What Does A Filipina Bring to the Relationship Table?
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Discover the unique qualities Filipinas bring to relationships in our insightful video, "What Does A Filipina Bring to the Relationship Table?" We delve into the contrasting expectations and contributions in dating dynamics between Western women and Filipinas. Highlighting the challenges men face in modern dating, we explore the expectations of high-earning partners and the responses when asked about their contributions. The video offers a refreshing perspective on the values and qualities Filipinas add to a relationship, emphasizing loyalty, companionship, and a nurturing home environment. Perfect for those curious about cultural differences in relationships and seeking a deeper understanding of what Filipinas offer.
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Fantastically well curated video. And well delivered contentious content from a good place emotionally.
I have dove deep into this the last 5 years, because about 10 years ago I basically stopped dating when I was essentially disgusted by most women in the US. That was my mid-20's. I get a lot of attention and offers for a man, so no, I'm not a basement dwelling obese gamer 😂. I check most of the boxes.
That said, I've been planning on moving to the PH around 40-45, but am hearing and seeing a lot more content backed with evidence that the PH is changing quickly, and may no longer be the right place for these seeking such as you describe here, and the general known qualities of what most are seeking by relocating. Is there truth to this, in your opinion? Sounds like expat men are beginning to scramble, where to, no one has found yet... Thoughts?
as i see it, living in the PH since 2012... the 'bad percentage' is about the same, especially with online dating sites and bars... the big difference is the amount of boldness.
but even today, i'd still say that when i walk around any given island in the PH.. 85% of the women you bump into around town are good women. finding one is more a matter of deciding how attractive you want her to be and does she have a good chemistry with you to match. and then there are other factors such as; does she have kids, is she paper-married (separated), does she want to stay in the PH, etc.
even though the number of good women is generally lower in big cities and where there are a lot of expats.. i could still find one woman there that is wife material. but i'd find her in the course of daily life.. NOT on a dating site,
Beauty, sex appeal, ect doesn't really matter once the lights are out. A woman with good character and can cooperate is priceless.
yes, absolutely.
but if you do find her attractive, leave one of the lights on. :)
@@Lifebeyondthesea yes indeed 💯
About 7:25: My aunt once said, "It's better to be alone than to wish you were alone."
I just wanted respect and show interest in the things I love. Like dropping me off to church or ladies bible study if he doesn’t want to go.
She was right been there..
A filipina, girl a good mother, loving, responsible and a hardworker,
"waiting for him every day, not just his birthday"
This hit home for me, because it shows that she knows what makes you happy, she knows what keeps a home clean and peaceful, she knows how to be loving and kind... but makes a deliberate choice to NOT do that outside of rare special occasions.
OMG. You described my ex-wife very well as someone who complains and nags. ☠🤮 Add to the mix and abusive alcoholic and a 20-year relationship has now found me single and happy for the last five years. Men and women; you have choices and do not have to stay in bad relationships. Cheers all. 😊
glad to hear you are in a better position now. :)
Don't forget the gaslighting!! I took it for 15 years and then out daughter and I left last year - now everyone is happier.
Stay Busy and Travel 🛠️ 🌎
But see I wanted for our marriage to last. I just wanted to be loved, not scolded when I did something like, forgot to lock the doors, or windows. Notice at least my presence when we are in public. But no, he would walk far away from and doesn’t hold my hand. If told him to hold my hands. I’m here. We’ve been together 24hrs. That is true. But he is busy watching TH-cam what are foreigners looking for Filipina. Or the life of an expats in Dumaguete and Dauin. Or what the Filipina is looking for a foreigner interview. His toes curls as he watches this young 20 year olds or younger tell their wants and needs from the foreigners. When he sis me in tears, he’s scolding me like a little child. Especially when we are in public. Then yells, “what do you want from me”. Am I that needy? We’re only married for 38 years.
Then, we are supposed to rekindle our relationship and celebrate our 39th anniversary. But because he got tired and sick from when we went in the property I’m buying for my family, our family. He said he has nothing to do with the property or anything. Why can’t he wait for me get a clear schedule to do our trips for an our anniversary. It made got irritated and said okay go stay wherever you want to stay. But my husband makes little things bigger. Because it doesn’t go his way, there is no solution. He has been hiding in his cubicle. I ended doing all the finances because he said he doesn’t like computers, cell phones or social media. But he uses my account in TH-cam to look at bloggers interview or other things he wants to see. So this is a pre plan. Just waiting for the opportunity to be blameless to make it safe for him.
