3 UPDATES: I Learned About Family's Secret & Told DIL I Won't Cover For Her So She Called My Wife
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- 3 UPDATES: I Learned About Family's Secret & Told DIL I Won't Cover For Her So She Called My Wife & Got Me Kicked Out But 7 Years Later my Grandson Saw Me And It's Time To Pay For Her Sins!!
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I'm 65M and have been living apart from my family for a long time because of what my DIL did to me. It was a long time ago so I don't remember all the details but I think it was an anniversary or something of my DIL's parents and they invited us because we happened to be visiting my son at that time. Naturally my wife and I tried to decline but they insisted by saying how it's a big celebration and a lot of their mutual friends are also coming so my wife and I ended up going there. The party was in a private hotel or a club I don't remember exactly but I was going around looking for a quiet room to get away from the crowd. I'm an introverted person and though years of practice has taught me how to socialize I still need breaks. When I saw a room at the far corner of a hallway I went in hoping to find it empty but instead I found my DIL in a compromised situation.
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This is tragic. OP's wife died thinking he was a liar and cheater thanks to this woman. He should've pressed charges.
"No one will believe your truth if someone else has already convinced them of their lies"
This is why you must never give someone else the chance to write the narrative when caught
I would go no contact with the rest of the family who believe all the lies by daughter-in-law
now OP Ex wife realize that she messed it up and OP Son deserve it to get cheated on by ex Daughter in law and been spineless
@@hugoumero9723 OP's ex wife had already passed away, yeah...she's in full regret in her grave.
@@anggamaulana3498 and OP son was very doormat and spineless as well and deserve to lose everything
"This person is a cheater, let me trust them to be decent despite anyone with a brain knowing they aren't"
Seriously, these dummies need to trumpet the truth to everyone immediately. No pity, no mercy.
well OP Son was too doormat and spineless and deserve it to get cheated on
And this is why it's important to control the narrative from the beginning men. You never give a cheater a chance to come clean once caught because they'll going into survival mode and throw whoever they need to under the bus
Story 1: As a man, you are guilty until you prove yourself innocent, and even then maybe not. Always have a recording going at all times, this will be evidence. Because in the modern world in a he said she said scenario the testimony of a man is considered to have as much value as fecal matter.
That's the consequence of the old times where the man had double the value than a woman.
Even though the world can exist with less men if enough women can bear children.
Story 1 - Doormat to the third power. You give DIL the opportunity to ruin your life and then are shocked no one believes you and don't fight to clear your name?? You might want to follow grandson's(?) example and DNA your own son. Got a feeling this guy has gone through life with blinders on for so long that he missed all sorts of red flags with this family. The only saving grace is that the ex wife is no longer with them.
TRUE this story made my blood boil
As mean as it sounds I wish she was alive to get slapped with the reality that DIL was a sociopathic manipulative lying BEE with and ITCH and she threw away the only who ever truly loved her w/o giving him a chance to prove he was innocent.
Assuming her to be up in age I wouldn’t be surprised between when she threw him out her health spiraled and she died with a broken heart all because of that tramp.
Ex-wife must have died kind of young. He was only in his early 60's.
1st story, OP could have hired a PI to follow DIL and help with proving the photos as fakes. Vindication is freeing.
He handled this horribly
Story 2. I can understand when people decide to "act their wage", but from OP's description she is being paid very well.
Big red flag to BF since she clearly has a cheater mentality.
She better not treat him badly; if they break up, he'd be justified if he exposed her "work ethic" to her employer.
The story 1 update was STILL pretty damned satisfying 😌
I just wish OPs ex wife was alive to see it
Still be ongoing had the grandson (not by blood) finally got that test done.
Story 1: OP isn't his Father, cuz the son murdered his father. The man he wants back is someone else, whose life has grown and evolved passed the hurt and betrayal of his so called "family". Same with him too; he isn't OP's son, as that was a sweet boy who loved his father unconditionally. The man before him was some bastard, undeserving of his time or money. Maybe the affair child can have him as a foster grandpa, but there's nothing left for the idiot who was conned by a witch.
Never give a cheater time to weasel out of a lie. They always will. OP should have announced what he'd seen to his wife and son the moment he saw them.
Odd time for her to be cheating with him, don't you think? At a family party?
S1. How sad. People say they love you, then actually believe the worst of lies and turn on you. OP is better off without those ppl. Glad he has grandson.
This is why you tell the truth as fast as possible
#2. Either. Different people have Different work ethic is not jealousy.
Story 2 just dump the jealous boyfriend. He should be happy for you , it’s not your fault he is killing himself for a job that doesn’t care about him.
I wish the grandfather would have hired a pi to follow the dil around
Story 1: I get OP. How you believe her and not talk to him.
wait so the OP's wife died thinking her Husband had been a cheater all along? dam I feel bad for her but she should of gotten more proof, if someone just texts me proof about the Significant other cheating I am going to look for more proof
Made me wonder if she cheated in the past.
