I’m a hugger, but I respect the boundaries of those who aren’t. Physical touch is one of my love languages so it’s really important in a relationship for me.
To keep a Pisces attention at a tennis ball it needs to sparkle like stars, a see through ball with LED lights in many colors and glitter too swirling around inside it. Now we know why Einstein, a Pisces, got so good at space stuff, he was mezmorized by the glittering stars. ❤️
Thank you, Gemma!! 😊 I will hug family because it’s expected and close friends but I don’t feel comfortable hugging all willly nilly. 😄 Some of my friends hug everyone and anyone.
I think hugs are so special. They are really healing too. I always ask my children for a hug. My strong boys who now tower over me. ( apart from the youngest) If I get the opportunity, I'll definitely hug a friend. In fact, if I've not had human interaction for a while, I get sad and need a hug. When it comes to dating, though. I'm messaged a lot by men wanting a cuddle. Wanting to come round to just cuddle all evening. I don't do that. I find that strange. I also like my boundaries. 😅❤ x
I have been writing a letter to our town that isn't easy to do, I don't love confrontation, but I'm part of a group who want to resist increases in property taxes, and to protect those on fixed incomes in their homes. My brain kind of had a blow up last evening, so I watched Gaia channel and was transported to the UK to visit Glastonbury with Matias de Stefano. Excalibur and apple trees, lovely. I like your tennis togs, used to play on a team. Today's tea is herbal with nettles, dark cherry, and other heart friendly things. Had a good hike in the nature park. Feel like a nap already, but it is only early afternoon. Mercury is lingering.
What a beautiful deep insight Gemma on personal intuition and needs of close friends in difficult times + our own needs for closeness and also arms length. Xx
Hugging was not my thing but as I get older hugging seems to be a thing. I do not go in for a hug if I feel resistance from the other person. It's a energetic thing I feel.
You made me so emotional today talking about hugging, which never happened in my house growing up, and then friends. I am a Capricorn and since there was no hugging, I was not a hugger until later in life. Now I’m all hugs and cuddles but there was a long time in which it felt awkward and uncomfortable for me. The hand on the shoulder sentiment was lovely and is exactly what a Capricorn would do or would appreciate. Thanks for the friendship quotes, these are great!❤
Thank you Gemma, I don't like huggers especially those I don't know as I feel it is an invasion of my space. Your reading today if the only one that has swords for me, the rest have been brilliant. Thanks once again 🙏 ♐
My father's side of the family hugged regularly, esp. for good-byes, and my mother's side, closer to their Danish roots, all shook hands. Now that I have my own family, some of my children want hugs regularly. My oldest son isn't keen on hugs, but now that he only visits, I sometimes ask for one, way more than I ever did when he lived here. It's amazing to hug your own child after years of not hugging them.
Woohoo 1st, yayyy !! Hi G, nearly out of it, thank goodness. British weather in the NE UK, we had hailstones at dinner time 😮😮, it's nearly May, come on 😊😊 Ohhh, I'm a MAJOR Hugger 😅, and Um a Sun Pisces with Cappie Moon 🤔🤔❤❤
Gemma, you had me cracking up with your cinema story. I love a hug, but only people I know. I do hug upset residents at work too.Thank you 💖 from Australia xx
Oh I’m a hugger and I love being hugged. Especially a proper tight hug. Not a slight lean in with one shoulder and three pats on the back kind! I think I should create a t-shirt with hugging instructions 🤭 Thank you Gemma 🤗🫂 ❤✨
Whoo hoo friendship! Great topic best kind of relationship; love the writer Montagne who writes on it a lot. My Dad and I huggers, my mum not at all; I'll put a hand on shoulder if a stranger or acquaintance is confiding in me which happens a lot, hug friends, but only if they're huggers too; my sis not a hugger at all. Love the reading for tomorrow, I still feel a bit shell shocked today and still clearing up messes from Vercury Metrograde but Here Comes the Sun so all is well. Namaste all, and tx Gemma always.😊🎶🎶🐶🐶❤❤🛴🛴♒