I listened to this while grocery shopping. I was really impressed with the sound/production quality. Stead "broadcaster" voice... No ums/awws... Consistent volume. I mean it stood out. So I know a lot of guys have some comment on content. What ever you did for a script and sound quality -- keep this up (now that the other ones were bad). You might want to listen to it again yourself b/c you are really polished.
That's what happened to my beautiful Colombiana wife ( now ex) she became westernized and changed to a western style woman. It was a sad transformation to be witnessed, too.
That's why I'd be leery of bringing a filipina back to the toxic environment of the US.
Another great video & message Thank U Reekay, I've been listening to U for almost 2yrs now and I have finally made it to Cebu Philippines as of late Saturday nite/ Sunday morning & I thank God for safe travels long, long plane ride🤦🏾♂️ and I begin the new journey & process today at 9am! I will take everything U have said & use it to the best of my abilities. Thank U once again & God Bless U & Vee.🙏🏾😊
welcome to the PH!! :) be sure to check out Ayala Business Center and the IT Park. also, later, the Taoist temple and Temple of Leah are interesting as well. makes for a relaxing date place as well.
Ok will do thanks, I went to that Mall yesterday what a walk & experience I had. WOW!😊
Well said !
You nailed it bro! 100% a happy life is worth more than gold.
I'll tell you what they bring, HEADACHES
Thank you
I’m in a LDR with a Filipina who recently told me that she wants to work a job to help me pay the bills! Amazing PS: I’m 55 and she’s 21 and beautiful
When I was in my 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s, men and women used to tell me what’s wrong with me? They’d say you’re attractive, have a great profession, and are the perfect package, but I don’t marry. Even back then I saw the dynamic between men and women in the US and I saw men lose so much in divorce. It was unacceptable to me. I didn’t settle. In my 50’s the same people said why am I so smart? You never married! I dated plenty and had long term relationships but never married. You’re message today reminds me of my experience. I never settled. I won’t as I expatriate in Jan. I am clear and for me that’s the most important thing in dating. Vagueness, confusion and participation in seduction are huge risks. Great message Reekay 🙏🏼
Finding a good woman from a culture that reinforces traditional values who has at her qualities of a consistent good attitude good level of respect and admiration of your presence in her life. Who works hard at providing a welcoming and peaceful home life for you is a good value to a man.... She is someone who supports your dedication in providing for the family and its needs. She is a person whom you can be proud of and support her and care for her as your own life...
Yes.. A man must be diligent to take the time to search out that type of woman in life..
It's worth the investment..
There is a saying.... 80 to 95% of a mans happiness or sadness in life is due to "Whom you select as your companion in life"
Marriage is a partnership in living and business... They will have the same access power to do the right thing or the wrong thing... Which can impact your Union..
Thanks Henry for these snippets of knowledge... It matters in the larger picture for a man coming from the western world considering this option in life.
well said.
So, is that mean that when Ia woman developed being independence when military men stationed at several places in the world, Is that bad? I developed
Becoming independent because I was left taking care our two kids. And I wanted to continue my school career because we got married so young, 19 and 20 years old. He was his 2nd day in the Clark airbase as his beginning assignment. So, can’t say I married him for his money. But I had a choice to marry him or not. I married him because I chose him. I worked so hard, homeschooled my children in Christian schools, finished my nursing even though it was hard. I had to borrow a student loan and paid for it by my own income. When I was the one whose making income, we were financial Stable. He bought all the things I wished to by. He kept his retirement for himself and to buy his toys and his extra income when he went back to work.
But I think I need to put this in my own TH-cam channel so I can share this with all the women out there. You are not worthless. Or scolded like a child because you’re teary eyes, or tells you, If you know what’s good for you you better shut your mouth. But when I shut my mouth He is upset because he needs someone to talk to but only things on his wishlist. Talk about his hunting and fishing adventures. But when I went to go to church, ladies Bible study he throws a temper tantrums because the service is long, it’s too hot. I don’t like the people there. When I want to watch Sunday service in TH-cam he gets irritated and couldn’t wait to get it over. Then back to the same habits. Like he never heard about the service at all.
