna “cast out” Yvette’s “issues”!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @SamAsm367
    @SamAsm367 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank heaven for aunties who cornrow during this pandemic. Yvette is able to keep her daughter's hair well-groomed & cute.

  • @stephanie6858
    @stephanie6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yvette, your beauty is not your glamour, thats just a plus, you are a true natural beauty!

  • @katieeckler7543
    @katieeckler7543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    “When do I get my monologue” haha Yvette is so funny

  • @dorseywatkins2455
    @dorseywatkins2455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    watching you cut your sons hair is one of the reasons i'm becoming a barber

  • @christchild1711
    @christchild1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It seems You Guys are finding your Happy Place again, I really enjoyed all the smiles and laughs in this video. I was smiling along the whole time. And that stylist is good, she even considers her clients personality in the style

  • @Toya2529
    @Toya2529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Beleaf had his “WHAT WAS THE REASON” moment when he filmed in the shower!!! 😹😹😹

  • @CoolWorldKy
    @CoolWorldKy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s when Uriah said “What is this…happening?” that had me screaming 😂😂😂

  • @SouthFloridaThrifter
    @SouthFloridaThrifter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I was hanging on every word of this one. Watching a family go there, like be raw and real with each other and be CIVIL& LAUGH even!! So engaging. So beautiful🖤

  • @rosie9974
    @rosie9974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you both. Yvette Glenn reminds me of a Velvet Teddy Bear. Why, he is a protector, he loves you by showing action. He is definitely a provider for his family. That is a gift from God. Vette you are a blessing to your husband and kids, also! You have that sweet little quiet voice that I know that your husband melts over. I can tell he loves his boo unconditionally by the way he gives you that look. I love you guy's podcast. I am addicted. I try to throw some of your wisdom on my husband, but he doesn't get it, but I am not giving up! If you guy's are ever in Tennessee give us a holla. We would love to meet you guy's. May God keep all of you in the palm of his hands! Big hugs, my friends❤
    K C. Ford

  • @jillwklausen
    @jillwklausen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hair was the one thing I got to have agency over when I was a kid. When I was 12 , and got tired of all the effort it took to keep it clean and neat when it was long, my mother let me have every bit of it chopped off to make my life easier. Kids have so much going on that easing their burden just a little bit isn't a bad thing. And if you let him cut his hair off, then he gets to learn the lesson of the consequences of making drastic decisions like that.

  • @bagchaser4009
    @bagchaser4009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I wish I had a dad like you growing up 💯. Blessings and prosperity ☮️

  • @DB73834
    @DB73834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Mom is definitely attached to his hair. I appreciate her communication though. Super awesome.

  • @sharon4951
    @sharon4951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was soooo funny. Especially YOU Sir, popping out of the shower to record. You are soooooo committed to your vids. lol

  • @GETFITJADA
    @GETFITJADA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Riah is a real handsome kid, his skin is WOW🥰

  • @thecrystallockett
    @thecrystallockett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That sandwich was disRESPECTful 😩 😭 🤣🤣🤣

    • @yolandasmalls9438
      @yolandasmalls9438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought it was voicing it's own opinion on the matter.🤣😂😂😂😂

    • @Kashleighsays
      @Kashleighsays 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yolandasmalls9438 LOOL💀😩🤣

  • @Qtzzzip
    @Qtzzzip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You guys are hilarious 🤣 Yvette! I totally agree with you about, not sacrificing your desires in effort to avoid pain. It's cool that you took that into consideration because that's a tough habit to correct as an adult.

  • @emberyoung218
    @emberyoung218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yvette is beautiful no matter how she looks, she's got something special, beautiful and unique that shines from the inside out...tell her we can't help but see it...

  • @LedePat
    @LedePat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I couldve brought that baby locs back to life, even baby girl hair. I understand this texture and love to do it. Ppl thinks its complicating but its really a technique and moisture steaming.

  • @Dee2024_5
    @Dee2024_5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That 3 min "Parting Process" TOOK ME OUT !!!! Parents really know their children.

  • @niakdavis
    @niakdavis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The animated personalities in the family are hilarious!! LOL

  • @buutifuleyes
    @buutifuleyes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes for the sponsorships that I actually rock with and I support those who support them!!!!

  • @taylorcarter3095
    @taylorcarter3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love that you both give him the option to choose his hairstyle. Y’all are so authentic and I love it so much❤

  • @rickireign
    @rickireign 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I don’t see Uriah as lazy. I think he just loves to focus on pleasure. 🤗

  • @brooklynqueen4767
    @brooklynqueen4767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Growing up I neverrr understood why boys in my school had braids,dreads liked having them, like why would you want to endure this pain that I have to go through weekly when you don’t necessarily have to (according to society). Now I realize it was they mamas🤣

  • @geesmomma9183
    @geesmomma9183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is so funny... we need to let our kids choose. & let them learn from regrets while they're young. 🤣😂🤣🥰 so relatable

  • @Jt2REAL1
    @Jt2REAL1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Uriahs hair 😭 I do think Uriah ultimately seeks your approval
    just like Theo “who cares what mom thinks” says it all

  • @safehavensquad9944
    @safehavensquad9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yvette is so beautiful. Her smile literally makes me smile 😄

  • @dejavu6345
    @dejavu6345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Now we see where little mama get her debate skills from…. Mom wasn’t having it. And no disclaimer needed, as a hands on mom, wife, entrepreneur your beauty runs deep full glam or lounging around the house. You are beautiful queen!

