I appreciate the Moment with Shatava and Mike! That is what real genuine, honest, GROWN PEOPLE do. Then when she talk to the women I was like 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is what a women who knows who she is and what she wants does.
Yes! That's what you call a mature woman with high self esteem and self love. Don't take rejection as a threat or put down to who she is. Hope more females get there!!
Omg, yes. I am sitting here trying to figure out the difference. I think that they have given up on story telling. I feel like they gave us a full meal with this season. Now they're just trying to give us fast food. There is no care being taken with this new season and it shows. When I think about it's kind of insulting.
One, if not the biggest grown woman exit that I’ve ever seen.. I hope Shatavia found love. She rubbed me the wrong way at first but you can’t help but respect her for what she did and everything she said 💯
Y’all don’t get it. Men aren’t usually the ones with women vying for they’re attention. Mike and Alex look like they might but Aaron , not so much. He’s in over his head in quantity and quality. His best case scenario is for him to have a taste of all 12. He’s just being a regular guy 😂😂😂😂😂
I disagree, she just threw in the towel a little early and made his mind up for him....Bad move and I see this a lot from women. The old saying goes, "Alls fair in love and war....". If he is really the man she wanted she should have fought for him...little things like that can turn the tide.....
@@cvlastra That’s the problem… you wanna fight for a man . There’s no need if he truly has eyes for just you . Shatava recognized who Mike would choose and bowed out gracefully . Take notes sis .
Shatava, I respect you!!!! The realness from all these women is rare, necessary, refreshing and beautiful to witness. Whether they get a connection on here or not....they all have grown. Great job!!!!
I am so proud of Shatava. She demonstrated what loving and respecting yourself looks like; dhe maintained her dignity, and didn't let jealousy take her to a place below her level. It was Shay's time. Shatava will have her time too. We are not all at the same point in our journey at the same time.
Notice how Aaron didn’t want Stormy to speak and repeatedly butt in each time she tried to finish her sentence 😒 I think it’s shameful that he didn’t go after Stormy and that he sat there whilst Tommy checked on her 😗 and then Aaron had the audacity to declare that “he knew Stormy wasn’t the one”……. he’s absolutely pathetic 🙄😵💫👎🏾
I can't believe how much of a liar and manipulator Aaron is ...knowing all of this will play back on tv you played yourself Aaron...You don't deserve any of these women
This was the comment I was looking for. Stormy was correct in her assertion, he is a b!t(h a$$. He just didn’t want her exposing him. I can’t wait for the reunion for Melinda to tear his butt apart!
Do you guys remember when Aaron was telling Melinda “this is why you’re single”??? Aaron’s ego and attitude is exactly why he’s single. He’s a liar, immature, disrespectful and a narcissistic black man. He’s playing these ladies and thinks it’s ok. But he’s never ready to hear the truth when it’s thrown at him. I can already feel that his relationship won’t end well with Angel (if she chooses to continue this journey). He doesn’t even deserve none of these women.
@@kayrup3712 of course you were… what really bothers me it’s the way he talks about the women behind their back… He was saying that Stormy was his number 1, now behind her back he’s saying he never liked her … Shame on him. He’s not a man
He didn’t even picked Angel. She’s so gullible and silly acting. He didn’t even seem interested but she was too desperate to see it. She too cute to be desperate. Not one time has he even tried to kiss her during the whole process. Angel irritating.!
Damn Shatava made me cry… it’s about time black women are not tearing each other down to win a mans love when in fact we should have enough love for ourselves to the point where we are not a second choice a second thought or a doubt in any man’s mind. Respect Shatava
Tiffany is so beautiful physically but mentally & emotionally she’s a bit toxic & immature. I don’t see why Alexx complimenting Ashlee on the person she is to him is such an upsetting thing for her 🤦🏾♀️ like girl, let him go through the process so if & when he picks you you know it’s real.
I loved this episode, Shatava's open conversation with Mike and beautiful black women coming together and having authentic, honest conversations. Such a great season!
Im here RE-watching after The DC season and ....it seems like a DIFFERENT SHOW!!! OWN..PLEASE GO BACK TO THIS. from castimg right down to having theen and women meet with Tommy...alllll of it.
Tiffany was just way too aggressive! She has a hard exterior when really she is hurt. She should just tell him she is scared and she needs certain things from him to feel secure.
