You don't have to be a cat person to be sad about Molly. You're an ANIMAL person, and you love them all. You're a sweetheart I hope she shows back up. ❤
I'm so sorry, Morgan. Can I just say I'm proud of you for feeling your feelings? Don't apologize for loving your animals. It's all good. Molly was loved and beloved (and will continue to be if she returns, or where ever she's gone). She won't be forgotten!
Take it from a cat person who grew up in the country, cats are tough, resilient and curious! They get themselves in all sorts of predicaments. I believe Molly and Jenny were rescues, but you gave them the opportunity to be real cats all the while providing a good home and healthcare. I pray she comes strolling up and rubbing up against your leg very soon. My vet told me animals know when they've been rescued; she knows where home is. A missing cat is a real heartbreak. Hang in there my friend. I'm shedding tears too
I hope she returns safe and sound! I have 3 outside cats. They have been with me for 3 years now. Sometimes they go on a walk about but always return. .
If she is okay she will be back. Dear Heavenly Father bring Molly back home. If she is stuck in anything, free her Jesus so she can go home. He needs you now Jesus to help Molly. In Jesus name Amen
Morgan-in 1989, I had a barn cat go missing for over a month. He was actually being housed a few miles away, and the posters/notices I put out actually DID lead to us getting him back. Only you know whats best for you (i.e. hold onto hope, or instead, as painful as it will be, to somehow move on). Just know that the prayers of many thousands of your viewers are with you...💔🙏😭
Which more or less didn't exist in 1989, love. 😜Also, even modern chipping does not work like GPS or a tracker. It doesn't tell you where the animal *is.*
You may say you are not a cat person, but you are defenitly a animal lover person. Therefore, no matter which animal you'll have close to you, you will always love the animal like it's a family member. Stay strong my friend ❤
You are a complicated guy. You think nothing of confronting bear hunters on your land, but moved to tears over your missing cat. I admire that. You protect what's yours. I hope Molly comes back. Just wondering is so stressful. I hope for a good outcome.❤
I had a cat missing for over two months. Our neighbours across the street saw her regularly according to what they told us. We finally got her back after my mom hunted her down in the bushes. She's been outdoor cat before and after the incident, and lived healthy 15 years. Sending lots of love and hope she'll be back to you soon
I feel for you, Morgan. Never apologize for the genuine feelings you have. It’s what makes you the caring soul we all enjoy listening to. We lost our cat Bea this spring after an illness, and I still feel that hole in my life.
As someone who has had cats for years it is hardest when they disappear and you never get to say goodbye. Years on I still think about that cat and hope that he found a new home. Support sent from New Zealand.
yeah, my old cat went missing one day. 2 weeks later I saw him walking past my front door with another cat. Got out some treats for them both, picked him up, and he started purring as I carried him back inside :) Sadly he died going on 3 years ago, still miss the old bugger. See his friend roaming the neighbourhood at times to this date.
@@jwentingmy freinds cat that i was pet sitting escapped and went for a walk for 2 days and then came strolling down the driveways with fleas which he infected my cat with lol
A lot of times they are held by a neighbor who thinks the cat is homeless. Or the neighbors start feeding them delectable tasty treats. Happens all the time.
My cat jumped off a second floor balcony. After a week of looking I got desperate and started calling his name out into the bushy field a few hundred feet from the apartment. Almost immediately I heard a meow. He was happy to play Marco Polo when called but not actually come out. Kept calling and I finally figured out where he was and took him home. He seemed quite content besides being covered with pine sap!
Our cat princess went missing for a full month. We had no clue where she went. She's an outside cat and knows her way around the neighborhood, so we don't think she just got lost. She eventually showed up, much skinnier, but relieved to see us. I hope Molly shows up too!!!!
I had two (neutered males) barn cat for almost 18 years. Occasionally one would disappear for days, sometimes weeks. Just when we would be ready to give up, they would show up. I pray she shows up safe and healthy.
Don't get bummed out Morgan! Just try to be aware that you are experiencing situational depression and don't let it feed off itself. I wouldn't get too worried about Molly yet. I remember growing up that some of our farm cats would go galavanting about the neighborhood and come back a month later. You have the right instinct to hang out around the animals that give you comfort and joy. You got this!
Morgan, go out in the wee hours, when things are really quiet, to call for her. Walk alongside the road, too, calling her, because if she was injured like Lil, she can hear you and respond. Cats are very resilient. Keep hoping. Best wishes for her safe return.
It's not about being a cat person. It's about being a person who loves the other souls in their life. It is a loss. Don't apologize for feeling the loss of this little soul that you love. Just so sorry she is missing. Hope she comes home or you at least find out what happened to her. Take care. ❤🧡💛
I think it's reasonable to hold out hope for a bit longer. As some other folks have said, cats can still show up weeks after they've been seen last. In any case, my heart goes out to you. Take your time and thank you for sharing this very difficult update from the farm with us. And God bless Ginny for trying to cheer you up. :)
I hope Molly is just off on a cat holiday and she returns to the farm. I pray she’s ok 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Keep your hopes up. I know the feeling I love my fur baby like he’s my child.
My cat went missing for 2 weeks. Don't lose hope just yet. Don't think it's unhealthy to have hope after a few days. It's amazing how resilient they are
My parents had a farm with several outdoor strays that were inadvertently adopted. One of these cats, about a 4 year old went missing for 3 months and returned. She was skinny and we don't know what happened. We had looked, put up flyers, asked neighbors but after several weeks we had chalked it up to either getting hit by a car, stolen by someone, or taken by a predator. Could not find her. And she returned on her own. Don't give up hope yet.
You might've already done this but scour your forests and make sure she wasn't chased up a tree. I've seen so many stories of cats getting chased up high into trees by predators and not being able to get back down. I'm so sorry Morgan, I really really hope she shows back up!