Ohh I’m a hugger - partner, friends, trees, cats but only with those who I know will want one. I’m a touchy feely person too which probably explains my later in life career choices as a Massage & Reiki Therapist. We must have better cinemas up north the Vue ones are excellent with stepped seats so you can see above the person in front of you. I watched Dune in a Thailand cinema in March with reclining seats 😊xx
I’m not a hugger either, and I have never hugged any of my friends, except maybe when I was saying goodbye to them for a long time. I always hugged my husband back when he hugged me, but one day he asked me why I never hugged him first or said, I love you first, and I had no answer. I made a mental note to do that because I know it’s difficult to ask for what you want, probably, especially for a man, But a year would go by and then he’d ask me again and I realize I had forgotten. Sadly, I was unable to dredge that up out of myself until after he became seriously ill with dementia. I suppose there’s a message in there somewhere (fear of rejection?) - to this day I live with yet another regret. 😪 I used to love to play tennis, racquetball, and badminton! I can’t now due to a hand and wrist injury which is permanent, but oh the days! Have you ever tried racquetball? It’s insanely fun! I love the Nietzsche quotes the best as well. Who knew? Thank you, Gemma! 💕💕
It's the lotus pose I believe.good 10 of cups is needed. Sounds like you've got our 🇨🇦weather all over the place. Up and down left and right We will settle into 🐮taurus season❤ty
I love hugs but don't know many people who do 🙁 I did kind of 'train' a couple of friends to have a quick goodbye hug when we meet, but oh for a lovely long hug! Physical touch is definitely a love language of mine - if anyone's upset it's a hug, hand holding, shoulder or arm touching... but if they show signs of not liking it I stop and don't do it again. Where are all the huggy people at, though?? 🤔😩🦀
Nope. Not a hugger. Not me. I'd rather keep my arms folded or shoved in my pockets the entire time. Personal space is important to me as I get older. Was much more laid back when I was in my 20s 🤔
I have so many pictures with so many different friend groups, but with my best friend we have so little together! We have such a good time together we can’t be bothered with our phone 😭💓
I really like a good hug if I can be the hug initiator… and I’m in the mood. I dislike those kind of fake social hugs, and there are many times when I not only don’t want to be hugged, but don’t like anyone coming within a six foot radius, lol. One of my sisters really doesn’t like hugs, so I always ask her if I can hug her first and it’s become a bit of a joke. She suffers herself to be hugged for my sake ☺️ It makes that you don’t like them, being a Capricorn moon. Perhaps that’s one of the differences between being a Pisces sun/rising and Capricorn moon vs being (like me) a Capricorn sun Pisces moon…
Funny that I just made chocolate cake. Unlike you, Gemma, I am looking at a park and there is some guy at the moment licking the bark of a tree as he talks to it ....... The engrey is so bizarre. Mine you the reading have been great. Hi Valentine how are you sunshine?
I am not very comfortable hugging people that I am not close to. I'd rather not have it as a way of greeting with colleagues or friends if my friends but when it is with someone I am close to I am a big hugger. Me and my bestie hugs for minutes and she just has the best hugs🩷✨️🌸
Im a cancerian so I'm a bugger of a hugger... A hugs a way of feeling how someone feels... I give hugs sooooo squeezey i keep hugging till i tell them ok im done then let go... Odd I know but thats me..🙃🤗Xx
My fiance has a female friend who grabs him tightly with her body hug. Then she tells him she loves him. Even as a hugger, I find that disrespectful of our relationship. I also heard her asking if he loved her more than me. They've known each other 15 years and have some very sexual energy between them. He swears there has never been anything sexual between them. She has been someone else's girlfriend for 18 years. Thank God they live 2 hours away. Any advice?
If he loved her more than you? Red flag indeed disrespectful and a choice to be made. That distance between them is what gives you any peace is a reflection of something.