She’s trying to be the one when you’d want to be chosen and not force it…unfortunately if you go on a show like this you’re going to date multiple people…I don’t understand what she specs from Alexx. No one is in a committed relationship.
Patiently waiting on the next episode… AaRON is full of himself MIKE is a handsome man that knows what he wants ALEX is a tall glass of chocolate milk. ALL of the WOMEN are beautiful and strong. This is the best season and cast EVER!!
😂😂😂🤣🤣 honestly it's the woman fault because they was so quick to brag on how good he looks😂😂🤣🤣 now they all confused should've been truly tryna find a compatible partner
@@thesacredibis6723 there's a thin line between an alpha personality and a disrespectful personality. From what I've observed Tiffany doesn't know how to argue without being disrespectful
He plays games. On the low he let's woman knw he is in to them but not publicly. I knw people like that's. Non stop games. Realistically he can do that ALL day be enjoy it.
Shavata should be a co-host for the Women’s pillow talk. I absolutely love her light. Ashley co-host #2 ready to let love happen even if the love isn’t for you.
I feel sorry for Angel, I believe Aaron can tell she has low self-esteem and gullible eventhough she's beautiful. Aaron get on my nerves. The beautiful queens are awesome, but damn my heart goes out to sisters with damaged hearts. Aaron is going for the weakest women, Angels going to put up with alot of unnecessary hurt.
She doesn't have low self esteem in my opinion she's just incredibly naive and blinded by the flesh. I wish she would just listen to some of the older women in the group who have been in longer relationships, some even in marriage.
Shatava, I have nothing but respect for you girl! Some of us will stay and try to fight for a man who they know don't want them.. I know your King will find you, Queen!!!
Tiffany is showing some toxic behaviour, why does she feel some type of way because this man gave Ashley a compliment. Not to mention Ashley was very patient and understanding when Alexx was giving Tiffany most of his attention. Ashley deserved that recognition, in that moment. Not impressed with Tiffany at all. Don’t preach about blacks respecting each other, but flipped a script the moment a man showed respect and appreciation to another woman. Just because it wasn’t her!!!
Nahhhh, Tiffany got some walls up, Alex doesn’t owe her nothing, and he didn’t mislead her, he was just trying to figure it out, see who he connects with the most, but Tiffany was all about winning a man, not a partner
Tiffany just comes off as kinda too aggressive and damanding already and she not even officially with dude yet, and Aaron and Stormie don't seem like a good pair idk ijs. 🤷🏿♀️ he's egotistical for no reason he's not even that cute , boy I tell ya when the pickings are slim these women will settle for anything, even though they know deep down they're adjusting to being attracted to the other. .🙄.. smh.. mmph.. mph... mph .//all the ladies eliminated themselves to save themselves from embarrassment on national television, I like that because really none of these men are worthy of the women they are after, except! MAYBE Mike & Shaye, cause the rest seem kinda scared and closed- off. 🤷🏿♀️
I'm so glad stormy saw through his bull Aron is so full of it and you can just see right through him stormy there's a man out there for you that's going to love you you are a beautiful soul and I wish you the best and finding your husband who truly love you
I don't know why Tiffany went on a show with multiple dating and eliminations. She pouted when Alex complimented Ashley. Confidence is good, let go of conceit and arrogance. You can give constructive criticism in peace.
@@dorryd2769 nope! Hopefully the show was a useful growth tool. We're all growing, our relationships, experiences, and how we deal in them show us ourselves, sadly most of us aren't able to see or hear our interactions in life by media venues, so we can view repeatedly and correct mistakes. We live in our moments, hopefully growing like I said by learning and positive coaching from loved ones. Hope all is well with you, peace to you and yours!
Shea should also take accountability for lashing out like that towards Mike like that was disrespectful no lie …. Should have pulled him to the side ….
Queen Shatava, her consciousness, integrity and maturity is unmatched... Sending Queen Shatava GOOD LOVING VIBES... Universe, send Queen Shatava every good, loving, honorable thing she is MORE Than DESERVING!!!