That’s a good idea. Cats typically can’t get down as they have to go backwards to get down, and that is against their instincts. I’m sure he has called and looked everywhere, but I’ve even had cats get stuck in nooks under stairs and walls! They do seem to find the most precarious of predicaments!
We had a mouser go missing for a month. Black , non descript in the city. She came home very weak and cried like a baby. We figured she went into our neighbor’s garage while they went on vacation. We had given up hope, but she recovered and lived for many 9years! Don’t give up.
The first Gold Shaw Farm video I watched was when Molly and Ginny arrived at the farm - now, almost 2 years later, I feel a profound loss for a cat who I've never seen and who lives on a different continent. Sorry for your loss Morgan.
Hey Morgan! My grandma had a huge "garden area" ouside of the City with hickens, meat chickens, rabbits 2 watchdogs and multiple barn cats, much like Pablo, Molly and Ginny. I loved them so much and always played with them, even slept with them up in the hayloft. For years they lived their independent lives and always came running when called for feeding time or otherwise until....one didnt show up...in the summer some had a litter of kittens but some just never came back....I was so distrought by that fact. My heart bled over the loss of a beloved pet. I think the hardest about it is that we dont know what happened so we can have closure. I cant tell you how to make this better but know that you gave them love affection, always feed and water and most of all freedom to live as a cat should by its nature! I`m sorry...hugs from Germany
So ❤true. Cats without the support of humans and a good base live only from a year to 5 years the farm cats been known to live 5 to more. Mine till 12 and 17.
So sorry Molly is missing, Morgan. The way you love every one of your animals, especially your coworkers, when you know you could lose them, is so incredibly amazing. You have such a big heart.
Don’t loose hope, sometimes they come back a week or 2 later, even a month later. Cats are mysterious creatures. Thank you for being vulnerable with us!
I am worh you. I am a cat lady and have had many cats in my 78 years on this planet. I know the pain and worry of a dear fur friend. Hopefully, Molly is OK. 💞
My family lost a beloved farm cat. Months later, they were visiting a neighbor, and there she was, parked on the front steps, happy with her new family. She showed up one day and stayed.
One of my barn cats went missing for so long I gave up looking. Then one day there she was. She was clearly brushed and smelled like laundry detergent or someone’s house smell. The neighbors had her the whole time! Hope you find her. This type of thing is the hard part of farming ❤
I am a cat person, so I know the emotions you are going thru when a cat goes missing. ( currently I have 8 - some former barn cats) Many times I've walked the neighborhood calling the MIA cat but then I just pray and wait til they show up. Most come back but some have not. One was gone for 2 weeks and showed up with a leg torn up down to the tendons. His leg did eventually heal with vet care and he lived a long life.
My guy was missing for 7 months before he finally came home! I never thought I'd see him again but cats are crazy resilient! There is a chance she may never come back, true...but there is still a possibility that she could. *Hugs*
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I appreciate that you were willing to share with all of us. It's never easy to lose loved ones, and yes, even animals are loved ones. I hope your journey through grieving goes well.
From experience, I can testify that even for the most realistic of us pet owners, when they go missing, it's the not knowing that is the hardest part. And, having had cats for most of my life, I can also assure you that not even indoor cats are immune from unexplained dissapearance. Condolences on your grief.
It is incredible how important animals can be to so many people, especially house pets but even "working animals" like barn cats. Morgan, we who vicariously experience life on your farm through your videos, are feeling your pain, too. Fingers crossed that Molly is okay and comes back to you soon. If that doesn't happen, just know that you won't be alone in your grief.
I have many cats and I have been through this alot..all my prayers goes out to you I can understand this gut-wrenching feeling. I prayed for you I hope she returns sadely Ameen 🤲😢
I'm so sorry Morgan, my heart absolutely breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and never apologize for them. I hope she does show up. Our hearts are with you.
I'm so sorry that Molly is missing. I've know many barn cats from my lifetime around horse barns. They are very special creatures. They spend part of their lives as companions to their humans, and a time independent, living the way their wild ancestors did hunting for prey. There are always risks, and sometimes they are lost, but most barn cats have good lives (even if some are shortened)...... I had a cat missing for a week, and when I found her she was trapped in a place where she couldn't get out on her own. I'm sure you already have, but it's worth checking neighbors' shed's and out buildings..... I hope your beloved Molly returns home soon.
We’re in the early-stages of grief too, at the moment. It’s tough….but you have SO MANY sources of joy around you. Don’t let yourself go down that dark hole.
Losing a pet can be such a massive gut punch. These cute little furry creatures sure have an ability to wiggle their way into our hearts. Just remember, though it's hard now, the love will outlast the pain. Stay strong. ❤
I had a cat go missing for two weeks once, then appeared at the door one day like nothing happened. He seemed genuinely confused at my surprise that he came back. I genuinely hope Molly returns sooner rather than later. ❤❤❤
I'm sorry for your sadness, Morgan. You have given me so much, letting me into your worlds of farming and life. You bring joy and happiness to so many people with your videos containing stories and experiences with all your fascinating surroundings. So many times I've been at work and looked forward to getting out and seeing one of your new videos. I hope that Molly comes back and this gets resolved. If not, please know and understand that you do not have more than 829,000 members because you are an average farmer. You, my friend, have an amazing farm, wonderful animals, and so many wild and great stories to tell. Peace always, Morgan.
My heart really aches for you and the whole Gold Shaw farms family Morgan. 💙 I really relate to you at moments like this. Im a man who is a huge animal lover(especially cats), and im also a very sensitive individual. I really hope Molly turns up safe and sound. 🙏
Don’t give up hope too soon, Morgan. I had a cat that escaped and was gone for 2 WEEKS, he eventually came back and all was well. I’m sorry you’re going through this and that you’re able to recover soon no matter the outcome.