You snooze you loose!!! Lies can make it around the world before the truth gets it's pants on.
What do you mean you "loose"? Unless, of course, you meant "lose". Loose is the opposite of tight.
He didn't expose her immediately allowing her to create her backstory to cover herself.
Story 1: It broke my heart.
Story 2. She taught herself to work smarter, not harder.
S1. OP gave the DIL the armory to annihilate himself. He should have blown the whistle right there and there. Sometimes being nice is stupid.
S1: People who don't stand up for themselves, don't deserve any kind of justice. Justice will not be served to you on a Silver Platter, you have to fight for it when required.
Here is some advice, don't wait a few days or weeks to tell the truth. Gather evidence as fast as possible. Take the lesson from OP. The cheater can turn things around on you and destroy you, so don't wait.
OP's only mistake was not getting proof of his daughter-in-law's affair. I do believe that you should give cheaters a chance to come clean, if nothing else to let them dig their grave deepper, but you absolutely HAVE to get proof, otherwise the cheater WILL try to spin it on you.
*Edit:* Opinion 1 was right on the money for another reason as to why you must get proof. Even if people believe the liar over you, you can always sue them for defamation, but for that you need proof.
Story 2. - I do as little as possible for as much as possible for as long as possible. Words to live by.
Just Jealous, NTA. Sounds like he is UPSET with his Chosen Career path, and WISHES he had the same path as you, but because of the career HE CHOSE he has to Grind himself to get better in life instead of having life BEG for him.... Yes he is Jealous, but ABUSING YOU because he feels Jealous tells me HE should move out. Why you would allow a man to abuse you in your own home astounds me.
Just Deserts, NTA. You told your Grand son the TRUTH about who his BIO FATHER is... Now, unless he lets it, this should not change the man he is NORE change how he sees his DAD. His dad had been his dad all his life and why should that matter now, But DAD needs to know MOM got KNOCKED UP by her AP and did this to him. YES grandson loves his Dad, but by no means does that EXCUSE the heinous actions of his mother.
The last story. I think we can figure out why mom and dad are divorced.
Story 1: OP gave DIL a chance to come clean and work things out with her husband but instead lies. The ex should have given him a chance to prove he was innocent instead of giving him a chance instead of throwing him out.
There have been plenty of cases where spouses (men and women) have been caught cheating either by their partners or family members and have turned it around on them or the affected parties and made them suffer until they were proven innocent after time has passed.
OP should have taken the BEE with and ITCH to court for the years of suffering and breaking OPs ex’s heart which was probably how she died after kicking him out and her health deteriorated
This "throwing him out" is foreign to me. Why did he give her this power?
@@MrBeevee5 they lived in the house together and I believe it was owned by her or maybe co-owned by them together but she was so made she was attacking him and he just left the house and probably changed the locks. If u heard ur significant other cheated on you would u want them to stay to keep living with u or would u get mad and order them to leave? By “Threw him out” I meant he left after she attacked him and didn’t want to stay and keep getting attacked cause she wouldn’t listen to anything he had to say.
@@satmtca seeqwq
S2: Some people like to work like Donkeys, Mules, Jackasses, and Asses. They also consider that to be the right work etiquette. But some like to work like horses and consider that to be their work etiquette. Sorry to say that you can't ask a donkey, ass, or a mule to work like a horse. OP should let go of this worthless unwanted burden which has no ambitions, goals, aspirations, or purpose in life.
Mom's Behavior, NTA. Sounds like mom FORCES her opinion on others. Likely this is ALSO the reason Dad Divorced her... because she BELIEVES with her Hollier then Thou attitude that HER OPNION matters more then others and should be treated like the DIRECT WORD OF GOD... Dad got out and considering you LOVE your family, you may want to STOP inviting her as well, if all you will get is Abuse.
You made the same mistake Ned Stark made with the Queen.
Lazy worker: NTA you are actually downplaying your abilities. Your company wouldn’t pay you so grand for third quality work. You’re just able to complete your work quickly.
Your speed belongs to you and no one else. Your bf is so jealous that he’s either incapable of doing the same amount of work or just not as qualified. He should be proud of you . Time to drop him. He will forever create fights over his jealousy as well as expect you to do more housework to “compensate”
You can definitely be happier if you choose your partner with as much thoughtfulness as you choose your employer
Story 2: YTA, what you are describing is called wage theft, and is a very easy way to get fired.
well that kind of ignorance, does it help you ?
It's called Working Smarter, Not Harder.
She does her job to her boss's satisfaction. Just because it doesn't take every moment of the day, doesn't mean crap. Most office jobs have a lot of free time unless you are also doing others people's work too.
If she gets everything her job requires in a day, done how is it theft?
You can't steal your own wages. Wage theft is when your employer shorts you your pay, as they are stealing something rightfully yours.