I understand Tiffany, I am a Tiffany! I am strong character women as well who just expects nothing but consistency! We do not like when you warm us up in the beginning, make us feel special and then put little to no effort want you have us involved. If you feel like you can't keep up just say it and go on about your life, but don't drag us to where you can't keep up and have us on the loop waiting. I had someone I met 6 years ago and we clicked like Alex and Tiff did. It was amazing, all the talking , not much of meeting in person ( he lived 40 mints away and I didn't have a car) but whenever he was in my area, didn't want to meet me. So after the 1st month of that high, he started to pull out, I kept asking him and for him it was nothing. After a while, he just told me he liked me too much and he was scared. He also said he was afraid to be in a relationship and blah blah blah all the excuses. I just don't get men, when you find a women that's reciprocating your interest and she is a good fit, why run the opposite way? Any ways, we only met 2 times then he went to the army, and after basic training, all of the sudden he has a girlfriend. After months they broke up and he contacted me, I wanted to be petty and bring it up but I just left it alone. I made plans to go see him where he was station and after I had the flight and everything, he said he couldn't. Is been 3-4 years I haven't talked to him and I feel like he still has a hold on me. It messed up a potential good relationship I had building up because I couldn't let go of this feeling for this men that left me hanging multiple time and doesn't care for me. I'm afraid I won't find a connection as strong as I had with this dude. I'm afraid I would also be like Tiffany so strong hard headed that I would not let a good men come into my life. We require someone strong that can see the pain and just be ready to not go anywhere. I did not liked the last date they had when they finally where trying to get somewhere and she kept instigating and belittling him. Is crazy that from those 2 good men Alex and Mike, Aaron is the only one married right now and looks happy with a child.
Zadia's ghetto behind, should watch this video. This is class! This is women empowerment! This is sisterhood! This is love! This is protect the black woman! Not putting down a woman on your way out and physically assaulting a man
Tiffany definitely let her emotions get the best of her. Her feelings regarding Alexx praising Ashlee were valid but i wish she could’ve saw that maybe Alexx did that because Ashlee literally had said at the table that she felt like she was on the back burner at the cabin. Alexx just wanted to reassure her.
I feel so bad for Tiffany, I see my former self in her. Thankfully, I was helped to recognize my self-sabotaging nature and learned to deal with anger appropriately.
Watching this season again and Tiffany’s behavior is very hard to watch! So much anger, entitlement and masculinity. One think I didn’t think was fair is that they allowed him and Ashley to go on the fun dates with liquor involved and music but with Tiffany with her already hard exterior they went on fishing and batting date. Her attitude got progressively worst; I felt bad for Alex. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, Alex is not into Ashlee, he is settling. Ashlee is a beautiful person, but she is going to be his human teddy bear. He still likes Tiffany but they are having relationship problems w/o the relationship title. They are both hurting, afraid and fell into that crazy cycle.
Alex was begging to be with Tiffany. But she does not understand compromise. She doesn't know how to yield. She's argumentative. She's a boss lady. But that's why boss ladies are single. Ashlee was fun and easy going. That's what men want
So she got Mike to apologize for cursing but she didn't apologize for down-talking him in front of the group??? She instigated the b.s. and his pause at the end of his apology was where she was supposed to give him hers for her attitude.
Shea/Tiffany, there's women like you everywhere. As men, we expect our women to be soft, sweet, and feminine. The ones who are angry, aggressive, harsh, abrasive, and very guarded, are usually that way because they been blind-sided, attacked, and hurt by so many people for so long. The scars that hurt the most are usually the ones you can't see. But Shea/Tiffany, that's no reason to use all that to lash out and attack everybody who just wanna get close to you. Not every guy who wants to get close to you wants to do so just to attack you. Some really do wanna love you... if you would only let them. Glad Mike/Alexx stood up to them.
Shatava set the bar on how black women on these reality shows should carry themselves, with grace, respect & poised.
Definitely
Yaassss
YASS she did set the bar 💪🏾🦸🏾♀️
Yes!
Fact
When Aaron say imma be honest with you...he is not being honest with himself
You know he about to lieeeee😩😩😩
I think this was the problem with him and his BM
And hes ugly.. chiiiile!
And all of those women were a blessing. I would never let nobody like that get the drop on me.
I appreciate the Moment with Shatava and Mike! That is what real genuine, honest, GROWN PEOPLE do. Then when she talk to the women I was like 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is what a women who knows who she is and what she wants does.
Yeah, it actually shows real strength of character. Shatava is clearly a good woman
Yes! That's what you call a mature woman with high self esteem and self love. Don't take rejection as a threat or put down to who she is. Hope more females get there!!