I lost both of my cats within the last two years. The love we have for our animals is what makes us better humans! Memories can help. I'm so glad I got my purple Molly Murder Mittens shirt, so I will always have a memory of her.
I think there’s many of us out here grieving with you and for you Morgan. You are one very special person. The barn cats, including Lil, are important to the farm & yours especially have rich & happy lives. Fingers crossed Molly finds her way home.🤞🤞🤞
I would give you a hug if I could. I also get the feeling Toby and Abby can tell you need comfort. They seemed pretty good about coming in for some pets while they do their doggy things.
Oh Morgan, you are such a soft heart and care so much about all of the little lives on your farm. The love you have for all the critters in your care is so apparent in your videos, I really hope that you can find closure in Molly's disappearance, for better or worse. With barn cats - they can be so bratty. They might be missing a year and then you go to visit a neighbor and you see her waltzing through their barn like nothing happened. She's a smart barn kitty, it could be that one of your neighbors fed her some nice tuna ;) Hoping for you to break out of that depression soon.
The last time one of my cats went missing it took me two years to shake the worst of my grief. And I still hope, hope, hope... I wish for you that Molly turns up safe and sound. 🍀🍀🍀
You're a good man. Don't give up on Molly. Cats can show up weeks or months later. She could very well be ok. Loving your cats is worth it. Even when the inevitable loss happens at some point. Loving them and bonding with them is worth that pain. Don't ever stop caring for them. Consider GPS trackers for your other kitties to help ya in the future. Wishing you the best
Don't give up hope on Molly Murder Mittens. I do appreciate your love of the cats and dogs. Losing a pet is so hard. My cat went missing last night for 4 hrs and I was a nervous wreck. If you haven't already done so, walk your property calling her name, shake some treats, leave a piece of your clothing out so she can get the scent. I pray for the best.
I admire your vulnerability. I didn't cry once when our cat went missing in 2020. I was too embarrassed. But inside I was really torn up. I still tear up thinking about him. I haven't wanted another cat since.
The worst when a cat is missing is the not knowing. Even if you find they have passed away…at least you know & have some closure. Sometimes always having that grain of hope is devastating. I hope you find out what’s happened to her, for the best or worst x
We all knew you were a "cat person." So it makes all the sense in the world that you would feel this way. It must have been one of the most difficult videos you have ever done for all of us. The foggy sky there was a telling of your spirit. Of the many things we adore about you is your genuine affection for your animals (family members) and the way you openly share with us. Thanks for the farm animal moments of zen, even when you are hurting. Tell Ginny to keep up the humorous moments. Prayers are being sent your way.
You are an incredible person and Mollie was loved beyond measure. Our pets are our family and losing them is brutal. Thanks for sharing the hard times too. It is so relatable and what makes this channel special.
I'm so sorry! I too lost one of my cats a couple months ago. He was 15yrs old and my snuggle night time cat. My heart still aches and it's been the worst grief. Just try to remember the good times. Mother Nature is harsh and you're a great Cat dad! Don't feel bad.. you're doing great as a farmer and it's nice to see you show real emotions! Thank you for sharing and Big Hugs!
You may want to look in bushes close to where she likes to rest. Or in bushes or growth close to where the road meets your driveway. I found our parking lot cat at work after he was injured in some bushes where he would rest during day. After that, and an emergency vet visit, he came home with me. I was hesitant to bring him prior home due to our little terror of a terrier but it worked out. Prayers for both you and Molly.
Thank you Morgan, for sharing your pain and being so honest about what you have been going through. Grief is such a difficult emotion to handle and I am so sorry you are going through this ❤. We all love Molly and are with you in spirit during this time. I don't think there is such a thing as a cat or dog person just people who love their animals and that's clearly what you are. Take the time you need.
Oh...Morgan...this feels so sad. Learning that she may be injured & needs your help, but can't be found or has died, is heartbreaking. You gave her a wonderful life. Her kingdom was among deep New England woods & sunny fields with long views. There's even a new barn to explore. If she could, she'd come home. She lived peacefully & was enriched by feeling loved & as a result, she experienced belonging. There among humans & many other animals she lived her best life as your beloved barn cat. I'm still holding out hope. Pets can hide when feeling pain, and return when & if they can..
Sorry for you brother. It’s always difficult loosing a friend on the homestead. The logical side of us acknowledges they are just an animal, but thankfully we are not just logical, we can love care and have compassion for creatures that are in our care.
This sums up my own thoughts best. Acknowledging our loss is acknowledging our love. It’s better to have loved and lost, than to not have loved at all. Edit: trying to find a song: music always helps me best. Here’s “The things we lost in the fire”. It’s not nearly sad enough though. Maybe it’s time to revisit some Gregory Brothers versions of Sad Happy Songs… (or was it Happy Sad Songs?) (I hate when TH-cam deletes my comment after editing, simply because I put a link in it).
Sending some comfort your way. It took me months to stop stepping over the spot at the bottom of the stairs every morning. That's where my dog used to sleep.
Check that she isn't locked in something, boxes, bins, rooms, walls, cars, trucks. Would Toby and Abby look for her if you asked them to ? Check the neighbors, local vets, rescues, ditches. Maybe walk Toby through the roadside woods.
Morgan I'm so sorry about Molly being missing. Whenever something happens with our pets it's devastating and you have no reason to apologize or feel the need to "act normal" when you're going through a tough time. I'm praying Molly returns home safe and sound and that you and your family will find some semblance of peace during this time ❤
So sorry, Morgan. Our animals are family, especially for those of us without children. I know there's no closure when something like this happens and I'm hoping you're able to get some. Sending love and comfort. ❤️
I've had a cat that went missing for weeks multiple times he always came back, one time he had a very injured leg when he returned and another time it had been negative temps for weeks and one day he just showed back up. Sometimes cats just need to hold up some where until they get well enough to return. Hope she's still out there.
