Why did you pay for the funeral? This is AMERICA!! Stand up for your rights and for what's right. Stop letting the "elders" decide on how to fix problems. Have you heard of qualifying judges, the court and the authority? That's who you go to when there's a problem; not the elders! Your new wife have every rights to be mad.
@@pangaroo2107 when we are still traditional hmong. We have to follow traditions. He should have done his homework n officially divorce her. We can't escape being hmong if we still practice the religion
Vim peb tej laus tsis teev ntaub, Tsis teev ntawv tseg rau peb kawm kom paub. Peb hmoob ces test tag mam kawm xwb, tiag tiag li. Tsis zoo li tom tsev kawm, Kawm tag mam test. Zoo siab nrog koj qhov tau dim txoj niag kev lwjsiab ntawv lawm 💪😇😇
My question to you is, or anyone in this situation, IF you REFUSED to do the funeral, if u stand your ground firm and strong, CAN the neej tsa really force you to do the funeral? No. So idky u agreed to do her funeral. Idc about the neej tsa or kwv tij. She left u for yrs. Everyone knew. U have no obligations toward her. This is so upsetting, but at the end of the day it's bc yur too weak to stand up for yourself.
Nej cov pojniam nas, yog xav xav mus tham hluas nraug no ces thaum tuag lawm txhob los nrhiav teeb meem li no. Tuag ces khawb av faus xwb mas tseem yuav ua kev cais dab tsis nas.
I never understand women like his ex wife who thinks money fall from the sky and still think they are so entitled for something they didn't even work hard for.
This is BS. This man should have never been responsible foe her funeral. It’s not like she just left within a couple of days weeks or months and died. Smh
Peb ua neej nyob vim tib txoj kev ruam thiab dig muag rau poj niam zoo nkauj es thiaj hmag poj niam luam los mas. poj niam mas tsis sawm zoo nawb tsis toob kam qhuas nws zoo nlauj li vim poj niam mas koj yim qhuas nws mas nws yim muaj phlus xwb. yeej yog tim tus txiv ntau dua. pab koj tu siab kawg
Good lesson to not live beyond your means and cut all ties from a former spouse. To those who say the second wife should of left him, although it is unfair to her, in my opinion if she truly loved him she would not. If you are committing to marriage I feel you should be willing to stick by that person thru thick or thin, good or worse, in sickness or health as long as it’s not endangering your own health and safety. If you can’t then your love is probably superficial. He probably paid for the funeral because he knew he was at fault for not ending his previous marriage definitely and clearly but also probably because he was also doing it for his kids.
Tus tij laug aw hmoob txoj niag cai quav dev no ces zoo hmoob ua rau hmoob xwb os. Lwm haiv neeg ces tuag ntsiag to hais tsis taus ib lo li. Hmoob mas ntxub tshaj plaws. Ib tug neeg zoo li koj niag niam loj ntawd ntxov tuag ntxov tas nyob los nyhav av xwb. Twb zoo qhov koj tus niam ziag no ho to taub lawm es thov neb ua lub sib2 hlub os mog thov vajtswv yawm nrog neb nyob tsom kwm neb lub neej mus lawm yav tom ntej
You and your first wife didn't live within your means. Even super rich people still live with bargain. You are lucky that your current wife is willing to stay with you. I've would've left you if you were my husband who still have to pay for your ex wife funeral. I'm sure you've left your wife too if she has to pay for her ex husband funeral. Lesson learned.
Kuv los ntshe yeej tsis aub eb thiab, tseem poob nyiaj ntau npaum no los mus tha tus Poj niam uas twb tag lawm vim yus txoj kev ruam uas nws tsis nrauj kom tu taw.
Koj tau kev txom nyem vim poj niam xyob txhiaj qhov uas koj mus them nyiaj thas koj tus qub poj niam koj tsis tas yuav mus thas na vim li Cas koj tsis yig Kom dhau yig Kom dhau dab tsis quaj qhov twg tuaj, Cia li coj mus faus li faus dev los pob twb yog niag maum dev xwb ne.