Amen
☝🏽💯FACTS
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
The production on this show was way better than what they’ve been producing lately. Not even a competition
Omg, yes. I am sitting here trying to figure out the difference. I think that they have given up on story telling. I feel like they gave us a full meal with this season. Now they're just trying to give us fast food. There is no care being taken with this new season and it shows. When I think about it's kind of insulting.
I agree
I don't watch it anymore...I think I stopped at the 4th season... it's not good like the first season
@@smallsmall5062whats small small 🤔🤔
One, if not the biggest grown woman exit that I’ve ever seen.. I hope Shatavia found love. She rubbed me the wrong way at first but you can’t help but respect her for what she did and everything she said 💯
I felt the same😭😭😭 Did not like the attitude but now I love her lol ❤️❤️🥰💪
She is now married! Love her.
@@Sandramundy OMG for real? Wow that's just great. Love that for her.
Truth be told she wound up dodging a bullet especially since Mike turned after the show wrapped. Sis found real love
@@ob2be1 wasn’t expecting him to stay with Shea . He couldn’t even have drinks
The ladies messed up when they didn't eliminate Aaron during the 1st & 2nd episode ... they gave the narcissist too much power!
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Y’all don’t get it. Men aren’t usually the ones with women vying for they’re attention. Mike and Alex look like they might but Aaron , not so much. He’s in over his head in quantity and quality. His best case scenario is for him to have a taste of all 12. He’s just being a regular guy 😂😂😂😂😂
Shatava , girllllllll . That segment needs to be clipped and shown to all BW . Integrity, class, respect and self-love on display .
Absolutely, she is up there 👆 👸🏾
Shatava is a queen! ….. Period!!!!! ❤️
I loved it
I disagree, she just threw in the towel a little early and made his mind up for him....Bad move and I see this a lot from women. The old saying goes, "Alls fair in love and war....". If he is really the man she wanted she should have fought for him...little things like that can turn the tide.....
@@cvlastra That’s the problem… you wanna fight for a man . There’s no need if he truly has eyes for just you . Shatava recognized who Mike would choose and bowed out gracefully .
Take notes sis .
That Shatava moment was everything ❤️ we can all learn from her. Very mature ❤️love her
Learn what to come back when you get what you wanna hear 🤦🏽♀️
Shatava was the biggest winner. Blessings!!!
She’s married now too
@@girlanonymous who? Shatava?
So happy for her 🥰
Shatava, I respect you!!!! The realness from all these women is rare, necessary, refreshing and beautiful to witness. Whether they get a connection on here or not....they all have grown.
Great job!!!!
There is nothing more POWERFUL than BLACK WOMEN UNITED!!! It's a beautiful thing to behold....
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Shatava is beautiful inside and out! Wishing her nothing but the best
Shatava is married now. There’s a picture of her with her husband on her Instagram. I think its their holiday pic.
@@girlanonymous what is her instagram name?
🎉🎉🎉🎉🤎🙅🏽♀️
Can you all bring back the essence and class of the show. This was a great season, now it’s gotten more love and hip hop
This was the best because it’s raw but classy and elegant!
I am so proud of Shatava. She demonstrated what loving and respecting yourself looks like; dhe maintained her dignity, and didn't let jealousy take her to a place below her level. It was Shay's time. Shatava will have her time too. We are not all at the same point in our journey at the same time.
Shatava is married now. Shea is still single.
She changed me girl just make want to be better
Every woman that was interested in Aaron and it didn't work out, get yo' shout on, give God the highest praise, cause y'all dodged a psychotic bullet.
I think he's a womanizer
@@lynnyoung211 stop thinking he is
He is married now.😳😊
@@Sandramundy wow good for him
@@Sandramundy wow that woman is brave lol
Notice how Aaron didn’t want Stormy to speak and repeatedly butt in each time she tried to finish her sentence 😒 I think it’s shameful that he didn’t go after Stormy and that he sat there whilst Tommy checked on her 😗 and then Aaron had the audacity to declare that “he knew Stormy wasn’t the one”……. he’s absolutely pathetic 🙄😵💫👎🏾
He wanted her out so she wouldn't ruin it for him and all he had left.
Absolutely he is pathetic
I can't believe how much of a liar and manipulator Aaron is ...knowing all of this will play back on tv you played yourself Aaron...You don't deserve any of these women
Yep! He is shady af! Women BEWARE!!!!
