i appreciate that they don't make him the abusive or stupid or just emotionally immature like most other Latinos in TV... The season 3 part later on with him and B***o is how i wanna be. Good man
So here's one thing, machismo is a very real thing and LUCKILY Papi isn't as gripped by it as other folks. What helps here is both Elektra and Blanca are aware of this and listen to him like he listens to them. This isn't a right/wrong conversation, it's conversation with 3 adults who know how to listen and understand so they communicate. It's a wonderful thing to see and I'm happy how it ended with a hug and then Elektra being Elektra.
Oh, Papi's machismo had been wrung out of him long ago. If he was a real "macho" in the Latin sense, he would've never hung out with Blanca and her crew. But he didn't care. He joined that crew like it was nothing. For a long time, I thought he was just a straight-up gay guy. But then when he kept talking about girls and then he got with Angel. That's when I realized he was just a "flexible" guy who didn't care to be labeled, and who saw people as people. That's what makes Papi able to have this convo--he had learned long ago to always put himself in other people's shoes.
Elektra has grown. In Season 1, she was a cold-hearted witch, season 2 and 3 she began to show sides of herself we thought never existed. Thank you writers for this wonderful character development.
That wasn’t shade. That was love speaking. She didn’t dim his star in any way. She readjusted his focus and allowed him to shine brighter and made him stronger. Where it was about those two , Ms. Electra brought the world of support into his view. Shade could never do that as shade only dims and destroys.. Shade is killing our community every chance it get , crumbling it from the inside like a cancer. Shade, gun violence, quick to look down on each other, competing against instead of with all make the light God gave us dimmer each day. Love speaking made that entire conversation strengthens and entire audience. Give love it’s proper due.
As Papi realized, its very common for mothers of brides to pay for the wedding. And that is what this is, this is her family wanting to contribute to help make her dreams come true.
@@pendavis455 Because the wedding is the one of the very few of it kind how many straight men do you know there will probably walk down the street and protect a trans woman in the corner store let alone marry her come on now
That’s the very proof that communication can solve everything Papi expressed his feelings and Elektra tells him their feelings and it all workout. That’s refreshing to see
Papi...was THE MAN. Love that kid, and how he evolved to the end of the show, was incredible...very well-written role for him. And he took it and ran with it. I heard that him and Janet Mock (writer/producer of the show) are a real couple. So, the fact that he's in love with a trans-woman in real life, only adds to how impressive this young man is...a guy who admits that he comes from a culture in the Dominican Republic, that doesn't exactly throw praise at the trans-community.
this isn’t a traditional wedding and they aren’t a traditional couple, so society’s version of a “man” doesn’t even apply. We all have some growing to do and he utilized that conversation to grow a little. It doesn’t have to be so one sided; In a relationship you have a partner and that partner comes with their own fam and baggage, accept all of it and blend well. The 2 will be a lot happier.
I think it was nice that he was willing to see it from Elektra and Blanca's point of view. I don't think it's bad he wanted something intimate between him and Angel their wedding shouldn't have to be a statement for all but if there's a chance for the bride to have her dream wedding take it!!
While he does get a say, ultimately the grooms job is to turn up and let his lady shine. As long as it's within budget and she's not being a bridezilla then let her have her moment.
The LOVE IS THE LOVE IS THE LOVE IS THE LOVE!!! this was beautiful ( most every scene is beautiful to me in all 3 seasons) I love how the character of Papi has grown and evolved. I love how sweetly protective Blanca is. I love how Electra has been gradually yet, "slowly" as she can really put her money to great things. and then she's like: " Ok, enough of feelings !" people like her do have feelings but have learned to keep moving forward. Thanks for posting, and wish it could go on, I am hoping for possible spin offs. Wouldn't it be cool to have the "POSE UNIVERSE" like the Marvel Universe and just keep having all the characters and deeper shows about them and their triumphs? my two cents.
Pose is one of the few series Ryan Murphy didn't get to screw up entirely. Love how most of the main characters have coherent development arcs and have grown to be better people, despite maintaining their signature shenanigans.