Not ashamed to admit I cried throughout this one. I hold out hope that you’ll see Molly Murder Mittens again, because when it comes to missing cats you never know. You may not have thought of yourself as a “Cat Guy,” Morgan, but there’s no shame in recognizing how much your barn cats and livestock guardian dogs mean to you. They ARE family, as much as they’re also a necessary part of the farm ecology. Losing a family member hurts a whole lot, and there’s nothing wrong with expressing that grief in all it’s messy, snotty nature. I honor Molly’s wonderful life in hope of hearing better news soon; If she’s truly crossed the Rainbow Bridge then I send her all my love and know my Myst and Kes will be meeting her on the other side❤️😭💜🌈
I wouldn't throw in the towel after 4 days and especially since she took a few-day-jaunt this summer :) 4 days missing for a barn cat is a union-scheduled break. She probably found another house/farm that she got fed at when she went on her last jaunt and its become her vacation home!
Dude I am really sorry to hear about your missing cat. I want to tell you however that you did a great job of having the visuals reflect your mood. Absolutely fabulous!
Prayers for you Morgan and Molly Murder Mittens. It’s tough losing a pet, let alone not knowing how or why. Thank you for sharing your full self. It’s okay to not be 100% cheerful all the time when you’re going through a mix of emotions. It’s hard right now. Do what you feel you need to do.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please don’t worry about making small talk; I hope Molly turns up after just having an Explore around the area. Have you checked the animal shelters and vets in the area? She’s friendly so maybe someone picked her up.
As a fellow Molly, with the only shirt being a Molly shirt, I hope she’s okay. I hope she comes back and even with a four day leave of absence she wins barn cat of the year two years in a row. Normally cats are closer than you think but sometimes hide if they’re slightly injured, hopefully she comes home and asks for help. Have you checked local vets/shelters? Good luck Morgan.
😭*hugs* I’m so sorry. I lost 2 cats in less than 6 months. One to age (Mr. Flea) and one to cancer (Hina). Now only Kahli the Destroyer remains. I know how much it hurts. I’m still hoping she’ll come back for you.
My heart goes out to you. There is nothing worse than a beloved animal simply going missing. To this day I can clearly see my lbestest kitty walking out my back door and that was the last time I saw my dear sweet Phiss Kitty. Heartbreaking!
Morgan, thank you for sharing with us your farm chore day, and the news about Molly. Please keep this hope in your heart, don't give up. Sweet Molly truly knows the love you, and your wife have for her. Notify your neighbors, place your posters, put notices up locally on Facebook, and at the vets office, and notify the local human society (animal control).
I have a few barn cats also. And the one that has been missing for the last couple of days looks nearly identical to Molly. Anyway mine disappeared for two weeks a few months ago when a new tomcat showed up. Even before he showed up she’s been skittish around the other cats because she’s so small. I have feed her about a hundred yards away from the others. Prayers for both of our barn cats show up safe and sound. 🙏
I let my sweet kitty out for his nightly prowl 14 years ago and haven't seen him since. I take solace in knowing he lived a happy life that was a little bit dangerous, but that's what he wanted. Also, it may be time to admit that you've become a cat person. It happens to the best of us. ❤
I’m so sorry. I grew up on a farm and had barn cats. The hardest part when one is missing is the not knowing if they are hurt and you can’t find them or if they are gone. Not easy either way. I pray she returns soon.
I really hope Molly returns home soon. I know it’s not the same without her on your farm. And it breaks my heart not seeing her in your recent videos. I have high hopes for her return. I will have Molly in my thoughts everyday. She knows where her home is & hopefully she will be running home to you soon! 💙
Thank you for always being real and sharing all your emotions whether good or bad. Man, I could feel your heartache for Miss Molly. This was a beautiful video of the farm animals and the music was perfect. May you find comfort in your family/coworkers. Much love to all. ❤
They need to have a "This sucks and I hate what is happening, but I hope things work out and I want to support you" button.
Yeah, it doesn't feel right to hit the like button on this one.
Thank you Ligidi for saying what is in my heart.
Well said!
take time to grieve then every other animal on your farm needs your hugs
@Ligidi-Hands down, the BEST comment of this video...
You don't have to be a cat person to be sad about Molly. You're an ANIMAL person, and you love them all. You're a sweetheart I hope she shows back up. ❤
I'm so sorry, Morgan. Can I just say I'm proud of you for feeling your feelings? Don't apologize for loving your animals. It's all good. Molly was loved and beloved (and will continue to be if she returns, or where ever she's gone). She won't be forgotten!
Take it from a cat person who grew up in the country, cats are tough, resilient and curious! They get themselves in all sorts of predicaments. I believe Molly and Jenny were rescues, but you gave them the opportunity to be real cats all the while providing a good home and healthcare. I pray she comes strolling up and rubbing up against your leg very soon. My vet told me animals know when they've been rescued; she knows where home is. A missing cat is a real heartbreak. Hang in there my friend. I'm shedding tears too
I hope she returns safe and sound! I have 3 outside cats. They have been with me for 3 years now. Sometimes they go on a walk about but always return. .
One of my cats was gone for 30 days and she came back!
You are a big hearted man Mr G. My deepest sympathy for missing fur babies.
I hope she comes back, it is a sad fact but sometimes cats go when they feel it is time to go over the rainbow bridge, not all do this but some do..
If she is okay she will be back. Dear Heavenly Father bring Molly back home. If she is stuck in anything, free her Jesus so she can go home. He needs you now Jesus to help Molly. In Jesus name Amen
Morgan-in 1989, I had a barn cat go missing for over a month. He was actually being housed a few miles away, and the posters/notices I put out actually DID lead to us getting him back. Only you know whats best for you (i.e. hold onto hope, or instead, as painful as it will be, to somehow move on). Just know that the prayers of many thousands of your viewers are with you...💔🙏😭
This is why you should chip your animals.