One of angle friend or brother say he is waiting to much Aaron say disaster ohh god he is disaster
That one will be dumped on the second date outside the show
This was the comment I was looking for. Stormy was correct in her assertion, he is a b!t(h a$$. He just didn’t want her exposing him. I can’t wait for the reunion for Melinda to tear his butt apart!
But who got you thou miss missy ...that's what i wanna know
Do you guys remember when Aaron was telling Melinda “this is why you’re single”???
Aaron’s ego and attitude is exactly why he’s single. He’s a liar, immature, disrespectful and a narcissistic black man.
He’s playing these ladies and thinks it’s ok. But he’s never ready to hear the truth when it’s thrown at him. I can already feel that his relationship won’t end well with Angel (if she chooses to continue this journey). He doesn’t even deserve none of these women.
So I was right when I didn't like him from jump...
@@kayrup3712 of course you were… what really bothers me it’s the way he talks about the women behind their back…
He was saying that Stormy was his number 1, now behind her back he’s saying he never liked her …
Shame on him. He’s not a man
Sandy Brice, I agree with you.
He’s married with a kid now.
He didn’t even picked Angel. She’s so gullible and silly acting. He didn’t even seem interested but she was too desperate to see it. She too cute to be desperate. Not one time has he even tried to kiss her during the whole process. Angel irritating.!
Shatava…definition of class, self-love and maturity. Respect.
That scene with all of those beautiful black women loving on one another was powerful as HECK😍🙌🏾✊🏾🥰🥰🥰
yes! 🥺
Loved it! We need so much more of that!
Tiffany is constantly delivering her message with aggression and talking down to Alex. She needs to do some work on herself.
Damn Shatava made me cry… it’s about time black women are not tearing each other down to win a mans love when in fact we should have enough love for ourselves to the point where we are not a second choice a second thought or a doubt in any man’s mind. Respect Shatava
Shatava is a REAL ONE!!!!!!
Such a QUEEN!!
The women bonding and crying together is so beautiful and touching !!❤️❤️
Tiffany is so beautiful physically but mentally & emotionally she’s a bit toxic & immature. I don’t see why Alexx complimenting Ashlee on the person she is to him is such an upsetting thing for her 🤦🏾♀️ like girl, let him go through the process so if & when he picks you you know it’s real.
Shatava we need more women like you my love! She made me cry !
I loved this episode, Shatava's open conversation with Mike and beautiful black women coming together and having authentic, honest conversations. Such a great season!
Asl by the way...cos i wanna know about you gal
Stormi is a Queen she is the one that would still my heart hands down.
This was the BEST authentic season ... After this .. every other season has been a joke.
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Lmao.
I agree
So True!
I feel you!
Shatava,, loved her and her realness ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Aaron is definitely NOT ready for love☹️
This was the most authentic and greatest season ever! Show ain’t been this good since.
EVER🗣
Season 1 and 2 was the best !
This guy Aaron ...my goodness how indecisive and when he speaks its ridiculous statements that makes no sense. Dang brother..
It's like a work meeting, when it's finally over you get up and you're even more confused😂😆
Gosh I cried with the Shatava moment, sending love from Barbados, that’s the realest moment 💯
Big ups Shatava that is what been really is, this group was dope😍
I am glad to see the ladies Respecting each other👏👏👏❤️
Im here RE-watching after The DC season and ....it seems like a DIFFERENT SHOW!!!
OWN..PLEASE GO BACK TO THIS. from castimg right down to having theen and women meet with Tommy...alllll of it.
Right like why did they break this format! It was actually REAL!
Shatava 🔥🔥🔥 class act! Can we all get an update that she found love and is happy? I love her! This is a different kind of maturity 🥰🥰
She is married now.
@@kisha4040 am happy to hear that
@@kisha4040 Every time I see this clip I cry. So powerful what a great woman happy to know she's found love❤
@@aladynamedSusanwhat about yourself
Ashlee & Angel carried themselves well through the season.👑💐 They did not allow their emotions to get the best of them.🙌🏾
Tiffany was just way too aggressive! She has a hard exterior when really she is hurt. She should just tell him she is scared and she needs certain things from him to feel secure.
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She’s trying to be the one when you’d want to be chosen and not force it…unfortunately if you go on a show like this you’re going to date multiple people…I don’t understand what she specs from Alexx. No one is in a committed relationship.