Tau cov tsis txawj pab txawj siv li no xwb awb tsis muaj ib sim neej li thiab nyuaj siab heev os nrog koj zoo siab uas tau Tus tshiab los ho ua neej xwb teb chaw lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab os nawb tus me txiv tsev
Tu siab tias koj tseem muaj ib pab kwv tij ruam. Tsis tas li los koj yeej tsis yog ib tug txiv neej khov. Koj case no yog cov neeg khov ces kwv tij tsis tuaj yus tog, muab kwv tij nrauj pov tseg. Neej tsa tsis txaus siab, tsa tus ntiv tes nruab nrab rau neej tsa. Lawv sawv daws qhov muag dig tas lawm lawv thiaj ua tsis ncaj rau koj. Lub ntees no neej tsa tsis take care ces yog nom tswv neeg xwb. Case no mas meem txom neeg tiag2 li. There is every reason for your wife to be mad.
Cov hluas niam no ntse2 li cia tau pam tej tus niag poj niam xuaj twb mus tau ntau xyoo tseem khaws los pam thaum kawg, vim cov laus hais Tsi mloog yus yuav yus lub tsewv yim ntse rau cov laus xwb ces that’s fine for you
First of all, the old Hmong culture has to go. No one can make you pay for someone’s funeral. You live in America, not Laos. I do not follow the Hmong culture and never will. It’s a sexist and discriminating culture. As for your ex wife, you should have stood your grounds when you knew she was wrong. Hope you learned from this costly experience.
You're right. No one can force this man without his own consent. At the end of the day, he agreed to do her funeral. If he had stood his ground, I'm pretty sure no one will force him.
If he didn't have a marriage license with her, he can go to court and denied not to do, but if still have marriage license he can't get away with it. The reason he has to pay for the funeral because it's his fault, he didn't clear and still hoping ,waiting for the ex wife to return. A few women don't realize that a wife is supposed to make sure the family has enough money to pay bills first. What's the point to be pretty, to be pretty means to look for someone out there that is better than the husband. Even I'm a woman I got mad at this man for letting his ex go back and forth. Never let your spouse use your name for any credit especially someone love materialistic or money hunger.
Tsi txhob tu siab os cia ua ib qhov kev kawm rau koj os me tub thiab rau ib tsoom me phooj ywg sawv daws paub es yog nyob tsi tau ua ke ce muab hais kom ib tag ob tag os
It's your fault. You didn't divorce her the second time. So yes you will be responsible for her. No other words to say it. I feel bad for your wife. She has lost lots of money with you.
Wow, this guy got screwed over so bad. It suck that the ex-wife's side took the easy way out by pushing her back to the ex-husband to bury. Txaj muag dhau lawm os. Yus tus ntxhais tsis tsim txiaj, yus twb hais tsis tau nws ua neeg zoo rau nws tus txiv. Tseem yuav yuam tus vauv pam tus ntxhais thiab. Txawm nkawv lub neej yuav sib nrauj mus sib nrauj los, los txog thaum kawg yus yeej paub hais tias yog tim yus tus ntxhais xwb ces yus kuj kav tsij nrho yus li nyiaj los pam yus tus ntxhais twj ywm xwb los hos. Muaj ntsej muag ua luaj.
By using credit card to purchase items online in that the more you use it and the more addictive you will become. If you are the the bill handler in the family, you are the only one who knows how to manage your monthly family budget accurately. Koj tus poj niam xyob txhiaj no tsim nyog koj ntiab nws mus work lawm. Koj nrauj koj tus poj niam tsis tu taw ces thaum tuag lawm koj yuav tsum yog tus pam nws (cannot avoid). This applies to all Hmong clans.