All the lose ends are being tied up and inspires a sense of hope, I don’t want some negative depressing crap drama. I just want all of them to have a happy ending.
I love you sooooo much!!! It's the best to show ever!!!!! Why does this have to be ended by three seasons?? Thank you crews of show and actor and across so os hard work!! YOu are the reason why the world is changing in a good way!!1 I love you all!!1
I feel like this goes for anybody, everyone makes it seem like marriage is a common achievement, it’s not. The idea anyone can get married, even the “traditional couple” is often overlooked. When I first watched this I was thinking about me, it’s not so easy getting out there finding the right person. And then thinking about their situation, all those people out there who found each other, but there are other obstacles blocking their road to marriage. And then there’s post marriage maintaining, building a a new life together. I can’t stand that tho, when marriage makes people selfish, and selfless. Like no y’all need to be equally selfish and selfless, this is about the both of you, your ceremony of marriage should reflect what you both wish to achieve together. It should be a statement, those who attend are allies in helping you build.
Pose has made me laugh, cry and Vogue. I thought I wouldn't like it or even be offended by it. But I was wrong. I'll be buying all three seasons. And just to make it official: Elektra is my new Alexis Colby/ Dominique Deveraux.
Lo bueno de la tercera temporada de pose es que fue la última, termino bien a secas, no puedo decir más, sin embargo me hubiese gustado que pose nunca perdiera esa misma escencia que solo tuvo la primera, tan real en casi todos los aspectos.
I think I have to agree with Papi here. He wanted a private wedding and saved up for it. Elektra is doing something nice but still. He's a man and wants to do what a man should do.
@@riveraspen2745 true but this is his wedding as much as it is Angel’s. Grooms aren’t an accessory to a bride. He deserves to have his wishes for his wedding honored as well.
@@atmodlee Nor is the bride an accessory to the groom. She is a trans woman who ALWAYS wanted to be a woman and feel like one to the highest capacity allowed. A beautiful huge wedding would be apart of that equation. They can do both. He's selfish AF because she's not asking him to pay for it. So his pride and arrogance is so much that he can't allow someone else to give someone he loves what she wants?
I think it’s kind of like when parents want to pay for their daughter’s wedding. Elektra is the closest thing that Angel has to a mother (Blanca is more like an older sister in my opinion). I think it’s completely fair for her to want to participate in the ceremony. Papi is still every bit of a man. He’s honestly the best kind of man.
Elektra had her speech READY and we were not disappointed.
My standards are so high because of papi, he’s a real man
Fr he’s the perfect guy 😩
Lol, ok bitter and single 🤣
@@MIS315I’m a year late but sis you r projecting 😂
I love that Papi always listens not just hears but listens and understands and takes in the perspective.
Yes makes him very attractive 😍
@@Period-mw8fw oh yeah 😍😍
i appreciate that they don't make him the abusive or stupid or just emotionally immature like most other Latinos in TV... The season 3 part later on with him and B***o is how i wanna be. Good man
He is so humble & loving while being a strong man & growing!!!
Love Papi 💜💜💜💜💜
The way he said "C'mere. I'm sorry." So genuine.
IKR LOVE PAPI 💜💜💜💜💜
So here's one thing, machismo is a very real thing and LUCKILY Papi isn't as gripped by it as other folks. What helps here is both Elektra and Blanca are aware of this and listen to him like he listens to them. This isn't a right/wrong conversation, it's conversation with 3 adults who know how to listen and understand so they communicate. It's a wonderful thing to see and I'm happy how it ended with a hug and then Elektra being Elektra.
This is such a good explanation.
I agree with you, not too many people can have adult conversations
@@Lc-sh7uk Hear! Hear!🥲
Oh, Papi's machismo had been wrung out of him long ago. If he was a real "macho" in the Latin sense, he would've never hung out with Blanca and her crew. But he didn't care. He joined that crew like it was nothing. For a long time, I thought he was just a straight-up gay guy. But then when he kept talking about girls and then he got with Angel. That's when I realized he was just a "flexible" guy who didn't care to be labeled, and who saw people as people. That's what makes Papi able to have this convo--he had learned long ago to always put himself in other people's shoes.