Which more or less didn't exist in 1989, love. 😜Also, even modern chipping does not work like GPS or a tracker. It doesn't tell you where the animal *is.*
do not go gentle into that good night rage rage against the dying of the light
You may say you are not a cat person, but you are defenitly a animal lover person. Therefore, no matter which animal you'll have close to you, you will always love the animal like it's a family member. Stay strong my friend ❤
You are a complicated guy. You think nothing of confronting bear hunters on your land, but moved to tears over your missing cat. I admire that. You protect what's yours. I hope Molly comes back. Just wondering is so stressful. I hope for a good outcome.❤
What's complicated about that? Oo "Hey, I don't want you to hunt on my property without my permission" vs "A beloved friend of mine is lost"
So sorry, Morgan. Praying she comes back.
Sweet that Ginny gave you (and us) a momentary laugh.
do not go gentle into that good night rage rage against the dying of the light
I had a cat missing for over two months. Our neighbours across the street saw her regularly according to what they told us. We finally got her back after my mom hunted her down in the bushes. She's been outdoor cat before and after the incident, and lived healthy 15 years. Sending lots of love and hope she'll be back to you soon
I feel for you, Morgan. Never apologize for the genuine feelings you have. It’s what makes you the caring soul we all enjoy listening to. We lost our cat Bea this spring after an illness, and I still feel that hole in my life.
As someone who has had cats for years it is hardest when they disappear and you never get to say goodbye. Years on I still think about that cat and hope that he found a new home. Support sent from New Zealand.
Missing cats are usually closer to home than folks think. Good luck finding her.
yeah, my old cat went missing one day. 2 weeks later I saw him walking past my front door with another cat. Got out some treats for them both, picked him up, and he started purring as I carried him back inside :)
Sadly he died going on 3 years ago, still miss the old bugger.
See his friend roaming the neighbourhood at times to this date.
@@jwentingmy freinds cat that i was pet sitting escapped and went for a walk for 2 days and then came strolling down the driveways with fleas which he infected my cat with lol
A lot of times they are held by a neighbor who thinks the cat is homeless. Or the neighbors start feeding them delectable tasty treats. Happens all the time.
My cat jumped off a second floor balcony. After a week of looking I got desperate and started calling his name out into the bushy field a few hundred feet from the apartment. Almost immediately I heard a meow. He was happy to play Marco Polo when called but not actually come out. Kept calling and I finally figured out where he was and took him home. He seemed quite content besides being covered with pine sap!
This saddens me 😢
No need to apologize for being worried about molly we totally understand shes family I do hope shes safe and comes home soon hugs
Our cat princess went missing for a full month. We had no clue where she went. She's an outside cat and knows her way around the neighborhood, so we don't think she just got lost. She eventually showed up, much skinnier, but relieved to see us. I hope Molly shows up too!!!!
I had two (neutered males) barn cat for almost 18 years. Occasionally one would disappear for days, sometimes weeks. Just when we would be ready to give up, they would show up. I pray she shows up safe and healthy.
Don't get bummed out Morgan! Just try to be aware that you are experiencing situational depression and don't let it feed off itself. I wouldn't get too worried about Molly yet. I remember growing up that some of our farm cats would go galavanting about the neighborhood and come back a month later. You have the right instinct to hang out around the animals that give you comfort and joy. You got this!
I know this video was probably really hard to edit, we are sending you peace and hopefully Molly shows up ❤we all know how much you love your animals
No apologies necessary. I lost my dog 2 years ago and I still cry often over his loss. I do hope Molly shows up. We all love her.
Morgan, go out in the wee hours, when things are really quiet, to call for her. Walk alongside the road, too, calling her, because if she was injured like Lil, she can hear you and respond. Cats are very resilient. Keep hoping. Best wishes for her safe return.
It's not about being a cat person. It's about being a person who loves the other souls in their life. It is a loss. Don't apologize for feeling the loss of this little soul that you love. Just so sorry she is missing. Hope she comes home or you at least find out what happened to her. Take care. ❤🧡💛
I think it's reasonable to hold out hope for a bit longer. As some other folks have said, cats can still show up weeks after they've been seen last. In any case, my heart goes out to you. Take your time and thank you for sharing this very difficult update from the farm with us. And God bless Ginny for trying to cheer you up. :)
I hope Molly is just off on a cat holiday and she returns to the farm. I pray she’s ok 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Keep your hopes up. I know the feeling I love my fur baby like he’s my child.
My cat went missing for 2 weeks.
Don't lose hope just yet. Don't think it's unhealthy to have hope after a few days.
It's amazing how resilient they are
My parents had a farm with several outdoor strays that were inadvertently adopted. One of these cats, about a 4 year old went missing for 3 months and returned. She was skinny and we don't know what happened. We had looked, put up flyers, asked neighbors but after several weeks we had chalked it up to either getting hit by a car, stolen by someone, or taken by a predator. Could not find her. And she returned on her own.
Don't give up hope yet.
Thank you for sharing this, hopefully it’s the same case 😢
You might've already done this but scour your forests and make sure she wasn't chased up a tree. I've seen so many stories of cats getting chased up high into trees by predators and not being able to get back down. I'm so sorry Morgan, I really really hope she shows back up!
That’s a good idea. Cats typically can’t get down as they have to go backwards to get down, and that is against their instincts. I’m sure he has called and looked everywhere, but I’ve even had cats get stuck in nooks under stairs and walls! They do seem to find the most precarious of predicaments!
We had a mouser go missing for a month. Black , non descript in the city. She came home very weak and cried like a baby. We figured she went into our neighbor’s garage while they went on vacation. We had given up hope, but she recovered and lived for many 9years! Don’t give up.