Me vaj cov neej neeg tsua hai txog peb hmoobmeskas tus niam mus tham hluas nraug thiab tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj es lub neej pua nkaus xwb .ua tsi taus txiv es sib nrauj xwb
Txiv neej ces tsis sawm zoo; cov tuaj piav lawv tus poj niam zoo nkauj ces yog tib cov poj niam tsis muaj kev kawm tias si muab ob ceg los khoos tus txiv. Tus xiv ces tuag rau nws ob ceg .
There comes a point where, we can't feel sad, or bad for people like this. Ruam thiab thiab li os. He can't really blame her. Because, she cheated on him, yet he kept on taking her back and still hopes that she will come back. He caused his own issues and stress.
Vim koj tsi paub hmoob txoj cai ne thiab koj pheej yuav tos tias poj niam yuav rov los xwb es koj tseem yuav rov khaws koj niag poj niam ne tej no yog koj xwb koj twb tsi sab laj thiab vim koj tsi kawm hmoob txoj cai ne yog koj paub mas loj yuav tsum mus hais rau kwv tij neej tsa kom tu mab pluam tag ntsho ces yog teeb meem dab tsi los tsi txog yus vim koj pheej tos tias nws yuav rov qab los thawj koj tej no yog koj xwb koj yuav tau kawm hmoob kev cai nawb.
Sad but true. Some women and men like to live large and expects the husband or wife to provide everything. Every grown ass person should know their role as a husband or wife. Work together to build a life that works for both. NOT turn to outside for it. It does not last.
@@maryly09 Cov neejtsa dev thiaj phem xwb os. Cov neej tsa neeg yeej paub cai thiab yeej paub tias lawm tus mauv dev tsis tsim txiaj ces tuag ces faus li qhov ua tau xwb.
Poj niam tsis zoo nkauj thiaj siv nyuaj loj tu ncev leem plu hnav cov clothes kom zoo es thij li ua lawv zoo nkauj xwb os thaub. Cov poj niam zoo nkauj tsis need ab tsi li os
Kuv tsis nkag siab tias yog tim koj los yog leej twg?????? Ua cas peb cov hmoob cov coj noj coj haus naj, nej cov qhov muag dig tag lawm los?????? Ib tug poj niam meb caab no twb khiav yus tau 8 lub xyoo, ua rau yus tiv nuj nqis, vaj tse poob tag. Es tseem yuav kom yus pam nws thiab????? Tub qaug heev nawb.
Why couldn’t you stand up and be firm adamant that you are not responsible for your ex wife’s funeral? Seriously you should have been more strong and stand your ground. Legally you both were divorced, you are not obligated in any way to your ex wife anymore. Tell that to the Hmong elders! You let people walk all over you that’s what you have to carry for the rest of your life. I hope you learn from this. You should have learned a long time ago when she used and abused your credit cards.
Brother, I'm in the same situation like your current wife now. Sorry there is no way things will b the same inside her heart. She will hide stuff from u secretly and put on a fake smile. U r wrong already to do the funeral. Remember the smile is fake. I give the same fake smile to my husband. Would u like it, if we went back to do a funeral for our ex husband?
Ua neeg nyob ua cas nej yuav ruam ua luaj li os. Yus ua tib tug neeg ua thaj loj loj tsis vam kwv vam tij pab muaj dab tsi tsis sab laj rau kwv rau tij ces zoo li koj los mas me tub aw,
Only a few minutes listening to this story and I have to say this woman is selfish. But then, the husband allowed her to keep being that way so he must pay the debt because the debt is in his name.
Yog kawg...koj yog ib tug txiv neej ruam kawg!!!
Tsuag yog txawj ntawv thiab paub hais lus xwb.
If I were the current wife, I would divorce him as soon as he agreed to pay for the funeral, period!
Yog li koj hais lawm os
Poj niam Ruam .....Poj niam phem ncaim zoo dua.