I am not a hugger. I hate it. I feel like I am trapped. There's about two or three people I wouldn't mind hugging,but they are either dead or no longer in my life. I made a rule with my cousins for Christmas that I didn't want a hug and then this person who is related to my cousin, but not to me, thought he could have a hug/ kiss. Disgusted. Didn't ask. Just rudely lunged at me. I am feeling clobbered by Mercury. It's as though I was in the water at the beach thinking I was only getting my feet wet just to get knocked down by a rogue wave.
Im not sure if im a hugger or not.. i mean i like hugs but it depends on the emotional state of the "to be hugged" person and the person in general and on my state 😅.
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I’m a hugger, but I respect the boundaries of those who aren’t. Physical touch is one of my love languages so it’s really important in a relationship for me.
One of my love languages too 💖 xx
There were two moments in my life when I really needed a hug and got one. That was soo good!
Otherwise I see it like you.🌸🌼
To keep a Pisces attention at a tennis ball it needs to sparkle like stars, a see through ball with LED lights in many colors and glitter too swirling around inside it. Now we know why Einstein, a Pisces, got so good at space stuff, he was mezmorized by the glittering stars. ❤️
Thank you, Gemma!! 😊
I will hug family because it’s expected and close friends but I don’t feel comfortable hugging all willly nilly. 😄 Some of my friends hug everyone and anyone.
I think hugs are so special. They are really healing too. I always ask my children for a hug. My strong boys who now tower over me. ( apart from the youngest) If I get the opportunity, I'll definitely hug a friend. In fact, if I've not had human interaction for a while, I get sad and need a hug.
When it comes to dating, though. I'm messaged a lot by men wanting a cuddle. Wanting to come round to just cuddle all evening. I don't do that. I find that strange.
I also like my boundaries. 😅❤ x
I have been writing a letter to our town that isn't easy to do, I don't love confrontation, but I'm part of a group who want to resist increases in property taxes, and to protect those on fixed incomes in their homes. My brain kind of had a blow up last evening, so I watched Gaia channel and was transported to the UK to visit Glastonbury with Matias de Stefano. Excalibur and apple trees, lovely. I like your tennis togs, used to play on a team. Today's tea is herbal with nettles, dark cherry, and other heart friendly things. Had a good hike in the nature park. Feel like a nap already, but it is only early afternoon. Mercury is lingering.
What a beautiful deep insight Gemma on personal intuition and needs of close friends in difficult times + our own needs for closeness and also arms length. Xx
Beautiful memories for your Capricorn friend of his parents and your brilliant you were there for him. Take care of you too.
Hugging was not my thing but as I get older hugging seems to be a thing. I do not go in for a hug if I feel resistance from the other person. It's a energetic thing I feel.
You made me so emotional today talking about hugging, which never happened in my house growing up, and then friends. I am a Capricorn and since there was no hugging, I was not a hugger until later in life. Now I’m all hugs and cuddles but there was a long time in which it felt awkward and uncomfortable for me. The hand on the shoulder sentiment was lovely and is exactly what a Capricorn would do or would appreciate. Thanks for the friendship quotes, these are great!❤
This sun Gemini, Leo Rising, Aquarius Moon always hugs long time bf, and those kind aquaintances although brought up with hug-free relations.
Thank you Gemma, I don't like huggers especially those I don't know as I feel it is an invasion of my space. Your reading today if the only one that has swords for me, the rest have been brilliant. Thanks once again 🙏 ♐
Yep - things are still going wrong. And yes to semi colons; I love them too. They look clever but actually they are easy.
My father's side of the family hugged regularly, esp. for good-byes, and my mother's side, closer to their Danish roots, all shook hands. Now that I have my own family, some of my children want hugs regularly. My oldest son isn't keen on hugs, but now that he only visits, I sometimes ask for one, way more than I ever did when he lived here. It's amazing to hug your own child after years of not hugging them.
That’s true. The boy is six feet tall so it’s a long way up 🙏🩷
Woohoo 1st, yayyy !!
Hi G, nearly out of it, thank goodness.