The first Gold Shaw Farm video I watched was when Molly and Ginny arrived at the farm - now, almost 2 years later, I feel a profound loss for a cat who I've never seen and who lives on a different continent. Sorry for your loss Morgan.
Hey Morgan! My grandma had a huge "garden area" ouside of the City with hickens, meat chickens, rabbits 2 watchdogs and multiple barn cats, much like Pablo, Molly and Ginny. I loved them so much and always played with them, even slept with them up in the hayloft. For years they lived their independent lives and always came running when called for feeding time or otherwise until....one didnt show up...in the summer some had a litter of kittens but some just never came back....I was so distrought by that fact. My heart bled over the loss of a beloved pet. I think the hardest about it is that we dont know what happened so we can have closure. I cant tell you how to make this better but know that you gave them love affection, always feed and water and most of all freedom to live as a cat should by its nature! I`m sorry...hugs from Germany
So ❤true. Cats without the support of humans and a good base live only from a year to 5 years the farm cats been known to live 5 to more. Mine till 12 and 17.
So sorry Molly is missing, Morgan. The way you love every one of your animals, especially your coworkers, when you know you could lose them, is so incredibly amazing. You have such a big heart.
Don’t loose hope, sometimes they come back a week or 2 later, even a month later. Cats are mysterious creatures. Thank you for being vulnerable with us!
I am worh you. I am a cat lady and have had many cats in my 78 years on this planet. I know the pain and worry of a dear fur friend. Hopefully, Molly is OK. 💞
My family lost a beloved farm cat. Months later, they were visiting a neighbor, and there she was, parked on the front steps, happy with her new family. She showed up one day and stayed.
Yep... cats do what they want. That's for sure.
One of my barn cats went missing for so long I gave up looking. Then one day there she was. She was clearly brushed and smelled like laundry detergent or someone’s house smell. The neighbors had her the whole time! Hope you find her. This type of thing is the hard part of farming ❤
I am a cat person, so I know the emotions you are going thru when a cat goes missing. ( currently I have 8 - some former barn cats) Many times I've walked the neighborhood calling the MIA cat but then I just pray and wait til they show up. Most come back but some have not. One was gone for 2 weeks and showed up with a leg torn up down to the tendons. His leg did eventually heal with vet care and he lived a long life.
My guy was missing for 7 months before he finally came home! I never thought I'd see him again but cats are crazy resilient! There is a chance she may never come back, true...but there is still a possibility that she could. *Hugs*
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I appreciate that you were willing to share with all of us. It's never easy to lose loved ones, and yes, even animals are loved ones. I hope your journey through grieving goes well.
From experience, I can testify that even for the most realistic of us pet owners, when they go missing, it's the not knowing that is the hardest part. And, having had cats for most of my life, I can also assure you that not even indoor cats are immune from unexplained dissapearance. Condolences on your grief.
Yes, the not knowing is the worst.
It is incredible how important animals can be to so many people, especially house pets but even "working animals" like barn cats. Morgan, we who vicariously experience life on your farm through your videos, are feeling your pain, too. Fingers crossed that Molly is okay and comes back to you soon. If that doesn't happen, just know that you won't be alone in your grief.
Thank you for your honesty, it is awful when animals go missing, praying for safe return of Molly Murder Mittens 🐱
I have many cats and I have been through this alot..all my prayers goes out to you I can understand this gut-wrenching feeling. I prayed for you I hope she returns sadely Ameen 🤲😢
I'm so sorry Morgan, my heart absolutely breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and never apologize for them. I hope she does show up. Our hearts are with you.
I'm so sorry that Molly is missing. I've know many barn cats from my lifetime around horse barns. They are very special creatures. They spend part of their lives as companions to their humans, and a time independent, living the way their wild ancestors did hunting for prey. There are always risks, and sometimes they are lost, but most barn cats have good lives (even if some are shortened)...... I had a cat missing for a week, and when I found her she was trapped in a place where she couldn't get out on her own. I'm sure you already have, but it's worth checking neighbors' shed's and out buildings..... I hope your beloved Molly returns home soon.
Oh Morgan I'm so sorry you are going through this!!! We all love her too and pray that she comes home soon!!!!
We’re in the early-stages of grief too, at the moment. It’s tough….but you have SO MANY sources of joy around you. Don’t let yourself go down that dark hole.
Thank you for being willing to be vulnerable. I cried with you as I watched this. Wish I could give you a hug.
Praying she finds her way home. You gave her a wonderful life, she is family. The hardest thing about having these sweet soles is saying goodbye .
Losing a pet can be such a massive gut punch. These cute little furry creatures sure have an ability to wiggle their way into our hearts. Just remember, though it's hard now, the love will outlast the pain. Stay strong. ❤
Also since it's a cat, they are commonly more fickle than dogs.
I had a cat go missing for two weeks once, then appeared at the door one day like nothing happened. He seemed genuinely confused at my surprise that he came back. I genuinely hope Molly returns sooner rather than later. ❤❤❤
I'm sorry for your sadness, Morgan. You have given me so much, letting me into your worlds of farming and life. You bring joy and happiness to so many people with your videos containing stories and experiences with all your fascinating surroundings. So many times I've been at work and looked forward to getting out and seeing one of your new videos.
I hope that Molly comes back and this gets resolved. If not, please know and understand that you do not have more than 829,000 members because you are an average farmer. You, my friend, have an amazing farm, wonderful animals, and so many wild and great stories to tell. Peace always, Morgan.
You took the words out of my mind. Thank you.
I completely understand the pain , and my heart breaks for you.😢 I so hope Molly will return to you.