Zaj neej neeg no yuav tsum hu tias ua neej yuam kev nrog pojniam yees loj
Yog kawg.. thaum koj tham koj zaj ntawm no thaum pib kuv twb paub tias yuav nws yuav tso koj tseg ib hnub no , thaum kawg txawm zoo li qhov xav .
Ho qhov koj rub ob txoj hauj lwm tau kawg tiam sis thaum kawg yuav tsis zoo rau koj , vim yus yuav xub tuag rau tom ntej , tus kwv txhob cia yus hlub luag ntau tshaj hlub sib npaug zoo dua paub txuag nyiaj ib yam
Lub neej tom ntej thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem txoj sia thiaj nyob ntev dhawv ho qhov koj poj niam xiam yeej yog Tim koj lawm.
Tus txiv no ruam dhau lawm kawg tuag rau poj niam ob ceg.
Yog lawm! His ex-wife had legs that made him see heaven. LOL
Why did you pay for the funeral? This is AMERICA!! Stand up for your rights and for what's right. Stop letting the "elders" decide on how to fix problems. Have you heard of qualifying judges, the court and the authority? That's who you go to when there's a problem; not the elders!
Your new wife have every rights to be mad.
Exactly he is so damn stupid. I would've just told them hell no and got up and left. They would not be able to do shit but he is so stupid.
@@pangaroo2107 when we are still traditional hmong. We have to follow traditions. He should have done his homework n officially divorce her. We can't escape being hmong if we still practice the religion
Vim peb tej laus tsis teev ntaub, Tsis teev ntawv tseg rau peb kawm kom paub.
Peb hmoob ces test tag mam kawm xwb, tiag tiag li.
Tsis zoo li tom tsev kawm, Kawm tag mam test.
Zoo siab nrog koj qhov tau dim txoj niag kev lwjsiab ntawv lawm 💪😇😇
Good lesson learned.
Nws siav nyiaj loj2 los nws yuav tsum txawj khwv thiab pob
My question to you is, or anyone in this situation, IF you REFUSED to do the funeral, if u stand your ground firm and strong, CAN the neej tsa really force you to do the funeral? No. So idky u agreed to do her funeral. Idc about the neej tsa or kwv tij. She left u for yrs. Everyone knew. U have no obligations toward her. This is so upsetting, but at the end of the day it's bc yur too weak to stand up for yourself.
I agreed with you!! Forget about culture go straight to the court!
Nej cov pojniam nas, yog xav xav mus tham hluas nraug no ces thaum tuag lawm txhob los nrhiav teeb meem li no. Tuag ces khawb av faus xwb mas tseem yuav ua kev cais dab tsis nas.
I never understand women like his ex wife who thinks money fall from the sky and still think they are so entitled for something they didn't even work hard for.
They have this mindset of their husband is responsible for their financial and perfect life.
Woman, like her are entitled and he enabled her life style.
Maum dev xob txhiaj ces yog koj tus no tiag...tseev zoo nkauj, qhov quav ces yeej tsw quav qhov zis ces kawg tsw zis laus ntxiag xwb tiag...
This is BS. This man should have never been responsible foe her funeral. It’s not like she just left within a couple of days weeks or months and died. Smh
What's even more upsetting is the fact that this man agreed to do her funeral. If i were his wife, i would divorce him.
@@maryly09 same. Money doesn’t fall from the sky and I ain’t giving a penny to his ex-wife. That’s f*cked up!
Peb ua neej nyob vim tib txoj kev ruam thiab dig muag rau poj niam zoo nkauj
es thiaj hmag poj niam luam los mas.
poj niam mas tsis sawm zoo nawb
tsis toob kam qhuas nws zoo nlauj li
vim poj niam mas koj yim qhuas nws
mas nws yim muaj phlus xwb.
yeej yog tim tus txiv ntau dua.
pab koj tu siab kawg
Peb cov txiv neej tseem muaj cov ruam2 li tus thaub no thiab
Koj tsis nrauj kom tu y ces tuag koj Tau days $40 50k koj Ruam zg lawm
Cov niag tub tsis tseem ceeb ces zoo li no tiag. Tej kwv tij kom tsis txhob yuav los nws yuav yuav li ces zoo li no ntag lauj.