And that’s my wish from him. It wasn’t a demand is a wish and praying that he understands my spiritual needs. He gets upset if send him bible verses and he deletes them before reading it. Am I a demanding person? Who is fake Christian? But I want to get our relationship stronger and deeper but I geues because I got old and experienced hard ships in surgeries I just don’t want to be the burden to him. He swore he would drop me like a fly and will take me to places we dream of. But after a few days in the Philippines, all things changed. He said both of us changed. Yes. I got old and gray, cannot make more money for his dream wishes. He just needs a new one now. I still wish for him to be happy if it’s not me. I hope he wouldn’t get scammed or young Filipina and dumped him. That’s my children’s livelihood there his spending. When I got sick he promised to the doctors he is my caregiver. He will be my caregiver for life. But when we are at home. He couldn’t care less if it’s snowing he would tell me “”if you hate what I do so much why don’t you live. There’s no door. Go find someone who would love you more than I do. You know I’m so grateful of being married but to be unworthy or respectf and love cherished. Anyhow. I’m still blessed even if he doesn’t need me anymore. God bless him anyway. I loved him for 39 years. I can still love him for another 39 years but not him. He is very clear that he has nothing to do with me or our marriage
Thank-you, Reekay (hope that's spelled right) for the reminder that there are still women in this world who have something positive to offer a man. All the best.
Best decision I ever made. Celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary Dec 28. I agree wholeheartedly with all you said here.
Mostly Filipinas bring quite a bit to a man's existence...Western women take from a man and his whole table[property] that they have not even deserved in the first place. Filipinas and most in Asia help a man build...Not take and wait for him to achieve and then abscond with later. Even the children. I could say more.
Good thoughts here and insights that take decades to develop and observe. Peace
The Filipina being shown during this whole video is so pretty! I hope people won’t think that all Filipinas are that pretty, although there are really a ton of pretty Filipinas. In any relationship, one should be a good partner for the other. If not, this imbalance would make the relationship fail.
I agree with you with that.
Those are AI pics, looks at the fingers, eyes or mouth, you can tell.
One long term and one short term non-married relationships for me. Always had the same attitude towards mortgages... don't do them, abusive and controlling.
Tickets to PH paid for, travelling in the 2nd half of Jan next year for a 2 month stay. Aiming to follow my nose on a circuit of the main islands with particular interest in checking out the 3 higher elevation towns that are more liveable for a cold country guy.
That’s awesome advice. I agree. With everything you said.
You guys passports bros only know about philipines and tailandês girls
South american girls like Brazil columbia, peru are even nicer
I get it; its because of the language barriere; but u guys can learn the language. Those girls will be more than happy to teach you
Always enjoy your vids Rikay. Great info
I Learned So Much Going there , can't Wait to Return !
Right on!!!
Well a good filipina will offer. A very caring faithful understanding partner who will stick tu will love you and be very trustworthy
Excellent Reekay you’ve really got a good grasp on relationships from the west to the east great topics for consideration thank you👍
"Love is the mistaken belief that one woman differs from another." - Henry Louis Mencken - true around the world. Ask the countless guys scammed by "traditional" Filipinas.
just gotta love it when someone thinks the world can be summed up with an "all" statement. ha!!
the above quote is saying, conversely, "all women are the same" and they are all bad. that's the sort of thing a man says when his poor judgment leads him from one bad choice in a woman to another, without learning in the process.
Hey man, I find these videos very entertaining as well. Fresh&Fit are my favorite to watch. By the way, thanks for your videos!
Awesome! Thank you!
@@LifebeyondtheseaWatching this chaneel then Fresh n Fit or Whatever podcasts is a pretty terrifying contrast!😳
It's actually quite incredible.
I've been fortunate enough to have been with a Filipina for 40 years. Every word spoken in the video is true.
I’m afraid as many might feel the same is losing their children in a divorce. What if your ex will try to prevent you from ever seeing your children with excuse and reasons.
Word For Word
Salamat Reekay
🙏Amen
Great video thank you
I love my Filipina
Outstanding 🎉
Thank you for another great video
Well said sir!
Had to share on my facebook. Thanks.
Yes this is why Im moving to the Philipnes, 1, women I dont make enough money for American wone,n/ 2., Im older tetired and most wonen here wont gilve me he time of day, there are many many more, but I will stop there. I make enough money with my retirement to live good over there, will I should say live great, but barely make it here. Cant wait for a great future, Thank you for all your videos!!!! DP
Never been happier for 8 years married to a Filipina and living in Bacolod
That's me.
Another great video!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hello! I really enoy your videos and your knowledge and wisdom! The question I have is, while your video is playing and you are giving valuable info out, there are pictures of very beautiful Philippinas being shown about every six seconds! Is it possible to meet these very same women?
the ones in the vids, i create with AI. so these particular ones are only illustrations.
but in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable and i've dated many since 2012.
i went to the mall just yesterday and kept track. from the time i went in until the time i drove out.. i counted 24 attractive filipinas that would rank from a 7 to a 10. (2 of them were 9's. no 10 on this day.)
now, that's out of about 400 filipinas overall within my periphery. so.. yes, they are there but not every single one is a 10. i don't think that country exists. ha!