So true @Angel ..Tiffany's biggest 'sin' is that she's in love with Tommy so she 'feels' like she's been cheated on and reacts from that position.
Yes she was
Patiently waiting on the next episode…
AaRON is full of himself
MIKE is a handsome man that knows what he wants
ALEX is a tall glass of chocolate milk.
ALL of the WOMEN are beautiful and strong. This is the best season and cast EVER!!
I feel like breaking a plate on Aaron’s head
😂😂😂🤣🤣 honestly it's the woman fault because they was so quick to brag on how good he looks😂😂🤣🤣 now they all confused should've been truly tryna find a compatible partner
I burst into laughter when I saw this lol...I got annoyed with him from the beginning when he was exposing " abs"
And if the man retaliated? You're gonna cry victim, right?
😆🤣😆🤣
@@maxlogan7388 but this name is typically a male name, sooo...
Tiffany is just mad because Alex wasn't selecting her.
Exactly ❗
Tiffany's alpha personality is a deal breaker for Alex.
@@thesacredibis6723 there's a thin line between an alpha personality and a disrespectful personality. From what I've observed Tiffany doesn't know how to argue without being disrespectful
She gets on my last nerve
@@ruthzoemaduabunachukwu7417 She has issues
I was moved to tears listening to Shatava's realness 😭 A true Black Goddess 😇 demonstrating how to be the woman our Creator created us to be 👸🏽
Yes Mike, carry Shea's bags for her. You know who you want. Stop playing!😂♥
5:29 when Angel tried to kiss Aaron 😩 that was so awkward and embarrassing
Ooooh I thought that was just me who saw that.
It was very stand offish embrace…
Oh man I caught that too. That is a clear cut sign he is NOT interested in her! He dodged that kiss so quickly!
He plays games. On the low he let's woman knw he is in to them but not publicly. I knw people like that's. Non stop games. Realistically he can do that ALL day be enjoy it.
Aaron needs a woman that's not afraid to read him for filth and tell him about himself because his mama CLEARLY skipped a few things. 😒🙄
Aaron needs Tiffany to put him to put him in his place.
Shatava just gave me the clarity I needed to let someone go
Shavata should be a co-host for the Women’s pillow talk. I absolutely love her light. Ashley co-host #2 ready to let love happen even if the love isn’t for you.
Tiffany is about winning not finding love. She left him and started with Mike as soon as they had a fallen out.
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Point Blank Periodd
She the type to sleep with the homie when she mad😒 ion like them vibes!
Shatava is the epitome of a strong real woman....period!!!! Love that woman.
Comes on a: DATING SHOW COMPETITION….Gets mad that the man has to choose between you, and another woman! You can’t make this up! 🤣
Lmbao
You'd probably be mad too if you already gave him some and he still indecisive and the other woman won't even kiss him
Shatava summoned it up with clarity and respect. 🌝
Tiffany dragged this whole"you don't call me" thing and it fired back on her!
Exactly.. now he doesn’t call her AT ALL ..
@@ondreiat6674😂😂😂
I feel sorry for Angel, I believe Aaron can tell she has low self-esteem and gullible eventhough she's beautiful. Aaron get on my nerves. The beautiful queens are awesome, but damn my heart goes out to sisters with damaged hearts. Aaron is going for the weakest women, Angels going to put up with alot of unnecessary hurt.
Pretty ones always have the lowest esteem unfortunately!
She doesn't have low self esteem in my opinion she's just incredibly naive and blinded by the flesh.
I wish she would just listen to some of the older women in the group who have been in longer relationships, some even in marriage.
🎯 He chose the weakest woman that he can play his mind games with.
Thissss@@irmarfrank1005
Shatava, I have nothing but respect for you girl! Some of us will stay and try to fight for a man who they know don't want them.. I know your King will find you, Queen!!!
Oh Michael and Shae 😍Mike I just respect how you’ve respected all the women you dated on the show you are a King , Shatava Queen 👸🏽
Tiffany is showing some toxic behaviour, why does she feel some type of way because this man gave Ashley a compliment. Not to mention Ashley was very patient and understanding when Alexx was giving Tiffany most of his attention.
Ashley deserved that recognition, in that moment.
Not impressed with Tiffany at all. Don’t preach about blacks respecting each other, but flipped a script the moment a man showed respect and appreciation to another woman. Just because it wasn’t her!!!