Good lesson to not live beyond your means and cut all ties from a former spouse. To those who say the second wife should of left him, although it is unfair to her, in my opinion if she truly loved him she would not. If you are committing to marriage I feel you should be willing to stick by that person thru thick or thin, good or worse, in sickness or health as long as it’s not endangering your own health and safety. If you can’t then your love is probably superficial. He probably paid for the funeral because he knew he was at fault for not ending his previous marriage definitely and clearly but also probably because he was also doing it for his kids.
Tim neb 2 leeg
Men are willing to put up this miserable life just because they love pretty women
Poj niam zoo nkauj noj g tau qhov twg los nyiaj xwb,
This story should be “Because I’m so dumb....here’s my story!” I just want you all to know.
👏👏👏agree
Haha right
Best comment!!
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For real!!!
Tseem tseem hlwb npua tiag tiag cas yuav faib tsis tau peb cov hlwb ntse ntse no 1 nrab rau koj lau tus kwv tij.
Thank you for sharing brother.lesson learn.
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas es zoo zoo nkauj ces yeej siab phem li no nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw.......
Tus tij laug aw hmoob txoj niag cai quav dev no ces zoo hmoob ua rau hmoob xwb os. Lwm haiv neeg ces tuag ntsiag to hais tsis taus ib lo li. Hmoob mas ntxub tshaj plaws. Ib tug neeg zoo li koj niag niam loj ntawd ntxov tuag ntxov tas nyob los nyhav av xwb. Twb zoo qhov koj tus niam ziag no ho to taub lawm es thov neb ua lub sib2 hlub os mog thov vajtswv yawm nrog neb nyob tsom kwm neb lub neej mus lawm yav tom ntej
You and your first wife didn't live within your means. Even super rich people still live with bargain. You are lucky that your current wife is willing to stay with you. I've would've left you if you were my husband who still have to pay for your ex wife funeral. I'm sure you've left your wife too if she has to pay for her ex husband funeral. Lesson learned.
I would have divorced him too. Ain't no way I'm paying for his ex's funeral.
Kuv los ntshe yeej tsis aub eb thiab, tseem poob nyiaj ntau npaum no los mus tha tus Poj niam uas twb tag lawm vim yus txoj kev ruam uas nws tsis nrauj kom tu taw.
Koj tau kev txom nyem vim poj niam xyob txhiaj qhov uas koj mus them nyiaj thas koj tus qub poj niam koj tsis tas yuav mus thas na vim li Cas koj tsis yig Kom dhau yig Kom dhau dab tsis quaj qhov twg tuaj, Cia li coj mus faus li faus dev los pob twb yog niag maum dev xwb ne.
If it was me, I would not take responsibility for the funeral cost, and I would have notified the family as soon as she left to be with other man.
Tau cov tsis txawj pab txawj siv li no xwb awb tsis muaj ib sim neej li thiab nyuaj siab heev os nrog koj zoo siab uas tau Tus tshiab los ho ua neej xwb teb chaw lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab os nawb tus me txiv tsev
Tu siab tias koj tseem muaj ib pab kwv tij ruam. Tsis tas li los koj yeej tsis yog ib tug txiv neej khov. Koj case no yog cov neeg khov ces kwv tij tsis tuaj yus tog, muab kwv tij nrauj pov tseg. Neej tsa tsis txaus siab, tsa tus ntiv tes nruab nrab rau neej tsa. Lawv sawv daws qhov muag dig tas lawm lawv thiaj ua tsis ncaj rau koj. Lub ntees no neej tsa tsis take care ces yog nom tswv neeg xwb. Case no mas meem txom neeg tiag2 li. There is every reason for your wife to be mad.