My heart really aches for you and the whole Gold Shaw farms family Morgan. 💙 I really relate to you at moments like this. Im a man who is a huge animal lover(especially cats), and im also a very sensitive individual. I really hope Molly turns up safe and sound. 🙏
Don’t give up hope too soon, Morgan. I had a cat that escaped and was gone for 2 WEEKS, he eventually came back and all was well. I’m sorry you’re going through this and that you’re able to recover soon no matter the outcome.
I lost both of my cats within the last two years. The love we have for our animals is what makes us better humans! Memories can help.
I'm so glad I got my purple Molly Murder Mittens shirt, so I will always have a memory of her.
I think there’s many of us out here grieving with you and for you Morgan. You are one very special person. The barn cats, including Lil, are important to the farm & yours especially have rich & happy lives. Fingers crossed Molly finds her way home.🤞🤞🤞
I would give you a hug if I could. I also get the feeling Toby and Abby can tell you need comfort. They seemed pretty good about coming in for some pets while they do their doggy things.
Oh Morgan, you are such a soft heart and care so much about all of the little lives on your farm. The love you have for all the critters in your care is so apparent in your videos, I really hope that you can find closure in Molly's disappearance, for better or worse.
With barn cats - they can be so bratty. They might be missing a year and then you go to visit a neighbor and you see her waltzing through their barn like nothing happened. She's a smart barn kitty, it could be that one of your neighbors fed her some nice tuna ;)
Hoping for you to break out of that depression soon.
The last time one of my cats went missing it took me two years to shake the worst of my grief. And I still hope, hope, hope...
I wish for you that Molly turns up safe and sound. 🍀🍀🍀
I'm so sorry, loosing an animal is never easy. Definitely take the time you need to process. Wishing you peace.
You're a good man. Don't give up on Molly. Cats can show up weeks or months later. She could very well be ok. Loving your cats is worth it. Even when the inevitable loss happens at some point. Loving them and bonding with them is worth that pain. Don't ever stop caring for them.
Consider GPS trackers for your other kitties to help ya in the future. Wishing you the best
Awesome idea! Although cats have a tenancy to lose them, it might be worth trying them out.
Don't give up hope on Molly Murder Mittens. I do appreciate your love of the cats and dogs. Losing a pet is so hard. My cat went missing last night for 4 hrs and I was a nervous wreck. If you haven't already done so, walk your property calling her name, shake some treats, leave a piece of your clothing out so she can get the scent. I pray for the best.
You have a good heart; the world needs more caring people like you…
I admire your vulnerability. I didn't cry once when our cat went missing in 2020. I was too embarrassed. But inside I was really torn up. I still tear up thinking about him. I haven't wanted another cat since.
The worst when a cat is missing is the not knowing. Even if you find they have passed away…at least you know & have some closure. Sometimes always having that grain of hope is devastating. I hope you find out what’s happened to her, for the best or worst x
We all knew you were a "cat person." So it makes all the sense in the world that you would feel this way. It must have been one of the most difficult videos you have ever done for all of us. The foggy sky there was a telling of your spirit. Of the many things we adore about you is your genuine affection for your animals (family members) and the way you openly share with us. Thanks for the farm animal moments of zen, even when you are hurting. Tell Ginny to keep up the humorous moments. Prayers are being sent your way.
You are an incredible person and Mollie was loved beyond measure. Our pets are our family and losing them is brutal. Thanks for sharing the hard times too. It is so relatable and what makes this channel special.
I'm so sorry! I too lost one of my cats a couple months ago. He was 15yrs old and my snuggle night time cat. My heart still aches and it's been the worst grief. Just try to remember the good times. Mother Nature is harsh and you're a great Cat dad! Don't feel bad.. you're doing great as a farmer and it's nice to see you show real emotions! Thank you for sharing and Big Hugs!
You may want to look in bushes close to where she likes to rest. Or in bushes or growth close to where the road meets your driveway. I found our parking lot cat at work after he was injured in some bushes where he would rest during day. After that, and an emergency vet visit, he came home with me. I was hesitant to bring him prior home due to our little terror of a terrier but it worked out. Prayers for both you and Molly.
sending so much love to you Morgan. losing a friend as close as a cat is harder than people give it credit for- they are your family.
Thank you Morgan, for sharing your pain and being so honest about what you have been going through. Grief is such a difficult emotion to handle and I am so sorry you are going through this ❤. We all love Molly and are with you in spirit during this time. I don't think there is such a thing as a cat or dog person just people who love their animals and that's clearly what you are. Take the time you need.
Oh...Morgan...this feels so sad. Learning that she may be injured & needs your help, but can't be found or has died, is heartbreaking.
You gave her a wonderful life. Her kingdom was among deep New England woods & sunny fields with long views. There's even a new barn to explore. If she could, she'd come home.
She lived peacefully & was enriched by feeling loved & as a result, she experienced belonging. There among humans & many other animals she lived her best life as your beloved barn cat.
I'm still holding out hope. Pets can hide when feeling pain, and return when & if they can..
Sorry for you brother. It’s always difficult loosing a friend on the homestead. The logical side of us acknowledges they are just an animal, but thankfully we are not just logical, we can love care and have compassion for creatures that are in our care.
This sums up my own thoughts best.
Acknowledging our loss is acknowledging our love.
It’s better to have loved and lost, than to not have loved at all.
Edit: trying to find a song: music always helps me best.
Here’s “The things we lost in the fire”.
It’s not nearly sad enough though.
Maybe it’s time to revisit some Gregory Brothers versions of Sad Happy Songs… (or was it Happy Sad Songs?)
(I hate when TH-cam deletes my comment after editing, simply because I put a link in it).
I am so sorry Molly is missing. I admire your ability to show your sensitive side. Sending good juju that Molly comes home.
Ginny doing her best to cheer you up 🤗 Molly will be home, she's off wandering oblivious to the strife she's causing. ❤
Sending some comfort your way.