Tiffany isn't on that respect train, she told Mike forget man and girl code.
Nahhhh, Tiffany got some walls up, Alex doesn’t owe her nothing, and he didn’t mislead her, he was just trying to figure it out, see who he connects with the most, but Tiffany was all about winning a man, not a partner
Beautiful black women bonding opening up to each other made me cry and smile all at the same time
RTL was never the same after this season 😩😩
Shatava a certified queen thank you for being a light you taught me something 🙏🏾
Tiffany just comes off as kinda too aggressive and damanding already and she not even officially with dude yet, and Aaron and Stormie don't seem like a good pair idk ijs. 🤷🏿♀️ he's egotistical for no reason he's not even that cute , boy I tell ya when the pickings are slim these women will settle for anything, even though they know deep down they're adjusting to being attracted to the other. .🙄.. smh.. mmph.. mph... mph .//all the ladies eliminated themselves to save themselves from embarrassment on national television, I like that because really none of these men are worthy of the women they are after, except! MAYBE Mike & Shaye, cause the rest seem kinda scared and closed- off. 🤷🏿♀️
Tiffany is very aggressive and hard looking
Turns out she was right to be that way towards him
I can't wait for the reunion🙌 Aaron should be seen for what he is
I’ll be waiting with you!!!!
Damn Shatavah really showed how all women should act n treat one another. That was amazing to watch.
Shatava is a real queen I love her honesty, beauty, courage, and her poise. Hats off to a true queen.
I'm so glad stormy saw through his bull Aron is so full of it and you can just see right through him stormy there's a man out there for you that's going to love you you are a beautiful soul and I wish you the best and finding your husband who truly love you
I don't know why Tiffany went on a show with multiple dating and eliminations. She pouted when Alex complimented Ashley. Confidence is good, let go of conceit and arrogance. You can give constructive criticism in peace.
Tiffany is one of those lightskinned women that gets mad when they see men going for darkerskinned women.
@@kisha4040 Do you think she'd be good if Alexx went after Stormi instead?
@@dorryd2769 nope! Hopefully the show was a useful growth tool. We're all growing, our relationships, experiences, and how we deal in them show us ourselves, sadly most of us aren't able to see or hear our interactions in life by media venues, so we can view repeatedly and correct mistakes. We live in our moments, hopefully growing like I said by learning and positive coaching from loved ones. Hope all is well with you, peace to you and yours!
Hats off to Chitava
Yes, very classy.
Shea should also take accountability for lashing out like that towards Mike like that was disrespectful no lie …. Should have pulled him to the side ….
Alex and Aaron are something else. Arrogant, self absolved and players
Aaron is indecisive, because his jumps into interests to quickly before learning his prospects properly
Thank youuu, cuz I binged-watched 6 episodes within 24 hrs😭
Queen Shatava, her consciousness, integrity and maturity is unmatched... Sending Queen Shatava GOOD LOVING VIBES... Universe, send Queen Shatava every good, loving, honorable thing she is MORE Than DESERVING!!!
All these years later, even rewatching Aaron can still work my last nerve. He’s probably 1 of theeee most annoying men in RTL history. 🤢🤮
Totally Agree… 1 year later.
I understand Tiffany, I am a Tiffany! I am strong character women as well who just expects nothing but consistency! We do not like when you warm us up in the beginning, make us feel special and then put little to no effort want you have us involved. If you feel like you can't keep up just say it and go on about your life, but don't drag us to where you can't keep up and have us on the loop waiting. I had someone I met 6 years ago and we clicked like Alex and Tiff did. It was amazing, all the talking , not much of meeting in person ( he lived 40 mints away and I didn't have a car) but whenever he was in my area, didn't want to meet me. So after the 1st month of that high, he started to pull out, I kept asking him and for him it was nothing. After a while, he just told me he liked me too much and he was scared. He also said he was afraid to be in a relationship and blah blah blah all the excuses. I just don't get men, when you find a women that's reciprocating your interest and she is a good fit, why run the opposite way? Any ways, we only met 2 times then he went to the army, and after basic training, all of the sudden he has a girlfriend. After months they broke up and he contacted me, I wanted to be petty and bring it up but I just left it alone. I made plans to go see him where he was station and after I had the flight and everything, he said he couldn't. Is been 3-4 years I haven't talked to him and I feel like he still has a hold on me. It messed up a potential good relationship I had building up because I couldn't let go of this feeling for this men that left me hanging multiple time and doesn't care for me. I'm afraid I won't find a connection as strong as I had with this dude. I'm afraid I would also be like Tiffany so strong hard headed that I would not let a good men come into my life. We require someone strong that can see the pain and just be ready to not go anywhere. I did not liked the last date they had when they finally where trying to get somewhere and she kept instigating and belittling him. Is crazy that from those 2 good men Alex and Mike, Aaron is the only one married right now and looks happy with a child.