Cov hluas niam no ntse2 li cia tau pam tej tus niag poj niam xuaj twb mus tau ntau xyoo tseem khaws los pam thaum kawg, vim cov laus hais Tsi mloog yus yuav yus lub tsewv yim ntse rau cov laus xwb ces that’s fine for you
Thaub os Thaub aw.....! Twv ntxhias rau nram nom tswv miskas xwb los mas..
Live what you have. Don't live like rich but your heart under stress or miserable life.
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Yus yog ib tug neeg zoo 2 lawm ces lub ntuj yeej muab dua ib tug zoo2 rov qab os hlub yus kawg nawb mog
Koj cov neej tsa phem dhau lawm thiab
Pluag stab muaj ces yog koj tus pojniam tiag lau.
Poj niam ruam tsab ntshe tsis tas yuav thiab txhob ntshaw nws txoj Kev zoo nkauj.
Neb ces yog li tej laus Hai os ruam tsab tses pluag tsab muaj no lo mas.
Neeg pluag tsab muaj ces yog koj poj niam ntag. Neeg ruam tsab ntses.
First of all, the old Hmong culture has to go. No one can make you pay for someone’s funeral. You live in America, not Laos. I do not follow the Hmong culture and never will. It’s a sexist and discriminating culture. As for your ex wife, you should have stood your grounds when you knew she was wrong. Hope you learned from this costly experience.
You're right. No one can force this man without his own consent. At the end of the day, he agreed to do her funeral. If he had stood his ground, I'm pretty sure no one will force him.
If he didn't have a marriage license with her, he can go to court and denied not to do, but if still have marriage license he can't get away with it. The reason he has to pay for the funeral because it's his fault, he didn't clear and still hoping ,waiting for the ex wife to return. A few women don't realize that a wife is supposed to make sure the family has enough money to pay bills first. What's the point to be pretty, to be pretty means to look for someone out there that is better than the husband. Even I'm a woman I got mad at this man for letting his ex go back and forth. Never let your spouse use your name for any credit especially someone love materialistic or money hunger.
Tsi txhob tu siab os cia ua ib qhov kev kawm rau koj os me tub thiab rau ib tsoom me phooj ywg sawv daws paub es yog nyob tsi tau ua ke ce muab hais kom ib tag ob tag os
Koj Tau poj niam zoo nkauj ces kawg ua unws qhev thiab them nqi
Cov pojniam siab phem li ko coj mus nuv ntses xwb os
Educated but not intelligent bro. As for her funeral the city responsible for it. As for nejtsa n kwvtij f...them about the funeral.
And who's fault is that? You have no one to blame but yourself...
It's your fault. You didn't divorce her the second time. So yes you will be responsible for her. No other words to say it. I feel bad for your wife. She has lost lots of money with you.
She too beautiful he wants her back that’s why, the end he get to paying for her funeral 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 good thing he know he so stupid.
Why are you dogging down to your spouse? You deserve it for allowing her to stoop down on you. Smh...
Hhh es puas yog them nqi noov xwb os
RUAM......THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY FOR THIS MAN
He is into look because she is beautiful!
Amen
Agree.
Omg i don’t understand Hmong makes life cas twb tsis nyob ua lawm los tsis muaj neeg paub li nas es nej yeej nyob tsis sib nug moos li los
Thaub, tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb. Tam sim no muaj poj niam coob leej ntau tus siv nyiaj loj heev lawm. Muaj cov hlais tawv muag hlais plab ua mis yas ntsiv qhov ntswg yas kom siab mas mob tob hau tiag2.
Yog zoo2 Nkauj Thov siv2 nyiaj yog Tsis zoo mas yuav siv los tau... Tej tus pojniam es yog Tsis txawj xav ces kawg nyiaj khaw tsis tau nyiaj...
Wow, this guy got screwed over so bad. It suck that the ex-wife's side took the easy way out by pushing her back to the ex-husband to bury.