@@Luboman411he IS bisexual
Elektra has grown. In Season 1, she was a cold-hearted witch, season 2 and 3 she began to show sides of herself we thought never existed. Thank you writers for this wonderful character development.
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Exactly but still keeping the Elektra we fell in love with
Electra found the nicest, shadiest way to say, “THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU, PAPI!”, 🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂
snap...snap...snap... yassss
Periodt! 🤣👰🏾💍💒 lmaooo
That wasn’t shade. That was love speaking. She didn’t dim his star in any way. She readjusted his focus and allowed him to shine brighter and made him stronger. Where it was about those two , Ms. Electra brought the world of support into his view. Shade could never do that as shade only dims and destroys.. Shade is killing our community every chance it get , crumbling it from the inside like a cancer. Shade, gun violence, quick to look down on each other, competing against instead of with all make the light God gave us dimmer each day.
Love speaking made that entire conversation strengthens and entire audience. Give love it’s proper due.
Also Elektra:
“Now, get out of my office.” 🤣
As Papi realized, its very common for mothers of brides to pay for the wedding. And that is what this is, this is her family wanting to contribute to help make her dreams come true.
I am genuinely going to miss this show
me too
Same here
Same here😩☹️
Same 😢
Same! These characters and their stories have touched me more than any show ever did! 🥺💖
Elektra looking unbothered killed me haha
😂😂😂😂right!?! Lol
She had that speech ready sis
Elektra was an entire MOOD!
Kept reading that magazine like "I gotta make time for this?! 🙄🥴 Come in Papi... I guess.' LMFAOOO
🤣🤣🤣LOVE ELECTRA 💜💜💜💜
i love how patient she was with him. you can see how much she changed.
Elektra and Papi’s embrace is the absolute sweetest thing ❤️ She’s the best Glam-Ma for Lil Papi EVER!
Love them both💜💜💜💜💜💜
The girls educated him. He needs to swallow his pride. He means well however, he's young and niave
@ymarrero23 he’s not from spain
ymarrero23 thats what it means
@@anthonym3869 i think they mean Hispanic (when you’re from a country that has spanish speaking origins and people)
How is he naive. That man run a whole business
@@pendavis455 Because the wedding is the one of the very few of it kind how many straight men do you know there will probably walk down the street and protect a trans woman in the corner store let alone marry her come on now
I love how Blanca is like the angry translator to lil Papi
That’s the very proof that communication can solve everything Papi expressed his feelings and Elektra tells him their feelings and it all workout. That’s refreshing to see
Trans woman here. Thank you to the writer and the actors for sending the message! 💔❤️
You’re absolutely stunning mama💯💯❤️❤️😍😍
Selina Kyle.....Like Batman?
Papi...was THE MAN. Love that kid, and how he evolved to the end of the show, was incredible...very well-written role for him. And he took it and ran with it. I heard that him and Janet Mock (writer/producer of the show) are a real couple. So, the fact that he's in love with a trans-woman in real life, only adds to how impressive this young man is...a guy who admits that he comes from a culture in the Dominican Republic, that doesn't exactly throw praise at the trans-community.
I love the woman Elektra has become.
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
It's the "unbotheredness from Elektra while sitting on the chair with a newspaper" for me. There's levels to that.
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
M.J. and Dominique are just drop dead GORGEOUS!
They're soooooo pleasing to the eyes!
This conversation feels genuinely mature and you can understand where both parties come from.
2:12 The hug between Lil papi and Elektra was just heart ❤️ and 😍 beautiful. Like giving him her blessings.
Sir you ain’t think you didn’t have to deal with in laws just cause Angel don’t talk to her real family did you?? 😂
No escape papi🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣🤣🤣Papi gotta deal with the other family 😂😂😂🤣😂
I mean they’re his family already too but I get the joke
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
this isn’t a traditional wedding and they aren’t a traditional couple, so society’s version of a “man” doesn’t even apply. We all have some growing to do and he utilized that conversation to grow a little. It doesn’t have to be so one sided; In a relationship you have a partner and that partner comes with their own fam and baggage, accept all of it and blend well. The 2 will be a lot happier.