It took me months to stop stepping over the spot at the bottom of the stairs every morning. That's where my dog used to sleep.
Check that she isn't locked in something, boxes, bins, rooms, walls, cars, trucks. Would Toby and Abby look for her if you asked them to ? Check the neighbors, local vets, rescues, ditches. Maybe walk Toby through the roadside woods.
Morgan I'm so sorry about Molly being missing. Whenever something happens with our pets it's devastating and you have no reason to apologize or feel the need to "act normal" when you're going through a tough time. I'm praying Molly returns home safe and sound and that you and your family will find some semblance of peace during this time ❤
So sorry, Morgan. Our animals are family, especially for those of us without children. I know there's no closure when something like this happens and I'm hoping you're able to get some. Sending love and comfort. ❤️
Oh Morgan, I’m so sorry about Molly. Hoping she shows up soon. ❤. Loving creatures is a good thing. So there’s no need to apologize.
More than just a barn cat. Hope for the best. You're an empathic being. Sign of intelligence.
😢 got me crying over here. Definitely hit a nerve, my dog just got diagnosed with cancer so I been an emotional wreck myself. I hope you find her
Good luck🐾🐾🌿
I've had a cat that went missing for weeks multiple times he always came back, one time he had a very injured leg when he returned and another time it had been negative temps for weeks and one day he just showed back up. Sometimes cats just need to hold up some where until they get well enough to return. Hope she's still out there.
You shouldn’t feel guilty .. having a barn cat is part of having a farm you take wonderful care of your animals ❤
Not ashamed to admit I cried throughout this one. I hold out hope that you’ll see Molly Murder Mittens again, because when it comes to missing cats you never know. You may not have thought of yourself as a “Cat Guy,” Morgan, but there’s no shame in recognizing how much your barn cats and livestock guardian dogs mean to you. They ARE family, as much as they’re also a necessary part of the farm ecology. Losing a family member hurts a whole lot, and there’s nothing wrong with expressing that grief in all it’s messy, snotty nature. I honor Molly’s wonderful life in hope of hearing better news soon; If she’s truly crossed the Rainbow Bridge then I send her all my love and know my Myst and Kes will be meeting her on the other side❤️😭💜🌈
Thank you for sharing. I hope she returns. Cats are pretty resilient, don’t give up hope.
I wouldn't throw in the towel after 4 days and especially since she took a few-day-jaunt this summer :) 4 days missing for a barn cat is a union-scheduled break. She probably found another house/farm that she got fed at when she went on her last jaunt and its become her vacation home!
I hope Molly comes back! I know from losing my own cats how hard it is! They definitely move into our hearts!❤
Dude I am really sorry to hear about your missing cat. I want to tell you however that you did a great job of having the visuals reflect your mood. Absolutely fabulous!
Prayers for you Morgan and Molly Murder Mittens. It’s tough losing a pet, let alone not knowing how or why. Thank you for sharing your full self. It’s okay to not be 100% cheerful all the time when you’re going through a mix of emotions. It’s hard right now. Do what you feel you need to do.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please don’t worry about making small talk; I hope Molly turns up after just having an Explore around the area. Have you checked the animal shelters and vets in the area? She’s friendly so maybe someone picked her up.
I am so sorry Morgan. I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet, and you do love your animals. Love and light to you and Alison.
As a fellow Molly, with the only shirt being a Molly shirt, I hope she’s okay. I hope she comes back and even with a four day leave of absence she wins barn cat of the year two years in a row. Normally cats are closer than you think but sometimes hide if they’re slightly injured, hopefully she comes home and asks for help. Have you checked local vets/shelters? Good luck Morgan.
How's your wife taking it?
😭*hugs* I’m so sorry. I lost 2 cats in less than 6 months. One to age (Mr. Flea) and one to cancer (Hina). Now only Kahli the Destroyer remains. I know how much it hurts. I’m still hoping she’ll come back for you.
I exactly know how it feels man, I always get nervous when one of our cats doesn't show up for a couple of days.
My heart goes out to you. There is nothing worse than a beloved animal simply going missing. To this day I can clearly see my lbestest kitty walking out my back door and that was the last time I saw my dear sweet Phiss Kitty. Heartbreaking!
Morgan, thank you for sharing with us your farm chore day, and the news about Molly. Please keep this hope in your heart, don't give up. Sweet Molly truly knows the love you, and your wife have for her. Notify your neighbors, place your posters, put notices up locally on Facebook, and at the vets office, and notify the local human society (animal control).
I have a few barn cats also. And the one that has been missing for the last couple of days looks nearly identical to Molly. Anyway mine disappeared for two weeks a few months ago when a new tomcat showed up. Even before he showed up she’s been skittish around the other cats because she’s so small. I have feed her about a hundred yards away from the others. Prayers for both of our barn cats show up safe and sound. 🙏
I let my sweet kitty out for his nightly prowl 14 years ago and haven't seen him since. I take solace in knowing he lived a happy life that was a little bit dangerous, but that's what he wanted. Also, it may be time to admit that you've become a cat person. It happens to the best of us. ❤
I’m so sorry. I grew up on a farm and had barn cats. The hardest part when one is missing is the not knowing if they are hurt and you can’t find them or if they are gone. Not easy either way. I pray she returns soon.
I really hope Molly returns home soon. I know it’s not the same without her on your farm. And it breaks my heart not seeing her in your recent videos. I have high hopes for her return. I will have Molly in my thoughts everyday. She knows where her home is & hopefully she will be running home to you soon! 💙
Thank you for always being real and sharing all your emotions whether good or bad. Man, I could feel your heartache for Miss Molly.
This was a beautiful video of the farm animals and the music was perfect.
May you find comfort in your family/coworkers.
Much love to all. ❤
Morgan I'm so sorry. Prayers for her return. Stay stronge my friend.