Txaj muag dhau lawm os. Yus tus ntxhais tsis tsim txiaj, yus twb hais tsis tau nws ua neeg zoo rau nws tus txiv. Tseem yuav yuam tus vauv pam tus ntxhais thiab. Txawm nkawv lub neej yuav sib nrauj mus sib nrauj los, los txog thaum kawg yus yeej paub hais tias yog tim yus tus ntxhais xwb ces yus kuj kav tsij nrho yus li nyiaj los pam yus tus ntxhais twj ywm xwb los hos. Muaj ntsej muag ua luaj.
koj cov kwvtij ces yog bua hab xwb has pheej kom kojpaam koj tug namhlub .
By using credit card to purchase items online in that the more you use it and the more addictive you will become. If you are the the bill handler in the family, you are the only one who knows how to manage your monthly family budget accurately. Koj tus poj niam xyob txhiaj no tsim nyog koj ntiab nws mus work lawm. Koj nrauj koj tus poj niam tsis tu taw ces thaum tuag lawm koj yuav tsum yog tus pam nws (cannot avoid). This applies to all Hmong clans.
ibtug quaspuj ruam tsaabdse , tsaab muaj ces kawg txomnyem xwb tag . tug zoonkauj , tug tsi zoonkauj los pw zoo ibyaam xwb mas , qhovzoo ces yuav tug txawjhlub paubhlub yug xwb mas .
Let's not judge & criticize, but learn from it. To each their own.
Me vaj cov neej neeg tsua hai txog peb hmoobmeskas tus niam mus tham hluas nraug thiab tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj es lub neej pua nkaus xwb .ua tsi taus txiv es sib nrauj xwb
Txiv neej ces tsis sawm zoo; cov tuaj piav lawv tus poj niam zoo nkauj ces yog tib cov poj niam tsis muaj kev kawm tias si muab ob ceg los khoos tus txiv. Tus xiv ces tuag rau nws ob ceg .
Living beyond your expectations.
Tij laug w kj raum lo ca pheej yv mu thov hlub nw li nw twb g hlub kj lm nev lo
Nej hmoob meskas thiaj ua tau li ko xwb nawb ...niam lo tham hluas nraug npaum li tus txiv lo ua hluas npaum li
Koj tus poj niam yog ib tug neeg liam xwb koj tseem tias zoo2 nkauj koj Taj tshaj.
There comes a point where, we can't feel sad, or bad for people like this. Ruam thiab thiab li os. He can't really blame her. Because, she cheated on him, yet he kept on taking her back and still hopes that she will come back. He caused his own issues and stress.
Yes!
Vim koj tsi paub hmoob txoj cai ne thiab koj pheej yuav tos tias poj niam yuav rov los xwb es koj tseem yuav rov khaws koj niag poj niam ne tej no yog koj xwb koj twb tsi sab laj thiab vim koj tsi kawm hmoob txoj cai ne yog koj paub mas loj yuav tsum mus hais rau kwv tij neej tsa kom tu mab pluam tag ntsho ces yog teeb meem dab tsi los tsi txog yus vim koj pheej tos tias nws yuav rov qab los thawj koj tej no yog koj xwb koj yuav tau kawm hmoob kev cai nawb.
Tus no tsis yog Niam tsev os phooj ywg aw
Brother your heart to BIG.
Cas koj twb ris qhia saib yog koj poj niam tus tuag ntawv yog ua cas ho tuag es peb thiaj pau b tag
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This lady want all the good thing in life but don't want others to do the work for her. What a joke.
No... he’s the joke. She was smart.
Ultimately, he made the decision to bury his first wife. He said he did it for his kids. Crazy. Funerals are not cheap.