Papi has his moment but he always takes time to listen and reflect he learns his lessons and grows from them
Awww this the first time Electra was ever nice
I think it was nice that he was willing to see it from Elektra and Blanca's point of view. I don't think it's bad he wanted something intimate between him and Angel their wedding shouldn't have to be a statement for all but if there's a chance for the bride to have her dream wedding take it!!
While he does get a say, ultimately the grooms job is to turn up and let his lady shine. As long as it's within budget and she's not being a bridezilla then let her have her moment.
@@adelucas4824 yup!!
Pay for the the rice. 😂😂😂😂 even when she trying to be nice she shady.
🤣🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜💜💜💜LOVE ELECTRA
Blanca translating SENT me! 🤣🤣🤣
I love this scene! Papi needed a translator and Elektra was un. phased.
Her generousity really knows no limits.
I just don’t get how a show like this can get cut! I wanted more 😭
It didn’t get cut, they just finished what they wanted to show and tell. The producers and a creator said they didn’t want to over produce the show.
This show always find ways to make me cry
I absolutely love and miss this show. It opened up their world and life like no other and it is missed.🥰🥰🥰
The LOVE IS THE LOVE IS THE LOVE IS THE LOVE!!! this was beautiful ( most every scene is beautiful to me in all 3 seasons) I love how the character of Papi has grown and evolved. I love how sweetly protective Blanca is. I love how Electra has been gradually yet, "slowly" as she can really put her money to great things. and then she's like: " Ok, enough of feelings !" people like her do have feelings but have learned to keep moving forward. Thanks for posting, and wish it could go on, I am hoping for possible spin offs. Wouldn't it be cool to have the "POSE UNIVERSE" like the Marvel Universe and just keep having all the characters and deeper shows about them and their triumphs? my two cents.
That would be awesome!!!!
Pose is one of the few series Ryan Murphy didn't get to screw up entirely. Love how most of the main characters have coherent development arcs and have grown to be better people, despite maintaining their signature shenanigans.
This was such a beautiful and healthy conversation
I know! The way they respected each other...
We need one more season 🥰
I need ten
YES!!!!
Captain Save a Hoe gets me everytime 🤣
“Tryna to make me look like a fuCKIN BUM!” Killlllllssss me every time I hear it
Elektra will become one of those unforgettable characters that we talk about in 50 years.
I feel like Elektra would give the best hugs, but you reallllly have to earn it and you aren’t getting a real hug for no reason
Papi is the best i love him. But look at Electra using her wealth for good.
LOVE IT!!!….LOVE PAPI…ELECTRA & BLANCA💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
All the lose ends are being tied up and inspires a sense of hope, I don’t want some negative depressing crap drama. I just want all of them to have a happy ending.
I love you sooooo much!!! It's the best to show ever!!!!! Why does this have to be ended by three seasons?? Thank you crews of show and actor and across so os hard work!! YOu are the reason why the world is changing in a good way!!1 I love you all!!1
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
New to this show i cant believe it stopped running.. this show means a lot to me.
"Captain Save a Ho"🤣🤣
The “it’s admirable” always gets me , I love Electra 😂
I just love Electra so much. She said, now get out if my office.
0:06 I love Blanca soften translation
I am so going to miss this show
ME TO😢
I feel like this goes for anybody, everyone makes it seem like marriage is a common achievement, it’s not. The idea anyone can get married, even the “traditional couple” is often overlooked. When I first watched this I was thinking about me, it’s not so easy getting out there finding the right person. And then thinking about their situation, all those people out there who found each other, but there are other obstacles blocking their road to marriage. And then there’s post marriage maintaining, building a a new life together.
I can’t stand that tho, when marriage makes people selfish, and selfless. Like no y’all need to be equally selfish and selfless, this is about the both of you, your ceremony of marriage should reflect what you both wish to achieve together. It should be a statement, those who attend are allies in helping you build.
Electra is everything !
still sad it had to end we need this show now more than ever before
Technically, Elektra is a grandma to Papi.