British weather in the NE UK, we had hailstones at dinner time 😮😮, it's nearly May, come on 😊😊
Ohhh, I'm a MAJOR Hugger 😅, and Um a Sun Pisces with Cappie Moon 🤔🤔❤❤
I saw Dune 2; I want to go again. Incredible story. Great ending.
Gemma, you had me cracking up with your cinema story. I love a hug, but only people I know. I do hug upset residents at work too.Thank you 💖 from Australia xx
Oh I’m a hugger and I love being hugged. Especially a proper tight hug. Not a slight lean in with one shoulder and three pats on the back kind! I think I should create a t-shirt with hugging instructions 🤭 Thank you Gemma 🤗🫂 ❤✨
I hear you Gemma x Mercury kicked the door on its way out, as you have said before. The door is still swinging!
Hoping for calmer times x
Whoo hoo friendship! Great topic best kind of relationship; love the writer Montagne who writes on it a lot. My Dad and I huggers, my mum not at all; I'll put a hand on shoulder if a stranger or acquaintance is confiding in me which happens a lot, hug friends, but only if they're huggers too; my sis not a hugger at all. Love the reading for tomorrow, I still feel a bit shell shocked today and still clearing up messes from Vercury Metrograde but Here Comes the Sun so all is well. Namaste all, and tx Gemma always.😊🎶🎶🐶🐶❤❤🛴🛴♒
Ohh I’m a hugger - partner, friends, trees, cats but only with those who I know will want one. I’m a touchy feely person too which probably explains my later in life career choices as a Massage & Reiki Therapist. We must have better cinemas up north the Vue ones are excellent with stepped seats so you can see above the person in front of you. I watched Dune in a Thailand cinema in March with reclining seats 😊xx
I’m not a hugger either, and I have never hugged any of my friends, except maybe when I was saying goodbye to them for a long time. I always hugged my husband back when he hugged me, but one day he asked me why I never hugged him first or said, I love you first, and I had no answer. I made a mental note to do that because I know it’s difficult to ask for what you want, probably, especially for a man, But a year would go by and then he’d ask me again and I realize I had forgotten. Sadly, I was unable to dredge that up out of myself until after he became seriously ill with dementia. I suppose there’s a message in there somewhere (fear of rejection?) - to this day I live with yet another regret. 😪 I used to love to play tennis, racquetball, and badminton! I can’t now due to a hand and wrist injury which is permanent, but oh the days! Have you ever tried racquetball? It’s insanely fun! I love the Nietzsche quotes the best as well. Who knew? Thank you, Gemma! 💕💕
Agree about bad cake 😂. And the familiarity breeds contempt !! I'm big on hugging ( depends on situations, of course ).
Your description of grotty old uk cinemas had me laughing out loud, so grim but weirdly nostalgic too 🤣
It's the lotus pose I believe.good 10 of cups is needed. Sounds like you've got our 🇨🇦weather all over the place. Up and down left and right We will settle into 🐮taurus season❤ty
Lovely reading and it makes sense! Thank you, Gemma! 🙏💕
Not a hugger (except for my children) - and even worse here in France they expect a kiss kiss cheek thing - bad manners not to - hate it. Mortifying …
I’m a capricorn, and I’d say I am a hugger - but I only hug other huggers. 😂 Thank you Gemma!❤
Being a hugger is a learned thing that I love. It says tribe to the other.
My sister is also a pisces sun and not a hugger and i still respect and love her :)
Thank you. 🙌
I love hugs but don't know many people who do 🙁 I did kind of 'train' a couple of friends to have a quick goodbye hug when we meet, but oh for a lovely long hug!
Physical touch is definitely a love language of mine - if anyone's upset it's a hug, hand holding, shoulder or arm touching... but if they show signs of not liking it I stop and don't do it again.