Whew child Tiffany annoyed my soul!
She needs to tone down all that aggression!🙄
Zadia's ghetto behind, should watch this video. This is class! This is women empowerment! This is sisterhood! This is love! This is protect the black woman! Not putting down a woman on your way out and physically assaulting a man
Poor thing, that brain of hers is too dense....she wouldn't get it.
Come on black women let's go 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Shatava is a queen 👸🏾 💯🙌🏽
Tiffany definitely let her emotions get the best of her. Her feelings regarding Alexx praising Ashlee were valid but i wish she could’ve saw that maybe Alexx did that because Ashlee literally had said at the table that she felt like she was on the back burner at the cabin. Alexx just wanted to reassure her.
The fact that Alex even still considered Tiffany establishes my belief that men like to be abused too!
Cardi B said it best in her song 🎵 most men like toxic chicks
Facts
Older fine women can have a strong hold on me
🤣🤣😂true
The best comment in here, that toxic pull!
Shatava made me cry what an amazing woman may she find that king she deserves.
Shatava nuff respect!! We all could take a page out of your book,
I feel so bad for Tiffany, I see my former self in her. Thankfully, I was helped to recognize my self-sabotaging nature and learned to deal with anger appropriately.
Tiffany talks to all the men like shes their mother
Watching this season again and Tiffany’s behavior is very hard to watch! So much anger, entitlement and masculinity. One think I didn’t think was fair is that they allowed him and Ashley to go on the fun dates with liquor involved and music but with Tiffany with her already hard exterior they went on fishing and batting date. Her attitude got progressively worst; I felt bad for Alex. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shatava is a really good woman. What she did is admirable
That was so beautiful, hats off to Shatava 👏🏽
Yeah, Alex is not into Ashlee, he is settling. Ashlee is a beautiful person, but she is going to be his human teddy bear. He still likes Tiffany but they are having relationship problems w/o the relationship title. They are both hurting, afraid and fell into that crazy cycle.
Alex was begging to be with Tiffany. But she does not understand compromise. She doesn't know how to yield. She's argumentative.
She's a boss lady. But that's why boss ladies are single. Ashlee was fun and easy going. That's what men want
Yup Ashley was and is cooperative.
Shatava you are the example of a goddess still growing
So she got Mike to apologize for cursing but she didn't apologize for down-talking him in front of the group??? She instigated the b.s. and his pause at the end of his apology was where she was supposed to give him hers for her attitude.
This group of women! Grown.
Shatava..Shatava Shatava...girl stop making me cry ...OMG I need to be more like Shatava!!! Big Ups Sis ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
After watching this, would you trust Aaron selling you a house 🏠. How honest do you expect him to be
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shae and that fake as exit, she know she didn’t want to leave… that’s why she announced that she was leaving instead of just going out of the door
Yeah I peeped that too lol..she definitely wanted big Mike to stop her
Shea/Tiffany, there's women like you everywhere. As men, we expect our women to be soft, sweet, and feminine. The ones who are angry, aggressive, harsh, abrasive, and very guarded, are usually that way because they been blind-sided, attacked, and hurt by so many people for so long. The scars that hurt the most are usually the ones you can't see. But Shea/Tiffany, that's no reason to use all that to lash out and attack everybody who just wanna get close to you. Not every guy who wants to get close to you wants to do so just to attack you. Some really do wanna love you... if you would only let them. Glad Mike/Alexx stood up to them.
Does anyone else fast forward when it gets to Aaron part of the segment? I cant help but do it all the time!
Lawd have mercy Mike got on a Versace robe let me find out him & Dennis McKinley friends..LMAO 🤣😂🤣
Lord I done cried 😂🥰❤️💪🏾 now this was alright wit me!
Shatava handled herself so well too. Wow 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