Elektra is such a Mom! ❤❤❤
LOVE HER!!!💜💜💜💜💜
Papi facial expressions are hilarious
IKR LOVE PAPI 💜💜💜💜💜
The way I can listen to papi talk all day long.
Can we get into Elektra waitin on Blanca to explain before she let all hell break loose🙈🙈🙈
🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is why I love papi ❤
I am going to miss this show
SAME 😢💜💜💜💜
Think it’s safe to say that we all LOVED Papi 😍❤❤❤❤❤
Ryan murphy doesn't believe in age makeup. Getting older just means bigger hair.
😂 💀
Okay I'm gonna watch Pose again
Elecktra be so unbothered 😂😂😂 her face in the beginning
Beyond amazing
I miss damon!
Papi is so dreamy ❤️
Aww sweetest moment xx
2 mothers coming together to teach the child ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I missed this show already 😫😫😫😫 I going to have to watch the reruns
Same
Your marriage our wedding in the nicest way
Captain Save a Ho. 🤣🤣🤣
Wise words in the real life... Bravo👏👏👏
The lighting in this made papi look like he's a recovering drug addict in real life 🤣
Pose has made me laugh, cry and Vogue. I thought I wouldn't like it or even be offended by it. But I was wrong. I'll be buying all three seasons. And just to make it official: Elektra is my new Alexis Colby/ Dominique Deveraux.
That man is so beautiful
Ikr, where do I get one haha😊
Love that part!👌
Why am I getting this notification now?? I’ve watched the episode like 10x since it aired.
Great moments I cried so bad
GRAND muvah ( Elektra knows best)
YAAAAS💜💜💜💜💜
Not to change the topic but MJ’s waist is SNATTTCCCHHHED
I 💕💕😘💕💕💕😘💕 the film is beautiful you are amazing thank you I appreciate you so much
I need a spinoff. 💯
I love u electra
I love her also 💜💜💜💜💜
I need me a papii 🥺🥺
ME TO!!!!
What does Papi say at the minute 1:35 ? Non native speaker here :/
Yo I don’t even think our wedding matters to us as much as everyone else
So the wardrobe team decided they didnt live in the 80/90s anymore and jumped straight into 2010s? Ok 👍
I fkn luv it
That Electra is TALL!
she's 6'1
Everybody else gets to live in a wolrd of maybe, but us we live in a world of never going to happen 😢😢😢
Wait the new season is out and already ep 5
Papi is fine AF 😍
Indeed he is💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love papi
I love the height difference lol
Awwww
Elecktra was right on this one.
You really hear Electras trini accent come out here
Lo bueno de la tercera temporada de pose es que fue la última, termino bien a secas, no puedo decir más, sin embargo me hubiese gustado que pose nunca perdiera esa misma escencia que solo tuvo la primera, tan real en casi todos los aspectos.
You’re not “excluded” from being happy just because straight men don’t wanna marry you.
That's not what she meant gay marriage was still illegal in the 80s their was no weeding period not matter who was the groom and who was the bride
I think I have to agree with Papi here. He wanted a private wedding and saved up for it. Elektra is doing something nice but still. He's a man and wants to do what a man should do.
He isn't a trans woman so he should humble himself.
@@riveraspen2745 true but this is his wedding as much as it is Angel’s. Grooms aren’t an accessory to a bride. He deserves to have his wishes for his wedding honored as well.
@@atmodlee Nor is the bride an accessory to the groom. She is a trans woman who ALWAYS wanted to be a woman and feel like one to the highest capacity allowed. A beautiful huge wedding would be apart of that equation. They can do both. He's selfish AF because she's not asking him to pay for it. So his pride and arrogance is so much that he can't allow someone else to give someone he loves what she wants?
@@atmodlee They're not equally yoked and don't belong together. He wants to cage a butterfly? How does that work?
I think it’s kind of like when parents want to pay for their daughter’s wedding. Elektra is the closest thing that Angel has to a mother (Blanca is more like an older sister in my opinion).
I think it’s completely fair for her to want to participate in the ceremony. Papi is still every bit of a man. He’s honestly the best kind of man.