Where are all the huggy people at, though?? 🤔😩🦀
I’m over here?? big Hugs
@@sue-annthandy5387 Aww, thank you! All the hugs back 🤗
@@Tilly236 more big squishy hug mercury has gone forward hurrah
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Yes we do hug with friends
You should totally do PR for the cinemas LOL 😅😅
I'm a big hugger with my close friends, and a few I know aren't but I do it anyway lol 😆
Oh Gemma sounds like you have weather like me in Melbourne Australia 4 seasons in a day. Don't close your eyes for too long.
Totally after shock!!!!
Nope. Not a hugger. Not me. I'd rather keep my arms folded or shoved in my pockets the entire time. Personal space is important to me as I get older. Was much more laid back when I was in my 20s 🤔
Thank you 😀💕♓ xxx
My friends are all huggers ❤...my mum Capricorn ♑️ isn't a hugger. X
I have so many pictures with so many different friend groups, but with my best friend we have so little together! We have such a good time together we can’t be bothered with our phone 😭💓
I really like a good hug if I can be the hug initiator… and I’m in the mood. I dislike those kind of fake social hugs, and there are many times when I not only don’t want to be hugged, but don’t like anyone coming within a six foot radius, lol. One of my sisters really doesn’t like hugs, so I always ask her if I can hug her first and it’s become a bit of a joke. She suffers herself to be hugged for my sake ☺️ It makes that you don’t like them, being a Capricorn moon. Perhaps that’s one of the differences between being a Pisces sun/rising and Capricorn moon vs being (like me) a Capricorn sun Pisces moon…
Funny that I just made chocolate cake. Unlike you, Gemma, I am looking at a park and there is some guy at the moment licking the bark of a tree as he talks to it ....... The engrey is so bizarre. Mine you the reading have been great. Hi Valentine how are you sunshine?
Hahaha yeah, that " dark humor " or way of speach / acting is indeed a Capricorn thing. ♑️ 💫
I’m not a hugger either. I have a friend that is the only one that I allow w to hug me. Now her daughter does it too.
I am not very comfortable hugging people that I am not close to. I'd rather not have it as a way of greeting with colleagues or friends if my friends but when it is with someone I am close to I am a big hugger. Me and my bestie hugs for minutes and she just has the best hugs🩷✨️🌸
When I find the book that my mum had published a poem I will send. You.its funny.
Lotus
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UK theatres smell like popcorn and feet 😂 I've crossed it off my list of things to try if I make it across the pond!!
Im a cancerian so I'm a bugger of a hugger... A hugs a way of feeling how someone feels... I give hugs sooooo squeezey i keep hugging till i tell them ok im done then let go... Odd I know but thats me..🙃🤗Xx
Cancerian hugs are legendary 🙏🩷
My fiance has a female friend who grabs him tightly with her body hug. Then she tells him she loves him. Even as a hugger, I find that disrespectful of our relationship. I also heard her asking if he loved her more than me. They've known each other 15 years and have some very sexual energy between them. He swears there has never been anything sexual between them. She has been someone else's girlfriend for 18 years. Thank God they live 2 hours away. Any advice?
If he loved her more than you? Red flag indeed disrespectful and a choice to be made. That distance between them is what gives you any peace is a reflection of something.
I am not a hugger. I hate it. I feel like I am trapped. There's about two or three people I wouldn't mind hugging,but they are either dead or no longer in my life. I made a rule with my cousins for Christmas that I didn't want a hug and then this person who is related to my cousin, but not to me, thought he could have a hug/ kiss. Disgusted. Didn't ask. Just rudely lunged at me.
I am feeling clobbered by Mercury. It's as though I was in the water at the beach thinking I was only getting my feet wet just to get knocked down by a rogue wave.
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Love me Cheesy Wotsits !! 🤪
"Odious 'odeons", eh?
My local theaters are both AMC's and the one closest to us will actually deliver your food orders to your seat inside.
Is it just me or was this a roughhhhhh retrograde??!
Nothing worse than a bad hugger 😅
Im not sure if im a hugger or not.. i mean i like hugs but it depends on the emotional state of the "to be hugged" person and the person in general and on my state 😅.
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