    • @deez596
      @deez596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Accurate. Her beauty runs deep.

  • @marj8665
    @marj8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yvette you are always killing it girl. You look beautiful in your natural state

  • @reginaelizabethbrown1963
    @reginaelizabethbrown1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed watching this healthy family exchange over Uriah getting his hair done. (All of your children are so cute!) Dad was so funny when he laid his hand on mom's head to help release her issues regarding Uriah's hair. LOL
    It is true, most moms want their precious children to stay a baby for as long as possible because that's when they are the most adorable!
    Such a lovely family! And what an enjoyable family video. Thank you, Dad and Mom, for sharing this video with us. SHALOM

  • @cherchezlafemme8111
    @cherchezlafemme8111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Yvette, you're still as radiant as ever. I just took my braids down, literally rockin the same bun💕

  • @joygirl09
    @joygirl09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think he would look so handsome with a curly top.! I don’t think everyone has to get an even Steven but I definitely don’t think he should be subjected to that much pain just for a hairstyle. Plus it grows back🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @crisfoster2553
    @crisfoster2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of your black family we're real thanks for sharing

  • @pharaoh6977
    @pharaoh6977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yvette is spitting straight facts! I absolutely have to agree with here, but its your kids and they way yall have conversations about your kids is so healthy

  • @kimberleopold
    @kimberleopold 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    “He would rather throw out his school books than do his work.”
    👀”when is this happening?!”

  • @noirmative9293
    @noirmative9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    You can also cut the matting instead of ripping them apart. As a former loc head and current tender head, DAT ISH Hurts!

    • @cherylmayes4401
      @cherylmayes4401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Man! As a Current loc head, you really have to stay on top of the new growth! On the other hand, too much twisting isn’t good. I suggest using a wide tooth, long handle comb on the new growth between washes & retwists. This will allow the scalp to breath as well. It just takes more care to stay loced & look manicured. If that is the look you are after. Some dred heads are freeform and Never twist! Wash & go! It is, as with having locs, a personal choice. I do think that Riah is not mature enough to both make the decision to cut & make the decision to loc. Not sure how it all started. Even with Theo. Locing is a spiritual, cultural, identity driven decision. People who loc as a trend rarely stay loced. IJS

    • @lilme2me
      @lilme2me 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cherylmayes4401 Agree on all counts.

    • @theodoral7207
      @theodoral7207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was hoping someone would post this because locs are high maintenance to an extent esp for a child under 13

  • @This_handle_is_tak3n
    @This_handle_is_tak3n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is equally if not more beautiful in this video than those photos. A natural beauty:)

  • @bigbevakaheavybevy7913
    @bigbevakaheavybevy7913 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂I'm glad you cut his hair😂😂😂He is very tender headed😂😂 I LOVE you and your beautiful family🙏🏾❤

  • @thisiszaudi
    @thisiszaudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love y'all 😂 I love how you handled the disagreement...it was healthy and you gave Riah the opportunity to choose...You guys seem like wonderful parents. It makes me emotional to watch this process. Thanks for sharing with us!

  • @Dvinecreations7
    @Dvinecreations7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When Glen started talking in tongues 😅😅😅😅

  • @valerierichardson458
    @valerierichardson458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mom is leading her son make a decision that she wants. As a mom, if you don't want to keep it groomed then it's time to cut. The sad part is the parents are not on the same page and making it hard to decide.

  • @fishingdocp6476
    @fishingdocp6476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is SOOOO beautiful as she is!!! SUCH A GORGEOUS LADY!! I’m glad she feels extra special gorgeous when she wants to shine!💖🤟💖⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552
    @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Man Yvette is gorgeous no matter what... She looks like we all do in the crib and shes still cute.. I ain't mad at the disclaimer tho 😂😂😂 I would've did the same thing

  • @prestonmatthews725
    @prestonmatthews725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Yvette’s disclaimer at the start. Lol. Yow. I love this family. Stay safe.

  • @JUST_MORELLA
    @JUST_MORELLA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yvette is gorgeous, make up or not! Now, I lost it at the shower part. I was as shocked as Yvette was. 😂 Genuine conversation😅😳, then that phone popped out. Lol

  • @tajiaswayne4051
    @tajiaswayne4051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I love how Theo says “ who cares what mom thinks just do it “ lmaooo yessss yolo do it while you can lol