I usually go straight to the comments to see whether the story is worth my time listening. ~this one is not worth my time.
thov koj xov tooj kuv xav nrog koj tham ntxog ntawm kuv lub me neej mob siab 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😘
Hais tau txaus kuv ntshai ualuaj !!! Cov poj niam zoo lino mus tsis txog qhov twg kev zoo nkauj noj tsis tau . Koj ua nws nqhev vim koj ruam xwb ! Kuv tsis totaub hais tias uacas koj yov ua cuag li no nws coj li ibtug niam ntiav xwb .
Most stupid man at the end still pay for evils wife’s funeral
Pluag tsab muaj
Sad but true. Some women and men like to live large and expects the husband or wife to provide everything. Every grown ass person should know their role as a husband or wife. Work together to build a life that works for both. NOT turn to outside for it. It does not last.
Yog koj neejtsa tsis xav responsible for your ex wife lub funeral and the expenses towards that. That’s they make it so hard.
Neej tsa mas, when it comes to funeral mas phem tiag tiag li os.
@@maryly09 Cov neejtsa dev thiaj phem xwb os. Cov neej tsa neeg yeej paub cai thiab yeej paub tias lawm tus mauv dev tsis tsim txiaj ces tuag ces faus li qhov ua tau xwb.
Koj cov kwv tij ruam dhau lawm os poj niam twb khiav Mus 8 xyoo lawm es tseem yuam kom koj ua nws lub ntees thiab
Thaub aw! Txhav tag npaum ko es tseem ntuas peb thiab os
Tu txiv tsev no mloog los nw ruam tshaj thb tsi ta li xwb tseem ua tau tej yam ruam2 xwb nyuam qhuav ntxim rau tu tsev kov xb o
Crazy. I wouldn’t bother with funeral expenses. Hmong people crazy.
Poj niam tsis zoo nkauj thiaj siv nyuaj loj tu ncev leem plu hnav cov clothes kom zoo es thij li ua lawv zoo nkauj xwb os thaub. Cov poj niam zoo nkauj tsis need ab tsi li os
Xav 2 tau poj niam zoo nkauj ces ua 3 txoj hauj lwm lo ua li lo mas tus me Txiv tsev awd qhov no twb yog qhov koj xav tau ne thiab ua siab ntev 2 tos
Wow she even got you after death. What a woman. Feel sorry for you bro.
She will never rip for the crap she did to this man here. Smh
Kuv tsis nkag siab tias yog tim koj los yog leej twg??????
Ua cas peb cov hmoob cov coj noj coj haus naj, nej cov qhov muag dig tag lawm los??????
Ib tug poj niam meb caab no twb khiav yus tau 8 lub xyoo, ua rau yus tiv nuj nqis, vaj tse poob tag. Es tseem yuav kom yus pam nws thiab????? Tub qaug heev nawb.
Why couldn’t you stand up and be firm adamant that you are not responsible for your ex wife’s funeral? Seriously you should have been more strong and stand your ground. Legally you both were divorced, you are not obligated in any way to your ex wife anymore. Tell that to the Hmong elders! You let people walk all over you that’s what you have to carry for the rest of your life. I hope you learn from this. You should have learned a long time ago when she used and abused your credit cards.
Brother, I'm in the same situation like your current wife now. Sorry there is no way things will b the same inside her heart. She will hide stuff from u secretly and put on a fake smile. U r wrong already to do the funeral. Remember the smile is fake. I give the same fake smile to my husband. Would u like it, if we went back to do a funeral for our ex husband?
Ua neeg nyob ua cas nej yuav ruam ua luaj li os. Yus ua tib tug neeg ua thaj loj loj tsis vam kwv vam tij pab muaj dab tsi tsis sab laj rau kwv rau tij ces zoo li koj los mas me tub aw,
Poj niam Ruam tsab ntse.
Thaum ub mas koj yog ib tug ruam tshaj plaws li os tab sis yus Ua yus thiaj li paub
Only a few minutes listening to this story and I have to say this woman is selfish. But then, the husband allowed her to keep being that way so he must pay the debt because the debt is in his name.
Vim koj tseem ruam heev