Nice video
I was there for 3 weeks last month. Makati, Angeles city, Cebu, oslob, panglao, Davao, Pagadian, bocolod, bgc, San Juan, Baguio, Agoo. I was with a different girl in those locations. From the bar girl to the province girl. Career girl to a student. Don’t settle for less for online girls. Get your boots on the ground and find the good ones without the dating app. Good luck brothers.
You nailed it. 🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽
exactly
Great pep talk!
Valeu!
Darn. This might be one of your best videos of advice. It was so good I watched it twice.
great video !
Great video👌
Thanks 👍
Wow, nailed it, 62 disabled veteran from ohio can't find those ladies here😮
You had me at cooking me dinner smiling.
Reekay, I'm narrowing down my "go to" countries and PH is in the top 3. I'm originally from Florida so I'm aware of typhoon's (hurricanes) and their impact. But, the earthquakes are a different story especially if I am a condo dweller. What's your thoughts / concerns about the earthquake in PH? My first stop for 6 months or so will be Cebu. Thanks!
it's hard to say really. building construction varies one project from the next. all i can say is that in the last 11 years i've been through a few earthquakes in the PH and yet to see a building completely self-implode. (knock on bamboo)
but i'd say the PH is a safer place to be for quakes than buildings in china. lots of videos on youtube of buildings in china caving in and even falling over without an earthquake involved.
I've experienced maybe 3 or 4 earthquakes in Cebu long time ago. Typhoons cause more damage than earthquakes in Cebu from my experience. I don't know about other parts of the country though.
Filipina and Canadian women are the most well rounded imo , You wont find this in the US to much feminist crap to deal with !
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If youre wife is a filipina youre very lucky
1:30 You forgot the tattoos and the OnlyFans account!
That sounds like my soon to be ex husband complaining about me.
I have watched a couple of these videos that you are talking about. The girl with below average looks and mentality have these high expectations for men, if it is just a defence mechanism to keep guys away. They want someone but they don't want someone
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perfecty!
Clarity!
These podcasts look for young women that grew up without an authorities daddy figure. That’s why their values are more attuned to social media than real life.
no, if you listen to the channel, i've repeatedly said to look for women of good character. often having her same parents together is a part of that, but not exclusively.
'good women' can be found in every strata of the economy. rich or poor.
If the 85% of the ladies are just living their life without drama, what percentage of that 85% are actually interested in a foreigner? An older, say, 60+ foreigner? From what I've seen, and 8m certainly no expert here at all, the vast majority of these Filipina aren't interested in a foreign guy at all. If this is true then an older foreign guy statistically has a very small pool of women in any given location outside of the areas that are probably full of the ladies a man wouldn't really want (long term). Am I getting this wrong? This is a serious question.
of the 85%... since 2012 i've found that all of the filipinas i approached in-person (with exception of 3) were interested and i dated them for varying lengths of time. the interest in foreign expats is very high.
@@Lifebeyondthesea then I stand corrected (thankfully). Appreciate your quick response. Thank you.
Well, I need to respond to that. I don’t believe all men come here to settle down and looking for a relationship or real love. Because I’ve been with one and we had a good life. But since watched the TH-cam channel and watched all of these bloggers who are hungry for fresh new foreigners to interview, they make it a click bate. They made a vlog that make it sounds so good.
sorry to hear you had a bad experience. 'some' men are not serious about relationship.
but you cannot say 'all men' come to ph with bad intentions. it is not any more fair than to say, "all filipinas are scammers" just because some of them are.
vloggers are not to blame. individual people are to blame for their own decisions and actions.
Another great video Reekay! I'm looking for a Filipina strictly because Western women want too much, and it NEVER stops. It will NEVER be enough for them. Never enough money, things, property, attention, never enough of your time, there's always something that we can't provide enough of. I'm done with them... too much maintenance. Filipinas, on the other hand, (most, I would imagine) are content with a faithful man who can provide basic needs. At first, I thought, I'd go there, and find a woman and bring her back to the U.S. But THEN, I watched your video about how the dynamics changes when it's them who is the hot commodity here in the U.S., and now, I'm wanting to go there, stay a while, and learn about my future girls culture and personality. I think maybe a province girls' values and personality would be more... stress free. Thanks so much Reekay, you da man!
100k? The ones I saw wanted 400k min!
Is that phrase even brought up in PI? I thought it was strictly a Western discussion point.
it is. i bring up the comparison for contrast.
Still looking 👀 for that lady 😂😅
I already make six digits a year. I am thinking it is seven digits now. 🤔
Wow, I guess the few Filipinas I know they are not like that. Maybe it’s because they have been westernized
Touchdown!!!!